Have you ever met someone so sweet, so beautiful, so adoring that you almost instantly fall in-love with them, wanting to please them in any way? I met a person like this once, “intoxicating”, some would say.  I and everyone this person met almost always fell under their spell, the way they spoke, the calmness (I later came to learn was drug-induced) in their presence, and the sparkle in their eye was to blame. As it turns out, I’m a very compassionate person; my weakness is the pain of others.  I originally blamed this on the fact that I am, a woman.  Men though, fall victim to it too!  Now I chalk it up to being human, it’s human nature to feel compassion and run to the help of those in need.  And if the person in need is attractive, seemingly kind, and draws others to them by nature, we rush to their aid so quickly that we never question our own logic.

I met a sugar baby who was so intoxicating to those around her, that she convinced sugar daddies and other sugar babies alike that she was in dire need of help.  If, as a sugar baby, you have to resort to using the one thing that you know will make people feel sorry or compassion for you by staging an event that renders you helpless….I can’t say without any certainty that you shouldn’t be locked away without a key.

Faking or continuously lying about a staged event or illness to sugar daddies in order to gain their compassion and/or monetary help is not the worst thing you could do to a man.  Something like that carries the weight of being one of the worst things that you could ever do to another human being, period.  Commanding the emotions of others like a marionette puppet is akin to blindfolding someone, placing them at the edge of a precipice, then gently shoving them over the edge while you laugh at the stupidity of all. Cruel and heartless cross my mind.  Spineless and a waste of space follow.

If you’re going to sugar date, at any level, be true to yourself and the people you spend time with. “Going all the way” to get your way does not mean at any cost, and certainly not at the cost of others’ inherent emotions.  Even the most shallow sugar babies and daddies would agree, lying about life-threatening events for monetary gain or sexual favors does not make you a good sugar baby or sugar daddy, it just kind of makes you sick.  Sad comes to mind, as does “What the fuck?”

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What’s in a number? How much weight can you really place on a zip code? Is it the difference between two worlds, or is it simply a way to determine location?

If you have sugar babies in different zip codes from SugarSugar.com, is it plausible to say that you are loyal to both of them? Certainly they won’t have a run-in with each other, but other things can come up that can alert them to each other’s presence.

The last thing you want is for two or more sugar babies fighting over you… Oh wait, who is my audience? Ha ha, I suppose most sugar daddies wouldn’t mind a little pussycat fight in their honor, unless someone gets their ass kicked and looks disfigured, and then you probably would opt out of that relationship.

Anyway back to zip code sugar dating. If you choose to have more than one sugar baby, openly or not, make sure you do your best to make sure that those paths don’t cross. For example, you should have a different mode of communication for each of your young lady friends. If you text one, then email another, IM one, then you should talk to one on the phone, four different ways to communicate with four different young women, if you dare.

We sugar babies can be a little jealous if you are sharing your attention with another, so please do us a favor and cover your tracks better. In-fact, even if it’s openly known that you have more sugar babies than me, I still never want to run into that information, either inadvertently or on purpose. We don’t really want to know about it, unless we bring someone else home for you, keep it to yourself. You really don’t want to see or feel the wrath of a sugar baby scorned… I’m jus sayin’

What happened? “I fell down the stairs,” right? It’s certainly a welcomed change when the answer is; “I got punched in the eye.” My girlfriend told me this after she had gone on a date with a man NOT from SugarSugar.com.

I stopped what I was doing. “Wait, what? Some guy punched you in the face?” (Causing her black eye)

I thought she was pulling my leg…Who punches a woman in the face, on the second date no less.  She tells me that the first date was coffee and they had a connection and a great time. She said there were no red flags, I disagreed… She met him through Match.com, that’s the red flag in my book. Anyway, then she tells me that they met at a restaurant for a few beers and dinner. She said things still were going well (The next red flag to me was the multiple beers on the second date).

Then my friend went to leave, so he walked her to her car, (The restaurant was busy so she had to park a little ways away, in a darker area no less). Being the lady that she is, my friend was going to go home, not over to this dudes house. But before she went to do that, they made out some, things got a little hot and heavy, and then she wanted to leave before she could get talked in to going home with this guy. She played coy with him, teasing him a little like girls are so good at doing. Unfortunately he didn’t want her to go home, he wanted her to come over to his place. But most men would, right? Things get hot and heavy and we pull the rug out from underneath them, leaving them with blue balls. I’m pretty sure that men don’t take kindly to that, and as my girlfriend went to escape his tight embrace, he came around with a right hook, throwing her on the hood of her car. He took off running before she could peel herself off her vehicle enough to react in any sort of way…

A black-eye. She asks me why. Says she never saw it coming. I tell her it’s because she didn’t meet a sugar daddy through SugarSugar.com. I tell her at least going into any sort of sugar daddy sugar baby relationship, there’s mutual respect and no expectations. I conclude that that’s not the case with those ‘other’ sites, that they’re a host of red flags.

I told her that the moral of the story was not to get out of line, that she deserved it a little. “At the very least,” I told her, “I hope you learned your lesson. Don’t be stupid, and don’t get out of line little sugar baby.” –I’m jus sayin’

To answer the first question, I believe that men are just naturally polygamous. Since ancient times, history tells us about kings, emperors, pharaohs, and their numerous concubines. Young and sexy beautiful women have always been the weakness of men. A classic example is the biblical figure called Samson. And for a more recent example, who could forget about former President Bill Clinton.

My answer to the second question is, it’s not that a sugar daddy is not happy with his wife anymore. If he were, divorce papers would probably be ready and just waiting for the John Hancocks. But no… most sugar daddies still love their wives. They just want to have someone younger to play with. And there are times that there’s something wifey doesn’t want to do which sugar baby is pretty much willing to do.

As for families, I think sugar daddies love their families despite the fact that they’re playing around with younger women and looking for threesomes of one form or another. These are the sugar daddies who just enter mutually beneficial relationships for the excitements and joy a sugar baby can bring. They’re not actually hoping to leave their families and make a new ones.

Now that you know a bit more about how to be a sugar daddy, or why someone is a sugar daddy, it’s time to try it yourself! So if you are a sugar daddy seeking a mutually beneficial relationship with a younger woman, go check us out. You’ll find plenty of young and beautiful sexy women in there seeking for the same thing.

Have you ever been out and about and seen a young woman with roots for days? There is really only one word that ever comes to mind, and that grammatical gem is…wait for it….“Trashy”

Big surprise, huh? As a Sugar Baby, I think all that crap is trashy, chipped finger nail polish, roots for days, split ends, coin-slot ass crack, and anything unshaven, end of story. You think sugar daddies don’t notice these things, because they never seem to mention it when you are on top of it, right?  Let me inform you, they notice.  They notice, but rather than comment on when you forget to do one or more of the above personal details, they just opt for avoidance and are a little less interested.  And let’s be honest, even if we’re not totally interested in our sugar daddies, we still want to have first dibs on their attention and affections! Through SugarSugar.com, I have found some amazing sugar daddies, but they all expect a certain amount of classy.

So hear hear! In order to be at the top of your sugar daddy’s list for a phone call, night out, or holiday; you must make sure to do the following:

• Get your hairs did…No trashy regrowth is ever seen as classy or says that you care about yourself at all…oh, and try for a color that suites you, white blond fried straw-like hair doesn’t suit everyone
• Keep up on the manicuring of body hair, or lack thereof, your five o’clock shadow is less hot than your sugar daddy’s….legs, nether regions, chest, shoot, ANY body part! Pay close attention
• Please take the time to get your nails done, at the very least, regular pedicures to rid yourself of unwanted alligator skin from wearing your stripper heels around…that crap will dry out the heels on your dogs
• Low-rise jeans that show the coin slot crackage, not too hot anymore…Plus, sugar babies, it was NEVER classy – like you were unaware of this fact?
• Lastly, watch the language.  It has never been classy for a sugar baby, no matter the age, to swear like a sailor.  All that does is show your lack of language skills, there are so many BETTER ways to say things than with vulgarity.  Do you even want sugar daddies to take you anywhere?  It will be obvious that you don’t if you cannot be a lady in some capacity by the inability to use other words besides curse words. (That language does serve, however, in the bedroom)

Listen….Try it….I’m just sayin’

If you’ve ever had dates like these from a sugar daddy, they can either be quite intense and full of passion, or they can be most closely akin to watching paint dry.  Mine was the latter. If the wealthy men never treated me to anything extravagant, it would have been easy to cut out early. Unfortunately, this was the sugar daddy who already treated me to a 745i BMW a month ago or so. Now don’t get me wrong, when he and I fuck, there are some fireworks, but then they quickly fade to sparklers, then to those annoying trick birthday candles that you practically have to spit on to blow out. And even with there being some chemistry in the bedroom, unfortunately, he’s not on Viagra or Cialis, and that gives him an expiration date of ten minutes or so into the date. I wish sugar daddies weren’t so proud of their sexual masculinity all the time. The truth is, after a certain age, just like we sugar babies eventually come up against, things are bound to either break down, work slower, or need oil. Ya, kind of like a car sugar daddies! If your stuff isn’t working like it used to, please, please allow yourself , and treat us with, the opportunity of taking an oral prescription that will help in that department.

“You take care of  me, I’ll take care of you,” is what you should say when you’re sugar daddy dating. Next time I spend 24 hours with my sugar daddy, I’ll be sure to crush up those little blue pills I got from my Mexico, slip them in his drink, then let him take me in the back seat of my new car when they kick in!

I’m really not fond of watching paint dry, and if I don’t have to have that experience soon I’ll be the wiser. There’s got to be more at SugarSugar.com for me!

Desperation does not look good on anyone and is not in style, so then why act like that?  Want some good sugar baby dating advice? Time and time again women act out in desperation and sugar daddies want nothing to do with it!  Are you sugar babies really that hard up for cash that you have to resort to crying, pleading, or threatening a Sugar Daddy?  This is not the best way to handle any situation in which you want to get a ‘head’ as a sugar baby.  I mean, I know they are called “sugar daddies”, but that doesn’t mean that they have to put up with your temper tantrums.  A little passion and fury is great in small doses! But when a sugar baby’s logic goes out the window and she transgresses to acting like a little girl, most sugar daddies don’t really want to deal with it.  Texting wars, phone call hang-ups, throwing things, and pure unadulterated crying fits are not the ticket to mutually beneficial relationship bliss with sugar daddies.

Ever heard of a game called “Cat Chasing Mouse”?  This is an accurate representation on how most men, sugar daddies included, like to get their sugar babies.  Remember, the “Thrill of the Chase”?  Usually when things are sayings or figures of speech, they are true and in full effect.  Let us face the facts at hand, men like the chase, and desperation doesn’t play a role in it.

Sugar babies, if you are going to find a sugar daddy through SugarSugar.com or any other type of sugar daddy dating service, play it cool already!  Take my advice!! Do not show any desperation, no matter what your situation is.  There is nothing that could be a buzz-kill more than telling a sugar daddy how broke you are, or crying about how you want new tata’s.  The truth of the matter is, sugar daddies like to rescue sugar babies like us, but they could spoil any other young woman, why spoil a brat?  Your sugar daddy can be generous, but don’t take it for granted or get whiny, because there are plenty of sugar babies who would want to take your spot!  Receiving gifts and spending time on luxurious vacations, who wouldn’t want that?  Tears of rage or losing your cool are the kiss of death for any sugar daddy relationship, I am just saying.

That ‘sugar’ that you have to offer sugar daddies, do not just give it away, treat it like gold!  As beautiful young women, this ‘sugar’ that we have can be seen as amazing by sugar daddies, but not when it is de-valued by being given up at the first intimate encounter.

Use your judgment, what does it say to a sugar daddy from SugarSugar.com if you give ‘it’ up?  I can tell you how it looks, it looks like you have low self esteem and will give ‘it’ up to just about anyone you spend time with.  This is not a good thing sugar babies!  When the cards are down and you have nothing left, if you value yourself as the sexy goddess you are, you will still have some sweeter sugar to share.

Things are going to get hot with your sugar daddies sometimes, but take a moment to really think about, and be aware of the fact that if you give ‘it’ up too soon, you’ll have played those cards all wrong and you won’t be able to take ‘it’ back….

Give up and share the sweet sugar to those sugar daddies who are deserving of it!

After many failed attempts to catch on to these women who insist on being less than truthful, I decided to call in the authorities from sugarsugar.com, sugar baby entrepreneur, Angelena.  I told her exactly what I am looking for, and left the rest up to her.  Well, she found some girls that she thought would fit my bill and I have a date with a young woman tonight who was hand-picked by Angelena.  Depending on how tonight goes, this could prove to be a much better way to go about dating sugar babies.

I don’t know about yours, but my time is valuable, so it would behoove me not to waste it with some girl who wants something completely different than I do.

There are times that your sugar daddy will require a lot of attention, and times when he’ll want you to split.  Do your best to make sure that your sugar daddy always has what he needs, a smack on the rear or a kiss on the cheek, whatever the occasion calls for.  No matter what kind of time your sugar daddy has available to spend with you, it is your responsibility as a sugar baby to make sure that it’s quality time, not quantity time!

He wants to watch back-to-back James Bond flicks with you all weekend?  Then be the best Pussy Galore ever!