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10 tips for successful and stress free life

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 18:24:00 +0000

Every body’s main wish is to have a successful and easy-going life. For this, one must develop and maintain amicable relations with his neighbors. If you fail to achieve success in your career means, you are not evincing keen interest and also not giving much importance to human relations.

It clearly indicates that you are not obtaining timely and real help from your neighbors. This is the main obstacle on the way of your journey to success. Your mere hard-working work ethic doesn’t help you to achieve your goals in life, for that you also need other’s help.

You know it pretty well that man is a social living-being (creature). To obtain your neighbor’s help, follow these below given guide-lines (tips), which in turn help you t reach the top of the ladder of success.

10 tips to lead a successful life:

1. Sincerely convey your appreciation, whenever, they obtain success in their career or in business, etc.

2. Meet them personally and solace them, if they are in trouble.

3. Honestly give your helping-hand to save them, whenever, they are in danger.

4. Be away from your personal egos (egoism), otherwise which themselves move you away from others.

5. Make it a good habit to call your friends and other known persons by their respective names, which in turn makes them joyful, as the sweetest thing for every one in this world is “his own name”.

6. Never forget to attend to “spiritual programmes” which gives us mental peace, and make it a point to gain more knowledge about God, the omnipotent and our savior.

7. Speak always positively with others and often give complements for their good deeds, talents and also the plus points, present in them.

8. Send to the newly-formed friends greetings on their birthdays and also gifts on their wedding-days.
The most important thing is contact them by phone and convey your best wishes to them.

8. Nobody is 100% perfect (in God’s creation), including yourself. So, don’t criticize anybody as far as possible, as everyone has got his own plus and minus points.

9. Successful man always moves along with others, but not away from them.

10. The last but not the least point is, develop neither superiority complex, nor, inferiority complex, but be normal and dedicated in your dealings with others.

Success quote: “Success is nothing but a continuous process, so, be always on the move”.

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Tips to lead happy and stress free life

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 13:55:00 +0000

The most important thing here is with what sort of thoughts, our noble mind is filled with, whether with positive thoughts or negative thoughts? No other person, except yourself, would be able to read exactly what is in your mind.

Although, people may not be able to tell you exactly what you think, they will more or less have an idea about your feelings. Thoughts are very powerful and affect your general attitude, which in turn not only reflects on your appearance but also affect people around you.

The attitude may be positive or negative.

Positive thoughts have a filling effect and admittedly invigorating and the people around the person carrying positive thoughts are usually energized by this type of attitude.

Negative thought on the other hand have a sapping effect on other people and make you look gloom, sad and can turn a festive gathering into a funeral wake.

Positive thoughts attract people, whereas negative thoughts repel them. Attitude is nothing but the way of looking at the world by any person. But if you choose to focus on the negative things in the world, more or less you develop a negative attitude. Hence choose to focus on positive things, so that you carry on a positive attitude.

Benefits of living with positive attitude:

1. It promotes better health

2. Have more number of friends

3. Helps one to handle the situation of stress more affectively

4. Handle the problems in a better way than the negative attitude persons.

A Positive attitude begins with a healthy self-image. The individual with positive attitude also make other people around him; feel with love, satisfaction, confident and self-assured.

Now a days, it is very difficult to have a positive attitude and to feature healthy features, as the atmosphere around us and also the media feeding us nothing but full of programmes filled with negative thoughts and incidents mainly.

It is reported in a study that for every fourteen things, a parent says to his or child, only one is positive and the remaining thirteen are negative things. This is truly a saddening affair.

How to develop positive thoughts:

1. Hear positive things only

2. See funny and comedy movies mainly

3. Play often with children

4. Spend some time telling jokes to friends

5. Read some spiritual books of your faith.

All the above activities fill you with positive stimuli, which in turn promote positive attitude.

Quote: “How we spend our days, is of course, how we spend our lives - Annie Dillard.”

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How to improve mind Power?

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 08:05:00 +0000

Everyone is bestowed with some brain power. But one can increase mind power and memory by using these simple tips.

How to imrove mind power?

1. It is possible to slow down ageing and increase memory through mind activities like Cross word Puzzles, Sudoku, and Reading, writing articles and solving mathematical problems.

2. Anti oxidants and Vitamin help in increasing the sharpness of brain.

3. Passive activities like watching movies and serials decrease the sharpness of brain.

4. Activities like stimulating conversations with passionate people help in increasing the power of brain.

5. Avoid sceptics and negatively thinking people. Positive thinking improves the brain power.

6. Attend stimulating lectures and try to learn new activities or cultivate new hobbies.

7. Computer games (right amount of time) will help improve attention span, which decreases with age.

8. Music helps to enhance the brain power by stimulating brain. This is useful only for music lovers.

9. Sharpness of brain varies in the course of a day. Morning is the ideal time to do intellectual activities.

10. Sufficient sleep during night helps to improve the brain functioning in the day time.

11. Yoga and Meditation have proven effects on the functioning of the brain. If practiced regularly, they bring about structural changes in the brain.

12. If we can able to control our thoughts, we can control our life activities. “It’s all in the mind”.

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Steps to Success: Communication skills

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 08:02:00 +0000

Communication is an art. Now a day, communication skills are playing and vital role in every walk of life and it helps you to improve your personality in public relations. Good communication leads to success in every programme which you undertake in your day to day activities.

Communication has two components:

1. Expression

2. Listening.

Communication is given a paramount importance in the team work and to build better interpersonal relations either at the working place, in any public places, in any gatherings or in get- together parties.
Many companies and institutions are organizing seminars and training camps, for improving the communication skills of their employees. But, most of the times, these efforts are not yielding expected results, as they are giving importance to expression only, rather than listening which is not to be neglected at all.

In this competitive world, no doubt, your word has got a magic power in human relations, as it creates either friendship or enmity among you and your friends. Every word coming from our mouth acts as a “bridge” in enhancing and creating the (new) relationship.

Speech techniques:

1. Try to speak depending upon the surrounding situations and prevailing conditions.

2. Have confidence in yourself and speak firmly and confidently in clear terms.

3. Better speaking ability provides job opportunities like -in teaching profession, anchoring, TV, reporting, etc.

4. If situation demands, never hesitate to speak, and don’t be under the wrong impression that others may pass adverse comments against your way of talking. Don’t forget that, “practice makes man perfect”.

5. Try to improve your vocabulary and that gives good command over the language.

6. Your speech should be informative and be useful to the listener, like a lecture in the class-room or news over TV or radio.

Listening skills:

1. Listen to any thing attentively, like listening to music which you like and appreciate utmost.

2. Good listening helps in relaxing and re-emerging our selves.

3. While listening carefully observes the person’s body language, accentuation and variations in emotions (it helps you while you give your speech in the office, institution and/or public meetings).

4. Never be a passive listener, as it involves not listening but only “hearing’’ which is an involuntary act and it doesn’t help much in communication skills.

5. Do not distract the speaker by showing your disinterestedness, while listening. Never detest the speaker.

6. Avoid belittling the speaker (one day you have to face the situation as a speaker).

7. Give the speaker a fair chance. Do not drag him in to an argument, as it spoils the situation.

8. Switch off your cell-phones, as it creates disturbances in the conferences or meetings.

Success quote: "If the tongue is good, the town is good".

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10 tips to manage stress in life

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:58:00 +0000

Stress is nothing but excessive reaction of the body to certain incidents which we face in our day-to day life. Physiologically, more amounts of adrenaline secretion take place in our body and it has got abnormal negative effects, not only on our thinking, but also on our health.

Effects of stress on our health:

1. We take more amounts of food, without our knowledge, to appease our mind.

2. Indirectly it leads to overweight and further to obesity, which in turn leads to diseases like –diabetes, hypertension and heart ailments, etc.

3. There is every chance of developing vitamin deficiency in the stress situations.

How to deal with stress?

These are 10 simple things to get relief from stressful life.

1. Doing exercises regularly, this keeps the particular individual in happy and active mood throughout the day. Treadmill exercise removes the stress from the body through sweat and it is more useful in winter season.

2. Spare and spend at least some time in the morning sun-shine and the sun-rays of that period remove the stress miraculously.

3. Spend as much time as possible among your favorite friends. This sort of personal relationship brings immeasurable joy and frees you from stress.

4. Take hot-water bath, which removes the heaviness in the head.

5. Take and deep respiration which helps the body to take more oxygen through lungs which in turn helps the body to withstand the stress and strain.

6. Relax for twenty to thirty minutes whenever you are more under emotional feelings.

7. Read the book which you like utmost which acts as an inspiration and enhances your capacity to withstand the stress and strain.

8. Speak heart fully with such type of individuals whom you like and adore most and keep them as your role-models.

9. Recap the achievements which you obtained till date, by your tireless hard-work and immense faith in your capacity, certainly they provide you with mental-relief.

10. Have good food habits and preferably take highly nutritious diet, containing more minerals and vitamins, etc. No junk foods but only fresh vegetables and fruits.

Keep faith in God and take life as it comes. Work hard and leave rest to God. He will take care of you.

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6 tips to improve memory

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:55:00 +0000

Sex not only enhances your romantic life but also increases your brain power. According to a report in “Daily Mail”, sex keeps the brain fit in later life. Sex enhances brain functioning ability due to seven clinical reactions that undergo during intercourse. Sex raises levels of oxytocin (trust hormone) which has the capability to ready a person to face and solve problems in daily life by increasing his creative thinking power. This research report was published in the book “Teach yourself: Training your brain”.

How to improve life?

1. Spend time with people who make you laugh, those who have good sense of humour.

2. Make friendship with people who share the same interests as you.

3. Stay away from people who whine and complain.

4. Stay away from people who are in depressed mood.

5. Stay away from people who have negative mindset.

6. Stay away from smoking as it reduces physical and mental wellbeing.

How to enhance mind power and memory?

1. Dark chocolate and cold meat for breakfast can boost your brain power.

2. Mental exercises like puzzles enhance brain power.

3. People who think in radical and creative manner will have great brain power.

4. Junk foods, pollution and stressful lifestyle decreases brain power.

5. Magnesium and antioxidants increase oxygen supply to the brain and reduces brain damage through a stroke.

6. Reading is the best hobby to have great brain power.

Source: Indian Express.

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Art of growing up: 11 tips to learn

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:51:00 +0000

The word “UP” has a vital role to play in our daily life and also in our personality development.

1. Get up: Early in the morning with the determination to make most of your day, useful and also meaningful.

2. Stand up: To your problems and difficulties. Face them and lick them.

3. Think up: Keep your thoughts high, clean, clear and truthful.

4. Brace up: Tighten your belt and keep moving forward even when the going gets rough.

5. Climb up: The ladder of success reaches upward rung by rung, but you have to/must do the climbing.

6. Stretch out your hand: Remember that he climbs highest, who helps another up.

7. Measure up: Meet the challenge of the times by doing your full share for the common good.

8. Bounce up: when you fell down. Every one falls and falls now and then; quitters just lie there. Heroes have to bounce.

9. Live up: To the highest and best, the moral rules and spiritual principles you know.

10. Look up: Consider and observe a tree, how it lifts its branches to the sky. The only way to grow is to look up.

11. Hope up: You know it very well that, “Hope is life’’. So never get despair.

The golden word is, “Enthusiasm is oxygen to life and have plenty of enthusiastic living’’.

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How to be happy in 2009?

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:44:00 +0000

The WEEK magazine published an article by celebrity author Shobhaa De for happiness in life. Shobhaa De listed 25 simple acts to bring happiness in one’s life.

How to be happy in 2009?

1. Family is crucial in one's happiness. Allocate sufficient time to the family members. Take care of your self.

2. Forget bad incidents in your life. They will ruin your physical and mental wellbeing.

3. Be positive and trust your abilities. Unless you trust yourself, nobody will trust you.

4. Express gratitude to the people through phone/mail.

5. Take rest from busy schedule and introspect yourself. Introspection will enhance one's life.

6. Be emotional with your family members. They need your love and exhibit it by simple acts like kissing and hugging. Life is precious and enjoy.7. Listen with heart when others are speaking. Relations will spoil if they detect your body language.

8. Share your inner feelings with your family and friends which is good to your health.

9. Never argument. Arguments will never win you friends.

10. Try to do every work wholeheartedly.

11. Don’t be over perfectionist. It will irritate others.

12. Control anger and emotions before taking decisions.

13. Complement people for their good acts. Everyone likes to be appreciated by others.

14. Music has distressing ability. Melodious music will enhance your physical and mental wellbeing.

15. Exhibit emotions with your closed ones. Never control beautiful emotional acts like crying, hugging, laughing and kissing.

16. Help others. Allocate some money for charity. Good acts will increase happiness in life.

17. Gardening is a great hobby. Hobbies like gardening, travel and music will improve one’s wellbeing.

18. Money is crucial. It has the ability to build or break bonds. Plan your financial needs carefully.

19. 6-7 hours of sleep is necessary. Lack of sleep may cause chronic diseases like cancer, heart diseases and diabetes.

20. Fight until death. Life is full of challenges. Face the problems with courage.

21. Eat well. Work hard. Enjoy little things in life. Every moment is precious.

22. Overcome inhibitions. Talk with new people and learn from the lives of other people. Mistakes are common and learn from them.

23. Be creative. Creative ideas and thoughts will bring freshness into routine life.

24. Believe in God. No arguments about it.

25. Nothing is impossible. Believe in yourself. Read biographies of great people. Always be positive.

Wish you a happy and prosperous 2009.

Please share your ideas.

Source: The WEEK magazine and Shobaa De.

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How to overcome inferiority complex?

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:42:00 +0000

The main characterestics of inferiority complex persons are:

1. He compares himself with others and forms low opinion about himself.

2. He cannot act and move courageously.

3. He lacks of self- confidence.

4. He thinks that every other person is observing him (as if they have got no other business).

5. If anybody laughs, he things that they are laughing at him only.

6. He upsets himself for even a simple act.

7. He also develops stress and strain in daily life.

8. By thinking in the above manner, he simply wastes his life unnecessarily.

How to overcome inferiority complex?

If we follow the below given advices, the inferiority complex can be easily tackled.

1. Be a team member and work along with others.

2. Be balanced in self analysis and self consciousness.

3. Participate in group activities, so that inferiority complex can be over come to some extent

4. Never compare yourself with others unnecessarily.

There are number of people who were more unlucky than you. Some are even physically and mentally handicapped. But they are striving daily to lead a normal life. They are not blaming anybody and including God.

5. Don’t neglect your studies and your career.

6. See positive points in you only and utilize them utmost.

7. Read the life histories of 1.Abraham Lincoln, 2.helen Keller. They never get despired, but reached the top positions in life with hard work only. They were not born with silver spoon. Hard work and perseverance will never let you down.

Overcoming inferiority complex is entirely in your hands. Consult psychiatrist if necessary.

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5 simple tips for success

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:36:00 +0000

Apply these 5 wonderful cardinal points in your daily life, you will see wonders and you will be above the crowd. Successful people followed these simple things in their life to do wonders and become legends. These things may look simple but very difficult to implement in daily life. That's the difference between winners and losers.

5 Secrets of Success:

1. To Work - When others are dreaming.

2. To Give - When others are gasping.

3. To Smile - When others are complaining.

4. T o Serve - When others are demanding.

5. To Persist - When others are quitting.

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8 secrets of happy and successful life

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:32:00 +0000

If you wish to become a most successful person (leader) in life, you have to follow certain things in your daily life.

1. Stop worrying:

Never worry about the past things as past is past. And also not worry about the future as it cannot be predicted correctly. By thinking about those things which are not under our control, there is every chance of occurring bad rather than good. Always think about in the present and act accordingly. It is a good process to rectify the past mistakes and prepare the plans for the future.

2. Love Yourself:

Never underestimate yourself, irrespective of the defects, if at all present, in you. Nobody is born perfectly in this world. Always love yourself, your individuality and your family.

3. Self confidence:

If you have self confidence, it is well and good, even if nobody is with you. Self confidence develops courage in you and you can achieve your goal in life.

4. Think positively:

Never develop negative thoughts, which spoil one’s career.
We can solve so many problems by positive thinking. We know that hope is life and doubt is death.

5. Feel Assertive:

Nobody has the right to degrade you,(unless you commit any mistake).Always fight for your rights and at the same time have peaceful mind. If you don’t like anything, never hesitate to express your opinion of disliking openly. Otherwise you have to face troubles.

6. Energize Yourself:

Always try to develop skills present in you and encourage yourself often and on which acts as a booster to your mind. Troubles might interfere in your daily activities and programmes, bur never abandon that work in the middle, and proceed to continue to do it with great enthusiasm. Never get despair.

7. Motivate Yourself:

This is most important thing in one’s life. It is a back bone to our self esteem. Remember that nobody shows much interest to motivate us, instead we have to motivate ourselves often and on. Then success definitely favors us.

8. Excuse critics:

There are some people whose business is always to criticize others whether you do good or bad. Never give importance to their comments. Show pity on them. They feel happy if you take notice of their comments and they try to pass more criticism the next day. Hence forgive them through your inner self (mind).

Stop worrying and start living.
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7 tips for happy and successful life

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:29:00 +0000

Researchers at Boston University conducted a research on the causes of longer life span in some persons.

Tips for happiness in life:

1. Genes: The effect of genes on longer life is 20%-30% only. Life style is the major factor in deciding longer life time.

Ex: 7th Adventists – They live longer because of their life style. They stay away from alcohol, tobacco and caffeine products.

2. Relationships: Happily married people live longer than lonely living persons. Men live at least 7 years more and women add two years to their life span. Married persons having heart disease lived 4 years more than unmarried lonely persons without any heart disease. Maintain healthy relationships with family members, relatives, friends and neighbors.

3. Contentment: Contentment in life decreases stress and strain on the body and mind. It helps to increase the life span.

4. Vegetarian Diet: It is better to take vegetarian food like fruits and vegetables in which Potassium and Sodium are present in 10:1 ratio which is good for our heart. They prevent cancer as they contain anti oxidants. Fast foods contain more Sodium than Potassium. Sodium increases the blood pressure.

5. Adventures with enthusiasm: Life without any bold acts brings boredom. Occasionally do some adventures to make life beautiful. Ex. Climbing Mountains and Sea voyages.

6. Smile: Smile reduces stress and strain. Stress reduces body resistance (immunity) by producing Cortisone. Positive outlook towards life increases life span.

7. Exercise: Exercise to body and brain are essential to increase life time of a person. The ability of logic, thinking, and remembrance was full attained by the age of 20 years. From 20 years onwards, mental exercises keep the brain active. Highly educated persons doing high skilled jobs have less dementia.

Daily exercises like brisk walking and gardening for 30-45 minutes keeps the body away from any illnesses.

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20 tips to lead successful daily life

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:23:00 +0000

We have to follow these 20 simple things in our daily life to reduce stress and enjoy happy life.

20 tips for happy daily life:

1. Silence: As soon as you rise from the bed, observe ten minutes os silence without any thoughts, which give you peace of mind through out the day. Learn meditation and Yoga.

2. Color of cloths: Colored cloths for teenagers and white cloths for adults give enthusiasm as per latest research.

3. Goodness: Memorize all the good things you did in your life. Forget the bad memories.

4. Sleep: 6-8 hours of good sleep is necessary. This is necessary to recoup body and mind.

5. No negative thoughts: If you think negatively, the body secretes hormones and chemicals which in turn cause stress.

6.Happiness: Cheerfulness not only energizes you, but also your colleagues.

7. Friends: Try to spend your spare time with like minded persons. Keep away from negative mentality people.

8.Answers and Solutions: In stead of bothering about your problems, try to find solutions. It will raise your confidence levels.

9. Caffeine: Not more than 2-3 cups. Don’t get addicted to them.

10.Love: Love increases life time of a person. Love makes life beautiful.

11.Different things: Routine life activities bring boredom. Try to make routine things in different ways i.e.; Change your breakfast menu, cultivate new hobbies, travel to new places etc.

12.Challenges: Take up new challenges with courage.

13. Writing: Maintain a diary of your activities. Try to put in your feelings. It will reduce your stress.

Ex: American President Abraham Lincoln used to write his hard feelings in the paper and through them into dustbin.

14. Argument: As the proverb says, argument brings fire and Discussion brings light. Just listen to the other person’s opinion sand try to think in his perspective.

15. Aim: Aim high, work hard and achieve them. You get ultimate happiness when you achieve your goals.

16. Weeping: Don’t try to suppress your emotions. Crying helps to reduce stress.

17. Breakfast: Never skip breakfast. Take breakfast like a emperor.

18. Exercise: Brisk walking for 45-60 minutes is the best form of exercise.

19. Writer: Take at least 2-3 liters’ of water per day.

20. GOD: Last but not least. Start your day with a prayer to God. Prayer unlocks your mind to happiness. Faith in God brings enormous power to your daily life.

Practice the above 20 things, see the wonders in your life.

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25 ways to improve your life in 2009

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:17:00 +0000

Indian spiritual master and Art of Living founder Sri Sri Ravishankar mentioned 25 ways to improve life in 2009. To improve your life, you need to get a broad understanding about youself and your priorities. 25 Ways to improve the quality of Life:

1. Review the context of life.

2. Know life's impermanence.

3. Make your smile cheaper.

4. Be enthusiastic and praise others.

5. Make meditation a part of your life.

6. Go to the most beautiful place

7. Communicate effectively. Communication skills are vital to achieve success.

8. Take out time for your self.

9. Better the world around you.

10. Nourish your emotions.

11. Plan short and long term goals.

12. Prayer is a vital tool.

13. Implement the changes if needed.

14. Identify your limitations.

15. Do not lose your friends.

16. Don't look for perfection.

17. Let us be unpredictable.

18. Have a sense of humour

19. Don't be afraid to make mistakes

20. Overcome your prejudice.

21. Feel that "I am blessed"

22. Do random acts of kindness.

23. Be a student always.

24. Dream the impossible.

25. Compare your performance.

If you can follow these simple tips by great master, you are moving towards success in both personal and professional life.

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16 causes for failure

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:11:00 +0000

Quote: failure is the stepping stone to success. Every one is afraid of failures.

Characterestics of failed people:

1. They cannot execute their plans successfully.

2. They do not agree to analyse the negative points present in them.

3. They try to conceal the facts and try to deceive others morally.

4. They never think of new thoughts and also not wish to venture to do new things. They like to adhere to old thoughts only whether they are good or bad.

5. Obedience and dedication are not found in their dictionary.

6. They run behind in continuing further human relations.

7. They don’t have any estimation and don’t like to utilize their intelligences and energies.

8. They often say luck does not favour them, or their time is not good. It indicates that they are not sincerely attempting to do anything.

9. They afraid of the word “failure”.

10. They have less self-confidence.

11. They consider to do hard work, as weakness.

12. They are stubborn and are of the opinion that whatever they think is correct (even though it is wrong).

13. They are having the butterfly mentality that is not fixed type. They go along with the wind.

14. They own take any trouble to achieve the target.

15. Succss and failure are the two sides of the coin. The failed people always see the negative side only. They do not like to turn the coin to see the other side that is success.

16. Sucess is not as easy as you think. The life histories successful people show that they suffered so many hardships to overcome the failure.

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10 tips to have a successful career

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 07:04:00 +0000

In these days of competitive work life, one needs to be multi-skilled person to have a great career. You need to develop communication skills, you need to cultivate good etiquette, you need to need to acquire leadership qualities and finally you need to become a great learner to move your career on steroids. There is no place for slow learners and lazy people in these days of fast paced working environment.

10 tips for a successful career:

1. Relationship: Have a good relationship with your boss and be always available and extend your full co-operatin to do extra work if he needs and don’t wait for his formal request to you. It creates good impression upon you.

2. Show your skills: If you got any special skills and capabilities and in your opinion they are useful for your organization, bring them to the notice of your boss without hesitation and made a request to him to give an opportunity to prove yourself what you are.

3. Behavior: Behave yourself in such a manner that others should take notice of you and your personality. Learn the skills to express your opinions vividly (communication skills), so that others should not miss-understand you. Soft skills are playing vital role over educational skills.

4. Leadership: Learn the leadership skills and always think and behave positively. Leadership skills are necessary to move up in the organization.

5. Dare to be different: Show some specialty in the daily work, as people want variety from the routine. If possible, try to allocate 20% of time to do different things (Google way).

6. Proactive role: Never forget to have your impression in all the deeds and works. For that purpose, you have to participate and represent yourself by taking responsibility from your wing (department or section) in the organizational meetings. It boosts your morality and efficiency.

7. Help others: Never hesitate to help your colleagues if the necessity comes and in turn it improves your experience and at the same time you get good recognition among your colleagues and friends.

8. Adjustment: Take extra responsibilities in your wing (place of working) if the time demands and fulfill that work within time and sincerely. Your colleagues will help you whenever you need them. It creates confidence in the management of your organization in your skills and in future, any opportunity arises, they give preference in selecting you for that venture. Learn to work in teams.

9. Give advice: Share your valuable suggestions and advices, regarding the possibilities for further improvement in the organizational activities and also chances of improving the functioning skills of its employees and make a good plan of action to that effect.

10. No place for job-hoppers: The last but not the least is, always available yourself to the management. Don’t become a job-hopper. 80% CEOs have worked in the same organization in most of their career. In future if any chances of promotions arise and also new opportunities come, the management first of all considers your name for that new post or promotion.

Success Quotes:

1. “Obedience is the secret of success”.

2. “Those who know how to serve also know how to reach the top of the ladder”.

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Winner and Loser - Differences

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:59:00 +0000

We come across two types of personalities generally. They are winners and losers

The differences between the winners and losers:

1. The winner: is always the part of the answer.

    The loser: is always the part of the problem.

2. The winner: has always a programme.

    The loser: always has an excuse.

3. The winner: says; let me do it for you.

    The loser: says it is not my job.

4. The winner: sees an answer for every problem.

    The loser: sees a problem for every answer.

5. The winner: says it may be difficult, but it is possible.

    The loser: says it may be possible. It is too difficult.

6. The winner: optimist. (Positive thinking)

    The loser: Pessimist. (Negative thinking)

7. The winner: is always hopeful (hope is life)

    The Loser: is always doubtful (doubt is death)

Decide yourself whether you want to become a winner or loser?

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Communication skills: Why should you learn?

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:56:00 +0000

Communications skills are the most essential assets for anyone to achieve success in today’s competitive world. Companies are giving more importance to soft skills during job interviews. You can never enhance your personality in the society/team without communication skills. Soft skills are essential to have a great career or to get success in interviews. Never treat soft skills as an academic requirement but as a ingredient of your personality. A great intelligent person without communication skills can achieve nothing in personal/work life.

The various types of soft skills are:

1. Interpersonal skills.

2. Team working skills.

3. Creative thinking.

4. Decision making skills.

5. Problem solving skills.

6. Memory and reasoning techniques.

To day most of the parents encourage their children to study well so that they can get a “ good job” ad earn handsome salaries. No doubt it is a good thing on the part of the parents.

But what about other options (skills)?

Recently, an expert said in an interview that “It may be true that it is those students who secure more than 65% marks in their academic qualifications get the jobs in reputed companies and it is also a fact that it is those who secure between 50 %to 60% marks have started these companies”.

So, to build and lead a successful team, you can successfully able to communicate with your team member. You can never become a leader without these soft skills. All great leaders in the history like Abraham Lincoln are also a wonderful communicators. Just see how Obama trounced favourite Hillary Clinton by using his great communication skills.

For example, well- known personalities like Bill Gates (Microsoft), Lawrence Ellison (Oracle) and Michael Dell (Dell computers), etc. are all ordinary students during their school days and some are college dropouts. They went onto build great companies by inspiring people with their ideas and leadership skills.

This is not to suggest that you need not work hard in the academic qualifying exams but along with the studies, take into consideration of being able to think out of the box and equip yourself with all the skills required to become successful person in today’s highly competitive world.

Success Quote: “Success is nothing but 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration”. “A successful person is a skilled person”.

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Abraham Lincoln: successful loser

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:52:00 +0000

When you are in despair and tending to give up your efforts – remember the life history of Abrham Lincoln.

Famous incidents in Abraham Lincoln’s life:

1. February 12, 1809: Abraham Lincoln was born in a one room log cabin in Nolin Creek In Kentucky.

2. 1812: A brother- Thomas- was born but died in infancy.

3. 1818: Abraham (in teenage) was kicked in the head by a horse and thought him dead (for a brief period he was unconscious).

4. October 5, 1818: His mother-Nancy Hanks Lincoln- died of Milk sickness.

5. January 20, 1828: His married sister-SARAH-died during delivery, giving birth to a child.

6. August 6 1832: Defeated in an election. The village store where he worked went out of business.

7.1833: As the store was totally failed, he was badly in debt.

8. January 1835: William Berry- his store partner died. Lincoln’s debt rose to 1000 dollars.

9. August 25, 1835: Anne Ruttedge (Lincoln’s lover) died of fever, at the age of 22.

10. In summer of 1837: The marriage proposal was made to Mary Owens-was turned down. The courtship ends.

11. January 1, 1841: Broken the engagement with Marry Todd. Lincoln developed an episode of depression.

12.1843: Lincoln is unsuccessful in his trial for the Whig nomination for U.S.

13. February 1 1850: His son Edward died after two month illness.

14. January 17, 1851: His father died.

15.1855: Not chosen by the Illinois Legislature, to be as senator.

16. 1859: Douglas was chosen by Illinois legislature for the U.S. senate, instead of Lincoln.
Douglas got 54 votes. Lincoln got 46 votes.

17. November 6, 1860: Abraham Lincoln was elected as-16th United States President, as the first Republican.

The above incidents in the life of Abraham Lincoln clearly indicate that he had not given up his perseverance and toiled all his life to achieve his ultimate goal.

Every failure is a stepping stone to success. Believe in yourself. Ultimately success comes to you.

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How to achieve Success in life?

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:48:00 +0000

It is well said: "Success brings people together, and failure makes them orphans". It applies everywhere and to all the circumstances. For example in the competitive exams, very few succeed and the remaining remains unsuccessful. People call the winners as "Lucky fellows", and the losers are called "bad luck people". This is human nature.

But, we can say confidently that all men are equal by nature. God has given intelligence equally to all. But success depends on how we use our intelligence. Success is not hereditary. Success is directly proportional to the hard working capacity.

Luck is described as: ‘’Hard work is another name for luck. Leave nothing to chance’’, a golden word to be adopted and followed by those who want success in their activities or programmes.

Success Quote: "Genius is nothing but 1% percent inspiration and 99% perspiration".

But one must keep it in mind that success is not so easy as it appears outwardly. Ask any successful person how he succeeded in his Endeavour, immediately he reveals the troubles he faced before he came out successfully.

The winners were relentlessly working hard, while we were sleeping. They read day and nights and sacrificed number of their happy moments and also luxuries. They also never forget, the hardships they underwent during their childhood life.

But one should not get discouraged at the time of failure. Most of the successful persons were also one time failured people.

Remember that, ‘’Failure is the stepping stone for success’’. Never stop if you fail one or two times in your attempts. But pursue it until you obtain the fruits of success i.e.; the goals in your life.

Usually the failed one says the cause of their failure is their fate and God did not help us, and they are unlucky. They should not forget the fact that the cause of failure is in him only and he did not make sincere attempts.

So try to rectify if there are any defects in you. Be always calm and cool and think in clear terms how to complete the project or programme which you have undertaken.

The following are some of the differences between the winners and losers:

Winners:

1. Usually, they control their anger, if at all it arises and they never allow their feelings to dominate them.

2. They have plenty of self-confidence, steadfastness and are always honesty.

3. They got more working –hard mentality.

4. They develop friendship with very few persons and that too with well- wishers.

5. They study every thing with concept- based mentality.

Losers:

1. Usually, they are hasty and having confused mentality. The golden word is "Haste is waste".

2. They do friendship with much number of people, but most of them are in the habit of spoiling the friends.

3. They are devoid of courageousness, but are with full of inferiority complex, cowardice and scolding others for their faults.

4. They take competitive exams, not very seriously and read the books at that time only.

Suggestions:

1. Attempt any thing sincerely, (otherwise leave it).

2. Some sort of commitment should be on your part, as God help those who help themselves.

3. Take inspiration by reading the life-histories of great persons and keep them as your role- models.

Then certainly success favors the losers, the next time.

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10 virtues for success in life

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:45:00 +0000

No body is born efficient or inefficient. We need to follow the following 10 virtues to achieve success in life and develop good personality.

10 Virtues to lead a happy and successful life:

1. First things first:

Before commencing or undertaking any work or project, we have to think twice and should know about the things to be done first of all. For example, we should have to mobilize sufficient finances and able to secure skilled man power, etc.

2. Be proactive:

One must be highly active in his daily activities and be moving.

Success Quote: "A stagnant water becomes dirty and emits bad odor, where as flowing water is clean and fresh".

So moving or active is nature’s phenomena and it doesn’t like laziness. Same applies to us also, if we want to success in life. Hence be prompt in your attempts.

3. Think win and certainly you will win:

Positive motivation is a good sign in getting success. You know pretty well that “faith moves mountains”. There is always hope in positive thinking. Any work is well started is equal to half done. So, never get despair and always dream about success and you will be crowned with success. But there should be no lacunae in our efforts.

4. Aim to overcome the obstacles:

Certain problems might crop up unexpectedly, viz. scarcity of resources, shortage of men, lack of unity, powerful rivals, ill-health, etc. We should not get disappointed when countered by such problems. But only weaklings give up at this stage. The capable ones analyze the problems carefully, plan accordingly and take suitable steps to get them over.

5. Find out new methods (angles):

When things are moving at a normal pace in an organization, there is scope for improvement. Therefore, one should take to innovative methods to improve further the quality and speed of the work. That prompts them to invent new angles of operation in this direction. Fix the time-limits for each and every type of work, which are being under taken in your organization or at your place of working. One should keep pace with the changing times.

6. Seek advices and suggestions:

One should continue seeking the suggestions and advices from his colleagues and other experienced persons in that field. Otherwise progress comes to a stand still. Whatever may be your place in the hierarchy of your organization, success should always be your motto.

7. Have the confidence:

Confidence is nothing but trust, which provides the tryst for transactions. Confidence should emanate from within, on the self first and on others next. Be trustworthy not only in your family but also in the organization where you work in. For to obtain confidence, one has to work hard, to prove his worthiness and dependability. Be straight forward, keep the promises you have made and behave with justice towards others, and in turn they will bring good reputation and trustworthiness to you from others.

Remember always “trustworthiness is the back bone to anybody to work in any organization’’. A liar can’t thrive.

8. Take timely decisions:

Taking a proper decision and also at the proper time is a crucial factor and one should not postpone it. If need be, one may consult either elders or superiors, analyze the issue and appropriate decision has to be taken.

9. Sharpen the saw:

Always be in touch with the latest information and sharpen your brain with up-to-date knowledge. As the saw needs periodical sharpening to work in a better way of cutting any thing, our brain needs periodical feeding with the latest information available in that particular field, where you are working.

Now a days, we find heavy competition in every field. We should also not lag behind in obtaining latest information.

10. Find alternatives:

If there are two or more alternatives for your decision, proceed in a systematic way. Devote considerable time and make a list of the alternatives available along with their merits and demerits and the likely consequences and repercussions. If necessary, take the help of experts in that field. Then discuss with them in detail and implement the right alternative method which helps in improving the quality of the work and also image of the organization.

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How to achieve Success and mental peace

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:40:00 +0000

Everyone wants success in his life and it is nothing but part and parcel in our personality development. Mental peace plays a prominent role in achieving the success. Everywhere people like to see the smiling face and serene mind.

How to achieve mental peace and success:

1. Fearlessness:

It is said that a fearless mind can achieve anything. Where there is no fear, there will be no tension and anxiety and automatically peace prevails there. Then our mind works clearly and is in balanced state. As we know that, balanced mind never makes hasty decisions. Serene Mind acts as a loving mother and it provides you with right answers and suggestions depending upon you requirements and the situations.

2. Constant reading:

One can attain knowledge through constant reading and observation. As we know well, “knowledge is strength”. We have to behave according to conditions and situations prevailing there. Timely act brings success, for example, getting the job or passing in the competitive exams.

3. Will power:

Persons having this power are usually away from weaknesses like laziness, postponing mentality, etc. They move towards success with a style which is peculiar to them. They never become slaves to bad habits and deeds. They are with sufficient mental strength.

4. Discipline:

It comes only with will power. People having this power can face the challenges and problems that occur in life, with confidence and courage. Disciplined persons rarely fail in either professional or personal life. Discipline, perseverance, patience and self-belief are the chief characteristics in personality development.

5. Punctuality:

If you wish that your future should be perfect and successful, preparations and planning for the future should be done now itself that is in the present time only. Present day is equal to ready cash payment and tomorrow is equal to cheque payment (may be bounced).

Success quote “Never postpone a thing till tomorrow, what can be done today”.

6. Honesty:

The foundation for anybody’s life is “honesty” only. Honesty is the best policy to follow in life.
If you commit any mistake, accept it and correct it honestly. Don't disturb your mental peace with dishonest things.

7. Self –confidence:

History is created by few persons who believed in themselves. They will go against convictions and achieve success and create history. They will never stop innovative thinking for the fear of failure.

The great leader and president of America, Abraham Lincoln, usually did things according to his consciousness and became world famous and successful in life. If you want reach to your goal in life, self-confidence is highly essential.

Success quote: “All power is within you” – Hindu spiritual guru Swami Vivekananda.

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10 qualities of a successful leader

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:35:00 +0000

Everybody wishes to become a successful leader in life. Certainly, we have to welcome and appreciate his ambition. But by mere wish, one cannot become a leader. One should attain these leadership skills to become a good leader either in your personal or work life.

10 leadership qualities:

1. Must be decisive:

He should be in position to make timely decisions on his own accord, depending upon the situation, without depending on others.

2. Praising sincerely:

He should feel enjoyment by praising other people’s work and also encourage them further to improve their skills.

3. Giving the feedback:

Keeping the information channels open and allow them to flow in all ways, so that others (including colleagues and employees) should be in touch with latest knowledge.

4. Willing to join at all times:

He should be in a position to join the staff to complete that work at any stage and should not insist that certain tasks are below his dignity.

5. Taking the responsibility:

He takes the responsibility, if any untoward incident occurs in the organization. He never passes the buck to others. He also knows pretty well, how to reprimand or fire the staff, if any serious irregularities committed by them.

6. Prefers direct communication:

If he wants to tell anything to the followers, He speaks directly to them and rarely opts for paperwork (for communication).

7. Credible and consistent:

The leader is always credible and also firm in his approach, regarding any dealing with others. He never behaves unpredictably.

8. Encourage the talent:

He likes to promote the talented persons among the staff members, to higher up positions in the administration. He never assumes the notion, that there is better talent elsewhere.

9. Have the positive approach:

He thinks positively and also acts to improve the performance of the organization. He leaves no stone unturned and also tries to inculcate positive thinking among the subordinates or the followers.

10. Honest and holy:

A leader should be honest in his activities, as honesty always pays; At the same time, he must be like holy person, without giving scope for impure thoughts and acts.

Remember the golden word: As told by Napoleon (France), one of the world’s greatest leaders.

Success Quote: “A leader is a dealer in hope”.

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How to lead a happy successful life?

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:25:00 +0000

Human life is the most precious and God given gift to us. Hence we must enjoy it happily and successfully. It is not meant for weeping and sleeping only. God created us with a specific purpose. Happy life will automatically enhance once self confidence and personality and his stature in the society. Personal Developement advisors are giving simple tips to lead a happy life. PepsiCo CEO Indra Nooyi is the best example for those who want to lead a balanced and successful work-family life.

10 tips to lead a happy life:

1. Avoid the egoism:

Egoism is nothing but “I and myself mentality”. Usually, most of us are of the (false) opinion that we know more compared to others and need not heed to other’s advice and suggestions. Thus, some times we may take wrong decisions and causes irreparable damage to us and also our family members.

2. Avoid the fear of defeat:

Fear is the root-cause for all the defeats that often we face in our lives and most of the times it is imaginary and having no sufficient base. Be brave and have the courage and mentality of “come what may happen, I face it boldly”. Certainly, your mind will be free from that devil of fear.

3. Self-confidence:

Self-confidence walks before every success. Such was the effect and importance of confidence in our life and career. Without it, you can’t move even for a short distance. It can be compared to a spear, which can pierce any thing and makes its way forward. Never lose confidence in yourself and go ahead and success will be in your palms. Study the life of “Abraham Lincoln”, the president of America and see how he faced the repeated failures in his life.

4. Proper planning:

Everything is in zigzag state, if there is no prior and proper planning. Every where, every thing goes according to plan of action. To construct a multi-storied building, the architect prepares a map of the monument and then it will become very easy to construct that building.

5. Family responsibilities:

Owning the family responsibilities is the part and parcel of the successful living. No body takes any interest in other’s family problems. You can’t avoid and escape from them.

6. Financial securities:

You must earn money and secure it either in cash or kind, for future safety. But, your earnings should be in rightful manner, not in illegal ways, under any circumstances. Otherwise, law will take its own course of action.

7. Proper goal-setting:

A goal less life is compared to a boat without a rudder. One must have a goal (proper destination or achieving something) in life, to make the life meaningful and role-model to others. We can take the inspiration from the lives of so many great leaders, like –“Mahatma Gandhi (India), Abraham Lincoln of America, Nelson Mandela of South Africa, etc.

8. Avoiding postponing mentality:

The golden word is: “Never post -pone a thing till tomorrow, what can be done today”. Nobody knows about tomorrow and what is in preserve for it. Today is equal to ready cash. So, better depend cash, rather than cheques (which may be bounced) often.

9. Dedication and devotion:

In any dealing, trust plays vital role and sincerity has its greater effect on our deeds and dealings with others. Hence, devotion and dedication have positive roles in achieving success and goals in our life and career.

10. Having interest:

The last but not the least is “having interest” in our job or profession or career or business or anything else, we are dealing, doing or working. Without enthusiasm and interest, we can’t reach our goal (aim) and achieve success in our valuable life and career.

Success Quote: “Where there is will- there is a way”. Enjoy your stay on this earth with proper planning.

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Postpone Mentality- causes and treatment

dr.nvkrishna@gmail.com (Dr.Krishna) — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 06:19:00 +0000

Everybody desires to have successful life. But we have to work hard sincerely, to get the fruits of success. Postponing mentality is more commonly seen especially in the students and also seen in the employees.

As per the William Nass, a psychologist, 90% of the students postpone the studying of the subjects as per the schedule. But during the examinations time, they work hard and got through the examinations.

Anyhow 14% leaves their education abruptly in the middle or satisfy with the low- paid works or jobs. 60-70% of the employees are also have this mentality of postponing their job works and due to this 10% of them are loosing their jobs.

Causes for postponement:

1. Laziness:

It is everybody’s enemy. Students don’t like to open the text books, but feel very happy to go to bed. Employees find it difficult to open the office-files, but feel happy to close it. This is ‘’easy - going’ type mentality and are of the strong opinion that nothing will happen to them, if they don’t do the work assigned to them in time.

2. Fear of failure:

They develop negative feeling before starting any job or work, thinking that they will meet with failure.

It is more common with students before appearing for the exams and candidates attending the interview.

3. Giving excuses:

It is an instrument frequently used by the employees in the offices, without any valuable reason. A few of the employees indirectly demand money (illegally), even though he is getting salary regularly. One day he will be caught red –handed and have to loose the job.

4. Egoism:

He did not care o do other’s work with superior complex mentality or thinking that it can be done later on with slow pace.

5. Apathy:

Persons having this type of mentality take even serious things very lightly and are also of the opinion that somebody will do the work for him one day. They are very headstrong and bother about the job.

6. Spending the time in gossips:

These type persons are men of words but not deeds. They don’t show much interest in discharging their routine duties but show greater interest in others affairs. They don’t know the value of time.

7. Avoiding nature:

Somebody pretends as doing the work, but actually he is not doing. Actually he won’t do it in the near future also. This act is simply annoying others and also wasting others time and money.

Consequences or losses:

-Loss of confidence in himself (self-confidence).

-Family members and others treat you as lazy person.

-Students develop stress and strain while preparing for the exams.

-Nobody believes you.

-You show anger frequently with friends and other well-wishers.

-Sometimes one may lose job or incur loss in business.

Remedy:

1. Treat the postponement mentality as a disease or an enemy and away from it as early as possible.

2. Write down the works that are to be done on that day and try to do them on the same day.

3. Fill the mind with positive thoughts only, and have full confidence in your capabilities.

4. Take the help and guidance both from your family members and friends, if necessary.

5. Remember that you are not inferior to any body; you are unique in this world.

Remember this golden word always:

‘’Never postpone a thing till tomorrow, what can be done today, as tomorrow is not ours.’’

Share your experiences due to postponement.

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