Subhakar Anand's Blog

Stay away from narcissist people

2025-02-17T21:12:00.000-08:00

never ever sacrifice your self respect or self worth from anyone either fight back . staying with that person is never worth.

Staying with them longer means you are drain on energy

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Making your own choices

2025-02-10T00:04:00.000-08:00

Remember those days when you have to break the benchmark to survive. I quit the situation not to break the benchmark but to know your own strength.

Making own choices and taking decisions based on them, defines what you really are. Your decisions define you your are not defined by someone else decisions.

You might be afraid to take the risk due to financial risk, that thing involves. But remember if you didn't try, you might never what you are capable of.

Maintaining certain benchmark and standard are required to make you feel discipline in life.

A simple key to self respect is never lie to yourself.

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Small happiness

2018-02-08T06:02:00.000-08:00

Small drops makes large ocean.

We always think of achieving big things like big house, big car, high salary, big bank balance. There is nothing wrong in it. If you are capable to it, then you must do it. But don't forget why are you doing this? For your family or your loved ones. At end of the day you want to be with your family. You want to spent time with them, not with your big car, or your bank.

Small things like dancing with kids, jumping on dance floor with your best friends, singing song in bathroom, dancing like no one is watching.

Listening to your favourite old song, seeing old pictures of yourself and best friends. Spending an evening while watching sunset and having some coffee or cold drinks.
Surprising your child in school, and pick him out and take him to the surprise dinner. Creates some memories, if you create more memories use the Google or movies.

These memories makes you feel so good from inside and outside, it also help in building bonds with those people, with whom you have spent time. Go out with people you care, after all you do is to make you and them really happy.

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Don't confused

2018-02-07T02:53:00.000-08:00

You should I do it or not?

Are you one of those people, who don't know what they want in life? You might found yourself struggling in few moments.
The solution is simple and transparent.
You must know the two things yes and no. Just ask yourself, Do you want that thing? choose between yes and no. There is no trying. You either do it or don't. If you are really want to do it, then do it properly. In initial start you might be. wondering how you will do it, just follow the steps. After doing the thing you might wonder why you have not done this before.
Be simple, don't get distracted by things you don't need in life. Stay calm, think before you do. Read about things that you might interested in.
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The expert advice

2018-02-04T09:53:00.000-08:00

Some times I talk to myself because I need expert advice.

You need to talk to yourself to figure out what you really want in your life. Are you happy with job? Are really happy with your current life situation?
You have to find out. But question is how to find out? Answer is simple just sit in quiet place and think of those things, that you really want in your life.

It really matters what you love because it gives you satisfaction after you complete those tasks.
Life is a journey not a destiny. This is probably the thing you might missing out. Small drops makes the sea and small happiness leads to greatest happiness You can find.

You might find some people they really enjoying the small bit of moments. You might have wondered to see them, what's wrong with them? Don't judge them, instead try to learn from them. How to make yourself better? Can we borrow some good things from there characters?

There is nothing wrong in adapting good character from someone else, if it makes you better human being.

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Don't be materialistic

2018-02-03T05:43:00.000-08:00

Use the technology not the people, but nowadays it's reverse.

A internet meme says "
My wifi was not working today, I sat with family they are really nice people"
We use lots of time in mobiles, but forget to spent time with people we love. If some thing good happens suppose you got new job or promotion, you click a picture of cake, share it on social media and got tons of like. Even you post 10000 word status on social media, no body gonna read that unless and until you are a celebrity.
But you can make your celebration better, buy some snacks for family or dine out, go watch movie or go to club, just chill out with them.

Sometimes, days are very rough in your life, then you need these people to share your thoughts. Some time they might gave you best advice.
At the end of the people matters most in your life, not any device or gadget.
You won't remember playing with devices, but partying with friends, traveling with people your love.
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Finding what you love

2018-02-02T07:18:00.000-08:00

Most of the people left their true passion as soon as they left their school, or start going to college.

In college we make friends, eats hangout, got degree and get a job as soon as possible.
But one thing is left behind is true passion. In college days we share our talent just by talking about it or showing school pic of the event to your buddy. If you are on of them, it's okay.

But what, you have not discovered your talent till yet?
Well you should have give try to different things, and see you are good at it or not.
Like dancing, gymnast, photography, videography, cooking or anything you love but make sure it's legal and doesn't harm anyone.

You know world is waiting for your talent, you will never know what you can become, if you don't give it a try. If Edison has not made the bulb, would you reading this in your room. Go out, explore and find what you love. Do what you love.

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Move on from past

2018-02-01T02:32:00.000-08:00

Past is a good pace to visit, not for staying

If you love past memories or struggling to move on from them, then there is something you should learn about.

we all know have been there, some of move forward so easily but some of us just struggle to how to move.
Well one thing that you should know that living in past will do nothing good to you, it will also eat your present. Life is a movie if you don't have good beginning, don't worry you can make remaining part better. Go out make it happen. As batman says Iam
defined by what I do, not what I think.

Accept the past and say to yourself it's okay, now I need to write a better new story. Even the story doesn't come out as expected you will never regret that you missed the chance of writing it. Be happy and be better human.
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A new journey

2018-01-31T08:16:00.001-08:00

In most of the days I spent time with people, one thing I make sure to have,
a good quality time. Even if you just listen to them, they feel just relaxed and trusting you as a good human beings.

One thing you notice to people nowadays is that they complain what they don't have, they never appreciate what they have right now. For instance you own a house but still want to make it bigger.
But you never appreciate that you own a house you don't have to pay rent for it.
Some people might appreciate that you notice small things about and some might ignore them it's still okay you are not responsible who someone is raised or born. They judge you as per their own capacity.

You know when you are with someone be there physically and as well as mentally, you can check your WhatsApp later. They will appreciate it and you will be got a really good time.
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I do insta story vlog for 30 days

2018-01-30T06:22:00.000-08:00

Hi my name is Subhakar. Few days back a started doing insta story vlog for 30 days.

The below you gonna find what I learned from these stories
1. Camera matters a little.
I shoot all my stories on moto C Plus. Which have 8mp camera which is not so decent from today's point of view. But still it work well but sucks in low light. I suggest you to shoot in good light
2. Lighting is key
If you shooting video for lighting is important so it looks great on instagram
3 shooting in 9:16 format
Instagram Stories are made in portrait mode so you don't have to flip your phone to see new stories
While shooting in 9:16 format I learned that you can do more creative trick and transition in this format with your hands
‎4 editing
‎i used 3 apps
‎ inshot , you cut editor and video splitter (to split your video in 15 seconds clip) and also export your video in highest quality available because instagram does lower the quality ( just personal observation but not fully sure about it)
‎5 music
‎ music in your video keeps the viewer engaging. I use the non copyright music in all my vlog except the cinematic vlog (which is still on my instagram highlight) probably my best insta story so far. And yes I shoot it on a dslr nikon d5300 kit lens. Be sure to give credit to artist whose music you use
‎6 it's not for money
‎ insta story vlogging is not about. It's more about creating something that stands out from rest of the profile. Well if you reach certain amount of followers (10,000 followers is a benchmark) you comes into a category of social media influencer. At the this point of writing the article. You can make good amount of money out of it
‎7 content is king (story is king)
‎ well your content matters. Try to keep it creating and interesting.
‎ For example : if you work in restaurant and you are a chef. You can show your your work like making of cuisine
‎If you are a office employee and travels long distance, you can show journey like what you eat, where you travel etc.

Last but not least, after reading all these things, you might thinking should you do or not. Well my answer is simple at least give it a shot. You never know you might become instagram Casiey neistat.
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Not For Others But For Yourself

2016-05-14T09:35:00.001-07:00

You have to fight for yourself. Fight for the inner you.
Your not doing this for anybody, but for yourself.

People will always say why are are doing this, it is simple because only you can.

Beginning is not always easy and it should be not either,if that was easy then everyone will be there it looks like circus.

First Date

2014-09-21T03:17:00.001-07:00

Benefit of Reading

2014-09-19T08:37:00.003-07:00