Stuff and Giggles

This is not a political blog, but...

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Tue, 04 Nov 2014 16:32:00 +0000

Really, people?

Personally, I don't have a problem with the plethora of political posts populating the public pathways at election time. (Hold on, my keyboard's stuck...p, p, p. Got it.) Anyway, I don't even have an issue with seeing large banners and signs promoting folks and issues with which I disagree. I actually, enjoy it. It's a part of being free American and having cool things like the First Amendment.
However, when I see this and this...

I lose all of those good and positive emotions and they are replaced with ire and disgust. Seriously, do you think that I would consider voting for someone based on your sign's recommendations when I consider the morality of someone who would do this? I am not painting the candidate with the brush of the scumbag who placed those signs in that manner. I am however, saying that the scumbag in question is not someone who's advice should be taken when deciding a worthy candidate.

Congratulations, scumbag. You have only harmed your candidate by your scumbag behavior.

Political rant over.

* Note: There were many, many more examples of this and if I have time later I will get more pics and post them just for posterity.

Workin'...workin' and practicin'.

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 18:17:00 +0000

Abstract Birds painting on residential window

Hey, I'm an artist. Well, not really. I find that 'title' way pretentious. I think it only works when other people say it about someone and usually only after they are dead. Is that just me?

So, I've been busy. As are we all. I have been doing arty things and doing business-y things and even doing some housework...ish stuff too. Mostly, I've been mom-ing.

So the window. Yeah, cool effect huh? The paint is Gallery Glass by Plaid. I have also mixed in some glitters and combined various Gallery Glass products to have a larger pallet to work with. The "lead" is also Gallery Glass Liquid Leading in gold metallic. Of course I was going for an MCM pallet. You know me.

I have to say, this one was a bear...a hungry bear...a hungry bear with thorn in its paw and an unexpected tax assessment on its cave. Poor bear. Where was I? Oh yeah, it was tough. Mainly because I was stubbornly insisting that the paint adhere to the window whilst being apply vertically when the product was actually designed to be applied horizontally on a polystyrene panel and then peeled and stuck on a window or mirror when dry. Ain't nobody got time for that. Even typing that took too much time. Some of the colors were thicker than others which helped, but I had to use some sooper seekrit brushing techniques and other embarrassing maneuvers to get it up there.

A local glass contractor is impressed and has a pic of the end result. Maybe I'll get some contracted work for my effort. One observer though that I had nicked a stained glass window from a church and installed it. I took that as a compliment.

unfinished business

So, this one is one the "to finish" pile. I must end it before it ends me. Plus, it's taking up half my free living room space. I think we're about 80% there. The legs are hidden under that attractive newspaper skirt. They are glossy chrome or maybe nickel so I incorporated a similar metallic into the design. The intent is an abstract ocean/wind impression to go with the surfboard shaped table. Coastal is big here in Florida. If I put a beach theme or nautical theme to it; it sells. Maybe I'm pushing the definition with the abstract, but hey, I gotta be me.

Wubie is waiting for his spaghetti. Time for more mom-ing. Hugs and stuff.

Halloween Paper Plate Eyeballs

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Wed, 02 Oct 2013 19:30:00 +0000

Another "Wubie and Me" craft at the Stuff and Giggles household...Monster Eye Balls!

Mwaaa...ha...ha...haaaaa!

We used Styrofoam plates, colorful foam sheets, glue, Martha Stewart craft paint and some torn up squishy ball toys from Wubie's collection. The green one was an Incredible Hulk ball and it looked so much like a furry monster eyelid all deflated like that. The orange furry soccer ball reminded me of a spotted cat or something, so we used it too. Plus they were both great Halloween colors!

Oh yeah, used glitter glue on the iris. Glitter makes everything better!

Ugly front door on rental works out well for Halloween...

Annnd...Viola'!

WE'VE GOT OUR EYES ON YOU!!!

Tropical Coasters/Trivets

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Fri, 27 Sep 2013 17:39:00 +0000

Nine tropical coasters / trivets read for the shop. That's 27 little hand-painted yellow stars. Ugh!

I used Martha Stewart Multi-surface High Gloss paints on ceramic tiles and baked them in the oven to set the colors against damage and moisture. Finally, I glued some cork sheeting on the backs and used me beloved Dremel to grind the corners into a semi-rounded shape. Viola! Trivets!

National Breast Cancer Awareness Month Approaches

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Mon, 23 Sep 2013 18:04:00 +0000

It's that time of year again. While I'm surrounded with fall colors and Halloween decorations in shops, blogs, and social media sites, all I see is pink. Yes, I'm following my pinkified head hair tradition again this year. Here's a quick pic from today...

Two-Tone!

I don't want to nag you. You know what you need to do. But, if it's been a while you can find a list of low-cost screening locations near you at the National Breast Cancer Awareness Month'swebsite and often local providers will have special deals to commemorate the month.

O.K. now run go take care of yourself because I said so and I'm smart. See, I have glasses...

Molecules.

Seriously, do it for you and for your family. I miss my mom everyday.

Hugs and stuff!

Keepin' it Retro!

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Sun, 22 Sep 2013 00:36:00 +0000

Took The Wubie shopping yesterday. We didn't find anything he liked and the clothing selection was lacking in the young men's department. (Gads! We have to shop for him in young men's. ) But it was only an outlet store, so no worries. We just needed an outing.

I did pick up a great Breast Cancer Awareness Month shirt. I'll post a pic soon. As we were checking out I spied these peeping back at me from across the aisle...

Rockin' the Cat Eyes

I'm not kidding it was like one of those movie scenes where the hero and the heroine spot each other from across a crowd and the music swells and the camera shot does some weird perspective trick where they seem to be coming toward you even though neither of them are moving and everything else fades in the background to a blurry gray and the other noises disappear. THAT happened to me.

So, I ~~walked~~ floated over to them before the cashier could say, "I'll get them for you ma..." and *angels singing* picked them up from their perch. THEN, be still my already smitten heart, I saw the temples! (Note: Glasses arms are called 'temples'.) They had flowers on them! FLOWERS! (so very me) Pink and purple flowers! (also me) TROPICAL pink and purple flowers! (me, me and me) Tropical pink and purple flowers on a background of green ferns on the sides of WHITE CAT EYE SUNGLASSES!!! I just...I...just...EEEEEEEEeeeeeeee! I literally fangirled out over these things.

But wait, that's not even the best part. *Breathe* They. were. only. 6. dollars. Youheardmeright. Six smackeroos. Yes, please. I'll take those. Snatch.

I plunked those retro bad girls down on the counter and lovely cashier lady said to me, "Aren't you glad it's Friday and you're getting an additional 15% discount on everything?" She might have some something else after that, but I think I fainted.

It was a good Friday. (The Wubie had lots of fun too.)

edit: Why do I always insist on putting up bare-faced pictures of myself online? I swear I do wear makeup. I really do. There is something very very wrong with me.

First Evah Bowl of Spaghetti* !

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Sat, 14 Sep 2013 19:56:00 +0000

Lot's of effort, but worth it!

He takes a bite and uses both hands to push the food into his mouth. It's a technique in flux.

Too bad the garden hose doesn't reach the kitchen table.

*GF/CF of course.

So...I've been busy

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 02:41:00 +0000

Rockin' and Rollin' on my art projects for the shop. Actually sold some larger pieces. (Yay!) This is a new experience. I don't have to sell the items myself. They do that for me at the gallery. I'm beginning to really like this delegation of tasks thing.

Seashell Valentine Garland

As I have been creating and moving things along for sale as quickly as possible I, unfortunately, haven't been blogging. I have been taking pics though, fully intending to have lots of lovely posts and spiffy tutorials up by now. So...I've been busy. Don't be mad. I'll make it up.

This is a little seasonal thing that I whipped up for the shop. The garland is simply a thicker natural jute braided and some thinner jute tied to it with seashells, beads and wooden letters and hearts attached. The letters and large heart were plain wood ones from a craft store painted red and glittered. (Important: Glitter makes everything better!) I used my Dremel with a diamond bit to make holes in the seashells, regular bit to make holes in the wood and used a bit of jewelry wire to string the letters and beads together before tying to the jute. Oh yeah, I used a smaller heart for the "o" in "love". Adorable, no?

Many more pics and projects to come. Hugs and stuff!

Now where should I stick these?

I'm baaa-aaack!

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Sat, 27 Oct 2012 20:58:00 +0000

Just in time for Halloween and whatnot. Effie's blog. In scare-o-vision. Ahhhhh!

S'up?

It's been scary around here folks. Way scary. Nothing to do with Halloween ghosties and goblins, nevertheless the theme fits. What happened? I fell off the planet. Now, that may seem kinda kewl. I mean astronauts do it all the time on purpose. Well, those folks have training...and a spacesuit. Let me tell you, zero gravity can be very disorienting without even so much as a point of reference such as the Big Blue Marble looming majestically over your shoulder. I had nada, zilch, nothing. Except hope. Hope was enough.

Have you ever had so many things go wrong all at once that you just stopped being upset and began to laugh? I found myself shaking my fist at the Universe defiantly taunting, "Is that all ya got?!?" I'm no wimp my friends. I'm a from-the-wrong-side-of-the-tracks, do-what-you-gotta-do, kick-useless-people-and-pursuits-to-the-curb sort of a human. I've been there, done that and then some. Homelessness: check. Poverty: check. Abusive people: check. Physical illness: check. Motherly angst: check check.

This time was only different in one way; it all came at once. Perfect storm. Perfectly awful. My hobbled together defenses and reserves were quickly overrun and my remaining wits and on-the-spot-whipped-up solutions were breached and I was left alone with the onslaught and...zero gravity.

~~Some~~ a lot of it was my fault. Not helpful in the moment, though we are on this planet to learn aren't we? The obvious blame could go to my insufficient financial preparedness and my organizational deficiencies. It could, however that would be a ruse. The fact is I'm a rather capable and talented person. *Whew, that took a lot of self-growth to be able to say out loud.

I am just overFRIGGINwhelmed.

So, where is the "my fault" part? Really, it's about how I choose to self-medicate. I don't use drugs, alcohol or other typical choices. I use isolation. I am a heavy user. When things got difficult I relied on myself to handle it. When things got scary I started cutting off the supportive people in my life due to my weird need to turn down the noise in my own head and to feeling a bit embarrassed. When things got terrifying...I disappeared.

Like other sorts of self-medications the temporary relief that isolationism grants only gives way to bigger and badder problems and ultimately to rock bottom. Only my rock bottom resembled being launched from a Thermosphere orbiter into the black vastness of space. Hey, rock bottom is subjective.

So there I was, sitting in my car at a Winn-Dixie having just dumped all of my son's piggy bank coins into a Coin Star machine in order to keep the electricity on for another two weeks. This was the piggy bank that we had been putting coins in all year to pay for his Christmas present: a train that would go around his room on the wall. Not an expensive one. Mom can build the wall shelf. Just a cool train that has a remote that he can understand. I didn't want to do it. It hurt. Then the surprise (one of many) the machine only gave me half of the amount I had in the jar. HALF. I emptied my son's Christmas money and still didn't end up with enough to pay the bill, plus I was running out of gas. Sitting there watching the gauge and calculating how we would get through the month with no power, no gas, and no water. I finally gave in. I mean, I just...gave in. There's really no point in trying to breathe in outer-space anyway.

There was nothing left to try. Nothing that I could pull off with my own resources, anyway. Keep in mind, I am with my son who is a 24/7 job and do not have the options that others have in these circumstances. I am not above asking folks if they need some housework done or light handy-woman work. It's just that I'm not free to do those things with my Wubie in tow. He has simply not been able to be in school much. Hardly at all. But, I digress. Point is, I was out there, holding my breath and out of tools to launch in the opposite direction to propel me closer to Earth's gravity. (Physics reference.)

Back to the "my fault" paradigm. I am a stubborn human. I am prideful and strong willed. I want to not be looked at as "that person" who always needs help in one form or another. So when resources (such as any form of respite care, medical care, and financial means) kept disappearing one by one, I just kept going on and not asking for assistance. I'm not being too hard on myself here. The only way for a person to grow is to look their negative characteristics in the eye and name them. First step, anyway.

What I did NOT want to do is to admit to anyone that I couldn't handle it. God had other plans. (Isn't that always the case?) Everything that I tried; everything that SHOULD have worked didn't. I did a lot of things that I would still advise others to try in my circumstances. Smart things. Hard working things. Honest things. Well, that was not what the Creator wanted me to do. So, I was in rebellion. Did you know that you can actually be doing the wrong thing the whole time you are doing the "right" things? I was supposed to be reaching out. I was supposed to be opening up a little. I was supposed to be relying on old friends and making new ones. But, I was being the prodigal mom.

Then I took a tiny step in the right direction, just a tiny little space walk, and BANG things changed. I called my cousin. She is one of several people that had been trying to get in touch with me for several months and I've been regretfully causing to worry. I did toss out a couple of texts just to let them know I'm alive, but that was it. "I'm alive. Can't talk now."

The day before the Winn-Dixie incident I had reached her and she was obviously disquieted to the point of calling several resources in my area. I don't really remember that conversation except that I know I wasn't making much sense. Stress can make you sound like a psychopath. While I was in the store explaining to three different managers that I knew they didn't have anything to do with Coin Star and couldn't get my money back, howeverI thought they should know the machine was ripping people off and that I was not a person in a financial position to be ripped off so nonchalantly and my nearly twelve-year-old, non-verbal, 90-pound son was having a classic Autism melt-down though the experience which helped to emphasize my point...breathe...I missed a phone call.

So there I was sitting in the parking lot after the massacre was over contemplating how much A/C we could experience from the remaining gas in the car and I noticed that I had missed the call. I don't know why I even looked, hadn't heard a thing, but there it was. It was a local pastor. He asked me how I was doing. I told him I was having a bad minute. I quickly tried to get through the story of what was happening. There were tears. I don't often do tears. Yet, I wasn't in that moment embarrassed. I was at the end of me. Embarrassment disappears when you are at the end of yourself. He gave me short simple instructions, "Get home. Call me. We will take care of one thing at a time." I think he was concerned about my state-of-mind driving home. He was right to be concerned. I told him, "I would say that it is a tremendous coincidence that you called at this precise moment, but we both know better than that."

That was last week. Just last week, but when I let go and stopped trying to do things my way gravity kicked in. The bills have been paid enough to keep the lights and water on. My son is beginning to get a short amount of respite care (3 hours a week which is way better than nothing). Most shockingly (for me) I've been accepted into a downtown art gallery for absolutely no good reason as most of my previous work has been sold or given away so I don't really even have much to show an owner. Just...wow. I am still being inundated with challenges, Wubie is still not in school much, I still have a ton of work and now a giant deadline to meet with the gallery opening and I'm not feeling well (another issue unresolved), yet I don't want to fill up my blog space with a litany of negative statements. What I'm experiencing now is 'peace in the midst of the storm', well, in the midst of space. Only now it's not outer-space anymore. I'm earthbound again. I'm still in the Stratosphere, but heading in the right direction and while I hold my breath a while longer I am taking the moment to appreciate the peacefulness. In space, Someone can still hear you cry.

Random Thoughts 5/14/12

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Mon, 14 May 2012 06:02:00 +0000

WHY haven’t they invented USB direct-to -brain connections yet???

Which brings me to …

WHY do I always think of the best, most creative things right before I fall asleep when I’m too tired to get up and write it down?

Will I remember all of that stuff in Heaven?

Will I still think it’s cool?

I miss my record collection.

I’m still upset about Pluto.

Turquoise is a brilliant color. Life should have more turquoise.

I ate pumpkin pie in May. It seemed wrong.

I thought I would like the light blue nail polish, but it made my toes look corpse-y.

Dieting tip: eating a few bites right off the whole pie while standing at the counter instead of sitting with a slice does NOT reduce calories. I mean, you think it would, but it doesn’t.

Note to self: next time incorporate jogging in place.

Does the 5-second rule apply to panty liners? Think about it.

Why do I feel too girlie sometimes and too butch sometimes, but seldom just right?

Theory: it depends on how the other women are dressed around me.

Observation: the older I get the less I care.

A good day starts with a well-fitting bra.

I wonder if men have some kind of equivalent to a well-fitting bra.

Hmm…

Wait. What?

I wonder what it would be like to not have ADD.

Not anymore, now I’m wondering if they will ever shrink real ponies to Barbie size.

Probably not.

A turquoise pony would be cool.

What if the funniest movie of all time has already been done? Then all of the movies from now on won’t be as funny. That’s sad.

What if I haven’t seen the funniest movie of all time and I never will? That’s sadder.

Maybe I’m just being paranoid, but what if everyone else has seen the funniest movie in the world and they won’t tell me what it is?

Crap.

That would suck.

Why do my friends hate me?

I should get new friends.

Then I won’t have to be so paranoid.

I am glad to be such a good problem-solver.

Sometimes I stay up late when I don’t want to face the next day. Like a part of me believes I can rebel against the sunrise. Then those damn birds…

The upside of being tired: stuff is funnier.

I’m sure when I’m better rested I won’t find any of this as hilarious as I do now.

Who am I kidding? I’m never ‘better rested’.

There should be a way to get free liposuction by donating your fat to science.

Science needs your fat.

Science has trouble gaining weight.

I think people who have trouble gaining weight are just showing off. If they weren’t then we wouldn’t know about them. They would keep it to their selves.

Maybe I need to be more empathetic to the plight of the skinny.

Maybe miniature ponies will gallop out of my…

I think I’m on a tangent.

Tangent: geometric term.

It’s funny how many math terms we use in everyday language, but most don’t recognize them as math terms.

Math isn’t hard. It’s boring.

Yes, we use it for everything. Yes, even art. Still boring.

Why is blue cheese so disgusting looking but so yummy?

Should I consider quitting my Diet Coke habit?

That felt wrong just typing it.

I think I might have to write a letter of apology to Coca-Cola in case I’ve offended them.

I miss letters.

And envelopes.

With your real name and address on them.

Not your email address.

I got letters from my friend in Japan when I was a kid. That was so cool.

E-mails from Japan, not so cool.

Bugs find me delicious.

I suppose I should be flattered.

Oh crap he’s awake.

1:52AM, going to be a long night.

It's a Blog Hop Party, Lets Link

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 02:58:00 +0000

Linky follower blog hop. Party info below....

LINKY FOLLOWER PARTY HOP

RULES:

1. You MUST have the LINKY FOLLOWERS tool on your site to participate.

If you see that your link has been deleted you need to add the LINKY FOLLOWER tool to your site and then come back over and re-enter your link

{You can have both the LINKY FOLLOWERS & GFC on your site but you must have the LINKY FOLLOWERS tool to participate in this party hop.}

2. You MUST follow the person who has the party on their site as a thank you.

3. Just add your blog button to the LINKY PARTY below.

4.Then grab the BLOG HOP code

You will find the code right under the Linky Party where it says CLICK HERE TO ENTER–

just under that it says: WHAT IS A BLOG HOP? GET THE CODE HERE

Click on GET THE CODE HERE and enter it into a post on your site.

You can grab the party button code in the FOOTER at Its So Very Cheri

You can grab info from my post if it helps you with your post.


5. Then you follow other bloggers–(as many as you want)
–leave each one of the blogs that you follow a comment letting them know you are following them and ask them to follow you back.
If you want to add the BLOG HOP to your own site you will get lots of new followers–(see rule #2)

So come on link up, meet some new friends, see new territory and get some new ideas. What are you waiting for, hop aboard.

Good Morning...and it was

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 01:34:00 +0000

Went to the beach this morning to clear my head of the weekend. I also find the ocean air helps when I'm fighting a virus. Maybe it's in my head, but I'm OK with that.

Some stormy looking clouds were moving in, but they wimped out and dissipated. No rain. Unfortunately, as we could use it here.

Nearly had the whole beach to myself...

except for these guys.

They are called "Piping Plover". They are adorable to watch. They run around the water line all nervous-like as the tide pulls back they run towards the ocean looking for food and they sprint away when the water returns. They look like they're afraid to get their feet wet.

Run away! Aaaahhhh!

I did bring one friend with me.

"Hello."

There was an older gentleman there using a metal detector swishing it all around up and down the beach. I found him to be so "local" that he was adorable. I realized that we both were finding our own treasure there. Here's mine...

Morning breaking through the stormy clouds.

No wonder we call it The Treasure Coast here. I am truly blessed.

Is it Monday yet?

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 14:13:00 +0000

The Wubie has been home from school since yesterday. Fever and bad attitude. So, 4 days of Wubie and Momma.

Enter the mind of the autism mom: All of the fingernails on my right hand are broken. I hate my hair. I think I ate 3 dinners last night. I can't find my cell phone charger. I was supposed to go to the bank. I think we are out of his favorite snack bars. I can't feel my legs. I hope the neighbors don't complain about the lawn. I forgot to plug the home phone back in. I just ended a sentence with a preposition. What is he doing now? OMG, there is paint all over the bathroom tiles. I forgot to put that final load of laundry in the dryer last night. Oh no! He got into my makeup...again. Why does he only have one each of all of his shoes? Can these sheets last one more night? Why won't he eat his favorite food? How high of a fever warrants a doctors appointment? How am I going to get him dressed and into the car when he's stomping his feet and barking at me? Is he napping? Should I lie down? Oh crap, he's up. How many hours of sleep did we get this week? Oh great, stupid sales call woke him up, unplugging phone again. I have to remember to call people and tell them phone is unplugged so they don't worry. Is it too early? Is it too late? What day is it?

Who want's a vacation?

Easter Egg Cards

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Fri, 06 Apr 2012 18:41:00 +0000

Just a quick post to show you the kewl Easter cards The Wubie and I made for his Gammy and Daddy and Step Mom. We used light blue poster board and my old standby Canson Canva-Paper.

First, The Wubie painted an entire sheet of Canva-paper in shades of green for grass. Then I quartered a sheet for him to cover in four different colors for the eggs. We choice bright colors even though they aren't as "Eastery" since I wanted to upcycle an old beloved shirt that he outgrew.

The happy rainbow stripes were our color pallet.

I drew a basic egg-shape on regular paper for a template. After covering the table with plastic wrap to prevent marker-bleed, I simply traced eggs onto the painted paper and half of the shirt body and cut them out.

Hint: Draw the eggs on the wrong side of the fabric and back of the painted eggs so you won't have to worry about trimming the marker from the edges. (I messed up with the painted eggs, but had it worked out by the time I got to the fabric.)

I cut the green Canva-paper in half and freehand drew some grassy shapes to cut out as well. We folded the poster board in half to make the card base. We also used stickers to letter the greeting, "Happy Easter". Then we just played with the arrangement until it "felt" right.

Voilà!

Now, these cards are big...

Here they are next to a can of my beloved Diet Coke™ for perspective.

I put a picture of The Wubie holding the card inside of the card. (Yay, technology!) and a The Wubie added a few stickers and signed his name with love.

Happy Easter Everyone!!!

Egg Plate

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 23:56:00 +0000

Cool vintage egg server I picked up at local indoor flea market.

No marks on the bottom, but the colors and the pattern indicate 1950's.
My favorite decor era!

Happy Easter!

UPDATE: Did some research and found this egg plate was made by a company called Canonsburg in Pennsylvania. They existed from 1900 to 1978. This particular pattern is called "WILD CLOVER" and was indeed produced in the 1950s and discontinued in 1960. This is part of why I enjoy vintage items. I love to find out about them. This is also why I sell on eBay and other online venues. I will be posting some eBay tips soon. Stay tuned!

Broken Shoes and Double Rainbows

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 17:54:00 +0000

Ouch!

I'm a shoe girl. This hurt my heart. Sigh...anyhoos.

I took this pic to share with my friends the sort of day I was having. The shoes weren't my favorite, so it was more of a metaphor really. Walking forward as rightly as I can. Even taking some time to look cute. Out of nowhere, my glue breaks down and I'm hobbling like a disoriented zombie.

This isn't just caused by poorly constructed shoes. Sometimes it's hormonal imbalance, unexpected phone calls, unwelcomed mail, a bad night's sleep, or a friend disappointing. Truth be told, I expect the list could go on forever. It seems I am perpetually one step away from a vapid stare and insatiable hunger for fresh brains.

That is why it amuses me to hear people give me the "you are such a strong person" pep talk. I appreciate the emotional support, but in reality the praise is misplaced. I am a child of God. In my weakness I am made strong because of my faith.

Double Rainbow!!

I realize that not everyone has the same perspective on this. However, I think that most can at least appreciate the principle in this way; I choose to accept my weaknesses and not let them become my excuse for not continuing to move forward. I choose to appreciate the goodness around, gifts given, and lessons learned so that my riches are beyond mere physical measure and my treasure trove is boundless.

Yes, it was "all the way across the sky"!

What a great day I had!

Family Words

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 21:49:00 +0000

Guda Guda Guda

I once read somewhere the lament of an avid blog-reader. They hated it when they had gone to a blog only to find the most recent post an apology for not having posted in a while. So, I won't apologize. I'll only acknowledge the fact that I have been not very bloggy lately and that I intend to get back on the blog wagon forthwith.

With that acknowledgment, I will also mention that I missed out on the entire end-of-year holiday season and winter all together. So, this post is to sort of make up for that. Thinking of that time of year (recently and not so recent past) one immediately thinks of family. Good or bad, a holiday means family. I won't be filling this space with my family's charming Christmas-past stories. Frankly, I don't have that many so I'll save it for next year when it's timely.

Instead, I want to bring up a curious family phenomenon that I realized most of us share, but few of us discuss: the made-up family word. In your immediate and sometimes extended family you will have a family word or two or more. Sometimes they are made up by the children and adopted by the parents because they are cute. Sometimes it is your crazy aunt who can't think of what a thing is called so she makes up a term that everyone picks up. Sometimes it is a mystery and everyone just uses that word and knows it's meaning. Those can be the most embarrassing in later life. If you were raised with the word and no one told you it was just a made-up word and you put it in your term paper or use it in front of the wrong crowd...cringe.

In my family we had a few:

Twirkles: n. [twur-kuhls] any of various implements consisting of two arms hinged, pivoted,or otherwise fastened together, for seizing, holding, or lifting something. Known by the rest of the English speaking world as 'tongs'.

Flinkers: n. [fling-kers] a light that flashes intermittently, especially one that serves as a traffic signal. Known to the rest of the English speaking world as 'blinkers' or 'turn signals'. (I admit responsibility for this one.)

Guda Guda Guda: n. [goo-duh goo-duh goo-duh] water. Specifically, the water that comes out of the tap in a waterfall fashion. It also helps to move your fingers in a wiggly way when pronouncing this word so as to further emphasize that particular water. Note: this word has nothing to do with cheese. (This was a baby-brother word that the family adopted.)

Foocockery: n. [foo-kok-uh-ree] a stupid act or notion. What kind of foocockery have you pulled this time? (This one is mine as well. I heard Amy Winehouse sing a similar, more r-rated word years later and wondered if she had spied on me. I guess we'll never know.)

There were others and, I'm sure, a few I don't remember. Oh, there is also a phrase:

Stepped on a frog: v. past-tense [stept-awn-ey-frawg] 1. flatus expelled through the anus. 2. Farted. (This came from my sis-in-law. Bless her heart.) This one led to many variations: froggie-butt, froggie-boy, etc. It's a way to be crude in public without being crude in public.

So tell me, do you have any family words? Are they as embarrassing as mine? Care to share?

Pink Hair is AWESOME!

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Sat, 05 Nov 2011 03:13:00 +0000

So, for the first day of Breast Cancer Awareness Month I had already decided to pinkify my head hair. I also just wanted a change and it was a perfect convergence of planetary alignment and already purchased and waiting in my bathroom hair products. I did have to buy some lightening product to get the job done, but I am a proud American and getting 'er done is my thang.

The final decision on whether to go with all pink, black and pink or auburn(natural) and pink was.....

TAAA DAAA.....auburn and pink!

As you can see I kept the auburn in the back and on the sides and did the outrageously cool Manic Panic New Rose on the crown.

"Come on," you say "that must be a result of overexposed picture taking. There's no way it's THAT bright."

Check this out.

In natural sunlight against my son's brown monkey-towel for contrast. I know right?!!???

So, how I did it; first I had to lighten the part I wanted pink as much as possible in order for the pink to take. I used L'Oreal Paris Super Blonde Crème Lightening Kit .

Also known as the "OMG what have I done?" stage.

I could have added the step of a color extractor/corrector to remove any residual hair dye, but I skipped it as 1. I didn't want to spend the money. 2. I was curious as to how well the Super Blonde would work alone on my hair. and 3. I didn't want to spend the money.

Yes that is a nifty vintage house coat (check the turquoise and avocado flowers) that I inherited from grandma, but it suffered old stains and rips from days gone by so it's now my hair dye smock.

As you can see, the areas with residual hair dye have a bit of a golden tone to them while the roots are practically white. I was extremely satisfied with this result. As tempting as it was to leave it like this since it was already a drastic change (which satisfied my change Jones all by itself) I pushed past the urge and went one to the next step:

Using a disposable wooden handled paint brush I applied the Manic Panic New Rose by carefully separating the lightened hair with my fingers, brushing with the dye and piling it on top of my head until it was all covered. I have the sort of mirrors in my bathroom that fold out so I can see the back of my head so it was a bit slower than if I had help but it was doable. Oh yeah, that shine on my forehead is from Vaseline to keep my skin from getting pinkified.

This is one area where I am grateful to have baby fine hair which I also keep shorter. If you have long or thick hair, this stage would involve clips and possibly rollers to keep it separated. Remember: don't use metal stuff with hair dyes.

O.K. So, the thing about Manic Panic dyes is they are safe to leave on your head for a looooong time. I left this on for about 4 or 5 hours as I worked (OK puttered) around the house. Manic Panic is a semi-permanent dye, which means it WILL wash out a bit more with each shampoo than the regular permanent hair colors you might be used to. Of course, they aren't really permanent either as they all eventually fade and our hair grows in anyway. Where was I? Oh yeah, point is leave in the Manic Panic as long as you can. I recommend at least 3 or 4 hours.

Since this original dye a month has passed and I refreshed the fading pink by putting it on in the evening and wearing a shower cap and sleeping in it. Yes, sleeping in it. This is also how folks who don't have 3 or 4 hours to putter around the house in the daytime can accomplish this look. The shower cap keeps the dye from drying out and it didn't harm my hair at all. The resulting color is deep and rich and I don't have to be as careful about fading as I would had I only kept it on for the short time on the package. I don't even remember what the package says, but my advice is IGNORE the package. It's lying to you. 3 hours! Got it? Good!

So how have people reacted? Since I didn't do this for "people" I was truly in somewhat of a state of denial over how folks would respond to my new look. Firstly, as we all have 'those people' in our lives who we know will be negative no matter what, you can probably imagine how 'those people' in my life behaved. Negatively, insensitively and somewhat like energy vampires. Did this matter to me? Nope! Moving along.

I was overwhelmingly greeted with positive and complimentary statements from folks that see me on the regular. Also, surprise of surprises, complete strangers have paid me a heart-warming series of compliments and well-wishes. A few even made the breast cancer connection without being told. One lady stopped driving in the middle of the road to shout to me as I was walking with my son how much she loved the color and how it was obviously in support of breast cancer awareness. I have had on three different occasions, three different little girls run up to me and start talking about my "beautiful" pink hair. The best of all, a special needs girl from one of the programs my son attends smiled and hugged me and played with my hair for several minutes. Priceless.

Blogging With a Fever...

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 06:17:00 +0000

Nope, can't do it. So here's a sickeningly cute video of a cat hugging a kitten who was having a nightmare. Hope that makes up for it. I'm going back to bed.

Motionless Mondays

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 17:05:00 +0000

On Mondays I recuperate. When the neurotypical world greet each other merrily with sentiments of, "TGIF". I do not. If one of the straights, as I lovingly call them, expresses this 'Yay-it's-Friday' partiality toward me, I smile weakly and ascertain if it is worth it to try to explain. Usually it isn't. Why break their good mood?

Meanwhile, I gear up mentally and physically for a Weekend of Wubie. With some exceptions it is a 66 hour mommy and son extravaganza. Jam packed with ankle deep toy and craft messes; food preparation and eating messes; multiple shower and toileting bathroom flood messes; multiple rides in the car (and messes); trips to parks, stores, and other locations to keep him engaged; playing; reading; teaching; crafting; wrestling; laundry; laundry; laundry; spam; laundry; dishes; dishes; laundry; bed-changing; medication balancing; and sanity stressing fun, and laundry.

Not a complaint. It's just as I put it more succinctly (yes, I can do that): Friday is when the real work starts. So, we are on a different schedule than most of the world. The Wubie is happy. The momma deals. We're good.

So here's what happens when The Wubie gets tired of just hanging in the house with just the momma and ideas form in his head about, "what would happen if..."

No, it's not a Halloween ghostie. It is The Wubie in a sack of Styrofoam pellets. I was in the bathroom and The Wubie wasted no time on the opportunity. This used to be his denim beanbag chair. I had the outer cover stripped for...more laundry. He discovered the zipper on the inner liner and...well, a cunning plan ensued.

My weekend stress levels were already quite maxed out. I had the brief initial thought to be very VERY upset. But, a funny thing happened on the way to a momma meltdown. I laughed. No, I guffawed. No, I howled. I have never heard such a belly laugh exiting my, er, belly. This was the sound of pent up stress and unmitigated humor all escaping in a roaring, rolling fit of mirth. Cathartic.

He's my greatest source of stress (no fault of his) and my greatest love. It's an amazing dichotomy. I am immensely grateful.

Today it's Monday. I'm recuperating.

Hair Color Schism

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 16:20:00 +0000

Pink polyester princess.

There it is. Au natural. Pre-gray "highlights". Yep, it's auburn. I think it's auburn. I was never really sure. No one told me when I was young what it was meant to be. However, I did get a comment as a teen from a random guy. "That's a very unusual hair color." Yeah, I knew.

I remember being asked to describe my hair-color on the phone once and using all three basic hair-color words I knew at the time. "Well it's kinda brownish blonde with reddish tones." I didn't learn for many years that "brownish blonde with reddish tones" is "auburn". It's nice to finally understand myself. Well, at least my hair anyway.

Over the years I did the usual hair experiments (and while young several unusual ones). There was blonde, white-blonde, golden, bright red, dark burgundy, and as a teen, many unnatural colors to do streaks and some overwashing in pinks and purples....and blues....and greens....well, you get the idea.

I have found through trials and errors some lovely off-the-shelf colors that go very well with my skin tone, etc. So I know if I ever want to go blond exactly which champagne blonde works. I've also settled on a coppery auburn (after trying nearly every shade in that family) that is my go-to color for as close to natural as I can currently get while dealing with the little grays sprouting and giving back the luster that age takes from us "reddish toned" types.

I'm good with those colors. Really I am.

No make-up, but it's just between us friends, right?

So here's where we are today. Sorry about the scary-eyes. It was the sun making a weird little highlight. I'm not going to zap you with my laser beams or anything. Laser beam eyes, that would rawk...where was I? Oh yeah, so I was trying to capture the color with the sun and it's pretty close. I do love this color,L'Oreal Preference Intense Red Copper and it make my grays (less than 10%) look like shimmery highlights. This pic is after about a month of fading and not being careful to wash my hair with cold water. Hey, I'm an autism mom give me a break. A warm shower is the only mini-vacay I get most days...where was I? Oh yeah, it's still a lovely color with shimmer, highlights and low-lights. It's just a lighter shade now than I prefer.

So it's time to re-dye. Or is it....? Dun, dun, DUNNNNN.

I must change it. I must, I must, I must. It's not anything against it, but I need to change it or I'll go mad, MAD I tell you. Sorry, I'll let go of your collar now.

So, here's what I've been contimplating: Definitely some pink. I've got a fresh jar of Manic Panic New Rose just burning a hole in my bathroom shelf. But what with the pink? Black and pink? Maybe. Red (auburn) and pink? Sounds interesting. All pink? Very tempting. Decisions, decisions. So, I will make up my mind this weekend and get back to you.

Stay tuned, this could get amusing.

Mommy and Me Craft: Painted Thank You Cards

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 22:59:00 +0000

This post is slightly belated, but I wanted to shared with you how The Wubie and I came up with some nifty Thank-You cards for his two swimming instructors this year. These precious teens are swim team members who volunteer their time over the summer to teach special needs children basic swimming and water safety.

In projects like this I try to incorporate as many of The Wubie's skills as possible so that the gift is especially from him.

We started with a large (12"x16") sheet of Canson Canva-Paper.

I love this stuff because it is thick and textured and can take the harsh treatment of The Wubie's more aggressive scrubbing paint strokes.

We used acrylic paint in shades of blue and aqua to simulate water. We also used this as a teaching opportunity to learn more gentle and longer painting strokes.

After the paint dried (the next day) we created two cards by dividing the paper in half, cutting it and folding the two halves in the middle.

Next we created two sets of 'swimming pool divider floats' using plastic beads and fine gauge wire. The Wubie is an expert beader.

We attached the beads by cutting two notches in the approximately halfway down card and taped the loose wires on the inside.

The insides were decorated with stickers depicting sea creatures. This also served to hide the wires and cover some of the paint splatters.

The Wubie LOVES stickers!

This project was the perfect use for some bad school pics from the end of the year. They apparently had to put him in his backup clothes so his nice outfit wasn't in the picture. Nevertheless, the faces were usable so I cut out two circles. I had the idea to make them resemble portholes of sorts.

The Wubie used a glue stick (less messy) to attach the photos. Oh, and we added some sea creature stickers to the front and back of the cards as well.

We were on a time crunch. So instead of portholes exactly, we covered the raw edges of the photos with a bead of blue glitter glue. Life lesson: Everything's better with glitter glue!

The insides were finished with a handwritten note. I think those are more personal, even with a handmade card it's a nice touch. Then The Wubie signed his name. Which he is very good at.

The final step was gluing the "Thank You's" and names with the glue stick after printing a cool font in a matching shade of blue. This was a bit of a shortcut as well, but as you might have noticed The Wubie was already in his swim-shorts at this point and it was time to GO!

Step one: Drink Tons of Diet Coke™ . Step two: ???? Step three: PROFIT!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 00:32:00 +0000

Oh yeah, and Fresca™ too.

So ... I have a problem. I'm a Diet Coke™-aholic. This is my dirty little secret. I know it's quite early in our relationship for me to be so self-revealing. But that's just how I am. All my cans on the table. Take me or leave me.

Meanwhile, I will continue my joyful consumption of my favorite beverage, neigh friend, Diet Coke™ .

Although friends and family have made attempts to slow my pace with silly concerns about health and whatnot. I am undeterred. But to mitigate the situation for them I have fortunately found an upside. (Aside from the thousands of saved calories from years of finding "regular" sodas as appealing as drinking anti-freeze with urine cubes.) I have discovered this neat little code inside of the 12-pack boxes that I ~~regularly~~ constantly bring home. This wonderful code is also in the plastic caps on the bottles and apparently on the other Coca-Cola™ products (but who cares about them).

So, you go to the My Coke Rewards website, register, and enter these codes in order to accumulate points. Then after you accumulate enough points (which should take you like, one or two days) you turn them in for gift certificates, magazine subscriptions, sweepstakes entries and various gifts including Coca-Cola™ logo-ed items (for you collectors). It is an awesome deal. So, less calories plus free stuff. Bi-winning!

Disclaimer: O.K. maybe it won't take YOU one or two days. Not everyone is as awesome as the queen. But don't fret my loyal subjects, at 10 points for the boxes and 3 points for the bottles you can score a tidy sum in a reasonable amount of time. The magazines are frequently 133 points and up. ( I even got one subscription for only 66 points during a special offer.)

So now I have more magazines than I have coffee table!

(Pay no attention to the Mardi Gras beads and the bits of torn up Lei on the floor. My son was home sick today and...well, he was home sick today. )

There will be another use for these cans to be revealed a bit latter this year. Yes, it will involve "upcycling". I love that word.

It's not You. It's Me...I Don't Like You.

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Wed, 14 Sep 2011 16:48:00 +0000

We once had a good thing. We understood each other. We didn't give each other drama or headaches. I never had to hang my head in shame when people found out that I was with you. You were dependable, reliable, and cute.

Now...well, you know how it's been. You freeze me out during the simplest of interactions. You use all of my stuff and leave none for me. You make me question my own sanity. My friends keep asking me why I still have you around. I guess I'm slow to accept reality. My fault.

Well, I've moved on. Firefox, we've had our time. Now I've found Chrome and we are getting along just fine. I'll always remember our better days. No hard feelings.

That being said, for all my techie and non-techie friends. I've done the research and while Google Chrome has been officially edging out Mozilla Firefox for the last several months on speed, ease of use and reduced add-on hassles; Firefox has been making strides to regain ground with quick release updates every 6 weeks or so. However, they have had conflicts with one of my favorite add-ons Google Tool-bar (coincidence? I think not.). I can't just type in "Google.com" in a browser window anymore. I have a reputation!

As with all internet techie stuff. YMMV. My system, which is a pretty spiffy Intel Dual Core, just doesn't care for Firefox anymore. You may not experience the problems I did. Try both. Especially if you have only ever tried factory installed IE. God help you.

It's not What you Know, It's Who you Know...and What they Know

noreply@blogger.com (Effie) — Mon, 12 Sep 2011 17:21:00 +0000

Advice from my slightly younger brother once. Go up to someone whom you admire for whatever reason and say, "Teach me everything you know." You would be surprised how many ~~gullible~~ nice folks are willing to do just that.

This nice eBay-er Shipscript is just such a folk. You will find a plethora of eBay page making guides, free templates, free gizmos, doodads and whohas. I just updated my auctions with this thingamajiggy and now I have a clickable scrolling list of my other auctions' thumbnail images. *sniff I've always wanted one of those. And it isn't even Christmas yet. Bless you Shipscript. Bless us everyone.