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Beck's Wedding Anniversary Giveaway

2013-04-27T12:35:00.002-04:00

Enter this giveaway for your chance to win 1 of 2 care packages. The Giveaway is open Worldwide! Ends on 5/11/13 12:00am Eastern time. Good Luck!

Included will be
-Cal Exotics Silicone Jack Rabbit Jr.
-8oz Spunklube Hybird Cumlube
- Genuine Leather Crop or Faux Leather Flogger

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Frisky Friday

2013-04-26T20:13:00.001-04:00

#friskyfriday

Health Tips For Cam Girls

2013-04-25T14:21:00.002-04:00

Here are some tips to help keep you from running yourself out. Sitting at the computer in front of the cam for hours at a time can do a number on your body if your not taking time to take care of it. Keep your body in tip top shape and keep the customers happy.

Use Audio
Instead of typing all the time you can give your hands a rest for abit.

Use a Bed or Comfy Chair
I've heard of girls using the hard floor to cam from. When your working for hours at a time that can get very uncomfortable on the body.

Take a Break
When your slows down and which it will from time to time. Go for a walk, stretch, give your eyes a rest from the computer

Keep Water Near By

Use Lube
Face it, your not always going to be 100% turned on and ready to go. With a little lube you can continue on with the show with no problems. Avoid having sore genitals.

Switch Hands
When using the mouse, toys, etc...Switch up your hands.

Have an Assortment of Toys
Often customers will make requests and it's nice having what they are looking for. Have your toys cleaned and ready to go. Remember do not switch between vagina, anal, vagina with the same toy. Even if the customer begs. You don't want to be causing an infection and having to take time off work.

Signing Up & Going Live on Cam

2013-04-25T10:11:00.001-04:00

With so many web cam sites out there it is wise to check some out and see how the traffic is, What they offer, Payments, Etc...Once you have it narrowed down it's time to fill out the "Model" form. Many sites offer sign up for "Solo" cam models and "Studios", "Multiply" Accounts. You will be selecting "Solo" and it's a quick and easy process. Often you can be online the same day and making money. Many sites give you a few days, weeks as "new cam girl" status, so make the most of it and work your room to get return visitors.

Check List of What You Need To Sign Up

A Computer with Internet The faster your connection the better the quality of your video stream.

A Webcam
More and more ladies are offering HD now, but it doesn't have to be. Logitech is a good one to start with.

Proof of Age & Identification
You will be required to send your photocopied/scanned ID. Photo ID such as Drivers license, passport, etc... is accepted. Remember this is adult web camming and you have to be 18+

Fill out the rest of the form which will include phone number, address, perhaps a small "about me" section. Once done you will submit form. Usually it's a fast process to get you up and running online as long as everything has been filled out properly and you provided proper ID. Once your account is activated you will be able to sign into your account and set up you profile, change settings, upload some images and/or teaser videos and go live. Always make sure to fill out your profile fully. Include 3 or more images and/or the teaser video to try and draw in more people. Be friendly, fun and interact with the people in your room. No one wants to be in a room with someone who isn't even paying any attention. Sitting on your cell phone texting, chatting, or watching TV will be a quick turn off.

Remember that everyone was new at one time or another and sometimes questions pop up, so don't be afraid to ask. Join an online community for webcam girls to have some interaction with other girls that can offer many great tips.

More From Cam Girl Guide

A Guide To Being An Independent Cam Girl
Selling Picture Sets & Videos

Torture Garden Toronto 2013

2013-03-23T15:24:00.003-04:00

Torture Garden Toronto 2013 will be hitting Toronto May 17, 18 & 19. I'm excited and hope to make it to the Saturday show for the main performances. I attended last years show and enjoyed it. Time to start getting ideas of what to wear. This Event looks like it's going to be a good one and certainly busy with seminars, performances & The Dungeon/Play Area.

Sneak Peek

Torture Garden Toronto 2013 from subspace on Vimeo.

Locations

Friday May 17th: Club Wicked
Saturday May 18th: Opera House for the Main Event
Sunday May 19th: Oasis Aqua Lounge

Performers

Yusura

International circus performer
Model
Choreographer
Aerial teacher
Registered member of Cirque du Soleil

Chrisalys: International Circus Sideshow Extraordinaire

DavidTG: Co-founder, director and DJ of TG since 1990

iWasCured Flesh Hook Performance: Canada's first group of suspenstion Artists

Miranda Tempest & Faeya Tal: Aerial performance artists

Anatomic-Latex

Torture Garden Ticket Prices

Saturday May 18th, 2013 $40
Weekend Pass $69
VIP $120

For more information on the Event Click Here.

Easter Sex Toys

2013-03-23T11:13:00.000-04:00

With Easter right around the corner it's time to bring out the Easter toys to get you in the mood. It's time for eggs, rabbits & sexy bunny costumes. I can't wait for the temperature to start raising and layers of clothing to start coming off.

Love bunny vibe via Edenfantays

Black Bunny Costume via Edenfantasys

Touche Ice Egg Vibrator via Edenfantasys

Waterproof Wireless Bunny via PinkCherry

Sexy Bunny Costume via PinkCherry

Buzz Bunny via PinkCherry

Bunny Tail Butt Plug via Extreme Restraints


Flower Power via Big Teaze Toys

I Rub My Duckie via Big Teaze Toys

Selling Picture Sets & Videos

2013-03-23T11:01:00.000-04:00

Many web cam girls at some point in time will also sell amateur picture sets and videos of themselves. It’s totally up to you how many pictures are in a set and how much you’re willing to show in the pictures. Base the prices off of that and of course quality. Picture taken with a digital camera will sell better than pictures from a webcam/cell phone. Having a good amount of premade pictures and videos will be great when you first start off selling them. It’s also a good idea to have an open mind to request by your fans. Usually if the buyer is happy with the first set they most likely will become repeat customers. So aim to please. First impressions count ladies.

Tips to Selling Your Adult Images and Videos

Use a digital camera/video camera to record your sets.
Watermark your images
It's up to you if you include your face in the images or not
Try to have 10 or more images in a picture set
Keep a list of all your picture sets and amateur videos with the prices
Keep in contact with previous customers
Just like adult webcam shows make sure to receive the payment first and DO NOT accept paypal

Where Can I list that I’m selling my pictures and/or videos?

There are many sites out there that you can use to promote your sales and help find buyers. All these sites are free to join and you set your own prices.

AdultWork: You can list all your services on here for free. Escorts, Webcam, Phone Sex, SMS Chat, Pictures, Videos.

MyGirlFund: List your Pictures, Videos, Webcam services for free. Guys can contribute to the girls fund to reach their goals

ExtraLunchMoney: Buy & Sell custom videos, pictures, texting & adult goods

ebanned: Known as "The Original Adult Trading Site." This site works in the same way as eBay would, but for adult goods

Clips4sale: Sell your Amateur Porn Videos. This site contains a lot of fetish video clips

MyDirtyHobby: This site is mainly UK, but you can sell your pictures & videos

KinkBomb: Fetish Video Clips

Clipvia: Fetish Video Clips

Clippette: Femdom, Fetish Videos & Erotic Hypnosis

You can also set up an online blog/site to list everything and keep your customers up to date on what you have for sale. It will take sometime to build up your customer base, but once you do you should have a steady flow.

Sites to stay away from are craigslist or kijiji. Your posts will most likely be flagged and taken down. Go to the sites that are aimed towards adult sales.

A Guide To Being an Independent Cam Girl

2013-03-22T18:40:00.001-04:00

So, you have decided to branch off on your own or maybe your just jumping straight in and you need some guidance. I put together this little guide to being a Independent Cam Girl. Since now you will be doing all the advertising to bring in customers, taking care of payment processing and everything else your really going to be working your butt off. In the end it is worth it.

Where to start?
Most commonly independent webcam girls work off of yahoo messenger or Skype now-a-days. It offers text chat along with allowing people to stream and view webcams. Come up with a screen name you want to be known as and stick to it on any other sites/forums/directories you join related to adult web cam shows.

What do I need?
All you need to start is a computer with internet access, web cam and your sexy self. Remember this is your job and your not just sitting at home being lazy. Do yourself up and look good. Put some time and effect into doing your make-up & hair before getting on cam. Having some sexy lingerie and/or sexy costumes to change into is helpful. Also sex toys are great and sometimes asked for during shows, but not a must have when first starting out.

How much do I charge?
This really all depends on you and what the going price is at the time you start. Look around at what other cam girls are charging and come up with a price from there. If you offer extras such as fetish, costume change, anal, or even another partner your price can be a little higher.

How do I take payments?
I want to start this off by saying DO NOT take paypal payments. Paypal does not support adult business. Which includes adult webcam shows. So, explore your options. You have many choices from email transfers, e-gift cards, other companies like paypal that are adult friendly. I'll go into more detail on another day, so check back.

Where Can I Advertise?
Self advertising is a must when it comes to bringing in more customers. Since your now with a big established site you need to work harder to bring people in. Get listed on directories, social networking sites, some other independent cam girls offer free link exchange.

I have put together a list of sites that offer free advertising. This will be updated as I come across more. If you know of any not mentioned let me know!

Independent cam girls, Skype cam girls, yahoo cam girls, msn cam girls

We Cam Girls
Cam Girl Directory
Cam Model Directory
Cam Girl Spot
Adult Space
Cam Girl Services
iCandyCams

Tips
It's always a good idea to have a blog or a site to list everything you offer in shows. Example of somethings you may offer

Sexy Costumes
Cam2Cam
Toys
Big Toys
Anal
Fetish
Phone

Make sure to always receive your payments up front and start the show promptly. You don't need a set schedule, but it certainly helps. Repeat customers often buy shows for the same time again. Stay active and advertise daily when your online for shows or offering discounts or deals. Some cam girls also offer picture/video sets for an additional income.

Fun Sex Facts Week #2

2013-03-22T13:50:00.000-04:00

- The average life of a latex condom is 2 years
- Condoms exposed to smog and ozone are less effective
- Sex is a natural antihistamine
- The vagina is self cleaning
- People use to think masturbation could lead to blindness, madness & diseases

- Single women are more likely to be attracted to men who are taken
- Exercise will improve your sexual response
- 58% of men and women who watch porn feel more comfortable with their sexuality
- Having sex can help your immune system
- Eye contact can increase sexual attraction
- Cuddling is great for you. Studies show that couples who cuddle are 8 times less likely to be depressed
- Foot fetish & Shoe fetish are the most common sexual fetish in Western society
- Women orgasms cause the area of the brain that is associated with fear to shut off
- On average a man will have 7 sexual partners and a woman will have 4
- Kissing can help reduce tooth decay
- People thought masturbation could cause one to have hairy palms

Giveaway Friday

2013-03-22T12:25:00.000-04:00

Enter for your chance to win some Maia Toys over at of Sex and Love. Up for grabs is the Maia Sensor Vibrating Vagina Balls in Confetti (Yellow) & Maia Silicone Vibrator in Confetti. The giveaway is open to US & Canadian residents. You must be 18+ to enter. Ends April 14th.
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Click here for more giveaways & freebies. All must be 18+

Toy With Me Tuesday

2013-03-19T13:37:00.000-04:00

The last couple days have been cold and snowing so, the Icicles #5 is a perfect fit for the day.

This is my first time taking part in Toy with me Tuesdays. Click below to see who else has linked up this week.

Fun Sex Facts

2013-03-15T12:40:00.000-04:00

To kick it off...

- The vibrator was invented back in the 19th century. It was made to reduce hysteria.
- Sex is more effective than Valium
- Masturbation can help relieve depression
- Sex will help cure headaches because during sex the body releases endorphins.

- An average length of a penis is 5-6 inches
- The longest penis recoded is 13 inches and the smallest comes in at 1 inch
- Sperm does contain calories. On average 5-7 per teaspoon.
- Sperm can live in the female body for up to 7 days with the right environment
- Vigorous sex will burns calories
- Condoms date back to the fifteenth century. Originally they were made using animal intestines
- Sperm is actually good for your skin! who would have known. It has a tightening effect to the skin once it dries so, it helps with anti-aging to prevent wrinkles. You may not want to walk around in public with this on your face though...? ;p
- Your pubic hair will never grow as long as your hair on the head because it is controlled like the rest of the hair on the human body.
- Women tend to prefer having sex in the dark
- Women libido peak right before their periods start
- Most women need the clitoris stimulated during sex to reach orgasm

What's a "Merkin"?
It is a pubic wig used after shaving the pubic region. Merkins date back the 1450's and were originally used by prostitutes. It would help for personal hygiene and fight off pubic lice & cover up any signs of disease. They can be used by both men and women and used for erotic devices, decorative items and in films now a days. They are used used in films during nude scenes.

Staying on the topic of prostitutes the word "blow job" comes from the Victorian times when prostitutes were called "blowsy" and ejaculation was called "blow." In Ancient Greece the term for blow job was "playing the flute"

First Post

2012-11-28T16:21:00.001-05:00

Oh of course the random first blog post. Time to introduce myself to future readers. I'm Summer Diamond a twenty something year old from Canada. Stick around to find out more if your interested. You can easily sign up for e-mail updates or follow on twitter to find out when a new post goes live. I've been putting this little project on the back burner for most of 2012, but I'm hoping 2013 will bring way more motivation to get things in gear and moving. I'm not 100% sure on the direction I'll be taking this blog just yet, but it will include sex toy reviews I've personally tired, weekly updates, perhaps a giveaway from time to time for my lovely readers and some hot pictures.