Tamara Eden

THIS SITE HAS MOVED

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Sun, 02 Dec 2007 05:05:00 +0000

to HERE

My Blog Has Moved

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Mon, 12 Nov 2007 01:11:00 +0000

I'm sorry if you linked here via a Blogger blog. When a blog owner does not allow comments other than blogger accounts, then you get redirected here.

Please update your links and blogrolls. My new blog is much more pleasing to the eye :)

http//tamaraeden.wordpress.com

I've Migrated

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 16:30:00 +0000

The time has come, I've switched my blog over to WordPress.

http://tamaraeden.wordpress.com

Pretty please update your blogrolls and don't forget to visit me there!

Jewish Link Dropping...Enjoy

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 00:01:00 +0000

Sunday was filled with me relaxing and fiddling with blogging. Of my pursuits I began the switch from Blogger to Wordpress. I'm not officially moved yet but a preview can be found here. Additionally I have been exploring a number of blogs that are new to me and I thought I'd do a LINK DROP and share them with you. ENJOY.

http://lubabnomore.blogspot.com/
I fit into the "asked too many questions" category of non-believers. I love TRUTH and really wanted the whole religion thing to work out. Too bad it's just based on the pastiche of a couple thousand Rabbis over a couple thousand years.

http://darwinjew.blogspot.com/
This blog consists of my collection of personal experiences and news stories reflecting the precarious nature of human intelligence. I will attempt to make posts at least once a week, giving detailed examples of human stupidity in public life here in Israel

http://safkanut.blogspot.com/
Subtitled: Skeptadox; his name says it all :)

http://wanderingintheforest.blogspot.com/
A woman finding her path through Judaism.

http://wwwpearliesofwisdom.blogspot.com/
This is not a new blog to me but I hadn't read it quite some time so I wanted to reintroduce not just myself but my readers to Toronto Pearl's blog.

http://myrightword.blogspot.com/
My thoughts, assertions and observations on issues important to me as a Jew, a Zionist, a Revenant in Yesha and as an inquisitive human being.

http://ilanadavita.wordpress.com/
I am a Conservative Jew with Modern Orthodox leanings, hence the subtitle of this blog. I admire these two trends of Judaism for their courage in attempting to tackle the issues of today. We often refer to the Torah as the “tree of life” and thus I believe that Hashem gave it to us to live with in our time. Yet as I feel committed to Halakhah (Jewish law) I also consider that these answers ought to be given within the framework of the Torah. I sometimes disagree or even feel angry with the answers but I enjoy the challenge and honesty.

http://joyousjudaism.wordpress.com/
The premise of this blog is that positive Judaism can inspire.

Such an assertion may seem obvious, but apparently it is not to a great number of Jewish institutions that continue to rely on negativity — guilt, fear and hatred — to inspire Jewish identity and commitment to their cause.

This blog hopes to turn the tide on this phenomenon … and it will do so by promoting a Judaism that is joyful, filled with meaning, ethically centered, hesed infused and passionate about Jewish unity.

http://amechad.blogspot.com/
An Israeli blogger

http://mominisrael.blogspot.com/
The cutting edge (!) of homemaking and parenting in Israel and the observant Jewish community. By a mother of many, born in the US and now living in Israel.

Unravelling the Scrolls

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Thu, 18 Oct 2007 02:26:00 +0000

Cross posted at JewsByChoice.Org

Avi and I headed to San Diego in order to have a mini-honeymoon and to visit family along with the Dead Sea Scrolls exhibit. This is an experience that we both believe will only come once. According to the museum, this is the largest collection of the scrolls ever displayed in one place. Additionally, there are scrolls displayed that have not been put out in public until now. As a matter of fact, five of the ten scrolls we were able to view were on public view for the first time. How exciting!

As a Jew there is some sort of personal connection, in some sort of far off place within, that makes viewing these ancient texts quite special and in some ways personal. For me there were two specifically memorable texts.

First, seeing the Ten Commandments scroll was amazing. This scroll dates to 30–1 BCE. That is practically incomprehensible. The Ten Commandments are very, perhaps cliche, but altogether symbolic and meaningful texts and symbols for me as a Jew. I believe that the image of the tablets is one of the earliest symbols I recall from childhood.

The second significant text today came at the end of the exhibit. There was a Torah scroll on exhibit. This was an ordinary (if there is such a thing) scroll. A scroll used at a local synagogue, typical of the scrolls many of us see weekly in shul. The special thing for me was that of the portions that were unrolled, I was actually able to make out some of the Hebrew text. Not only was I quite proud, but the text was significant. As I skimmed the hand written Torah, with no vowels (which for me is quite challenging), for any familiar words, I was able to find: Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai Eloheinu Adonai Ehad...followed of course by the V'havtah. WOW! Hebrew school payed off and at that moment I felt quite connected and special.

These texts afterall are my/our history, my/our lineage.

Another Jewish Woman's Perspective

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Mon, 15 Oct 2007 17:30:00 +0000

Cross posted at JewsByChoice.Org

This post was initially intended to be a comment to Avi’s last post on the JewsByChoice.Org (”How I Stopped Being a Jew…”) and a response to Avi’s and Yael’s comments. Because I couldn’t stop my thoughts , I’ve opted to make it my own post. Enjoy, I hope it has meaning for others and makes sense.

“As a woman I will never run into this kind of situation, but I find things even worse for me in many ways.” (Yael)

As a Jew by birth who was raised reform; I agree with you (Yael) though I do see it a little differently. I too believe in the equality of women in Judaism or at least the choice to have equal access (if you will) to men. However, I don’t see what one person struggles with as more or less challenging than the other. What a man or woman struggles with, in my opinion, should not be compared to in a greater than or lesser than way. All our struggles are valid and so much history and experience front loads how we deal and react in different situations that, for me, it’s important I do my best to sincerely try to understand what a person might be struggling with. Believe me being married to a Jew by Choice means I am often reminded to see things from an entirely new and different perspective.

For example, I struggle with many of the traditional things that women partake in within a conservative congregation. Perhaps struggle isn’t the right word choice. I choose not to wear my talit. I have a pink and gold one that my great grandmother gave me for my bat mitzvah. I treasure it, but I won’t wear it. I also have no interest in wrapping tefillin or wearing a kippah. That is not to say others who choose this way to observe are wrong. It simply means that I choose not to. And, even though I believe women are equal, there is this little traditional part inside of me that likes having certain Jewish rituals different than men. That doesn’t make me less than, though in some ways it makes me feel unique and like there is something different and important for me. Take Shabbat candles, I love to light them. I believe it is something women should do; of course I don’t think men shouldn’t do it; but I’m glad it’s something special to women for the most part.

I think it’s important that women’s choices regarding these things are respected; even if the woman is like me and CHOOSES not to partake in these rituals. As far as being called to the Torah to make an aliyah, I’m fine with that for me and look forward to it when I go to the chuppah. I know, weird.

As a Jew by birth, I don’t struggle in the same way with some of Chabad’s style, though I know my husband does. And this has to come into my radar when interracting with the community. Like Avi said, this was the community I truly connected with when I relocated back to L.A. I didn’t connect to the davening and ritual as much as the community. This isn’t a black hat community and it is as diverse a Jewish community that I think I’ll ever find. We have black and white, gay and straight, French and Israeli, you name it. Heck, once for our community Shabbat dinner I even sat next to a Jewish Atheist! It hadn’t occurred to me before I met Avi that attending Chabad once we were married would be an issue because he is a Jew by Choice. However, I discovered that those who are truly Chabad followers didn’t count him as a minyan which also means they don’t agree with our marriage. In other words, if they don’t count him as a Jew, then they would have issues with me (a Jew) marrying him. Sad isn’t it?

And so, back to what Avi had written about. Sorry if I went off on my own thing. Avi wasn’t upset when we left Chabad on Shabbos. We actually walked back to the rabbi’s house to say hi to his wife, whom I do consider a friend, regardless of differing opinions on most things Jewishly speaking. We only stayed for ten minutes and then continued our walk home. We talked about the day on the walk and frankly, I don’t have an interest in davening at my Chabad either. There were perhaps a dozen or so men when we arrived, a few left early which is why the minyan head count happened. And of all those men, there were two woman, myself included. For Avi and I, this isn’t where we would want our children to go. We want families and children. That is not to say that the social events at my Chabad aren’t great. They are. And I think it is safe to say that Avi does enjoy the people who go there and the social aspect. As a matter of fact, we’ve been able to carry some of our shul friendships over into our personal lives so that we still interract with wonderful serious Jews, but not within the atmosphere of exclusion.

For us, this is what is most important. Community.

Just ONE

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Sun, 14 Oct 2007 19:33:00 +0000

So many of you said you were excited to see pics of our civil wedding. Well, I'm sad to say the pics are for the most part not so hot. To be honest, the outfit I wore was very nice; however, in photos it bunched up in my middle section which just isn't cute. There are a few pics of us with our parents but I'm not comfortable putting the parents up without asking first.

Anyway...for our Jewish wedding we'll make sure we get many special photos and in the meantime here is one very blurry, very cropped pic of us. :)

Civil Honeymoon :)

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Mon, 08 Oct 2007 23:22:00 +0000

Although I can't say the person's name (forgot to ask permission to), a blogger friend just called to announce their engagement! Yippee. It makes me smile and I'm so happy because this person is kind and deserving of being happy. So, MAZEL TOV to you know who.

In other news, TG and I have booked a mini "civil" honeymoon. Well, it's a couple of days out of town. As I've expressed in previous posts, we consider ourselves married and we're quite happy. At the same time, we want our proper Jewish wedding to truly feel special. So a "mini" trip will be perfect for us.

We'll be spending a couple of days out of town in order to have some special time together. We're looking forward to visiting the Dead Sea Scrolls exhibit at the San Diego Natural History Museum. This is an opportunity that most likely will never come around again. The second thing we'll do is visit my mom's grave for the one year anniversary of her passing.

And there you have it.

Welcome to the Family: A New J-Blog

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Thu, 04 Oct 2007 23:12:00 +0000

I wanted to share a new blog with all of you. The blog is called JewsByChoice.Org. This is really a wonderful project that TikkunGer founded as part of his fourth year course of studies.

Don't let the name fool you. This is NOT a blog only for converts. Many of us who were born Jewish, like myself, have come to truly find and connect with Judaism as adults. In this sense, we too have chosen Judaism as a way to live our lives.

The blog is made up of many different contributors of different levels of choice you could say. So, go check it out.

There are a couple of great posts already up; however, be sure to check out the contributors link to learn about those people putting it all together. Truly, each story is quite interesting.

Guess Who Got Married...

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Wed, 03 Oct 2007 01:30:00 +0000

I'll start with the mushy stuff because that's what you all want to hear, right?

The Beginning
As most of you know, TikkunGer and I met via this blog back in April of 2006. We dated via the web and phone for a couple of months before meeting in person. Then, we did the long distance, back and forth thing from June to December, when he proposed. That brings us to today, ten months later.

The Decision
After a ten month engagement and too many trips back and forth from Los Angeles to Ottawa, TikkunGer and I decided we didn't want to live apart any longer...and so...we decided to tie the knot!

The Process & Ceremony
Once we decided, it was pretty simple. First we went over to the courthouse in Las Vegas. We filled out our forms, waited in a short line, and voila! We had our marriage license. We were both happy and excited. I believe we were both quite calm and at ease because we both have been very clear about us and where we are in our relationship.

Next we walked over to a small chapel-like building where the actual wedding ceremony took place. We filled out some more forms, paid the small fee, and waited for Joe to arrive. Who's Joe? Joe is the gentleman who married us. Joe goes from chapel to chapel marrying folks in Las Vegas. He was a funny guy who was quite kind really. He asked us if we wanted a quick or fuller ceremony. He also asked if we wanted G-d mentioned. We of course opted for G-d minus the Jesus part; which he was happy to oblige to.

And so, my dad and step-mom and TG's mom and step-dad were our audience. They sat there, teary eyed, while TG and I committed ourselves to one another for the remainder of our lives. We were both emotional and really, even though it was a quaint ceremony in Vegas, it was beautiful and romantic because it was about us sharing our lives together. Of course we envisioned our wedding a little different, however, this is not the end...We will have a traditional Jewish wedding within the coming year. At that wedding, we will have friends, family, a rabbi, and the wedding itself will be according to Jewish law and tradition.

We are both very happy with our decision to do things as we have. If I could change one thing about the day we got married, it would be to have my mom and my brother who passed away to be alive to know that we are happy and married. However, life goes on and this is not how it was meant to be. We don't feel like we are missing anything as far as the marriage experience and most importantly, we're simply happy to be together and that we have each other.

Photos of the ceremony will be posted in the next few days.

The Week Before...
TG's mom and step-dad were visiting from Quebec in order to meet my parents and simply to visit. We wanted our parents to get the chance to meet before next year, our intended wedding. We spent the week doing a lot of touring and running around. As part of their visit, we had planned on going to Las Vegas for a few days. And so, that's when we decided to get married and make this officially official.

One evening was spent introducing our parents. TG and I knew our parents would like each other. TG's parents were only in town for a couple of days but we still managed to hit Hollywood Blvd. and the Ripley's Museum (skip it if you visit). We did a nice day at Universal Studios. We all really enjoyed the park and TG and I got a year pass. So if anyone ever wants to go...we're in! :) We also spent time simply driving around so they could get a sense of Los Angeles.

After a few days, all six of us headed up to Las Vegas. Since my dad has a retirement home there, we thought it would be fun to visit with TG's parents. That is when TG and I decided that a ten month engagement was plenty long. There was no question we wanted to spend our lives together, so we decided to wait no more. My dad and step-mom and TG's mom and step-dad were there to witness our commitment to one another.

We had a good week spending time with our families. We rode the brutal roller coaster at the NewYork NY Hotel and for our post wedding fun, TG and I spent a few hours at the Star Trek Experience. (something he's wanted to do for a very long time) Yes, that is geeky, but it was fun. On our drive back to Los Angeles we stopped at Calico Ghost Town for some western-style fun.

Although this week was wonderful, we're looking forward to what we call our "real" wedding; our Jewish wedding which will happen within the next year.

Enjoy the few photos on my Flickr account. I'll add some more of the actual ceremony later on.

....and so, those of you wondering where we've been and what we've been up to...now you know :)

Back

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 02 Oct 2007 16:49:00 +0000

Greetings,

We've been out of town. But we're back now. A post with photos will be along soon.

Stalking...It Happens

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 25 Sep 2007 04:25:00 +0000

Yes, it's true. I am convinced that TikkunGer and I have a hit out on us.

We are being stalked by the J-Blogosphere.

First it was Jack. He saw us at Tashlich, and then again at shul on Yom Kippur. Did he reveal himself? No. We don't know what he looks like, but he knows us and where we can be found.

You think I'm nuts?

Today, while at the airport, who of all the J-Bloggers do we bump into? Mottel! Ok, now that is odd. TG hadn't met him in person before so here we are, at the luggage carousel, and poof...

Yes, we're being stalked. Who put the hit out on us???

***of course this is all in jest :) but we do keep running into bloggers. I even bumped into an old high school friends while at the airport today too!

Rosh Hashanah Round Up of Sorts

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 18 Sep 2007 03:50:00 +0000

Rosh Hashana was just ok. TG and I went to a dinner in our neig hborhood. The dinner was delicious but the vibe was a bit off. I had a woman sitting next to me who was less than pleasant. I seemed to have upset her when I suggested waiting to eat her challah so we could do it as a table. I think she just misunderstood me. Her reply was quite shocking, "Maybe I did it myself!". The rest of the evening everything I did the woman made a comment such as, "You're unbelievable" or "What did you say!". Sitting right next to her, and her continuing this behavior the whole evening and it spilling over to others at the table, was no fun. BUT, I was cordial, I passed food politely and I quietly wished her a better year.

The next morning we went to Rosh Hashana services which were nice but I don't think I came mentally prepared because meaning was lacking a bit for me. I did however connect to the feeling of Rosh Hashana through some cooking. Cooking can be quite cathartic. Alone, in a kitchen, keeping busy, letting the mind do it's thing. And so, I baked my very first challah ever, Cinnamon Raisin. I also baked a lukshen kugel.

The remainder of the holiday was relaxed and we had our neighbor over for a pre-Shabbat/Rosh Hashanah lunch of kugel, challah, fruit salad, broccoflower salad and good company. That was quite nice and hopefully a first of many.

Saturday after Shabbat TG and I went to the Grove for a bookstore trip and kosher hot dogs. We had a nice, and for me much needed, evening roaming about. Yes, it was quite crowded but I truly enjoyed it and bought a great book called "Grandpa's Mountain". I LOVE the book. Although it is quite easily a young adult book, I suggest everyone read it. The basic premise of the book is it is a series of letters between a grandson in New Jersey and a grandfather whom he has never met in a border town in Israel. Their correspondences are touching and amazing. They are filled with hope and healing.

Sunday we did Tashlich with VBS. The lake was quite pretty. However, we didn't know where around the lake it was so we did a lap and a quarter before we found everyone. It was a bit, or seemed anyway, disorganized. I tried to step off to the side to have some quiet serious reflective time which was good for me. After TG and I got home we read Jack's Shack and discovered we had been found out. :) We're still waiting to do coffee with Jack at this point.

I'm really glad Yom Kippur falls on Shabbat so we don't have an extra long holiday again. After Yom Kippur, on Monday, TG's mom will be here for a visit and so we can introduce our parents to each other for the first time. Both TG's mom and step dad, and my dad and step mom are looking forward to meeting. Earlier in the year his mom made my step mom a beautiful quilt which she regularly uses. They have also exchanged a couple of nice emails so I'm sure all will go pleasant. Both TG and I are looking forward to the week they are here.

May your week be full of forgiveness and I do wish everyone a meaningful and solemn Yom Kippur.

Communication and Atoning...

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 11 Sep 2007 22:07:00 +0000

The high holidays are here and, although I haven't been doing a lot of blogging or discussing of things, I've been doing a fair amount of self reflecting. I think much of my self reflecting occurs throughout the year; however, during this pre-holiday season, it seems that so much comes more into focus and clarity.

For me, self reflection comes in different forms and at random times. Sometimes the thoughts just sneak up on me, hitting me over the head like a hammer, carrying with the blow a message of "what are you doing!". Usually these happen after-the-fact which isn't always great. One thing I need to work at in the coming year is communication,and simply being aware - always - of what I say before it comes out. I don't always just blurt out the "wrong" there; however, there are definitely times when I realize, a split second too late ,that how I communicated was not effective or that how I communicated came across in a way that I did not want to be perceived. I can remember many times in my life where I've felt misunderstood and I'm positive that much of these experiences had to do with miscommunication on my part.

During this time of the year I find myself simply more aware of what or how I am doing or relating to others. Even though it may be subconciously, I find myself in tune with myself or at least more aware of what I'm doing. Perhaps it's simply the time of year, knowing that the "official" day of atoning is near and that I had better get a head start.

Judaism is great at building in to rituals the time for preparation and reconciliation BEFORE that very important day.

Being in a relationship and spending a lot of time together really helps put into clear focus many of the things I want to work on for myself, communication being key here. TG and I get along quite well and considering we went from living 3000 miles away to living together, we are doing teriffic. I am happy with us and our life although I know it can be better as we both learn about ourselves and each other; and as we grow from year to year as a couple. For me, a part of growing is working on communicating and working on not taking any aspect of "us" for granted. I think I'm seeing in myself that when I get so comfortable with the day to day life together, it's easy for me to take for granted the need for effective communication and the need to be clear in all things.

I guess this post was a quick way for me to put out there some goals for the upcoming year: improving communcation and appreciating all things in my life and relationship; working always to not take things for granted. Of course I have tons of other small goals I want to work on and accomplish: reading "Everyday Holiness", "The Giver", "A Night to Remember", amongst oh so many Jewish books that we have in our library. I hope to become a more organized and effective teacher. I hope to work at improving family connections. I hope to grow closer to my fiance's family and I hope to help TG feel closer to mine. I have so many things I hope to accomplish in the year. Many known, even more unknown. I don't want to set "resolutions" because a resolution has a sense of completeness and I feel that at the new year, goals that are ongoing are more realistic for me. With the exception of completing books, my desires for the year are to keep growing, keep changing, and keep embracing myself and my life.

Shana Tova to all. May this time of the year bring you reflection, reconciliations, and all things productive.

Tamara Eden

p.s. I also hope to make a sweet challah for the first time this year...tomorrow I think!

My Walls are HOT too!

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Mon, 03 Sep 2007 01:54:00 +0000

I love my apartment. I love old buildings. They have character. It's hard to find a good sized place with crown moldings, hardwood floors, a bay window, a walk in closet, linen closet, bathroom storage, a wide kitchen, a large bedroom, a jacket closet by the door. Yeah...it's a reasonable size for under $1000 a month. Everything works and for the most part it's in great shape. There is however one huge problem...

I N S U L A T I O N

Right now, the digital thermometer in my living room reads 98.2 !!! I kid you not. I believe the high temperature in my neighborhood was 102...and we had it easy compared to Woodland Hills which got it at about 106 today. This is absurd. It should be illegal for an apartment to get this hot. Thank G-d my bedroom has a window A/C unit. However, being so hot outside, the room is about 80+ degrees with the AC! Argh...TikkunGer and I are sweating it out and managing and I think I can speak for us both when I say we are ready for cooler weather.

Bring it on...PLEEEEEEEASE.

Yes, This Really is a New Blog Post...

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 02:01:00 +0000

Disclaimer:

I seem to be in a blogging slump. Truly, I do have time to do quick posts regularly. Perhaps part of it is that my life, although good and busy, doesn't seem all that exciting to blog about once I sit down to blog. I do have those fleeting moments where something occurs and I think to myself, "Oh, bloggable moment!". However, those thoughts fleet so fast that I don't seem to remember them later on.

Tamara & TG: 1 Year, 2 Months, and 20 Days Later...

Before

A Few Days in Washington:

Last Wednesday TG and I flew up to Washington State to visit my mom's boyfriend and to pick up some of my mom's personal and family items. For those of you who might be new (however my numbers are so down I doubt many of you are new) my mom passed away last October and we hadn't been back to get some of her things. Besides us, one of my brothers and his two children drove to her house so that my brother could bring some larger items back to Southern California.

Because it was a better deal to fly in on Wednesday, TG and I had a couple of days to semi-relax. On Thursday we drove 20 minutes to a ferry that would take us on a one hour trip to Seattle. We both really enjoyed the boat ride and walking around Pike's Place Market and perusing funky shops, stands, and Elliot Bay Books. Seattle is quite an interesting eclectic place. A definite 'must see' at some point if you haven't already.

On Friday we took a long drive to Port Townsend but didn't stay too long. The scenery was lovely and we had a picnic lunch with a view of the water which was lovely.

For Shabbat we went to the local Chabad, which was a 40 minute drive away, my mom lived quite rural. Normally we don't drive on Shabbos, however we made an exception because I wanted to say hello to the rabbi who took time on a couple of occasions to sit with my mom towards the end and to say some prayers with her. We enjoyed the Shabbat meal fully.

My brother finally arrived late Friday night and Saturday was spent hanging out and packing up a few of the things I would be taking home with me. This of course was difficult and a relief at the same time that this portion of mourning had some closure.

Sunday morning I booked a flight for 6:15 am! I must have been on crack when I did that. TG and I had to wake at 2:30 am so we could drive back to Seattle, drop the rental off, and make our flight. Needless to say that Sunday afternoon we both took extended naps.

Today is Monday and I was back at work to finish up the final week before I go off track. Being in a year round school means I have funny months off. While most teachers and students are preparing to return to school, I'm counting the days (7) before my two months off.

Overall work is going well. This year has it's challenges (leading an SLC, organizing "stuff", going to 2 - 4 meetings a week, and simply dealing with quite immature 9th graders). My work goals this week are to beat into the brains of my students that they need to pull it together, get some work done, so they can move forward in school. I seem to have many students who are performing low and simply lazy. Another goal this week is to put together a sort of update newsletter for the students in the Design and Tech Academy. I'll type a blurb about what are goals are and the teachers in our group (some anyway) are writing short blurbs about what their classes have been up to and what to look forward to when we all return. Hopefully the kids and the parents appreciate it!

P.S. Although my blogging has lagged, my blog reading has not. So, know I still keep up with you all and hey, say hello so I know you're around too!

Jewish for Two

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 02:01:00 +0000

Today TikkunGer did a great post with a "Jewish for Two" update about him and I and all we've been up to. It's great to read things from his perspective. I appreciate it immensely.

Jack, you better read this :)

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Fri, 27 Jul 2007 19:40:00 +0000

update:

Jack DOES read TamaraEden. Since I'm not a stat-checker on a regular basis I didn't see :) Oh, and my only comment about Crocs is that there is one spot on one foot that rubs funny. However, that is most likely my funny feet and not the Crocs. So buy them, take a pic of your feet, and enjoy :)

I guess Jack from Jack's Shack hasn't been reading my blog. He just posted this:

Crocs

By Jack's Shack on Shoes
I think that I am going to give in and get a pair of Crocs for myself. I keep hearing/reading stories about how comfortable they are and that has my attention.
Fads don't interest me and I don't care much about style, but comfort is of major interest. And comfort seems to be the one thing that is always associated with these shoes.
Do any of you own Crocs, and if so, what do you think about them?

Birthday Wishes

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Wed, 25 Jul 2007 12:55:00 +0000

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

TikkunGer

My Achey Breaky...LEGS

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 00:54:00 +0000

Yesterday and today TikkunGer and I were out booting around Los Angeles, getting some serious leg and lung exercise, and snapping a few photos.

On Sunday we met up with Nexus and Mosaic, two Jewish social groups, for a hike through the Temescal Canyon Loop. The hike was listed as easy to moderate on the site where the hike was posted; however, if you ask me, it was more on the difficult side for the average person who is not a self-proclaimed hiker. The elevation, starting from the first step onto the trail, is 1000 feet!

After about 30 or 45 minutes STRAIGHT up a mountain, I had to turn back. The beginning of the hike ascends the mountain quite vertically. Although there is a switchback trail, it was so steep that asthma, dizziness, and heat exhaustion kicked in quickly. I truly pushed myself but decided it was time to go back so I told TikkunGer to go on with the group of about 20 other Jews while I returned down the mountain. When I got down my heart rate was back to normal so rather than stopping, I went the back way, about another mile, and met up with the group as they came down the other side. My guess is I made it more than halfway up, and then returned. I probabally did a serious 3 mile hike. TikkunGer finished the whole thing! Afterwards we all had a kosher picnic. All in all a nice day out.

Today we did on of the walks in the Walking L.A. book; Lower Beachwood Canyon. This was a great walk through the Hollywood Foothills. These streets are filled with many oddities such as the Krotona Society of Old Hollywood and the Vendata Society of Southern California. Additionally there are great windy streets through charming neighborhoods. If anyone finds the book and does the walk, I would suggest it is a little more challenging than the book says. It's totally doable just know there are a few very steep streets to climb. Bring water. Bring comfy shoes. And do stop at the Vendata Society. There is a bathroom there, air conditioning (today was quite hot so we loved that). Also, they have a nice little Jewish books section in their gift shop.

All in all a great, but tiresome, two days. Tomorrow and the next day my body will be feeling it. Speaking of the next two days...HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY BABE! TG's birthday is Wednesday :)

CrocTalk - I'm on the Bandwagon, albeit late.

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Fri, 20 Jul 2007 20:07:00 +0000

Ok, I'm officially hip. I just purchased my first pair of Crocs. I opted for the brown, a tad more feminine, and a more tame color; comfy nevertheless.

I also am thinking that I really really would like the ballet slipper styled Crocs, in basic black.

Now, if you think I'm odd, just look at my fellow bloggers and their Croc posts :). These are but a few.

Charming But Single posts about what she calls her obnoxious pink foamy shoes.

Citizen of the Month posts about Sophia's Crocs, a whole year ago! I wonder if she still wears them or if she has them in a whole new array of colors.

Pearlies of Wisdom also posted about her Crocs. She blames the kids for the trend...suuuuure ;)

Dooce, the infamous one, also was on the Croc bandwagon some time back.

Samuel J. Scott, whose blog I just found by doing a search on Jrants, also talks Croctalk

Leah J. in Chicago brought her Crocs on a tour of Israel.

Sarah's View just made me smile as I discovered she has the flat ballet ones!

Funny...Errr...Sunny Toes

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Thu, 19 Jul 2007 03:13:00 +0000

Today was a field trip day for the students in the Design and Tech Academy. We walked down to a local park where we played some team building/cooperative games, hung out, had a few water fights, and overall a good time.

Us teachers were hot. I think we were tired. It's a lot of responsibility to manage 70 kids in a huge city park. I could tell you lots more about the day. Like about the kids who bugged me, the ones who don't listen, or about the girl who stepped in two mud puddles and then FELL, in a major way, into a puddle, in front of us. But really, the oddest part of the day wasn't even the lockdown that occurred at our school while we were having fun in the park...the oddest part is this:

Yes, it was sunny and boy do I tan fast! Now I have funny feet.

"Walking L.A."

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 04:43:00 +0000

Tikkunger and I went for a quick walk to the post office today and decided to peruse our local independent bookstore while we were out. We found a cool little book entitled Walking L.A., by Erin Mahoney. According to the introduction, the book's purpose is to "prove that walking in L.A. can be an immensely rewarding experience, opening your eyes to hidden pockets of the city that you never knew existed."

The book is a nice size and is filled with 32 self-guided walks of different nooks and crannies of Los Angeles. There are clear and easy to read maps, detailed walking instructions followed by a summary of each route. Also included in the book are listings of places of interest in each of the locations. I'm quite impressed with the quality and am looking forward to getting out, seeing new things, and burning some calories while I'm at it.

Confession: I’ve been very bad.

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Fri, 06 Jul 2007 04:26:00 +0000

I've been a very bad girl. Prison was rough on me and getting computer time to blog was nearly impossible. My cell mate wasn't so bad, minus her non-desire to use antiperspirant. I mean everyone in prison is innocent anyway so she couldn't have been that bad, right? And the food? Matzah ball soup nightly. . . cough cough.

Ok, I'm fibbing. I haven't been in prison. I've just been in 'life'. Sometimes I go weeks with boredom and nothingness; and then there are the other times. TikkunGer has been here for nearly a month now. Between sharing a home and building a mutual space together and my work, well, I've been a non-blogger. Honestly, I don't like that. I like blogging. I think it's important to my mental health, my Jewish connectedness in many ways, and even is a tool in my professional goals. And with that, I have decided I must force myself to blog more.

Why must I force myself? I teach, therefore I blog…oh wait, that isn't the quote. I teach and I want to begin using the web and blogging as a tool in the classroom. A lot has gone on at work over the last two months. I should probably do an entire post on that alone but I'll give a brief mention to what's going on. First, being at a year round school makes June/July quite stressful. The track that I'm on finishes the school year on a Friday and then begins the NEW one the following Monday. Needless to say I feel beat and tired. I just finished dealing with students trying to finish the year and begging me to pass them even when they knew it wouldn't happen; and moved on to teaching 4 new 9^th grade classes this week. It's hard remembering new kids so soon. On top of regular goings on at work, I also stepped up to the plate and took on a position as a lead teacher to a new Small Learning Community (SLC) at my school. We are the Design and Technology Academy (DATA), which at this point sounds much more fantastic than it is. Anyway, I promise (this is for Nani) that I will do a post on what SLCs are, what my new role is, and what we're doing…and I will do it soon. For now though, you'll have to settle for a brief list of other things I've been up to:

TG and I are working on getting healthy which includes eating much better and doing a lot of walking. I live in a hilly area with beautiful streets covered in trees to walk around. He's doing much more walking than me at this point. It's a bit different for us because he's home in the morning and can take a nice walk to start the day whereas I'm out of the house at 6:30 am. Granted it's not exercise, I am on my feet all day, moving around, walking across campus…that must count for some calories J .

Two Shabbats we've taken a 45 minute walk to a friend's home for Shabbos lunch. It's a great walk though with this 90 degree weather it makes me quite grumpy. I get over it fast though J. One Saturday we went to shul and this week we are making Shabbot dinner for us and a friend. Oh yeah, we also spent one great Shabbat at a really kind couple's home who are our age and reasonably close. All in all, it's been nice to, on Fridays, have down time that doesn't include anything ultra stressful. Saturdays most assuredly have been different and that's the nice thing about it.

It's 9:11, I'm soooo tired, and well, I'm rambling so it's time to brush and sleep. I will begin to blog more if I can help it so I hope my readers come back to visit soon. Thanks for reading!

Test Post

noreply@blogger.com (Tamara) — Sun, 01 Jul 2007 17:47:00 +0000

Testing posting with the new MS Office.