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If it is meant to be, it will

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 16:42:00 +0000

When it's meant to be, it will.

So, this is pretty funny.

He told me that he was captivated when he saw a stranger (yeah 'fcourse it's me, people, who else ?) circa 2004 in an eating place, and got all curious. Then few weeks afterwards I was accidentally stumbled to his clothing store and got my phone number stolen (by him).

And it all started with a short message, and a long chat on Yahoo! Messenger, but it still can't put us in a relationship. I don't know why, even when he was actually just a few steps away near by my house we both never really met each other.

Then to make this post short, we met again in such condition where he was engaged and I was ready to go and live abroad. None would think of that in such situation we'd finally be in a relationship-- but apparently, we are.

And here we are today. Enjoying our long-lost love story, building dreams, planning future.

But one thing to believe in, if it's meant to be, it will. You probably would have to went through a few wrong person to be finally meet the right ones.

Trust me.

*Oh, coolness. I summarize our F-damn long stories in just few lines. I believe this is one of my hidden talent. But I've promised myself, I'm gonna write the whole long story one day (which is apparently not today. :p)*

Holy Holiday !

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 15:26:00 +0000

Not my first time to Kuching. But my holiday this time is the most memorable one, since I went there with him. *blush*.

I'm just like most girls when it came to shopping. So he just patiently sit and wait for me, and all he got was a painful leg. :3

And due to I'm too lazy to write, so I just posted picture as above. :p

Online Dating Website Review

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 16:39:00 +0000

Do you know that there are tens of thousands of marriages that occur as a result of people meeting from an online dating service every year ?

Online dating is a competitive industry and in order to improve your results, it's vital to enhance your presence. There are many online dating website nowadays. And today 2 best dating website reviewed. Match.com and Eharmony.com

Who doesn’t know Match.com, the biggest online dating website. Here’s some short match.com review.

Match.com has one of great features like having the ability to do a keyword search to find specific information in people's profiles. This is like having a search engine to assist you in finding your loved one. In addition, Match.com is one of the largest online dating sites with nearly 15 million members, so you will find plenty of people to choose from here.

Here’s also a short Eharmony review. Who doesn’t know Eharmony.com; a very popular matchmaking site for heterosexuals looking for long term relationships. The website is using a compatibility system they've created on their own, which in turn is based on numerous scientific studies about love, relationships and compatibility.

If you are going to try the online dating website, make sure you know some tips. First you have to determine which is the best for you, then build your best profile. Make sure that the profile you build is positive and fun. Then after that you can manage to take some pretty decent photographs for your online profile. And the most important is avoid married people. You know, 1/4th of people who participate in online dating are married. So make sure you first identify their relationship status to avoid problems in the future.

Until then, online dating can be fun to do. Just give it a try and good luck !

After Midnight

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 16:32:00 +0000

So, today. Right 2 years ago I was with him on his motorbike.
It was 11 in the midnight, and cold.

We both went around the town, and all I remember was the warmth of his hand on mine and our good laughs. :’)

And guess the video from him above quite represents that night. :D

Blink 182 - Up All Night Official Video

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 16:32:00 +0000

So this is Blink 182's Up All Night official Video. I finally see Travis Barker with his badass drum again. Coolness defined.

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 05 Aug 2011 16:16:00 +0000

Blink-182 unveiled a new album track online. They’ve debuted new song 'Heart's All Gone', following the online release of lead-off single 'Up All Night' which is taken from their upcoming album Neighbourhoods, the follow-up to 2003's self-titled effort. The album will be released on September 27.

'Heart's All Gone' is more in the vein of the pop punk trio's earlier material, with the drums and guitar riffs played at a much faster pace, similar to the band's work on third album 'Enema Of The State'

Taking Back Sunday - Taking Back Sunday (2011)

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 10:01:00 +0000

Taking Back Sunday‘s new self-titled album was released on June 28th. This album definitely has the Taking Back Sunday sound, whereas their last album lost a bit of that. I was expecting 'Taking Back Sunday' to be a disappointment however it turns out to be a thorough rock record with a strong sense of consistency with numerous highlights.

The opening track is full of energetic emotion with screaming vocals which quite reminds me of Brand New. Taking Back Sunday was always divisive, given that its lyrical quality was never too poetic. The band’s newfound sense of energy isn’t exerted through searing riffs or coarse screams. On their self-titled fifth LP, that passion is poured straight into the songwriting, which is more memorable and consistently catchy than it has ever been.

Their most tracks seem to stand at odds with the old and new sound, there are some that actually get it right without little friction. The band also blends some soft, melodic verses and keyboard solos with shouting choruses in tracks.

In short, this is a great CD to throw on when you're looking for something to blast and sing along to on a summer road trip or on your way down the shore. Kudos to Taking Back Sunday for not taking the easy way out. They've created an exciting, challenging album that feels like a new beginning and a culmination of prior work all at once.

We The Kings - Sunshine State of Mind

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 08:27:00 +0000

WE THE KINGS just released their third studio album 'Sunshine State Of Mind' on July 12th.

Sunshine State of Mind is more about summer love. All the songs are lovestruck and summer-lovey. This is very much a different band to the one who took us to 'Skyway Avenue' and pleaded with us to 'Stay Young'.

Here are the list of their track on Sunshine State of Mind :

01) Friday is Forever
02) Say You Like Me
03) Every Single Dollar
04) The View From Here
05) The Secret to New York
06) Sleep With Me
07) Over You
08) Kiss Me Last
09) Somebody to Call My Own
10) You and Only You

With the opening two tracks both beginning with acoustic guitar, it also confirms that all notions of We The Kings being a pop-punk band have been dispensed with.

The catchiest chorus on the record, 'Say You Like Me' contains a light, airy vibe that hints at the type of reggae-tinged pop. It got a beachy, summer playlist feel to it.

We The Kings' 'Smile Kid' was sure a sign of the quartet's decline, even that album was able to satisfy by consistently delivering upbeat hooks and catchy choruses. But 'Sunshine State of Mind' has no such luck however, with very little sticking in the mind at all. But after all, Travis Clark still have the effortless charming vocals. It makes this album is still worth to have for. What do you think ?

Stylish and affordable glasses from Zenni Optical

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Wed, 29 Jun 2011 07:22:00 +0000

$6.95 prescription eyeglasses

Independence Day, Fourth of July, is right around the corner and that means picnics, BBQ’s, outdoor activities and most importantly, fireworks! Why not light up your holidays with fashion glasses? You can see the fireworks better and protect your eyes with new glasses from Zenni Optical. ZenniOptical provides you a holiday themed frames for you to wear. Especially on this Independence Day.

Why you should choose ZenniOptical ? ZenniOptical is the #1 online eyeglasses store offering high quality prescription eyeglasses from $6.95. ZenniOptical feels prescription eyeglasses are a health item necessity for most wearers, and to that end they take considerable pride in offering a very high quality eyeglasses on line at truly unheard of affordable prices. So, why don't you get one ?

Plain White T's New Video "Boomerang"

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 18:26:00 +0000

Fresh off of their US tour, pop-rockers Plain White T's premiere the video for their new single 'Boomerang.'

The catchy jam about not being able to resist coming back to the one that threw you away is Plain White T's second single from their sixth studio album 'Wonders of the Younger'.

Amidst colorful confetti, balloons and jerky stop-motion footage the band takes a lighthearted approach to being jerked around by a lover. "You pull me in close/ You throw me away/ I keep coming back like a boomerang/ You tell me to go/ You beg me to stay/ I keep coming back like a boomerang," frontman Tom Higgenson sings as he spins around on a revolving stage.

Source : http://blog.music.aol.com/2011/04/13/plain-white-ts-boomerang-video/

Friday is Forever - We The Kings

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 08 Apr 2011 18:10:00 +0000

We The Kings just released their brand-new single, 'Friday Is Forever,' from their as-yet-untitled fourth album next week, but you got a hold of the track four days early for you to listen to on AOL music blog.

The uplifting, sunny, feel-good tune is all about living and loving in the moment. "'Friday Is Forever' captures everything that our fans have loved about WTK -- catchy melodies, upbeat music, and sing-a-long lyrics,"

According to Clark, the new single is a well-rounded representation of the the band. "'Friday Is Forever' captures everything that our fans have loved about WTK ... catchy melodies, upbeat music, and sing-a-long lyrics," he says.

The song will be featured on We the Kings' as-yet-untitled third album. On Wednesday, Travis posted a video on YouTube, telling fans that the record would be due out this summer.

'Friday Is Forever' will be available on iTunes on April 12, but you can listen to it below. Are you into the new song? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

Have you heard their new song ? What do you think ?

Rebecca Black - Friday

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 25 Mar 2011 14:11:00 +0000

So that is Rebecca Black's video titled 'Friday' . Her name has been trending worldwide on Twitter's for quite a long time. She's is an amateur YouTube musician who soared into the public eye for her music video “Friday.” The song gained significant online notoriety in March 2011 for its monotonous lyrics accompanied by heavy use of auto-tune.

Many Twitter users were tweeted about her videos; they're more likely to tweet about her weird voice apparently -- like :

- "Dear Rebecca Black. I now hate Fridays."

- "I think Rebecca Black must have some illness so the Make A Wish Foundation granted her wish of being a pop singer before she gets too sick.

I just watched her video and I didn't find anything's wrong there. I guess the negative media coverage were just a part of her publicity. What do you think ?

Kids Laundry Bag

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 18 Mar 2011 18:01:00 +0000

Trying to find a bag for your kids ? I bet you'll love the Mint Laundry Bags from Posy Lane. The laundry bags are created with Mint’s signature fabrics and colorful border designs. You can simply match the laundry bag with a coordinated bath towel wrap or duffle bag for a great gift set.

For more choice take a look at the Stephen Joseph quilted backpacks. These adorable Stephen Joseph quilted backpacks are great for toddlers! Made from 100% quilted cotton, they are machine washable and durable. Stephen Joseph quilted backpacks are ideal for sending your toddler to day care, kindergarten, preschool, dance class, or pre-school, or for use as small diaper bags.

And for additional info, if you're interested to purchase a service for lawn mowing and yard maintenance, Dallas Landscaping is the best choice you can pick. Dallas Sod and Landscaping is a full-service landscaping company in Dallas, Texas, with an experienced and knowledgeable staff, including a Certified Horticulturist with 25 years of experience.

How to Overcome Fear and Learning to Trust

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 20:26:00 +0000

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Do you have hard times trusting people or in this case your boyfriend/girlfriend ? Do you feel like you want to trust them but you can't because of the fear that the people you trust someday would betray you ? Well, you are not alone.

Our mind is an incredible source that grow with every passing second in time. Every function and movement we assume, passes through our mind. From our comfort zone, our human mind and understanding makes us construct a defense against betrayal and defection from the norm. Once our trust is broken we take our steps with heightened awareness.

Trust means the 'firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability or strength of someone or something. And it is clear that trust is not happen overnight. Trust is something gained. It needs reliability, and consistency to build trust. If they, for example, consistently show us their love by telling us in words or actions, spend regular time with us, give us gifts or write love notes, we create a trust in its continuation. If, for whatever reason, this expression of love suddenly changes or stops altogether, we start to wonder and question the partner as to what is happening.

In order to enhance and deepen your relationship trust needs to be nurtured. Trust is obviously the most important key to a healthy relationships. If one of the couple is having trouble in trusting their partner because of real or even perceived reasons, there is going to be trouble. When it comes to our loved ones we need to earn that trust and respect by being as honest as we can.

Try to communicate everything with your partner. If the two of you can talk over things then problems will be resolved. You should be able to discuss any issues with them without being ridiculed or put down. If you have suspicions about something your partner is doing, just try to communicate everything with him/her. Do not come out and blame them without good proof. Keep in mind that good relationships are built on trust.

Trusting is another form of giving love, and like all giving, it comes from overflow. A person can hardly give from emptiness. We are happier when we deliberately choose to trust. Trust is a risk to take willingly because it makes people move toward love and away from fear.

Trust men and they will be true to you; treat them greatly and they will show themselves great. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

How to Fix a Broken Friendship

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 13:41:00 +0000

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What's more painful than a broken friendship ? It's hard to contemplate how you can break a friendship that goes back a long way. A broken relationship may cause different effects on a person. Years passes and the people who were once friends won't even think about what happened to cause the rift.

Mending a broken friendship is not that easy. The hurt is not easy to let go. But the key of mending a broken friendship is: be the first to talk to your ex-best friend. Go to them. Make the first move. Raise the white flag first. Be willing to apologize even if the problem isn't your fault. The friendship is larger than who is at fault. Simply by apologizing, you can fix years of misunderstanding. In other cases, you may need to just make a friendly action. This alone can show you still care.

After apologizing, be willing to take your time in rebuilding trust. Giving trust time to heal is something which you must do when trust has been violated. Sometimes discussing about what happened is needed, if there was some kind of offense; find a way to deal with it before it takes place again. It is also important not to get into an argument as this will only worsen the relationship.

Rebuilding a broken friendship takes time and care. Talk to her about the good times you had the bad times when you helped each other. Tell her how difficult it would be for you to go it alone after having her beside you all this time. The healing might take time; but your broken friendship will be mended because you cannot afford to keep it broken forever.

Those are the essential keys to heal a broken friendship, now you can find the person in your life who you want to mend things with and work on putting the pieces back together. When you do, you will find the friendship to be stronger than ever.

What Women Want in a Relationship

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 25 Feb 2011 20:15:00 +0000

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It is generally known that a woman's mind is a complicated jungle and it's hard to decode. This is because guys get aroused through physical simulation, while girls get aroused through mental simulation. Therefore, to make girls fall in love with you, you need to appeal to her overall emotions.

Learning how to deal with women often become a mystery for men, that is because men rarely really try to find out what women really want. Most men think that women want a man who gives them everything they want. Compliments -- telling how beautiful they are, how sexy they look like, agreeing with all their opinions, buying them fancy things. These behaviors are pretty much unacceptable when it comes to dealing with women.

Well, basically, the most important thing girls want is to be loved and needed. Whenever you are with a girl, she wants to see loving signs from you in the simplest and humblest form like cuddles, kiss, touches or small gifts.

A woman wants her man to love her and show it by hugging, kissing and telling her so. She will automatically feel happier and have no moods if she you can prove to her that she is loved and cherished. A man who can pamper her and make her feel on top of the world is one who will have her love. Women need to be complimented and told how much they are needed. If she is not sure and unhappy then be prepared for nagging as she will make your life a nightmare.

Since women are more emotional than men so they are looking for emotional stability which can only be provided by her partner. They want to find someone which they can lean and rely on at their lowest of lows and likewise, celebrate with at their highest. As such, women want comfort from the shoulders of their man and from the warmth from their partner's touch.

Women also want to feel like they are understood. A lot of women complain that their partners do not understand their spontaneous mood swings and emotional pangs. Women are looking for men who are willing to be there for them.

Truthfulness and honesty are essentials too for women. Women can't stand lies and infidelity in a relationship any more than a man does. Honesty and truthfulness from her partner will make her secure and relaxed. A partner who is a cheat will only wreck the whole relationship.

And the last, commitment. There's no woman who is not looking for some sort of commitment in a relationship. So if you are a man who is willing to take a step towards commitment - you will make her very happy and content.

How to be Happy

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 17:55:00 +0000

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Are you always feeling down or unhappy ? Do you have so many problems to think of that you don't have to time to think of your own happiness? If you do, then you are suffering from unhappiness.

Well, our complex minds are consumed by the most vain things. Sometimes we put too much focus and attention on things that don't even matter in the end of the day. We care so much of what others think about us. Why would we have to do it ? It's more important to focus on things that will matter in the future rather than dwell on things that are no longer tangible.

Now let me ask you. Are currently looking for a happiness ? If so, I'm afraid you have been misled. Happiness is actually something you "are", not something you "do". Society has led us down the wrong path - Our mind has been programmed into believing that we find happiness through external sources - our significant others, our friends, new doodads, and expensive vacations, and so on.

Real happiness comes from the inside, and it's completely up to you. Nobody can make you happy over the long term but you. It is your responsibility. Your choice. You need to learn how to give yourself permission to be happy - not just for a moment, but all the time.

It's essential to appreciate the little things in life. No matter how bad you may perceive your daily life to be, there's still endless potential to make it more exciting and motivating to get out of bed every morning. When we are thankful for our fortunate life it becomes easier to attract desirable things into our everyday lives.

Custom Spa

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Sat, 05 Feb 2011 19:57:00 +0000

Thinking to own a custom spa and hot tub with unique designs ? Myelemental.com would be the best choice for you then. You can find the uniquely designed hot tub according to your heart's desire.

This website has several designs for you to choose. Inspired by the nature elements : Fire, Water, Air, and Earth. A simple elements that define our world. Powerful. Sustaining. Nurturing. A simple forms that excite, calm and rejuvenate.

They not only provide the spa and hot tub for indoors, but also for outdoors as well. Their designs are purposed to enhance and enrich outdoor living areas by delivering a social and wellness experience that cannot be achieved indoors. Don't you find it is tempting ?

Blinds Chalet

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Sat, 05 Feb 2011 18:45:00 +0000

Trying to find a windows blind for your home ? Blinds Chalet is definitely a right choice for you. With over 25 years of combined experience Blinds Chalet has a lot to offer. Faux Wood Blinds,Wood Blinds, Aluminium Mini Blinds, Vertical Blinds and various window shades.

What makes Blinds Chalet different from others is they have selected only the window blinds and products that come with the best workmanship and quality customers of theirs have come to expect. They also guarantee their quality of their windows blind. And don't worry about the installation, these windows blind from Blinds Chalet are easy to installed. You can easily do it yourself.

If you are interested to purchase the windows blind from Blinds Chalet, do not hesitate to visit their website and order your wanted item there. They provide you a very good and fast service, and your item will arrive in timely manner.

Honda Civic Exhaust

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 19:25:00 +0000

Are you one of the car, truck or SUV owner and thinking to turn your car into slickcar ? Slickcar.com is an option you might want to consider.

If you are thinking to add extra horsepower performance to your vehicle, then you have to add some accessories to your car. The Honda Civic Exhaust is a well-designed performance exhaust system for your Honda Civic. It add a deep sound and increased power you are looking for.

This system is proven to increase the gas mileage by allowing the engine to breathe more freely. Honda Civic exhaust systems are easy to install for the shade tree mechanic or do it yourself.

If you are interested to purchase, feel free to visit slickcar.com. The website does shipping nationwide. What an exciting way to shop !

Romantic Ideas on Valentine's Day

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 19:40:00 +0000

Valentine's Day is considered to be one of the most romantic date nights of the year for many people. It is obvious that everybody wants to have a special date night on Valentine's Day. Well, Valentine's day is not always about expensive dinner in a luxury restaurant. It is about togetherness and showing your love. There are many choices to choose from when it comes to romantic ideas on Valentine's day.

Make a Valentine's mix tape with some romantic songs. And surprise him by load it onto his media player.
Get a heart-shaped candies wrapped in red . Then write a note like "My heart is where you are, my dear" and silently leave it on his desk/bed.
Blindfold him/ her and drive to a place where you have already set up a blanket, candies, flowers and food of his/ her choice. Gifted a day like this, your valentine will gladly admit that you are the greatest romantic in the world.
Fill a jar with handwritten notes and poems about the things you love about him/her.
If you really want to make her happy, surprise her. Pick her up from the office early - arrange it with her boss of course. Her heart is sure to soar when she sees her loved one appear in the office with some flowers to personally whisk her away for a full day of Valentine's celebration.
Make your own personalized card for your valentine. It may not have the embellishments or glamor of a store bought one, but hey, he/she wants to be impressed by you, not some stranger bloke who designed this card. A soaring imagination is your only limitation.

Why wait ? Go and try out these romantic ideas on Valentine's day and have a memorable time with your valentine. Make your loved one smile with satisfaction every time that they think about this Valentines Day. Good luck !

Emotionally abusive relationships : Are you one of it ?

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 20:07:00 +0000

Have you been taking a look at your relationship and think that you are on an abusive relationships ? Is there a part of you that believes your mate isn't treating you as he should, but you think you might be blowing things out of proportion?

Emotional abuse can be insidious and more difficult to identify than physical abuse, which can leave obvious marks. What's confusing for most people in emotionally abusive relationships is how they love this person, how this person purports to love them, and how it is that this "love" leaves them so dead in their own skin.

Emotional abusive relationships is more difficult to diagnose than physical abuse because the symptoms can slowly work their way into a relationship. This starts with unhealthy behavior patterns and escalates to something more troubling. Your partner probably doesn't mean (or they don't realize) to hurt you, but their controlling nature makes them behave in ways that are emotionally harmful to you.

Then how do you know if you are in a abusive relationships ? Now ask yourself, are you afraid to express yourself freely with your partner, and feel like you have to watch what you say ? Do you think your partner attempts to control your activities, including access to work, friends, and family ? Do you think your partner's jealousy often keeps you from doing things you want with the opposite sex, even friends and colleagues ? Do you feel your connection to the universal lifeline vanishes and you experience your penetrating isolation ? You feel alone in yourself. You are detached from those around you, and severed from your inner center and alignment with the whole ? If the answer is yes, it may be fairly obvious now that you are involved in an abusive relationship, which is nearly impossible to live with.

"But I love her!"

"But I can't live without him!"

Just because you love somebody doesn't mean they are entitled to hurt you physically or abuse you emotionally. You must work on your own self-esteem and improve your self-image before you can break this vicious cycle of behavior. Why? Because people with low self-esteem tend to tolerate abuse. They may subconsciously feel that they do not deserve a stable relationship. So they seek out doomed relationships in order to confirm their suspicions: that they're just going to screw up again. So, if you're in an emotionally abusive relationship, you need to get help or get out as soon as possible. Even if the situation never escalates to physical abuse, you should be aware that emotional abuse is just as harmful and can lead to stress, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, and other problems that will disrupt your life.

Valentine's Day Ideas : What to give to your boyfriend ?

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 19:45:00 +0000

Valentine's Day is quickly approaching and it's time to consider what gift to give your boyfriend. To think of Valentines Day ideas for your boyfriend can be quite a riddle for a woman. Often women say that it is difficult to find the right valentines day gift for a man.

Buying gifts for a male can be a little intimidating. If done right it can be easily achieved. Knowing the likes and dislikes of your special fellow will help. Firstly, ask yourself the question: What does he really like? What makes him feel good? What gets him excited? and then strive to buy a gift that will match his likes and you won't go wrong. The satisfaction and relief of knowing you made the right choice will relieve the stress of shopping for it.

Tee shirts are a sure bet for boyfriends of any age. Give him one with his favorite band or singer boldly inked on the front. You could give him a tee shirt with his favorite saying or one that expresses his feelings in a humorous way. The older, more romantic boyfriend will enjoy a high quality and stylish watch that shows his success. Watches come in styles ranging from the outdoorsman heavy duty style to the silver sterling watch worn by the office worker, to the elegant gold watch worn on formal occasions. There are even watches to accommodate a sports enthusiast. Watches are well received and easy to give.

One more superb "Valentines Day ideas for boyfriend" tip can be music that he loves. Look into his collection - most probably he has a favorite singer or band and even more likely he is missing an album of them. Surely he would love that you noticed that! And if he has it all, perhaps his favorite artist did a song together with someone else. Every fan would like that track as well.

The perfect Valentines Day ideas for boyfriends are easy to find if you look for something that will interest him. You will probably find several from which to choose, but the main thing to consider is to have fun enjoying Valentine's Day together.

New astrological dates

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 17:15:00 +0000

What's your sign? That easy-to-answer pickup line might be a little confusing, since astronomers now say the dates used to delineate zodiac signs need to be adjusted by about a month.

With a new year comes a revision to astrological signs. Due to a wobble in the rotation of Earth, our sun is now transiting different portion of the sky. Hence, a new astrological sign is thrown into the mix; Ophiuchus.

Kunkle says that as the Earth and Sun slowly move the signs gradually change, as expected.

The change didn't happen over night either. The 12 signs were designated to different periods of the year almost 3,000 years ago, when astrology began, and since then the Earth's position in relation to the sun has changed.

Astronomers have been saying for years that the zodiac signs in wide use don't really reflect the heavens above. But the new announcement has shocked some people who closely identify with their astrological signs -- even if they don't always believe what newspaper horoscopes say.

See if your Zodiac sign has changed below. (And find out if your friends' signs have changed here or under the dates below.)

The New Dates:

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Capricorn: Jan. 20 - Feb. 16
Aquarius: Feb. 16 - March 11
Pisces: March 11- April 18
Aries: April 18 - May 13
Taurus: May 13 - June 21
Gemini: June 21 - July 20
Cancer: July 20 - Aug. 10
Leo: Aug. 10 - Sept. 16
Virgo: Sept. 16 - Oct. 30
Libra: Oct. 30 - Nov. 23
Scorpio: Nov. 23 - Nov. 29
Ophiuchus: Nov. 29 - Dec. 17
Sagittarius: Dec. 17 - Jan. 20

How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend - Use Reverse Psychology !

noreply@blogger.com (sugahpuff) — Thu, 13 Jan 2011 18:51:00 +0000

Are you crying buckets because your ex has left you and gone away? You wish upon anything that a fairy would show up in the air and make your ex come back to you. Well in this real world, wishes do not work. So rather than wishing upon a fairy, you better get up and start applying some effort in order to win back your ex instead.

When experiencing a breakup, you want to make your ex return because you're drowning in a pool of emotional feelings of sorrow, dismay, and emptiness. You feel like the only thing that can end this is your ex coming back to you. So the first thing that comes to your mind to make your ex return is to speak your heart out to her, and just be honest in telling her how bad you feel and how desperate you are to have her back. This is a BIG MISTAKE. Doing this only improves your ex's ego, and shows you as a weakling with no life. Nobody wants a weakling. This will get you dumped for sure, and degrade your self esteem further.

You probably may ask, if it is not the right thing to do, then how ? What is the proper way to win your ex back ? Well, the answer is use the reverse psychology. With these techniques you will be able to very easily press your ex's psychological hot buttons and have them asking you to take them back.

Reverse psychology is a clearly powerful, and very effective strategy. As your ex has certain expectations as to your behavior, she is expecting emotional calls where you beg and plead for another chance. But she isn't going to get those calls. She is going to get silence. You are going to act in the exact opposite way that she expects you to react and this is going to send her reeling.

When your ex decides to end the relationship, agree with them. Stay calm, and controlled. Don't beg and plead with them to stay with you. Make her feel unwanted. If you lose control all you do is to drive your ex further away. Just tell your ex that you agree with her, smile and walk away. Tell her that you've seen the breakup coming for a while now and you completely understand why she is leaving. This might break your heart, but you must be self-controlled and you must make her exit from your life as peaceful as possible. What this does, is immediately have your ex wondering just what is going on and it puts them on the back foot. They would have expected you to lose it and to beg and cry and you have completely wrong footed them.

After the breakups, cut off all contacts with your girlfriend for a period of two weeks. None, zip, zero. What this means is that you need to stop calling your ex girlfriend , no text messages emails, messages, comments on Facebook, Twitter, instant messaging all of this are on a list of mustn't do. Even if you stumble upon your ex on the street or at a restaurant, don't give the impression that your feeling miserable and desperate. Play it cool and that will be a major step in getting your love back.

Now, have you ever heard that, as human we always want what we can't have. So this is the key in reverse psychology. The minute someone is gone from our lives, we begin to miss them. We begin to wonder just how we're going to get by without them. Your behavior will set these questions off in your ex's mind and chances are,she will realize that she just made a huge mistake in letting you go.

You also need to start acting as though you're completely fine with the break up. You have to move forward as if you're embracing your new life on your own. Go and hang out with your friends, pamper yourself, try new activities. By you acting disinterested in rekindling the lost romance, you're essentially showing your ex that you can make it without them. She'll feel that deeply because it's a sign that you're emotionally detaching from her.

Before long, she will finally contact you and mention how she want to get back together with you again. But don't abruptly say yes, just act neutral (even though I know how much you want it) and tell her you'll have to think about it. Talk to her about how you two can make the relationship work the second time around if you are giving her a second chance. The point is to develop a subtle mind, do this and win your ex back. Good luck !