On The Couch

On the couch with Rachel Uys

2020-11-26T06:05:00.001-08:00

by Linda Gumedewith

Rachel Uys cares for abandoned babies at the Ray of Hope’s – Imisebe Yelanga Babies Home. Uys takes us through her love for children and gives us more insight on her life.

Durban North News (DNN): Who is Rachel Uys?

Rachel Uys (RU): I am a South African woman of 62. I’m the youngest of five children, blessed to grow up with Christian parents who put solid values into me.

DNN: What do you do for a living and what led you to do that?

RU: I’m blessed to love my job, caring for abandoned and forgotten babies from birth to four plus years old. I was asked to become a Crisis Mother and I have never looked back.

DNN: Was helping others always something you wanted to do and why?

RU: I have a genuine heart for any baby that is in crisis. I feel this is my reason for being on the earth to love and care for those who cannot change their circumstances.

DNN: Tell us the first interception of starting a baby home and what is your favourite part in helping abandoned children?

RU: Our babie’s home started on 1 September 2009. We were blessed to have a large house, which has been renovated to be used to love and care for six babies and toddlers at a time. We started with one little premature baby girl and the rest, is history.

DNN: Who inspires you the most and why?

RU: I’m totally inspired by the other Crisis Mothers that I have interacted with over the past 11 years. Some have been going for over 15 years. They show me everyday, more of how to keep strong when circumstances are against you. The most important thing is the babies.

DNN: What book are you currently reading?

RU: I have been reading the old classic, “The Scarlet Pimpernel” by Baroness Orczy. It’s based on a true story of overcoming evil with a little romance thrown in.

DNN: What is your favourite movie and why?

RU: My favourite movie of all time is “The Sound of Music”. I love the way this Nun sings her way into the hearts of these seven lost children. My husband of 30 years and I, raised six children ourselves, and they were very special

years.

DNN: What do you prefer doing in your leisure time?

RU: If I have any leisure time waiting at hospital or clinics etc, I read, read, read! I love watching wild animals, and camping in the bush.

DNN: What is your favourite dish and why?

RU: My favourite dish is Roast Chicken and lots of veggies.

DNN: How are you coping with the Covid-19 pandemic?

RU: We have had an awesome opportunity during the Covid-19 lockdown, to spend more quality time with babies and staff at the Babies Home. We observe strict protocols, but long for the end of the “mask” wearing.

DNN: Tell us about of some of your achievements?

RU: My best achievement is the 58 babies and toddlers who have been successfully adopted to be reunified with extended family.

DNN: How has working with kids taught you about life?

RU: Working with babies and toddlers is a life-changing experience. They don’t hold grudges, and always enjoy being cuddled; being given special attention. No love shown to them is ever wasted.

DNN: What do you spend most of your life doing?

RU: Most of my life I try to keep a very grateful, thankful heart, as it makes the ups and downs of life most enjoyable.

DNN: What is your message to the public about abandoned children?

RU: My message to the public about abandoned children is, “life is not fair” bad things happen to good people. Be a positive part of the Babies Home that is in your area. Volunteer to help where you can because your life will never be the same, as you love our lost ones.

On the Couch with Candice Bond

2020-11-26T06:03:00.004-08:00

Candice Bond

One of Newcastle’s most popular photographers, Candice Bond has made a name for herself in the world of photography. Her unique style of capturing beautiful moments has made her become sought-after. This easy-going, fun-loving mother of two beautiful daughters shared with Newcastle Express her journey into photography as well as how she balances motherhood and a demanding career.

Newcastle Express (NE): Growing up, what was life like for you?

Candice Bond (CB): I grew up in Dundee in a happy home with both my parents and my sister. When I was in grade 11 we moved to Durban where I completed high school. Shortly thereafter, my parents decided that the big city was not for us and we moved back to Dundee. I returned to Durban on my own and completed a diploma in beauty, which I have actually never used. I met my husband and moved to Newcastle in 2008 and started working at an armature winding company as a secretary. 13 years later I still work there but as a business system manager.

NE: How did you first discover your love for photography?

CB: When my husband and I got engaged, we did our first photoshoot and it was there that the bug bit. After our wedding was captured in the most beautiful way, I decided that I wanted to give this a go. So, a week later, I sold my wedding dress and bought my very first Canon DSLR camera and began playing around.

NE: What was your very first photoshoot like?

CB: My first photoshoot was of a girl from Dundee. She was 16-years-old at the time and she felt different from other girls her age and insecure. We took photos of her at a park and I hoped to show her how beautiful she was. I must have done something right because a few years later she asked me to photograph her wedding which for me was such an honour.

NE: You have a very unique way of capturing special moments, what is your secret?

CB: I love to capture the in-between moments where the family might be laughing together or just chatting or a stolen kiss between couples. I try my best to make all my clients feel comfortable in front of the lens so that the images look more relaxed and natural.

NE: What has been your most interesting or awkward photoshoot so far?

CB: The most interesting shoot was when I was asked to do a family shoot on a farm outside Dundee. I went in my Polo Vivo on the a hectic farm road and when I arrived at the family they wanted to go to a waterfall to take photos. So we all got loaded in the back of a farm bakkie. Here I was on a dusty cruiser gripping onto my camera bag while holding on for dear life as the farmer raced to the waterfall. When we got to what I thought was the waterfall, it was a nice long hike and climb down to the waterfall. It was quite the adventure, but a great end when we got back to the farm house and I was gifted with amazing home made biscuits and goodies for my trip back.

NE: How do you balance motherhood, being a wife and your career?

CB: Balancing is something that I still battle to juggle between being a mother of two beautiful daughters, having a full time job and doing photography as my passion. I try my best. I only book a maximum of two shoots per weekend so that I can spend time with my family and then editing is done at night when everyone else are sleeping and no one needs mom.

NE: What advice do you have to offer the younger generation who want to become professional photographers?

CB: If photography is something you feel passionate about then go after it and find your unique style. Something that sets you apart from everyone else.

NE: Who has influenced you the most throughout your career?

CB: I have so many people who have supported me from the beginning when I started in 2013. Professional photographers who offered to teach me when I knew nothing, all my clients, every single one of them who chose me to capture special moments and trusted me with bigger events. A big thank you to my husband who is my biggest supporter and who makes sure that I am able to pursue my passion by taking care of the children when I am out doing my shoots.

NE: What do you have in your handbag?

CB: Powerlips in three colors, purse, car keys, notebook, pen, probably some mints from a restaurant, Tommy Girl perfume and bobby pins at the bottom somewhere.

NE: Chocolate cake or salad?

CB: Chocolate cake definitely, although I should choose the salad.

NE: Favorite color?

CB: Black

On the Couch with Bilal Khan

2020-02-19T01:44:00.005-08:00

Bilal Khan is a community activist from Moorton. In January 2017, Khan founded the Day 2 Day Foundation which is dedicated to fighting social ills within the community. He is also a dedicated and outspoken member of the Moorton Alliance, currently serving as its deputy-chairperson. Khan is also a member of the Friends of R.K Khan Hospital (FORKK). The Chatsworth Tabloid spoke to Khan about the community initiatives that he is part off.

Chatsworth Tabloid (CT):
What inspired you to get involved in community activism and to start the Day 2 day foundation?

Bilal Khan (BK):
I am a firm believer in the philosophy which states that, “If you see something wrong, you should object and do something." It is rather unfortunate that many people see injustices being done but choose to remain silent as it does not affect them directly. We need to develop a culture whereby we want to assist in overcoming injustice without fear or favour. I have been involved in various community initiatives over the past 21-years. This has involved assistance with finding sponsorships for community initiatives, assisting feeding schemes and assisting youth development sport programmes.

Inspired by my spiritual guide and mentor, Hazrath Ghulaam Mohiyudeen Kazi RA (grandson of Hazrath Soofie Saheb RA), I decided to start the Day 2 day Foundation. His daily guidance showed me that there is a purpose out there for each of us. The work of the organisation aims to serve humanity, just like my mentor did on a daily basis. The Day 2 Day Foundation was formed with a purpose of assisting all, regardless of race, religion, creed or economic background. One cannot live in the past nor can one live in the future. One has to live in the present and this is a fundamental lesson which I learnt from my spiritual guide by spending time with him.

As part of our Being Human Campaign, our team has assisted successfully in co-ordinating nine funerals and numerous interventions relating to the delayed release of deceased loved ones, from mortuaries across Kwa-Zulu Natal. From Moorton across Kwa-Zulu Natal, Day 2 Day Foundation are in negotiations with R.K Khan Hospital to address various issues including the invasion of monkey’s into the hospital wards. It is our intention to get the hospital back to its former glory days.

CT: What do you think are the main challenges which the community faces today?

BK: We face many issues which stem from crime, drugs, unemployment and poverty. There is also a lack of service delivery from a number of governmental departments and this contributes to problems that we face. There also seems to be many issues which are affecting our youth. The Department of Education lack sufficient power to control students and has negatively impacted the behaviour of many youth.

I have co-founded the Original School Watch Kwa-Zulu Natal (a.k.a OSW). Our team together with the MEC’s and mayor’s office, department of education, law enforcement and network partners assist in various issues affecting schools, learners and parents. A significant number of these complaints and issues relate to: refusal in admission due to outstanding fees, reports not handed across to learners due to unpaid fees, foreign national kids not being accepted into schools and intervention on illegal corporal punishments. Recently, we also made an urgent request to the mayor’s office to intervene with regards to electricity and water disconnection. The notice was sent to six schools in Phoenix and four in Chatsworth.

CT: Please describe your work within the Moorton Alliance?

BK: I serve as deputy chairperson and we aim to improve the quality of lives for our people. Recently when water was disrupted in our area, the Moorton Alliance team worked hard to arrange water tankers so that the citizens could be provided with water. We also managed to
ensure that the Silvermount Circle, part of our community were supplied with water. This required hard work from us and we worked from the early hours of the morning until the late part of the night.

CT: What advice do you have for fellow citizens on how they can
also make a positive impact in the community?

BK: Excel towards becoming a person of action that can make a difference as opposed to someone that constantly complains. Surround yourself with people that are positive in thinking and more importantly that respect you for being yourself. Always focus on positives, no matter what or how bad the situation. Stay away from gossip, as this will keep you busy and away from doing good in serving the community. Don’t offend your parents and grandparents, by embarrassing them with their limitations in technology or pronunciations. Always be willing to assist them, is it not them that taught you your first words. Respect your parents and look after them when they become older. Respect your educators, sick and elderly. Join or support non-governmental organisations. This includes Community Policing Forums which make our communities safer for all. Love all and hate none.

On the Couch with Elvis Govender

2020-02-19T01:44:00.002-08:00

Elvis Govender is a dedicated member of the local cricketing fraternity and has been involved in the game as an administrator, coach and player for more than 45-years. Govender is from a sporting family. He eats sleeps and breathes cricket. He devotes a large amount of his time towards nurturing talent from within Chatsworth as well as Kwa-Zulu Natal. Elvis Govender took some time off his busy schedule to chat to Tabloid Newspapers about his love, family and passion for the game.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN): Tell us about your upbringing?
Elvis Govender (EG): I was born in 1960 and come from a family which consists of four brothers and one sister. We previously lived in Bluff but were relocated to Chatsworth when I was one-year-old due to the Group Areas Act. I have lived in Chatsworth for 58-years. My father was a soccer player and my three brothers. I played both cricket and soccer. We played cricket competitively and at one stage my brothers Krish, Raymond and Stanley and I all played for the Natal A side at the same time. We played in Cape Town. I played professional soccer for Berea Football Club for two years.

TN: How did your love-affair with the game of cricket start?
EG: We lived in the area now known as Liberty Road and the cricket ground was our back-yard. We used to sit and watch cricket games. Eventually my eldest brother got involved in cricket. We used to travel with him and watch games. Eventually we all got sucked in. We all worked hard at our game. During aparthed, we played cricket under the South African Council of Sport. We used to watch some cricket and practice on our own, but we were not allowed to go to grounds such as Kingsmead and watch games.
We played what is now known as mini-cricket around 1965 and the 70’s. We even used to play test match cricket where all the boys from the area would play until lunch time, go home, have lunch, come back after an hour and resume the game. We fell in love with the game from a young age, worked hard and reaped the rewards. Cricket is my life. My wife used to get fed up with me. If I am not playing cricket, I would watch it on TV or read books. My biggest supporters have been my wife Rookmoney and my late in-laws. Up to today, if I go on a tour, she packs my bags.

TN: What were the highlights of your cricket playing days?
EG: The main highlight has to be playing with my three brothers for the Natal A side at the Green Point Stadium in Cape Town. Another highlight was captaining the Natal A side when I was 20-years-old. I opened the batting and bowling for Natal A. When my brother Stanley was 16-years-old, he was rated as one of the best young batsmen in the country and was offered the chance to go to England to play professional cricket and football which he turned down. Back in the day, we had to work and we often had to miss games because it was hard to get leave. I played my last Premier League game when I was 46-years-old and subsequently retired. I also played for SACOS which was the highest colours that one could get at that time in 1982.

TN: Can you describe your current role with Chatsworth United?
EG: I am currently the coach of the Chatsworth United first-team. I started playing for Chatsworth United when I was 12-years-old. I graduated to playing for the Premier League team. From there, I graduated to captain of the first-team, coach of the first-team and to vice-president of the club. When West Indian coach Eldine Bapiste finished his stint with KZN cricket, he took over from me. I have been back for about two-years now. I am at the Chatsworth Oval on a Monday and on a Friday. During the other days, I am in Reservoir Hills. On a Sunday, I am all over.

TN: Briefly, tell us about the history of the Chatsworth United Cricket Club?
EG: The club was formed during the 60’s. It was formed in the house of Shan Naidoo. He is the father of peace activist Kumi Naidoo and Kovin Naidoo. They were toddlers when the club was formed. I would say that Chatsworth United are the pioneers of local cricket. We have a big following. Our former players who went onto other provinces are still in contact with the club and remain on the database. Our club president Mike Govender works extremely hard to keep the club afloat.

TN: Can you give an update on the current status of the club?
EG: It takes a lot of funding for a club to sustain itself. We used to play in the Premier League. Due to various reasons, the club got relegated from the Premier League and into the Challenge League which is now called the Promotion League. The vision of the club is to get back into the Premier League. We are concentrating on the junior structures. We currently are one of the biggest clubs in KZN as far as number of teams. We are trying to re-energize the club. We are mainly made up of cricketers from Chatsworth with some from Malvern. We aim to incorporate cricketers from all backgrounds into our club.
TN: Please describe your role within the KZN Cricket?
EG: I am a level three coach for KZN Cricket, currently I run a cricket hub for Cricket South Africa via KZN Cricket. My hub is based in Reservoir Hills. The mandate of my hub is to produce players for the South African
U-19 team.

It is a six day a week job and club cricket is on Sunday. I am currently employed by Cricket South Africa through KZN.

TN: What were the major challenges which you faced as a talented player of colour during apartheid?
EG: We grew up in a poor family. One of our major challenges was kits. We could not buy kits, so we used to borrow it. Secondly, transport was difficult. When my eldest brother Krish started to work, he used to transport us around.

On the Couch with Daryl Naidu

2020-02-19T01:43:00.006-08:00

Chatsworth resident Daryl Naidu affectionately known to many as ‘Nightmare’ is one of the most respected professional wrestlers within South Africa. In addition to being known for his wrestling talents, Nighmare is also a dedicated community activist who is committed to making a difference to the lives of others. Nightmare shared his Journey with the Chatsworth Tabloid.

Chatsworth Tabloid (CT):
Briefly tell us about your upbringing?

Daryl Naidu (DN):
I was a kid who had a very good upbringing from my parents and I was not born with a silver spoon in my mouth. I grew up in Chatsworth. I experienced struggles and did not come from a rich family. We had a hard life growing up. My parents taught us business sense. I have been through the good, bad and ugly of Chatsworth. I grew up as an innocent kid and eventually started becoming the people I started joining. Even though I have travelled the world and had a lot of international exposure, Chatsworth is where my heart is.

CT: Professional wrestling, how did that come about?
DN: As a young kid growing up, I used to watch a lot of Marvel inspired cartoons. I had my first dose of WWE which was then known as WWF when I was quite young. I started following them and got hooked onto wrestling as they were real life superheroes for us. They inspired me and I was glued onto wrestling. Music also helped me to make the transition from being a normal person to a wrestler. When I started seeing that there were wrestling trials being done in South Africa, I took a chance and went for the trials. At the time, I did not know much about wrestling and was just a fan. After being chosen due to my personality and look, everything went uphill. My career is about 13-years-old now. Trying to break into the wrestling industry as an Indian youngster was difficult. I did encounter racism. I was given tools but I had to push to make my career happen.

CT: What are some of the highlights of your career?
As my career started off, I got television opportunities where I appeared on national TV for wrestling. A good friend of mine who was headed to WWE when I started my career was South Africa’s Justin Gabriel. We have always been in contact and he has told me about the bad side of the USA.

As a volunteer at the Chatsworth Youth Centre, I used to encounter kids who would come up to me and ask me to take them to the WWE show. It was simply not affordable so I had a dream to bring the WWE to us in Chatsworth. When they were on tour in South Africa, I phoned my friend Justin Gabriel and he gave me some of the WWE corporate numbers and suggested that I phone them and said that he would also help out. One of my career highlights was bringing himself, Natalya and other WWE superstars to the Chatsworth Youth Centre. They gave a talk to about 400 kids.

In 2013, the WWE once again came to the youth centre and among those present included Sheamus and Alberto Del Rio. I am passionate about promoting anti-bullying and even have a tattoo which says: ‘Don’t be a bully, be a star’. Another highlight was going to India and working with guys such as Bobby Lashley and Carlito. I also was involved in the Arnold Classic. It is a big sporting event throughout the world where Arnold Schwarzenegger orchestrates all sporting codes under one house.We were fortunate to have a sporting event there about two years ago and some big-stars such as Shelton Benjamin came down for the wrestling. I had the opportunity to wrestle Manu and Lloyd Anoa’i who are Dwayne Johnson’s first-cousins. I have helped to train a lot of local youth. One of them named Canron Papiah who is known as Shadow has been to the USA.

CT: How did you get involved in community activism?
DN: It started with me joining the legendary wrestler Tiger Ellappen. We arranged to have a wrestling ring in the Chatsworth Youth Centre and I started a wrestling school for the youth. Being in the youth centre, I watched the charity work that they were doing and volunteered my time. It started with the youth centre. When we had free time, we were doing something for the community. Once you see people smiling and know that you have helped to get them there, it is a true blessing. We know that we are in a position to do things, so we always try and do things for the kids. It is sad that we have a lot of people who can make a difference but turn a blind eye to society. I want to make this a better place for my nephews, friends and followers to live in a better place so charity work started from the Chatsworth Youth Centre and ever since, we have been growing.

CT: We have been told that you are part of an
anti bullying initiative, tell us about that?
DN: I was running under the WWE slogan of ‘don’t be a bully, be a star’. I still go around using that message. I have seen what has been going wrong in Chatsworth. I feel very strong about promoting a message of anti-bullying. I was a kid who was also bullied in school. Growing up as a kid, it did affect me. When I first went to high school, I did not know what bullying was until I had my money and lunch stolen from me. It forced me to become a hard person where I had to fight back.

Wrestling has helped me to get through a lot of hard-times and I enjoyed becoming a wrestler as it was a dream. When kids go to school, they don’t want to see people coming in with suit and ties and preaching to them. I use my life-experiences and go to the core of identifying with the kids. When I talk, they understand what I am talking about and can relate. I use humour and make the kids feel special. I am passionate about sharing my life-story. If I can change one person, they can potentially become a leader and from there, they can start a chain-reaction.

I have been going to a lot of schools and sharing a very important message with them. My anti-bullying campaign is basically giving back to my young brothers and sisters to empower them and not let them go through the same route that I went. Everyone has to go through a bad patch but if we as community leaders can assist, we can stop them from going that route. My anti-bullying campaign will not stop anytime soon.

CT: What advice would you give to the youth to lead positive lives?
DN: When I was growing up, I had a lot of fun climbing trees and was always running. In today’s world, things are too digital. I feel that today, people have isolated themselves and kids are becoming anti-social. A problem is that there is a lack of activities for youngsters to get involved in. We do not have active platforms which kids can latch onto. For instance, if kids want to play pool, they have to usually go into an unhealthy environment such as a bar instead of an healthy one.

They also need to spend quality family time. Things are very difficult for many parents as they have to work and unfortunately, they don’t get to spend quality family time. That can lead to kids joining the wrong company and they can become the people whom they start to join. If parents can make their kids comfortable around them, they will share information about what is happening in their lives instead of isolating themselves. My escape was sports. I chose sports because it made me feel better about myself. As parents, you should encourage your kids to participate in sports.

On the Couch with Elsubie Verlinden

2020-02-19T01:43:00.002-08:00

Elsubie Verlinden has earned her stripes as the South African Agent for The New York Film Academy and the South African Director for the ARTS International Expo (Orlando, Florida). She has helped facilitate local models and artists to obtain international education and degrees. Her models has booked top brands and walked the runways of New York Fashion Week, LA Fashion Week, SA Fashion Week and Mercedes Benz Fashion Week. Tabloid Newspapers had an opportunity to chat to the lovely Elsubie about her life and passion.

Tabloid Newspaper (TN):
Where did Elsubie grow up?

Elsubie Verlinden (EV):
I was born in KwaZulu-Natal, Empangeni to be specific, and have lived in Eastern Cape, from there I relocated to Johannesburg to start my modelling career. There, I worked as a commercial actress, where I performed as Nancy in Mr Bones 2, also had a role in Binnelanders a SA soap, I have done 21 local commercials, and 17 international commercials.

TN: What is your role in the International
Arts Talent Showcase?
EV: I am a producer, I do all the work (giggling), I do the national auditions with our director of admissions. We go from province to province to conduct auditions. I personally present a workshop to the talents.

TN: Tell us a little bit more about it?
EV: Those that get selected to come to our ninth annual showcase this year will get the opportunity to perform in front of Kim Myers whose the director of the Arts Convention in America, as well as independent casting director of Tyler Perry's Studios, Rhavynn Drummer. We will also have the New York's Film Academy, Blaze Johnson, from Voice America, and Nate Butler a junior casting director for the Steve Harvey Show. The whole team comes to our South African Showcase. I produce and ensure that all the talent is granted with international career and casting opportunities. I also assist them in getting local representation with our local agencies so they can start working in their local communities, gaining experience in casting. We currently have ITS alumnus models auditioning for SA Fashion Week. We also have about 45 shoots for models in international brands.

TN: What you are looking for in the competition?
EV: It is a showcase of talent, no one is being crashed or judged. Opportunities are created, and its a platform for actors, singers, dancers and all performers to come and show us what they have. If we see that they have potential to be represented at national level, we invite them to our national showcase that takes place on 27 and 28 September at the Silver Star Casino. Each contestant will then come to Johannesburg to audition in front of our international industry professionals. We have had many success stories. I am looking for someone who is honest about their dreams.

TN: What inspires you most with your work?
EV: Being able to give opportunities to individuals with amazing talent and big dreams. I have made it my own goal to make nobodies somebodies and I enjoy helping them became great and bigger. That inspires me a lot. I met a car guard one day and gave him my card, and to cut a story short, eight months later he is no longer a car guard, he signed a voice over for SAA, he is booked for national brands. He is now an actual working actor in the industry. I believe that my purpose is to give what I never had. In life, my children and all the artists that became my children inspires me to live, and be a better person.

TN: Describe yourself in three words?
EV: A go getter

TN: What has been your greatest achievement?
EV: It is not what I have achieved as an artist, it is being able to create a bridge between America and South Africa, and to fill that gap. To connect SA artists with the world and the American dream and to make it a reality. Being able to give career and casting opportunities for artists from SA in America, and giving international education. I want them to know that international is possible. We shot a Disney film in South Africa called " Queen of Katwe", and the first Netflix film in December. That is my greatest achievement.

TN: Have you won any awards? Or which award you would like to win one day?
EV: No. My awards are based on the success that my models have achieved. The SA fashion models I have trained for the past eight years, have taken overall of top fashion model for the past seven out of eight in USA.

TN: What is the best advice according to you?
EV: Where the mind goes, the man follows, whatever you see and envision for yourself, you will attract and achieve. Have bigger dreams, and set your standards. Challenge yourself everyday,the industry is very competitive, but if you know what makes you stand out and use it to shine. Be confident to win everything you want.

TN: Are you currently reading any book?
EV: I read a lot of books, one of my favourite authors is Napoleon Hill, and Joyce Meyer whom I have started reading her books again this year.

TN: Your favourite TV show is?
EV: The secret , it speaks a lot about the performing arts .

TN: A best performer for you is?
EV: The one who gives their all when performing.

On the couch with Sershin Narayadu

2020-02-19T01:42:00.006-08:00

Local radio personality, Sershin Narayadu is making waves on the local online radio, Megazone Hit Radio. The young man who is passionate about carving himself a successful career in the world of music as a DJ, and always made it a point to put his skills on display wherever he went, got his lucky break in 2017 and never looked back. Narayadu's talents have since been internationally recognised and has built himself a large international following. Tabloid Newspapers spoke to Sershin about his interests and passion.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN): In a nutshell, tell us about yourself, siblings and family
Sershin Narayadu (SN): I'm 27-years-old and come from a family of five which includes my dad, Paul Narayadu, mum, Naleena, sister Santisha and my niece Neha. We are a happy go lucky family that enjoys traveling the world and experiencing new adventures.

TN: Where do you hail from and where do you reside now ?
SN: I am formally from Newlands West in Durban. My family relocated to Glenwood in 2005.

TN: How did it all start for you ?
SN: It all started at a young age when I took a loving to the 80s and 90s old school music. From then, I always said to myself I would like to learn how to Deejay. I started experimenting on two Hifi systems at home, which was fun and something I really enjoyed then my parents bought me a computer and downloaded a DJ Software where I started learning how to mix music live. In 2017, I met the CEO of Megazone Media, Vishal Maharaj at a concert in Durban where I was bodyguarding an international Bollywood artist, I approached him regarding my passion and he called me for an interview the very next day. After the interview, he granted me an opportunity of being a radio jock on the radio where I hosted my own show called the late night vibe and the afternoon drive show. In 2018, I was offered an opportunity of becoming a Radio jock on Megazone Bollywood and from there my career grew. I was then scouted by an international television station to do voice overs and advertising. This year, marks two years as a radio personality.

TN: Is being a DJ something that you have always wanted to do?
SN: Yes, I have always wanted to be a DJ. I have a great passion for the entertainment industry.

TN: Who is your biggest inspiration in the radio industry ?
SN: My biggest inspiration is DJ Fresh whom I have learnt a lot from.

TN: Where do you think the scene is headed (radio) five years from now ?
SN: Radio has always played a crucial role historically as means of entertainment and communication across communities to bring people together and keep us abreast of local and international news as it occurs in society. If one has to look back more than 20 to 25 years ago technology has taken over our world quite rapidly. With platforms like social media and the internet the way we do things has changed. So too with radio now listeners can stream in to their favourite radio stations from anywhere in the world or listen to radio from a mobile phone which is quiet remarkable and is such a major step for radio and the role it plays in society. Within the next five years I would say that technology should be more advanced as it gets better everyday and online radio will be the order of the day. With people being able to access their favourite radio stations online it would mean that they are able to listen to their favourite tunes anywhere at anytime. I am definitely quiet optimistic about the future of online radio and it's adaptations to keep up with the demands of it's listeners with time. For me to be a part of it is something priceless as radio and entertainment is my life and to grow with technology affords me the opportunity that previous generations were not fortunate enough to enjoy. So yeah I'm quiet excited about the future of radio and see a demand for it more online in the next five years as society aims to keep up with the times.

TN: Highlights of your career ?
SN: The highlight of my career to date would be an international gig at a club in New York City in the United States. Also playing at the Moses Mabhida Stadium back here at home in Durban for a Bollywood fusion concert which gave me an exposure of being alongside international performing music artists in the entertainment industry. Those were truly special moments for me as it gave me the opportunity of showcasing my talent in an environment of international greats in music and entertainment. Those opportunities afforded me the chance to live my dream in doing what I love most which is music and entertainment. I also want to thank my mentor and a big brother, Bradley Bissessar who also mentored me and pushed me to take my talent to the next level. I want to thank him for always supporting me throughout my journey.

TN: Where do you see yourself five years from now ?
SN: I see myself as a successful individual, expanding my entertainment business and being South Africa's best radio personality.

TN: What advice would you give to aspiring DJs ?
SN: Avoid negativity from society and always take your talent into the next level. Being a DJ, you always need to be different from other DJs and most importantly, have faith in your passion. Everyone can be a DJ but remember to always show the crowd what's different about you.

TN: Can you recall the very first time you went on air ? relate the overall experience
SN: The first day I went live, it was nail biting experience but thereafter I put the nervousness away and stayed focused. 10 minutes into my show, I felt like a superstar and from then I rocked the airwaves and did my utter best.

TN: If you could eternally be stuck in one year's music scene, which year would it be and why ?
SN: The 80s, because the best music was made during this time and I simply enjoy it.

TN: What is the one track that never gets old for you no matter how many times you hear it ? and the one song that got popular that you can't stand ?
SN: My all time favourite song is Kal Ho Na Ho a Bollywood song by Sonu Nigam, this song brings back a lot of good memories of special people in my life and further more it helps me relax my mind and I also fall asleep listening to it. A song that I don't like is Happy by Pharrel William's, it was popular on the chart show back then but as a DJ, I play this song as per request by guests in clubs and on radio. The song hasn't been my favourite and surely doesn't get me into a happy mood its title 'Happy' but doesn't make me happy though.

TN: Run us through a day in your life ?
SN: My family and I run a business and I spend my entire day at the establishment on weekdays. On the weekends, it's all about work on Megazone Bollywood FM and gigs at Stones uMhlanga where I am a resident DJ.

TN: When you are not in studio, what else do you get up to ?
SN: I MC and DJ at private events. I also love going out for movies with friends and family at the local malls and also spend my time playing on my playstation. I am also a huge football fan.

TN: Are you involved in any causes/charities ?
SN: I'm always part of a charity organisation in KZN. I also enjoy visiting kids homes because. I love kids and I want to do more for charity work in the near future.

TN: Any pets ?
SN: I don't have any pets.

TN: Can you cook your favourite dish ?
SN: I love preparing my favourite dish which is seafood pasta.

TN: On which social networks can our readers find you ?
SN: On Facebook: Sershin Deejay Desi M South Africa or on my Facebook Page which is DJ Desi M South Africa. Catch me on Megazone Bollywood FM where I host the Bollywood shows for Masti Nights every Friday between 6pm to 9pm and every Sunday for The Sunday Zone between 1pm and 4pm.

On the Couch with Anivesh Singh

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Anivesh Singh

Anivesh Singh is a social entrepreneur who is also dedicated towards promoting reading within Durban. He is the founder of Ripple Effect Health and Wellness booklets.

Singh holds a BA degree majoring in Political Science and Law from the University of Durban Westville and a Post Graduate Diploma in Industrial Relations from the University of Kwa-Zulu Natal. He has more than 20 years of experience in the publishing industry, having worked for Lexis Nexis as an editor and product manager. Singh took some time out of his busy schedule to speak to Chatsworth Tabloid about his life and work.

Chatsworth Tabloid (CT):
Please describe a typical day in your life?

Anivesh Singh (AS):
Not being a morning person, I get out of bed under protest. Typically, the days are never the same. A lot of time is spent working the phones and responding to emails. I will spend some time reading through manuscripts, discussing cover designs with artists/designers. I try to avoid meetings, it’s more efficient to get things done via telephone and email. The odd day will involve a book launch.

CT: What inspired you to start your company?

AS: My work falls into the category of social entrepreneurship. Sure, I need to generate revenue to pay bills, but, I believe that the work I do helps people in the process. We have found that there are people and communities with stories to tell from our dark past who are ignored by mainstream publishers. If these stories are not published, they will disappear from our collective consciousness. Publishing these stories help to preserve memories and history and also helps to heal communities who have been wronged.

CT: Please tell us more about the Booksellers in Mzansi project which you started?

AS: I believe that the time has come for us as individuals to build “caring ecosystems”. Government, at times, wilfully or negligently seems to be at war with it's own citizens. While, we may have the ideas to effect meaningful change in our country, we may not have the influence or power to make things happen on a macro scale. This should not deter us from making changes and impacting on others in our immediate spheres.

The Booksellers of Mzansi is a project we started with the Denis Hurley Centre. We collect “pre-loved” books and hand these to homeless people who sell the books to earn a dignified living. Many of the homeless use the money they earn to pay for the shelter fees. We have 10 homeless booksellers who are part of the project and they are flourishing. This project puts caring before profit. It also allows us to meet with amazing people and to connect with people who love books. As a general rule, people who love books are generous, large-hearted people with lots of empathy.

CT:You previously were a recipient of the eThekwini Mayoral Award for Crime Prevention. Tell us how you achieved this?

AS: The Mayoral Award was given to me due to a project we started for township youth. We formed a soccer team called Ripple Effect 2010 and we used soccer as a platform to teach life-skills, help youth find jobs and we helped source training, etc for them.
CT: As a journalist who worked for various publications, what were some of the highlights of your career?

AS: I worked as a journalist for little publications, while studying law. I suppose the highlight was a cartoon strip I co-created called “Flipside”. The cartoons were compiled and published in a book “Flipside,The Nation in Therapy”

CT: What is the aim of the Durban Book Fair and your role within the project?

AS: The aim of the Durban Book Fair is to build a reading culture in Durban, which is a UNESCO City of Literature. The Book Fair also gives a platform to local writers to network and market their books. The fair takes place on the first Sunday of every month at Mitchell Park. I am the co-founder of the Book Fair with Kiru Naidoo.

CT: What advice do you have for up and coming writers in the community?

AS: Firstly they should be wary of publishers asking for money to publish their books. If they go down this route they will have boxes of books and their bank balances will be about R40 000 lighter. Writers should be true to themselves and let us publishers worry about carrying the risk of publishing and selling their books. There isn’t just one way of reaching your goal, just be persistent.

Learn as much as you can, hang out with the right people and ask writers who have walked the road for advice. Above all else, be patient, this is a long journey.

On the Couch with Carishma Basday

2020-02-19T01:42:00.000-08:00

Port Shepstone born Carishma Basday is the Deep End lead actress and SABC 3 show Mela presenter. She is also a professional dancer and model. She started ballet dancing at the age of four and has since trained in many dancing styles including modern dance, jazz, contemporary, hip hop, belly dancing, funk, fusion, salsa and Latin American. Basday spoke with Tabloid Newspapers about her continuing journey.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN): Tell us a little bit about your journey?
Carishma Basday (CB): I have been a journalist for a local paper, a news anchor and journalist for a local news channel. I've landed a role in the play Les Miserables and a dancing show. In 2008, I obtained my degree in performing arts and media studies. I also acquired a diploma in behind the scenes work such as editing, script writing, lighting, directing and producing. I also attended Act Cape Town where I was trained as a film actress. I also signed with Artists One agency in 2009.

TN: What is your most vivid childhood memory?
CB: Playing in the mango orchard in my backyard while my grandmother worked in the garden. I was surrounded not only by our many cats and dogs but also by monkeys who I soon befriended.

TN: Tell us about your role in Deep End?CB: Sunitha Patel is a beautiful 20-year-old woman and comes from a traditional Indian family living in Durban. She is the apple of her father’s eye who relives his own life through her successes. But Sunitha has a deep secret, a desire to surf. Surfing is not acceptable for an Indian girl, of marrying age. Against her father’s wishes, she finally takes the plunge and starts surfing. She meets Cory, an American surfer, running away from his own demons and drug addiction.

TN: Is this your first time acting?
CB: No,after having done many TV commercials both nationally and internationally, I returned to theatre in 2010 with the phenomenal award winning site-specific theatre spectacular Betesda directed by Nicola Hanekom, and then went on to complete the multi-award winning Hanekom trilogy with Babbel in 2012. I shot two feature films 31 Million Reasons in 2010 directed by John Barker and starred in my first leading role as the love interest of famed comedian Riaad Moosa in Material directed by the award winning Craig Freimond.

TN: Between acting and presenting, what would you choose?
CB: Acting.

TN: If you could invite any three people, dead or alive, for dinner, who would they be and why?
CB: Michael Jackson, he was the epitome of an entertainer, besides being a huge fan I think he would be a very interesting dinner guest. My paternal grandmother, she passed away when I was still too young to appreciate the wealth of wisdom she held, she was a huge part of my life and I would love to chat to her about so much. Swami Rama, he is the forefather of the lineage of yoga which I trained under, he was a fascinating man full of wisdom and laughter and had an amazing outlook on life.

TN: What has been the heart melting moment?
CB: I had so many messages from women and young girls saying that I’ve inspired them to give surfing a try or try something new. That truly fills my heart with so much joy because that is my biggest hope for the movie, that people especially women leave feeling inspired.

TN: How do you feel about the movie release this Friday?
CB: I am very excited for the release. I just want the world to see this beautiful movie already. I am also a bit nervous as you never know how people are going to react. When you are on set you give it your all, but you never truly know what the outcome will be, and then all of a sudden those very raw and real parts of you are up on the big screen for everyone to see.

TN: Who is your favourite actor and actress?
CB: Johnny Depp and Julia Roberts.

TN: Who would you like to actor alongside with?
CB: Busiswa Zwane, she now acts in Imbewu, on e.tv. We went to school together, it would be nice to work with her.

TN: Are you scared of heights?
CB: No, I love heights.

TN: Titanic or Notebook? Pick one
CB: Why are you doing this to me? I love them both. Titanic is classic, Notebook I love it's story line.

TN: Best scene on Deep End?
CB: I like happy endings. I also like the part in the story when he and I fight outside my house. We both gave it our all, it was so real, and I am so proud of how it came out.

On the Couch with Usha Naidu

2020-02-19T01:41:00.000-08:00

Usha Naidu is a recently retired educator and freelance journalist. Naidu’s teaching career spanned 28-years where she taught at Clairwood High School, Glenwood High School as well as Eden College. Her career in journalism began in 2001 with community interest stories. She wrote a weekly column for Tabloid Newspapers called Usha Uncut. Naidu has travelled extensively around South Africa, Africa and the world, having visited more than 50 countries. Her most memorable vacations have been to Russia, Namibia and to the Florida Keys in the United States. She recently released a book called “Behind the Scenes, Insights into the Journey of Parenting” which she hopes will stimulate discussion around parenting issues and bring about awareness of the damage that parents can do to their children if they lack the capacity to own up to and introspect on their actions. Usha spoke to Chatsworth Tabloid about her life, passion and the inspiration behind her book.

Chatsworth Tabloid (CT):
Please describe your upbringing and relationship to the Chatsworth community?

Usha Naidoo (UN):
I grew up in Chatsworth, living first in Moorton where I attended Moorton Heights Primary School then went on to Asoka Secondary. My parents moved around a lot once I became a teenager and I then moved to Southlands Secondary, my alma mater. I spent a fair amount of my formative years living in Havenside. Unfortunately, we were not well off, so we lived mostly in outbuildings, which were tiny, cramped and damp so I do not have fond memories of the places I lived in. What I do have fond memories of, is the sense of community in Chatsworth. I credit Chatsworth with keeping me humble and grateful for everything I have achieved in life, for keeping me rooted and grounded and for making me streetwise and savvy. Also the entrepreneurial streak I have, was awakened in Chatsworth where everybody is engaged in some entrepreneurial activity or the other.

CT: What are some of your favorite things about Chatsworth?
UN: Undoubtedly the Bangladesh market. I love the energy and the vibe that surrounds this market, the sights and sounds, the smells and tastes…this market is an onslaught on the senses and I love it! I love the vibrance of Chatsworth, this place is a hive of activity and energy, from the taxis to the guys revving their cars to the roadside fruit sellers, to the thriving businesses in the most unlikely commercial spaces, like someone’s garage up on the roadside! In the midst of this insanity, lies the tranquillity of the Sri Radanath Temple in Unit 6, with its lovely vegetarian cuisine. I love the way you can strike up a conversation with anybody in Chatsworth and they will respond eagerly, there is a brotherhood and sisterhood of association just by being in Chatsworth. I love that you are completely accepted in Chatsworth and can enter and leave the community at will, with no judgement that you now reside elsewhere…you will always be welcomed.

CT: You have been a journalist for a long time what are some of the highlights of your Journalistic career and what did you like about Usha Uncut?
UN: I have loved being a journalist as I am always highly opinionated and this gave me an outlet to voice my opinion. Plus the reach of journalism is vast and often unexpected. It is heartening when you learn that you have followers of your writing in unexpected places like the sleepy village of Underberg, and then you hear that you have online readers of your work in London. One of the highlights of my career was when I had columns running in two daily newspapers and two weekly newspapers in Durban at the same time. Of course this meant working till the late hours on these columns, really too ambitious for a busy teacher, mother and housewife but the challenge to the self was irresistible.

Usha Uncut gave me a chance to make comment on society and shine a spotlight on common behaviours that were stunting people’s spiritual growth. The articles contained hard hitting commentary but with a motivational slant and an invitation to introspection on the topic being discussed. No topic was taboo, from Indian weddings to school fees at ex-Model C schools to attitudes towards daughters-in-law. The title Uncut, gave me licence to say it as it is.

CT: Many feel that journalism is a dying profession. Do you agree, why or why not?
UN: Sadly, I have to agree. The tenets of article writing says it all. The first three lines must contain all the important details as people barely read beyond these first three lines.

CT: What was the inspiration behind your book?
UN: The book is a compilation of columns which I wrote for a leading Durban daily newspaper and which appeared weekly, over a period of a year and a half, on the topic of parenting. This topic was close to my heart as I am a parent of two children myself and being a teacher, was in loco parentis to hundreds of children each year. I found that very often, the behaviour of children in the school environment could be traced back to irresponsible parenting. I found that the child who arrived in class exhausted every morning and slept through the first three lessons, was actually the victim of a laissez faire parenting style with very few boundaries, that saw the child being allowed to stay up all night playing Playstation games instead of sleeping. I saw the children of wealthy professional parents with high performing jobs being left at school till 6pm, for teachers to babysit while they focused on their careers to the detriment of their children. There were many instances where the parents were damaging their children unconsciously and this prompted my columns on these issues of parenting. The columns, now compiled into the book were written with the hope that parents look at the case scenarios presented, recognise themselves, introspect and change their behaviours if they were guilty.

CT: Now that you are retired from teaching, how do you spend your time?
UN: I run an antiques business that keeps me busy and I enjoy traipsing across the country and overseas looking for stock. I love interior decorating and design, I did a course in this a few years ago and this is my passion so when I am not assisting in decorating by using items from my stock, I attend trade fairs and learn as much as I can about the latest trends. I belong to a Literary Circle which keeps me busy and engaged with the world of writers and writing. I give motivational talks, on the topics of reading and writing, life and its lessons and parenting, amongst others and of course, I write, both articles and now a book. I have the second book on the series in the pipeline.

CT: You are quite a well-travelled person. Which areas do you suggest that Chatsworth residents should visit during their lifetimes?
UN: I think that every Chatsworth resident should endeavour to visit as many places as they can in South Africa. While Cape Town seems to be the destination of choice, just outside of Cape
Town awaits a whole new world of beautiful landscapes and exciting things to do.

A farm stay in Barrydale in the Cape, a visit to the House of Books here, the tractor ride up Arangieskop in Montague, followed by a delectable potjiekos lunch, following in the footsteps of Chris Barnard in his hometown of Beaufort West, the visit to the Owl House of New Bethesda… these have counted as highlights of the Cape not often
known to visitors.

The West Coast Wild Flower tours are a must-do, when carpets of daisies fill every available spot of ground during the rainy season. Our country has as much to offer as any overseas country, but if planning an overseas trip and you have not been to India, then I encourage everyone to go, if only for the spiritual awakening that awaits them.

On the Couch with Imtiaz Syed - Community activist

2020-02-19T01:40:00.003-08:00

Durban activist and community driven Imitiaz Syed (IS) is the chair of many Community Policing Forums such as Ethekwini Cluster CPF, Mayville SAPS CPF and also the member of the Civilian Oversight Committee. Syed spoke to Tabloid Newspapers (TN) about his day and life working with the community.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN):
You are a man who loves his community and submerges himself in the greater good of the community that you serve. Where did the passion start and what inspired it?

Imtiaz Syed (IS):
In 2014, the area in which we reside had 14 house burglaries in 14 days. This is when I called my first community meeting and decided to get a few neighbours together to engage in neighbourhood watch activities.

It is through this my initial engagements with Colonel Luthuli at the Mayville police station in a manner that questioned service delivery and the lack of same at the time. This sort of behaviour has always been a part of my life, how we were brought up in a community where the youth of my time stood up against any injustice and protected the community against criminals as well as taking care of the elderly and each other by whatever means we had. So, the word activist does no really come to mind when I think of myself as this is naturally who I am.

TN: You represent several organisations at various levels.
Tell us a little more about this.

IS: Mayville SAPS Community Police Forum chairperson, eThekwini Central Cluster CPF chair, KZN Provincial CPF exco member, member of the Civilian Oversight Committee for the eThekwini Municipality, and member of the eThekwini Central Community Safety Forum. I am also the founding member of eThekwini, Midlands, Chatsworth, Phoenix, South and North Coast secure platforms as well as eThekwini Outreach; Abantu Abahlangane Against Crime; Inhlanzakile Africa; Africa Women’s Federation and Africa Secure.
TN: There surely has to be many challenges that you face almost daily. How difficult or easy is it dealing with a varied community, made up of people from different backgrounds?

IS: We have over a period of time, and with guidance, learnt that our responsibility as leaders is to lead people in a direction that they become leaders in battles that may affect them. We have had many joyous moments where we have solved issues of the community by either just listening and asking the right questions or by bringing all parties concerned into meetings to resolve issues so they may find one another and compromise.

In all, we have hardly had any battles except with drugs and the youth which is an everyday challenge that we face. We are currently looking at programmes that empower the parents to deal with children that are unruly as well as intervention that might be required especially when parents are being abused.

One of our biggest challenges is apathy, especially in the affluent areas. The only time the CPF is called in when these areas have issues and the communities expects the forums to assist as a matter of urgency. Keeping our areas free of crime is not a part time job.

The other major issue is funding. As much as we might have all the ideas to bring change, the business sector is not supportive nor do they engage in assisting CPFs or neighbourhood watches in fulfilling our mandates.

TN: Tell us a little bit more about your work in the Community Police Forum. What have been some of the highlights?

IS: We formed the Palm Ridge Residents’ Association in 2014. Then, in the next year I moved on to become the CPF chairperson of Mayville SAPS. We formed six sub-forums to cover the entire station precinct forming executive committees in each area for ease of management and effective policing as well as crime prevention best practise sharing. In 2017, I was elected eThekwini Central Cluster CPF chair and in 2018, I was elected executive committee member of the KZN Provincial CPF.

TN: Being the chairperson of the eThekwini Cluster CPF is definitely a challenging position. How does it feel being a decision-maker to meet, and sit, with the uppermost leadership of the South African Police Service?

IS: I think that sitting with the top brass discussing issues that affect the community has become second nature and is not something that I take lightly as I have been entrusted with a duty that needs to be carried out.

TN: On the point of CPF’s, how effective are they, or does a rift remain between the police and civilian components?

IS: CPF bodies across the country are as effective as their leadership and the relationship. We must remember that a as CPF we are partners to police and it all depends on us as to how we manage the partnership.

TN: Has the community become complacent, waiting for someone else to do the job for them?

IS: We have had a struggle with complacency. To this day we still find this a problem. However, we are quite clear in saying that we are not here to solve the community’s problems. We are just mere tools for them to solve their own issues. We only give guidance and the wider network is thus made available .

TN: Has the spirit of activism, or active citizenry died with the people?

IS: Activism since 1994 in some communities, has died. However, we have found many activists coming to the forefront over the last year. We have sometimes found and checked intention and when the intentions were clearly for the benefit of the community over the self, we have assisted those individuals or bodies to grow and move forward.

TN: You have a unique way of passing on responsibility to your team. You prefer to empower them with a task as opposed to telling them what to do as a chairperson. Hence, you are enabling them. How well has this worked?

IS: I have always had a strategy of creating leaders instead of followers. This question seems to be coming from the inner core of my leadership as only they would know this about me and some of the principles that I hold on to very dearly. This has created many leaders and it has become my duty to find the best person for the job, irrespective of who has brought the issue. Someone well-versed in a particular topic would be handpicked by myself to deal with a particular issue. I have over time not really done anything on my own directly except for finding the right person for the job and allowing them, with support, to run ahead and lead.

This has boosted moral and created great debate amongst ordinary people who have started learning from and motivating each other. It is sort of like the first time when you went to the local pool and because of peer pressure you jumped into the deep end. I would sometimes take a member into a radio station and put them on air without them even knowing it, and they would do an excellent job.

TN: The role of women and youth. Are you winning with this in getting them involved?

IS: Women have become a major part of what we do. We find them to be the backbone of anything we do. We aligned them into groupings of outreach and think tank. Each speaks of ways to prevent crime in the future and identify preventative strategies we could use in the interim. They discuss issue in depth around women and child abuse as well as the effects of land invasions. The “do’s and dont’s” for women when driving the steps to take if you are abused as well as understanding the
youth and providing platforms and collaborations for effective education including cleanliness and nutrition come under the spotlight.

TN: What do you do in your free time, apart from your community work? How do you juggle your time from being a businessman, community activist and family man?

IS: It is extremely difficult as much as you prioritise. The community work takes up most of my time and sometimes I find myself and my bank balance lacking at the end of the month. We all wish that we could be financially sustainable so we might continue passionately in serving the community.

TN: The best place that you have visited locally and internationally?

IS: We love Lake Naverone cottages in the Drakensberg. I was on pilgrimage to Makkah in 2005 which was life changing. However, I did
a trip in 2010 to India backpacking alone with a driver and car, staying at the best hotels for eight weeks. I did not spend too much of time in the major cities, but rather in the summer hills like Manali and Shimla going all the way up to the pass to the Himalayas and then to Kashmir to stay on a house boat that was for me a moment of direction change and mind altering. When I got back to South Africa, I had a renewed and revived outlook on what life meant — a path that I continue to tread to this day.

TN: Have you ever called any of your members at 3am to play a prank on them? For instance asking them if they prefer Tennis or Marie biscuits at the next meeting?

IS: Again, an internal question.
Yes. I definitely do. I would call
my top ranked leaders at odd hours of the night, especially after I had been called out to some situation, just to ask them if they knew of a good recipe for a curry or that I was sitting up wondering what their favourite biscuit was.

On the Couch with Sarita Mathur

2020-02-19T01:40:00.000-08:00

Sarita Mathur has been setting the local literary scene alight with her writing and performance poetry. The Indian born author and poet shared her fascinating journey with The Chatsworth Tabloid.

CT: Tell us about your upbringing in India ?

SM: I was born and brought up in India. My father was in the Indian army and at the age of 11, I went to boarding school in the exotic Jaipur. Every three years, he was transferred to a different place so we got the opportunity to see and experience all parts of the country. Maharani Gayatri Devi, my alma mater, is a wonderful school and boarding school was a great experience. Besides academics, you make friends for life. After school, my father was transferred to Simla Western High Command so I had the opportunity to be with my parents and go to university in Simla where I studied and got Honours in English Literature. I always loved art and had a good eye for colour and design. I was advised to go in for textile designing but instead did a one year course in Advertising and Public Relations and later did a computer programming course in N.I.I.T.

CT: For how long have you been living in Durban and what do you love about this beautiful city?

SM: I have been living in Durban since 27 March 1995. I absolutely love Durban. It is full of rolling hills and beautiful beaches. Durban is a cultural melting pot of wonderful, varied people. They are open and friendly and welcoming to tourists.
CT: How do you relate to South African Indians and do you feel that there is a difference between them and people born and brought up in India?

SM: It is lovely to be able to interact with South African Indians. They are friendly and curious to know about you as a person. Many of them have been to India. Each person is unique and special. Their ideas range from just wanting to go and settle back in their homeland to just wanting to know more about the country.

CT: Briefly tell us about your published work and achievements?

SM: I have written a motivational book called “Once Again Love” with the subtitle being “Reconnecting with the Heart”. Besides tackling subjects like depression, it is a motivational book. It is written in both poetry and prose. Once again, love is about the inverted “V”. Life goes through up’s and downs but you can always get back to your upward pinnacle. My poem “Phenomenal Women” was awarded first prize by Oprah Magazine, South Africa, where it was published. I have been featured in the anthology, “Unbreaking the Rainbow” and the Hudson View. Very important for me, my poetry has often been published in the Idlers Column in The Mercury Newspaper.

I was a guest speaker for the municipality at the libraries New Germany Branch and my book, Once Again Love has been accepted into all the libraries of South Africa from this year. The Time of the Writer Festival featured Drumbeats of Africa at the Elizabth Sneddon Theatre and I was one of the poets selected to recite my piece titled “Arise, Women of Africa.
CT: Who are your favourite South African authors?

SM: I first heard and read Nadine Gordimer while I was in Nigeria and absolutely loved her work, starting with a Guest of Honour. Gcina Hlophe is a wonderful poetess and storyteller and I love listening to her. Highly inspiring, she is a real natural and celebrates her heritage.

CT: How did your love for poetry start?

SM: I enjoyed writing poetry in school. We started writing poetry in Class 4 and from that time onwards, poetry flowed. I used to love writing about my friends and then a love of nature poetry came about. We had anthologies of poetry in every class and knew each poem by heart. In India, we had to memorize both plays and poems.

CT: Please tell us what is the best poems you have ever written?

SM: I have written a poem on phenomenal women which I absolutely love. It got first prize in a competition held by the Oprah Winfrey magazine. I am passionate about the poems I have written on Durban, my beautiful city. As a city, Durban inspires poets and authors to write, write and write.

CT: Are you a cats or dogs person and why ?

SM: I love dogs.They give you unconditional love and are always caring and affectionate as well as loyal and faithful. That’s why they are man’s best friend.

CT: Describe a typical day in your life?

SM: My day starts at the beach. Walking at the Golden Mile is rejuvenating and therapeutic. That happens at least thrice a week and the other four days, I am at the gym. I love reading, writing and painting. I taught Reiki for over 10 years and infuse reiki symbols into my paintings. It is very therapeutic. My husband and I play Bridge (card game and I call it the game of life) so a lot of work goes into that as well. My existence is happy and contented.

On the couch with Sheetal Cross

2020-02-19T01:39:00.003-08:00

35-year-old Sheetal Cross, is an award winning feature journalist, sports columnist and television presenter. She is the founder of Titanium Media South Africa (TMSA) which she established after identifying a need for Entrepreneurial Media Empowerment Programmes, arising from new media trends. Cross took some time and chatted to Tabloid Newspapers about her success as a media personality and a business woman.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN):
Please tell me about yourself and your career background?

Sheetal Cross (SC):
I was raised in a poor household, with four siblings, making it tougher to live. I was also very badly abused throughout my childhood, but from those experiences, I learned to empower myself with education and be creative to achieve financial independence. At 11, I started my own soap and nail polish distribution business, outselling all my products at a big profit, this is when I caught the business bug, learning about supply and demand. I then noticed a gap in the market, creating pop culture posters, selling them to learners at school for four times the cost of manufacturing them. I had something they wanted and they had money to pay for it. Every extra cent went back into my schooling and books.

TN: You bought your own stationary and books?
SC: I worked on weekends and went to school in the week, paying for my own stationery and other essentials. I cannot tell you how many lessons I learned through that job. and most of all customer care. Elements which have certainly propelled me forward in today’s world.
Despite my humble beginnings, I am proud to be an extremely well-travelled, qualified journalist, with an extensive print media portfolio, across all genres of news reporting since 2005 to date.

TN: What is your current job and how does it contribute to your personal success as a journalist?
SC: I currently write one of the oldest sports columns in the country since 2015, known as SPORTMatters, for a national newspaper.
The column was previously known as SPORTFolio and at the time of the handover, I was 31-years-old. The column previously allowed me to extensively highlight female and disadvantaged athletes.

TN: What has been your career highlights?
SC: In 2016, I was a finalist in the category Women in Print Media, at the GSport Awards, Johannesburg. The televised ceremony viewed by millions of South Africans was created and hosted by Kass Naidoo, through her phenomenal organisation; Girl Sport. Two years earlier, I had filmed and presented a show called Trace Sports Stars international, whose televised series was featured in approximately 132 countries.

TN: Journalists travel a lot, which countries have you been to?
SC: In 2007, I lived and worked throughout Namibia, as an assistant facilitator, I also lived in various cities throughout the North Island of New Zealand, I gained valuable international media experience from
Dutch-born American author, Dr. Jeannette Vos.

TN: In your 15 years of journalism, do you feel that the industry has changed?
SC: Previously, media agents (sender) would set the news agenda and receive limited feedback from the reader or viewer (receiver). Vast technological changes have now accorded the audience the opportunity to respond, react or act more quickly to or on information. Societies globally, now have greater access to information, allowing individuals to make more informed decisions on a myriad of issues. The audience is also now in a position to dictate their wants and needs in terms of information, instead of being told what they should or should not know.

TN: If you could change a few things about the media industry what changes would you make?
SC: I currently aim to propose new legislation that will help govern social media and the rampant affects unverified information has on South Africa, through these platforms. I have engaged some of South Africa’s top legal minds to assist me with the process.
I believe strongly that there should be stricter guidelines and a code of conduct for all social media users, as well as a greater awareness of how to use the platforms in a way that is not harmful to children and other citizens.

TN: Having achieved so much in your career path, what are your long term and short-term goals?
SC: I feel like I haven’t achieved enough lol. When I feel that way, I take a moment to be grateful and reassess my time and objectives. At present, I am fully committed to finishing my Masters in Journalism at the Durban University of Technology this year, with a view to starting my PhD in Media Studies next year.

TN: If you were to choose to be on the field as a reporter and conducting such seminars which would you prefer and why?
SC: I really wouldn’t be able to comment on a choice, because both roles are essential, playing a part in keeping society informed and making a difference to various people.

TN: How do you juggle your schedules, at home, work and socially?
SC: As a mother of two, masters student, entrepreneur and doting wife, I use time management and technology to stay balanced between work and family commitments. I always put my children first and since I love cooking and learning new recipes, I usually include them in those experiences.

On the Couch with with Phila Duma

2020-02-19T01:39:00.000-08:00

Phila Duma of Savannah Park is an actor, presenter and award winning photographer. Falling in love with the media industry at a tender age has seen him appearing on SABC’s Yo TV and serving as the master of ceremonies at events such as Mr and Mrs Damelin. Phila is currently working on his self-established initiative 'Shoot with the Stars' which aims to give back to the people of KZN by identifying talented local fashion-designers, make-up artists and accessories suppliers and allowing them to showcase their work. Duma shared his journey with The Chatsworth Tabloid.

Chatsworth Tabloid (CT): Describe your upbringing in Savannah Park?
Phila Duma (PD): It literally took a village to raise a child like me. Especially because I moved from one place to another. I was born in uMlazi township and switched to Savannah Park at the age of 10. The move for me had to make me step out of my comfort zone and expand myself wide enough to change, mainly living and surrounding myself with the Indian community that I've loved my entire life.

CT: How did you fall in love with photography and the media world?
PD: It's weird because I've always had a passion for teaching. I've always imagined the classroom as a part of my heaven until I started exposing myself to the media industry, and that's when my focus took a turn. Even watching the news started inspiring me, listening to a radio DJ filled me up with more inspiration and watching a TV presenter and actor gave me the courage to try it out and fortunately it worked, hence here I am. And in response to my love for photography, there is no major story behind it, I always saw it as an additional gift that I fell in love with and clutched on to. It's funny because people never believe me when I explain it.

CT: Tell us about some of your achievements, any awards?
PD: I won an LYD SA award for 'Best Photographer' in 2017 and two years later I'm still not over that. Winning that award still means the world to me, especially because I was voted for by the public.Whatever happens, I will always be indebted.

CT: You are passionate about giving back to the community, tell us about that?
PD: Absolutely. I'm currently working on my self-created initiative called 'Shoot with the stars' that objects to boost those who are in the creative space when it comes to beauty and fashion. After conducting a provincial search of make- up artists, fashion stylists and accessory makers, I teamed up with local celebrities to help assist these creatives on having their work reach a wider audience and a potential client base.

CT: Are you a morning or afternoon person and why?
PD: I hate mornings. I could choose afternoons any-day, but because my jobs necessitate early beginnings I have learned to sacrifice my sleep so I am able to live my dreams.

CT: What are some of your long-term ambitions?
PD: I would love to start a photography academy at some point in my life. It is time people learned that owning a camera does not instantly turn you into a professional photographer. Our craft is being disrespected and not taken seriously, but it's nothing education cannot fix.

CT: What advice do you have for people from the community who are trying to establish themselves in the media world?
PD: You can do anything you put your mind to. Work hard and never allow other people to discourage you.

On the Couch with Musa Madonsela

2020-02-19T01:38:00.003-08:00

Musa Madonsela is the new manager of Life Chatsmed Garden Hospital. The dynamic 33-year-old, who is passionate about rugby and healthcare, shared his journey and aspirations with The Chatsworth Tabloid.

CT: Can you tell us about your upbringing?
MM: I was born in a small township called Hammarsdale. During those times there was a bit of political tension and we relocated to Pinetown. It was during the time when the country was transitioning from apartheid to democracy and I still remember being the only black child in my classroom. It was a good time to grow up in South Africa as there was a lot of positivity but there were a lot of reminders about the past. As a child, I did not have any difficulties and I had a lot of friends from different race groups.

CT: What does your new role entail?
MM: If you think about a president, they have to look after every aspect of the country. My mandate is to grow and improve the hospital in terms of the services that we are providing.

CT: How have your experiences been working in Chatsworth so far?
MM: I have worked in a few other hospitals and I have not found a hospital which is as intimate with the community as
Life Chatsmed Garden Hospital. It has received the unofficial title of being a community-based hospital, meaning that it is a hospital for the locals. It is not unusual for patients to greet me. I had never experienced this in the past.

CT: Are you a dog or cat person and why?
MM: I am definitely a dog person. I like the fact that they are loyal. I have had two dogs and they would take guard over me. They are also engaging. Cats are very distant and independent and you do not get to have fun with them.

CT: Considering your demanding schedule, how do you make time for your family?
MM: Fortunately, this is not the first hospital manager role that I am in. I have a very understanding wife and child. My wife supports me while I am growing my career. My personal rule is that the weekends are for me and my family. Unfortunately there are sometimes public events which I have to attend. They do not
see me much now as they are still in Richards Bay but I have a second child on the way
and they will see me a lot once that child is born.

CT: Tell us about your past roles before you took this one?
MM: I helped to formally open the Richards Bay Medical Institute in January 2014. I came in during the latter stages of construction and was very grateful for that opportunity. It allowed me to learn by trial and error. It was a hospital which was geared towards oncology. Many people do not know that cancer is one of the dangerous diseases to have in this country. We had one of the most advanced radiation therapy machines in that hospital and people flew in from all over the country.

Before that I worked at Netcare The Bay Hospital and that was where I fell in love with healthcare. That is where I learnt the basics of how a hospital works. One of the reasons I am passionate about my role is
because I can make indirect decisions which save lives.

CT: What is your long-term vision for Life Chatsmed Garden Hospital?
MM: The hospital has already achieved a lot. We have world class doctors. It is well-esteemed in the medical industry. My vision is to make healthcare as affordable as possible without compromising on the quality of medical care.

On the Couch with Vicky Prithraj

2020-02-19T01:38:00.000-08:00

Vicky Prithraj is the chairman of the Funda Zophila Foundation. He presents the Edu-Assist Awareness Programmes on bullying and abuse and ensures that they are done correctly. He regularly hosts discussions with the provincial school coordinators and with the assistant director for the national office for basic education to update them on progress and problems experienced at schools with the running of the programmes.

Chatsworth Tabloid (CT):
Tell us about the Funda Zophila Foundation

Vicky Prithraj (VP):
The Funda Zophila Foundation is a registered non-profit organisation with the Department of Social Development. We are a Section 18A approved organisation. Funda Zophila runs Edu-Assist Awareness Programmes on bullying and abuse at schools throughout South Africa. We rely totally on funding from the public, businesses and corporates to make this possible. The programme is done with students and Life Orientation educators. We refer to this part of the programme as the TAT programme- Tell a Teacher programme. The TAT programme is done through the Teaching Tool Kit (primary schools) which helps in making the lesson funny, enjoyable and exciting. All programmes are based on the simple abbreviation that we call K.I.S.S meaning Keep It Super Simple.

CT: Why do you think that bullying is such a problem?

VP: Students are bullied for a lot of reasons. Sometimes they are bullied because they are different or because they are clever or popular. It can be caused from differences in race, sexuality, religion, disabilities, weight, height or anything that creates a difference between one child and another. At other times, they are simply in the wrong place at the wrong time. Students who bully sometimes have problems or are unhappy. They may be trying to make up for a lack of attention, power or love in their own lives. These students need to feel powerful and seem to enjoy harming others. They often do not understand the feelings of the person they bully.

Those who persistently bully often do so in order to dominate others and improve their own social status. Bullying often comes from a belief that it’s okay to act that way. Sometimes, they don’t even know that what they are doing is bullying behaviour or they don’t understand how much hurt and anxiety they cause.

CT: What does a typical day in your life entail?

VP: I get up at 4:30am, shower, read my Bible and spend time praying with my wife. I then take my daughter Sarah to school. We call
this our daughter and father time where she uses the time to discuss everything that’s on her mind. I get back to my office, pray with my staff and I then make a call to check on how my son Ryan, who is a lawyer, is doing in Cape Town. I check my day’s to-do-list and then make calls to various business sectors to assist with funding so that we can continue with the programme and have it printed in other languages.

CT: How can the community help to reduce bullying?

VP: When you see something do something, hold bystanders accountable, listen and don’t pre-judge, deal with students individually, don’t ignore it and pay attention.
CT: How can people get help if they are bullied?

VP: Funda Zophila Foundation helps with counselling. We work closely with Childline KZN and the South African Police Service as well as other religious institutions who are willing to assist. If assistance is needed by a parent of a child that is bullied or abused we can be contacted via WhatsApp or SMS on 082 909 7869 or you can email me on info@bullyboogie.co.za.

ON the Couch with Charlotte Nihal

2020-02-19T01:37:00.003-08:00

Queensburg's business woman Charlotte Nihal (CN) is the finalist in the Tammy Taylor Mrs South Africa 2019 competition. The UIP newly elected chairperson said growing up she has always been an extrovert. She said she already feels like a winner of the competition. Tabloid Newspapers (TN) spoke to Nihal more about the competition and how she handles her responsibilities.

TN: Where were you born and which school did you go to?
CN: My story, Marianhill to MIT. I was born to humble beginnings in a small town called Marianhill, my family later moved to Queensburgh were I still reside today. I attended Malvern Primary School and my high school career was at Wingen Heights Secondary. Although I am from a small town, I always had big dreams and my passion to succeed got me to one of the most prestigious universities in the world, Massachusetts Institute of Technology as well as becoming a national representative of the Clothing and textile sector of SA by the FP&MSETA.

TN: When did you get married?
CN: I married my high school sweetheart Vishaal and best friend on November 17, 2019. It was everything we could have dreamed of. The wedding was held at Zimbali Coastal Resort and Estate.

TN: How does your significant other feel about the competition?
CN: My husband is my biggest fan and supporter and encourages me to always persevere towards all that I aim to accomplish.

TN: Growing up, were you an introvert or extrovert?
CN: I was always an extrovert and loved talking. My first experience with being in front of an audience was when I was in preschool and was asked by the principal to open in prayer at a school function.

TN: The competition requires you to be someone with a passion for working with other woman, be a person with the spirit of ubuntu, what makes you suitable for this?
CN: Ubuntu speaks of humanity, compassion, integrity and togetherness, these are values that I live by and what has moulded me into the person that I am today. I have always believed that if each one of us attempted to help transform the life of just one other person, society would become a better place. I may not be able to change the world but I can certainly start with my community, helping to inspire, motivate, educate and empower women to be the best version of themselves.

TN: As a wife and business woman, what are some of the challenges have you faced when juggling the competition, work and home at the same time?
CN: There have been many moments were I felt like giving up, because managing family life, career, education and simply my time can be overwhelming. It is in these moments however that I remind myself of all that I have accomplished and it reminds me that perseverance always pays off.We may not get the immediate results we wish to see, but eventually we will.

TN: What would winning the competition mean to you and who would benefit more than you from your winning?
CN: I already feel like a winner for making it this far and challenging myself. The Tammy Taylor Mrs South Africa is really an MBA of life and takes one out of the comfort zone, forcing me to push personal boundaries and work harder than I may have before. These are winning lessons already learnt. Winning this competition however will be a huge accomplishment, not because it is a personal victory but because it gives me a voice and platform to reach out to far more women than I might be able to currently. It will help me network and connect with people that have the same vision for women empowerment as myself.

TN: You are involved in community work, what are some of the projects you have been involved in?
CN: As part of the Tammy Taylor Mrs South Africa competition I am currently involved in a women for women project with Maqhutshana

High School where topics like the working world, contraception and general life skills are covered. I am also doing an Mpact Recycling project with Malvern Primary School which encourages learners to recycle. I have also been involved projects regarding entrepreneurship that encourage women to start their own business's, support groups and counselling for abused women as well as training women on technology used in the Clothing and Textile industry.

TN: You have ben recently elected as the chairperson of UIP, tell me more about what you do and what do you deal with on a day to day?
CN: A UIP is involved in the managing of their area and being registered with the Ethekweni Municipality as a formal organisation. It involves security, cleaning and greening as well as community development. Security is one of the major concerns and is one of the major issues that I deal with. The UIP also consist of a board of directors, each of which manage a specific portfolio regarding the community. This UIP also involves ongoing communication with the community with regard to security related matters and urban improvement,

TN: After a very long day how do you unwind?
CN: Exercising is what recharges me, so unwinding from the stresses of the day is done by taking a 6km to 8 km walk in my community with a group of wives, mothers and women who just want to keep fit. We like to refer to ourselves as the Shallcross Walk Club but have not formalised this. My final moments of unwinding is when I get to relax with my husband and my family.

TN: What does being a real woman mean to you?
CN: Being a woman means being someone who is real, some who is relatable. She is someone that knows challenges but never gives up. She wears many crowns, that of a wife, sister, friend and mother. She is always there for those that need her and she embraces herself for who she is.

TN: Are you a mother and what would you want your children to remember you for?
CN: I am not yet a mother, however I do plan to start my family in the near future. I would want my future children to remember me as a God fearing, hard working and the dynamic women that I hope to have been for them.

TN: Describe your journey in the competition in three words?
CN: Life changing journey.

On The Couch with Jerry Mpho Pooe

2020-02-19T01:37:00.000-08:00

Glenwood resident, director, actor, drama lecturer and facilitator Jerry Mpho Pooe (JMP) started his career at Stable Theatre under the wing of Kassie Govender. Pooe was born in Johannesburg and moved to Durban in 1987 where he matriculated in 1990 at Ohlange High School.

He has produced many actors and actresses who are dominating our screens such as Sdumo Mtshali, Dawn King from Uzalo, Siyabonga Shibe and many more. He also worked for Windybrow Theater in Joburg, PACOFS in Free State as artistic director and National Department of Arts and Culture as director. Tabloid Newspapers took some time to chat to Pooe about his passion for arts, his career and his Pan African Art Centre in Wushwini, KwaNgcolosi just after Inanda.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN):
What inspired you to do arts?

Jerry Mpho Pooe (JMP):
I was inspired by what was happening around us in the 80's in Soweto township and I decided to use arts in fighting apartheid.

TN: Please tell us why you chose to have the art centre in Wushwini and not in the urban or sub-urban area of Durban?

JMP: I chose to have an arts centre in the rural area because I am passionate about development and most of the time, rural communities are neglected and I wanted our society to know that rural areas have a lot to offer as a place where our culture and tradition comes from.

TN: Out of all the productions and plays you have directed, which would you say was the highlight in your career?

JMP: I directed more than 40 productions and travelled the world. My highlights being Peace in The Valley, Let my people go, My voice my life, King DinuZulu The Musical, Ekhaya Poppie, Refugees and King Cetshwayo the Musical. It is difficult to choose because I love all of them.

TN: Your passion for the community can be seen through your work, what community projects are you involved in?

JMP: At the moment, I am busy with building a home for a destitute family who lost their home in Molweni area. I am also training youth and children in arts. We are working with 40 schools helping educators to teach arts.

TN: What programmes are you offering at Wushwini Pan-African Arts Centre and who are you working with in those projects?

JMP: Wushwini offers more than 10 training youth programmes to capacitate our young people, we also offer two international festivals Uhuru Fringe Festival in May and Botho International Heritage Festival in September, we offer exhibitions, we record groups, stage Jazzy Sundays every last week of the month, youth Indaba in June and we provide a venue for any artist who wants to stage their shows or concerts. In most of the projects like film projects, we work with AFDA, we also partner with DUT and Creative Arts College, schools around us, different government departments and the city.

TN: Born in Johannesburg, why did you choose to start a career in KZN?

JMP: I came in Durban at the tender age of 17 to study after completing high school. I studied at UKZN at that time, it was University of Natal while I was a student together with my friend Ben Zungu, we started a company called Eager Artists which will be celebrating 25 years next year.

Our company was focusing on training youth around the townships especially KwaMashu working with Alfred Nokwe, the love of working with young people stole me from Joburg then I was approached by Drama In Aids Education based at the University to work for them. We travelled to all corners of KZN teaching people about AIDS, then worked shortly for the Playhouse then joined DUT as a lecturer for 10 years. That kept me in KZN, and my career blossomed, I ended up working for KZN Department of Arts and Culture as deputy director.

TN: Which international directors have you worked with and on which projects?

JMP: I worked with Roel Twinstra from Netherlands we did Free Birds, Vuka Vuka, Madonna of Excelsior, Respect, Ben Okri, House of Hunger and Swallowed. Lorna Hill from USA - we did My Voice My Life, Tom Burrows from USA we did Living Room. Kees van Loenen from Netherlands, we did Man's World.

TN: Which countries have you been to and which one would you move to if given a choice?

JMP: I have been to Spain, France, Netherlands, Denmark, Zimbabwe, Botswana, Mozambique, Rwanda, Ethiopia, USA, China and Swaziland. I fell in love with the USA but I will never leave my country, I love South Africa too much.

TN: If you were not in arts, what other career would you choose?

JMP: If I was not in the arts I would be cooking. I am also a chef by profession.

TN: On a sunday afternoon when relaxing, what music do you listen to?

JMP: I listen to all kinds of music because l love different sounds and music feeds my soul especially African Jazz, Soul and Opera.

On the Couch Nisha Mahendra

2020-02-19T01:36:00.004-08:00

Outgoing and energetic dance instructor and choreographer with talent in forms related to Bollywood Nisha Mahendra is choreographing in the Bombay Chasers Show at Sibaya Casino this weekend. Mahendra is adept at organising live performances, helping to integrate costumes and props in live performances.

She has 14 years of experience in the Bollywood industry in Mumbai performing at award nights, corporates, musicals, Bollywood world tours, weddings, movie shoots and reality shows. She has also travelled the world teaching and training international stars which include, Saif Ali Khan, Shahrukh Khan, Akshay Kumar, Shahid Kapoor, Anushka Sharma just to name a few. Tabloid Newspapers spoke to Mahendra on her career and her role in Bombay Chasers.
Tabloid Newspapers (TN):
How do you feel about choreographing Bombay Chasers in Durban?

Nisha Mahendra (NM):
I feel great about choreographing Bombay chasers in Durban. Thrilled to share my knowledge and skills with the amazing talented people here. I breathe dance and to choreograph a Bollywood based production has been work with pleasure. Durban is beautiful, with beaches and the greenery, absolutely amazing weather.

TN: Where are you originally from?
NM: I am from Mumbai, India originally.

TN: What sort of dance do you specialise in?
NM: I specialise in Bollywood form of dance.
TN: When did your love for choreography start and what inspired you to pursue it?
NM: It's been four years now that I started choreographing. A lot of inspiration is derived from performing artists all over the world but also I believe that art is self-creation. I love to create and to an extent I am self-inspired hence choreography. It has so many aspects. I go on exploring, creating and sharing. A lot of times my co-workers and dancers have also inspired me. It's simply about how driven one wishes to be. Besides, I love dance.

TN: How was your first experience on stage?
NM: My first experience on stage was very long ago, but I felt I belonged here. My first stage performance on a professional level was for the MTV Emmy Awards, In Mumbai. I enjoyed it.

TN: Who was/ is your best collaboration with and why?
NM: My best collaboration was with Shah Rukh Khan because he is somebody I admired from my teenage days and then eventually got to know that he is as talented as we see him on TV and he is also a very humble person. It was very easy working with him. I enjoyed it.

TN: Are there any challenges in your line of career and what are they?
NM: Yes, there are challenges that are proving yourself at every point, you have to be disciplined in your training and a lot of overtime
TN: How can these challenges be addressed?
NM: The ultimate way of dealing with these challenges are consistency and positive attitude, looking at the bigger picture, patience, above all, believing in yourself.
TN: What do you feel younger choreographers should focus on in order to be as successful as you in their careers?
NM: Some ways that younger choreographers need to focus on is minding their own business, keep working on your talent and never ever shy away from showing your skills
TN: Your thoughts on SA dancers?
NM: There is a lot of talent in this country for sure, but their skills need to be polished and that will only come with more time and effort invested in training. In the South African dance fraternity, dancers are limited in their freedom to chose who they dance with. They should go for all dance experiences with an open mind. Dancers in Bombay Chasers are hardworking and curious. My heart reaches out to them and I am only willing to work harder with them.
TN: What can we expect from you in Bombay Chasers?
NM: I am sure the audience has not witnessed this kind of dancing before on a Durban stage platform. It's different, it's Bollywood, it's entertaining and surely international. Everyone should go watch and see for themselves.
TN: What are your biggest highlights and biggest achievements?
NM: My biggest highlights were assisting in choreography and performing in AR Rahmaan concerts, being dancing captain in the musical Merchants of Bollywood for year 2017, performing and under studying and being the lead of the show Merchants of Bollywood for 10 years and completing over 1500 shows.

On the Couch with Leon Payn

2020-02-19T01:36:00.000-08:00

Leon Payn is a South African male model, fitness junkie and influencer who has made a great name for himself working with local brands including the KZN Fashion Council. He is not just a ‘cool cat’, but he has brains too. He has a degree in Media Communications and an honours degree in Linguistics isiZulu. Payn is a self-proclaimed ambassador of the city of Durban with a following of over 20 000 people on social media. Tabloid Newspapers spoke to Payn about his life and work.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN): Tell us about yourself, what kind of a person are you?

Leon Payn (LP):
There is so much to tell. I am a very positive, professional and maybe a bit of a perfectionist type of a person. So far I have achieved everything I have by putting my time and energy. People don’t know that I look confident, but I am shy. Leon in the public is a persona.

TN: What inspires your line of work?

LP: I worked in a PR and marketing sector before I became an influencer. I knew the impact advertising and authority had. In my vertical, people kept complimenting me on Facebook and Instagram content, that is when I knew that I can start making money from my social media. I also have so much passion which equates hunger to learn and understand more about how each brands identity inspires me. The more brands and people I work with, the more I get inspired.

TN: What did you want to be when you were growing up?

LP: So here's a story that most people don’t know. I wanted to be a lawyer, got to Durban and things changed, growing up on a farm at the time, I did not know there are other career options. I remember being so afraid to tell my father that I want to do a bachelor of Social Sciences in Media and communications.

TN: Do you have any regrets about where you are in life?

LP: Yes, there are so many fears coming in many disguises. I think, my biggest regret was not believing and trusting myself that I can do the things I am doing now.

TN: What do you do most when you are bored?

LP: I enjoy being at the gym, doing cardio, editing my pictures, travelling or working on a client's Instagram pages. I always find something to keep myself busy with. If I am indoors, I am sleeping. I love my sleep.

TN: What do you think about more than anything else?

LP: Getting everything done in a day and looking fabulous whilst doing it. Everything is planned in my head before, from my clothes, hair and food. I also stress a lot about not meeting client deadlines, social media management is not child’s play.

TN: What about modelling do you love the most?

LP: I am lucky, most designers give me their clothes to keep because I get invited to so many events. I also like the travelling part, staying in different hotels is the coolest.

TN: What has been your highest achievement?

LP: Passing my honours degree with a certificate
of merit and in the same month getting accepted at Michigan State University to study.

TN: What are your favourite things about yourself?

LP: My height, everyone looks up to me (laughs). I am
195cm tall.

TN: What aspect of your life needs tremendous improvement?

LP: I need to stop worrying. I worry a lot. I also think I need to smile more, I never smile.

TN: One thing you know now that you wish you had known as a child?

LP: Trust yourself always, you will make mistakes and its ok.

TN: Who is your favourite model and why?

LP: Sanele Xaba, it gives me so much joy to see someone I use to work with fly all over the world and live his dream.
TN: On a scale of one to 10, with 10 being the highest and one being the lowest, rate your fashion sense?

TN: You speak 100% pure IsiZulu, how has that help you?

LP: Seven I really don’t cut myself up about trends, but working in fashion does make me conscious about my fashion sense and also we do it for the gram.

LP: My grandmother is African and I grew up on a farm so I was immersed in the language, that’s how I understood isiZulu. I now have an honours degree in linguistics because of my love for isiZulu. Leon’s social media feed is filled with his personal style images where he collaborates with local fashion designers and photographers to create the perfect Leon Payn look that South Africans have fallen inlove with over the years. When not looking for inspiration for his next shoot or doing some shopping online, Leon is seen out and about trying out new restaurants or onset shooting a campaign for a client. Metro FM Awards, Jumbo Ethic Hair Show and The NWJ Beauty and Bridal Show are some of the events that Leon has been tasked to work at, from MC’ing to covering the red carpet and building much needed brand conversations. “I have made it, people understand that it is okay for males to wear make-up, the loyal following I have built over the years makes me one of most trusted voices online and I am proud of that. I enjoy it when I hear feedback from my followers because it always gives me ideas on what to work on next or what is it that they want to see” - Leon Payn

On the Couch with DBG

2020-02-19T01:35:00.003-08:00

When they met in high school, they realised that they had something in common, their love for music and that is how DBG was born. The name DBG comes from the combination of their stage names Innocent Mathaba AKA Dotcom, Thembelani Qokela known as Busted and Thabani Sibiya as Small G. The trio who currently resides in Sea Cow Lake and Newlands West are known for their hit songs “Tshela Ngalo” and “Umazulu”. They are also known for their electrifying performances that leave the audience asking for more. Tabloid Newspapers spoke to the trio about their love for music and where they see themselves in the future.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN):
Which school did you guys meet at and when?

DBG: We met at Sea Cow Lake Secondary School in 2009. Because of our love for music we decided to form a group, hence, DBG was born.

TN: It is my understanding that you are somewhat different yet alike when it comes to music, tell us about that?
DBG: Small G is a Dj. Dotcom is a dancer and Busted is a singer and songwriter. Together we make the meanest combination. We take our music seriously and we are here to stay.

TN: Why Durban kwaito out of all the music genres?
DBG: Truth is, when we started our group, people believed that kwaito music was dead which was wrong. Kwaito music will never die when were are still alive, it will only grow and evolve. It’s a kwaito revolution. The tempo of kwaito beats have increased from 119 to 128 depending on how the track is sampled. Now, kwaito music got house beats which is why we say it is evolved because nothing remains the same forever.

TN: What sets you apart from other Kwaito groups?
DBG : Our music is unique and meaningful.

TN: What is your music about?
DBG: Our music is about our experiences. We are young and most youths relate to it. We also make sure that we send out positive messages through our music.

TN: Briefly tell us about some of the people you have worked with?
DBG: We have worked with Msawawa, Mgarimbe, Dollar, Dj Dansani, Dr Popzin and Singil.

TN: And the people you have shared the stage with?
DBG: We have shared the stage with Big Nuz, Tzozo and Professor, Dj Cleo, Zakes Bantwini, Dj Sindara and Dj Tira.

TN: When can we expect an album from DBG?
DBG: We have a new single coming up which promises to be a hit. In terms of an album, we are working on it and when we are ready you will be the first person to know. The single title is “sthela ngalo”. We worked with Trademark and Mapopo.com on this track.

TN: What are some of the challenges that you are faced with in the industry?
DBG: We are faced with a lot of challenges like perfuming for free which is costing us a lot of money. We have to arrange transport to and from the venue, studio fee but our biggest challenge is getting slots, radio play and paying gigs.
TN: How has the public responded to your music?
DBG: So far, we haven't received any complaints about our music. People seem to be enjoying it and that is all that matters to us.
TN: Where do you see yourselves in five years from now?
DBG: In a few years, we see ourselves owning a big recording company, helping our fellow artists that are serious about music and planning to sacrifice all for music. We aim to do something that can help the needy people and the orphans, because that little something will make a huge difference in impacting people's lives.
TN: How easy is it to work together, do you ever have a difference of opinion?
DBG : For sure, we are different individuals with the same vision. We talk about our differences and come to a compromise. After all, we are a team and at the end of the day, we sit down together and have a good laugh about it while planning our next move that will take the group forward.
TN: Besides music, what else do you do together?
DBG: We have a business of hiring out a sound system and a car wash.

On the Couch with Red Robyn

2020-02-19T01:35:00.000-08:00

Red Robyn, is a singer, songwriter and actress. She studied music and drama performance at the University of KwaZulu-Natal and later did her honours in music. The Durban based musician has always wanted to be on stage weather it was being part of the musical productions in school, drama club, singing in church, music or performance. Tabloid Newspapers spoke with Robyn about her music career.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN):
Tell us about your music background?

Red Robyn (RR):
I come from a musical family on both sides, my family members were always in bands and touring making gospel and secular
music. I started performing with my electric guitar more frequently and have begun forging my own path in the alternative
music scene.

TN: Can you take us through your music?
RR: My music is best described as
alternative. I am influenced musically by RnB, pop rock, country and contemporary christian music. Some of my favourite bands and
artists in high school were Paramore,
Young the Giant, Mariah Carey and Hillsong United.

TN: What has the main challenge for you as an artist trying to establish yourself in the Industry been?
RR: It’s been very challenging being a female in the industry and people not always taking you seriously or thinking
they can just push you around. I’ve had to be very strong and learn to stand up for myself and go after what I want.
TN: What have been some of the most interesting parts about trying to find a career as a musician?
RR: The most interesting thing about trying to find a career as a musician is learning about yourself. I think a career in the music industry will expose your weaknesses and force you to confront them. I think another interesting thing is the people you meet, they are always so unassuming as people generally are and they always form part of your story in some unique way.

TN: What do you love the most when you step up onto the stage to perform?
RR: I love being on stage with people who are as passionate as I am about what I do. I love the synergy that comes from that. It reminds me that God is real.

TN: With regards to Zakifo festival, how has it required you to grow?
RR: It has required me to grow in many ways. At this point I still don’t have a manager, so I’ve had to learn how to juggle tasks and manage my time wisely.

TN: How do you as a local artist try to describe Durban’s music scene to outsiders?
RR: I think the Durban music scene is very diverse and extremely rich, I always say Durban hides the best musicians in the
world because it does just that. I always describe it as very multicultural and extremely diverse and growing in that.

TN: In the beginning of June you played on a stage full of renowned artists, how do you capture your audience?
RR: With my epic dance moves. I think the atmosphere at a festival lends itself to people just enjoying themselves, and I
use that with hope to just direct that wave of energy in a good direction.

TN: When was the first time you played at the festival, and how did it make you
feel?
RR: I think it was last year some time, I was at the Afropunk competition when it first came up. I was extremely excited because I had always hoped to play on the Zakifo stage ever since I attended the very first festival in 2016. I felt like finally my music was being recognised and heard.

TN: What change would you like to see happening at the festivals in the next few years?
RR: I’d like to see more local acts on the line-up and I’d like to see Durban start to appreciate the talent and the richness of
culture and diversity that has always been right on our doorstep. I think the festival has done an excellent job at
evolving and catering to their audience. I think I would like to see more spaces being activated in the city through the festival.

TN: What are your plans for the future, where are you headed ?
RR: I try to take my gift seriously but not that I invest my whole life into it. I think many artists make the mistake of banking their whole life on being a superstar. I want to use music to change the world, I want to study and get all the knowledge I can to make life easier for people who struggle with mental illness like I have and with trauma and PTSD. I will be releasing my
debut EP this September and hopefully will spend some time touring that project next year. I look forward to playing at more festivals and meeting more like-minded musicians and artists to collaborate with.

On the Couch with Dr Imran Keeka

2020-02-19T01:28:00.002-08:00

From healthcare to education, the Democratic Alliance’s Dr Imran Keeka’s passion for his job is unwavering. A family man, who tries to separate politics and leisure, he remains caught up in his drive to strive for a better South Africa. And….a succulent medium to well steak with a good espresso helps him unwind

Tabloid (T):
From healthcare to education, how is that transition going to be like for you. Say the name Dr Keeka, and you remain associated with healthcare because of the work that you did.

Dr Imran Keeka (IK):
In politics, there are leadership decisions that we abide by. Being appointed as the health spokesperson was a leadership decision in as much as is my appointment - by my caucus leadership - to education. My job and responsibility is to do the best I can to serve every South African. A big part of my job is to make sure that the provincial executive is held accountable.

The executive and the governing party cannot make promises and commitments and then renege on them. In holding the executive to account we will point out where they are failing but it is equally important to work to find solutions. Whether they listen is another matter entirely. My work done in health is now in the capable hands of one of my colleagues who will only do more than I did. I take over from him on education and will dedicate my time to making sure education works and works well.

T: What were some of your highlights during your time in office as the provincial spokesperson?
IK: Serving on any portfolio requires as a must, dedication, passion and a relentless, drive to make sure the job gets done. This cannot happen around a boardroom table. I believe in the “go see for yourself” approach. This gave me the opportunity to visit many of the 810 service sites in healthcare across KZN over the last five years.

The challenge in education is greater. We have around 6000 schools in KZN so there is much work that lies ahead. Together with my leadership, we tackled some of the major issues in KZN health. All of those issues still persist albeit with improvements. This includes the oncology crisis that saw some 530 people die while waiting for treatment and thousands more that are unaccounted for, the forensic pathology crisis, the medicine stock out crisis and so many other critical issues. The best part of being in health was to receive the multitudes of calls and the various interactions daily. The reward was working hard and to see them resolved where possible. I recall discovering that there were some 8000 patients waiting for cataract surgery [many are still waiting].

T: You are a doctor by profession, specialising in Chinese ancient medicine. Why did you choose this as opposed to being a “conventional” general practitioner?
IK: This is long and winding story that concludes with the joys of practicing -when I have time - an area of healing that is massively rewarding both from a professional point of view and for the patient. I have a special interest in what is called integrative oncology using Chinese medicine.I also have the great privilege, through this profession, to serve on a national structure as a professional board member at the Allied Health Professions Council of South Africa. I am one of two representatives for Chinese medicine on the board.

T: How did you enter politics and when?
IK: For those who know me, I guess the spark was always there. I caused some trouble in high school student politics when I was a medical student abroad. I continue to serve on the executive of the Newcastle Muslim Community as well as their education committee, the latter for some 15 years. I joined the DA in 2010. Prior to that I supported the ANC when voting. The Damascus moment for me - so to speak - was when I was standing in the ballot box in 2009. I could not bring myself to vote for the ANC any longer. I didn't want to vote for the IFP and, at the time refused to vote for the DA - so I spoilt the ballot. Through a friend who knew my political views and endures, even today my sometimes punishing political banter, I met MP Alf Lees whose time and wisdom led me to signing up DA membership. In hindsight, this is probably one of best decisions I have ever made.

T: It seems that as much as you spoke about the bad delivery of healthcare in KZN, was the government listening? Have you seen any improvements?
IK: This is a question for them to answer. I did what I had to and will continue to do the same to make sure that the executive is held to account and that every citizen is better off after interacting with me or my colleagues. There was a massive lack of political leadership in health and there still is. On another front, I am hoping that the new MEC of education is not hostile, arrogant and deaf to the needs of the people in comparison to what we had to deal with in the last term. There are still mountains and hills to conquer.

T: How is the education sector going to be any different for you to deal with?
IK: The principles of holding the executive to account are not portfolio specific. My colleagues and I will use all means available to us within the Legislature, the legal system and even Chapter 9 institutions -if we must - according to the need. The media plays a massive oversight role over the affairs of government and it is commonplace for us to make public the workings of government. Basic Education has several challenges and we have a responsibility to ensure that we give strict consideration to producing quality above quantity.

Notwithstanding, quantity in terms of seeing through to Grade 12 all those that are in Grade 1 today cannot be ignored as being equally important. Corruption in education is evidently rife and the crooks must be brought to book. I am committed to act without fear or favour to make sure this happens to the best of my ability.

T: Is politics all talk and no action?
IK: Depends who you ask this question to. If you ask those who are disillusioned by the affairs of all that is going on around us, they will say “yes”. I am of the view that there is hope and that we all have a responsibility to ensure that South Africa becomes a better place for all of us. Hope must lie in change and while many passed up the opportunity most recently to use their vote to effect this change, there is another opportunity and next time- apathy or not - go out there and make sure you hire politicians with your vote who will be all action and not just talk. We get the government we vote for and we will get a government even if we don't vote.

T: What book are you presently reading?
IK: With the new portfolio assigned to me, I have to pick up the NDP [National Development Plan], the PGDP [Provincial Growth and Development Plan] and the norms and standards in education to start with. I found my copy of "The Art of War". It sits on my desk staring at me and really does deserve a re-read. And so it shall be.

T: Who is the politician, nationally and internationally, that you admire past or present?
IK: Would it be too much of a cliché

if I said Nelson Mandela? The best of politicians are those who are brutally honest, lead with integrity, who are beyond reproach, who are not a populist for short term gain, who abandon strongman politics at all levels and who are committed to the people to such a point, that only being in their service matters when they wake up in the morning. Of the leaders of the past and given my faith and religious convictions, I am full of admiration for those who immediately followed the demise of the Prophet Muhammad [peace be upon him]. I am also
a dedicated member of the DA and my present day leadership is most admirable -say what you want. I say this without the need to and without prejudice or obligation.

T: Where do you see South Africa in the next 20 years?
IK: South Africans must understand that urgent change is needed otherwise there will be nothing left to govern. This "new dawn" nonsense was just sweet election talk that swept some off their feet. Look at the realities of the "morning after". If the levels of greed, desire, the need to continue to divide us based on the colour of our skin and opportunism prevails - as the norm is at various levels of leadership - and there is no indication of it being cured - what hope can there be?If we do not change those that perpetuate this and we do not change them fast, you ask yourself where we will be in 20 years?

T: Favourite sport?
IK: The big question is: “Is hunting a sport?” While I have not found time in many years, a long walk in the bush, the peace and quiet cannot be beaten.

T: Favourite food?
IK: Number one: A fine cut of steak and I will be punished by some for saying medium to well.
Second: Baked beans. Oh and a good espresso. Anyone who knows me will know how serious this espresso topic is.

T: Best holiday or place travelled to?
IK: For those who have been on pilgrimage (Hajj) to Makkah or what some may refer to as a minor pilgrimage (Umrah), you will know that there is no better place to be as well as the strong desire to visit there again and again. I would love to travel through more of our vast continent one day.

On the Couch with Lindi Govender

2020-02-19T01:27:00.002-08:00

Known for her inventive take on modern soul food, as well as comfort classics, Lindi "Gee" Govender is a professional Durban chef who is passionate about cooking. Tabloid Newspapers spoke with Govender about her journey from when it was all just a wish.Tabloid Newspapers ( TN): Who is Lindi Govender?Lindi Govender (LG): Lindi is a feeder, someone who loves to laugh, fun, crazy, and loving. Sometimes I am full of kindness and generosity. TN: Where does your love for cooking come from?

LG: It comes from a family of foodies. My grandmother cooked for everyone, and I was always next to her with my own tiny piece of pastry rolling things out.

My mother had me cooking from a very young age peeling and chopping, so when she came from work she put it together. My dad's eldest sister Mary is still my go to person. Whenever I am unsure about something I call her, she is a serious foodie.

TN: How was the learning part for you, the experience?

LG: I studied locally at Christina Martin, but I did my in-service training abroad. I have always been interested in food, even though my parents didn't take it seriously. When I finished work, I got an internship at a friend's restaurant. I loved it. It was hard work but I loved it. In her kitchen there was order. I learnt a lot as American food is different from our food here in South Africa.

TN: What is your favourite dish to cook?

LG: I can cook anything. I don't have a favourite. I just do what my client wants. I can cook anything from Italian to traditional foods. Indian. Local and West African cuisine.

TN: In your kitchen you love?

LG: The smells. The spices. The noise and the laughter.

TN: Which celebrity would you like to cook for?

LG: I have cooked for him already, even though I cannot mention him. I would also like to cook for Jamie Oliver, because I like his set up. He cooks at home in his kitchen and its nice. I like his concept of having guests over and cooking for them.

TN: What is your secret to a healthy fast meal?

LG: Balance. I wish I could practice it. I don't want to see food after cooking. But the trick is everything in moderation of course.

TN: If you were to host a dinner, who would be invited?

LG: Those who don't have much. People who struggle daily. I would spoil those people. Single parents. The hungry. Those that struggle daily to put something on the table.

TN: What plans do you have for the future?

LG: I want a patisserie. A place where you weigh your food and go. Somewhere in the corporate place, maybe an office block at uMhlanga or Durban North. A place were people don't have time to sit and eat.

TN: What has been the highlight of your career?

LG: The people who keep coming back for more. My clients who constantly order. Those who recommend me to others. The joy of watching someone's face after that first taste. And smiling to myself thinking, I told you.

TN: Describe your food in three words

LG: Quality over quantity

TN: If you were given a choice to an outdoor cooking, where would you choose to go or set up?

LG: Somewhere where people are struggling and don't have much. People who work hard to make ends meet and would love to have a beautiful meal but can't afford it.

On the Couch with Amro Gabriels

2020-02-19T01:26:00.007-08:00

Durban born model and former Mr KZN, Amro Gabriels has once again put the City of Durban on the map. Gabriels has been shortlisted as one of the top 12 contestants for the Mr World South Africa pageant. The winner of the top 12 will be announced on Friday, 12 July and will go on to represent South Africa at the Mr World event which will take place in the Philippines, in August this year. Tabloid Newspapers had a chat with Gabriels about his life and passion.

Tabloid Newspapers (TN):
In a nutshell who is Amro Gabriels?

Amro Gabriels (AG):
Amro Gabriels is the person you call when you are stuck on the highway at midnight with a tyre puncture.

TN: How do you feel about being one of the top 12 contestants for Mr World South Africa?

AG: I feel that I'm beyond grateful to be a part of this journey with 11 other amazing gentlemen. This is one of, if not the most exciting period of my modelling career, as this competition is a step towards Mr World, which is the most coveted event in male pageantry worldwide.

TN: What motivated you to enter this pageant ?

AM: Ever since I started modelling, I've been inspired by the Mr World event, which only takes place biennially. One of my biggest dreams from a young age was to compete in this prestigious event, as not only does it open huge doors, but it also allows an amazing platform
from which you can inspire those that you love, as well as create a wave of inspiration across the whole world.

TN: Is this your first pageant or have you competed in other pageants previously?

AM: I've competed in many pageants over the years, most notable of those would be the Mr KZN, which I was fortunate enough to win, as well as Mr South Africa, where I was also blessed enough to have come out in the top six nationally. Without my family and close friends' support, none of it would have been possible.

TN: When did you start taking an interest in modelling? Tell us about your very first modelling experience.

AM: I started modelling in 2012 and it wasn't completely intentional! I was dropping off my younger brother for a photoshoot, and a modelling agency owner insisted that I join my brother in the shoot. The rest was history!

TN: What is the criteria of the Mr World SA pageant? What are the judges looking for and what does the pageant focus on ?

AM: The MWSA Pageant looks at finding a well balanced man; who strives to not only making
a difference in conjunction with the Beauty With A Purpose Campaign, but also balanced in living a healthy lifestyle and one who understands the importance of social media and multimedia!
The bonus, you don’t necessarily need to be a model.

TN: If you win the coveted title, how do you plan on using this platform to make a difference in your country?

AM: Education to me is extremely important. Part of my current work is as a director of an organisation known as Role Models Foundation, which creates, develops, and funds pre-schools in underprivileged areas nationally. If I win the title, God willing, or even if I don't, I have plans of building a life rehabilitation and education
centre for destitute youth, starting the project in my city of Durban. Winning the title would
help, but my plans are to pursue this goal nevertheless.

TN: Apart from modelling, what do you do ?

AM: I have recently been blessed with the most amazing gift, a little baby girl, Amrienta, who has added a light into mine and my beautiful wife's lives. Fatherhood now takes the majority of my time, but I couldn't have it any other way!

TN: What are your aspirations in life ?

AM: Firstly, my ultimate aspiration is to see myself and my family as happy as we can possibly be, through living life at our full potential in all facets, and secondly, I wish to see the whole world unite with one another, and for love and unity to become more mainstream than hate and division.

TN: Run us through a day in your life ?

AM: Weekdays are normally very long for me, as I have to juggle between work, gym, fatherhood and family, but I always manage to end the day with a smile, thanks to my understanding wife!

TN: What do you enjoy doing in your leisure time?

AM: To be honest, it's not always that I have leisure time, but when I do, family comes first!

TN: Having celebrated Youth Month recently, what is your message to the youth out there ?

AM: I can't stress enough the importance of reading to the youth. Reading will lighten up
your world and set you free. You cannot think
for yourself, if you do not read for yourself.
And as cliché as it sounds, but you will only
fail at something once you stop pursuing whatever it is that you are pursuing. If you don't stop, there is always inevitably a chance of success.