From a personal point of view I've been window shopping online and working out everything I need for my wedding which is now in 10 weeks time! It's quite fun, especially as I enjoy shopping!, and we're both really looking forward to the day when it finally arrives. It'll be great to see all of our family and friends, and the food sounds fantastic

Workwise we've been quite busy. I've been working a lot on a calendar availability system using jQuery and PHP to control it, update dynamically and refresh to keep the calendar updated between a number of users. It's a bit of a challenge and a lot of reading to find out how to do things and how to do them the most efficiently, however it's great fun and different from the normal websites we work on.

I've managed to get a migration script in place for my Page Menu Editor plugin for WordPress. About 6 weeks ago I discovered that the developer on the All in one SEO pack plugin had integrated my code into his plugin at the request of a number of users, which rendered mine a bit obsolete when both are running. However, there was no migration script and he'd used different option names to me, so nothing was copied over. Having both plugins on a number of sites myself, it's a pain to sit and copy it all over manually. So I've now set up a simple migration to allow users to do it themselves if they wish, so if you do use both plugins then an upgrade should be coming through soon with the new migration system.

Finally, our new venture Blog Themes Club is going well. We've added a new theme and I've been adding a number of additional page templates to all our themes to hopefully give our users more than just a basic theme. We're looking to add another new theme next month too and have plenty of ideas for themes to keep us going for a while.

It's all going well

Now I have two PayPal accounts (don't worry, it's allowed!). I have a business PayPal account which accepts credit/debit card payments, and all income received is charged a fee unless it comes from a payee who's paid to waive the fee (usually from somewhere like Text Link Ads that do bulk payments). I also have a personal PayPal account to accept donations off my site towards the use/upkeep of plugins, help given to people etc. and also it means that I can easily test PayPal scripts such as an IPN, on client sites. I use my personal account to make a payment to my business account. It avoids the potential of never getting a refund from the client (yes this has happened before!). In fact it's what PayPal advises.

So, I have a personal PayPal account. Now when I got this account my understanding at the time was that any payments received to it would be fee free, so if I lent money to a friend they could send it to my personal account and no fee would be charged. This was correct and still is (providing the payment is sent as a personal payment). I was also of the belief that credit and debit card payments could not be accepted by a personal account, this has actually been changed and up to 5 card payments a year can be received, of course with card processing charges.

Therefore, with this knowledge, I originally set up a donation link on my own site (it's on the right near the bottom of the sidebar!) and on all the donations I've received through it, I've never been charged a fee, after all it's a personal account accepting a PayPal payment, therefore I refer to my first point above whereby payments received are fee free.

Fast forward to last month when I set up a donation link for people to donate to the memorial fund. After a number of payments were made I happened to log in and looked at the details of one. You see the new PayPal overview page doesn't show you if fees have been deducted off a payment and how much, it just shows you the original payment amount, so I hadn't twigged at that point about what I was going to find out. Viewing the details of a payment made through a PayPal account I saw a fee had been deducted. Until then I'd figured that the total in the account (which was virtually empty otherwise) was just an odd figure as I'd had a few people donate using a credit card, which of course had fees due to card processing (which I completely understand).

So despite my account being a personal account, and the payee using their PayPal account to pay, a fee had still been taken. Yet if the same person had just gone into PayPal and sent a payment to the email address set up for donations, it would have been fee free! Naturally I was a bit confused at this and so emailed PayPal for clarification. I simply asked (version without the waffle)

I currently have a personal account, and have recently been accepting donations, due to the death of a close friend, to go to his family.

On checking my account today I can see that every donation, regardless of whether it was made via a paypal account or card, has been charged a fee. Is this correct? Surely donations should not be getting charged a fee?

My first response was a text book copy and paste job that simply explained about commercial and personal payments. This, in part, was probably because the person responding couldn't type considering the initial part was half finished as if something had been deleted. Not to mention, the response did not include the word "donation" anywhere!

So I responded:

Thank you for your email, however this doesn't tell me where a donation payment comes under. A donation is not a commercial payment, yet I have been charged fees on donations made from other users' paypal accounts.

Please could you clarify why the personal donations (not the credit card funded ones but the paypal funded ones) have been charged a fee.

PayPal's response:

The reason why you have been charged is because you still have a 'Personal' PayPal account, also you would still need to set up your PayPal account as a charitable institution in order to recognise your organisation as a charity.

I must admit, at the time of receiving this I wasn't in the mood for laughing, but now you can't do anything but laugh at this. All I've asked is a simple question and suddenly I'm being told how to become a charity on PayPal! The email proceeded to go on about the documents they would require to prove I was a charity. I never said I was charity! My response pretty much sums up my frustration at this point:

I am not a charity, I've never said I am a charity and I'm not about to change my personal account, for my own personal payments, to a charity account.

I also stated my question quite clearly yet again:

On receiving personal donations, why have they been charged a fee?

Third time lucky maybe? I also received a customer satisfaction link at this point, where I wrote quite a long essay on the lack of support when their staff clearly couldn't read a simple question and reply to it!

So I got another reply from PayPal

I understand that you're asking of there is a way to flag the receiving fee when accepting a donation.

No not really! It would be nice if they could but I never asked that. So I decided on my final response as it was the evening after the funeral, I was shattered from driving across country and just beyond fed up at this point:

No I didn't ask if there was a way to flag the receiving fee when accepting a donation. I asked why receiving personal donations were charged a fee when receiving personal payments are not charged, as there's no difference in my opinion besides the way in which the money is sent. It still goes from account A to account B and it's a personal transaction.

Of course they responded, and to be fair, the final person tried their best. They still didn't fully explain why they charge a fee on a donation but not a personal payment, it's no different in my eyes, but they simply said that a donation is treated as goods or service. One point that did stick out was:

I strongly do not encourage you to use that option to receive money for your donation regardless any reason as it if the system finds any slight unusual transaction in your account, the system might have the account locked permanently.

Right, so in other words, don't use donation links?! Well after this experience I won't be anyway. I'll be changing my donation links to be standard payment links and just set it so that the user can specify how much. It's clearly a ridiculous system with PayPal especially if this is their advice.

So there you have it. If you want to receive donations for yourself for help and work you give for free, or donations towards a cause of any sort, don't use a donation link!

(Please note, I appreciate the PayPal Personal account is free and PayPal doesn't owe me anything. The point of this is not to moan about PayPal charging fees, as I know they do, naturally I wish they hadn't, but it is about the lack of explanation as to why they charge a fee on what is essentially a personal payment. Pay one way, it's free, pay another, it costs around 4-5%).

This is very much a personal post.

We've been wanting to move house since Christmas 2007. This was the first winter in our new house and we discovered that it was majorly prone to damp. Mould covering all the outside walls, behind any furniture by an outside wall, creeping into the wardrobes, getting onto shoes etc. It was horrible, not to mention not good for either of our health. The summer wasn't as bad, however a lack of space was getting to us too, but due to the amount of work I had we just put up with the house until March, when we decided we wanted to move.

After looking around we finally found somewhere we liked, somewhere big enough and affordable, and put out application in, in early June. The application was probably more stressful to deal with than the actual moving house. Firstly our payslips are brand new for the company and we've paid ourselves as little as possible to allow the company to actually build some profit to help pay for things or help if/when we have a not so good month of income, so our payslips didn't reflect our true earnings. So we also offered our tax returns from last year (2008-09) which were more than appropriate, however the company doing the credit check on us didn't have a clue about self assessments and continually asked us to supply information that we don't get and therefore couldn't supply. Then finally they seemed to accept the tax returns and then delayed things further with speaking to our current Landlord. We actually found out the day we had to hand our notice in to him that we had been accepted, meaning our written notice was actually a day late. So finally getting accepted on 18th June meant we could relax a little and begin to pack.

A week later we were due down at my parents as we were off to a party for my ex-boss and one of our clients, a party on a boat on the river Thames. However, on the Friday evening we found out that a good friend of ours, Khalid who owned Pixelcraze, had passed away at the age of 25. He'd had major surgery two weeks before, but we'd all relaxed as he was back home recovering well. Finding this out was probably the biggest shock I've had that I can remember. Khalid was an amazing and generous person, a fantastic PHP programmer, the person I would turn to when I got stuck, and just a great friend to chat with about photography, gardening and business. My heart goes out to his young wife and one year old daughter

Naturally we cancelled on going to the party, especially as I'd been awake all night, shell shocked. On the Sunday we drove home via my brother's as he and his girlfriend had just had a baby boy, my first nephew. We got to meet him at 13 days old, probably the youngest baby I've ever been in the presence of. It was a brief moment of happiness amongst the grief of losing of a friend. Taryan (a Welsh name) is a gorgeous little boy and I'm so chuffed for my brother and my parents with their first grandchild.

The following week was a blur. The loss of a friend, the forthcoming (minor) stress of moving house, plus the happiness of a new nephew. Trying to get as much work completed when you're really not with it isn't easy. Last week we headed to Leicester to stay with some friends, and see how their one year old was doing (walking and always with a big smile on her face), and then on Tuesday we headed further east for the funeral. It was a hard day but an overwhelming number of people attended, just goes to show how many people had been affected by Khalid's death.

We then travelled back home the same day, as my parents arrived on Wednesday to help us move. We managed to get home safely that night, but then the next day the car suddenly started to shake a great deal, really not what you need when about to move house! Luckily a garage fixed it the next day plus serviced it (as it was due), although £100 cost that we could have done without On Friday we had a van hired for the day and got everything moved to the new house, leaving us with a week to clean the old house.

So we're now in the new house and already much happier. The house itself is great. It's detached (so no more being woken up at 6am and 7am by the screaming 2 year old next door), it has a garage which is great for extra storage space, and we have a conservatory, which is where we've sat to eat meals in, although it's a little noisy when it rains. We've also got a family of baby blackbirds in the garden, funny to watch over breakfast.

We've got a bit more cleaning to do at the old house plus a bit of painting to tidy up a few areas, and then we can hand the keys back on Saturday and we should get all of our deposit back.

In the meantime Wedding plans are still going fine. I've just got a bit behind on getting the evening invites out and we need to start sorting a few more things out such as the rings.

So moving house on its own, not really too stressful, but with everything else combined in one week, well I'm glad the week is over. Now we can try to get back to a bit of normality (RIP Khalid).

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The membership prices are below however we've also reduced these until 1st August as we appreciate that starting with 4 themes isn't a large amount, however our prices are based more on support and continued upgrades:

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First stop was the OS. I'm currently on Windows Mobile 5.0 and 6.1 is out, however it doesn't look like there's any upgrade for my PDA (Dell Axim X51). Okay, that wasn't a major issue. I then looked at the next two important things, an RSS reader and a decent browser. I used to have an RSS reader on there but when I switched to Google Reader I just used that online, however now I have all of my feeds at Newsgator which allows you to read feeds online and offline and syncs the two (best of both worlds). In the last year I've been very lazy with feeds and not kept up to date with reading them, so I pruned my feeds in my account down to those I considered worthwhile of keeping and added a few new jQuery ones.

Newsgator comes with its own software for the PC, however after a quick look I found it also has software for the Windows Mobile OS. This is quite similar to their mobile online version however it does the synchronising which is great as it means I can download the feeds, sit on a train or take them away with me, read them and then just sync it when I can get online again and I don't see the same post twice.

Newsgator requires the .NET compact framework, so I had to download this from Microsoft.

Next job was a decent browser. The Internet Explorer on the PDA is a bit basic and I longed for tabbed browsing. Firefox used to have a mobile browser called Minimo, but this is no longer maintained, and instead have progressed to Fennec, but that's for Windows Mobile 6+, which is no good. Then Martin sent me a link on twitter for Opera Mobile. I have this on my mobile, however that doesn't have tabs, but it is quite nice so I figured it was worth a go. I used to have Opera installed however it was charged for back then so I removed it soon after, but now it's freely available which is handy. After a quick install I opened it up and discovered that it does have tabs and it's a really nice browser on the PDA too. It's got a nice screen and makes full use of the screen. My only gripe is that to scroll down you have to slide your stylus up the page (as if you're dragging the bottom of the screen up), as the scroll bars don't display. It's a bit confusing when you're used to sliding the scroll bar down!

Opera Mobile also comes with Opera Widgets, one of which is a Twitter app, although I'm not sure if it's as good as Dabr.

A couple of other pieces of software that I've tried out and recommend are SoftX FTP Client which is a simple but useful FTP client to access sites, and then a Pocket Text Editor to edit the files. Useful if you need to make a quick change or fix whilst away from the PC.

Now all I need to do is work out how I can make the PDA connect online via my mobile when I'm out and about!

Okay, so I appreciate that people looking for work will look through the local businesses and tout their work to them. If you're low on work you need to see what you can get. Luckily we've never been in that position, but I know if I was then I wouldn't approach it in the following manner.

First the developer visited the shop, asked if they needed a new developer and pointed out a few design/content issues that needed addressing (some of which are already being addressed anyway). My contact was away at the time but the owner was there and he entertained the guy a little. Maybe that was the wrong thing to do. The developer clearly took that as the green light and turned up again when my contact was there. She told him that they were not interested, they already had a development company on board and he wouldn't be hired. He didn't really take the hint however, then asking who did the site, who hosted it, what platform it was running on (it's not hard to find this information out but still…). She asked him politely to leave, eventually he did.

A week later he was back (persistant, or desperate, that's for sure!) and just sat down waiting for the owner who was in a meeting. My contact again told him to leave, in which he replied that as they didn't seem that bothered in his content points he'd gone and phoned the press office of their supplier, pointing out that the supplier's name wasn't mentioned on the front page of the site, and that the catalogue on the site was out of date (although that's the supplier's fault for not getting the current one sent out until last week!). Strangely enough, that didn't go down too well!

I can appreciate in these times that people are maybe low on work, but honestly, if you're going to try and get new clients, or steal clients from another developer, then do it a bit more ethically and don't treat your prospective new client badly or try to go above them! You really won't make any friends and potentially damage your own reputation.

On a lighter note, shortly after a regular customer of theirs asked for their site developer's details as they loved the site and really liked the functionality and design of it

Another nice point is the ability to run Windows and Linux scripts side by side, which is something I needed back in January for a site that needed Windows to auto update the database nightly into MSSQL (a supplied program from the database provider) but PHP to allow me to write the code, as I've long since forgotten ASP!

Finally, the additional bandwidth costs on this type of hosting are a lot less than standard hosting, around 50% of the cost. A friend who runs a popular entertainment site recently had a shock when a trailer they were hosting became a bit of an internet sensation sending visitor numbers soaring. The only problem is their 24 hours in the spotlight racked up bandwidth bills of almost £700 on their shared hosting account, and that bill was reduced by the hosting company in good faith. If they'd been on cloud hosting then that bill would have been around just half that.

As I mentioned Cloud Hosting is quite new to me, however a good friend of mine has started selling it through his hosting company who I recommend for all types of hosting. The packages are sold on a monthly contract and you get an inclusive bandwidth and space in that price, then any extra you need is charged for at the end of the month, a bit like our pay monthly mobile phone contracts.

So if you've got a site that can go up and down in bandwidth, or have large bandwidth bills, or you need to be able to run PHP and ASP together, then take a look at Cloud Hosting.

I mentioned last time that David and I had merged our businesses to form a company, which starts trading on 1st April. So we've been making a few preparations for that, getting the client list in check, getting the clients added to our online accounts system – Kashflow (read my review), and also sorting out the new company site, bank account, insurance etc.

We were also planning on using WHMCS to manage all of our hosting and domain clients, along with those on support contracts, however the main reason was for the automated billing, which I then discovered Kashflow could handle, so why duplicate the work and the cost!

In our personal lives things have taken a major turn in that we got engaged a couple of weeks ago and hope to get married towards the end of the year This is obviously a bit of a distraction, and also means we need to work even harder to save up for all the costs involved!

So yes, it's even more all go here than normal!

I've been a soletrader for almost 8 years now, and have thought/intended to go limited earlier however a lack of time and organisation just meant I never really got around to it. However, last year we were thinking about forming a partnership (and never got around to it!), so this year we're getting everything sorted, the new server, a new company and it'll be VAT registered too (VAT registration is not a requirement of a UK company under a certain turnover, but we've gone for it anyway), automated billing software for the client hosting and domains, and more.

There's so much to sort out now! New bank account, business cards (courtesey of Moo Cards), letters to write, client details to input, plus to still work full time!

March is going to be a busy month of sorting things out, but it'll be worth it

3 hours of going around in circles later… and still no joy! After checking over my code piece by piece, trying the code out of WordPress, trying the page on another server just in case, and trying every other option I could think of, I finally tried uploading jQuery 1.2.6 from my WordPress 2.7 folder on my computer, and hey presto, it all worked!

It seems that there is a minor change required for thickbox to work with the latest jQuery version. After a bit of searching around I found out that what's needed is on line 79 of the existing thickbox file you need to change the line

Existing Thickbox Code

1. TB_TempArray = $("a[@rel="+imageGroup+"]").get();

to not include the @ sign in it ie.

New Thickbox Code

1. TB_TempArray = $("a[rel="+imageGroup+"]").get();

Such a simple change that caused a few hours of frustration! So hopefully it may be of use to someone else