Suga SO Sweet

Why I will always adore a QUALITY Sugardaddy

2013-10-19T19:50:00.001-05:00

OMG. I have so much respect for the SD I have had for just over a year now!

During this year we have only seen each other maybe twice a month, but we have been on trips, with another scheduled for my bday.

We have also weathered a storm when his wife found out he was cheating. They have since reconciled and all is back to normal.

Its crazy, because with my only requirement of meeting twice a month, you would think I would have at least 5 other sugardaddies lined up to the point I would be a career sugarbaby. WELL, no. I have a lot of free time and I try to meet another SDs or at least DATE and it never seems to work out. Most of these scumbags just want something for nothing.

They are not like him at all. While, I shouldn't compare people....the fact is once you are used to being treated well you cannnot ever go back to the bullshit.

In short, he makes sure my bank account is on full before he even TRIES to come at me sexually.N the relationship is more than just sex. OMG how we have been on shopping sprees and amazing restaurants, him being a gentleman every step of the way. He treats me like his princess. We have a great relationship and have become good friends. He has given me so much advice in my personal life, he is like a "father figure" really.

Finding a SD of QUALITY is just hard, I feel fortunate to have one!!

recent BAD experiences:

One guy contacted me twice to meet for a 1st date. I agreed, and I did text him to say I'd forgot that there is a fee just to meet me. He replied that he wouldnt be able to do dinner, because his meeting would be running over, but that the fee is no problem, well worth it. ( YEAH RIGHT. I expect not hear from him again). SO GLAD I HAVE A FEE, it saves me so much time that would be wasted on a date.A week has gone by not one peep from this WANNABE SUGARDADDY. I'm quite sure he only planned to go on a date and try to bang me the 1st night. WAS NOT GONNA HAPPEN. lol.

Then, another one I was supposed to meet for lunch, well I got sick that week. Plus,the place he wanted me to meet is out by his job, a 20 drive for me. He got upset the 2nd time I had to cancel and havent heard back since. Which I was polite to even cancel in advance, I could have easily just left his ass hanging. I WAS SICK.

These guys are so annoying sometimes. With that said, I know the process is much worse, the reward is AMAZING once you find a guy of quality. I dont even know how half these women can even stand to be in relationships or married to these A-holes. I could NOT do it.

For now, I am holding on to the SD I have and still searching for another. :-)

BTW.I am leaning towards much older men.The older ones can be a handful too, but they are more laid back to me and respectful.
I dont like these young guys anymore AT ALL.

UPDATE: What a cammodel does/uses when she is on her period??

2013-10-18T19:24:00.002-05:00

I found a much better solution for webcam modeling while on your period. THIS HAS WORKED 100% for me. Also, this product can be used with other forms of sex besides masturbation. You can actually have SEX while wearing it. This product is: SOFTCUPS.

Here is a recent comment I left on a stripper/webcam model forum:

" SOFTCUPS do work. They are VERY awkward to insert when you 1st use them, but once you get the hang of them its easy....THEY WORK. My guy had no idea I had it in, however I had told him in advance. Which he kind of only half listened. lol. I needed them, because at the time my period was going a little long.....now fixed. Anyway, I wasn't about to miss out on any money! I even checked myself after completely, there was not 1 drip of blood to be found. I was so relieved.
They are more expensive than tampons, but worth every dollar.....around $9- $13 for a 14 cup pack. You also can wear them for a longer period than you can a tampon. AND I know it sounds crazy, but you can PEE with it still in wipe and go. Apparently, that's a whole different area. The cup is inserted pretty far back by your cervix. You can't feel it once inserted, wear for hours,and NO smell. The greatest little invention, you will forget you are on your period. LOL I love them so much, I sound like a infomercial. IDK why more women don't know about them.
You can buy them at any Walgreens, some Walmarts, or on Amazon."- BK (that's ME)

What a webcam model does while on her period?/ Humiliation

2013-06-21T02:31:00.000-05:00

YES. You can still webcam while on your period. There are a few different tricks that webcam models use. One is something to the effect of using a tampon and cutting off the string? I never tried that one. The other is using a black color dildo toy for shows ( for obvious reasons) and having lots of clean up stuff near you. NOW for myself I dont feel comfortable camming on my period, but all women are different. However, who wants to miss out on money for up to a week while waiting on their period to end? NO ONE. If I could end my period permanently, I WOULD.

SO the solution I use is to cam on your websites 'non-nude' area of their site. You can still make money (maybe not as much as nude) BUT you will still be generating income. Also, some women are primarily non-nude models and they know how to work the sweet/innocent role. I go into non-nude whenever I am straight up lazy, which has been lately.

Anyway, been doing the non-nude thing for about a week. Its interesting. A lot of guys will actually pay me to just watch them jerk off and chat. I mean I am literally on cam FULLY clothed getting paid to watch. I might have to chat a little and react, but thats it. Its not necessarily huge money, but its EXTRA.

I am new to this one particular non-nude site, so I am building regulars at this point, but I must say there is one that stands out in particular.- MR.LITTLE

He is 'Mr. Little' or 'Little Man' for exactly that reason- his penis is extremely LITTLE. Not only that, but when he comes in my room he just wants me to talk trash about how small his penis is, in a joking manner. Like drop jokes and then laugh at him. LOL. This turns him on until he cums. He also pretends like he has his cam off and then , I tell him it is ON.....he likes people to walk-in on him jerking off, apparently.

It's funny I NEVER considered myself as a Humiliation model. Men asked me in the past, but I didnt think I would be good at it. BUT I find myself REALLY laughing at my own small man jokes....I feel like such a bully -womp-

Its great. He usually will do a 30min- 1 hour private with me like everyday so far. He literally came searching for my room today and waited until I got out of another private. Certified REGULAR. Hopefully, I wont get bored of the site, because the big money rolls in when you have been with a site for like 6 months- a years . Its called being CONSISTENT,you have regulars that like your personality so much they come searching online for you daily or whenever you are scheduled. Imagine IF 6 or so months down the line IF I had 10-20 regulars like him checking for me daily. That can make a little part time 4 hour shift pay OFF.

People get off on the strangest things and this will make you EASY money. Some people would call this disgusting, I call it easy money.

Although I am new to this site, raised my rates today, a little. I saw my popularity is growing,AND I still got some privates. I wont push the envelope too much, but Im on the RISE.

2013-06-17T02:25:00.000-05:00

Back to webcamming

2013-06-16T18:32:00.003-05:00

I had been on a 2 year hiatus from webcamming and now I am back.

Things have been slow to start, that is expected. I have to rebuild regulars and plus we are in pretty good weather around the world. What happens when you leave the webcam pool is, your regulars find new and/or more webcam models to fill your position.
You are special only WHEN YOU ARE AROUND.
The sexual urges, lack of fun, and/or loneliness that the customer have still itches them whether you are there to fulfill those needs or not.

You leave, and their money goes too.

With that said, my break was good. As you know, I met and still have maintained a "relationship" with the SD that I have. OMG I was thinking the other night about the fact that it has been almost a year. Its the BEST, most gratifying relationship I've ever had. *chuckle* I know my situation grants tons more judgment than other relationships, but I can accept that. THIS IS WHERE I CURRENTLY AM IN LIFE. While most other women want a ring, kids, a house and picket fence......I just want fun,money, and then a regular break (my ME time) from a man. *shrugs* I encourage everyone to HAVE what THEY want to have in life.

Anyway, back to camming....in my current state I dont have a financial need to for camming. My finances are in order and I am comfortable, but I AM MOVING AGAIN VERY SOON. New state, new surroundings, new adventure in life. Im excited, but I am also aware of the economy and the fact that I may not find a job right away.....so webcamming which NEVER sleeps, is open 24/7,and ALWAYS hiring, IM BACK!!! :)

Still ON

2013-03-07T22:15:00.000-06:00

Its been foreer since I posted, it is amazing if anyone is even on here anymore.

So, me and Big Biz are still going STRONG, I would say stronger than strong. Things have only gotten better since we met in September.

For starters for X-Mas he bought me a pearl/diamond ring.
I asked for an iPad, but he said this last longer, and he is right. I ended up buying myself a tablet out of my allowance and I actually love it. I also get compliments on my ring everywhere I go! :)
He also gave me $3,000 just for whatever else I needed.

We have also raised my allowance after the 1st 3 months of us seeing one another.

On my birthday he made extra effort to come out and see me. This was nice, because we only see one another twice per month, which is our agreement. He did not give me any gifts on my birthday which was unlike him and a little disappointing. However, I knew we had a Florida trip planned for my birthMonth, but to me that is not really a gift and you will see why below......

so, last week we went to Florida to celebrate my birthMONTH. It was a working trip for him, because he went to seminars or whatever all day, which was fine by me. I chilled at the pool and had the rental car/cash. I went shopping it was fun. In the evening, we did go to some great restaurants and bars together. So, there was a GOOD balance. We never got tired of one another.

FINALLY, on our trip he surprised me, by sharing news that he will pay for my cosmetic surgery I have been wanting!!!!!!!! I asked him about it 3 months ago, which he said I pretty much could workout to fix what I want. I was very annoyed by this at the time, because I think I know my body. Some things are HEREDITARY, in your genes. Somethings exercise cant fix, its either live with it or get the surgery done.
I didnt beg or ask him after it anymore after that. I hardlt showed that I was annoyed at the time, but I am glad he didnt forget. I went to my consulatation today!!!

SO overall things have been great between us.

Sugarcane update

2012-11-04T18:03:00.001-06:00

So.....myself and my main SD finally went on our mini trip. It was a SUCCESS. We went shopping, he gave me my allowance, and he took me out to eat to a really classy restaurant downtown in the city we were in. Our trip was just amazing, since we were in a different city, he was much more relaxed than in our area. The chemistry was so STRONG. I can tell he was really happy. I feel so good that I was a part of that, because being as though we have been seeing one another for a few months, I know how stressful his work is (he owns a pretty large company after all). When we were out of town, he still was fully connected with his phone and everything, which did not bother me. I am understanding, if you are the BOSS, you probably never are really ever finished working. OH. And his wife called while we were out of town, which did not bother me.....naturally I was listening to his end. The conversation was so DRY. There was no excitement and he seemed deflated after they got off the phone. I am good for staying OUT of their relationship, because it just is none of my business. I KNOW what I agreed to and I refuse to dig....after all I dont want to break them apart and take him as my husband at all. I prefer what we have by far.

So, the Saturday after we return rolls around and I get a call from him. I was not expecting to hear from him on the weekend, so I hoped everything was ok. Well, it was more than OK. He said basically that he has really enjoyed our time together and wants to take it a step further. He told me to go ahead and look for an apartment, where we can see each other outside of hotels all the time. Also, he will up my allowance. YES! *throws confetti* . He mention this when we first met, but naturally the chemistry and everything needs to be there. This could not have come at a better time, because my neighbors have gotten on my nerves quite a bit lately. I will definitely keep my place (I have to), but at least I don't have to be there so much. I think I can at least move half of my clothes into the new place......he is going to furnish our place together and everything. :) An apartment only makes sense, because hotels are costly and add up to an apartment anyway.

AT LAST a decent SD who gets it!
I also mentioned to him some of the other goals I have by summer, but I dont expect him to deliver on them now......hopefully by summer though, I will have the rest of what I want.

Lunch as usual

2012-10-11T12:23:00.001-05:00

Lunch with Big Biz was nice. Oh, I'll be calling him Big Biz, because that's exactly what he has! So, lunch was a good, but a little uncomfortable. It was the restaurant, it wasnt really busy, so all eyes were coming back on us, I noticed. Which I dont care, but I know for him, its a different story. I did dress very conservatively, and tone down my usual makeup though. We looked like a usual lunch meeting. Then, we went to our room for private time. lol.

We also have quite a few hours, so that was relaxing. We both had to get back to work. He got straight to the money right after, and that was that. :) Which is perfect right before my weekend in Chicago. I am getting a new tattoo this weekend,I can't wait!

OH. I also did a more thorough background check on my SD. I did a light one after we first met. He has always come through on every allowance etc, so Ive been fine. However, it is always good to be a step ahead and make sure there are no serious red flags in his past, you just never know! So, stay a step ahead! He checked out on everything, I even know exactly where he lives now and everything....I would never use these things against him, nor will I let on that I know a lot about him. However, a man, any man can easily become an aggressor (being stronger) so its always good to be SAFE no matter how comfortable you feel. My check also showed that he has been being honest with me about what he does etc. He could easily lie to protect his better interest, but he trust me to a degree now I am sure. I have ALWAYS been great at making people feel comfortable with me. Its a gift or gab I have. lol. He's lucky too, I am a good person. Some people will blackmail the hell out of these wealthy men (no judgment).

However,I know MUCH more about him than he does about me. Thats how I like it.

Anyway, now I have to plan this overnight trip of ours. He has left whatever we do up to the Princess. lol.
We will also be picking out this full length gown he wants me to have in my life. If a dress is going to cost a thousand or more, I would rather have the money. However, I get the feeling this gown thing is connected to a fantasy of his, so I will go along with it. Plus, I can always let it go in the future. Dont get me wrong, I dont mind being upgraded AT ALL. Good thing I just signed up at the gym with a few weeks to go before my fitting. :)

Decision MADE

2012-10-09T21:32:00.000-05:00

Now that I have 1 great SD...I have decided.....Time to move forth and get another one. I cant get comfortable! You can never get comfortable, in nearly any situation.
No matter how great he is, the situation can end anyday.....there are so many different reasons to list, with that said, it's not for my to chance my extra finances on just one.

So, I will be blogging about my hunt for the next catch. SMDH. This is the part I dont like....weeding through all the fakes. I have faith tho. Faith that my experience in the sugar game has prepared me to make the bullshit easier. lol. Thats what my hold up has been. The HUNT is the part I wish I could bypass.

I would like one more SD for around about the same amount of time 2-3 days per month at the same allowance or more. Then, I am good (I think). I dont want to over do it.....as long as I have 2 very consistent SDs, Id be happy and on my way to achieving my financial goal a lot faster. With the things I have learned over the past years (off and on)....I think I know EXACTLY how to pick these fakes out.

ALRIGHT YALL, HUSTLER HARDER.

Hope yall are gettin to this money as well! :)

Still Smiling hard

2012-10-08T13:45:00.000-05:00

Just checking in. I got off the phone with my sugar daddy, planning our date this week. I am smiling so hard right now, not only because of the money, but just because I FINALLY have such a good sugar daddy in my life who is REAL and classy. OMG. In the past when I thought they were, I was so WRONG. This man makes them all seem like fakes. This has been a long time coming too. Trust me, I paid my DUES in this sugar world.

I am looking forward to meeting this week. I haven't seen him in almost 2 weeks, which is to be expected, because our arrangement is only for 2-3 times per month. I do not see him on weekends, which works for me....I am left with all my free time for family and friends...or to date. Which, I would like to look for another SD, since this one leaves me with so much free social time, but I dont know yet. I know from a hustle stand point, it would be wise to double or triple up,I will hit one of my goals much faster.

Anyway, I look forward to seeing my SD and I can tell he does too. Whenever we talk/text Im always left feeling even better about myself! I have a really good self-esteem, but he likes to treat me like a princess. His words are always kind and he is always giving so many compliments.....what a change compared to the last man I seriously dated. I mean, although he was not a SD, there is a HUGE difference in all around treatment. You can just tell when someone is happy and positive in their own life....it just shines through in all that they do!
I want to remain positive, so thats all that will allow in my life from here on out! Why shouldn't things be positive and drama-free? Makes me wonder what is seriously wrong with a lot of people? WHATEVER. Who cares.

I did mention to him that I am traveling to the big city next to ours this weekend in addition to going there with him later this month. Hopefully, he catches the hint. lol. He is a great gift giver outside of cash.....always gifts cards. I like that, I can just go and get what I like. The fun part is shopping, and he knows that about me.Lunch would be even better if he dropped a nice big gift card on me.:) He's no fool, so Im sure he caught it.

He asked me if there was anything else I needed outside of cash. I totally forgot that part of our mutually beneficial agreement. He owns a huge company and is willing to help me professionally if needed.I'll have to think about it. That's another thing I like about him, he is so thorough. He doesn't miss a beat. He doesn't treat me like I am just there for his sexual needs, which obviously are few and far between anyway. That is another difference between the real sugar daddies and the fake ones! Right now I am all smiles, because personally my life is GOOD.

OH, and I just signed up for a gym membership with my sister. We start this Friday. I am excited to be working out again. I am not overweight, but would like to lose 10 lbs and tone up.
Being a SB and maintaining your look obviously go hand in hand. Looking good naked doesn't hurt the pockets at all....it actually helps them. hehe.

Still Smiling

2012-10-08T13:28:00.001-05:00

Here we go....here we go AGAIN

2012-10-04T01:12:00.000-05:00

SOooooo I had a really great blog about 'TIME' and how you should'nt waste it. Easy. Well, I save it and when I went to post it- DISAPPEARED. Blah. Welp. Shit happens. Lol.
The Investor and I have still been in limited contact as I explained in my previous blog, but now he wants to step it up again. We will see. I can't make this stuff up! I guess pulling away gets you some results. We'll see what those results are. So stay tuned!

Then, today while out tending to my snow removal.... My neighbor who lives across the street came up and spoke to me. Wow. This took him MONTHS. I mean, even his homeboys would try to holla at me in the summer (which I never gave any of them my number) ,but he would always just send me a friendly smile and wave. I also would notice him watching me if he was just chilling outside,he's actually pretty handsome. Long story made short....he came over and introduced himself. He made it very obvious that he had been watching me and it was not just in my mind. I knew because he asked me a few leading questions about myself. Heck, I had to ask him if he knew my SSN too?! Haha. I was a little reluctant, because we live across the street from one another, but I took his business card. *exhales* I have decided to take it EXTRA SUPER slow with him and build on a friendship 1st. Which I guess normal people do anyway, but not me being a SugarBabe. I try to get to the money/gifts (of course making my SD feel GREAT too) *smile* I did get to ask him about the additional vehicle he has, which he told me he got for his 19 year old daughter (YES! NO little 1s). I had been doing a little watching of my own...Ha! Anyway, to be continued on him too. The neighbor part is kinda turning me off. I'm also glad I never gave any of his friends my number ( making me possibly off limits to him). *whew* I was wondering! Guess I assumed he had a woman. He even pointed out that he noticed my EX moving out a ways back n even knew he drove a BMW. Wow. A little stalkerish?or the MF is concise. I'll give him that!
He on the other hand is rollin a Mercedes which he claims he's gonna give his daughter next. All I know is, you wanna STUNT I'm not listening until you offer me something. Also, if you talk it, u better walk it!
Friendship 1st. I'll keep u posted.
Hope u Babes are doing better than I am. I need some new sugar- like straight off the sugar cane! Lol. I'm patient though. At least I'm still MEETING men. I just need the correct 1 or 2 or 5. Lol. I'm so extra tonight yall. Don't mine me. :))
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2012-10-02T23:11:00.000-05:00

I had NO idea

2012-10-02T22:09:00.001-05:00

Wow.....I was bored today so I hopped on blogger and saw that my page has had nearly 7000 views!! That may not be much for you,but to me its a lot......I havent posted in forever. I used to have none.

Well, since Im here, I might as well update you.

A lot has gone down,but Ill jus give you latest n greatest.

1st of all I went on Facebook to check (stalk) this guy I had been dating (not a SD just serious). I know thats a no no and trust I found all I was looking for and more. JOKES on me for once again trying to have something traditional!!! If you check be ready for what you see n find!! Smgdh!

Anyway, my FB stay deactivated so when I logged on old friends were hitting me up left and right. One being a guy I used to date (fuck YEARS ago). ....long story short he had found THIS blog connected to my email (embarassing as shit) and read it!!!! Thats a whole lot of personal info. Im still not sold that it was thru my email cause if so WHY hasnt my own mama seen my blog???? Shes im my conacts too. (He dug) Anyway....someone from my real life found out about my sugar life. I guess I could care less since there is no future there anymore with him ...but he sure wanted an explanation
*waves if he is still reading* Im not changing for NOBODY.

Also. NEW Sugar. So, yeah I took a break from the sugar life ,because I had met someone special (or so I thought). Well, he fucked up and at a sad point I checked my Ashley Madison acct. There was a lot of action,but as you may know Ashley Madison caters to primarily hookups before sugar, BUT my profile is very clear on SUGAR. Anyway like 2 guys really stuck out from all the other emails and from those, 1 who was really getting to that PAPER in convos. We had a few brief pretty good phone convos and agreed to meet.

Our meeting was crazy,because I was really OFF my former sugar game....I never saw a pic of him AND forgot to request money for the 1st date meet!!! Who does dat?
(I was so emotional off that last guy smh)

Anyway, THE DATE... I went hard. I had on some sky high heels, face beat to def, weave on POINT,lashes bussing, and some curve hugging leggins. I had to give it to mu damn self... HOT .Lmbo. I was beyond sexy. We met and he was kind of short, older, but pretty good shape for his age.

The convo was great, we drank wine, ate, and laughed. I was sooooo relieved he wasnt all creepy. Which Im sure if I planned the date to def he would have been...they always are! So, mid date he says he has something for me.....He reaches in his jacket and pulls out a small Vicky Secret box. I open and its a gift card with the sweetest message basically thanking me for a wonderful night....but YES it was the middle of the date, so obviously he was feeling me. He told me how he gave it to me early and said I was a perfect 10.

I thanked him and gave that perfect response- all surprised and happy ....So funny cause was I had just been thinking of how I wanted some more PINK stuff!

Immmediately after gift, he wanted to talk numbers. That was good, I made it very clear I dont need so many gifts. I have so much already...I need cash. He asked how much of an allowance I wanted. I dropped a number higher than my actual number....He negotiated a little lower (Which landed me at my actual number anyway! hehe ). We agreed on it. He then put it out there that we should talk about making it higher later if we click AND that he might want to get a side apartment for us as well in the future ...so we dont have to do hotels- stocked with all my favorite things of course. Omg thats when it clicked in my own head this guy wants more than a sb, he wants a serious longer term mistress. He really seems like he had thought and planned or was just experienced so as a sd.

Fast forward to today....he is the real deal. He has come through on everything he's ever offered me. He overpays without thinking twice. He is always on time and he always treats me like a princess. Hes kind and intelligent. I could not have found a better SD, nor had I. I hold up to my end as well...being drama free, staying out of his personal life, and just being all around positive. We are taking a small trip soon and I cannot wait...a different city where we can enjoy each other more freely. He wants to take in a dinner and show where I need a full length GOWN ( not pajamas either lol). How posh is that. Im in a fairytale right now....I dont want this book to end.

Whats crazy is its all by ACCIDENT. I was not on a serious SD hunt, I was vulnerable and just needed some appreciation. Maybe our need for what we both felt we were missing brought us together.

Ohhhh and the other guy, still sniffing around. Im hardly interested though.

QUESTION

2011-12-21T13:28:00.000-06:00

Why are some people always trying to recruit you to do what THEY are doing in life or THEY feel is right?
Is it possible that you could be happy and have already well thoughtout your actions for YOURSELF? Just a thought. :))

Im actually proud of the blondie for pretty much being like, "whatever, doing me." lol She doesnt care and wont be moved! hahahah. :))

Here is my point. Someone who talks about Sugarbabes ALSO never dates regular or broke guys, but labels it "love".

JUSSAYIN ;)

The young one is dead...

2011-12-19T15:32:00.001-06:00

apparently.lol.I had contacted Youngin not long after my being pissy about being short changed. He actually agreed with my points and even said it made sense because of my having to travel.smdh. I havent heard from him since. I dont care either. I refuse to drank pickle juice!!
I have been webcamming again ...no travel expenses. I also work. Im so focused on my goals right now. If the camming supplements as extra, I wont be bothering with any SDs.
At the end if the day thats all its about fulfilling goals for me.
AW,picked up for me in major way, but I doubt I will bother with any sites. Camming is straight to the point- money for a show, minus the side SHENANIGANS.
I am excited about my goals. I'm trying to stay focused, but if you want something bad enough make happen. :)) I AM.

Watch your FILTERS ladies.

2011-12-12T22:07:00.000-06:00

I am on not so many dating sites anymore, only about 2.

One is a sugar site and the other is not. Well, on the one that's not.....I have a filter set for men who are only 35 years old and older. WELL, jokes on me lol because I checked my filter mail on random today and a pro ball player had hit me up....about 2 weeks ago.smdh he is clearly under 35 years old. CAN I PLEASE GET OUT OF MY OWN WAY, LATELY? I don't love the athletes, I prefer their boss. BUT a athlete would do too.

Did I mention he is sexy? LOL.

Ladies...DO NOT FILTER YOUR MAIL on sites even if its (he's) not exactly what you are looking for. I prefer older men, because they tend to more established...BUT there are exceptions. So, don t filter your mail, just delete the losers.

I am on a new path.btw. Life is short, I say this ALL the time, but it's time to put that idea in motion more than ever before.

SugarBabe Evelyn Lozada celebrates birthday

2011-12-11T23:52:00.000-06:00

Whooooooa check her out. Basketball Wives reality star Evelyn Lozada celebrated her 35th birthday yesterday and lookie at what her fiance Chad OchoCinco got her. POW! Maserati + an Hermes bag which she kindly tweeted for all the haters to see.

LOVE IT! Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen, HOWEVER, it is on her to see her own worth and then accept nothing less.

Some people dont like her, but I LOVE how Evelyn DOES HER. Im not mad at that.
I dont even want to post her engagement ring. lol. WHEW (fans self).

VENTING : REGULARS can hang it up....FLATSCREEN

2011-12-11T01:54:00.000-06:00

I dont know if any other SugarBABES have felt this way........BUT

I went on a date with a "regular guy" this evening and I suppose he thought he should receive some poo poo cause he paid for a meal. LOL. LOL. like fo real?

I guess that is the problem with sugar dating. In sugar dating, you are dealing with men on a whole different level. A 1st date usually means the usual + first date money. smh. I AM SPOILED apparently. I forgot what it is like to date a "regular guy". Are girls still fucking on 1st dates? LOL. Like for a meal?

Anyway, we went out to eat. The date was pretty much lame and he thought he was gonna have sex with me for nothing.
What I learned from this experience:

I cannot date " regular guys" anymore. smh. It wont work. I guess I have been in the sugar bowl for so long, I forgot how DESPICABLE it can be to date regular men, just my opinion.( I REALIZE IT IS DESPICABLE, because I HAVE BEEN PAID FOR DATES....regular women outside the sugar bowl wont get it either) smh. Call me heartless, call me a bitch. BUT dating a regular guy once again made me feel powerless!!! He actually expects you to give a fuck and what he thinks of you. I just dont. I pity chicks in search of love nowadays, I really do. Some of these assholes, correction - MOST of these assholes- want you to give something for nothing. I CANT, WONT.

I have just come to realize that I am cut from a different cloth.....I need to embrace that...accept that everyone is not the same. I BELIEVE AT THIS POINT I WILL NEVER ACCEPT WHAT OTHER basic CHICKS DO..... WHAT HAS BECOME SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE. That is women giving so much of themselve to get a ring and the man picking and choosing like he a BOSS, when in reality, she gets the shit end of the stick, because she should be the one picking and choosing between men.

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THIS GUY WONT HEAR FROM ME AGAIN.....FOR WHAT? WE WANT DIFFERENT THINGS. HE WANTS A WOMAN TO GIVE HERSELF FOR HIS ACCEPTANCE ( IE SEX FOR NOTHING) WHEN I ON THE OTHER HAND KNOW AT THIS POINT THAT PUSSY HAS WORTH.
I am leaving these regulars for the birds and I am ONLY on sugar from here on out. I like a man who knows what he wants and is willing to give what it takes to get it. Call the lifestyle what you want, but if I get fucked in a sugar situation, at least I dont feel literally screwed. At least the next day I could pay some bills or whatever, if I never hear from the man again, so what...I got mine. In a regular situation, you could possibly never hear from the loser again,THEN, how do you feel? ONLY Like you only got a meal, WHICH you could have paid for yourself btw.....I KNOW I said BALANCE, but I guess my Blanaced time will be spent with female friends and NOT with these regular men.

I shared with my little sister how much money a SD gave me and she was blown away. The reason I was telling her was because she was talking about her EX and their potential to get back together. She has seen how I run to the mall whenever and only work part-time tho. I understand my sister is a bit younger than me. I just was telling her, because I wanted her to realize there are other options out here.DONT WASTE YOUR TIME UNLESS THE MAN IS WORTHY! HOWEVER, I think she will swing back to her EX. It all boils down to....I am older, and therefore more experienced. The fairy tale still exists for her. I wont kill that joy for her, but I think logically- based on my experience. Dont get me wrong, THERE ARE SOME GOOD MEN OUT HERE, but know that they are rare indeed. Very rare.

REGULARS....Hang it up......FLATSCREEN

2011-12-11T01:34:00.001-06:00

I dont know if any other Sugar feels this way, but I went on a date with a "regular guy" this evening and I suppose he thought he should receive some poo poo cause he paid for a meal. LOL. LOL. like fo real?

I guess that is the problem with sugar dating. In sugar dating, you are dealing with men on a whole different level. A 1st date usually means the usual + first date money. smh. I AM SPOILED apparently. I forgot what it is like to date a "regular guy". Are girls still fucking on 1st dates? LOL. Like for a meal?

Anyway, we went out to eat. The date was pretty much lame and he thought he was gonna have sex with me for nothing.
What I learned from this experience:

I cannot date " regular guys" anymore. smh. It wont work. I guess I have been in the sugar bowl for so long, I forgot how DESPICABLE it is to date regular men, just my opinion. smh. Call me heartless, call me a bitch. BUT dating a regular guy once again made me feel powerless. He actually expects you to give a fuck. I just dont. I pity chicks in search of love nowadays, I really do. These assholes want you to give something for nothing. I CANT, WONT.

I have just come to realize that I am cut from a different cloth.....I need to embrace that...accept that everyone is not the same. I BELIEVE AT THIS POINT I WILL NEVER ACCEPT WHAT OTHER CHICKS DO..... WHAT HAS BECOME SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE.

THIS GUY WONT HEAR FROM ME AGAIN.....FOR WHAT. WE WANT DIFFERENT THINGS. HE WANTS A WOMAN TO

This is it...tick tock tick tock tick la la la la la la la!

2011-12-09T10:56:00.001-06:00

What you waitin what you waitin what you waitin what you waiting foorrr?!!! Tick tock tick tock tick tock tick tock ( take a chance you stupid hoe) -Gwen Stefani
Lol
Happy Friday!!!
Tomorrow is the deadline for the blog, then,I dont know what them otha chicks gone do. Lol.
So, get your invite IN ,boo boo. *wink*
Thank you Thank you Thank YOU for all the invites thus far.
Once again, email me for adds to: Mssbella@yahoo.com
Tomorrow a regular guy friend of mine is coming to my city to take me out. What am I doing? Yeah,I know...gettin a free meal and dranks.lol. I need relaxation time too. The sugar bowl can do you in,if you let it...straight burnt. BALANCE is needed.

I blame Me. However,I. refuse. to. EVER. drank. PICKLE JUICE.

2011-12-06T16:50:00.001-06:00

Yesterday, Youngin contacted me for an emergency meet....as in he was stressed from work and wanted my company. Although, we were set to meet Wednesday, I agreed. We had a great time. However, in the morning he gave me cash for our visit and its a nice amount,but not enough for me considering the fact that I have to travel a little distance to see him. I was annoyed and it was visible. I have a ego and always think I deserve more....Im sure my addy was dually noted too (add to that Im not a morning person at all). Smh. So who knows what will happen now. I blame myself tho,because the 1st date money was more than this time....so I guess I assumed it would be the same. Silly ME. I know to discuss these things, never assume. Im a lil ridiculous at times ,I admit. I hold myself to a high standard,probably higher than most. Other women would be happy to receive it. No telling what he was paying his last SB.(doesnt matter) However, my fault or not....when and if we talk again, he will need to up my allowance or its a wrap for him. The snow is coming...it will take a lot out of me to even drive to him. He has to see how considerate and willing I am to bend for his schedule. I drive to him for the money...Point. Blank. Period. We will see. So hard to find a good SD in my city. If he lived here it would be the perfect amount,but I must consider my travel expenses cause its not free any way you look at it.

"...HAD I ACCEPTED THE PICKLE JUICE....I WOULD BE DRANKING PICKLE JUICE RIGHT NOW."
- NICKI MINAJ
YOU DONT HAVE TO LIKE NICKI'S MUSIC, BUT YOU GOTTA RESPECT WHAT SHE SAID. TRUE SPEAK.

Great Response + more Sugar

2011-12-04T15:20:00.000-06:00

Heeeeeyyyyy!!! *arms in the air,booty shake*
The response from you all has been GREAT. I plan to go private by the end of this week, so look for those invites a little later....and AGAIN email Mssbella@yahoo.com ,Dolls.

Im so happy a lot of you will be on board!
I plan to let a whole lot of JUICE out on the private blog....so BUCKLE DOWN, IM NOT TRYNA PLAY AROUND! lol!!

NOW as for Youngin, he contacted me to get together again this week. Im glad so far he is liking me.
He had asked to be my SD during our past phone conversations ( before our actual meet) and I only responded that I needed to decide. He in turn told me, " YEAH, I AM YOUR SD." lol. I thought it was cute...he's confident. Confidence is so sexy to me. BUT I didn't think ANYTHING of it, because I dont believe what you say, I go by what you DO.

Guess he did have real intentions of showing and proving.....
As always, I'll update you. ;)

Hope all your weekends are GREAT.

OH I FORGOT--- come to the other side my pretties (witch voice) lol

2011-12-03T00:19:00.000-06:00

OH. I forgot...lol This blog is going underground. Please email Mssbella@yahoo.com...blog is going to be put on private to protect the privacy of people I deal with. It's too easy to Google nowadays. In other words this blog could be much better if I could more openly share more.

Im gonna leave this post up for a while. I know I have been on n off n off n on....you probably have hung me up. lol. BUT once you see this-

SEND YOUR EMAILS + name TO Mssbella@yahoo.com ONLY...I will be sending invites soon. :)

"My name ring bells Bitch buzz me in." - Nicki Minaj......dont worry Dolls if I recognize you from previous comments, You're IN.

STAND THE FUCK UP

2011-12-02T23:25:00.000-06:00

UGH. Does this even need to be said??????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People judge, judge, judge, and judge some more.

Your a gold digger, your a whore, your a hoe, your a slut, your a homewrecker, your dirty, BITCH, HOE, etc. .... and the list goes on of what is handed to WOMEN for being

SUGARBABES, STRIPPERS, ESCORTS,WEBCAM "MODELS" and best of all, which sums it all up is - OPPORTUNISTS.

If you are a woman who is smart enough to be about yours and living your OWN damn life in and outside your own box...stand the FUCK UP. I salute yall, all yall. You ,rather, WE are doing what these other hoes fail to do......

This is not to say that I have anything against "legit" wives and girlfriends. Which by the way....I know women who wear a few hats as being -strippers AND mothers. OR Sugarbabes AND someone's girlfriend, for example.

What this post is all about is the fact that women get judged and the men do not by society. AND women add to this themselves by trash talking other woemen. Im so over it. Cant people just live? Not that ANYONE walking the planet earth is innocent. smh.
At the end of the day you have to live your own life. I know I sure don't have the time to decide, judge, or contemplate the actions of others, yet so many other people do. ( Trust me I deleted my Facebook page long ago *no shade, BUT*....I DONT HAVE TIME)

So, let me get this straight society....it's OKAY for a woman (for example) to hit the club every night and fuck every so called "baller" in sight FOR FREE mostly, oh, BUT she's just your favorite party girl? BUT let the next woman do the same and get paid? OH , shes WRONG and a whore? So, she paid her bills/added to savings or whatever, mean while the party girl is begging her family to borrow money for her car note, because she spent all her check on hair, fit, and nails for the club??? HMMMMMmmmm. *side eye*

GUD LUCK.

Im just saying, judge the MEN as well who solicit the sex, who tip the strippers, and who fill the bank accounts and shopping carts of sugarbabes......THEN I might accept negativity. Nope. I wont even then. lol.

TAKE CARE MY BABES. AND IF YOU EVER NEED A FRIEND....YOU HAVE ONE IN ME.

Please don't ever feel bad about your life because of what other people think...ONLY FEEL bad IF YOU and only you have searched inside your morals in your OWN heart and feel bad. Other than that fuck these Bitches (male and female).Trust. I mean that in the most positive way possible. ;)