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		<description><![CDATA[The following is my attempt at creating a digital artifact for a course I&#8217;m doing through the University of Edinburgh.  I&#8217;m sharing it here for assessment as well as for feedback. (With very special thanks to Ruthie for her sterling job as a model!) Share the journey: Related posts:Practice Motherhood! Five Things I Learned on Twitter Last Week (don’t you wish you had too?) I Call You Mom (on the occasion of my mom-in-law’s 70th)


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[The following is my attempt at creating a digital artifact for a course I'm doing through the University of Edinburgh.  I'm sharing it here for assessment as well as for feedback. (With very special thanks to Ruthie for her sterling job as a model!)

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		<title>Endings and Beginnings</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2013 09:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, Whispering 'it will be happier'... ~ Alfred Tennyson 2012 was a really rough year.  For myself, and for my family.  You know the saying, it never rains, it pours?  Well, that was my life, o Related posts:Breast Lumps Death and Atonement Lets Talk About Breasts and Vaginas


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hope smiles from the threshold of the year to come, Whispering 'it will be happier'... ~ Alfred Tennyson 

2012 was a really rough year.  For myself, and for my family.  You know the saying, it never rains, it pours?  Well, that was my life, o

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		<title>I Call You Mom (on the occasion of my mom-in-law’s 70th)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Nov 2012 08:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I am a Woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal Woman, that's me.” ― Maya Angelou I call you mom, not because I am married to your son, but because that is what you are to me.  You welcomed me into your family and have loved me unconditiona Related posts:In Honour of 5 Women Who Have Mothered Me The Honour of Motherhood There&#8217;s Never a First Time


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“I am a Woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal Woman,
that's me.”
― Maya Angelou

I call you mom, not because I am married to your son, but because that is what you are to me.  You welcomed me into your family and have loved me unconditiona

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“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”  ~ Maya Angelou

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[We have reason to believe that man first walked upright to free his hands for masturbation. ~ Lily Tomlin


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		<dc:creator>michelle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my friend, I find a second self. ~ Isabel Norton Female friendships are something of a spiritual thing.  They are healing in a way that a relationship with a man can never be - and this is in no way meant to demean my husband, whom I love Related posts:Correcting Your Course 11 Tips on Getting More Efficiency Out of Women Employees Pondering Pleasure – True Friends


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In my friend, I find a second self. ~ Isabel Norton

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		<dc:creator>michelle</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA["We do not remember days, we remember moments." - Cesare Pavese 

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Language... has created the word "loneliness" to express the pain of being alone.  And it has created the word "solitude" to express the glory of being alone.  ~Paul Johannes Tillich

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