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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearch/1.1/" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" gd:etag="W/&quot;D0UMQnw_fSp7ImA9WxBVGU8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661</id><updated>2010-02-23T03:41:23.245-08:00</updated><title>The Ararat Connection</title><subtitle type="html">Mt. Ararat (17,000ft)</subtitle><link rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/" /><link rel="next" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false&amp;v=2" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>28</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/TheAraratConnection" /><feedburner:info uri="theararatconnection" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D0UMQnw-fCp7ImA9WxBVGU8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-1803298594690260976</id><published>2010-02-23T03:41:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-02-23T03:41:23.254-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2010-02-23T03:41:23.254-08:00</app:edited><title>Contrast is the Key Between a Statesman and a Politician</title><content type="html">I announced my candidacy to run for Wisconsin State Senate on 28 October, 2009. Since that time, I have had many people ask me why I would want to jump into the “lion’s den” and become a politician. I always answer that question the same way. I tell them I don’t. I don’t want to be a politician; I want to be a statesman. Generally, people know in their "heart of hearts" that a statesman stands above a politician.&amp;nbsp;Their response is that they generally start shaking their heads up and down and saying “yes.”&lt;br /&gt;
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So, the fact that I use the term “statesman” versus politician really resonates with people and here is why I believe that it does: &lt;br /&gt;
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1. A statesman represents the voice of the people, and a politician represents their own voice. &lt;br /&gt;
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2. A statesman promotes legislation that serves people, a politician promotes their own person.&lt;br /&gt;
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3. A statesman is a servant, a politician believes others serve them.&lt;br /&gt;
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4. A statesman does the work of the people for a time, a politician works to build a career.&lt;br /&gt;
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5. A statesman is promoted by the people, a politician promotes their own agenda.&lt;br /&gt;
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6. A statesman&amp;nbsp;builds&amp;nbsp;legislation for the good of the people, a politician plays politics.&lt;br /&gt;
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7. A statesman thinks of a country’s interests, while a “politician” thinks of his/her own interest.&lt;br /&gt;
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8. A statesman operates from principles and values, a politician operates from selfishness and greed.&lt;br /&gt;
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So, a statesman stands in stark contrast to a politician. I aspire to be a great statesman who can wisely and expertly&amp;nbsp;manage the political process and role, but remain true to the values and principles of character that made this country the great and powerful nation that it is today. Contrast is the key between the statesman and the politician.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-1803298594690260976?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/xUzoQFMRIL8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/1803298594690260976/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=1803298594690260976" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/1803298594690260976?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/1803298594690260976?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/xUzoQFMRIL8/contrast-is-key-between-statesman-and.html" title="Contrast is the Key Between a Statesman and a Politician" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2010/02/contrast-is-key-between-statesman-and.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DU8ERHk-eCp7ImA9WxBSEk4.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-1812349763484060686</id><published>2009-12-19T07:36:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-12-19T07:50:05.750-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-12-19T07:50:05.750-08:00</app:edited><title>So Connected, but So Disconnected!</title><content type="html">It is amazing to look around and realize that so many people are connected to the Internet and to each other because of applications (i.e.- email, Twitter, Facebook, MySpace, etc.), and mobile devices these days.&amp;nbsp; Yet, with all those connections that should help us build and grow relationships, we realize that at the same time we are all so very disconnected.&amp;nbsp; What a contrast!&lt;br /&gt;
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One of my professors in the technology field sent me this link to a free e-book by Seth Godin.&amp;nbsp; It really speaks to the fact that we are all so connected and yet, so disconnected.&amp;nbsp; Here is the link to Seth's e-book entitled "What Matters Now."&amp;nbsp; &lt;a href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/files/what-matters-now-1.pdf"&gt;http://sethgodin.typepad.com/files/what-matters-now-1.pdf&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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In addition, with all of the presentations and speaking engagements I have been pivileged to&amp;nbsp;deliver lately, I want to share with you a link to a Michael Josephson poem on YouTube called "What&amp;nbsp;Will Matter."&amp;nbsp; I have shared this poem&amp;nbsp;in the past in one of my LMDC monthly emails which you can sign up for at:&amp;nbsp; &lt;a href="http://lmdc.dcsnetlink.com/"&gt;http://lmdc.dcsnetlink.com/&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Here is the link to Michael's poem:&amp;nbsp; &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-Lm_U9yEP0"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y-Lm_U9yEP0&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Again, I encourage you to take time to reflect during this holiday season.&amp;nbsp; Think about what really matters and to whom you matter.&amp;nbsp; You can make a difference in your own life and the lives of those around you that you influence.&amp;nbsp; Enjoy....Merry Christmas!&lt;br /&gt;
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Heidi Ho.....Dane&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-1812349763484060686?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/8BgTB9oDUTg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/1812349763484060686/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=1812349763484060686" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/1812349763484060686?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/1812349763484060686?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/8BgTB9oDUTg/so-connected-but-so-disconnected.html" title="So Connected, but So Disconnected!" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/12/so-connected-but-so-disconnected.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DUYFRnY_fip7ImA9WxNVGUU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-6136111517356128685</id><published>2009-10-31T04:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-31T04:05:17.846-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-31T04:05:17.846-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="behavior" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectivity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ethics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="reality" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="road team" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="talents" /><title>"Blind Spots in Our Lives"</title><content type="html">&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;"Blind Spots"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Next week, I will be in Orlando, Florida&amp;nbsp;teaming with one of my mentors, friend and colleague,&amp;nbsp;Lee Ellis.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;We will be co-presenting a seminar titled,&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt; "Character&amp;nbsp;in Motion: Character is evidenced by Leadership Behavior."&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Lee also wrote a book called "Leading Talents, Leading Teams."&amp;nbsp; Because he and I are teaming on this seminar, I thought it would be fun to blog on a piece of work Lee did by sharing a part of what he wrote in Chapter 3 of&amp;nbsp;his book is titled, ” Objectivity: Seeing Reality”.&lt;br /&gt;
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Of course, each of us is very objective about our own lives right? Everyone else has a problem with their character or behavior, correct? Lee says, “Objective: Of course we are. NOT!” To be a strong leader of character, what is really vital to our success is that we be objective and have an accurate view of ourselves. Lee reminds us that without objectivity we are missing an extremely important factor in our ability to process decision-making information accurately. Without objectivity, Lee argues, we may lack credibility. And without credibility of course, no leader can gain the trust of their followers or those they influence.&lt;br /&gt;
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So, how do we determine how we should see ourselves? One of the first steps is to realize that as Lee puts it, “Our self-view distorts the lens through which we view others.” Lee points out that our brains are rarely accurate in developing opinions and decisions of others. The reasons for that are many, but primarily it is because of what Lee calls “filters” that we are limited in our objectiveness. Our experiences for instance, form a type of filter that removes a piece of reality from what we are processing. Once a filter is in place, we are prone to bad judgments that can result in bad decisions. &lt;br /&gt;
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So, if we are not objective about ourselves,” our self-view also distorts the lens through which we view others.” That distorted view is what Lee calls “blind spots.” Some people are so blind to some of their struggles (weaknesses) that they even deny their existence. Do you know what your strengths and struggles are? Furthermore, are you aware of blind spots in your life? Regardless, whether we acknowledge them or not, we all do have blind spots. &lt;br /&gt;
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To answer those questions, we have to be brutally honest with ourselves and realize that we need to be objective in seeing reality in our own lives. If we acknowledge that we all have some type of “blind spot” in our lives that distorts and/or filters how we interpret others, that may be the best step toward becoming a more whole person who can be a stronger leader, and whose character can influence others to trust them. Lee also says that a lack of objectivity can cause unrealistic expectations, because when we expect someone to respond or behave in one way and they don’t, that expectation can lead to disappointment, hurt feelings, and anger.&lt;br /&gt;
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To sum up the chapter, Lee says that, “Awareness is the way, and courage is the entrance fee to gain an objective viewpoint.” Are you willing to learn what your blind spots are?&amp;nbsp; I encourage you to take an objective look at who you really are so that you can objectively view others around you. By doing that you will have made great progress in your development as a leader and your growth as a person of character. &lt;br /&gt;
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Until next time, keep "Leading with Character First!"&amp;nbsp; Heidi Ho - Dane&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-6136111517356128685?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/kx7cvnU6WAY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/6136111517356128685/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=6136111517356128685" title="1 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6136111517356128685?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6136111517356128685?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/kx7cvnU6WAY/blind-spots-in-our-lives.html" title="&quot;Blind Spots in Our Lives&quot;" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/10/blind-spots-in-our-lives.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUABSXY9eip7ImA9WxNWE00.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-6904046927954980561</id><published>2009-10-11T16:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-11T16:29:18.862-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-11T16:29:18.862-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="hard work" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="behavior" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="secret to success" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="loses" /><title>The Art of Getting Along</title><content type="html">This is a quote from John C. Maxwell's Daily Reader:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Sooner or later, a man, if he is wise, discovers that life is a mixture of good days and bad, victory and defeat, give and take.  He learns that it doesn't pay to be a too-sensitive soul, that he should let some things go over his head like water off a duck's back.  He learns that he who loses his temper usually loses out, that all men have burnt toast for breakfast now and then, and that he shouldn't take the other fellow's grouch too seriously....He learns that most others are as ambitious as he is, that they have brains as good or better, that hard work, not cleverness, is the secret to success.  He learns that no man ever gets to first base alone, and that it is only through cooperative effort that we move on to better things.  He realizes (in short) that the "art of getting along" depends about 98 percent on his own behavior toward others." - Anonymous&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-6904046927954980561?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/i8zLfO2wR8M" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/6904046927954980561/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=6904046927954980561" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6904046927954980561?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6904046927954980561?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/i8zLfO2wR8M/art-of-getting-along.html" title="The Art of Getting Along" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/10/art-of-getting-along.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0UFQnw8fip7ImA9WxNXFE8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-3524569228277719823</id><published>2009-10-01T13:26:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-01T13:33:33.276-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-01T13:33:33.276-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="behavior" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="lee ellis" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="United State Air Force" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="motion" /><title>Leading with Character First</title><content type="html">Leading with Character First is not always easy. To live a life of Character is one of the toughest challenges we all face today in our society and culture. However, the rewards far outweigh any downside. I encourage you to study a book or go to a seminar or conference on character and/or leadership in the near future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Challenge yourself to be a better leader and a better follower, because only then can you really align people, passions and positions for maximum performance. Speaking of seminars, Lee Ellis and I are teaming up to present a seminar in Orlando in the near future.  Imagine the student presenting with the Master. I am very humbled to be working with Lee, who was my Vice Commandant in the United States Air Force Squadron Officer School where we spent 3 intensive months training on leadership and followership. I am also excited to introduce Lee to my peer group at Heartland Technologies, a group of 240 IT companies throughout the United States, Canada, and England.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our seminar will focus on the fact that the character of an individual is evidenced by that person’s leadership behavior. Here is the title and description:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“Character in Motion.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The main theme is that “Character is Evidenced through Leadership Behavior.” Ask yourself, “What is the cost to business and the bottom line if we don’t grow as a leader and lead that growth with character? If we don’t grow as a leader, we will not be consistent in who we want to be, and regardless of our technical skills, people will see the real character of who we are through our behavior. We are all operating in our natural behavior so much so, that our values get ignored. The presentation will be focused on how we can reconnect to those values and demonstrate character growth through behavior development.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-3524569228277719823?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/yDbzK07bn7M" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/3524569228277719823/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=3524569228277719823" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/3524569228277719823?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/3524569228277719823?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/yDbzK07bn7M/leading-with-character-first.html" title="Leading with Character First" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/10/leading-with-character-first.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0QCRnsyeip7ImA9WxNXFE8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-722161587701343641</id><published>2009-10-01T13:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-01T13:36:07.592-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-01T13:36:07.592-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="citizenship" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="trustworthiness" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="respect" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="strengths" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="fairness" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="responsibility" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="caring" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="struggles" /><title>Aligning People, Passions, and Positions for Maximum Performance</title><content type="html">In Lee Ellis’ book called “Leading Talents, Leading Teams," Lee explores Specific Talents as strengths and struggles. It is interesting that Lee uses the word “struggles” for weaknesses. I think that alone speaks volumes about the fact that a weakness is not dynamic and presupposes we are not doing anything or can’t do anything about it. The word struggles has a meaning that reflects a dynamic change and wrestling match if you will, that is going on in a constant way. That is what life is about don’t you think? It is a constant growing experience. We are all in different struggles in this life. Noone is perfect and we are all still growing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lee’s Chapter 2 title is called: “STRUGGLES: The Dark Side of Talents.”&lt;br /&gt;Besides our strengths the dark side of talents deals with the struggles we all have with our weaknesses. So, Lee points out that each of our talents is a two-sided coin. Lee even makes it clear that for each strength we have there is likely a corresponding struggle as well. Examples he uses are:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Strengths/Struggles&lt;br /&gt;-Meticulous, thorough/May be too picky&lt;br /&gt;-Prepare carefully/May lack spontaneity&lt;br /&gt;-Persistent/Tend to be inflexible&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lee then goes on to use a real life example and historical character in Winston Churchill. He quotes a biography of Winston Churchill’s when he became the First Lord of the Admiralty. You see Winston Churchill had a great many leadership qualities that prepared him for his inevitable rise to be one of the greatest leaders the world has ever known. However, what we don’t hear all the time is that Churchill’s struggles were just his strengths in exaggerated form as Lee points out: Dash became rashness. Assuredness became cocksureness, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, we learn that we all have strengths and struggles, but to grow as a leader and a good follower, it takes constant study and work to improve on both accounts. How are you doing in growing your leadership skills? More importantly, do you recognize your struggles and work to overcome and/or improve them? Are you focused on growing yourself to be a better person of character?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope this blog moment helps you to step back and really evaluate who you are, who is following you, who are your co-workers, where you are going, and who might be following you. Many struggles are associated with character: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring and citizenship. So, remember to always work on “Leading with Character First.”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-722161587701343641?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/ylS4AS1Erl8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/722161587701343641/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=722161587701343641" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/722161587701343641?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/722161587701343641?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/ylS4AS1Erl8/aligning-people-passions-and-positions.html" title="Aligning People, Passions, and Positions for Maximum Performance" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/10/aligning-people-passions-and-positions.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkEHRng4fSp7ImA9WxNXEUo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-4712378025783690198</id><published>2009-09-28T13:21:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-09-28T13:43:57.635-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-09-28T13:43:57.635-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="people" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="founding fathers" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ethics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="morals" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="corruption" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="government" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><title>A Corrupt Government is Impossible!</title><content type="html">I have heard it said many times recently on the TV, radio, and elsewhere..."our government is corrupt. "&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, I do not happen to believe that type of thinking.  To say the government is corrupt creates an aire of anxiety and depression, even helplessness which results in a realization that we can't do anything about the government as a whole.  It is just too big an elephant to even eat one bite at a time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, I think the problem can be broken down to a much simpler form than that, and one where we can really make a difference in our government and in our personal lives.  Our government is made up of people and each of those people may be good or corrupt in their morals and character as the case may be.  However, the government itself is not.  The government is nothing aside from the people that serve in it and that it serves. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, next time you hear someone say that the government is corrupt, please remind them that the government is made up of people, and people can change for the good.  Today, more people are waking up to the fact that it is not the government that is corrupt, but corrupt people that operate within the government.  More people are also reawakening to the fact that an individual's character is the most important attribute we each possess, and therefore we each need to work on developing and maintaining better character all the time.  That way we really can help develop better character for ourselves, our families, and our government.  With each person living better character we can stay on the moral and ethical track to deliver a better quality of life for everyone in the United States.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the US Air Force we used to have a common saying that went like this:  "Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely."  That can only happen when a person's character is drunk with what is perceived as power.  That is one reason our Founding Fathers created three branches of government.  They wanted to make sure that checks and balances were in place to ensure that no person or persons could operate with corruption within our government.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today, we face a very difficult time in the United States.  I believe there is a way to bring us back to our "roots" if you will...and that is through Character Education.  Please visit &lt;a href="http://www.charactercounts.org/"&gt;www.charactercounts.org&lt;/a&gt; for more information.  Here you will find a network of people and organizations that are dedicated to the education and maintenance of "character education" throughout our country.  &lt;strong&gt;Leaders must lead with Character First!&lt;/strong&gt;  Heidi Ho-&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-4712378025783690198?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/knpfG6MWrok" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/4712378025783690198/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=4712378025783690198" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/4712378025783690198?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/4712378025783690198?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/knpfG6MWrok/corrupt-government-is-impossible.html" title="A Corrupt Government is Impossible!" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/09/corrupt-government-is-impossible.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0MAQXY4cSp7ImA9WxNXFE8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-274191639962272389</id><published>2009-08-25T06:27:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-01T13:37:20.839-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-01T13:37:20.839-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="performance" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="right path" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="behavior" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="teams" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mentor" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="assessment" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="personality" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="talents" /><title>"Leading Talents, Leading Teams"</title><content type="html">"Leading Talents, Leading Teams" - Aligning People, Passions, and Positions for Maximum Performance by Lee Ellis&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to focus on a book by Lee Ellis (a friend, colleague, and mentor) called "Leading Talents, Leading Teams." Specifically, I want to focus on Section 1 titled, "Individual Differences." This section introduces talents, and explains their importance and why we have so much difficulty in being objective about ourselves and others...whether on the job or outside the workplace. Lee has taught me that &lt;a name="LETTER.BLOCK5"&gt;we really can learn how to better understand our selves and others to optimize our performances on the job or in our personal lives.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to Lee, talents focus teams on maximum performance, and are the keys to organizational and personal success. However, too many times we mismatch the talents of a person on our team and that causes problems for everyone. Over the years, I have had experiences where the person I thought had the talent for a particular job failed at that job miserably. I wish I had known then what I know now about talents and matching personalities/behaviors with those talents. I would have saved myself and the team member a lot of time and misery by refocusing not only the talent, but ensuring that the person I was putting into that job had the right personality and behavior for the job as well. That is what Lee means when he says "Aligning People, Passions, and Positions for Maximum Performance."&lt;br /&gt;Think about it, if you have ever had to hire someone...wasn't that experience like a guessing game? You do the interviews and check the references, but you never really know if that person will be a match for your position or team based on the behavior after you hire them. So, "Leading Talents, Leading Teams" is all about understanding the 16 personality types that all of us can be tested for. By understanding that personality type and the talents of each of us and those we work with, we can really say that we are aligned for maximum performance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, wouldn't it be nice to find out what kind of personality you are? By using Lee's book you can do just that, plus you also receive a Right Path 4 assessment for free. After that, the next time you are looking at hiring someone, you will have an opportunity to test them as well and find out if you are both a match for each other and/or your team. What a wonderful tool!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can purchase Lee's book at any bookstore or online book seller, but you can also go to our LMDC website (&lt;a href="http://lmdc.dcsnetlink.com/"&gt;http://lmdc.dcsnetlink.com/&lt;/a&gt;) and click on the "Featured Books" link (on the right-hand side of the web page) that is highlighted with an image of the" Leading Talents, Leading Teams" book.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep growing and leading yourself and your teams with Character First! Heidi Ho-&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-274191639962272389?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/ezk-xx3C3so" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/274191639962272389/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=274191639962272389" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/274191639962272389?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/274191639962272389?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/ezk-xx3C3so/leading-talents-leading-teams-aligning.html" title="&quot;Leading Talents, Leading Teams&quot;" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/08/leading-talents-leading-teams-aligning.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;C0YMRn8-eip7ImA9WxJVEkQ.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-4785753181503066574</id><published>2009-06-29T08:50:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-29T08:59:47.152-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-06-29T08:59:47.152-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Soc al networking;talent;skill;joshua bell;Washington Post;violin;beautiful music" /><title>How Many Things Are We Missing?</title><content type="html">Perception....something to think about...How many things are we missing as we go about our daily life and business?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following is a short version of an actual article written on a social networking experiment conducted by The Washington Post and Joshua Bell.  The entire article written by the Washington Post can be found at:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/04/04/AR2007040401721.html"&gt;http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/04/04/AR2007040401721.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-yn/content/article/2007/04/04/AR2007040401721.html"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Washington, DC Metro Station on a cold January morning in 2007. The man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time approx. 2 thousand people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After 3 minutes a middle aged man noticed there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried to meet his schedule.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4 minutes later:  the violinist received his first dollar: a woman threw the money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6 minutes:  A young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10 minutes:  A 3-year old boy stopped but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. Every parent, without exception, forced their children to move on quickly.&lt;br /&gt;45 minutes:  The musician played continuously.  Only 6 people stopped and listened for a short while. About 20 gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace.  The man collected a total of $32.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 hour:  He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.  No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before Joshua Bell sold out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a true story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people's priorities.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The questions raised: in a common place environment at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?&lt;br /&gt;One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:  If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made.... How many other things are we missing?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-4785753181503066574?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/oUgzqPI3OAM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/4785753181503066574/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=4785753181503066574" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/4785753181503066574?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/4785753181503066574?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/oUgzqPI3OAM/how-many-things-are-we-missing.html" title="How Many Things Are We Missing?" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-many-things-are-we-missing.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEcFR3YzcSp7ImA9WxJSF08.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-7187398948881997618</id><published>2009-05-07T11:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-07T11:46:56.889-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-05-07T11:46:56.889-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="pat on the back" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="genuine" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="celebrate" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="authentic" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="significance" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="attitude" /><title>Celebrate Your Successes</title><content type="html">I want to share with you a little thing we call "celebrating success."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's really important that we celebrate the successes of our team members in our companies and even in our homes and/or personal lives. Many times we all just go through the day and we don't really recognize people for some of the tough accomplishments and really excellent work that they have completed. So like today at DCS Netlink, we celebrated one of our team member’s really great accomplishments! What happened was that this team member had been working on someone's computer the day before, and had been able to restore the email that the customer had accidentally deleted. Now, the interesting part is that the e-mail had not been saved nor was a copy of it on the server, so there appeared not to be any method of being able to get the mail back that had been deleted permanently.  But, this technician was able to find a way.  So with authenticity and genuineness we gathered the team together, we rang our cowbell, and we celebrated his success!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to encourage you to think about how you too can celebrate successes using a cowbell or a “pat on the back” for someone doing a really good thing or job.  Sometimes it can be just small things, its just very important that we actually take time to celebrate the successes of others and our team members. Especially in this economy, its important to have a good attitude and sometimes we have to act our way into a good attitude, and the best way to do that is to encourage someone else so that they feel better and can act their way into a better attitude as well.  Focusing on others and their well-being is the job of a great leader.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until next time, keep leading with character first..&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-7187398948881997618?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/FvuhNkInZes" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/7187398948881997618/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=7187398948881997618" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/7187398948881997618?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/7187398948881997618?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/FvuhNkInZes/celebrate-your-successes.html" title="Celebrate Your Successes" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/05/celebrate-your-successes.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0QCQ3s8cCp7ImA9WxVWEk8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-7443010242067678842</id><published>2009-02-21T07:01:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-21T07:16:02.578-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-02-21T07:16:02.578-08:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="people" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="team soft skills" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="internet" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="security" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="people skills" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="virtual security" /><title>Chance Favors a Prepared Mind</title><content type="html">Louis Pasteur once said, "Chance favors a prepared mind." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If that statement is true, and I believe it is, then we need to do all we can to make sure we prepare our minds, our families, and our companies for any chance or opportunity that might come along.  This is especially true for the work and play that we do on the Internet today, especially in light of our current economic situation. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is a fact that the Intenet shrinks the global community and brings opportunities that previously could not have been imagined.  However, with the global community being smaller  and all the responsibilities that go along with that, there is also an inherent risk in collaborating and doing business on the Internet as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To help combat the threats, risks, and vulnerabilities on the Internet today, it is very important that we all "team" together to educate and strengthen one another so that we can continue to take advantage of the power of the Internet and not get impacted in a negative way.  We oftentimes tell our customers that when they team with us, they actually become part of our Virtual Security Community (VSC). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In order to grow our VSC, we host an annual event called InterSec (short for Internet Security).   It is a great event to network and learn all the geeky stuff, but more importantly, we focus on the fact that the weakest link in security is what I call the Human Factor.  Yes, the Human Factor is indeed the weakest link.  Most folks would then say that means we need more knowledge or more education on firewalls, anti-virus, etc. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is not necessarily true.  In reality, it may very well be the Character and Soft "People" Skills that make us humans the weakest link in security.  Think about our economy right now.  Most of the problems that have ensued have been due to greed and corporate corruption.  Throwing money at the economic issues to solve them does no better than hardening your firewalls, anti-virus, security policies and procedures, etc. if the people we have working for us have Character and Soft Skill weaknesses.  The whole problem and challenge must begin in the "heart."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you want to learn more about interSec 2009, VSC, Character, and Soft "People" Skills, consider visiting:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://htg.itsuccessmentor.com/dcs/"&gt;http://htg.itsuccessmentor.com/dcs/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until next time, keep leading with Character First!  Heidi Ho-&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-7443010242067678842?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/HMzEkwMBGWY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/7443010242067678842/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=7443010242067678842" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/7443010242067678842?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/7443010242067678842?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/HMzEkwMBGWY/chance-favors-prepared-mind.html" title="Chance Favors a Prepared Mind" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/02/chance-favors-prepared-mind.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0UDSH49fCp7ImA9WxVXFkk.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-2478083142477124244</id><published>2009-02-14T13:53:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-14T14:07:59.064-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-02-14T14:07:59.064-08:00</app:edited><title>Are You Going to Finish Strong?</title><content type="html">&lt;a style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: #0000ff; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif" href="http://ui.constantcontact.com/visualeditor/visual_editor_preview.jsp?agent.uid=1102452957284&amp;amp;fromView=previewFromDetail&amp;amp;popin=true&amp;amp;previewFromDetail=true&amp;amp;previewFromSent=true&amp;amp;pageName=ecampaign.ve.edit#LETTER.BLOCK5" shape="rect"&gt;Are You Going to Finish Strong?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;In the past, I have shared the "The Go-Giver" philosophy as a alternative method of living our lives. You can learn more about The Go-Giver at&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.thegogiver.com/"&gt;http://www.thegogiver.com/&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;The Go-Giver philosophy is even more apropo today as we see numerous things happening to us as individuals, our economy and even our culture: layoffs, deaths of mature companies, banking turmoil, integrity issues, breakdowns in trust between many entities, and much more. Sometimes lately it has just been plain tough to keep getting up when you are knocked down....and today, maybe more often than in the past, we may each be experiencing some of those tough hard knocks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have decided to try to be an encourager during this blog and share with you a video of someone who truly knows what it is like to fall down and have to work hard at getting up again. Don't give up. We don't realize how great we truly may have it. The most important point is to ask ourselves the question, "Am I going to finish strong?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As my Mom and Dad always say, "the Sun will shine again tomorrow." That also reminds me&lt;br /&gt;of what Rev. Robert Schuller said, "Tough times never last, tough people do."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again, it is important &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a name="LETTER.BLOCK5"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;to focus on the real question we should be asking ourselves, "Are we going&lt;br /&gt;to finish strong?" In the game of life, it does make a difference how you finish. No matter what the world tells us, you can see the results of greed, corruption, selfishness, etc. all around. Just look at our sports heroes, the leaders in our government, etc. How people "run the race" does&lt;br /&gt;make a difference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is my hope that through this story of humility, and "Living Example," more people will act as&lt;br /&gt;living examples to those around them, even if it means that they may not receive anything in&lt;br /&gt;return. The GOLDEN RULE still rules best! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;If you want to know more about The Go-Giver, please visit &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thegogiver.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;http://www.thegogiver.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;. You will find me listed as a walking ambassador. Why not commit yourself to being a walking ambassador for others as well?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I want to thank one of my HTG 15 team members, Roger for this video blessing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's encourage each other and "Keep getting up!" Finish Strong!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqantZJ6WwM" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqantZJ6WwM&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Until next month....Keep Leading with Character First...and be a Living Example of&lt;br /&gt;The Go-Giver!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Heidi Ho-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-2478083142477124244?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/e9tIglWPqSM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/2478083142477124244/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=2478083142477124244" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/2478083142477124244?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/2478083142477124244?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/e9tIglWPqSM/are-you-going-to-finish-strong.html" title="Are You Going to Finish Strong?" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/02/are-you-going-to-finish-strong.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUICSX8-cCp7ImA9WxVQGE8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-6332850892402526916</id><published>2009-02-05T00:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-05T00:46:08.158-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-02-05T00:46:08.158-08:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="weed" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="bong" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="swimmer" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Michel Phelps" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="pot" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="olympian" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="athlete" /><title>Sports Hero and Mentor Disappoints</title><content type="html">Our Society today clearly puts too much emphasis on success. We make heroes out of sports figures that excel, but then we expect them to be perfect in every way. The latest news report focuses on Michael Phelps who is undoubtedly the greatest swimmer and Olympian in history.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With all the accolades and success he has had, it is difficult to understand why he would risk all of that to smoke some "dope." Noone may really know. Perhaps it was peer pressure. Maybe he was lonely....many "idols" in the sports world comment on the fact that they were famous and very popular, but very lonely and wanted more than anything to belong. No matter the reasoning, the fact that Michael smoked pot was unmistakeable since it was caught on camera.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The gymnastics athletes we coach were very disappointed and were able to clearly outline which of several pillars of character in the Character Counts program Michael violated in smoking pot. These athletes, even though gymnasts and not swimmers, were greatly disappointed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, the silver lining (if it can be found in this) is that Michael did not lie or try to cover up this incident. He took responsibility for his own actions, and apologized. He even promised not to let that happen again. He did the right thing, but as we all know, actions speak louder than words. So, we will see what the future holds for this bright star...but one thing is clear....Character does Count more today than ever....and Michael did show some character in admitting fault. I am hopeful that Michael will go on from here and become a great leader by example in character and life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Visit &lt;a href="http://www.charactercounts.org/"&gt;http://www.charactercounts.org/&lt;/a&gt; for more information on the 6 Pillars of Character.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until next time...keep leading with Character First...Heidi Ho.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-6332850892402526916?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/_URi7HE7oEE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/6332850892402526916/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=6332850892402526916" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6332850892402526916?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6332850892402526916?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/_URi7HE7oEE/sports-hero-and-mentor-disappoints.html" title="Sports Hero and Mentor Disappoints" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/02/sports-hero-and-mentor-disappoints.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DU4MRXs_eSp7ImA9WxVQFUw.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-4362504697126430252</id><published>2009-02-01T11:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-01T11:53:04.541-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-02-01T11:53:04.541-08:00</app:edited><title>Internet Security and Life</title><content type="html">With the two upcoming InterSec 2009 Seminars in Rice Lake and Eau Claire, Wisconsin, I want to let you know that there will be more to these conferences than Internet Security discussions and presentations. Yes, there will be some "geeky" stuff, but I and our Team at DCS Netlink have always been about our techy work while at the same time remembering constantly that life is more than techy, geeky "stuff." Testimonials from InterSec 2008 really help to focus in on the fact that we have three main goals with our Internet Security Conferences:1. Internet Security and inviting others to join our Virtual Security Team (VST) to help us keep America secure both now and in the future.2. Secondly, it is about bringing together people and companies that realize their line of work is what makes their living, but as the saying goes..."we make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." Several of our speakers will be presenting and helping our attendees to learn better how to create that balance between their personal lives and their businesses. Last year, I spoke on "Leading Your Teams from Success to Significance." Afterwards, many told me that they understood now why they had chosen to come...even some that had no interest or understanding of techy, geeky, security stuff. So, Life Skills will be a major priority and that is the most significant difference between our conference than other security conferences.3. The 3rd reason for this conference is to get people together and help them realize that together they can do more than as an individual and/or one company. There is so much value each person has to share with each other. It is more blessed to give than to receive...many attendees and presenters know this law of the universe and will be sharing how to get connected with others and not concern themselves with the "worldly" mentality that says "get all you can get."&lt;br /&gt;Finally, I want to let you know that we will be having several very special speakers and "Life Coaches" as I call them sharing with us. One of them is Guy Doud. Guy was my mentor while I was growing up. We were in Boy Scouts together and he helped me to understand the real value of living for others. Guy is also, as I understand it, the most popular speaker ever on the James Dobson Focus on the Family Radio show. So, don't miss this opportunity to hear Guy let you know why it is important to be a "Moulder of Dreams." Guy wrote a book with that title some years after he became the 1986 National Teacher of the Year under President Ronald Reagan. Consider joining us during this conference...it will make a difference in your security posture on the Internet, your business, your family, and your life.  To learn more about Guy visit:  &lt;a href="http://www.guydoud.com/" mce_href="http://www.guydoud.com"&gt;http://www.guydoud.com&lt;/a&gt;.- Heidi Ho&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-4362504697126430252?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/Ar6phPINFyc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/4362504697126430252/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=4362504697126430252" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/4362504697126430252?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/4362504697126430252?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/Ar6phPINFyc/internet-security-and-life.html" title="Internet Security and Life" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/02/internet-security-and-life.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;AkQCSXk4cSp7ImA9WxVQE08.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-7573953357787700338</id><published>2009-01-30T07:10:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-30T07:12:48.739-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-01-30T07:12:48.739-08:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="internet" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="cyber" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="militia" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="security" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="national" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><title>DDoS attack boots Kyrgyzstan from net</title><content type="html">&lt;a title="DDoS attack boots Kyrgyzstan from net" href="http://htg.itsuccessmentor.com/dcs/2009/01/30/ddos-attack-boots-kyrgyzstan-from-net/" rel="bookmark"&gt;DDoS attack boots Kyrgyzstan from net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted on January 30th, 2009 by DCS  &lt;a title="Edit post" href="http://htg.itsuccessmentor.com/dcs/wp-admin/post.php?action=edit&amp;amp;post=16"&gt;Edit&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The fact that another entire country can be knocked off of the Internet just re-enforces the fact that cyber security goes deeper than just the “little” homeuser. See the article below for more info on the latest cyber attack against an entire country.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By Dan Goodin in San Francisco • Get more from this author&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.theregister.co.uk/2009/01/28/kyrgyzstan_knocked_offline/"&gt;http://www.theregister.co.uk/2009/01/28/kyrgyzstan_knocked_offline/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted in Security, 28th January 2009 19:57 GMT&lt;br /&gt;“The central Asian republic of Kyrgyzstan was effectively knocked offline for more than a week by a Russian cybermilitia that continues to flood the country’s internet providers with crippling data attacks, a security expert said.&lt;br /&gt;The attacks, which began on January 18, bear the signature of pro-Russian nationalists believed to have launched similar cyber assaults on the republic of Georgia in August, said Don Jackson, a researcher with Atlanta-based security provider SecureWorks. The attacks on Kyrgyzstan were so potent that most net traffic in and out of the country was completely blocked during the first seven days.”&lt;br /&gt;This is another good reason for people and companies to come together and share how we can strengthen and protect ourselves better from cyber threats today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Visit http://intersec.dcsnetlink.com to learn more and register for this important Internet Security Seminar.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-7573953357787700338?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/g3X08NocxWc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/7573953357787700338/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=7573953357787700338" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/7573953357787700338?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/7573953357787700338?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/g3X08NocxWc/ddos-attack-boots-kyrgyzstan-from-net.html" title="DDoS attack boots Kyrgyzstan from net" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/01/ddos-attack-boots-kyrgyzstan-from-net.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;Ck8EQX86eip7ImA9WxVQEUw.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-1406961390125745884</id><published>2009-01-27T18:27:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T18:46:40.112-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-01-27T18:46:40.112-08:00</app:edited><title>China Has Penetrated Key US Databases:SANS Director</title><content type="html">Posted on 27th, January 2009&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At InterSec 2008, Sami Saydjari (CEO Cyber Defense Agency) opened the conference explaining the real threat in cyberspace.  You can read more about what SANS Institute Director of Research Alan Paller told SCMagazineUS.com at:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.scmagazineus.com/China-has-penetrated-key-US-databases-SANS-director/article/104338/"&gt;http://www.scmagazineus.com/China-has-penetrated-key-US-databases-SANS-director/article/104338/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-1406961390125745884?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/HBH7FlivxvU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/1406961390125745884/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=1406961390125745884" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/1406961390125745884?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/1406961390125745884?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/HBH7FlivxvU/china-has-penetrated-key-us.html" title="China Has Penetrated Key US Databases:SANS Director" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/01/china-has-penetrated-key-us.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0IASHY-fSp7ImA9WxVQEU0.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-5389889511112532206</id><published>2009-01-27T18:24:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T18:25:49.855-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-01-27T18:25:49.855-08:00</app:edited><title>Biggest Ever Credit Card Data Breach</title><content type="html">&lt;a title="Biggest ever credit card data breach" href="http://htg.itsuccessmentor.com/dcs/2009/01/27/biggest-ever-credit-card-data-breach/" rel="bookmark"&gt;Biggest ever credit card data breach&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted on January 27th, 2009 by DCS&lt;br /&gt;A major reason that DCS Netlink is hosting InterSec 2009 is that breaches are happening everyday and in ever increasing frequency. The bad guys are getting “badder” while the good guys are trying to make a living. Read below about one of the most recent breaches….consider coming to InterSec 2009…it may just change the way you think and act on the Internet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Computer World - Jaikumar Vijayan reports:&lt;br /&gt;A data breach disclosed [Tuesday] by Heartland Payment Systems may well displace TJX Companies’ January 2007 breach in the record books as the largest ever involving payment data with potentially over 100 million cards being compromised.&lt;br /&gt;Heartland, a N.J.-based provider of credit and debit card processing services said that unknown intruders had broken into its systems sometime last year and planted malicious software to steal card data carried on the company’s networks. The company, which is among the largest payment processors in the country, claimed to have discovered the intrusion only last week … Given that Heartland processes more than 100 million card transactions per month, it is very possible that the number of compromised credit and debit cards is at least that much.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://blogs.computerworld.com/biggest_ever_credit_card_data_breach"&gt;http://blogs.computerworld.com/biggest_ever_credit_card_data_breach&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-5389889511112532206?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/36dCE49fxqg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/5389889511112532206/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=5389889511112532206" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/5389889511112532206?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/5389889511112532206?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/36dCE49fxqg/biggest-ever-credit-card-data-breach.html" title="Biggest Ever Credit Card Data Breach" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/01/biggest-ever-credit-card-data-breach.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0MHRnc4fCp7ImA9WxVQEU0.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-2073968307136671495</id><published>2009-01-27T18:22:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-01-27T18:23:57.934-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-01-27T18:23:57.934-08:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="mobile" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="data leakage" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="internet" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="security" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="leadership" /><title>InterSec 2009 -“SECURITY IS EVERYBODY’S BUSINESS"</title><content type="html">&lt;a title="InterSec 2009" href="http://htg.itsuccessmentor.com/dcs/2009/01/17/test/" rel="bookmark"&gt;InterSec 2009&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posted on January 26th, 2009 by DCS&lt;br /&gt;DCS Netlink has partnered with Wisconsin Indianhead Technical College (WITC) and Chippewa Valley Technical College (CVTC) to host the annual InterSec 2009 Internet Security Conference.&lt;br /&gt;Indianhead Region – WITC Conference Center, Rice Lake, WI February 12 &amp;amp; 13, 2009&lt;br /&gt;Chippewa Valley Region – Ramada Conference Center, Eau Claire, WIFebruary 26 &amp;amp; 27, 2009&lt;br /&gt;The conferences are designed to cover a broad range of mobility and Internet security topics, as well as the challenges facing the government, business owners, managers, and IT personnel.&lt;br /&gt;“SECURITY IS EVERYBODY’S BUSINESS.”&lt;br /&gt;Security and industry experts will speak and demonstrate how, in an ever increasing mobile world, we can network, use the Internet, and keep DATA  secure while doing business.&lt;br /&gt;Register online at: &lt;a title="Intersec 2009" href="http://intersec.dcsnetlink.com/" target="_blank" modo="false"&gt;http://intersec.dcsnetlink.com&lt;/a&gt; or call DCS Netlink at: 715-236-7424 for more information .&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-2073968307136671495?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/z2Ng3eMpe_U" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/2073968307136671495/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=2073968307136671495" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/2073968307136671495?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/2073968307136671495?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/z2Ng3eMpe_U/intersec-2009-security-is-everybodys.html" title="InterSec 2009 -“SECURITY IS EVERYBODY’S BUSINESS&quot;" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2009/01/intersec-2009-security-is-everybodys.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUYBSHYzcSp7ImA9WxRWFUk.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-6832964095490918262</id><published>2008-11-01T05:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-11-01T05:39:19.889-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-11-01T05:39:19.889-07:00</app:edited><title>Go-Giver Ambassador</title><content type="html">Another month has gone by and the US Presidential elections are almost upon us.  Lots of things have happened this month including:  stock market ups and downs, company bankruptcies, banking turmoil, and much more.  However, even with all of the uncertainties we are experiencing, there are always silver linings in each person’s clouds.  I would like to share with you one of those silver linings.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During this last month we joined a peer group where the members of the group have a primary responsibility to “execute through accountability.”  That sounds complex, but the very simple interpretation to that is that each of us is responsible to add value and assistance to the other members of the group…in other words…think of other members in the group first.  One way we can each do that is to ask the question, “How can I add value to other members?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is not the common method of working with others in this world by any stretch of the imagination.  I am consistently reminded in many ways that we will only walk on this earth one time and whatever good we can do to help others is what the real meaning of life is.  To be able to really grasp this idea and “pay it forward” or pass it on, I wanted each of you to be able to visit a website that I believe will add value to your life so that you can add value to others.  Please visit:  &lt;a href="http://www.thegogiver.com/"&gt;www.thegogiver.com&lt;/a&gt;.  That was my silver lining…I hope it can be yours today too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you visit that website, you can easily just register your first name and email address and you can download the first chapter of the book.  The book is a novel and is an easy quick read, but it is packed with a lot of meaning and ideas on how we can help others by adding value to their lives.  You can purchase the book on-line at that same website from several different bookstores.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love what Zig Ziglar always says:  “If you go looking for a friend, you're going to find they're very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you'll find them everywhere.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He also says:  “You can have everything in life that you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you would like to read more quotes from Zig, please visit:  &lt;a href="http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/z/zig_ziglar.html"&gt;http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/z/zig_ziglar.html&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Be a GO-GIVER!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-6832964095490918262?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/FFrwaJh-KsM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/6832964095490918262/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=6832964095490918262" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6832964095490918262?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6832964095490918262?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/FFrwaJh-KsM/go-giver-ambassador.html" title="Go-Giver Ambassador" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2008/11/go-giver-ambassador.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DEMCSX09eyp7ImA9WxZbF0k.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-2132540817492136187</id><published>2008-04-20T19:37:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-20T19:54:28.363-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-04-20T19:54:28.363-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="sportsmanship" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="gymnastics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="courage" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="values" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="coach" /><title>Sportsmanship by Action?</title><content type="html">&lt;div align="left"&gt;Today we coached one of our gymnasts in a regional competition. She performed very well, and she did an amazing job in performing. What was even more amazing than her performance was not something as visible as the the routines she performed on each event, but the fact that I observed two coaches demonstrating their character in sportsmanship. I am not sure they even realized that I or anyone else even noticed their character shining through their coaching. I have always been an advocate of “Leading with Character First.”&lt;br /&gt;Here we were in the middle of a very important regional gymnastics meet and both coaches had their values, ethics, and character tested. In one coach’s actions, she showed genuine and authentic care and support for her gymnast who despite almost a perfect warm-up before the competition, completely fell apart while performing for the judges. When this gymnast completed her bar routine, after falling twice and missing several skills, the coach threw her arms wide open and just “hugged” her gymnast in support for her. What a great move! That coach demonstrated the most authentic and genuine care for her gymnast that I have ever seen….one can tell if someone really means it when they care, can’t they? It is really refreshing. The coach could have communicated what the errors were, she could have been embarrassed at her performance, she could have been angry, she could have been disappointed even, there are just so many things the coach could have done or said, but she didn’t. That coach showed great form herself. I am sure her gymnast will remember her coach's performance for a lot longer than she remembers her score or her own performance. I was so impressed that I went up to the coach after the meet was completed and told her I really respected her and her coaching….she had done a great job of mentoring and coaching her gymnast for life, not just gymnastics. WOW! We need more coaches like her.&lt;br /&gt;The second instance was more of a demonstration of solid ethics and values by another coach who has personally helped me grow both as a person and a coach. Again, I am sure it didn't &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;even occur to him that those around him may be watching his actions…but, they spoke louder than anything else in that gym at that time. In this case, this coach’s gymnast had already finished warming up, and for whatever reason, the gymnast thought that the judge had saluted her and she began her routine. In the sport of gymnastics, if you start before the judge salutes there is a significant penalty. So, after she performed her routine and the coach realized that the judges had not been judging, he had to make a decision. Was he going to inform the judges that in fact this gymnast was not still warming up, but had completed her routine? He had to decide if he was going to make the head judge aware of that fact or not. Without any hesitation, this coach walked over to the judges table and informed the judge of his gymnast’s mistake. The judge made a decision and then had the gymnast perform again…most likely with some deduction in her score based on her starting before judge had acknowledged her. Now, this may seem trivial, but this was a clear example of actions speaking louder than words…and this coach’s actions spoke volumes. He knew they would most likely not catch the fact that she had performed, they just thought she was the last one warming up. So, he did the right thing….at the right time…in the right way. Having been mentored by him over the years, and having watched him over all those years coach all the kids he has, I was very proud to say he is my friend, colleague, and fellow coach. I walked over to him and praised him for his choice to “act with character.” 3 CHEERS for this Coach! Leading with Character takes courage and values…both coaches demonstrated those characteristics. We need to Remember to Lead with Character First. Character does count….others may be watching!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-2132540817492136187?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/V6UeBRRh_wg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/2132540817492136187/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=2132540817492136187" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/2132540817492136187?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/2132540817492136187?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/V6UeBRRh_wg/sportsmanship-by-action.html" title="Sportsmanship by Action?" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2008/04/sportsmanship-by-action.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DkYEQHk4eSp7ImA9WxZTGU4.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-55911677699366791</id><published>2008-01-21T08:42:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-21T08:48:21.731-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-01-21T08:48:21.731-08:00</app:edited><title>Our Actions Follow Our Values</title><content type="html">The beginning of each New Year always allows me to reflect on the past year and plan for the upcoming year.  This year was no different.   My wife and I took a very relaxing vacation to Florida.   On the plane ride there, I had been reading a new book called “Judgment – How Winning Leaders Make Great Calls,” by Noel M. Tichy and Warren G. Bennis.  This book promised to be very interesting and full of gold nuggets concerning character education, and how our character values impact the judgment calls we all have to make as leaders on a daily basis.  I have always believed that “leading with character first” is the most important step any person can possibly take to live a healthy lifestyle worthy of example to others.  I have even spoken about this subject called” Judgment” during the seminars that focused on my climb up Mt. Ararat (altitude of 17,000 ft) in the late 80’s.&lt;br /&gt;Well, as fate would have it (and I believe there is a reason for everything that happens to us), on the last night of our vacation, my wife and I were enjoying a leisurely dinner before the New Year midnight festivities, when my wife overheard a couple at another dinner table talking about a Florida University team that had literally expelled dozens of football players recently from the team because of cheating on an open book exam.   As many of you are aware, at Deutsch’s Gymnastics Training Center we are passionate about helping to mold our athletes’ character by shaping their values and discipline, so you can imagine that this story was of real interest to me and a real shocker too.  I could imagine one or two or even several players expelled for cheating, but dozens?  I had never heard of such numbers before.  However, I am told that at least half of this team of 60 or so players cheated on their open book exam.  That is both astounding and shocking!  What does that say about the leaders of the coaching staff as well as the leaders of the players themselves?   Furthermore, it reminded me of one of my team captains at Deutsch’s telling me that cheating was extremely prevalent at our local high school.  So, this kind of thing is not just happening in Florida.  How very sad, and disappointing.  Well, in this book on judgment, the authors make a case for the fact that our actions always follow our values, and our values shape our character.  Isn’t that interesting!  No rocket science right?  I believe this kind of behavior is a very real problem in our society today and permeates the moral fabric of our society today.  Somehow, we must have drifted so far off course as a culture and as a society that we no longer even recognize our own moral compass.  How shameful!  Do we not have the dignity and fortitude, as a society and culture and nation, to re-capture that moral compass?  This month I encourage each of you to be courageous enough to set a New Year’s resolution and determine to “lead by example with character first.”  Each of us as one can make a difference in the lives and quality of lives of those around us that we touch each day of our lives. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am reminded of what Robert Schuller once said, “It is not hard for any one of us to see the tree that came from a single Apple seed, but it is only God who can see the number of apples that can come from a single seed.”   Let’s make sure that each of us does everything we can to help all the apples develop great character.  “Lead With Character First!”&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-55911677699366791?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/gb_Or7j65x4" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/55911677699366791/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=55911677699366791" title="1 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/55911677699366791?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/55911677699366791?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/gb_Or7j65x4/our-actions-follow-our-values.html" title="Our Actions Follow Our Values" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2008/01/our-actions-follow-our-values.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D04HQ3o9fip7ImA9WB9WGEg.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-3211457884144058332</id><published>2007-11-23T13:54:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-23T14:12:12.466-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2007-11-23T14:12:12.466-08:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="sister" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="trucker" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="road team" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wal-mart" /><title>Proud Brother!</title><content type="html">The 9th and 10th of September were some of the most exciting events in my life!  My whole family was flown to Bentonville, AR to watch my sister receive an award from Wal-mart.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You would say that this was the most exciting thing too, if your sister was one of only eight truckers chosen out of over 7,000 truckers in the USA to represent one of the largest retailers in the world...Wal-Mart.  That's right....my little sister is an 18 wheel "jockey" and has been driving trucks for nearly two decades.  With over 7,000 truckers to choose from, only eight Wal-Mart truckers were inducted into the very first Wal-Mart Road Team (i.e.-WAL-MART with eight letters).  What an honor and celebration. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Alot of day-after-day over-the-road miles went into winning this prestigious honor for my little sister....over 1,000,000 safe driver miles is only one of her accomplishments.   I kind of equate this to the United States Air Force's Thunderbird Team or even the US Navy's Blue Angels.  Only the best of the best...the creme de la creme.   Way to go SIS!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-3211457884144058332?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/Y9fPi4RVqAA" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/3211457884144058332/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=3211457884144058332" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/3211457884144058332?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/3211457884144058332?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/Y9fPi4RVqAA/proud-brother.html" title="Proud Brother!" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2007/11/proud-brother.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DEYCRnw9fCp7ImA9WB9QFk0.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-8541344610148887231</id><published>2007-10-28T14:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-10-28T14:16:07.264-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2007-10-28T14:16:07.264-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="character" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ethics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="significance" /><title>Michael Josephson's "What Will Matter"</title><content type="html">I am preparing an introductory presentation for a school district on Character Counts (&lt;a href="http://www.charactercounts.org/"&gt;www.charactercounts.org&lt;/a&gt;).  Character Counts is a program that was designed by Michael Josephson under his primary business called The Josephson Institute of Ethics (&lt;a href="http://www.josephsoninstitute.org/"&gt;www.josephsoninstitute.org&lt;/a&gt;).  I wanted to share this poem with you that Michael wrote because it really emphasizes the difference between Success and Significance.  I chose Significance and still do....enjoy. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here it is:  &lt;a href="http://www.josephsoninstitute.org/movie_whatwillmatter.html"&gt;http://www.josephsoninstitute.org/movie_whatwillmatter.html&lt;/a&gt; .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until next time..."Lead with Character First"....Heidi Ho....&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-8541344610148887231?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/zgjCC3s3uGE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/8541344610148887231/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=8541344610148887231" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/8541344610148887231?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/8541344610148887231?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/zgjCC3s3uGE/michael-josephsons-what-will-matter.html" title="Michael Josephson's &quot;What Will Matter&quot;" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2007/10/michael-josephsons-what-will-matter.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D08CSXw9eSp7ImA9WB9RFUk.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-6219704311756851597</id><published>2007-10-16T07:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-10-16T07:44:28.261-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2007-10-16T07:44:28.261-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="forgiveness" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="James Dobson" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adversity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Abraham Lincoln" /><title>Through Adversity</title><content type="html">This morning, I was listening to Dr. James Dobson interviewing a person who had been aborted during her mother's pregnancy, but survived the abortion.  My heart was touched with the forgiveness and maturity with which this young lady spoke.  She said two things that really hit home with me, and I hope will add value to your life, and those around you as well:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, she said that her joy comes through adversity.  So much could be said about this, but suffice it to say that noone likes to experience pain, either emotional or physical, but it is a reality in this life.  This young lady's adversity will serve other people's gain.  She is so courageous and brave to share her life with us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, she quoted Abraham Lincoln when he said, "Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Both of these people went through a tremendous amount of adversity, but came out the other side a better person who more importantly, could add value to the lives of others because of their growth through adversity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes, when we are experiencing adversity (the tough times), it is difficult to remember that the sun will come up again tomorrow.  Remember, forgiveness heals, and the sun will come up again tomorrow.  See it through my friend.....Heidi Ho.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-6219704311756851597?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/zLTfNOStJeI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/6219704311756851597/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=6219704311756851597" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6219704311756851597?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6219704311756851597?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/zLTfNOStJeI/through-adversity.html" title="Through Adversity" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2007/10/through-adversity.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUUDRH88fyp7ImA9WB9UFUU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-379734139875144661.post-6356120068692663619</id><published>2007-10-03T18:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2007-12-13T14:01:15.177-08:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2007-12-13T14:01:15.177-08:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="charcter" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="champion" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="trustworthy" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="attitude" /><title>Heido Ho</title><content type="html">I received several requests from people visiting my blog to explain why I end many of my blogs with "Heidi Ho." Here is the story...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I started using the Heidi Ho salutation kind of like Carol Burnett with her earlobe touch or like Red Skelton with his "And may God Bless" at the end of each show. The reason I use Heido Ho is based on a young female gymnast that I coached for several years in our gymnastics training center. Heidi was the epitome of a perfect gym daughter. She was focused, made changes when asked and was trustworthy. She was a very responsible and mature young adult. Many times, as a coach, I called on Heidi to be the role model and lead the rest of the team gymnasts even though she was much younger than some of the other gymnasts. I could always depend on Heidi. What shined most in her life was her attitude. She always looked for the bright side of things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As if it was a prophetic thing, one night in May several years ago now, Heidi was not looking like her normal self and I asked what was wrong. Trying to hide her tears, Heidi told me that she had lost the only Track and Field hurdle race she had ever lost on the previous day. In fact as a Sophomore in High School, Heidi was ranked 3rd in the State in High Hurdles. I put my arm around her shoulder and encouraged her. She finally told me that it was ok, and she would have another chance to win the next race against the gal that had beaten her. I then changed the subject and teased her on why she hadn't asked me (her Gym Dad) if she could go to the prom the week before. Furthermore, I told her the least she could do was bring me pictures of her and her date. She said she would. As Heidi went out the door of the gym that night, I remember distinctly telling her to be careful driving. Heidi responded back that she was always careful.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Those were the last words I ever spoke to Heidi, as she died in a head-on car crash the very next day while driving to gymnastics practice. She never arrived for gym practice. I even asked my wife during practice if Heidi had called. She hadn't called. That was not like Heidi at all. After practice ended that night and we were at home, someone phoned us to say that Heidi had died instantly in a car crash enroute to gymnastics practice. After that, I remember someone shared with me that when they looked into the car , Heidi's prom pictures were scattered about. Evidently, she was going to share those pictures with her Gym Dad as I had teased her about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, today I still miss Heidi, but I want her strong character to live on. She can still be that leader and mentor, because even today I still see the younger gymnasts (who never knew Heidi) look at her picture on the Wall of Champions and read about her. Heidi was a Champion of Life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And in some small way, by ending my seminars and blogs with "Heidi Ho," I remind myself and others of the fact that life is fragile and is a journey. We need to remember that life is a gift and we should be sharing a great attitude with those around us that are on their journey in life as well. Until the next blog...."Heidi Ho!"&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/379734139875144661-6356120068692663619?l=theararatconnection.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~4/_NlVaZoX42g" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/feeds/6356120068692663619/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=379734139875144661&amp;postID=6356120068692663619" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6356120068692663619?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/379734139875144661/posts/default/6356120068692663619?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAraratConnection/~3/_NlVaZoX42g/heido-ho.html" title="Heido Ho" /><author><name>Dane for Senate</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12799605169034257899</uri><email>dane@daneforsenate.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="15914447394609388781" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://theararatconnection.blogspot.com/2007/10/heido-ho.html</feedburner:origLink></entry></feed>
