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         <title>Will Gay Disney World Prez Help LGBT Inclusion in Disney Media?</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
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<p>George Kalogridis started as a busboy at Walt Disney World and will now become the theme park's fifth president, <a href="http://www.southfloridagaynews.com/business-and-career/business-news/8893-floridas-walt-disney-world-appoints-first-gay-president.html"><em>South Florida Gay News</em></a> reports. A classic American success story. </p>

<p>Oh, and he's openly gay. What will this mean for the park and for the prospect of greater representation of LGBT families within the Disney empire?</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[
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         <title>Disney Channel Campaign Shows Boy with Two Moms</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Here's some great news to end the year: The Disney Channel's social outreach campaign, "<a href="http://disney.go.com/disneychannel/makeyourmark/">Make Your Mark</a>," currently includes a video about a 14-year-old boy who happens to have two moms. <a href="http://www.glaad.org/blog/disney-channels-make-your-mark-campaign-featuring-teen-two-moms">GLAAD</a> calls the video <a href="http://www.bilerico.com/images/Disney-Channel.jpg"><img alt="Disney-Channel.jpg" src="http://www.bilerico.com/assets_c/2012/12/Disney-Channel-thumb-250x191-29235.jpg" width="250" height="191" style="float: right;" /></a>"the first of its kind for the Disney Channel, which has not included an openly gay character on its programming."</p>

<p>The "Make Your Mark" series inspires kids to make a difference in the world. Ben, the teen profiled in the abovementioned video, is an aspiring filmmaker who created an anti-bullying film after being bullied himself. He mentions his two moms in passing, and they are shown for only a moment, with their arms around each other - but as Ed Kennedy (who broke the news at <em><a href="http://www.afterelton.com/2012/12/meme-12-22?page=last&amp;page_id=0">After Elton</a></em>) notes, "it stopped me cold." To see any LGBT family on a mainstream children's network is astonishing, but very, very welcome.</p>

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         <title>Canadian Football Star Speaks About His Two Moms</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Canadian football star Jon Cornish of the Calgary Stampeders won the Canadian Football League's "Most Outstanding Canadian" award November 22 - and came out about his two moms during his acceptance speech.</p>

<p>The running back <a href="http://www.ctvnews.ca/sports/stamps-star-jon-cornish-speaks-of-lesbian-mother-with-pride-1.1050907">said</a>, "Once again, I'd like to thank my mom - well, my two moms. Because who are we without our families?"</p>

<p><img alt="football_cfl.jpg" src="http://www.bilerico.com/images/football_cfl.jpg" width="200" height="200" style="float: right;" />Both his coach and the team quarterback have praised Cornish for opening up to fans and teammates about his family, reports the <em><a href="http://www.vancouversun.com/sports/football/grey-cup-2012/Stamps+Cornish+hopes+openness+this+week/7606529/story.html">Vancouver Sun</a></em>. <a href="http://www.ctvnews.ca/sports/stamps-star-jon-cornish-speaks-of-lesbian-mother-with-pride-1.1050907">CTV News</a> has further details about his family, including how his mom raised five kids on a music teacher's salary before becoming an Anglican priest, how she came out to Jon while he was in college, and how he speaks up against gay slurs.</p>

<p>Cornish isn't the only professional athlete who has spoken publicly about having two moms. South of the 49th parallel, basketball player Kenneth Faried of the Denver Nuggets talked with <a href="http://www.mombian.com/2011/02/11/college-basketball-star-praises-lesbian-moms/">ESPN.com</a> about his a couple of years ago. (I'm sure there are others, too. If you know of anyone else, please leave a comment!)</p>

<p>Alas, Cornish's Stampeders could not overcome the Toronto Argonauts in last week's Grey Cup, the Canadian national championships.</p>

<p><small><em>(Photo credit: <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:CFL_footballs_and_helmet.jpg">DanM</a>)</em></small></p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[

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         <title>Ketchup &amp; Mustard Star in Film for Kids of LGBT Parents</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>If filmmaker Andrea James has her way, there will soon be a new film for young children with lesbian or gay parents. James is raising funds via <a href="http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/andreajames/family-restaurant-film-for-kids-with-gay-lesbian-p">Kickstarter</a> for her project, which she describes thus:</p>

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<p><em>Family Restaurant</em> celebrates young children with gay or lesbian parents. It's a magical world filled with cute characters who reflect their family lives. Set in a family restaurant, it features talking ketchup and mustard bottles among the colorful diner residents, as well as real children with gay or lesbian parents.</p>

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<p>James serves on the Board of Directors of the Outfest LGBT film festival, and notes on her Kickstarter page, "there are very few family-friendly films where these kids can enjoy a fun story that reflects their own lives."</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[
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         <title>Does Mitt Romney Know He's Quoting a Lesbian?</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.bilerico.com/images/katharineleebates-7.jpg"><img alt="katharineleebates-7.jpg" src="http://www.bilerico.com/assets_c/2011/10/katharineleebates-7-thumb-200x283-21793.jpg" width="200" height="283" class="mt-image-right" style="float: right; " /></a>Mitt Romney has been frequently quoting "America the Beautiful" in his speeches. What he may not know is that the song was written in 1893 by Wellesley College professor, poet, and social activist Katherine Lee Bates - who lived with and shared her life with another woman, fellow Wellesley professor Katherine Coman.</p>

<p>Lynn Sherr wrote about Bates in the January 4 <em><a href="http://campaignstops.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/01/04/covering-america-the-beautiful/"><em>New York Times</em></a></em>, where she also explains why many of Bates' beliefs stand opposed to those of Romney. It's a good read.</p>

<p>Despite the flippant title of this post, it may be ahistorical to call Bates and Coman lesbians in a modern sense, but at the very least, they seem to be spiritual lesbian foremothers. (Read <a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2009/07/a_patriotic_foremother.php">my earlier post on Bates</a> for a snippet of poetry she wrote upon Coman's death. Theirs was no ordinary friendship.)</p>

<p><small><em>(For more on Bates, see also <a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2011/10/katherine_lee_bates_author_of_america_the_beautifu.php">Judd Proctor and Brian Burns' post</a> from last Gay History Month.)</em></small></p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[

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         <title>'Pregnant Butch' Comic Looks at Gender &amp; Family Creation</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://act-i-vate.com/133.comic"><img alt="pregnantButch_opener_200.jpg" src="http://www.bilerico.com/assets_c/2011/12/pregnantButch_opener_200-thumb-200x294-22955.jpg" width="200" height="294" class="mt-image-right" style="float: right;" /></a>You're probably saying, "What would make today just perfect is a new comic about a pregnant butch lesbian." </p>

<p>What? You're not? Well, you should be.</p>

<p>Go check out A.K. Summers' new comic/graphic tale, "<a href="http://act-i-vate.com/133.comic">Pregnant Butch</a>" over at comic collective site Act-i-vate. It's a funny, insightful, semi-autobiographical look at "a butch dyke enduring that most deeply feminizing of processes--pregnancy." She'll be serializing the 100-page comic at the rate of several pages per week, and hopes someday to find a print publisher. (Note: This is a comic of the grown-up variety, not a kiddie book.)</p>

<p>I had the pleasure of interviewing A.K. for my upcoming Mombian newspaper column, which should be appearing in select papers over the next week or so. (Here it is in <a href="http://www.baywindows.com/index.php?ch=columnists&amp;sc=mombian&amp;id=127507">Bay Windows</a>.) One highlight: "There is so much said and written about the importance of pregnancy and your transformation into a parent and a birthgiver," Summers explained. <em>Pregnant Butch</em>, she said, "is about my attempts to hold on to my butch self and also to allow myself to be transformed by the process [of pregnancy], and where that could occur and be positive."</p>

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         <title>Will Unheard Voices Be Heard in Schools?</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>There's a great new resource for teaching LGBT history in middle and high schools - and it might even teach us adults something. The <a href="http://www.adl.org">Anti-Defamation League</a>, <a href="http://www.glsen.org/">Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (GLSEN)</a>, and <a href="http://storycorps.org/">StoryCorps</a> have just released <a href="http://www.adl.org/education/curriculum_connections/unheard-voices/">Unheard Voices</a>, "an oral <img alt="Thumbnail image for gay-history-1977.jpg" src="http://www.bilerico.com/assets_c/2011/06/gay-history-1977-thumb-250x155-19140.jpg" width="250" height="155" class="mt-image-right" style="float: right;" />history and curriculum project that will help educators to integrate LGBT history, people and issues into their instructional programs."</p>

<p>The groups say the project was created in response to the lack of representation of LGBT people in school curricula as well as "disproportionate incidents of bullying and violence against LGBT youth."</p>

<p>The project contains audio interviews (and transcripts) of nine people who "helped shape LGBT history," along with discussion questions, suggested activities, and historical background for each interview. There are also lesson plans on broad topics such as invisibility, name-calling, the exclusion of LGBT people from societal institutions, the right to marry, and understanding gender identity.</p>

<p>Interviewees include Phyllis Lyon, one of the founders of Daughters of Bilitis, the first lesbian rights group; David Wilson, one of the plaintiffs in the case that won marriage equality in Massachusetts; transgender activist Jamison Green; and James Dale, plaintiff in the U.S. Supreme Court case challenging the Boy Scouts of America's ban on gay scouts. GLSEN says they will add more stories and voices in the coming months.</p>

<p>Worth a listen/read for your own edification even if you don't have kids in the target age range. (They're mp3's, so - if you're like me - you can download them to the device of your choice and listen while you're commuting, folding laundry, washing dishes, or raking the yard.)</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[

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         <title>Cool Like Rachel: Glee's Lea Michele Inspires Child of Gay Dads</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I'm a Gleek, but even if you're not a fan of <em>Glee</em>, you'll appreciate this vignette from the <a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2011/05/314px-Rachel_Barbara_Berry.jpg"><img style="float:right" src="http://www.bilerico.com/2011/05/314px-Rachel_Barbara_Berry-thumb-200x289-18074.jpg" width="200" height="289" alt="314px-Rachel_Barbara_Berry.jpg"/></a><em>Hollywood Reporter's</em> recent piece about the show. Actor Lea Michele, who plays Rachel Berry, a character with gay dads, stopped while filming in New York to speak with a 10-year-old fan who has two dads.</p>

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<p>[Michele] is supposed to be on set with her cast, but insists that the little girl with two fathers wait for her outside the auditorium. Once there, Michele wraps her delicate arms around the girl and asks her about the experience. "How do you feel in school? What did you tell them?" she asks, visibly touched by her character's impact. "You're cool now; you're like Rachel Berry," she says to the nodding fan, adding, "I'm so proud of you." </p>

<p>[Quote from <a href="http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/first-look-glees-biggest-craziest-187184?page=6">page 6</a>; first page of story is <a href="http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/first-look-glees-biggest-craziest-187184">here</a>.]</p>

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         <title>Poet, Mother (and Lesbian) to Write Poem for Royal Wedding</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<p>I wasn't going to write about the royal wedding at all. Despite having lived in the U.K. for a couple of years, I find the monarchy interesting only as an example of the persistence of older traditions of European leadership. (Yes, I was a historian.)</p>

<p><a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2011/04/carol-ann-duffy-portrait.jpg"><img src="http://static.bilerico.net/2011/04/carol-ann-duffy-portrait-thumb-200x133-17680.jpg" style="float:right" width="200" height="133" alt="carol-ann-duffy-portrait.jpg"/></a>But as a chronicler of things related to lesbian moms, I now feel obligated to note that Carol Ann Duffy, Britain's Poet Laureate, will be <a href="http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2011/04/18/poet-laureate-carol-ann-duffy-composes-royal-wedding-verse/">writing a poem</a> for Prince William and Kate Middleton's wedding. Duffy is a lesbian and a mother, although a few years ago, she <a href="http://www.jeanettewinterson.com/pages/content/index.asp?PageID=350">told Jeanette Winterson</a> (another great, out British writer), "I'm not a lesbian poet, whatever that is. If I am a lesbian icon and a role model, that's great, but if it is a word that is used to reduce me, then you have to ask why someone would want to reduce me? I never think about it. I don't care about it. I define myself as a poet and as a mother--that's all."</p>

<p>Part of the Poet Laureate's job is to compose poems for royal occasions, but Duffy <a href="http://www.time.com/time/arts/article/0,8599,1895276,00.html">told</a> the <em>BBC Woman's Hour</em> in 2009 that she would only write for the occasions that inspired her, saying, "If I felt, in the event of a royal wedding, inspired to write about people coming together in marriage or civil partnership, I would just be grateful to have an idea for the poem. And if I didn't, I'd ignore it."</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[
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         <title>Lesbian and Gay Parents Jumping Through Hoops</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>The <em>New York Times</em> ran an article last week on "<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/24/your-money/24GAY.html">The Extra Hoops Gay Parents Must Jump Through</a>" <a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2011/04/gay-marriage.jpg"><img src="http://static.bilerico.net/2011/04/gay-marriage-thumb-200x300-17257.jpg" style="float:right" width="200" height="300" alt="gay-marriage.jpg"/></a>to gain legal and financial protections. Three experts - a lawyer, a financial planner, and an accountant (which sounds like the start of a joke, but it's not) - offer their advice to lesbian couple in Michigan with two children.</p>

<p>It's worth a read, and if you're like me, your blood boils regularly this time of year as you fill out your tax forms and think about the financial inequities we face. I'll note, though, that unlike the couple in the example, some couples (my spouse and I, in fact) would have actually paid <em>more</em> in taxes this year if the federal government recognized our marriage. </p>

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         <title>Stonewall Children's and Young Adult Literature Award</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations to Brian Katcher, whose young adult novel <em>Almost Perfect</em> won the inaugural <a href="http://ala.org/ala/newspresscenter/news/pr.cfm?id=6048">Stonewall Children's and Young Adult Literature Award</a><a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2011/01/almost-perfect.jpg"><img src="http://static.bilerico.net/2011/01/almost-perfect-thumb-170x259-15977.jpg" style="float:right" width="170" height="259" alt="almost-perfect.jpg"/></a> from the American Library Association (ALA) last Monday. The award, which honors children's and young adult books "of exceptional merit" related to the LGBT experience, was announced  at the ALA's annual Youth Media Awards, which also bestowed the prestigious Newbery and Caldecott medals.</p>

<p><em>Almost Perfect</em> is the story of a boy in a small-town high school who falls for the new girl in town, only to discover she was born a biological male.</p>

<p>The ALA also announced four "honor books" in addition to the main award winner. They are: <em>Will Grayson, Will Grayson</em>, by John Green and David Levithan; <em>Love Drugged</em>, by James Klise; <em>Freaks and Revelations</em>, by Davida Willis Hurwin; and <em>The Boy in the Dress</em>, by David Walliams.</p>

<p>Kudos to all of the winners and to the ALA for instituting the award. Positive images for and about LGBTQ youth and the children of LGBTQ parents are sorely needed, and such recognition can only help.</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[

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         <title>The Agenda Item Barney Forgot</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>When it comes to acerbic wit among politicians, Rep. Barney Frank (D-MA) is second to none. His response to a right-wing reporter about the issue of "<a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2010/12/barney_frank_gets_snappy_with_fundie_reporters.php">showering with homosexuals</a>" in the military is priceless: "What do you think happens in gyms all over America? ... We don't get ourselves dry-cleaned."</p>

<p>And he issued a less flippant but more direct statement Wednesday in response to those who fear the "radical homosexual agenda." That agenda, said Frank, is "to be <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0h5Vtke3OA">protected against violent crimes</a> driven by bigotry, it's to be able to get married, it's to be able to get a job, and it's to be able to fight for our country. For those who are worried about the radical homosexual agenda, let me put them on notice. Two down, two to go."</p>

<p>Love them fightin' words--but he forgot one big item: to be able to become parents and protect our children.</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[
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         <pubDate>Sun, 26 Dec 2010 11:30:00 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Boston Globe Is On the Money with Lesbians and Finance</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>The <em>Boston Globe</em> published an article November 21 titled "<a href="http://www.boston.com/business/personalfinance/articles/2010/11/21/learning_to_adjust/">Learning to adjust</a>," with a <a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2010/12/1031_FINANCEX390.jpg"><img src="http://static.bilerico.net/2010/12/1031_FINANCEX390-thumb-200x146-15275.jpg" width="200" height="146" alt="1031_FINANCEX390.jpg" title="lesbian finances" style="float:right;" /></a>sub-heading explaining, "For millions of middle-class Americans, the recession has forever changed spending habits and forced a reconsideration of basic expectations--like retirement." </p>

<p>What makes this more than just another article on personal finance, however, is that the couple profiled consists of lesbian moms Liz Page and Marianne Stravinskas.  The fact that they are a same-sex couple is incidental to the main thrust of the piece, which is <em>not</em> about "gay" finance <em>per se</em>.</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[
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         <pubDate>Sat, 04 Dec 2010 10:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Can Coming Out in a Religious Context Help Bullied LGBTQ Youth?</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>There's been a lot written on the recent bullying-related suicides. I found this piece by Rabbi Victor Appell, "<a href="http://blogs.rj.org/reform/2010/10/if-only-tyler-clementi-had-bee.html">If Only Tyler Clementi Had Been to a Gay Synagogue</a>," <a href="http://www.bilerico.com/2010/10/rainbow-star.jpeg"><img src="http://static.bilerico.net/2010/10/rainbow-star-thumb-170x191-14350.jpeg" style="float:right" width="170" height="191" alt="rainbow-star.jpeg"/></a>particularly moving. Too often religion and LGBT rights are set up as opposites; Appell shows us how they don't have to be, and how "coming out in a religious context" might even have helped some of the youth who have committed suicide after anti-LGBT bullying. Appell himself was the subject of such bullying. Now he is a rabbi and a gay dad, raising two children with his partner.</p>

<p>I am not myself religious, and would not ever say that religion is the best or only answer to bullying. I do know, however, that <a href="http://gayrights.change.org/petitions/view/speak_out_against_mormon_leaders_anti-gay_sermon_after_suicides">messages of hate disguised as religion</a> help no one, and can do great damage to LGBTQ youth. On the positive side, religions have the power to offer great comfort and assistance to those within their communities of belief. Some might say they have a God-given duty to do so.</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[
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         <title>Kelly McGillis and Partner Get Civilized - or Unionized</title>
         <author>Dana Rudolph</author>
         <description><![CDATA[<p>Civilly unionized? United civilly? Yet another reason civil unions don't work: there's no verb form. Regardless of the linguistic hurdles, <img src="http://static.bilerico.net/2010/09/kelly_mcgillis.jpg" width="180" height="250" alt="kelly_mcgillis.jpg" title="Kelly McGillis Top Gun" style="float:right;" />however, I'd like to send best wishes to actor Kelly McGillis and her partner, sales executive Melanie Leis, who had a civil union ceremony last week.</p>

<p>McGillis, who came out last year, has two children from a previous relationship.</p>

<p>The couple's ceremony garnered coverage by the <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/15/fashion/weddings/15MCGILLIS.html">New York Times</a>; <a href="http://www.afterellen.com/people/2010/09/kelly-mcgillis-gets-hitched">After Ellen</a> has more on the couple and on McGillis' upcoming vampire film, <em>Stake Land</em>. No, McGillis' character is not a lesbian, as far as I can tell. But she is a nun who "faces a crisis of faith." Make of that what you will.</p>]]><br /> <![CDATA[

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