TEN (10) TRICKS TO CATCH THE MAN OF YOUR DREAM

2009-10-24T15:43:00.000-07:00

The Science Of Flirting:

Flirting is the art that any woman can master and use to her benefit. Men, no matter who they are, are easy to be trapped by a woman. It all involves knowing what to do. Below are hot tips any woman can use to catch any man of her dream.

SMILE:
A Smile is contagious. It will make you so much more noticeable and face and draws people to you. You’ll turn yourself to a men’s magnet the moment you learn to smile and smile expressively.
A lady that looks so serious minded and do not smile when people talk to her or try to share a joke with her, will always put off the men. No matter how beautiful you may be, beauty alone cannot do the magic. Like a saying goes, a smile doesn’t cost anything so you can give one so someone at any time any day. Men always believe they can rely on you when you smile. A smile gives assurance and a promise that all will be well with you.

COMPLIMENT:
Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise. The “future” will know that you really noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine. When you receive a compliment, the best response is merely, “thank you”.
It is a put-off to quarrel with a man making a pass at you no matter how crude his method may be. You’ll still earn some respect with a polite manner and then walk away rather than abuse him or quarrel with him.

EYE CONTACT:
Make eye contact with any man you fancy, it is a powerful flirting tool. But be warned don’t look at him in the eye for more that 2 to 4 seconds then, glance away. A lot of men are turned off when a woman looks veraciously at them. A quick glance and an equally guide smile is a powerful flirting combination.

LISTEN:
You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Men are draw to ladies who listen when they speak. Men are not just looking for a beautiful face to talk to take to the alter or big arse or boobs to grace their bed. More importantly, they want a woman they can depend on in all ramifications. A woman who listens and offer quick solutions to issues raised by a man often gets men attention. It is not by accident that some so called “ugly” girls get married before the beautiful and glamorous ones.

MAKE THE FIRST MOVE:
It pays a woman a lot to be a bit proactive when looking for a partner. You need to make some move for instance, move closer to the man you are targeting and say “hello”. You won’t cheapen elf that way. Rather, you will draw that person’s attention forcefully to you and make him aware of your presence.

USE PROPS:
Never leave home without a prop. Props in the area of dating are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you. Great props include dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a unique dress, an interesting book or newspaper. Anything that is likely to make a man talk to you or make enquiries is a prop. The more unique and creative your prop is, the better.

START A CONVERSATION:
Never be tongue tied. Try to start a conversation with the men. If you don’t have anything to say, ask questions. Even if you have to seek for answers to no problem. The idea is to initiate a dialogue and make available men take notice of you. Girls who are not shy to start a conversation always end up with the best of men. The tongue-tied ones often remain single or may not have the right man she deserves.

HAVE FUN:
Be a playful person. Be light hearted and don’t carry a long face that scares the men away. As part of having fun, be interested in men’s sports and visit sports bars, sports arena, gyms and all such places where you can meet men.

BE THE HOST:
Change your behavior from the role of a guest to host. You’re not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.

FLIRTING IS AN ATTITUDE:
A good flirt, whether a man or a woman must be a self-confident person. Don’t be afraid to take risk. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works. Some embarrassment may come your way but the end always justifies the means. There is nothing that does not involve risk. The risk of rejection is there one of the risk in trying to win some body. The rejection doesn’t mean you are not good or beautiful. He may have a partner or for religious reasons, he does not want to date. That could just be the reason not that you didn’t measure up to.

YOUR DRESS SENSE:
Dressing good to attract a man does not mean you should go partially nude, exposing your boobs, thighs, etc. Most decent men are turned off by that and may even rate you as a prostitute, But at the same time, don’t go about dressing like a revered sister or nun. Get trendy. Dress smartly and look beautiful and attractive to men with that you wear.