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		<title>Where did EFT come from?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 21:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we stumble across the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) for the first time it seems to explode into our world and we apply it with gusto to every issue we have and evangalistically promote it to eveyone we know. Yet it can be easy to dismiss EFT as just another new age fad that has come and will go. Yet the origins of EFT date back to the early 1970s giving it a strong foundation of neary 40 years!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we stumble across the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) for the first time it seems to explode into our world and we apply it with gusto to every issue we have and evangelistically promote it to everyone we know. Yet it can be easy to dismiss EFT as just another new age fad that has come and will go. Yet the origins of EFT date back to the early 1970s giving it a strong foundation of nearly 40 years!</p>
<p>Dr. Patricia Carrington recently outlined the foundations of EFT in her <a href="http://www.masteringeft.com/MeridianTappingTimes/May-18-09/NewletterContent051809.htm" class="liexternal">Meridian Tapping Times</a> newsletter:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The history of meridian tapping began with Dr. George Goodheart, a leading chiropractor who found he could use acupuncture points beneficially for physical conditions by just &#8220;tapping&#8221; on them (no needles were needed!)</p>
<p>An Australian psychiatrist, John Diamond, M.D., then took this discovery a step further.  He began using verbal affirmations as the patient was stimulating the acupuncture points. This was a major step forward as it introduced a psychological tool into the process.  But still the treatment method lacked a cohesive &#8220;engine&#8221; to drive it forward with real effectiveness. That engine was supplied by Dr. Roger Callahan, an American psychologist specializing in anxiety disorders.</p>
<p>Dr. Callahan&#8217;s contribution was immense and has been well documented. Through his interest in acupuncture and his awareness of the use of the value of tapping on acupoints, he made a key discovery upon which all later meridian tapping methods are based. Callahan found that if a person is focusing on a specific fear at the time they tap, that fear can be removed, often permanently. He developed his discovery into a complete system and concluded that there was a correct tapping sequence for every emotional issue, and that this could be determined for each individual through the use of muscle testing. He called these tapping sequences &#8220;algorithms&#8221; and his treatment later became known as Thought Field Therapy, or TFT.</p>
<p>Dr. Callahan&#8217;s work, although brilliant and groundbreaking, was however quite complex and difficult to master because different algorithms were required for each one of the numerous disorders studied.</p>
<p>The next step was the creation of simplified versions of Callahan&#8217;s technique. These were known as &#8220;single algorithm techniques&#8221; (i.e. they did not require diagnosis or muscle testing). My own early method, Acutap, was one of the very first single algorithm methods, predating EFT by about seven years and there may have been others who devised similar adaptations of Callahan&#8217;s method.</p>
<p>Then, in the 1990&#8217;s, quite independently arrived at and without his knowledge of any former single-algorithm method, one of Roger Callahan&#8217;s star pupils, Gary Craig, unveiled a major development of the meridian tapping techniques which he called Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT). Today his single algorithm method, EFT, leads the world in the development and teaching of the meridian tapping approach to healing.</p>
<p>It is interesting to note that the meridian tapping techniques are now moving beyond EFT as highly skilled experts create tapping approaches that are beginning to differ from Official EFT in many respects. This is an exciting development that promises to grow in a spirit of friendly cooperation between all these methods, as they become better known throughout the world.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>So EFT has evolved by standing on the shoulders of giants &#8211; and, continues to evolve. Gary Craig always says that, &#8220;we are on the ground floor of the healing high rise&#8221; so it&#8217;s an exciting time to be involved in the field.</p>
<p>What about you? Even if you&#8217;re not a practitioner, have you come up with some new approaches, new shortcuts, or new ways of using EFT on yourself? Let me know in the comments.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
<ul class="similar-posts">
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/how-does-eft-work/" rel="bookmark" title="20 July, 2008" class="liinternal">How does EFT work?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/freedom-at-your-fingertips/" rel="bookmark" title="28 February, 2008" class="liinternal">Freedom at Your Fingertips &#8211; Book</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/explain-eft-to-family-and-friends/" rel="bookmark" title="16 August, 2006" class="liinternal">Explaining EFT to Family and Friends</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/attracting-abundance-with-eft/" rel="bookmark" title="28 May, 2008" class="liinternal">Attracting Abundance with EFT &#8211; eBook</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/the-eft-discovery-statement-and-positive-emotions/" rel="bookmark" title="17 September, 2008" class="liinternal">The EFT Discovery Statement and Positive Emotions</a></li>
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		<title>What works for you? Pay attention.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 21:47:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We often ask "what's wrong with me?" yet a more useful question is "what works for me?" Is there an area of your life that would benefit from more focused attention? It can be difficult to notice what works in our busy-day lives and you can use the Emotional Freedom Technique EFT to help.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most popular articles I have written is &#8220;<a href="http://www.tap4health.com/whats-wrong-with-you/" class="liinternal">What&#8217;s wrong with you?</a>&#8221; While many of us have asked that question of ourselves and have been asked it by others, how many of us focus on what works for us?</p>
<p><img src="http://www.tap4health.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/man-listening-150x100.jpg" alt="man paying attention" title="man paying attention" width="150" height="100" class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1431" />What works for you is a solutions-focused question that moves you into a different way of thinking. It helps you focus on and notice what your own unique solutions are. Your own unique solutions may not be the same as everyone else&#8217;s and they may not be same as touted by such-and-such an expert. Figuring out what works for you requires you to become an expert on your own life. And this requires paying attention.</p>
<p>For example, there are thousands of diets out there each claiming that they will produce miraculous results. Yet most of these diets work well for a percentage of people but not everyone. That&#8217;s because we each have a <a href="http://www.tap4health.com/the-metabolic-typing-diet/" class="liinternal">unique metabolic type</a> that determines the balance of carbohydrates and proteins that we need to eat, how fast our bodies metabolise sugar, and how often we need to eat. You metabolic type also determines the type of exercise and what time of day to exercise will work best for you. </p>
<p>If you pay attention to how you feel 1 hour after a meal (e.g. are you alert or unfocused, are you hungry again or not, are you emotionally stable or experiencing mood swings) and you experiment with different combinations of foods, size of portions, time between feeds, then over time you can figure out the way to eat and what to eat that best suits you. </p>
<p>This does require attention and careful observation which sometimes seems too much trouble so we search for a quick answer from the latest magazine diet, book, TV expert, or Google.</p>
<p>But this post is not just about your diet.</p>
<p>What about what works for you in terms of being creative or getting your best work done? Are you most creative in the mornings or the evenings? Again this requires attention and experimentation. I know from experience that I&#8217;m much better at writing things in the morning, like I&#8217;m doing right now, than later in the afternoon or at night. After lunch, I know that I&#8217;m better at tasks that don&#8217;t require creativity or focus and concentration. Are there some times of day which suit you better for writing and others that suit you for making phone calls?</p>
<p>What about relationships? You know there are ways to broach subjects with those you care about that can lead to useful discussions and there are ways to pick a fight. Become conscious of what happens when you say things in a certain way, with a certain tone of voice, using certain words. Is this being manipulative? That depends on the intention with which you enter into the conversation. If you intention is to &#8216;get your own way&#8217; then yes it is manipulative (think children) but if you intention is to enjoy the relationship in the best way possible then it is more about love.</p>
<h2>What stops us from paying attention?</h2>
<p>Western lifestyles, in general, are full of noise and distractions. From the moment we wake up in the morning to the time we close our eyes at night we are immersed in a sea of noise and distraction. The radio wakes us up, the TV is on in the background, the kids are screaming the back yard, the radio is on the car going to work, there are phones calls and emails to answer, meals to cook, errands and shopping to be done, etc (feel exhausted, yet? Sorry.) Tibetan Buddhism actual calls this &#8220;Western busyness&#8221;.</p>
<p>So how can we use EFT to help increase our ability to pay attention within the noisiness of everyday life?</p>
<p>Identify an area of your life that you want to focus and pay attention to. Maybe it&#8217;s your eating habits, your creativity, or your relationship with someone. Most likely it is something that is weaved throughout your day.</p>
<p>When you have identified a specific area, use this <a href="/eft-tapping-points/" title="EFT Tapping Points Guide" class="liinternal">EFT tapping guide</a> and tap along as follows:</p>
<table>
<tr>
<td>Karate Chop<br />Point:</td>
<td><em>Even though life is so busy and noisy and I find it hard to notice what is important to me, I deeply and completely accept myself.<br />Even though I&#8217;m supposed to believe what all the experts say on TV, in magazines, on the internet, I want to pay attention and notice what works for me. Even though I&#8217;m not sure I can trust my own wisdom, I&#8217;m choosing to tune in on this specific area of my life and notice what works for me.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Top of Head:</td>
<td><em>Too busy and noisy to notice what matters to me.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Eyebrows:</td>
<td><em>Too rushed to pay attention.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Side of Eyes:</td>
<td><em>I don&#8217;t want to have to think about yet another thing to get right.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Under Eyes</td>
<td><em>It&#8217;s so much easier to abdicate to the so-called experts out there.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Under Nose:</td>
<td><em>I&#8217;m not as smart as those experts. They all know more than I do.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Chin Point:</td>
<td><em>So much noise and distraction that I would need to block out to notice what works.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Collarbones:</td>
<td><em>What if I try something and things get worse rather than better.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Under Arms:</td>
<td><em>I&#8217;m not sure I can take that risk.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Wrists:</td>
<td><em>I&#8217;m not sure I can notice what works for me. </em></td>
</tr>
</table>
<p>Continue for another round.</p>
<table>
<tr>
<td>Top of Head:</td>
<td><em>Too busy, too noisy, too tired to pay attention.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Eyebrows:</td>
<td><em>Asking my brain to pay attention for me.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Side of Eyes:</td>
<td><em>Are there some days that work better than others?</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Under Eyes</td>
<td><em>This area of my life is important to me and I&#8217;m becoming even more of an expert on me</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Under Nose:</td>
<td><em>Giving myself permission to experiment and try different things. Making mistakes and developing wisdom.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Chin Point:</td>
<td><em>Some days I&#8217;m just on autopilot and forget to remember to notice what&#8217;s working for me.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Collarbones:</td>
<td><em>I&#8217;ll notice again today. Noticing when I feel better. Noticing when things work better.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Under Arms:</td>
<td><em>I want to pay even more attention to this area of my life.</em></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Wrists:</td>
<td><em>As I pay attention and notice more of what works, I&#8217;m feeling even more grateful, accepting, and compassionate towards myself.</em></td>
</tr>
</table>
<p>After tapping the above sequence, you may have come up with your own ideas that will help you notice what works. It could be things like keeping a diary, making notes in your mobile phone or sending yourself emails. Let me know how paying attention has helped you in the comments.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
<ul class="similar-posts">
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/are-you-an-expert-on-your-problem/" rel="bookmark" title="20 November, 2008" class="liinternal">Are you an expert on your problem or your solution?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/the-solutions-focus-making-coaching-and-change-simple/" rel="bookmark" title="27 August, 2007" class="liinternal">The Solutions Focus: Making Coaching and Change Simple</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/how-would-you-know-things-were-getting-better/" rel="bookmark" title="4 March, 2008" class="liinternal">How would you know things were getting better?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/take-a-solution-focused-approach-to-your-goals/" rel="bookmark" title="22 October, 2008" class="liinternal">Take a Solutions-Focused Approach to Your Goals &#8211; MP3 Audio</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/disposable-income-a-different-aspect-of-money/" rel="bookmark" title="8 September, 2008" class="liinternal">Disposable Income: A different aspect of money</a></li>
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		<title>EFT World Summit back online and 8 more days to go</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 11:44:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The EFT World Summit was overwhelmed by the shear volume of people connecting to the servers, 40,000+, and has now fixed things over 4 servers to access the content. There are 8 more days to go and the 1st days content will remain available for the whole 9 days.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For all those who experience problems with accessing the EFT World Summit on opening day, here is the latest and greatest news from organiser Nick Ortner:</p>
<blockquote><p>Thank you for your patience earlier tonight as we experienced a MASSIVE overload on our servers.  Many of you couldn&#8217;t access the first night&#8217;s programs and we&#8217;re going to make it up to you.</p>
<p>Even after careful preparation for the EFT World Summit, we couldn&#8217;t have anticipated the overwhelm that our servers experienced when 40,000 people visited our web site for the event, all at the same time&#8230;</p>
<p>We learned something very important today.  In fact, it was best put by one of you who registered when he said:</p>
<p>&#8220;Let this be a lesson to you&#8230; <strong>Prepare for Overwhelming Success!</strong>&#8221;</p>
<p>After several hours of work and several thousand emails&#8230;we believe we have solved the overload challenge and now are ready for you once again.</p>
<p>Please accept our apologies for any inconvenience or disappointment this may have caused you.  We know many thousands of people were anticipating &#8220;opening day.&#8221;</p>
<p>We have very GOOD NEWS for you, though&#8230;</p>
<p>Because Day 1 is so vitally important to create the foundation for your EFT experience during the EFT World Summit, we are going to make it available to each and every one of you, throughout the entire event, not just for 24 hours!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all available right now at the main events page(s) that you can reach by visiting:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.EFTWorldSummit2.com/event" class="liexternal">http://www.EFTWorldSummit2.com/event</a>  -OR-<br />
<a href="http://www.EFTWorldSummit.com/event" class="liexternal">http://www.EFTWorldSummit.com/event</a>   -OR-<br />
<a href="http://eft2.machusweb.com/event" class="liexternal">http://eft2.machusweb.com/event</a>  -OR-<br />
<a href="http://eft3.machusweb.com/event/" class="liexternal">http://eft3.machusweb.com/event/</a></p>
<p>That&#8217;s right, not just one but FOUR different server options for access to the event&#8230;not just today but for the entire event.</p>
<p>If you find that one server is busy or running slowly, just use another link and it should solve it for you.  And if we need to add on more to better serve everyone, we will do it&#8230;this is an important and historic event and we want you to experience every moment of it. Already, many people have shared breakthroughs in their lives, just from the first sessions.</p>
<p>After the new programs come online for Day 2,at 8 PM Eastern Daylight Time in the U.S. tomorrow&#8230;you will then be able to access both Day 1 presentations for the duration of the EFT World Summit by visiting any one of the following four locations:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.eftworldsummit.com/event/day1/index.php" class="liexternal">http://www.eftworldsummit.com/event/day1/index.php</a><br />
<a href="http://www.eftworldsummit2.com/event/day1/index.php" class="liexternal">http://www.eftworldsummit2.com/event/day1/index.php</a><br />
<a href="http://eft2.machusweb.com/event/day1/index.php" class="liexternal">http://eft2.machusweb.com/event/day1/index.php</a><br />
<a href="http://eft3.machusweb.com/event/day1/index.php" class="liexternal">http://eft3.machusweb.com/event/day1/index.php</a></p>
<p>Again, if one link is running slow or isn&#8217;t working right for you, please use another link.  The instructions inside the rooms have also been improved to eliminate any confusion.</p>
<p>There will be extra special bonuses for everyone for your patience and understanding during our brief technology challenge&#8230;stay tuned.</p>
<p>So, in closing&#8230;again, we want to apologize for the inconvenience, thank you for all the wonderful and supportive emails and encourage you to continue with us for the duration of this exciting event&#8230;</p>
<p>With love, peace and prosperity to all,</p>
<p>Nick, Jessica, Jeff<br />
and the entire crew at EFT World Summit</p>
<p>P.S. &#8211; Thank you to Jim &#038; Joyce Walker for helping us to create a fast solution to this problem&#8230;talk about Law of Attraction! We appreciate you very much!</p></blockquote>
<p>I hope you enjoy the rest of the summit.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
<ul class="similar-posts">
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/eft-world-summit-9-day-virtual-event-with-16-world-eft-experts/" rel="bookmark" title="3 April, 2009" class="liinternal">EFT World Summit: 16 World EFT Experts, 9 Day Virtual Event</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/invitation-to-world-eft-tapfest-for-bushfire-victims-and-volunteer-staff/" rel="bookmark" title="10 March, 2009" class="liinternal">Invitation to World EFT Tapfest for Bushfire Victims and Volunteer Staff</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/how-many-sessions-will-i-need/" rel="bookmark" title="16 September, 2008" class="liinternal">How many sessions will I need?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/eft-and-energy-psychology-research/" rel="bookmark" title="12 January, 2008" class="liinternal">EFT and Energy Psychology Research</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/always-running-late-eft/" rel="bookmark" title="17 November, 2007" class="liinternal">Using EFT for when You&#8217;re Always Running Late</a></li>
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		<title>EFT World Summit: 16 World EFT Experts, 9 Day Virtual Event</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:48:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The EFT World Summit is a free virtual event bringing together 16 of the World's EFT expert's online for 9 days. Brought to you by Dr. Joseph Mercola and the team at Try in Everything. Register now at http://www.tryitoneverything.com/cmd.php?Clk=2944835]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many of you will have seen or heard of the breakthrough EFT documentary film called <a href="http://www.tryitoneverything.com/cmd.php?af=786741" class="liexternal">Try It On Everything</a>. Well now the producer Nick Ortner and others have created a world first FREE worldwide online event called the <a href="http://www.tryitoneverything.com/cmd.php?Clk=2944835" style="font-weight:bold;" class="liexternal">EFT World Summit</a>.</p>
<p>This event is a first of its kinds and brings together 16 of the world&#8217;s EFT experts including Carol Look, Brad Yates, Dr. Pat Carrington, Dr. Alexander Lees, Carol Tuttle, Rick Wilkes, and Bob Doyle.  </p>
<p>And here&#8217;s the REALLY great news:  You can gain access to this event, for FREE thanks in part to the support of Dr. Joseph Mercola and his team at <a href="http://www.mercola.com" class="liexternal">Mercola.com</a>, the most visited alternative health web site on the Internet.  </p>
<p>Dr. Mercola&#8217;s website is how I discovered EFT many years ago and started me on the journey of becoming an EFT Practitioner and starting Tap4Health.</p>
<p>This event is a virtual event meaning that you won&#8217;t have to travel, or book a hotel, or sit in a meeting room&#8230; you can experience the entire event from the comfort of your own home! It <strong>kicks off the 20th of April</strong> so you have plenty of time to get organised, block out your calendar and strap yourself in for the ride.</p>
<p>All these experts will gather together their combined knowledge to <a href="http://www.tryitoneverything.com/cmd.php?Clk=2944835" class="liexternal">immerse you in the world of EFT</a>, to help you create better emotional and physical health, prosperity, clarity, energy focus and much, much more&#8230;</p>
<p>Never before has a panel like this been assembled&#8230;and it may never happen again, so I&#8217;d like to encourage you to <a href="http://www.tryitoneverything.com/cmd.php?Clk=2944835" class="liexternal">get registered right away</a>.  </p>
<p>Tell everyone you know and you can feel free to pass this information along to anyone you feel would benefit from the <a href="http://www.tryitoneverything.com/cmd.php?Clk=2944835" style="font-weight:bold;" class="liexternal">EFT World Summit</a> too.  I look forward to connecting with you during the event and sharing the EFT experience.<br />
<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/eft-world-summit-back-online-and-8-more-days-to-go/" rel="bookmark" title="21 April, 2009" class="liinternal">EFT World Summit back online and 8 more days to go</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/invitation-to-world-eft-tapfest-for-bushfire-victims-and-volunteer-staff/" rel="bookmark" title="10 March, 2009" class="liinternal">Invitation to World EFT Tapfest for Bushfire Victims and Volunteer Staff</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/attracting-abundance-with-eft/" rel="bookmark" title="28 May, 2008" class="liinternal">Attracting Abundance with EFT &#8211; eBook</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/pain-relief-with-eft/" rel="bookmark" title="28 March, 2008" class="liinternal">Pain Relief with EFT &#8211; Audio Coaching Program</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/are-you-an-expert-on-your-problem/" rel="bookmark" title="20 November, 2008" class="liinternal">Are you an expert on your problem or your solution?</a></li>
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		<title>The Original Melbourne Tapping Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2009 06:50:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Melbourne had a Tapping Man long before I started using EFT tapping to help people. Turn's out he even use to live on the same street as I did for many years.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a lot of online communities I use the moniker &#8220;the tapping man&#8221; as all one word, &#8220;thetappingman&#8221;. Recently, I searched the internet for &#8220;Melbourne Tapping Man&#8221; and came across a Melbourne icon.</p>
<div id="attachment_1365" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 186px"><img src="http://www.tap4health.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/melbourne-tappingman.gif" alt="Melbourne&#039;s Original Tapping Man" title="melbourne-tappingman" width="176" height="144" class="size-full wp-image-1365" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Melbourne's Original Tapping Man</p></div>
<p>This original Melbourne Tapping Man greeted children and shoppers from the 1930&#8217;s to the 1970&#8217;s at L.P. Alexander&#8217;s on busy Swanston Street (where I have run my practice for the last 3 years!). He disappeared for a while and was found years later very dirty and broken. Mr. J. B. Reid, then Chairman of James Hardie Industries, cared for, restored, and clothed the Tapping Man and donated him to the National Trust of Australia.</p>
<p>Now days, the Tapping Man resides in the window of Haigh&#8217;s Chocolates in the Block Arcade and continues to greet Melburnians and tourists alike.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/learning-english-or-any-second-language/" rel="bookmark" title="22 June, 2006" class="liinternal">Learning English or any Second Language</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/tappybear/" rel="bookmark" title="3 November, 2008" class="liinternal">Tappy Bear: A Teddy Bear Tapping Companion</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/antidepressants-ineffective-study-proves/" rel="bookmark" title="5 March, 2008" class="liinternal">Antidepressants Ineffective: study proves</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/how-would-you-know-things-were-getting-better/" rel="bookmark" title="4 March, 2008" class="liinternal">How would you know things were getting better?</a></li>
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		<title>Invitation to World EFT Tapfest for Bushfire Victims and Volunteer Staff</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 07:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[World event to use the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) to heal those effected by the Victorian Bushfires. Using EFT at a distance is called surrogate EFT and has been highly effective in many different situations. This world wide event will occur at 8pm on 19 March in many time zones around the world starting from Australia (much like New Years). In Australia, the event is hosted by Tap4Health Energy Therapist, Rod Sherwin.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would like to invite you to join myself, and people from 53 other  countries around the world, to use EFT for the <a href="http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=9vdl4ycab.0.0.xabooubab.0&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fefttapfest2009.ning.com%2Fevents%2Fmarch-19-8pm-global-tap-for&amp;id=preview" target="_blank" class="liexternal">healing of those effected by the  Victorian Bushfires</a>.</p>
<p>I mentioned in my last newsletter about an EFT Tap Fest to use EFT to help  those effected by the fires. The latest statistics I have seen include <em>210  dead, 2,029 properties lost, 78 towns affected, 400,000 hectares (nearly 1  million acres) burnt out, and the involvement of over 4000+ firefighters.</em> February 7 is now known in Australia as Black Saturday.</p>
<p>While the focus of the victims of the fires for the last month has been on  food and shelter, as they return to rebuild their lives, two things can happen:  they cope with the loss, grief, nightmares, trauma, and tragedy and get a little  better everyday; or the symptoms don&#8217;t improve and worsen into Post Traumatic  Stress Disorder (PTSD). The symptoms of PTSD include:</p>
<ul>
<li>Intrusive, upsetting memories of the event</li>
<li>Flashbacks (acting or feeling like the event is happening again)</li>
<li>Nightmares (either of the event or of other frightening things)</li>
<li>Feelings of intense distress when reminded of the trauma</li>
<li>Intense physical reactions to reminders of the event (e.g. pounding heart,  rapid breathing, nausea, muscle tension, sweating)</li>
<li>Avoiding activities, places, thoughts, or feelings that remind you of the  trauma</li>
<li>Inability to remember important aspects of the trauma</li>
<li>Loss of interest in activities and life in general</li>
<li>Feeling detached from others and emotionally numb</li>
<li>Sense of a limited future (you don&#8217;t expect to live a normal life span, get  married, have a career)</li>
<li>Difficulty falling or staying asleep</li>
<li>Irritability or outbursts of anger</li>
<li>Difficulty concentrating</li>
<li>Hyper vigilance (on constant &#8220;red alert&#8221;)</li>
<li>Feeling jumpy and easily startled</li>
<li>Anger and irritability</li>
<li>Guilt, shame, or self-blame</li>
<li>Substance abuse</li>
<li>Depression and hopelessness</li>
<li>Suicidal thoughts and feelings</li>
<li>Feeling alienated and alone</li>
<li>Feelings of mistrust and betrayal</li>
<li>Headaches, stomach problems, chest pain</li>
</ul>
<p>With EFT, we can help everyone effected by the fires on their journey to  healing. This includes the who have lost so much, but also those who still do  not have closure on the whereabouts of loved ones, on the emergency services  volunteers and staff who were involved in the carnage, to the those who were  overwhelmed by the blanket media coverage.</p>
<p>Using EFT for healing at a distance is known as <a href="http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=9vdl4ycab.0.0.xabooubab.0&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fsearch.emofree.com%2Fsearch%3Fq%3Dsurrogate%26btnG%3Dgo%26entqr%3D0%26output%3Dxml_no_dtd%26ud%3D1%26client%3Demofree%26oe%3DUTF-8%26ie%3DUTF-8%26proxystylesheet%3Demofree_alternate%26site%3Demofree%26getfields%3Demo-pic.emo-video.description&amp;id=preview" target="_blank" class="liexternal">surrogate EFT</a>. While mainstream  science may not be on board with this yet, every culture around the world has  some form of distance healing. Whether it&#8217;s praying for a loved one in  church, receiving a blessing by monks, or sending healing intentions, we  understand that this helps at some level. Science is starting to back up this  long accepted notation with studies to <a href="http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=9vdl4ycab.0.0.xabooubab.0&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.noetic.org%2Fresearch%2Fdh%2Fstudies.html&amp;id=preview" target="_blank" class="liexternal">prove the efficacy of distance  healing</a>.</p>
<p>We can tap together to help the healing process and we will be  participating in a world wide event with people from around the world in a  rolling series of teleconferences (kind of like New Years) <strong>kicking off  with Australia at 8pm on the 19th March and continuing on at 8pm in time zones  around the world</strong>.</p>
<p>There is no charge for the teleconference however normal call charges apply  to connect to the phone numbers below.</p>
<p>Here are the details for <strong>Australia</strong>:<br />
Date/Time: 19 March, 8pm<br />
<strong>Phone#: 03 8788 7777</strong><br />
<strong>Access code: 114 493#</strong></p>
<p>And for the <strong>East Coast of America</strong>:<br />
Date/Time: 19 March, 8pm (local EST time)<br />
<strong>Phone#: +1 608 649 1800</strong><br />
<strong>Access code: 312 677#</strong></p>
<p>Here are some <a href="http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=9vdl4ycab.0.0.xabooubab.0&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.tap4health.com%2Fseminars-events%2Fteleseminar-hints%2F&amp;id=preview" target="_blank" class="liexternal">teleseminar hints</a> to get the most  out of the call.</p>
<p>Keep on eye on the <a href="http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=9vdl4ycab.0.0.xabooubab.0&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fefttapfest2009.ning.com%2Fevents%2Fmarch-19-8pm-global-tap-for&amp;id=preview" target="_blank" class="liexternal">EFTTapFest web site </a>for more time  zones as they are added, or organise one in your time zone and I&#8217;ll publish the  details here and on the site.</p>
<p>I look forward to tapping with you on the call. You only need to call into  one of the organised teleconferences but I will be on all of them.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/using-eft-with-entities/" rel="bookmark" title="16 October, 2006" class="liinternal">Using EFT with Entities</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/calm-children-with-surrogate-eft-and-be-a-silent-angel/" rel="bookmark" title="21 November, 2005" class="liinternal">How to Calm Children with Surrogate EFT and be a Silent Angel</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/do-you-offer-eft-sessions-by-phone/" rel="bookmark" title="20 July, 2008" class="liinternal">Do you offer EFT sessions by phone or skype?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/eft-world-summit-9-day-virtual-event-with-16-world-eft-experts/" rel="bookmark" title="3 April, 2009" class="liinternal">EFT World Summit: 16 World EFT Experts, 9 Day Virtual Event</a></li>
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		<title>I want to help people but everyone says I should get a real job.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 08:44:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You want to help others but how do you pay the bills? It feels like such a conflict between doing what you love (helping others) and working in a 'real job' to pay the bills. How can you resolve this conflict so that you can help yourself and others without being a burden on society and those you love.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many of us who know and use EFT have a desire to help others. But how do we balance this calling with our responsibilities and duties as adults? Here&#8217;s an extract from an email I received from a recent newsletter subscriber:</p>
<blockquote><p>I have a really strong desire, calling if you wish, to help others and not in the &#8216;conventional&#8217; sense &#8211; and I believe this is what has drawn me to EFT as well as many other alternative modalities. I feel constantly torn between wanting to make a difference and thinking I should get a &#8216;real&#8217; job. I&#8217;m always battling against myself and my wish to move forward. I know I can make a difference I just have to convince myself I can do it! </p>
<p>I&#8217;m an unemployed, single parent &#8211; I feel very limited as to what I&#8217;m able to achieve with very limited income and feel discriminated against because of this &#8211; my choices and opportunities are thus very limited accordingly. I feel a burden on society and feel pressured by family and social security to just &#8216;get a job&#8217; &#8211; so I&#8217;m torn between my &#8216;duty&#8217; &amp; &#8216;expectations&#8217; and my soul&#8217;s desire.</p></blockquote>
<p>Here was my response, &#8220;I can very much relate to what you are going through with the conflict of wanting to help people versus getting a &#8216;real job&#8217;. Regardless of appearances, for the last 3 years that since I started Tap4Health, I have been scratching, scraping, negotiating, and sometimes failing to make ends meet each month. This has put a horrendous stress on my mind and body. If it were not for energy techniques such as EFT I would have given up long ago. Even this week, I went for an interview for a full time IT contract so that I can have some consistent income and catch up on debts that are backing up. I&#8217;m not giving up on Tap4Health! No way! I&#8217;m finding a way to support myself financially and hence mentally, emotionally, and physically while I continue to build my practice. Yes I&#8217;ll have to do even more work in the short term but I know my purpose for working.</p>
<p>What I&#8217;m saying is that being self-employed and building a business is very hard. There is a reason that 95% of business fail within the first 2 years and 98% within 5 years. And here&#8217;s something that makes it even clearer: &#8220;It&#8217;s not how good you are at something (e.g. EFT); it&#8217;s how good you are at marketing what you do that determines your success.&#8221;</p>
<p>I know this may not be what you want to hear. There is a lot of stuff out there about &#8220;Do what you love, and the money will follow.&#8221; That has not been my experience. Nor the experience of the people I know who are very successful. I know of only handful of EFTers who make a living solely from EFT. One of them worked a full time job for the first 5 years of building his practice and then part time for another 2 years before finally going full time.</p>
<p>You might also think, &#8220;Well, Rod must still have some limiting beliefs about his income or he&#8217;s not doing that law of attraction thing right.&#8221; Maybe. The landlord, banks and credit card companies don&#8217;t care about those things and won&#8217;t wait while you sort them out. They just care about whether you pay your bills or not.</p>
<p>Having a &#8216;day job&#8217; while you continue to build your EFT and business skills(!) is being a responsible adult (more on this in a minute). You can enjoy any job if you are doing it for a purpose. I don&#8217;t like the idea of doing the type of IT work I used to do but I know that I&#8217;m doing it to help me build my business even faster. By clearing debts and having the income to do more marketing means that I can build my practice even faster. Try to build the practice and live off the income at the same time is a really hard way to do it.</p>
<p>Further, on being a responsible adult who fulfils their duties and expectations, it&#8217;s worth using EFT to tap on the resistance to taking responsibility. Anything we had too much of as a child we tend to resist as an adult. If you took on or felt you had lots of responsibility as a child then you may resist being a responsible adult. Find some specific events from your childhood when you felt like you had to be responsible and tap around those events. Also, tap on the conflict you feel at getting a job versus doing your calling. Remember that you are doing your day job with a purpose to meet your needs and support yourself and your family while you build your practice. It&#8217;s great if you can get a job that will help you learn the business skills you need to be successful in your own business. Again, focus on working with a purpose.</p>
<p>The world needs people like you who have such an open heart and desire to help others. And, taking care of yourself is not being selfish! You cannot help others if you are not taking good care of yourself. We all have the capacity to give but if we ourselves are not taken care of then we have a very limited capacity to help others. The more we help ourselves the more we can help others. Would you rather write a cheque to your favourite charity for $10 or for $1,000? Only the person who has taken good care of themselves can do the later.</p>
<p>It will take hard work to move from where you are now to where you want to be. If that feels overwhelming or tiring then tap on that. Focus on making some small progress towards your dreams every day while taking care of yourself on every level and your life WILL TRANSFORM. It all takes time so take care of yourself as you continue on your journey.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m curious about your experience. How do you react to the above? Let me know your thoughts in the comments.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/how-to-take-a-break-and-enjoy-it/" rel="bookmark" title="11 July, 2007" class="liinternal">How to Take a Break and Enjoy It!</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/the-law-of-attraction-an-excuse-for-not-taking-action/" rel="bookmark" title="6 September, 2008" class="liinternal">The Law of Attraction: An excuse for not taking action?</a></li>
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<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/take-a-solution-focused-approach-to-your-goals/" rel="bookmark" title="22 October, 2008" class="liinternal">Take a Solutions-Focused Approach to Your Goals &#8211; MP3 Audio</a></li>
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		<title>Tips on Finding the Root Cause of an Emotion</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2009 23:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Find the root cause of an emotion takes skill and creativity. Guest blogger Gene Monterastelli shares a list of questions that helps in getting to the core issues underneath and emotion. The example is of a 11 year old girl developing a fear of going to school.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like to introduce a guest article by Gene Monterastelli a Baltimore based EFT Practitioner who writes the <a href="http://eftqanda.com/" title="EFT Q &#038; A with Gene Monterastelli" class="liexternal">EFT Q and A</a> website which has nearly 100 answers to frequently asked and not so frequently asked questions about EFT. </p>
<p><img src="http://www.tap4health.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/girl-magnifying-glass-200x300.jpg" alt="girl-magnifying-glass" title="girl-magnifying-glass" width="200" height="300" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1301" />Here, Gene answers the question about how to investigate why an 11 year old girl has developed a fear of going to school. The girl has previously been very happy at school, and has no reason to feel like this.  She really wants to go but feels she can&#8217;t, and doesn&#8217;t know why? Even though this example is for a young girl, the questions that Gene suggested could be applied to any of us at any age.</p>
<p>Gene answers, &#8220;Obviously, with such a little amount of information, there is no real way to answer this question.  There are a whole host of reasons that could be contributing to this fear.  It could be associated with the classroom, something on the play ground, or something with the other students.</p>
<p>What the situation does do is give us a good backdrop to talk about how we approach an emotional response when we have no idea of where the emotions are coming from.</p>
<p>There are two basic tacks that we can take.  I would recommend taking both of them at the same time.  They are to deal with the emotions in the moment and to investigate to find the root of the emotions.  By doing this we are able to help the fear in the short term and by trying to find the roots of the fear so there won&#8217;t be the same response in the future.</p>
<p><strong>The Emotion Right Now</strong><br />
One of the blessings of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) is the fact that we are able to use it right now for the emotions we are feeling in this moment.  In this case I would recommend two things.</p>
<p>First, I would recommend spending some time before going to bed tapping on the fear about going to school the next day.  If the fear is large enough it is not going to happen just as she is walking out the door for school, but more than likely is going to be present the night before.  It is good to deal with this at bedtime because this fear is going to affect her quality of sleep.</p>
<p>Second, I would recommend spending some time tapping in the morning before heading out the door to school or even on the ride to school.</p>
<p>In both cases the tapping is very simple.  I would have her explain to me how the fear feels, how her body feels, and what she is worried about.  I wouldn&#8217;t use any complicated tapping phrases.  I would have her tell me the story of what is going on in her body and her head while she is tapping.</p>
<p><strong>Investigating the Roots</strong><br />
Now that we have gotten the fear in the moment under a little more control we can start to look around for what the root cause is.  When working with a client I would use all the information about them and their history as a start.  In this case I know nothing more than she it 11 years old.  With that in mind I would start to investigate by asking questions around the common reasons an 11 year old wouldn&#8217;t want to go to school.</p>
<p>My questions would be something like this:</p>
<p><strong>1) Why does she feel like she can&#8217;t go?</strong><br />
It sounds like the questions has been asked but it is a good place to start every time.  Often people, not just kids, have a hard time admitting why they are afraid.  By asking again they might give an answer they didn&#8217;t before.</p>
<p><strong>2) What could go wrong if she does go to school?</strong><br />
When dealing with fear it is usually rooted in not wanting to experience a bad outcome.  They might be able to name the outcome they fear and not associate that with the fear itself.</p>
<p><strong>3) The feeling of not wanting to go, what does it remind her of?</strong><br />
This is a classic EFT investigation question.  When you don&#8217;t know the root, see what it reminds you of.  Lots of information can be found here.</p>
<p><strong>4) If she could change one thing about school what would it be?</strong><br />
Sometime we don&#8217;t want to say what we fear, but we are willing to say what we would like to see different.  Fear is often associated with weakness.  We don&#8217;t like share why we are fearful.  This question lets us answer without looking weak.</p>
<p><strong>5) If she could go to a new school how would the new school be different from her old school?</strong><br />
This is very much like the last questions.  By giving them a chance to say what they want, we are giving them an out of not having to say what they don&#8217;t want or fear.</p>
<p><strong>6) If she could go to school tomorrow and know one person was not going to be there, who would she want that person to be?</strong><br />
No one likes to be a tattletale.  Also for kids there might be fear of retaliation for turning a bully in.  This way they don&#8217;t have to tell on someone else and still be able to state their needs.</p>
<p><strong>7) When she is not at school, what does she think the other students say about her?</strong><br />
People, not just kids, can be ruthless.  We don&#8217;t like to be place where we are being picked on, but again we don&#8217;t like to be tattletales.  By asking the question in this fashion we are not asking her to tell on anyone.  Instead, she is pretending what they might say. This is a safe way to share what she fears.</p>
<p>Obviously this is just a start, but I think it is a good start.  It will give us more information to finding our way to the roots.</p>
<p>It is important to remember that with EFT we always have two plans of attack.  We can deal with what we are feeling right now and we can deal with the roots of the emotions.  If we can find our way in with both tacks, then we should use them.  Just because we don&#8217;t know the root, doesn&#8217;t mean we are helpless.  We can always go after what is going on right now until we get to the root of the issue.&#8221;</p>
<p>Getting to the core issues of an emotion is one of the key skills in developing the artistry of delivering EFT. <b>Stay on the lookout for an upcoming product on getting to core issues around money.</b></p>
<p>Visit Gene&#8217;s <a href="http://eftqanda.com/" title="EFT Q &#038; A with Gene Monterastelli" class="liexternal">EFT Q and A</a> website for many more examples like this one.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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		<title>Victorian Bushfires: Using EFT to begin the healing process</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rod Sherwin, Energy Therapist, offers some EFT tapping to help those effected by the devastating Victorian Bushfires.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/f8ctbO_yYtc&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/f8ctbO_yYtc&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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		<title>Have you been validated lately?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a wonderfully heart warming video to start the New Year. It tells the story of a man who goes way beyond just validating parking tickets and how his life unfolds. It has won numerous short film awards around the world. I particularly like the way that the star is always giving and giving [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a wonderfully heart warming video to start the New Year. It tells the story of a man who goes way beyond just validating parking tickets and how his life unfolds. It has won numerous short film awards around the world. I particularly like the way that the star is always giving and giving yet learns to receive as well. </p>
<p>Is there someone in your life that could use this type of validation? Maybe even yourself?</p>
<p>Please enjoy (running time 16 minutes):<br />
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