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&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;Mr. Turrisi.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;Yes.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;I see you are interested in XYZ product.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;Yes, I am. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;Good.&amp;nbsp; Do you see XYZ product as something you can use in your business?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;I do.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;Do you see that making an investment in this product could help your business?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;Yes, I do, which is why I made contact with your company. I researched your product among others and made a decision that you and one other company most suited my needs.Unfortanely for them they never retuned my call.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;I see. &amp;nbsp;So have you made a decision to use our product?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;Yes.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;Do you know what our product costs?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;Yes. It is a no brainer.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;So you like our product, it is in your budget, you see it can bring value to your company and you see yourself using it.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: YES. &amp;nbsp;&lt;I&gt;(What I did not say was, "PLEASE LET ME BUY YOUR PRODUCT SO I CAN GET ON WITH MY LIFE!")&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;So when can I get together by phone with you and your wife?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;WHAT!?!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;I would like to speak with you and your wife to make sure she is in agreement.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me : Are you kidding me? &amp;nbsp;Is this a joke?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;No.&amp;nbsp; This is our policy.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;Look my friend, I am ready to give you my credit card, make the purchase and become your customer and you want to talk with my wife?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Sales Rep: &amp;nbsp;Yes&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Me: &amp;nbsp;I can't believe this! I am not buying aluminum siding, replacement windows for my house or deciding on what color to paint our bathroom. I am looking to buy XYZ for my company and my wife is not part of the decision process. With that the sales representative hung up and has not been heard from since. They also continue to send&amp;nbsp; commercials to my e-mail which I have since blocked.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;UUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGG!!! &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 15:06:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6744</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6669/The-Four-Secrets-to-Success-and-Personal-Fulfillment.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><title>The Four Secrets to Success and Personal Fulfillment</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6669/The-Four-Secrets-to-Success-and-Personal-Fulfillment.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;Yesterday I had the opportunity to spend some time with two long time friends and business owners. The conversation centered around two questions, "What is your life purpose?" And, "What are you passionate about as a business owner and provider of goods and services?" 
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;We agreed that on one level our purpose is to sell our goods and services in the marketplace, make money to generate a profit, and provide jobs and income for our employees. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;While these are certainly valid we agreed there is much more. For example, what would have to happen for one to really be passionate about what they do? So passionate they generate an excitement within themselves that also radiates out to the people around them. The conclusion we came to was that there are &lt;B&gt;Four Secrets to Success and Personal Fulfillment&lt;/B&gt; that would fuel passion every day.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;1- You have to be really good at what you do.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;2- You have to really enjoy what you do. Enjoy what you do so much it is more like play than work.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;3- You have to be able to make money at what you do.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;4- And above all, you must make a contribution to society. A contribution is not necessarily the product, but the impact you have on individuals and companies.&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;One of my colleagues was very clear that he is not building houses.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;He is building homes that contribute to the quality of a family's life. He creates an environment that contributes to family lifestyles. He even went as far as to say he is totally committed to quality. My other colleague provides beauty that can be used by designers. She went on to say that she is willing to do whatever it takes to ensure her customers are completely satisfied. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;I personally look forward to going to work every day. I leave the house with a sense of excitement on a daily basis and look forward to making a difference.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;The question I ask my self every day is, "What do I need to do today to service my clients in the best possible way, provide an environment so my staff experiences a partner relationship, can make a contribution, and are able leave at the end of the day energized, and create an environment where we all live and work each day like we are on vacation?"&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 09:37:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6669</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6647/Don-t-Do-This-If-You-Have-Too-Much-Business.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><title>Don’t Do This If You Have Too Much Business</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6647/Don-t-Do-This-If-You-Have-Too-Much-Business.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;As you may have observed I have been describing real life situations which I have experienced in my Blogs followed by an explanation of the business application. 

&lt;p&gt;At the bottom of each Blog there is an area for you to comment.&amp;nbsp; Enter your name, e-mail address and web site address along with your comment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;Now here comes the big question. &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Why should you comment?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Blog sphere is an internet environment that allows for an exchange of information on a particular posted topic. You may agree or disagree with the Blog. The idea is to create a conversation. Whether you agree or disagree it is always important to do it professionally.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;How do you benefit? By responding to my Blogs, people will read your responses and by doing so you will be putting your self in the public view. People could potentially contact you for your services or products. They may refer you to another person, you could be seen as an expert based on how you comment, and you could make a new friend or business acquaintance or even get business. Look at this as another opportunity to be in the public eye.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;YOU HAVE EVERTHING TO GAIN AND NOTHING TO LOSE AND IT IS FUN. GIVE IT A TRY NOW.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;Here is another tip. Create your blog in a word document and do a spell check. After the spell check, cut your response and paste it in the comments section. Check the box at the bottom that says, "Check here to get an e-mail when someone replies." When someone makes a contribution to the conversation you will be notified.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 10:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6647</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6567/What-I-Hate-About-Some-Salespeople.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>12</slash:comments><title>What I Hate About Some Salespeople</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6567/What-I-Hate-About-Some-Salespeople.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;On Monday I attended an &lt;a href="http://www.inboundmarketingsummit.com/" mce_href="http://www.inboundmarketingsummit.com/"&gt;inbound marketing conference&lt;/a&gt; in Boston. The first session started at 8:15am. Our lunch break started at 12:30. As I came out of the meeting room looking forward to the lunch break I was met by a salesperson who had up until that time attended to her trade show booth. 
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;As soon as she saw me, she swooped down on me and started her pitch.&amp;nbsp; She was just like a bird of prey after its' next meal. People were coming out of the room behind me; she was standing in front of me as I attempted to go to the buffet. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;As I moved toward the buffet table she continued to walk and talk, block and mentally tackle. She finally had to stop or she would have been pinned between the buffet table and another exhibit table. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;I don't have any idea what she was saying and quite frankly I did not care. All I could make out was her mouth was moving and noise coming out.&amp;nbsp; I believe she had said something that had to do with a Bow and Math. I wanted to have lunch and she did not care.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;The Top Performing Salesperson might have attempted to join us for lunch, made an attempt to establish a relationship, and been more strategic. The Top Performer might have said, "Am I getting you at a bad time?" Or possibly, "After lunch come visit me at my booth. I may have something you might be able to use to grow your business."&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p mce_keep="true"&gt;Hey lady, just because it was important to you, why do you think it was important to me? Get out of my face! Do you know what common courtesy is? You were so interested in what you wanted to sell you didn't give two hoots about me or my agenda. GRRRRR!!!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Here is your chance to tell the world what you hate about unprofessional salespeople. &amp;nbsp;Register your complaint now in the comments section to the right and we will post them on the web.&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 11:34:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6567</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6533/The-Salesperson-Said-I-Can-t-I-Said-You-Don-t-Know-How-Yet.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><title>“The Salesperson Said, “I Can’t.” I Said, “You Don’t Know How Yet.”</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6533/The-Salesperson-Said-I-Can-t-I-Said-You-Don-t-Know-How-Yet.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;In the film &lt;U&gt;"The Diving Bell and the Butterfly"&lt;/U&gt; the main character is completely paralyzed except for his hearing and the ability to blink his left eye. 
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;In order for him to communicate his attendant sounds out letters and when the correct letter is sounded out he blinks. The attendant writes the letters down to form the words and sentences. The attendant then reads the sentences to confirm the accuracy of the sentence. This great man has a physical handicap but not a mental handicap.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;As the movie progresses he writes a book. How? By blinking when the correct letter is sounded out to create a word, to create a sentence, to create a paragraph and then the book. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;The paralyzed man writes a book &lt;U&gt;ONE BLINK AT A TIME.&lt;/U&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Before we go to the business application I want to share with you, statements that I&amp;nbsp;used to&amp;nbsp;hear when I did sales training.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; "I can't get past the gate keeper."&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; "If I had a lower price I could sell it."&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; "Our brochure is out of date."&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; "They won't return my phone calls."&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; "I am not getting any leads from the company.'&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Etc., Etc., Etc.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;When I would hear these excuses I would tell the salespeople in training, "Don't tell me you can't. Just say you don't know how yet." Some people would say, yes, you are right, how do I change my thinking? Others would get upset and say, you don't understand.&amp;nbsp; What do you know about our business?"&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Here is the business application. If the salesperson believes they can't, they might as well&amp;nbsp;pack up their tent and go home. Nothing is going to happen, nothing is going to change. They have written the book of failure. When the salesperson says, "I don't know how &lt;B&gt;&lt;I&gt;&lt;U&gt;yet,&lt;/U&gt;"&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/B&gt; they have opened the door to exploration, opportunity and change.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 20:33:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6533</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6479/The-Dangers-in-The-Need-for-Approval-and-Business-Growth.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><title>The Dangers in The Need for Approval and Business Growth</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6479/The-Dangers-in-The-Need-for-Approval-and-Business-Growth.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;My grandfather was a wonderful man who taught me, along with his other grandchildren, through stories and parables. &amp;nbsp;Although he passed on many years ago, his stories still are in my heart and mind.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;He once told a story of an old man who traveled to town with his donkey and his grandchild.&amp;nbsp; As the old man and the child rode on the donkey they passed a merchant. The merchant saw the two riding on the donkey and said, "How can you put such a burden on that poor animal? &amp;nbsp;You both are strong and should walk beside the donkey." &amp;nbsp;The old man and the young boy dismounted. &amp;nbsp;As they continued, they passed another merchant who also had an opinion. "Why do the both of you walk when you can be riding on the donkey? &amp;nbsp;Surely one of you should ride the donkey." &amp;nbsp;With that the old man placed the young boy on the donkey and they proceeded toward town. &amp;nbsp;As they continued on their journey they passed yet another merchant who said, "Why is it that this young boy who has strong legs rides on the donkey while you, an old man, walk? &amp;nbsp;Surely you should ride the donkey." With that the old man took the young boy from the donkey and mounted the donkey himself. &amp;nbsp;Well, it wasn't long before they encountered another merchant who saw the old man riding the donkey and commented, "Why is it you ride the donkey and the boy walks? &amp;nbsp;You should both ride the donkey." &amp;nbsp;The old man now raised the boy upon the donkey and they both rode into town.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Now the old man was always well intentioned. &amp;nbsp;During his journey he spent much of his time responding to the wishes of others. &amp;nbsp;One could say it was more important to the old man to get the approval of others than to do what he thought was right. &amp;nbsp;By doing what others wanted him to do he gained their approval but was not true to his own truths. &amp;nbsp;He gave up what he believed was the correct way and did what he believed to have others think well of him.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Now what is the business application? &amp;nbsp;It is the &lt;U&gt;Need for Approval&lt;/U&gt;. When we test candidates prior to making recommendations to hire we screen for the Need for Approval. &amp;nbsp;When a salesperson has a Need for Approval there is a dramatic Impact.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P align=center&gt;&lt;B&gt;The Impact of Need for Approval&lt;/B&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;B&gt;Explanation: &amp;nbsp;When a candidate Needs Approval from prospects, their need to be liked, and in extreme cases, loved, is greater than their need to close business.&lt;/B&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;B&gt;Impact:&amp;nbsp; This candidate will avoid saying or doing those things which, in his/her mind, would change how the prospect feels about him/her.&amp;nbsp; This includes, but is not limited to tough questions, legitimate confrontation and the potential inability to handle rejection or a 'no'.&amp;nbsp; The result is that this candidate will develop pipeline &lt;BR&gt;bloat - prospects that remain in the pipeline with relatively few of them getting closed or eliminated.&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P align=center&gt;&lt;B&gt;Need for Approval is the second most powerful and &lt;BR&gt;most common weakness we find in salespeople.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/B&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;B&gt;Salespeople with this weakness are 35% less effective than salespeople with no need for approval. (Printed with permission from Objective Management).&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Hey, grandpa thanks for teaching me about &lt;U&gt;How the Need for Approval&lt;/U&gt; in sales doesn't work in growing your&amp;nbsp;business.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When I sat on your lap at the age of five did you know I was going to be in sales? &lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 15:03:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6479</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6424/The-Importance-of-Personal-Goals.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><title>The Importance of Personal Goals</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6424/The-Importance-of-Personal-Goals.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;This past weekend I had a conversation with my brother-in law. &amp;nbsp;His two girls are now in college and he and his wife are ‘Empty Nesters." &amp;nbsp;He seemed a little down as we discussed the "what now." &amp;nbsp;He had some short term goals, most of them related to socialization.&amp;nbsp; He did, however, have some additional goals that were two years out. 
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Many years ago, before my firm began using the OMG assessment tool, I personally completed an assessment. &amp;nbsp;The results came back which indicated I was not goal-oriented. &amp;nbsp;I had a hard time believing that because I saw myself as goal-oriented. &amp;nbsp;After reviewing the results I had a conversation with David Kurlan, the President of OMG.&amp;nbsp; During the conversation I shared all of my perceived personal goals with David. &amp;nbsp;Here were some of my goals&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;We want to travel to Europe.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;We want to ski in Switzerland.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;We want to live in a wooded lot with a good deal of acreage.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;We want to have children.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;There were many other &lt;B&gt;We&lt;/B&gt; goals that I discussed with David.&amp;nbsp; I will not bore you with all of the details but here is the bottom line of our conversation.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;David Kurlan said, "Al, I am all in favor of &lt;B&gt;We&lt;/B&gt; goals between you and your wife. &amp;nbsp;&lt;B&gt;We&lt;/B&gt; goals are very important, but there is more. &amp;nbsp;The &lt;B&gt;We&lt;/B&gt; goals you have are not &lt;B&gt;I&lt;/B&gt; or &lt;B&gt;Me&lt;/B&gt; Goals. &amp;nbsp;What about you, the &lt;B&gt;I&lt;/B&gt; goals? &amp;nbsp;&lt;B&gt;I&lt;/B&gt; goals are the goals we have for ourselves alone and are the goals that motivate us on a daily basis." &amp;nbsp;Much to my amazement I had none.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;David went on to explain that he wanted me to come up with some personal &lt;B&gt;I&lt;/B&gt; goals. &amp;nbsp;He also stipulated that the personal goals had to be in addition to the &lt;B&gt;We&lt;/B&gt; goals. We then made an appointment to discuss them two weeks later.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Over the next two weeks I had to come up with personal goals that neither compromised nor were in conflict with the &lt;B&gt;We&lt;/B&gt; goals.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;The day came when David Kurlan and I were scheduled to meet. &amp;nbsp;I shared my personal goals with David. &amp;nbsp;My assignment for the following thirty days was to focus on my personal goals on a daily basis. &amp;nbsp;The end result was the following month was the best month in new business I had ever had.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;The lessons I learned from that experience are as follows:&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;If I do not take care of me first, I can't take care of anyone else.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Taking care of me is not selfish.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Taking care of me is the fuel that gives me the energy to care for my clients and my loved ones.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If I am there for everyone except me, I will run out of fuel.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If I run out of fuel I will not be able to take care of my clients or loved ones.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Selfishness has not been defined properly.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Even when we think we are on top of our game, we need reminders. &amp;nbsp;Last Friday I went for an eye exam. &amp;nbsp;The doctor said, "Al, you have not been here in five years." &amp;nbsp;I was stunned. &amp;nbsp;It seemed like it had only been a year ago. &amp;nbsp;To my benefit my vision had not changed.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Here is my message:&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P align=center&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;I&gt;Have short term goals.&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P align=center&gt;&lt;B&gt;&lt;I&gt;Have long term goals.&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/B&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P align=center&gt;Take care of yourself so you can care for the people who are important in your life.&amp;nbsp; Don't take five years to take care of yourself, it may be too late.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;On a final note ~ &lt;I&gt;You are the most important person in the world for you and you are the most important person in the world for the people you care about. &amp;nbsp;If you are not taking care of you, you can't take care of anyone else. &amp;nbsp;Not your family, your staff or your clients.&amp;nbsp; What are you going to do for yourself today without compromising anything else? &lt;/I&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;I&gt;Make your comments and share them with everyone. You can be the one that makes the difference in someone else's life. Here is your opportunity. &amp;nbsp;Be the first to comment. &amp;nbsp;See below.&lt;/I&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 19:08:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6424</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6387/Growing-Your-Business-Are-You-Making-Things-Happen-or-Sitting-on-the-Bench.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><title>Growing Your Business “Are You Making Things Happen or Sitting on the Bench?”</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6387/Growing-Your-Business-Are-You-Making-Things-Happen-or-Sitting-on-the-Bench.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;On the way back from the Arcade one evening my son and I passed three teenagers sitting on a bench along the boardwalk. They could not have been more that fifteen years old. &amp;nbsp;Adam and I greeted them and they responded with a friendly, "Hi, where are you going? &amp;nbsp;We replied, "Going home, how about you?" &amp;nbsp;Their reply was, "We are waiting for some other kids to come by". &amp;nbsp;Here is how the conversation went on... 
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Us: &amp;nbsp;What kids?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Teenagers: &amp;nbsp;Oh, any kids.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Us: &amp;nbsp;Any kids?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Teenagers: &amp;nbsp;Yeah, we are just waiting for some kids to come by.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Us: &amp;nbsp;Really, why?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Teenagers: &amp;nbsp;So we can have some fun.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Us: &amp;nbsp;What do you mean by fun?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Teenagers: &amp;nbsp;We are waiting for some kids to come by so we can go to the Arcade or get some ice cream.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Us: &amp;nbsp;Well, what if they don't come by, then what?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Teenagers: &amp;nbsp;Well I don't know. &amp;nbsp;I guess we will do something.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Us: &amp;nbsp;Really, like what?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Teenagers: &amp;nbsp;I don't know. &amp;nbsp;I guess something.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;I could not resist the opportunity to get these incredible people in touch with who they are and what their capabilities are. &amp;nbsp;So, here is the message I delivered to them.&amp;nbsp; You can learn from it as well.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Do you know what an incredible being you are? &amp;nbsp;The day you were born you had no experience on this planet, you did not know the culture, could not speak the language, and did not have a network except for your family. You had no history and no belief systems. &amp;nbsp;All you had was YOU (who we will define later), your subconscious mind, your conscious mind, your body and the outside world. &amp;nbsp;Your subconscious mind is responsible for managing your bodily activities such as breathing, respiration, etc. Your conscious mind is where you store your knowledge and memories and where you do your cognitive processing of information. &amp;nbsp;So, who are you? &amp;nbsp;You are an incredible entity living on this planet dealing with life situations so you can get in touch with who you really are and what you are capable of.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Let's look at the first five years of your life. &amp;nbsp;You learned how to speak a language, manipulate your environment including your parents, ride a bike, use a computer, text message at lightning speed, go from crawling to running, and by the way never stopping because you fell a couple of times. &amp;nbsp;You were a master in your universe, were successful and never quit once. &amp;nbsp;THAT SPEAKS TO WHO YOU REALLY ARE.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;So, why are you waiting for something to happen? &amp;nbsp;Why aren't you doing what is so natural to you?&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;Doing so will make things happen.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;I thought their eyes were going to pop out of their heads. &amp;nbsp;I asked the question, "Am I making sense, am I getting through to you?" &amp;nbsp;Their reply was, "Mister, we get it.&amp;nbsp; You are so cool. Thanks, but you are so cool."&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;We never saw those teenagers again. &amp;nbsp;On the way home Adam said, "Dad, you are so cool.&amp;nbsp; That was so great.&amp;nbsp; You should write a book for kids so they can get it." &amp;nbsp;I replied, "Adam, I am.&amp;nbsp; And you are so cool too. &amp;nbsp;I will write the book and you do the drawings". Adam replied, "Can I make some money?" &amp;nbsp;At which I informed him he could.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Now, let's look at the business applications of this story. &amp;nbsp;First let's clarify something. &amp;nbsp;I do not sit in judgment nor am I voting. &amp;nbsp;I am raising what I believe to be an important point.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;How many people are out there waiting for the real estate business to change, the mortgage business to change, the election to happen, the economy to change, or for good news from Wall Street indicating things will change? &amp;nbsp;How many are sitting on the bench waiting for something to happen.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;How is it that there can be two salespeople in a company? &amp;nbsp;One is successful and the other is not. &amp;nbsp;Is it the economy, etc., or is it how they think, feel and act that makes the difference?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;How many are in touch with who you really are?&amp;nbsp; The YOU who &amp;nbsp;learned how to speak a language, manipulate your environment including your parents, ride a bike, use a computer, text message at lightning speed, go from crawling to running, and by the way never stopping because you fell a couple of times. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;You were a master in your universe, were successful and never quit once. &amp;nbsp;AND THAT STILL APPLIES NOW.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Don't let the illusions get in the way of what you are capable of. GO FOR IT, CARP DIEM.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 10:17:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6387</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6350/The-Wrong-Hiring-Criteria.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><title>The Wrong Hiring Criteria</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6350/The-Wrong-Hiring-Criteria.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&amp;nbsp; 
&lt;P&gt;A prospect went to our web site &lt;A href="http://www.turrisiassociates.com/" mce_href="http://www.turrisiassociates.com/"&gt;http://www.turrisiassociates.com&lt;/A&gt; looking for information on how to write an ad to hire salespeople. When I called the gentlemen he informed me he had targeted the mortgage industry. He went on to say the mortgage and real-estate business was in a downturn and salespeople were looking to leave.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When I asked the prospect what business he was in I was told he was a house builder. His plan was to write to mortgage company owners and recruit salespeople that wanted to leave the industry. He wanted salespeople that understood financing and real estate.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Let's pretend for a moment that a mortgage agency owner was to respond to his letter. Do you think for a moment an agency owner would be inclined to give out names of employees who were top performers or poor performers?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When&amp;nbsp; the criteria for hiring a salesperson is industry knowledge, I can't help feeling the focus is on presenting when it should be on Hunting for Prospects, Qualifying or Disqualifying Business Opportunities and the Closing of sales.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;In order for a salesperson to be successful the salesperson has to have a good balance of hunting skills,&amp;nbsp;qualifying skills and closing skills.&amp;nbsp; Without these skills the knowledge base of the salesperson is useless.&amp;nbsp; Especially when the opportunity is not qualified or disqualified properly.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;By way of example let's pretend that the salesperson was a big game hunter and knew everything about the use of their weapon, how to load it, how to aim it, and how to pull the trigger.&amp;nbsp; Without having the ability to tell the difference between a&amp;nbsp;bear and a cow the big game hunter would be unsuccessful in achieving&amp;nbsp;their goals or at best lucky from time to time.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;In selecting a candidate the candidate should be matched to the position based on their sales skills, strengths and compatibility to the position.&amp;nbsp; An example being if your salesperson is going to be calling on C-level executives in a highly competitive market and has&amp;nbsp;come from and industry where they called on low level managers and were the only game in town they would find it extremely difficult to be successful.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2008 08:25:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6350</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6320/The-Son-Becomes-the-Coach-of-the-Father-s-Success.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>5</slash:comments><title>“The Son Becomes the Coach of the Father’s Success”</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6320/The-Son-Becomes-the-Coach-of-the-Father-s-Success.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;My family and I spent the last two weeks at the Jersey shore.&amp;nbsp; We spent our days at the beach and our evenings either with friends, snuggling at home, taking walks on the beach or at the local arcade. 
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;At the arcade there was a game that required you to place a plunger into a cylinder.&amp;nbsp; The prizes went from a piece of candy to 500 points.&amp;nbsp; My son Adam was intrigued by the game and wanted me to play.&amp;nbsp; When we arrived at the game room he pointed out the game and kept saying, "Dad, you can do it, I know you can.&amp;nbsp; Just try, you can do it."&amp;nbsp; So, I tried the first few times and was unsuccessful.&amp;nbsp; Adam was right there, "Come on Dad. Try again.&amp;nbsp; I know you can do it.&amp;nbsp; Just move it a little to the right and a little lower.&amp;nbsp; Good, try it now."&amp;nbsp; Over a period of time I began to see why I was losing.&amp;nbsp; Then I began to see what I could do to win and then I did win.&amp;nbsp; The secret was to line the yellow bar with the center of a screw on the side of the game and place the gear in the center of the orange and green buttons.&amp;nbsp; There was little margin for error.&amp;nbsp; Over a period of two days I won ten times with a total accumulation of five thousand points.&amp;nbsp; Each time I won Adam was there to say, "See I told you Dad, I knew you could do it." All through my learning curve Adam never once called me on the carpet, never addressed what I did wrong, never put me on notice.&amp;nbsp; Do you know why?&amp;nbsp; Because he believed in me.&amp;nbsp; He knew I could do it and let me know.&amp;nbsp; When I failed he was there to remind me of what he believed I could do.&amp;nbsp; He was my coach and mentor.&amp;nbsp; Adam motivated and inspired me to go on when I was not succeeding.&amp;nbsp; He never got on my case.&amp;nbsp; As I continued to try and try again I developed a process that when duplicated would always produce the intended result. Although it was a game it became a game working at the game.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;One might say, "He is only a child, you would expect that from a child.&amp;nbsp; They get excited, they don't see the world the way it really is, but I am adult."&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Let's examine this.&amp;nbsp; He had a positive attitude.&amp;nbsp; He was there for me.&amp;nbsp; He was invested in my success.&amp;nbsp; If I succeeded he succeeded.&amp;nbsp; The level of confidence he has in me and his capacity to love me no matter what sometimes overwhelms me.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Now let's look at the business application of this event and the Vice Presidents of Sales &amp;amp; the Sales Manager positions.&amp;nbsp; Does the Manager see the role of a Manager to point out what the person did wrong, point out their failures, get on their case, put them on notice, and show them how to do it?&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;Or, should the Manager really care about the success of the salesperson.&amp;nbsp; I mean really care.&amp;nbsp; Should the Manager really believe in the person in the sales position and know their strengths and weaknesses?&amp;nbsp; Should the Manager be a coach and assist the salesperson in reaching higher levels of success?&amp;nbsp; Should the Manager be saying, "I know you could do it, come on try again.&amp;nbsp; See, I knew you could do it. YOU DID IT, I KNEW YOU COULD!!!" &lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 09:06:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6320</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6310/Important-Questions-Employers-Expect-From-Top-Performers.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><title>“Important Questions Employers Expect From Top Performers”</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6310/Important-Questions-Employers-Expect-From-Top-Performers.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&lt;P&gt;Today I received a call from a former client and current friend, Barry Farbstein of Premier Office Supply. He asked "What questions would you ask if you were applying for a position in a company?" As I thought about the question I came up with a number of questions, I as an employer would want a candidate to ask.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Let me first say good employers are looking for employees to help the company be successful. Strong employers are also interested in rewarding Top Performers.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;I am not interested in the candidate that wants to know how much vacation time they get, days off, etc. I am not discounting these items because they are important. The questions I am looking for are the ones that will indicate that I am having a conversation with a serious candidate. Here is a list of some of the questions I feel are important.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;OL type=1&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What is the vision the President has for the company?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Has the company grown over the past 3 to 5 years?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What has been the percentage of growth?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;How does the company stand up against the competition?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Who are the company's top three competitors?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What are the strengths and weaknesses of the competition?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What are the strengths and weaknesses of the employing company?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What percentage of the market does the company have?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What geography does the company sell into?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What is the profile of the ideal prospect?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What is the profile of the ideal customer?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What are the growth plans for the company for the next 3 to 5 years?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Is the position to be filled a new position or a vacant position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;How long has the position been open?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;How long was the former employee in the position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Why did the employee leave?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What are the responsibilities of the position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Who does the candidate report to?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;How long has the person they would be reporting to been in their position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What is that person's management philosophy?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Who else will the successful candidate interact with?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Can I meet with those people?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Do you hold staff meetings?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;May I attend one?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;How do you measure success in the position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What are the behaviors, personal attributes and motivators necessary to be successful in the position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Do you have a training program?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;Do you have a mentoring program?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What is your on board process?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What is the length of the learning curve for the position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What are the milestone steps for the position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;How often do you do reviews?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;What is the growth path for the position?&lt;/LI&gt;
&lt;LI&gt;How do you reward Top Performers?&lt;/LI&gt;&lt;/OL&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;To visit Barry's web site, go to &lt;A href="http://www.premieroffice.com/" mce_href="http://www.premieroffice.com/"&gt;http://www.premieroffice.com/&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 11:12:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6310</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6259/The-Power-of-Belief-and-Sales-Success.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>2</slash:comments><title>The Power of Belief and Sales Success</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6259/The-Power-of-Belief-and-Sales-Success.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;While debriefing a salesperson's evaluation there was an indication he had a number of Non-Supportive Beliefs. Non-Supportive beliefs have a way of neutralizing a salesperson's ability to perform correctly. In the case of this particular salesperson, he believed he could not get to the decision maker because the receptionist was not allowed to give out names of employees or departments. His actual statement was ‘I can't get their names; they won't give them to me." 
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;The key words in his statements that disempowered him were &lt;U&gt;I can't&lt;/U&gt; and &lt;U&gt;they won't&lt;/U&gt;. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When a salesperson says &lt;U&gt;they can't&lt;/U&gt; or&lt;U&gt; they won't&lt;/U&gt; they are done and there is no place for them to go except fold up their tent go home.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;What this sales person should have said is &lt;U&gt;I do not know how yet.&lt;/U&gt; This new statement is supportive because it opens the door to opportunity, exploration and new strategies.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I was once faced with the situation of finding a key executive in a fortune 500 company. I went to the web site and looked for any information on key executives in addition to board members. I also went on Google and looked for news about the company and found an article written by the President of European Operations. I called the corporate office in the United States asked to speak with president. I was given the president's executive secretary. When we spoke I told her the reason for my call. She in turn gave me the name of an executive in the United States who referred me to another executive who referred me to another. After fourteen referrals to people in the organization I was finally able to speak with the individual I needed to talk with. During the process I collected the names of fourteen executives and asked them if I could send them my newsletter which resulted in nine e-mail addresses. This was all driven by one of favorite mantras, "I don't know how yet, but I know I can figure it out."&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 19:02:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6259</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6218/How-to-Impress-a-New-Client-and-Have-Them-Tell-Everyone-They-Know-About-You.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>2</slash:comments><title>How to Impress a New Client and Have Them Tell Everyone They Know About You</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6218/How-to-Impress-a-New-Client-and-Have-Them-Tell-Everyone-They-Know-About-You.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;My family and I are the new proud owners of a Bose surround sound system. Being handy around the house I made the decision to do the install myself. At one point in the install I got stuck. I called the Bose store in the Short Hills Mall, New Jersey and spoke with Dave Cesaretti the store manager. 
&lt;P&gt;Dave helped me through the install. While Dave was helping me I looked at the clock and realized we had been on the phone for one hour and fifteen minutes. Feeling guilty I apologized for keeping him on the phone so long and suggested I get off since he had other customers in the store to help. I was in a state of total shock when Dave told me not to worry about it because the store had been closed for the past hour and a half and was happy to continue to help me until the system was up and running.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Now while Dave is the store manger he clearly has a Presidential Mindset. Dave in a sense is not selling stuff. Dave is building relationships, helping his customers and is committed to their enjoyment. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I am so impressed with his willingness to go above and beyond the call of duty.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When we look for Top Performers for our clients we look for people like Dave.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;The Top Performer is not just focused on the sale. They are focused on the customer having a positive experience. They want the customer to know they are important and the salesperson truly cares. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If you want to avoid hiring mistakes it is important to measure the attributes of the individual you are hiring. The attributes are what they bring to the table. In the case of Dave he is a perfect match for the job. He is patient, customer focused and a value added provider.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;To learn more about Bose Systems go to &lt;A href="http://www.bose.com/"&gt;Quality Service&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 10:57:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6218</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6190/How-to-Keep-Your-Customers-The-Value-of-Good-Customer-Service.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><title>How to Keep Your Customers &amp;The Value of Good Customer Service </title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/6190/How-to-Keep-Your-Customers-The-Value-of-Good-Customer-Service.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;Six years ago I had ten custom made shirts which I paid one hundred and twenty five dollars each.&amp;nbsp; When I went to pick them up at the dry cleaner they all had the same tear in the same place as a result of a machine malfunction.&amp;nbsp; Al gave me a credit of one thousand two hundred and fifty dollars on the spot and then offered to repair the damage which was under the collar and would go unnoticed. 
&lt;P&gt;This morning I picked up my dry cleaning at the local dry cleaner.&amp;nbsp; I could go to any one of six different establishments in our area but I have stayed with Al's dry cleaning over the years. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;This morning I said to Al "Al thank you so very much for what you do".&amp;nbsp; With his oriental accent he said yes, I clean your suits and shirts. I said no Al, you do more than that. You Al, because of what you do make sure I am always very presentable when I visit my clients. You also give me quality time to spend with my family. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;One could say Al is running a business that has become a commodity, or not. I recognize the value he brings into my life. He may not have.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Here is a more important question. How many salespeople do not see the contribution their service or product provides and because of that are willing to drop their price to get an order rather than sell a value proposition?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 22:22:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:6190</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5333/The-Case-of-the-Pushy-Not-So-Up-Front-Sales-Person.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><title>The Case of the Pushy Not So Up Front Sales Person</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5333/The-Case-of-the-Pushy-Not-So-Up-Front-Sales-Person.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&lt;p&gt;My wife and I have been looking for a leather sectional. We went to a local furniture store and found what we wanted. In addition to the sectional we also wanted an ottoman to place in front of the sectional so we could all stretch out while watching our favorite movies.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The sectional could be delivered in four days but the ottoman might take three to four months &lt;u&gt;if it was available&lt;/u&gt;. The sales person told us she could check to see if the ottoman was available but the vendor she deals with would not be motivated to give her info on the ottoman unless he knew she had closed us for the sectional. I told the sales person we wanted the sectional, would not sign the order form unless we knew we could have the ottoman as well. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The sales person &amp;nbsp;resisted and again insisted on her needing the order signed so she could use the order as leverage to get information we needed. Politely I let her know that getting the information I wanted was her problem and I would not give her an order without the information I needed.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now let's deal with reality. She wanted the order and tried to close as she should.&amp;nbsp; The mistake she made was to not take responsibility for her actions. She pretty much said, I am not powerful, I can't get the information you want, it is the order that will make the difference.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As a Top Performer she should have focused on why we wanted the sectional and gone to bat for us, her customer and cross sold us the ottoman. Furthermore, it was her responsibility to get the information. Doesn't the vendor's sales person work for her?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Let's hear your comments.....AGREE? &amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;DISAGREE?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 18:55:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:5333</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5270/The-200-00-Dollar-an-Hour-Guy-Who-Did-20-00-an-Hour-Work.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><title>The $200.00 Dollar an Hour Guy Who Did $20.00 an Hour Work</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5270/The-200-00-Dollar-an-Hour-Guy-Who-Did-20-00-an-Hour-Work.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&lt;U&gt;"I need to hire a sales person but I am so busy I have not been able to get to it."&lt;/U&gt; 
&lt;P&gt;This owner was very busy answering the phone, taking orders and completing requests for bids.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;We have a choice of working in our business or at our business. When we are not working at our business we do not put the energy into planning and strategizing. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When we are constantly working in our business we really only have a job and not a business.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 20:07:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:5270</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5091/Hiring-the-Right-Sales-Person-and-the-Value-Proposition.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><title>Hiring the Right Sales Person and the Value Proposition</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5091/Hiring-the-Right-Sales-Person-and-the-Value-Proposition.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;I visited two nurseries in our area intending to purchase eight seven foot Canadian Hemlock trees. The first nursery had six foot trees for $180.00 dollars each. I was told I had to remove the trees from the truck myself when delivered and move them to the location were they would be planted. I don't usually shop around, my time is very limited. I decided these people were not the company I wanted to do business with. 
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;The next nursery I visited had the seven foot trees and were $189 dollars each. The person taking care of me told me the driver and his helper would remove the trees from the truck and line the trees up seven feet apart in the location where they were to be planted. He also suggested I put two bags of soil that had been treated with fertilizer and mix it with our rocky soil for each tree. The person also explained how to plant the trees and how much and how frequently I should water the trees.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;When the sale and the delivery arrangements were completed I was so impressed with the service I received I asked the gentlemen if he was the owner. He told me he was not but loved trees and loved what he was doing.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P mce_keep="true"&gt;&lt;A class="" href="http://www.omghub.com/salesdevelopmentblog/tabid/5809/bid/253/10-Reasons-for-HR-and-Sales-Management-to-Hire-Winning-Salespeople-Using-Assessments.aspx" mce_href="http://www.omghub.com/salesdevelopmentblog/tabid/5809/bid/253/10-Reasons-for-HR-and-Sales-Management-to-Hire-Winning-Salespeople-Using-Assessments.aspx"&gt;Hiring the right person&lt;/A&gt; and matching them to a position is critical to achieving Top Performance in the Job. &lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 13:56:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:5091</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5081/The-Correct-Criteria-for-Hiring-Sale-People-YOU-CAN-T-MAKE-THIS-STUFF-UP.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><title>The Correct Criteria for Hiring Sale People ……YOU CAN’T MAKE THIS STUFF UP</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/5081/The-Correct-Criteria-for-Hiring-Sale-People-YOU-CAN-T-MAKE-THIS-STUFF-UP.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;A prospect went to our web site www.turrisissociates.com looking for information on how to write an ad to hire sales people. When I called the gentlemen he informed me he had targeted the mortgage industry. He went on to say the mortgage and real-estate business was in a down turn and sales people were looking to leave.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When I asked the prospect what business he was in I was told he was a house builder. His plan was to write to mortgage company owners and recruit sales people that wanted to leave the industry. He wanted sales people that understood financing and real estate.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Let's pretend for a moment that a mortgage agency was to respond to his letter. Do you think for a moment am agency owner would be inclined to give out names of employees who were top performers or poor performers&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;When&amp;nbsp; the criteria for hiring a sales person is industry knowledge, I can't help feeling the focus is on presenting when it should be on Hunting for prospects, Qualifying or Disqualify Business Opportunities and the Closing of sales.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 23:32:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:5081</guid></item><item><comments>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/4863/Cold-Calls-as-A-Strategy.aspx#Comments</comments><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><title>Cold Calls as A Strategy</title><link>http://www.turrisiassociates.com/blog/tabid/72214/bid/4863/Cold-Calls-as-A-Strategy.aspx</link><description>&lt;br&gt;&lt;P&gt;I recently had lunch with the president of a mid-size company. &amp;nbsp;During the course of the meal the subject of cold calls came up. &amp;nbsp;I asked the president if he ever accepted cold calls.&amp;nbsp; His response was that he was too busy and therefore, would not. &amp;nbsp;The president from another company indicated that usually he did not accept the calls unless the caller was persistent. &amp;nbsp;Yet another company executive said he would if he recognized the name or if the caller left a message that led him to believe the caller understood his business and could contribute value.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;On another occasion I had the opportunity to ask a purchasing agent the same question. &amp;nbsp;He informed me that he always accepts cold calls.&amp;nbsp; He further explained that he was always willing to set up a meeting because he was always on the lookout for new products and services or for better pricing.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;My own experience has taught me that it takes a minimum of ten to fourteen calls before reaching the president.&amp;nbsp; I vary my calls by the day of the week as well as the time of the day and my message is always different.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;If you are interested in reaching presidents of companies call consistently, vary the days and times of your calls, let them know you are there for them and not for yourself and be wary of purchasing agents.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><dc:creator>Al Turrisi</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 15:51:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">f1397696-738c-4295-afcd-943feb885714:4863</guid></item></channel></rss>
