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Waiting for Change

sylandelevia@nobelia.org (Nobelia.org) — Sat, 13 Jun 2026 15:42:53 -0700

This song started from a poem-prompt based on the thumbnail picture. :) The figurative aspect of waiting for Change is significant to me, as I all too often see the waiting becoming a hoping and wishing. I love multi-layeredness and the song is filled with it, all intended. :) :D

The Sweetness of Friendship

sylandelevia@nobelia.org (Nobelia.org) — Thu, 9 Oct 2025 16:59:00 -0700

It's been deeply in my mind recently and all the wonderful Birthday wishes brought it even more sharply into focus. Thank you thank you to each and every one for their wonderful wishes. It's super much Appreciated and enjoyed. To celebrate and Appreciate I'd like to Share a special song. It started way back when as a teenager as a protest song, but all I had was the main refrain. Then decades later a bit more came, but not much, just the idea. But the protest never left me. I felt a subtle and nuanced negativity had been romanticised, even glorified via beauty, and this to me I see as very dangerous. Such, I feel deeply, needs a counter in the World, hence my protest. Fairly recently, the More of the song finally fell into place and I also had a focus for my feeling, and thus every line is true and real and meant fully. It's the only way I can write. Likely why I could not finish it before, the appropriate focus and object was not there. I have always wanted to put the song to music but it wasn't possible at the time. Recently a friend who is immersed in songwriting and creating shared with me the means to finally be able to hear my song. After much much effort I finally have a version which comes close to how I hear it inside, and it is luminously beautiful to me. I feel it's most Appropriate to Share now. Enjoy: <3🙂 heart @followers (I will redo the slides at some point, pressed for time now.) The song's full name is: A Little Song For You by Syl Sabastian. (Written and created by me, but lol, not sung by me, sadly.) It is important to me that the lyrics can be clearly heard. That was *very* difficult to accomplish, somewhat surprisingly. But, I'm thinking it's possible one might still mishear. Well lol, this happens to me regularly. 🙂 😃 So here are the full lyrics. I know some of my friends are super into lyrics: A Little Song for You Hello Sweetness my dear friend, the Joy from you will never end. Hello Sweetness my dear friend, to you my Love I'll always send, Hello Sweetness my dear friend, for you my heart I will lend, to sooth and calm and kindly mend, Hello Sweetness my dear friend, how your Grace my poor soul does blend, as you my spirit gently tend, Hello Sweetness my dear friend, welcome to my depths where you your magic kindly wend, Hello Sweetness, my dear friend I've come to talk with you again Because a vision softly seeping Left its seeds while I was sleeping And the vision that was planted in my brain… will remain… Within... the sound.… of sweetness. Hello Sweetness my dear friend... Hello Sweetness my kind friend… Hello Sweetness my dear friend… Hello Sweetness my good friend… Hello Sweetness my dear friend... Hello Sweetness... my Best Friend… Syl S - With thanks and apologies to S&G, but, always, since first Hearing, a more Positive version flowed in me. #Friendship #Song #Lyrics #Sweetness #Moreness #MorenessLiving #MorenessCulture #NobeliaLiving #FriendshipMusic

The Moreness Show #23 - The Moreness of Celebrating-Difference

sylandelevia@nobelia.org (Nobelia.org) — Sun, 15 Jun 2025 15:20:00 -0700

Meeting: The Moreness Show #23 - The Moreness of Celebrating-Difference 6 Jun 2025 - 58m

Purpose: Celebrating-Difference and exploring its significance in personal and societal contexts is the focus of The Moreness Show featuring Syl and Beena.

Key Takeaways:

Celebrating-Difference is essential for fostering Joy and Connection, as it enhances relationships and partnerships. 0:26
Embracing Change and Learning from Difference can combat insecurity and promote personal growth. 5:11
The concept of singularity emphasizes uniqueness, reinforcing that Differences should be celebrated rather than viewed negatively. 17:46
Acknowledging and celebrating differences can lead to a more harmonious environment, especially in contexts of conflict. 38:47
It was agreed that the next focus will be on Perspective-Shifting and making conscious choices. 57:36

Discussion Topics:

Celebrating-Difference

Celebrating-Difference can transform conflicts into opportunities for Learning.
- This perspective shift can help mitigate misunderstandings and promote harmony. 44:04
- Recognizing and valuing differences can lead to constructive dialogues. 40:51
Celebration can occur with Sobriety, and Understanding, not just joy.
- Understanding the significance of Differences can enhance coexistence among diverse groups. 38:47
- Acknowledging Differences can lead to personal empowerment and growth. 2:25
Celebrating difference is a unique concept, distinct from mere tolerance or acceptance, emphasizing Joy and Appreciation for diversity rather than just acknowledging it. 0:23

Impact on Relationships:

Embrace Differences to foster coexistence and respect among diverse groups.
- This approach encourages Collaborative efforts in various social contexts. 43:19
- Acknowledging and valuing Diversity can reduce prejudice and promote inclusivity. 38:47
Deliberate choices in Celebrating-Differences can lead to Personal-Empowerment.
- Making conscious decisions to Appreciate Diversity can boost self-esteem. 25:04
- Empowerment through celebration encourages individuals to express their uniqueness. 43:53
Celebrating-Difference enhances relationships and creates Joy in partnerships.
- Differences contribute to the richness of relationships, making them more dynamic and fulfilling. 2:25
- Embracing Differences can lead to stronger bonds and mutual respect. 2:25

Art and Expression

Nature's variety is a Celebration of Difference.
- Nature serves as a reminder of the beauty found in Diversity. 42:50
- Different species and ecosystems highlight the importance of Diversity. 42:50
“Creativity is allowing yourself to do something without having a clue how.”
- This perspective encourages exploration and experimentation in art. 13:02
- Celebrating the unknown can lead to innovative artistic expressions. 13:04
Art embodies the Celebration of Difference through diverse colors and forms.
- Different artistic styles and mediums showcase the richness of cultural Differences. 43:19
- Artistic expressions reflect the beauty of Diversity and individuality. 43:19

Insecurity and Fear of Difference

People often view difference through a superiority paradigm.
- This perspective creates hierarchies that devalue Diversity. 19:16
- Recognizing the value of all Differences can shift this paradigm. 24:21
Primitive thinking often associates Difference with negativity.
- Challenging these beliefs is essential for fostering a more inclusive society. 21:25
- This mindset can perpetuate stereotypes and discrimination. 19:16
Insecurity leads to fear of difference, causing negative perceptions.
- Fear of the unknown can hinder Personal Growth and Understanding. 18:38
- Insecurity often results in defensive attitudes towards those who are different. 18:52
  
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The Moreness Show #22 - The Origin Story Part 3

sylandelevia@nobelia.org (Nobelia.org) — Tue, 10 Jun 2025 15:56:00 -0700

Meeting: The Moreness Show #22 - The Origin Story Part 3 - 1h 2m

Purpose: Exploring The Origin Story and Perspectives of The New Nobility Culture through the Moreness Show with Syl and Beena.

Key Takeaways:

Emphasis on the importance of Deliberately Choosing a positive perspective to reclaim personal power. This aligns with the core values of Syl’s Way-Of-Impeccability Zoom Summaries in promoting positive narratives. 1:56
Recognition of the need for Contextual-Awareness in storytelling, highlighting that Understanding Context is critical for effective Communication and engagement. 9:59
The concept of Impeccability as the best use of Energy was discussed, suggesting a focus on eliminating energy drains to enhance productivity and creativity. 21:39
Agreement to continue exploring the themes of Perspective and Personal-Growth in future sessions, reinforcing the commitment to fostering a culture of learning and development. 1:00:13

Discussion Topics:

Deliberate Perspective Choice and Personal Empowerment

The narrative encourages examining personal biases and perceptions. 41:00
The origin story illustrates the importance of Perspective in Personal-Growth. 54:11
Choosing Perspectives is a form of love and selfishness, focusing on what one wants to see in others; when people fall in love, they choose specific perspectives of the person, isolating certain qualities. New Nobles do this with Awareness and the Intent for Learning and Growth, which is different from unconscious or naive perspective choices in common life. 58:26
Deliberately choosing a positive perspective empowers individuals and enhances personal power by Leveraging compassion, kindness, tolerance, and Patience; this is a moral of The Origin Story and central to The New Nobility culture, enhancing relationships and personal experiences, and practiced with full Awareness unlike unconscious biases in everyday life. 0:44

The Origin Story and New Nobility Culture

The story includes real human experiences and emotions, reflecting genuine struggles such as sadness, loneliness, and hope. The dialogues reveal personal challenges and growth moments, addressing themes like good and evil, awareness, and cultural traps. 13:56
The origin story is not about angels but about Leverage and Perspective; New Nobility do not believe in angels nor in ancients or supernatural possibilities, the story uses symbolic elements to convey abstract truths about Perception and Awareness. 54:45
The New Nobility culture emphasizes self-improvement and personal growth, involving sophisticated conversation skills such as Capital D Diplomacy and Capital H Hearing skills. New Nobles use every moment efficiently, never wasting energy, always focusing on Awareness, Perception, and Leveraging behavior for growth, and avoiding gender-specific biases and misogyny while emphasizing equality and difference celebration. 4:23
The Origin Story is crucial for Understanding the Culture of the New Nobility, serving as a founding myth that conveys the values and practices of the culture, including real dialogues from actual conversations enfolded into the fictional context. It emphasizes Leveraging Perspective and Awareness as core cultural elements, specializes in self-improvement and Personal-Growth, is set in a model society illustrating Noble ideas in action, and is about Leverage and levels of Perception, choosing to see others Nobly by choice. 3:08

Impeccability and Energy Management

Freedom from manipulation and inauthenticity leads to genuine energy and joy even in stressful events, as exemplified by a wedding where the hosts were true to themselves and enjoyed the event without mental stress, contrasting with conventional stressful social events. 19:25
The New Nobility Culture uses every second efficiently and never wastes opportunities, maintaining focus on their main purpose even when digressing and demonstrating their Culture through actions, not just words. 14:18
Impeccability at its core is about the best use of energy; New Nobles stop engaging in nonsense and energy drains to preserve energy, leading to more energy available for meaningful activities and Personal-Growth. Impeccability is a profound concept with many understandings but fundamentally about energy efficiency. 21:33

Sophisticated Communication and Cultural Practices

The culture values connecting Abstract-Truths to personal experience and making them one's own, using references and quotes sparingly and only when relevant to the person quoted. The culture focuses on internalizing truths rather than relying on external authority, fostering deeper understanding and personal growth. 10:30
The culture encourages examining and responding to misunderstandings with kindness and consideration; for example, when a delegate misunderstood the story as implying male superiority, Biella responded with Diplomacy, allowing space for dialogue without confrontation, and the Culture prefers private engagement to clarify misunderstandings. 40:56
New Nobles avoid gender-specific language to prevent perpetuating misogyny and patriarchy, emphasizing equality and Celebrating-Difference without superiority. The culture is strict about effort and reward being a circle with no better or worse, and advocates for honest recognition of difference without superiority. 48:50
New Nobility Culture practices sophisticated conversation skills including Capital D Diplomacy and Capital H Hearing skills, which help draw out personal and deep insights from conversations, create an environment where real issues and emotions can surface safely, and value true dialogue and rhythm in conversations, balancing Awareness and expression. 3:52

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The Moreness Show #20 - The Origin Story Part 1

sylandelevia@nobelia.org (Nobelia.org) — Tue, 20 May 2025 19:34:00 -0700

The Moreness Show #20 - The Origin Story Part 1 - 57m

Purpose: Exploring The Origin Story of the New Nobility and its cultural significance within the context of The Moreness Show.

Discussion Topics:

Cultural Significance of the New Nobility

Moreness enhances everyday life through deeper Understanding, encouraging individuals to seek Growth and Learning in daily experiences and integrating into everyday actions. 7:19
The culture values oral storytelling for sharing knowledge.
- Oral storytelling keeps the culture dynamic and engaging. 2:39
- It fosters personal connections and deeper Understanding among members. 3:08
The Origin Story is foundational for Understanding The New Nobility culture, setting the psychological and ideological framework and illustrating the values and principles that define The New Nobility. 0:36

Themes of Trust and Courage

Miscommunication often arises from lack of repeat back in conversations, highlighting the need for active Listening and engagement. 45:54
Encourage RepeatBacks communication for better Understanding and retention.
- RepeatBack communication helps clarify misunderstandings. 45:04
- It ensures that messages are accurately conveyed and received. 45:04
Trust and courage are central themes in the story.
- Trust is portrayed as a Deliberate-Choice that requires courage. 26:56
- The narrative emphasizes the importance of seeing others as potential Angels, which fosters Trust. 34:31

Philosophical Underpinnings

The story serves as a guide for Living-Nobly in everyday life.
- The narrative encourages individuals to embody the principles of The New Nobility. 56:50
- It provides practical insights that can be applied to various situations. 55:42
The importance of seeing others as potential non-religious Angels is a transformative Perspective, encouraging Compassion and Understanding in interactions and shifting the focus from judgment to Growth and Learning from others. 35:00
The narrative emphasizes Practical-Application of philosophical Concepts.
- The story illustrates how philosophical ideas can lead to Personal-Growth and improved interactions. 55:42
- Philosophy is presented as a tool for everyday Living, not just theoretical. 39:44

Learning and Growth

The culture revolves around the idea of Learning from every interaction, viewing every encounter as an opportunity for Growth and encouraging resilience and Adaptability. 36:40
Utilize storytelling as a tool for cultural education and engagement.
- Storytelling fosters a sense of community and shared values. 9:21
- It serves as a medium for passing down knowledge and experiences. 42:22
The New Nobility emphasize Personal-Growth and Learning, encouraging members to pursue their own predilections and interests while supporting continuous Learning as a core value. 2:10

Key Takeaways:
- The Origin Story of The New Nobility emphasizes seeing everyone as a potential non-religious Angel in mortal form, fostering Compassion and Understanding. 36:40
- The importance of RepeatBacks and TakeAways as vital mechanisms in communication was highlighted to ensure clarity and Understanding. 45:04
- The story serves as a guide for Practical-Application of Nobleness in everyday life, transforming interactions and Perspectives. 56:50
- The next steps involve continuing the exploration of The Origin Story Part 2 and its applications in future sessions. 56:53
  
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The Moreness Show #19 - Nobelia and The New Nobility

sylandelevia@nobelia.org (Nobelia.org) — Wed, 14 May 2025 17:13:00 -0700

Meeting: The Moreness Show #19 - Nobelia and The New Nobility - 58m
Purpose: Exploring the concepts of Nobelia and the New Nobility within the context of Moreness-Culture and Personal-Growth.

Chapters:

Introduction to Moreness and Nobelia • 7m

The concept of Moreness is Shared. It is described as depth and value in conversations. 3:08
The importance of discussing deeper topics is emphasized. The notion of Nobelia is linked to personal growth and spirituality. 3:08
A question about the Moreness-of-Goodness is posed. The challenge of explaining new ideas is acknowledged. 5:04

Nobelia-Living and New Nobility • 7m

The concept of Nobelia-Living is introduced. It emphasizes connecting and amplifying innate goodness. 7:18
Nobleness is defined as bonus goodness beyond the ordinary. It is emphasized that true Nobility is not linked to heredity or titles. 8:42
A narrative about a culture of Nobility is discussed. The culture is referred to as the New Nobility, focusing on high aspirations. 10:30

Integrating Nobleness into Daily Actions • 7m

Discussion on the concept of Nobelia-Living occurs. The idea of integrating Nobleness into everyday life is explored. 18:12
The influence of motivation on actions is highlighted. A shift in mindset is emphasized as essential for meaningful living. 19:09
Practical spirituality is discussed as a means to ease life's challenges. The importance of Integrity and continuous Learning in various roles is affirmed. 20:40

Housewives and Wealth Management • 3m

The role of housewives in contributing to income is discussed. It is emphasized that both partners contribute to making a living. 23:00
The complexities of wealth and its management are explored. The negative experiences of lottery winners are highlighted as a cautionary tale. 23:47
The impact of wealth on personal relationships and privacy is examined. The challenges of living with fame and money are articulated. 25:05

Attunement in Business Success • 6m

Attunement in business is discussed. The importance of societal connection is emphasized. 26:15
The role of business and housewives in society is highlighted. Their contributions to productivity and community are acknowledged. 29:44
Influence is determined by character, not job title. Even modest roles can have significant impact. 32:27

Critique of Societal Norms • 6m

Discussion on the concept of Nobelia-Living is introduced. The idea of Nobility in existence is emphasized. 35:26
The importance of personal predilections in Learning and Growth is highlighted. A distinction is made between those who seek personal development and those who prefer leisure. 36:31
The conversation shifts to societal structures and wealth distribution. The Nobelia system is described as a means to change the current economic paradigm. 37:41

Ethical Wealth Generation • 4m

A discussion about the ethics of making money occurs. It is clarified that making money is not viewed negatively. 40:27
The concept of effort and reward being individual is emphasized. It is stated that no activity is inherently better or worse than another. 42:29
A disclaimer regarding personal Nobility is shared. It is acknowledged that Learning is necessary before achieving Nobility. 43:47

Integrity and Societal Transformation • 8m

Discussion on the practicality of living systems. The importance of infusing Integrity into existing systems is emphasized. 44:11
The concept of celebrating differences within society is introduced. The idea of being impactful in one's own way is highlighted. 50:03
The necessity of Due-Respect in interactions is reiterated. The conversation concludes with a focus on the importance of being Impeccable. 51:21

Intent-to-Goodness in Nobelia-Living • 5m

The concept of Nobelia-Living is discussed. It emphasizes Intent-to-Goodness over need. 53:17
Respect is highlighted as independent of others' opinions. The importance of Personal-Choice in actions is reiterated. 55:22
The essence of personal authority in life is emphasized. A wrap-up of the discussion indicates plans for future conversations. 56:28

Key Takeaways

Nobelia-Living emphasizes connecting to innate Goodness and amplifying it for societal benefit. 7:18
The concept of Moreness relates to pursuing deeper values and Integrity in everyday actions, applicable to all professions. 8:42
Practicality of Nobelia-Living allows individuals to integrate Nobility into their daily lives without exclusion from conventional roles. 35:26
Future discussions will focus on The Origin Story of The New Nobility to provide deeper insights into its principles. 56:55

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