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In short trying to not to do the above mentioned deeds while be-ing in Mumbai...</description><link>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/</link><managingEditor>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>123</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/SwitchingSpaces" type="application/rss+xml" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" /><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-7741749423112603735</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 20:41:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-23T02:23:06.751-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Movie Review</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Humor</category><title>Yellow</title><description>&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;All characters in this story are fictional and bear no resemblance to anyone dead or living&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2005&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the great Mumbai floods engineers were repairing the sewer system of the city, an engineer mistakenly planted dynamite on one of the lines, the blast was big, and it released crores of tonnes of pure Golden shit on one of the suburbs of mumbai. To check the devestation all the shit was diverted to a large 25000 acre area designated for a SEZ soon. Area sinked, and it definitely stinked.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In that plot was hidden long back, a treasure of immense value, all of it pure gold.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Present Day&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bhairav is the coolest rag picker in the town of Mumbai, has two of everything, but misses the essential thing which should exist in pair. Apprently his boxing buddy, Langdu Sethji with manly boobs and a raunchy paunch kicked him in his gehnas once. From that day, Bhairav yearns for everything in pairs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Langdu and Bhairav are the best rag pickers in town, but Langdu can swim saala, and that too in shit. Bhairav wants to go for treasure in the shit laden area, but Langdu says no.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Langdu's wife munni is an expert in picking rag underpants, which she even tries on herself at times. she is hot though and even Bhairav has the hots for her ;). Munni says she is poor (thats why lesser clothes) &amp;amp; wants to be rich &amp;amp; start a Safai Vidyalaya on the lines of one by Baapu at Ahmedadbad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Cut Scene&lt;/span&gt;- Andheri&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Langdu's brother is the top begger in Andheri, popularly known as &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Spam&lt;/span&gt; he also rides in a haathgaadi (Shaan movie's Mazhar Khan style). At night he takes part in an underground haathgaadi drifitng race. Haathgaadi race expert Don Karnash challenges him in front of his hot eucuch friend chikki. Chikki drops her pallu for the race to begin, and Spam wins it. Don Karnash asks spam to deliver a box for him which he misplaces. In between he falls in love with Chikki. Don Karnash him for life and even burns is haathgaadi. Spam hitchhikes and reaches the boundaries of Shithole where Munni, Bhairav &amp;amp; Langdu are waiting...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(I am cutting on the hit song, Haggi Waggi, by Chilly Min-Hug and few other songs...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These guys hang out near the shit pond, singing Balluuuu, yeh saans pukaare, Baluuu...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and all of a sudden appears Balu, along with Madam Ritika Mahalingam and Kid Cloud waala. Punter and Dolly are not seen though.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems Balu is a dushman of Don Karnash &amp;amp; wants him badly. In the mean time Langdu developes a liking for Madam Mahalingam, much to the distaste of munni, who starts wearing even dirtier and smaller rags to catch his attention.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Climax&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don Karnash wants money from spam for loosing his box of whatever, 50 Mn Zimbabwean Dollars. As Spam and others are unaware about the latest currency rates they get scared and plan to go for the treasure. Balu has a seaplane which can carry them to shitpond and Langdu knows the location. It seems his dad almost reached the treasure. When he tells the story Kid Cloudwaala realises that he is  Langdu &amp;amp; spam's brother who got lost on the day of floods.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But Langdu has a secret to share.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems their dad was off to find some treasure and he found it somewhere in the mid of shit pond, but Langdu was having loosemotions that day, and he used to the pond to do you know what. The level started rising and his dad lost control and sunk and died. Langdu is scared of that place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But he is convinced and Balu drops him using his seaplane to the location. Here they put the anchor, Madam Mahalingam &amp;amp; Munni cook food and the guys go for treasure hunting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shit main tairne ke teen golden rule,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Never breath&lt;br /&gt;- Hamesha Saath main raho&lt;br /&gt;- Never shit...otherwise, you know what can happen&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They find the treasure, but Don Karnash comes and as usual grabs the heroines. Then they come out of rooms and the dress area of their arms is removed (remember the old movies, what this signified, confused me ). Anyways heros have found the treasure now (100 20 KG toilets made of solid gold), but Balu starts breathing and dies of the smell, being heavy he sinks too. The others float back, fight and rescue heriones. Bhairav is found missing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Don Karnash tells everyone that he and Bhairav planned this and now he would kill everyone. Bhairav comes up and tells that he fooled everyone because Langdu being color blind too was the only one who could have spotted Yellow in Yellow. so he picked him and made a fool of him. He runs away and kills Don Karnash on the way by flushing him in the pond.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Madam Mahalingam uses the seaplane to go away and other live happily, but one day Bhairav calls and tells them that he has progressed from being a rag picker to India's largest toilet manufacturer, all Yellow in color. And Chikki is his wife or something.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;**The End**&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Request: &lt;/span&gt;Dont watch Blue, please&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-7741749423112603735?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/9vh8Vw4oQgs/yellow.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/10/yellow.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-2439334232319376011</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 14:40:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-22T03:15:25.494-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Food</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Bangalore Tour</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Bangalore</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Humor</category><title>मदन  - कहानी एक Pub की</title><description>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;"&gt;***Starring ***&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Chipu&lt;br /&gt;( I have decided to write a book on the life and times of this guy)&lt;br /&gt;Rattu&lt;br /&gt;Bhussu&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;"&gt;***And***&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dandit&lt;br /&gt;Mimpy&lt;br /&gt;Bho-Bho-ti&lt;br /&gt;Pat-rick&lt;br /&gt;Nippu&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;***Friendly Appearance***&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KAddu&lt;br /&gt;Piddu&lt;br /&gt;Anit Pacob Jillpose&lt;br /&gt;Khakre&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;***Scene-1 ***&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Somewhere on quite nice crowded street on Bangalore (crowd is implicit in Bangalore), ambling around are three stupid looking individuals, quite visibly mistaking the road as a Bird Sanctuary. ( For people in Bangalore I am referring the set of perpendicular roads connecting from Jyoti Nivas College-Koramangala 4th Block side to Forum-100ft road connection).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But enough of birds, these guys have never got them, one of them although carries the distinction of breaking eggs :), lot of them :D. Who's interested, Chipu, Rattu and Bhussu just want some beer, and they will get it at Madan Pub. Small shabby looking place where evil ideas thrive, men with rotten faces, dirty lungis and unbrushed moustaches laugh like Ashok Vatika Sita Kidnappers, light is dim, TV always throws a classic Rajkumar Classic (the same one always where he plays a Rajkumar) and waiters serve with uncut nails filled with smudge..yuk&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But beer is cheap and thats Ok, for us :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This place was discovered by Fake Kannada speaking Bho-Bho-ti, patronised by the wide assed king of bangalore, Pat-Rick &amp;amp; made popular by rattu. Anit Pacob Jillpose lived in Pune but he dreamt of going to madan, and Khakre cracked up as we muttered him stories of Madan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Madan Rocks, no... Madan Mahaan hai :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In an area full of beautiful chiks and chikkis, this is the place, where Men can be Men, and not those spiked hairs, loose jeans, jockey showing lean kids, they can hold their drink with pride and drink and bask in the glory of the super dim lights which make you look, evil.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I dont remember whether Mimpy visited it, but this is a place liked by 3 of us who came here tonight, me, Bhussu, Chipu. Bhussu loves drinking, and following it up with Hyderabadi Biryani, Drinking loves Chipu, and will always love him. As for me, I can walk downstairs to pick up Mysore Pak off Adayar anand bhavan :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But as Mimpy says, yeh ek Mahaan jagah hai, so &lt;a href="http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2007/07/tagged-by-steve-and-naresh-i-thought-i.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ashtumaadi&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kahani starts when Nippu comes to Bangalore... till then wait maadi&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-2439334232319376011?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/nRwcNPKhF8E/pub.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">6</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2007/09/pub.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-7179448614646030326</guid><pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 19:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-13T12:26:36.118-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Humor</category><title>Another Kiddie incident</title><description>&lt;a href="http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2007/05/kids-are-future-they-already-know-it.html"&gt;Posted one long back on Kids&lt;/a&gt;. Today was time for another classic incident:)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Words from a 6th Class Kiddo on the car backseat,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Virginity is a man's gift to his wife"&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Couldn;t stop laughing for the next few hours, Gen Next/X/Y/Z/Whatever is really scary at times :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-7179448614646030326?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/SDySjXnOxwc/another-kiddie-incident.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">5</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/10/another-kiddie-incident.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-873241146071705055</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 18:49:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-09T11:57:30.454-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">MBA</category><title>life with an addict...</title><description>He was happy, used to talk while he slept, but apart from them, quite Ok. Used to loose apetite once in a while, but apart form that, Ok. He thought smoking is bad, drinking is bad too. But he was addicted. And that too to...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well I entered the room that day, and he suddenly had hidden it. He used to hide it in drawers, almirah, below the bed in a suitcase. I knew every spot, but how could he, I still didn't believe it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I got a hint, that day at Bandra, near carter road CCD, we saw a bunch of young kids smoking it, and it smelled like, you know what. He had won a bet and asked me for something. I paid 150 bucks for it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was Chocolate, and in the room were being gobbled up tonnes of Lindt, Toblerones, Cadbury, Ferreros and what not. I knew it. He was an addict.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Addicted to chocolates.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just pray he returns to the original addiction, unAdulterated. The new one doesn't suit him. It suits me :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-873241146071705055?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/MvdvvkwyDNo/life-with-addict.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/10/life-with-addict.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-6273382054763030638</guid><pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 09:08:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-10-03T02:11:56.824-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Delhi</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Society</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><title>Of things Artificial, and those Natural</title><description>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt; &lt;p&gt;Love being Natural?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yes you would say, but are we ever natural!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;On an auto ride with my friend in Delhi we debated the artificial vs. natural thing like never before, especially in the context of Delhi, debate continued at an engg. college friend's home party.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have two sides (we is generalized by people coming from smaller towns &amp;amp; cities), one is natural, likes meeting people, sitting with family and friends, enjoying nice street food, being part of festivals, going to temple sometimes, roaming around and having a nice relaxing evening followed by a movie on TV and some nice sleep.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The other side, goes to Pubs, drinks the hell out of oneself; multiplexes: buys popcorn worth 70 bucks (within 44 Rs. I used to enjoy pop corn, a movie, cold drink and a two way bus ride to city during school days), watches a movie a week, walks into a mall: window shops, really shops and just keeps on spending through the clutter of restaurants, food courts and ice cream parlors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And after moving to cities (and especially after we started earning), we sort of have started living more like the latter than former. Although the joy of living life this style is hardly long lasting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For a city, you would consider Gurgaon the best in India, super awesome roads, beautiful buildings, so many malls. My first day here I wanted to buy some innerwear, and I told my friend, so my friend asked Levis or Nike store? A city where people think of malls even while buying &lt;em&gt;chaddi baniyaan!!! &lt;/em&gt;Its not their fault, this place is the pinnacle of consumerist culture and show-&lt;em&gt;baazi&lt;/em&gt;, a practice linked to most of North India. Although I am not accusing all of this, there have been strange exceptions right from UG to PG days and they are all dear friends. But mostly a region characterized by slight rudeness in the way people talk, slight aggression, and a fascination to show that one can splurge money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Compare that to the long walks I had in Old Delhi near Redfort through Ramlilas. Regular people, enjoying with families, having fun and a great time, &amp;amp; contrast it too &lt;em&gt;hardly-anything-wearing-girls &lt;/em&gt;in GK or South ex at night, have seen a bit of all in the past few days. From the aloo chaat &amp;amp; paani puris in Old Delhi to 70 Rs dosas in Gurgaon fort, a nice mix of Artificial and natural awaits us everywhere we go.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Its on us and only on us, that which path we choose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Many here want to fake it to make it, but I think they would be just fine if they just try to make it…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Right now for me I am trying to balance the two, somehow unsuccessfully&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-6273382054763030638?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/DAkYzZq84PY/of-things-artificial-and-those-natural.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">5</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/10/of-things-artificial-and-those-natural.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-3455448338284660494</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 13:31:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-25T06:33:48.900-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">MBA</category><title>The Times of Navratri- Edition 4</title><description>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Sometime in 2008, Mumbai &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Midterms, horrible they are. I always thought the worst gets over after coming to a b-school, this is over and above worst. Midterms are on and Falguni sings daily next to the hostel, well Navratri used to be different earlier.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;This Navratri hasn't been great, it had been just Okay, before it turned slightly awesome. Till now just one day it felt like Navratri as I kept a fast and went with one of my friend to Vrindi to have sabudana vada. Apart from that it hardly feels like one, b-school surely kills all the festivities and festivals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;So our midterms ended and a &lt;em&gt;senti&lt;/em&gt; Ajayjeet cribbing about not being at home on Durga Pooja for the first time in his life told me about Lokhandwaala Pooja. (senti Ajayjeet and Tommie had also tricked one of the profs using this sentipanna to get a deadline extended &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;). By being as dramatic as Ajayjeet can get, he convinced me. Another option to celebrate was that few of my friends were heading for the Falguni garba.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Garba- well childhood and Gujarat I had lot of it but Durga Pooja, haven't been to one for many years now. Ajayjeet's pitch of having &lt;em&gt;khichdi&lt;/em&gt;, &lt;em&gt;mishit dohi&lt;/em&gt; &amp;amp; bong sweets finally had me in. Although he also pitched about Bong Girls (arguably amongst the best in the country), but that was a point of parity in both the options (Garba Costumed girls giving them equal, if not more competition&lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;So I, Ajayjeet, and lot of us went for the durga pooja, few of them also opted for Garba.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;As I entered the pendal, it was time to get nostalgic, the beautiful pendal, the sound of shankha, the dhol &amp;amp; the beautiful idol of Maa Durga. We had a few sweets and then Ajayjeet with couple of guys met Abhijeet- the Singer. Awesome guy he is, talked nicely to all of us and arranged entry passes for the Euphoria show, for all 28 of us!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;So we entered, danced, singed and enjoyed that night with Palash &amp;amp; co. One disappointment was the fact that the crowd was short on bong girls, or maybe I didn't spot them &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;, ajayjeet does that too well ;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Not an elaborate celebration, but enough for b-school days, more than enough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;p.s. - I have forgotten about episode 3, i.e. the Bangalore days, sadly didn't visit Mysore Dusshera, but don't remember anything at all on what we did?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Technorati Tags: &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/navratri"&gt;Navratri&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-3455448338284660494?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/UEgJFBWidl0/times-of-navratri-edition-4.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/09/times-of-navratri-edition-4.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-8061018120838805762</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 13:24:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-23T06:36:38.010-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">DAIICT</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><title>The Times of Navratri- Edition 2</title><description>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Sometime in 2002, somewhere in Gujarat&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Hostel life, weird quizzes &amp;amp; scary electronics course make up my life nowadays. Although I am enjoying riding cycle daily to college and me and my roomie Sajeev have been losing weight, and lots of it. I enjoy programming, and lot of bak bak we do in hostels. But midterms are coming up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Bored by studies me and Prajjwal were thinking of only one thing, Navratri. Apart from my memories in childhood and Prajjwal's quest of finding cool places in city another motivator was Vishal- our hostel supervisor. His story of condom sales spiking up 10 times during Dandiya season in Gujarat &amp;amp; all nooks and corners of building being occupied by couples doing &lt;em&gt;you-know-what &lt;/em&gt;was enough to fuel… fuel us to goto Garba.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;So we tried to convince everyone, starting from our dear 83 block. Puneet &amp;amp; Krunal; the lovely legged Sainy, simple Sajeev, tanabesh &amp;amp; his peacocked roomie. Prajjwal asked a few girls, but given the midterm was on, no one was ready for it. So me and Prajjwal begin our journey towards the nearby Sector's garba.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Rs. 10 entry was well within our budgets, although it sounded insane to me that people paid for entering garba (of course later on I came to know about paying 1000 bucks for entering it &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;). As we entered it was a mix of nostalgia, teenage fantasies and &lt;em&gt;bhakti bhavna&lt;/em&gt; all packed into one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Well we entered and kept on watching junta dancing, and we kept on watching and watching.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Garba is the bestest form of dance ever I thought, and Prajjwal agreed, still trying to look for his favorite Dilli-ish girls. But he too lost interest and then we just immersed into the excitement of dance &amp;amp; music. We didn't enter the arena, firstly we didn't wear proper attire and secondly we were too shy to dance in front of these awesome performers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;We were standing and we found our ever sweating- rock music loving- calculus prof. Nice Guy he is. So we chatted with Prof. Chatterjee on a zillion things. An awesome night where we were mesmerized by dance, the devotion for &lt;em&gt;Devi Ma &lt;/em&gt;&amp;amp; and slightly disappointed at our Prof. not offering us a cold drink.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;And the initial thoughts, well in teenage days they are never gone, but still parked for sometime &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;em&gt;2 years later&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Garba time in college, the arena is ready, guys dressed up in Kurta-Pyjama, girls shining in their traditional attire. That day most of them had taken a bath it seems ( a popular perception within my batch that like guys, even girls were lazy enough not to take a bath &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;) and sort of put some make up too. A rarity again &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Well we danced and had loads of fun, this time it was post the midterms too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Few days later&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Chachu&lt;/em&gt; said, &lt;em&gt;yeh ek aitihaasik kshaan hoga, jab hum Ravan ka dahan karenge&lt;/em&gt;. So all of us started from a few Bamboo frames, loads of Fevicol (everyone smelled of it that day), crackers and whole loads of masti constituted the process of making our college's first ravan. Painted black and around 15 feet tall, it was constructed on the A-D wing junction and carried to the ground. The night was fun as the Ravan caught fire and Chachu set up his famous &lt;em&gt;havan&lt;/em&gt; later.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;But &lt;em&gt;us raat sab Pyaase hi soye the &lt;span style="font-family:Wingdings;"&gt;J&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Final Year&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;Puneet still believed in the first year Vishal theory, and he insisted that during our final year we try out the Hot Shot Garba at Karnavati Club. For a Rs. 200 entry it was worth the no. of well tattoed backs we saw, and heard a 3rd/4th runner up Indian Idol singer. All of the city's super rich were there and it seems lot of so called &lt;em&gt;setting&lt;/em&gt; is done there. Still this one didnt beat the simple garba of sectors near our college.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;And Puneet still remains, well he remains... :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Technorati Tags: &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/navratri"&gt;Navratri&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-8061018120838805762?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/bWJPXn8-YHg/times-of-navratri-edition-2.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">8</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/09/times-of-navratri-edition-2.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-1521068119299508923</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 12:17:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-09-18T05:21:45.070-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Korba</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">School</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">India</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><title>The Times of Navratri- Edition 1</title><description>&lt;span xmlns=""&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Sometime in 1998, somewhere in Chattisgarh&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Navratri is the best time of the year. Like yesterday I left from home at around 5 PM. After our customary cricket match at the abandoned tennis court we cycled to the Pooja Area. The Bengali Samiti in township begins the Durga Pooja ceremony on &lt;em&gt;Shashti&lt;/em&gt; and so the preparations were on for that. After that me with few of my friends moved to Santosh Chaat Bhandaar near Indra complex. After a few paani puris we visited the Navdurga Pendal next to Ambedkar Auditorium. Here the Devi there for all 9 days of Navratri.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;After that we moved to the house of Ayush, next to his house in a Badminton playing area Chauhan uncle organizes &lt;em&gt;Garba.&lt;/em&gt; We didn't dance but went upto the terrace on Ayush's block and were just looking at Garba &amp;amp; especially our new found interest of ogling at girls. Well Nipunjai says that there are couple of nice girls on the other end of the circle so we watched there, and then we watched a whole gang of them. Also behind them were the so called &lt;em&gt;lafoots&lt;/em&gt; of the township. The difference between us and them, well we move around on cycles, them on motorcycles; we hide and watch girls and at max giggle post that, but they are quite visible and vocal in the way they WATCH.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Anyway after lot of bird watching we moved to Jagran program at Navdurga Pendal. Its very peaceful and the best part is almost everyone from the township is there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Today I woke up late. The best part about this navaratri is that this one is after the exams, when it happens before the exams it kills the fun. Well today is when the Durga sits in the Mandir complex so should get ready for that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;After the morning pooja there is Bhog. All the Kids are supposed to help in serving the Bhog to all who come to eat. Again the whole community is here to pray and have Prasad. So we served everyone and btw did I describe the Prasad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;A sweet, but well that wasn't the attraction. You have Khichdi &amp;amp; chutney. Superbly awesome Bengali khichdi cooked in Desi Ghee, and along with that Chutney made of Khajoor and Papita. Awesomely awesome…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;All who helped to serve get Extra Ghee as reward!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;4 days later…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="TEXT-ALIGN: justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Another Navratri ended L. Dusshera was awesome yesterday and so were the Durga Devi visarjan in the morning, we went on the truck to the lake and danced a lot on the way. After that in the evening I watched the Dusshera from the balcony of Indian Coffee House munching on Special Masala Dosa and Frooti (felt like sitting in Royal Box at Wimbledon). Dusshera is like a mela, everyone from everywhere on earth assembles on the KV football ground. And the fireworks were awesome.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Now school will start again, boring…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Technorati Tags: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/navratri"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;Navratri&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-1521068119299508923?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/I4qVcji_lU0/times-of-navratri-edition-1.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">9</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/09/times-of-navratri-edition-1.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-9095262250033481983</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 19:23:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-29T13:35:03.702-07:00</atom:updated><title>Back to Regular stuff...</title><description>As tonight's super-heavy, super-aweFome Gujju/Rajasthani dinner struggles to sink in my belly I can't help thinking about the past few days. After a trimester where I indulged in activities beyond my comfort zone, there was hardly any padhai in my life, I lost touch with most of my friends &amp;amp; my beloved acts, and the final day even my cavity dilling erupted out :), but in the end was Happies Endings...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looking at everyone over the past few days, I found many new things about many people, found so many broken at times, fixed up the other day, and in that dily-dobly state of being happy-sad. I too went through the curve, but as another new chapter in long cherished firm of mine beckons I am super excited about just being there. Also staying childhood &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;langotiya &lt;/span&gt;and meeting him after so many years would be awesome too. Gurgaon-Delhi-Noida sounds great as of now :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although sometimes I felt not so good too about all this, and a few things were dissapointing at times. But finally as everyone is happy, I feel good too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My team was awesome, and so were my boss log who kept there calm throughout it, team was simply awesome :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Plan to be more regular with regular things in life from now on ... :)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-9095262250033481983?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/hW9cwqV9gvI/back-to-regular-stuff.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/08/back-to-regular-stuff.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-1416683906657120387</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:59:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-08-15T10:07:46.819-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><title>is this the end???</title><description>Is this the end of the much thought of &lt;a href="http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2007/11/small-city-dreams.html"&gt;Small City Dreams&lt;/a&gt;, or is it just another passing phase. Past few months have been the most boring in my life, I am through my worst days in terms of doing what I was best at. I miss the detailed research I went through for every new food item I had &amp;amp; every new food joint I tried, I don't watch, hardly anytime for digesting news items leave politics. I have read just one book in the past more than one year &amp;amp; above all I have lost touch with most of my friends (which brings to end the notion that MBA enhances networking, it just kills it, you hardly can sustain your existing network, for those who say who do it, maybe they hardly had any before coming here.), and also I realize that I am hardly any good at writing anything.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So maybe the end of the Small City Dreams as all this bound to happen, but I am sure that they would soon to surface, not now, but maybe a few years down the line.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Till then I think it would be great if get back some other pleasures of my life back in place.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-1416683906657120387?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/wCpBKKwcLwc/is-this-end.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/08/is-this-end.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-7584446981360003369</guid><pubDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2009 19:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-26T12:36:49.991-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><title>Last Week</title><description>I have worked for two years, but sometimes a week can be heavier than that and much much longer than that. Some happiness followed by tonnes of feedback, mostly not so good about whatever you thought you were always good on, coming mostly for people who are not that relevant, but sometimes they are too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then an odd day when you don't have anything to worry about, you had the whole bunch of people you like so much to worry about. All of them with their sunk faces was hardly encouraging.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And then there were submissions, exams and some scribbling on forms and papers as always.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All of it is hardly joyful, dissonance resonates here, (and as one of my friend here tells me, all this effect is getting cumulative, lost and getting further lost) and I need to get over it. And at the end of it all, being high on a bit of Vodka remains the only bit of bliss I had.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looking forward for a happier week ahead, but I hardly remember what being happy was, those moments are hard to find nowadays.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-7584446981360003369?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/6rNT_-pDqdU/last-week.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/07/last-week.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-8125078226398044564</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 22:24:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-14T15:36:09.424-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">MBA</category><title>Me Too...</title><description>While writing this short writeup on Me Too Brands, I realise its already 03:52 AM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Me Too is sad today because,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;2) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;3) Me got pissed of in class today, my so called &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Intellectual Class &lt;/span&gt;can show all sensually charged ads, but giggles kiddishly when Freud was discussed&lt;br /&gt;4) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;5) Some regular no sleep syndrome after doing tonners of clerikal work&lt;br /&gt;6) Writing a writeup for another irrelevant assignment, few will read, no one ever implements anything here&lt;br /&gt;7) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;8) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;9) We couldn't work properly on another bplan contest, again!!! :(&lt;br /&gt;10) Haven't met one of my friend for ages, the dinner got canceled, and now she is nowhere to be found!!! btw she is in this college too :((&lt;br /&gt;11) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;12) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;13) Memory getting worse&lt;br /&gt;14) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;15) India out of T20 World Cup&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2007/04/i-broke-vow-night-india-lost.html"&gt;Last time when we lost in 2007, it was sought of ajeeb types bad...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Me Too was sad today, as many others, I just hope I get some sleep tomorrow in class, and then Me Too can dream of the next world cup...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-8125078226398044564?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/R1WibRvtvCM/me-too.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/06/me-too.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-7002680163291196085</guid><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 16:47:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-10T10:05:59.123-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><title>Speaking as someone else...</title><description>Every new stage in the life introduces you to lot of new things. This one has brought an environment Cultural shifts, a maturity level in establishing relationships, mood swings arising from a hectic schedule. And as everything else in this program, it fails to be consistent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People swing from extreme forms of conservatism to the radical, and hardly any stand is conservative. Stupid-Dumb to the extremely intelligent, laziness to diligence, I fail to understand most of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And people it, from giggling on everything "Sensual" shown in class, to justifying the rationale behind "sex sells", I hardly find a strand of conviction. One second they are the all progressive kinds, hailing from metros, the other they cant digest petty things here, leave alone someone's freedom of expression.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I still am caught in the small town idiosyncrasies of conservatism and rigid thinking, but I think its sometime better than switching so much....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And Respect, well I have my biases, which everyone has, but atleast something is left.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-7002680163291196085?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/fLQ5yTdZ3Uw/speaking-as-someone-else.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/06/speaking-as-someone-else.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-3962623190363896555</guid><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 22:25:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-06-09T15:40:50.065-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><title>Influencing People and all the other things...</title><description>It can be an extremely simple act, you want people to do what you want, to induce yourself in them. All of you which is Good, Bad or Ugly tries to penetrate them. We need a mirror everywhere, we want to see self in everyone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And the preys, well they are freely available, vulnerable souls waiting for someone to take control.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I sometimes wish I could be a prey, but I am not at all that types, I sometimes tend to be blatantly expectant and try to be the hunter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Leave me though, I am not relevant. I see the few influenced ones around me, and just wish that they were better off. Changing patterns in their life keeps them away from normal, way away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let things be simple and normal. Again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Simplicity would be the way to happiness, maybe not eternal bliss, but just to keep things normal.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-3962623190363896555?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/4T4BxQeFh_o/influencing-people-and-all-other-things.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/06/influencing-people-and-all-other-things.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-7664263157092676689</guid><pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 09:58:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-05-23T03:10:30.277-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">MBA</category><title>Ghajini-isation of my once famous memory</title><description>It pays to do an MBA, but we part with things to do it too. Money, Sleep and now memory top the list of my key &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;take-aways&lt;/span&gt; from this course.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once called DesiPedia I still am doing well with my strategic memory (so called long term memory, the junk facts and figures, although doing bad with names), but I tend to forget small regular items ( read &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;tactical memory loss&lt;/span&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My story might be similar to a not upgraded computer which boasted of a 20GB hard disk 4 years back (or that of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Chacha Chaudhary&lt;/span&gt;: His brain used to work faster than a computer, but those were the days of the great 386, and maybe thats why this generation of Kids moved away from him).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My memory tools: a small spiral pad which helps me remember tasks and followup with them. Most of the people who tend to be busy around me are found with that item nowadays. And it helps.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know it can get worse than this, but still I will never ever go for tattoos :) or that haircut.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strangely all this happened without &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Asin&lt;/span&gt; in my life ;), wonder if it would have made things much worse or better?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:78%;" &gt;My playlist plays Guzarish from Ghajini :D&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-7664263157092676689?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/yz3pzxzZFv4/ghajini-isation-of-my-once-famous.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">9</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/05/ghajini-isation-of-my-once-famous.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-2045853021756717852</guid><pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 06:13:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-03-10T23:23:58.286-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Holiday</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">SPJIMR</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Mumbai</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Bangalore</category><title>Short and Sweet Holi :)</title><description>10-11:15 Am on 11th Mar'09&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shortest Holi ever for me, it started and ended pretty soon. But we won.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We won over the Kala Bandar of exams, quizzes, tension of assignments of the two end terms tomorrow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But still Kala Bandar managed to win over a few... :(&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still BH and GH celebrated a quick, nice, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;rangeen, kichad bhari&lt;/span&gt; Holi. As always we have had maximum fun when the batch has been together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last year was a classic Holi, rooftop in Bangalore, sipping Kailasa made &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Thandai&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Mithai&lt;/span&gt; and then drinking beer basking in sunlight, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;ekdum Shawshank Redemption ishtyle&lt;/span&gt; :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wishing a Happy Holi to everyone visiting the Blog.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-2045853021756717852?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/ooyP-nmCbOo/10-1115-am-on-11th-mar09-shortest-holi.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">3</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/03/10-1115-am-on-11th-mar09-shortest-holi.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-8125273133702611722</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 13:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-03-10T06:46:55.181-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">marketing</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">MBA</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Management Fundas</category><title>कॉमिक्स और हमारा बचपन</title><description>लुईस कैरोल की एलिस को कल्पना के उस अद्भुत संसार में जाने के लिए खरगोश महाशय के घर का रास्ता नापना होता था लेकिन मुझे (याने जब में बच्चा था) या मेरे जैसे कई भारतीय बच्चो को अपने घर के कुछ आधे किलो मीटर की परिधि में कोई सोनू  या मनोज  लाइब्रेरी ढूंढनी होती थी | उसके बाद तो बस अपने कल्पना के संसार में डूब जाने के लिए हम आजाद होते थे |&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;नागराज, ध्रुव, परमाणु, भोकाल, तौसी, हवालदार बहादुर, बांकेलाल, चाचा चौधरी, बिल्लू, पिंकी, साबू और ना जाने कितने ही किरदार जीवन का एक हिस्सा बन गए थे | अब जब में पीछे मूड कर देखता हूँ तो यह सोच कर ख़ुशी होती है की भले ही चोरी छुपे या लड़ झगड़ कर भी मैंने कॉमिक्स पढ़ी है तो अच्छा ही किया है, वरना जीवन की ये यादें कभी नहीं बना पाता |&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;जहाँ तक मुझे याद है कॉमिक्स पढने की खुमारी गर्मी की छुट्टियों में सर चढ़ कर बोलती थी | और कॉमिक्स खरीदना तो काफी महंगा सौदा था इसलिए लगभग हम सभी मित्र किसी ना किसी लाइब्रेरी के सदस्य बन जाते थे और किराए से कॉमिक्स ले आया करते थे | उन चौबीस घंटो के समय में सभी दोस्तों को एक दुसरे की भी कॉमिक्स ख़तम करनी होती थी तो बस फिर क्या कॉमिक्स लाइब्रेरी से ली और पढना चालू एक आधी तो घर पहुँचते पहुँचते ही ख़तम हो जाया करती थी |&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;शुरूआती दिनों में जहाँ से मुझे याद है कॉमिक्स का किराया होता था पचास पैसे और डाइजेस्ट का एक रुपैया लेकिन हाई रे महंगाई बाद में किराया तय हो गया था कॉमिक्स के दाम का दस प्रतिशत याने ८ रुपैये की कॉमिक्स ८० पैसे में | कॉमिक्स न सिर्फ आपकी कल्पना शीलता को एक नया आयाम  देती है अपितु व्यवहारिक ज्ञान में भी वृद्धि कराती है | जैसे आप देख ही सकते है की कभी न कभी तो आपने अपने किसी मित्र के साथ साझेदारी में लाइब्रेरी खोली ही होगी, और कुछ चव्वनी अट्ठनी का मुनाफा कमा कर खुश भी हुए होंगे |  लो जी बन गए आप उद्यमी (entrepreneur) !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;लेकिन इन सब से बढ़कर बौद्धिक विकास में सबसे मददगार साबित होते थे मित्रो के साथ कॉमिक्सों पर गहन विचार विमर्श ! जी हाँ कौन सा नायक किस नयी शक्ति के साथ आया है, किस नायक को सबसे मुश्किल खलनायक से जूझना पड़ता था, यदि ये दोनों नायक साथ में आये तो ज्यादा अच्छा कौन लडेगा इत्यादि | बिना शक्तियों के दुश्मनों के मात देने वाला सुपर कमांडो ध्रुव मेरा पसंदीदा नायक हुआ करता था | और ध्रुव के खलनायको के ऊपर तो विचार विमर्श मैंने देशपांडे के साथ माइंड ट्री में रहते हुए भी किया था | उदाहरण के लिए चुम्बा, बौना वामन, चंडकाल हाँ लेकिन ध्रुव के दोस्त भी हुआ करते थे जैसे किरिगी, धनञ्जय, येती |&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;अब तो कई सालों से किसी की भी सुध नहीं ली है | पर मुझे अभी भी यकिन है की ये सभी नायक अपनी जान की बाजी लगा कर आज भी विश्व को बड़े बड़े खतरों से बचा रहे होंगे और इसलिए आप भारत में या यूरोप में या अमरीका में चैन की नींद सो पा रहे है !&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote style="font-family: trebuchet ms; font-style: italic;"&gt;A mail by my friend &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Kapil&lt;/span&gt;. I think so many of us would identify with the same. Plus I love his hindi writings (read a couple of his entries secretly in Bengaluru along with Mathuru ;)). Till he has his own blog, this one will be kept by me :).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also for my friends doing MBA, this is what a Dimdima should feel like, so maybe something like this would have determined your pitch for selling Dimdimas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although this is a thinking of a kid 15 years back, things have changed now.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-8125273133702611722?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/hczhVhiY2No/blog-post.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/03/blog-post.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-4927351458813758157</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 09:41:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-03-07T14:46:29.867-08:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">MBA</category><title>Hardly anything great to Talk about...or maybe</title><description>When I used to read &lt;a href="http://knownaresh.blogspot.com/"&gt;Naresh's blog&lt;/a&gt; while he was doing MBA I always thought it is surely something which I will enjoy. Talking about things which we {include DAIICT E-Wing, Bangalore BakarBandhooze} had made a habit of was about to find its glorious destiny at a b-school.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At almost of the end of three trims it has been,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- a fight for marks, dirty one at times, me being a party to this constant usage of rand() function...&lt;br /&gt;- my database of facts eroding, that too eroding badly. Desipedia is history :((&lt;br /&gt;- Lack of attention, lack of focus, a future prospect for me becoming a Ghajini hero someday :) (atleast I will get Asin ;))&lt;br /&gt;- horrible writing skills (blogs, reports, I cant write anything properly now)&lt;br /&gt;- lack of movie gyan and watching very few movies&lt;br /&gt;- a whole lot of keywords, but everything is in air. I first thought Fin was grounded, but slowly as I understand it in a better way, that too is highly Airy (financial crisis was bound to happen)&lt;br /&gt;- loosing touch with zillions of my friends back across India...&lt;br /&gt;- less sleep&lt;br /&gt;- no more following news and random data and discussing it over ...&lt;br /&gt;- no more roaming around half the hostel block and doing bakk...&lt;br /&gt;- no time and no money-&gt; (-5.5 lakhs) and further drain of cash :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Overall the first year has been a bit disappointing for me, or maybe I expected a bit too much... but there were good moments, and they came in company of my nice of no-brainers like me here. They have been together in all the great fun here...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Memories from my Div although didn't make me that senti and all today, but they would linger around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe I talk about thing in extreme extremes, maybe its not that bad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just this internship in Himachal and then I am BACK :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although the long term plan or Strategy ( as me and my roomie recall, the most used/abused word this year) remains to minimize my un-learning and maximize sleeping time :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:webdings;font-size:85%;"  &gt;Situation: Studying Convertibles and Business Law before that, have exams tomorrow&lt;br /&gt;Song: Pardesi, Toshi, Dev-D...the one with 3 dancers and abhay deol drinking, right now my While(1) song :D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This movie would have surely triggered a discussion on nihilistic intentions of Dev back in Bangalore... right now they talk only about the music which is good, but something else missing&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-4927351458813758157?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/lmGzR_-h8IQ/hardly-anything-great-to-talk-aboutor.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">9</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/03/hardly-anything-great-to-talk-aboutor.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-8428154595388752163</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 11:15:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-01-22T04:44:35.893-08:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Food</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Mumbai Bars</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Mumbai</category><title>Vada-Pav, Totos and ... Girls :)</title><description>&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Vada&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Pav&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; is God's Own Food in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Mumbai&lt;/span&gt;. Have gulped thousands of them since being in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Mumbai&lt;/span&gt;, it comes in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;various&lt;/span&gt; formats and my favorite one is one near NM (Vile &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Parle&lt;/span&gt;) and at &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;Shetty's&lt;/span&gt; in front of my college gate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This place in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Bandra&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Totos&lt;/span&gt;- Garage Pub&lt;/span&gt; is really quite nice. The first time I was there back in Aug'08 with my friend we ended up standing on a small table on the side, enjoying the view of tonnes of good looking girls on the Table on View, and obviously having Beer :). I really like the place, a Chicken Roll near Carter Road &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;CCD&lt;/span&gt; and a Brownie nearby always precedes the events at &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Totos&lt;/span&gt;. Overall good place...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Girls... well I hardly have had any luck with them... lets not talk... ;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;Kissa&lt;/span&gt;-1:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometime in August, me along with two of my friends, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;goto&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;Totos&lt;/span&gt;. We drink a bit and then come across few of my friends juniors from his college. So we sit and share the table. Enter this girl, who we all know has to be good (otherwise the story won't be told :)), who comes and sits with us (&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;seems&lt;/span&gt; she knows someone among the Juniors). So everyone is &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;talking&lt;/span&gt; and fortunately I get a seat in front of her which gives me the freedom to talk with her for ages (it was just two hours:)). &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;Ahha&lt;/span&gt;, and her boyfriend too ... he was sitting next to me. But who cares, the girl was good, enough :D&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So when all the bills were cleared, she leaves a Rs. 10 tip (or maybe 20, I was drunk, but my bill was already cleared) . I told her why Tip, I think I brought a Pitcher to the Table too, why not Tip me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"What would you do with this?"... &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17"&gt;kuch&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18"&gt;nahi&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19"&gt;mujhe&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; tip do, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20"&gt;isse&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21"&gt;vada&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22"&gt;pav&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23"&gt;khaaunga&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;:)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shocked and Stunned, she Tipped me :), my friend who was the closest linked to her was hiding his face and all other laughing. Don't know why they were, because I kept the note and had an awesome &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_24"&gt;vada&lt;/span&gt;-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25"&gt;pav&lt;/span&gt; of it the next day :)...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_26"&gt;Kissa&lt;/span&gt;-2:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She is a nice and pretty girl, (self claimed &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_27"&gt;hottie&lt;/span&gt;, which I &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_28"&gt;dont&lt;/span&gt; agree :P), He is the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_29"&gt;CUTEst&lt;/span&gt; kid in the batch (so much so kid that he was asked for AGE proof at &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_30"&gt;Totos&lt;/span&gt; :)). I thought will do them both a favour.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I two years of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_31"&gt;Vada&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_32"&gt;Pav&lt;/span&gt;- for &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_33"&gt;Preety&lt;/span&gt; Girl given that she takes Cutest Boy and introduces him to the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_34"&gt;CUTEst&lt;/span&gt; girl at &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_35"&gt;Totos&lt;/span&gt; and helps him to hit on the Cutest Girl :). (No one knows who the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_36"&gt;CUTEst&lt;/span&gt; Girl was, rest two are friends )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cutest Girl was sitting in a corner (with no boys around). So again will the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_37"&gt;vada&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_38"&gt;pav&lt;/span&gt; make it, or break it. I offered Pretty Girl Beer, she refused, but then when I offered her &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_39"&gt;Vada&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_40"&gt;Pav&lt;/span&gt;, she agreed. So she took him to meet the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_41"&gt;CUTEst&lt;/span&gt; girl, and the rest as they say was &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_42"&gt;LEGEN&lt;/span&gt;...&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_43"&gt;DARY&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.cbs.com/primetime/how_i_met_your_mother/community/barney_blog/index.php"&gt;(Barney &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_44"&gt;Stinson's&lt;/span&gt; Blog)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_45"&gt;Kissa&lt;/span&gt; 3:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My friend &lt;a href="http://the-enginerd.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_46"&gt;enginerd&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/a&gt;was roaming in Bombay it was the day of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_47"&gt;Chatt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; and thousands were performing &lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_48"&gt;Pooja&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;on &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_49"&gt;Juhu&lt;/span&gt; Beach, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_50"&gt;enginerd&lt;/span&gt; was there too, to have a glimpse of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_51"&gt;Priyanka&lt;/span&gt; Chopra who &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_52"&gt;apprantely&lt;/span&gt; was there too. I divert him to this &lt;a href="http://sakshijuneja.com/blog/2006/10/29/viveik-oberoi-is-finally-famous-ode-to-blog-a-ween-pardy/"&gt;party of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_53"&gt;bloggers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (also on http://www.thevoiceinmyhead.com/2006/10/29/mandira-meets-bloggywood/) hosted by my &lt;a href="http://sakshijuneja.com/blog"&gt;once favorite blogger&lt;/a&gt; (once because I hardly read anything nowadays :)). As I was lucky enough to get invited, I thought if I am in  Bangalore why doesn't my friend get the chance to have a bit of fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But the passing of invite came at a cost, I asked &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_54"&gt;enginerd&lt;/span&gt; to buy 4 &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_55"&gt;vadpavs&lt;/span&gt; from NM (or &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_56"&gt;mithibai&lt;/span&gt;) get them packed and hand it over to the hostess. Surely something that she would remember for quite some time :) (in a party where people are bringing wine and flowers over, that was surely a differentiating factor :)).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 years later at my college canteen I see her sitting ( i never met her but wrote for her blog sometimes long back), so I go and meet her, and remind her of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_57"&gt;vada&lt;/span&gt;-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_58"&gt;pav&lt;/span&gt;. She recognises me on the basis of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_59"&gt;Vada&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_60"&gt;Pav&lt;/span&gt; :) and then she remembers me as &lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_61"&gt;desh&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;and then we talk :).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Conclusion:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Girls come and go, a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_62"&gt;vada&lt;/span&gt;-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_63"&gt;pav&lt;/span&gt; is forever :P&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-8428154595388752163?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/ezhU04AmHiE/vada-pav-totos-and-girls.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">7</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/01/vada-pav-totos-and-girls.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-6342432063707153519</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 14:23:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-01-16T06:43:55.715-08:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">MBA</category><title>Who Enjoys It?</title><description>Some are doing it, some do not. I always seem to fall in the latter. They do different things, different activities and seem to enjoy it all. For me somehow once the Primary activity starts turning a bit and infact a lot boring I seem to shed the other added ones too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some stand up and like giving motivational speeches, which I think are mostly worthless, some do all the work in life and you never know, and some write sitting in their 3 seater room ... :-|&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I sometimes end up drinking along with my similarly-bored friend, same Old Monk with dry peanuts, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Chakli&lt;/span&gt; and watery green chutney and discuss the same things over and over again. Its all about thinking about those great days of Work. Did I say great???&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was thinking about BTech days while being at work, although I thought that the next degree would be back to that kind of fun, but I miss something.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Miss TIME, just to be, just to roam around, discuss stupid stuff with people, read some nice stuff, read books, watch cricket all simple things in life. Taking walks during night-time through the dusty lanes here, me and another of seemingly lost friend, talk about not getting what we wanted here and what we will get after here, thats one of those simple things, but not much otherwise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am sick of those same old jargons, I am bored of people not knowing and saying anything about anything without thinking (ha, they call it thinking on the feet), tired of the same old classroom, excel sheets, mera DELL and writing the most stupid pieces of assignments in the history of assignments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;New Year, already half a month past and still to add that much needed freshness, because all things tend to become same over a period, especially when you are in this corner of Mumbai.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Desperately looking forward to March, time for escape to Villages and it would be fun for sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People think that I am frustu, but its just the lack of time and senselessness of what I am doing, I know that I need, a new pair of lenses to view the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Literally, these specs are old and loose now :D&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-6342432063707153519?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/2PIWsnNbayM/who-enjoys-it.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">10</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2009/01/who-enjoys-it.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-8425969285172093009</guid><pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2008 12:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-12-20T06:08:00.654-08:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Mumbai</category><title>10 Hour Sleep...Kidding Ain't You!!!</title><description>Tired mind, tired soul, tired body, sitting in a lecture and looking at the red layer forming on my eyes is a habit now, it was the same tomorrow, my friend &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;lal&lt;/font&gt; saying me that my eyes have turned &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;lal&lt;/font&gt;, a quiz to attend (not the regular B-School Acad Quiz, but a general Quiz for a change), walk crazily back to the hostel, drink a &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;chai&lt;/font&gt; and the 82gm Parle-G, go to room, another &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Online"&lt;/font&gt; B-School event to work on, another unsuccessful attempt, eat dinner which has turned extremely boring nowadays and...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Roomie wake me up at 12, I know I always say that but surely wake me up, have loads to study, me putting an alarm too...gnite&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A Foggy room, smell of rain, nice and cool feeling, &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"The Straight Drive is his favorite shot, they not that, we know that"&lt;/font&gt;, the sound of Mark Nicholas from Cricket 2007, the mobile says its 11:45, roomie1 and another guy from my wing onto Cricket, they love EA Sports Cricket07 here and it has caught on with lot of people recently, roomie2 studying most probably what looks like FM, I wake up, sit and sit for 5 mins, I do some  &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;badbad &lt;/font&gt;and say that I am very tired and want to sleep. I spend five mins thinking about what to do next, and then think why not just lie down for five more minutes...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looks like a nice long shopping street, like "The Mall Road" on every Hill Station, its nice and cool, I am walking, but why alone, I have no clue. Oh, how come he is here, he and his wife, I am meeting them for the first time after his marriage, he still seems the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Sorry yaar I couldn't make it to your wedding, how could I have, I have no time"&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"It seems thats the only line you have picked up after going to a b-school"&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't talk to his wife and both of them just walk away...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An office, I don't know where it is, looks like a decent enough one, nice and clean, a sort of a bluish-saawariya-ish tinge to the whole place, I fail to understand why am I here. Hey I know her, I know her for sure, its the same ...hmm wait, cant really make out her face, its a bit blurred, infact everything is blurred.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A change in office from Salt Lake Kolkata to Mumbai is required, she is not getting it, we meet talk about it and start walking. Keep Walking as the good old Johny said (Diageo's Johny :)). Nice Breeze, great weather, me doing bakbak as I always do, she responding sometimes as she always did!!! Hand in Hand, the touch of her hands, we talk for about 15 mins or so whooffff she goes...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sleep...Sleep...Sleep&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Aaah, the pleasure of a stiffness in the body when you wake up after long time (I just cant imagine what would have happened to &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rip_Van_Winkle"&gt;Rip Van Winkle&lt;/a&gt;), roomie 1 still sleeping, roomie 2 sitting straight with his &lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;chadar&lt;/font&gt; on his head (in a meditating pose), nice breeze flowing through the window. It seems it rained at night, aaaah, the smell of Fresh Air, for the first time in ages. Pre-Reads and assignments, chuck it yaar, its 7:45, lecture starts at 9, anyway can't do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It feels great to sleep for 10 hours sometimes, especially in a b-school where the only thing we lack is that, had a fresh day with no sleeping in lecture today, and even the weather is good with slight helpings of Rain making the day every pleasant.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And see, sometimes sleep is the only time where my imagination runs wild nowadays, it used to different before...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;font style="font-style: italic;"&gt;200201094 was surely much enjoyable and relaxing than PGP-08-003&lt;/font&gt; (my GTalk status nowadays)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;p.s.- Please no Freudian Interpretation of Dreams or Jungian for that matter, I tried reading the first one unsuccesfully and the second one too slightly, both not successful...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-8425969285172093009?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/HcWQLdnKgNY/10-hour-sleepkidding-aint-you.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">4</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2008/12/10-hour-sleepkidding-aint-you.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-5475499330773969349</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2008 16:31:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-11-10T22:24:26.724-08:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Friends</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Cricket</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">India</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Sourav Ganguly</category><title>A Part of me Died</title><description>Dada, Dada will never ever play again. After the post lunch victory, reality has just started sinking in. It has been eight hours after that historic victory but I have no other thoughts other than Dada in mind right now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SRkk_UA-TFI/AAAAAAAAAkY/8qrlURpGGdI/s1600-h/82895.2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 359px; height: 270px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SRkk_UA-TFI/AAAAAAAAAkY/8qrlURpGGdI/s400/82895.2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267281909309656146" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SRkifF9vXtI/AAAAAAAAAkQ/Gs0CJHHTaQs/s1600-h/82895.2.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: none;"&gt;&lt;!--[if gte vml 1]&gt;&lt;v:shapetype id="_x0000_t75" coordsize="21600,21600" spt="75" preferrelative="t" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" filled="f" stroked="f"&gt;  &lt;v:stroke joinstyle="miter"&gt;  &lt;v:formulas&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="sum 0 0 @1"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="prod @2 1 2"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelWidth"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelHeight"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="sum @0 0 1"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="prod @6 1 2"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelWidth"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="sum @8 21600 0"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelHeight"&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn="sum @10 21600 0"&gt;  &lt;/v:formulas&gt;  &lt;v:path extrusionok="f" gradientshapeok="t" connecttype="rect"&gt;  &lt;o:lock ext="edit" aspectratio="t"&gt; &lt;/v:shapetype&gt;&lt;v:shape id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267279156758929106" spid="_x0000_i1025" type="#_x0000_t75" alt="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SRkifF9vXtI/AAAAAAAAAkQ/Gs0CJHHTaQs/s400/82895.2.jpg" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SRkifF9vXtI/AAAAAAAAAkQ/Gs0CJHHTaQs/s1600-h/82895.2.jpg" style="'width:300pt;height:225pt;visibility:visible;mso-wrap-style:square'" button="t"&gt;  &lt;v:imagedata src="file:///C:\Users\PGP08~1.ABH\AppData\Local\Temp\msohtmlclip1\01\clip_image001.jpg" title="82895.2"&gt; &lt;/v:shape&gt;&lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if !vml]--&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SRkifF9vXtI/AAAAAAAAAkQ/Gs0CJHHTaQs/s1600-h/82895.2.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: none;"&gt;&lt;!--[endif]--&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;I almost ran into tears as I went through this article &lt;a href="http://content-usa.cricinfo.com/magazine/content/current/story/376791.html"&gt;Losing my Religion. &lt;/a&gt;Its one the best articles on Cricket I have ever read. As Siddhartha Vaidyanathan narrates his story me and all my friends across India felt that he is telling our story. I thank him for writing such a great article. As I looked at this phrase in the post, &lt;i&gt;a part of me died&lt;/i&gt;, I felt the same. All these cricketers have been as indispensable to me as my body parts and as they go slowly I feel a great sense of loss and sadness. Its almost the formal end of my childhood which lasted so long due to these great players and the day Tendulkar goes life would never be the same again. Just today I said to someone that almost 4 years of my 24 year life has gone in thinking, watching, playing and talking about Cricket, and these guys made it possible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't know what to write, Dada has been a Dada for me, as a Big Brother he has given me and so many other Indians great moments which we would cherish throughout our life. 1996 when he and Dravid came into the team, I missed his first test hundred. I heard that there is this new guy who is king of off side, bowls some nice swingers too and is very similar to David Gower. His elegant off side drives gives me fond memories of my childhood, after Dada every kid in my township started playing strokes on the offside (generally it was considered that leg side is more scoring with a tennis bowl). Almost invariably when he used to open with Sachin and take first strike he would hit a sweet boundary through the off side. I vaguely recall him hitting Pollock many a times through the off side, the bowl slowly travelling to the fence, and Boycott all praises for the Prince of Kolkata.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I came from class 6th in 1996 to the 2000's 10th board, Dada had become a prolific run getter in one dayers, I had remained the same students, in the years had passed an unsuccessful world cup, &lt;i&gt;The God&lt;/i&gt; becoming the captain unsuccessfully, azhar going in and out of the team, a World Cup where Dada scored a brilliant 183 at Taunton, a World Cup in which I didn't sleep at night and and went into tears momentarily when South Africa lost in the semis, lot of Coca Cola cups at Sharjah where Tendulkar and Dada were killing all bowling attacks, a Sahara Cup where Dada set himself as an all rounder, a period of change in Cricket when Wills ended its sponsorship with the Indian team, Jagmohan Dalmiya headed the ICC, and above all a disgraceful India South Africa series. And then it was &lt;b&gt;Captain DADA&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although I was a Dada fan but it was after he took up captaincy my respect for him increased, as he and his side with few new players started winning it was a different feeling altogether. Dada positioned the Indian Team as an aggressive unit, for the first time in history I felt that Indian Team was doing something like this, change which Dada brought about was zillion times more than Obama used the word in his campaign. Change we need was brought and it was just amazing. The Great Eden victory still comes in my dream, and the Natwest one, or India almost ruining Steven Waugh's farewell in Australia, and the 2003 World Cup and so many others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lot of memories, but sadness is blurring most of them today. Some not so good ones of Dada's spat with Greg Chappell and him being dropped after the Zimbabwae tour, some of prayers which we did for his return to Cricket, some extremely funny like me saying Jai Dada aloud in front of a Dada poster with 20 people standing around before my XAT exam last year in Bangalore, some drunken memories of me and my friend dimpy, patrick and sussu drinking and praying for Dada to score during our tragic loss to Bangladesh in last year's World Cup, more drunkard ones of me and &lt;a href="http://thequark.blogspot.com/"&gt;the quark&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://the-enginerd.blogspot.com/"&gt;the enginerd&lt;/a&gt; and Ati-Say supporting Dada, and Sandy and Mathuru and Mandu supporting Dravid and Barve as always confused :), some meoments where I cursed Greg Chappel like had none other in my life, two historic moments when I watched Dada Live on stadium, him hitting a Six to Vettori during a Test match in Ahmedbad, him winning in the IPL opener at Bangalore this year, never saw him in one days, some more cursing for Bucknor when half the times gave pathetic decisions to Dada and many a times helped the cause of getting Dada a ban, some moments which I was ashamed of as Dada's Pepsi ad, and another million memories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope Dada finds happiness in whatever he does next, he enjoys life and cricket and some time with his family.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am happy that I can tell my kids 20 years from now that Dada was there, because I don't think they would ever see a player like him again, they will ever feel the emotions of the game we all love in the same way as we did, but as Siddartha pointed out in his article we belong to this generation and for all of us its a very sad day. Hope is what I have and I hope there will be many more greats who will play for the Indian Cricket Team. In the current lot I don’t have that feel for anyone other than Sehwag or Dhoni. Lets Hope.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So finally this is it, as the Quark would have told me in his favourite singer Jim Morrison's words, this is the end, beautiful friend, or debu would murmured his Darkness filling up the room dialouge, one thing I know, I have lost something which is irreplaceable.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;God give me the strength, I would badly need it on the Day when Tendulkar retires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Technorati Tags: &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/sourav+ganguly"&gt;Sourav Ganguly&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/dada"&gt;Dada&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/cricket"&gt;Cricket&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/india"&gt;India&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-5475499330773969349?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/k1OBEKqtIAs/part-of-me-died.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SRkk_UA-TFI/AAAAAAAAAkY/8qrlURpGGdI/s72-c/82895.2.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">13</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2008/11/part-of-me-died.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-4651936174002339306</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 20:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-11-04T11:03:28.530-08:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Cinema</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Youtube</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Bollywood</category><title>Sunny Paaji da Tashan :)</title><description>It all started with Quark again &lt;a href="http://thequark.blogspot.com/2008/10/wordplay.html"&gt;showing his appreciation&lt;/a&gt; for Cinema which only few like us appreciate :). Here he learns from the greatest fighters in Tamil and Telugu industry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watch it and enjoy Big Brother, because every family has a saviour :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/0suqt8JI1aM&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/0suqt8JI1aM&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://in.youtube.com/watch?v=yRrW8KaTuWQ"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Paaji ka ek aur chamatkar, Jeet ka Mahaan Dance, remixed!!!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Technorati Tags: &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/sunny+deol"&gt;Sunny Deol&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-4651936174002339306?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/uz_aGz800hM/sunny-paaji-da-tashan.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">5</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2008/11/sunny-paaji-da-tashan.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-5251566209676100454</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 19:08:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-11-03T09:49:51.129-08:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Cricket</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Sourav Ganguly</category><title>Bye-Bye Jumbo</title><description>&lt;blockquote style="font-style: italic;"&gt;18 years, for 18 years they waited that he will turn the bowl, and he didn't.&lt;/blockquote&gt; Anil Kumble was never the conventional spinner, one who turns the bowl much, infact at one time we as kids used to discuss how Venkatesh Prasad's cutters turn more than Kumble's leg breaks. But what he had was consistency, over after over he used to place batsman on a grill. If Warnie and Murali had all the fast food instant items, Kumble was of the Tandoori variety, slow and effective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SQ85l8jm5KI/AAAAAAAAAjU/DHOyxHBEFWo/s1600-h/snip2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 231px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SQ85l8jm5KI/AAAAAAAAAjU/DHOyxHBEFWo/s400/snip2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5264489813492819106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a kid my friend Anirvaan or &lt;i&gt;Rikki&lt;/i&gt; a big fan of Kumble use to imitate him and his action exactly. So much so that after every bowl he used to adjust his specs (something which the Kumble of those days with a specs and moustache used to do). Tall and broad he resembled Kumble and used to bowl day in and day out like him. His imitation was on similar lines as that of Shameek's Prasad action or my Arshad Khan action :).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kumble's earliest memories take me back to Hero Cup, where he took 6/12 (if I am not mistaken) against a pretty strong West Indies side. India won that series and that was the first time Day and Night Cricket happened in India. Most from my generation remember that as the first time we saw cricket. (Although I remember the 1992 world cup too, good memory you see :)).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kumble cleaning up the stumps of Richie Richardson is something I vaguely remember.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From those days Kumble had a great ability to bowl straight, consistently probing the batsmen. Flipper and Googly, both his main weapons surprised the batsmen. He used to slowly setup the batsmen and then use them as weapons which more often than not resulted in success.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Azhar had a major contribution in shaping up the career of Anil Kumble along with India's manager in those days, Ajit Wadekar. Throughout the days of Azhar India remained unbeaten at home and Anil Kumble was one of the major reasons for that. During that period Kumble cemented his position as the undisputed domestic champion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With Dada came a change, India started winning abroad and Anil Kumble contributed to its success in australia, W Indies, England and South Africa. He had a mkor role to play in all its victories abroad.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are three moments which stand out for any Kumble fan- the ten wicket haul against Pakistan at Kotla, I still remember praying to god for the final wicket of Akram which he took; his jaw breaking effort at Antigua test where he claimed the wicket of Lara and bowled even with a broken Jaw; the Sydney test (Steve Waugh's farewell series) which he bowled superbly and we came very close to a series victory (thanks to Parthiv Patel and Mr. Bucknor we didnt win it). Although I would like to add another, the Perth test in which he led us to victory last season after the Sydney MonkeyGate scandal. That was another moment which stands out for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.espnstar.com/opinion/columnists/column/item56305/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;When he left the stadium at Kotla that day, I suddenly had a feeling of immense respect for this cricketer whose importance many of us realise now. His match winning contribution to Indian Crikcet is unparalleled and a spinner like Kumble will rarely appear on World Stage again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hail Kumble and may he have great success in whatever he does next.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Extra Bites:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.espnstar.com/opinion/columnists/column/item56305/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;Harsha Bhogle has paid a great tribute to this great cricketer, read it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2008/03/bye-bye-gilly.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;My post on gilly's retirement earlier in the year&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Coming up is the super sad moment of Dada retiring :((&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Technorati Tags: &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/anil+kumble"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;Anil Kumble&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://technorati.com/tag/Indian+Cricket"&gt;&lt;span style="color:blue;"&gt;Indian Cricket&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-5251566209676100454?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/lVctF1g_omU/bye-bye-jumbo.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gRzQhYfUoWo/SQ85l8jm5KI/AAAAAAAAAjU/DHOyxHBEFWo/s72-c/snip2.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">4</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2008/11/bye-bye-jumbo.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24685636.post-2929268114856597075</guid><pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 15:37:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2008-09-04T10:09:33.098-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Flashback</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Me</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">SPJIMR</category><title>City 3-tier</title><description>After two and a half months at SP, it seems I have slowly started realising the fact that most my &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;bakbak&lt;/span&gt;, most of my stupid and sometimes interesting jokes (although I try to relate them with loads of real life examples), most of ideas relate to 3-tier cities. Thanks to one of my friends here who made me realise the importance of &lt;a href="http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2007/11/small-city-dreams.html"&gt;Small City Dreams&lt;/a&gt; again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You talk of a Loreal and I move to Chik Shampoos, talk of Britannia and I talk about the reach of Parle-G, someone mentions a detergent and there I start with Karsanbhai and Nirma. It seems brans with huge mass appeal and great reach attarct me more than glossy and high end brands. Nothing against any of them, just that I somehow realte easily to the mass-brands.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It comes from my upbringing at Korba, that small town which nobody has heard of (people find it difficult even to locate Chattisgarh at times) and the diversity I witnessed there. Just came back from 1st Ganapati visarjan here at Versova Beach which reminded me of my days there, still crave for the Ganesh Chaturthi get-togethers and the Durga Pooja Pendal excitement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In between loads of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;padhai-likhai&lt;/span&gt; for which I have been completely uninterested for the past few days, I think this is something which will keep me a bit motivated for 2 years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All that old song singing, recalling DD serials during free time, talking about politics (which many consider small-townish), talking about regular dal-aata issues rather than using MacroEconomics to dissect issues and complicate them, or even hating to pay so much for movies it comes naturally to me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lets take the Tata Nano issue for instance, everyone ta my college (that issue super hot, in classes, outside it too) have been cribbing about Tata not being able to succed and W.Bengal not taking advantage of a great oppurtunity. Having had the oppurtunity to live in Bengal for few days I have a slight idea what people there think, how people there work and I can judge the situation with some better clarity. I won't put my judgement here though, thats another issue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whatever it is, slowly its getting difficult to assimilate so much happening in class, I think its better I slowly start building upon my interests and giving it some direction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Destination 3-Tier surely looks promising again.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/24685636-2929268114856597075?l=beingdesh.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SwitchingSpaces/~3/Roo590NWrFw/city-3-tier.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (desh)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">6</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://beingdesh.blogspot.com/2008/09/city-3-tier.html</feedburner:origLink></item></channel></rss>
