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		<title>Check Your Ego At The Door</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 21:41:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>Let’s talk a little about relationships today…
Anyone who has read me knows that there is something I say over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and to truly be able to love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let’s talk a little about relationships today…</p>
<p>Anyone who has read me knows that there is something I say over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and to truly be able to love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an amazing relationship, but it’s equally critical to maintaining and continually improving a relationship once you’re already in it.</p>
<p>Nothing will kill a relationship (even the best of relationships) more quickly than ego. Here are 6 ways your ego can kill your relationship, and how to avoid having your ego ruin your relationship.</p>
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<p><strong>1.Resist The Temptation To Defend Yourself:</strong> Think about the number of times you’ve fought with a significant other, and whenever things get a little heated you start to defend yourself. All you hear is you being attacked, and you immediately go into “defending yourself” mode. Do you know that when you defend yourself in a fight, what’s really happening is your ego is defending itself.</p>
<p>It also means that you’ve stopped listening to the other person.  If someone tells you that they don’t like the way you’ve been acting lately, why not hear them out instead of defending yourself? It will almost always create a MUCH better outcome.</p>
<p><strong>2.To Love Yourself And Someone Else Completely You Must Separate The Ego:</strong> In order to truly love someone, you must separate your ego from yourself. This is also true if you want to be able to totally love yourself. Now, I know that in a perfect world, we would never be ego-driven. This is not a perfect world of course, so let’s get real. We are all ego-driven to some extent or another, so let’s acknowledge it and embrace that we need to separate the ego to cultivate and maintain a truly amazing relationship with someone.</p>
<p><strong>3.Your Ego Can Ruin Any Conversation:</strong> The truth is that no matter how much you prepare, plan and hope for a good conversation with your significant other, your ego is the one thing that will consistently ruin any conversation you’re about to have if you let it.</p>
<p>Let’s say your significant other is frustrated with you in one way or another and really needs to express something about that to you. How do you respond? If you let your ego get involved and you defend yourself, it means that you’re not listening to them.</p>
<p>In order to really listen to somebody, it’s uncomfortable.  Sometimes your significant other has things that are really bothering them about which they want to talk to you, but which you would rather not hear. To maintain a great relationship, however, you can’t let your ego keep you from really listening.</p>
<p><strong>4.You Have To Be Willing To Drop The Ego And Learn To Have A Healthy Relationship:</strong> If you want to really be able to get deep with someone and take your relationship to a deep level, then you need to be able to take your ego out of the equation. You will always attract somebody who is just like yourself, because you really attract who you are as a person.  Also, your significant other is going to do things that you don’t recognize.  It may be voices, patterns, communication styles or other things with which you aren’t familiar.</p>
<p>You need to be open and able to learn these things about your significant other, and your ego will keep you from doing this every time. All of us need to learn things about our significant other every single day.  We need to learn our significant other’s communication style, because many times your communication styles will be very different.</p>
<p><strong>5.Dropping The Ego Doesn’t Mean You Need To Change Who You Are:</strong> It can take a lot for you to drop the ego, really listen to your significant other and realize that they need you say something in a different way or understand how the way you communicate may make them feel a certain way. A lot of people misunderstand these kind of requests as being their significant other’s attempt to change them. It’s not.</p>
<p>They’re not trying to change you, they are trying to improve the way you communicate with each other. They are trying to get the two of you to be able to communicate better than you ever have in the past. Don’t let your ego get in the way. Embrace this!</p>
<p><strong>6. Ego Causes Those “Low Blowers” Which Are The Biggest Relationship Killers</strong>: Do you get frustrated when you’re having an argument with a significant other? Of course, we all do. When that happens, though, sometimes the ego will cause you to hurl what I call “low blowers” at the other person.</p>
<p>You’re feeling hurt, so you lash out and say something you know will make the other person hurt too. It was not only hurtful, but inevitably something stupid. By listening to your significant other, instead of lashing out from your ego, you can get through an argument without these low blows and they will be much more constructive (and not destructive to your relationship).</p>
<p>So the next time you see your ego getting involved in your relationship, get rid of it! If you find yourself defending yourself or not allowing you to really listen, then you need to take a step back. Listen carefully to what’s really being said, and use it to create the most amazing relationship.</p>
<p><strong>Read more from David Wygant at his <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/davidwygant/">website</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>Love Systems On Tyra Banks Show</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 01:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>Like what Love Systems has to offer? Check out &amp;#8220;Magic Bullets&amp;#8220;, it&amp;#8217;s the essential pickup guide.

I asked Nick Savoy about his experience on the Tyra Banks Show:
Q.  What was the audience reaction to you?
A.  At first the audience felt little skeptical.  Tyra is all about empowering women.  I think that’s great, [...]</description>
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<p>Like what Love Systems has to offer? Check out &#8220;<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems/">Magic Bullets</a>&#8220;, it&#8217;s the essential pickup guide.</p>
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<p>I asked Nick Savoy about his experience on the Tyra Banks Show:</p>
<p><strong>Q.  What was the audience reaction to you?</strong></p>
<p><strong>A.</strong>  At first the audience felt little skeptical.  Tyra is all about empowering women.  I think that’s great, but some people misinterpret empowering women as being against the Love Systems movement. </p>
<p>Of course, that’s backwards, because Love Systems is all about what works and what beautiful women respond to in the real world.  If women responded to men eating ice cream, Love Systems would be run a Baskin Robbins franchise.  But women respond to the techniques of the Love Systems Triad – our original model of dating and seduction.  So that’s what we teach and what we use ourselves. </p>
<p><strong>Q.  What do you think Tyra Banks was trying to accomplish by having you on the show?</strong></p>
<p><strong>A.</strong>  I think it was a mix of entertainment, curiosity, and giving her audience a bit of insight on how men about dating and relationships.  But I’m not really sure – her people didn’t try to script us.</p>
<p>I think she wanted to show both extremes – first a guy who could be attractive to women but doesn’t get what he wants because he doesn’t know how to get women to respond to him.  And then guys like Braddock or myself who were once in that position, studied Love Systems, and are living life the way we want to. </p>
<p><strong>Q.  Why did you take Braddock this time?  You went on the Dr Phil Show with The Don…</strong></p>
<p><strong>A. </strong> Any of the eight lead Love Systems instructors could have handled it, but it was really time to unleash <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/02/01/interview-with-braddock-of-love-systems/">Braddock</a>.  Everyone is talking about him as the next big thing with all of his breakthroughs in the pickup artist / dating coaching world.   His teaching gets amazing reviews. </p>
<p>I’ve noticed that all of the big names in dating have a signature event.  <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/18/cajun-seduction-masters-interview/">Cajun has Keys to the VIP</a>.  <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/04/09/the-mystery-method-and-ross-jefferies-on-dr-phil-this-friday/">The Don has Dr Phil</a>.  <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/07/14/soul-pua-infield-day-game-video/">Soul has his pickup video</a> (and a bunch more in the Love Systems Pickup Video Channel.  Fivepointzero has a TV show of him actually training rock stars on Love Systems.  And so on.</p>
<p>So Tyra Banks was a great fit, and a good opportunity to put Braddock to the test.  After Friday, he won’t be much of a secret any more. </p>
<p><strong>Q.  Some people say that by explaining Love Systems to a mostly-female TV audience lessens the power of the secret techniques you teach.  How would you respond?</strong></p>
<p><strong>A. </strong> That’s old-school thinking.  Sure, if you peacock like it’s a dress code and you use the same five routines over and over and then women see that, they won’t be interested.  I don’t think most people can get good results today from dressing and acting like the VH-1 show, even though I was consultant on the first season.  Before it aired, you could.  Game is different now.</p>
<p>Techniques like the Love Systems Triad (LST) are so effective in part because a woman can know exactly what you’re doing and it will still work.  No woman in the world is going to say “you have great body language; this must be a trick” or “you have great social intelligence and know exactly how to convey your good qualities without bragging – I don’t want anything to do with you”.  Sure there’s a lot of secret sauce that goes into Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method Corp) bootcamps, but you’ll notice none of that hits the air.</p>
<p>Just last week actually a woman journalist came to one of The Don’s bootcamps (<a href="http://www.asylum.com/2009/07/08/pickup-tips-from-pickup-boot-camp/">source</a>).  Not only did she agree with a lot of Love Systems, but she also admitted that <em>&#8220;I have to admit that a lot of the routines, as delivered by the experienced instructors, would totally have worked on me in a bar&#8221;  </em></p>
<p><em>Nick Savoy is President and Program Leader of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems">Love Systems</a> (the old Mystery Method Corp).  The Tyra Banks show airs on Friday, July 17th. </em></p>
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		<title>Soul PUA Infield Day Game Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 00:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>Soul, of Love Systems, has this footage of him approaching women and some background on himself as a day game coach. I found his day game approach, easy going, casual and low pressure, this tends to suit many guys when there aren&amp;#8217;t many other guys distracting the girl you&amp;#8217;re after. Turn it up a little [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Soul, of <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/lovesystems/">Love Systems</a>, has this footage of him approaching women and some background on himself as a day game coach. I found his day game approach, easy going, casual and low pressure, this tends to suit many guys when there aren&#8217;t many other guys distracting the girl you&#8217;re after. Turn it up a little for those women that tend to be ADHD. =)</p>
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		<title>Progress &amp; End Results</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 02:39:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>I&amp;#8217;ve broken up with my girlfriend and have been getting back into the game. So, kinda starting from scratch because we dated so long. 
BUT&amp;#8230;
I&amp;#8217;ve really noticed something.
I think it might be a GUY thing to do, that most MEN do without knowing it&amp;#8230;
We like the END RESULT.
We go after the END RESULT.
What we don&amp;#8217;t [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve broken up with my girlfriend and have been getting back into the game. So, kinda starting from scratch because we dated so long. </p>
<p>BUT&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve really noticed something.</p>
<p>I think it might be a GUY thing to do, that most MEN do without knowing it&#8230;</p>
<p>We like the END RESULT.</p>
<p>We go after the END RESULT.</p>
<p>What we don&#8217;t realize is, that when we don&#8217;t get that END RESULT&#8230; QUICKLY&#8230; we tend to get discouraged. </p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the solution?</p>
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<p>I think the solution is focusing on the micro-results. </p>
<p>E.g. Get a girl laughing<br />
E.g. Get a girl having a fun time with you<br />
E.g. Get a girls phone number</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t worry about the end result just yet. Let&#8217;s focus on the beginning phases. It will build your confidence FAST. It will also make you more attractive.  So&#8230; don&#8217;t be discouraged, just RE-FOCUS.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be thinking about 3-somes. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be thinking about getting an instant makeout.</p>
<p>Just be focused with approaching and saying &#8220;HI&#8221; or &#8220;Having a good night?&#8221;</p>
<p>And PROGRESS.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s how you become confident and excited. </p>
<p>You build on small micro-goals.</p>
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		<title>Does It Ever Fizzle Out After A Great Pickup?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 22:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>I&amp;#8217;m Nick Savoy, and I run Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method Corp) and if you feel a solid &amp;#8220;pickup&amp;#8221; slipping away, keep these three rules handy. 
SECRET #1: Bait, don&amp;#8217;t chase
When a woman seems to be slipping away, most guys (at least most guys who don&amp;#8217;t know Love Systems) will chase her harder. She didn&amp;#8217;t [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m Nick Savoy, and I run Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method Corp) and if you feel a solid &#8220;pickup&#8221; slipping away, keep these three rules handy. </p>
<p><strong>SECRET #1: Bait, don&#8217;t chase</strong></p>
<p>When a woman seems to be slipping away, most guys (at least most guys who don&#8217;t know Love Systems) will chase her harder. She didn&#8217;t answer the last text? Call her! Phone calls are short? Ask her out! </p>
<p>It&#8217;s logical, but counter-productive.</p>
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<p>You want her to invest her time and emotional energy in you. But once you&#8217;ve asked her a couple of times, continuing to push the same offer on her will make her want it (and you) LESS. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s the same with any kind of investment. Let&#8217;s say your friend Joe wants you to invest in his new business. You keep dodging the question but Joe keeps asking or hinting at it. The more he does this, the more SURE you are that you don&#8217;t want to invest. And after a while, you stop answering Joe&#8217;s calls because you smell his agenda a mile away. </p>
<p><strong>A BETTER WAY</strong></p>
<p>What if Joe recognized that you didn&#8217;t want to invest. Instead of pressuring you, he backed off, talked about other things, and only casually once in a while referred to his business but without asking you for anything. It sounds like it&#8217;s doing well, and one day he invites you to drop by and visit.</p>
<p>Well, you can do that can&#8217;t you? And if you liked what you saw, what&#8217;s going to happen next? You&#8217;ll probably ask HIM if he&#8217;s interested in more investors. Just like a beautiful woman will often start hinting at date opportunities and places to meet up when you&#8217;ve got some emotional momentum going.</p>
<p>The first key is to LOWER THE INVESTMENT LEVEL YOU ARE ASKING OF HER. There are many ways to do this, depending on the situation, but here are some of the big ones:</p>
<li>Texts instead of phone calls
<li>Light, fun conversation instead of serious topics
<li>Conversation for the sake of it alone instead of making plans
<li>Shorter rather than longer phone calls (and text messages)
<p>In summary &#8211; take a step back, make sure she&#8217;s with you, and then start going forward and building momentum again&#8230; together. </p>
<p><strong>SECRET #2: Be in the moment<br />
</strong><br />
Tell me if this story sounds familiar. You met a woman you&#8217;re interested in. She is all over you, insists you take her number, promises to make you dinner this weekend and implies that she might be the desert&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; but it&#8217;s not that same girl when (if?) you get her on the phone. She&#8217;s actually busy this weekend and doesn&#8217;t suggest another date.</p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s not fair, is it?</p>
<p>Darn right it isn&#8217;t. Before I learned Love Systems and changed my life around, this used to get me so frustrated. Sometimes I&#8217;d even call the girl and ask what the heck happened. (There&#8217;s no point doing that either.)</p>
<p>To explain what&#8217;s going on and what to do, I&#8217;m going to take you on a little detour.</p>
<p>I love playing board games. It&#8217;s a very nerdy hobby &#8211; I&#8217;m not talking about games people know, like Trivial Pursuit or Monopoly. I&#8217;m talking about games no one has heard of &#8211; detailed games re-fighting ancient wars, and so on.</p>
<p>(Obviously, this isn&#8217;t something most women can relate to. But, it&#8217;s my hobby and I&#8217;m passionate about it. Since women are attracted by emotion, not logic (you should know this), the average swimsuit model will genuinely prefer to hear me passionately talk about board games and why I love them more than Mr. Generic boring her droning on about his cars and money. Like Love Systems expert Mr. M wrote recently that she feels what you feel. I&#8217;ll take passionate over bored any day.)</p>
<p>Anyway&#8230; there&#8217;s one game I used to play a lot called Diplomacy. It&#8217;s a game of negotiation, betrayal, and intrigue, with a bit of military strategy thrown in. I used to be fairly good, but not great. At tournaments, I&#8217;d often get to the &#8220;final table&#8221; (the top seven players, since it&#8217;s a seven-player game) and just as often be one of the first players eliminated.</p>
<p>Almost ten years ago, at the World Boardgaming Championships (yes, it does exist), I deliberately got a previous year&#8217;s champion drunk so he&#8217;d tell me my flaw. See, one of the lessons I learned in school from a Goldman Sachs guest lecturer was &#8220;Alcohol Works.&#8221; I stick with good advice wherever I find it.</p>
<p>My flaw? Not strategy. Not tactics. Not negotiation.</p>
<p>Optimistic self-delusion.</p>
<p>He told me he could pull the wool over my eyes by figuring out what it was that I wanted to believe, and then use that against me while he prepared to stab me in the back. If I was playing France and I really wanted to believe that my English ally wasn&#8217;t about to attack me, then I&#8217;d believe just about any explanation the English player would give me&#8230; Before he stuck the knife in.</p>
<p>&#8220;Play the board as it is, not how you want it to be.&#8221; </p>
<p>Board games are silly, but the lesson isn&#8217;t. It&#8217;s funny how many times I&#8217;ve repeated that exact phrase without anyone asking where or what this &#8220;board&#8221; was about. But the meaning is clear, and very applicable to Love Systems.</p>
<p>The woman you want was all over you last night? That was last turn. Board&#8217;s changed. </p>
<p>A woman is in your neighborhood and wants to come over tonight after being standoffish for weeks? Board&#8217;s changed. Tomorrow she might not want to. You&#8217;ll get nowhere by saying &#8220;but last night you wanted to,&#8221; at least no further than I&#8217;d get in a Diplomacy game saying &#8220;but last turn you didn&#8217;t have an army next to Paris.&#8221; </p>
<p><strong>SECRET #3: Know Your Moves<br />
</strong><br />
The great thing about Love Systems being &#8220;bottom up&#8221; &#8211; we start by figuring out what works and only THEN put theories and structure on top of it &#8211; is that literally every part of attracting beautiful women can be made easier.</p>
<p>So, even with something as specific as how to get a girl who has drifted way back in the orbit, there&#8217;s a body of Love Systems knowledge. There are even a bunch of specific texts and things to say on the phone in the Phone and Text Game chapter of the Love Systems Routines Manual. </p>
<p>But I&#8217;ll give you a classic one, right now, with my compliments: </p>
<p>&#8220;I just met your twin.&#8221; </p>
<p>This works whether you haven&#8217;t talked in months or whether you just want to spark some energy. It doesn&#8217;t require major investment on her part. It implies that you are meeting other women and if some of them are similar to her and responding to you, maybe she should make her move now before you get away. </p>
<p>This is something impossible to say directly and difficult to convey&#8230; which makes this such a powerful text. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a strange phenomenon, but women are more interested in you if they know that other women are interested in you too. We call this &#8220;Pre-selection&#8221; and it is one of the eight basic ways to attract beautiful women. This was first explained in my book, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mysterymethod/">Magic Bullets</a> (<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/magic-bullets-by-savoy-review/">Magic Bullets Review</a>), and then discussed in our Interview Series volumes <strong>Introduction to Attraction</strong> (Savoy and The Don), <strong>Identity</strong> (<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/02/18/tenmagnet-seduction-masters-interview/">Tenmagnet</a>, <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/03/28/sinn-seduction-masters-interview/">Sinn</a>, and Future), and <strong>Female Psychology</strong> (Savoy and Soul). </p>
<p>Whether you already have a set of go-to moves that work all the time for you or whether you are using the phone and text game routines from Volume 2 of the <a href="http://www.lovesystems.com/pages/affiliate_link.php?f=/routines-manual/&#038;kbid=2590&#038;m=122" rel="nofollow">Love Systems Routines Manual</a> (<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/mystery-method-routines-book-review/">Routines Manual Review</a>), make sure you track your results!</p>
<p>The ideas and strategies that work &#8211; those are your moves. That&#8217;s how you&#8217;ll learn.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 01:22:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Wygant</dc:creator>
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		<description>here’s something about holidays that bring out the worst in people. Now don&amp;#8217;t read this and think I’m some sour, crusty old man who is a Grinch and who steals people&amp;#8217;s pumpkins at Halloween. I need to let you know, however, that in terms of a social opportunity I think holidays are for amateurs.
Everybody gears [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>here’s something about holidays that bring out the worst in people. Now don&#8217;t read this and think I’m some sour, crusty old man who is a Grinch and who steals people&#8217;s pumpkins at Halloween. I need to let you know, however, that in terms of a social opportunity I think holidays are for amateurs.</p>
<p>Everybody gears up for three days out of the year: Halloween, New Year&#8217;s Eve and The 4th of July. The drunken women who are counting down “5 &#8230; 4 &#8230; 3 &#8230; 2 &#8230; 1 &#8230;” are the same drunken women who are going “Woo Hoo!” when the fireworks go off on The 4th of July, and they are the same drunken women who dress up in the hooker outfits for Halloween to tease all the men (and who you will see throwing up in the corner into a big plastic pumpkin!)</p>
<p>Holidays are a blast . . . hanging out with friends, barbecuing, sucking down a few beers, getting corn stuck in your teeth, and eating some low-quality hamburger meat. But searching for and thinking that a magical party on The 4th of July is going to yield you the social results that have evaded you the rest of the year is a crock of shit! The 4th of July is just one day. The expectations on holidays never equal the results.</p>
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<p>In order to create real fireworks in your life, you need to be working on your flirting skills every day. Even if you are at the coolest party on The 4th of July, you&#8217;re still bringing your lack of social skills with you. There’s no magic . . . in order to meet the opposite sex, you have to work on those skills every single day.</p>
<p>Have a great and rewarding 4th of July!  You need to realize that you better start learning how to flirt and how to meet people every single day. Otherwise, come Halloween you&#8217;re going to be the one puking in the plastic pumpkin. </p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 20:32:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>I just got off the phone with a really cool guy who is going to be taking a Bootcamp.  During our conversation, we got into the topic of expectations.
So many people have expectations about their life.  They think, &amp;#8220;If I take this job, my life is going to be so much easier&amp;#8221; or [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just got off the phone with a really cool guy who is going to be taking a Bootcamp.  During our conversation, we got into the topic of expectations.</p>
<p>So many people have expectations about their life.  They think, &#8220;If I take this job, my life is going to be so much easier&#8221; or &#8220;If I learn how to talk to women, my life is going to be so much better.&#8221;</p>
<p>What having expectations really means is that you&#8217;re not living in the present, because life is never what you think it&#8217;s going to be.  Life is never exactly what your expectations envision.</p>
<p>Ask yourself these questions: Is your life exactly what you thought it was going to be?  Did your career go exactly according to plan?  Did your marriage go exactly according to plan?  Are you making the exact amount of money you thought you&#8217;d make?  Are you living in the exact type of home you thought you&#8217;d buy?</p>
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<p>Every time we take on a new task, we take on expectations.  I&#8217;ve heard guys say things like &#8220;I&#8217;m going to learn to meet women, and then meet ten women every day.&#8221;  Anytime you have expectations, though, you are going to be let down.  Having expectations means you are not living in the present and in the moment.</p>
<p>The only way to live is in the present . . . every minute and every second of every day.  If you&#8217;re living in the present, life is going to come to you.  When you have expectations, you are not living in the present.</p>
<p>The less you expect from life, the more you will receive in life.  The only way to live is in the present.</p>
<p>If you get a new job, just go in there and kick ass every second of every day.  If you want to meet women, go out there and enjoy every moment of every day.</p>
<p>When you have expectations, what happens is that you are putting pressure on yourself.  You will not be able to concentrate on what&#8217;s happening in the moment because you are going to be comparing the actual moment with how you expected the moment to be.  The problem is that expectations are almost always far greater (or at the very least different) than what&#8217;s really happening.</p>
<p>I know so many guys who allow their expectations to distort their perception of their day.  They&#8217;ll think, &#8220;Wow, I only talked to three women today and I wanted to talk to ten.&#8221;  So they are looking at their day as a failure instead of embracing what a great day it was.  They look at their day as a failure because it didn&#8217;t match their expectations.</p>
<p>Not only can expectations negatively affect and distort how you view what&#8217;s happening around you, but they can also affect how people interact with you.  When you have expectations (and thus are not present), people around you will see that you&#8217;re not present and will respond to you in a much different way than if you were completely present and in the moment when you were around them.</p>
<p>When you are not present, you are manifesting your own results.  You will project a closed energy and not be attracting people to you like you otherwise would.  You will end up missing the true energy of life.</p>
<p>Think about how you have seen this happen in your own life.  How many times have you gotten really excited about a certain party?  You have all these expectations about what the party will be like, who will be there, and what kind of experience the party will be for you.</p>
<p>More often than not, you don&#8217;t really have a great time at these events because of all the expectations you had.  Think if you had just gone to that same party with no expectations and planned to just enjoy yourself.  Think how many of those nights might have turned out differently.</p>
<p>How about on dates?  Do you think that expectations might have played a role in the outcome of some of your dates?  Think how many times you went out on your dates with high expectations, only to realize that you don&#8217;t even really like the person.</p>
<p>So take a look at your life and take a look at your expectations, and tell me if they&#8217;ve ever matched.  The amazing thing about life is all the great little surprises that happen when you&#8217;re present in the moment.</p>
<p><strong>Learn more from David Wygant by getting his latest book, &#8220;<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/davidwygant/">Date To Win</a>&#8220;.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 10:31:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>This was taken from the Stylelife Academy newsletter. Great stuff on there sometimes.
Here are some tips to make your party an event to remember.
Plan Your Guest List
You need a vibrant, interesting mix of people in order to have a successful party. This often means looking beyond your Fave Five. Certainly, invite your best friends. But [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was taken from the Stylelife Academy newsletter. Great stuff on there sometimes.</p>
<p>Here are some tips to make your party an event to remember.</p>
<p><strong>Plan Your Guest List</strong></p>
<p>You need a vibrant, interesting mix of people in order to have a successful party. This often means looking beyond your Fave Five. Certainly, invite your best friends. But mix in people that maybe you don’t know quite as well. Try to include one new acquaintance for every two close friends that you invite. Doing so, will expand your social circle and ensure that people at your party don&#8217;t get bored by seeing the same old people.</p>
<p>Leading up to your event, include women you meet out socializing. When you&#8217;re preparing for the party, be sure to be in the proper frame of mind and ready to act on any opportunity that arises.</p>
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<p><strong>Pitch Your Event</strong></p>
<p>You’re well beyond the days of calling a friend and saying, &#8220;Wanna hang out, dude?&#8221; Instead, you need to properly invite people to your party. Everyone is busy these days, especially on a holiday. So you need to make your party stand out. Make it something they can&#8217;t bear to miss.</p>
<p>You can make your party stand out by sending invites. These don’t have to be stodgy, engraved invitations. You can use an online service such as Evite or even a mass Facebook event message. But don’t just expect your pals to spread the word about your event. If you&#8217;re not going to send invitations in some manner, then you should at least personally call your guests.</p>
<p>Prepare an interesting name for your event, or a tagline. Use this in your invitations and phone calls to guests. You could use &#8220;Festival on the Fourth&#8221; or even &#8220;Fireworks, Fun, and Fajitas!&#8221; The point is to make your party sound fun, entertaining, and to differentiate it from everything else going on that day.</p>
<p><strong>Plan Your Party</strong></p>
<p>Don&#8217;t leave your guests hungry or thirsty. Prepare in advance so someone isn&#8217;t having to dash out in the middle of the party to hit the nearby 7-11. According to Martha Stewart, &#8220;For cocktail parties, allow for a pound of ice for each guest, as well as three drinks&#8230;per person for a two hour party.&#8221; So plan your supplies accordingly.</p>
<p>And don&#8217;t forget to account for all your guests drinking and eating habits either. Make sure your beverages contain a good mix of alcoholic and non-alcoholic options such as soda and bottled water. For your food, be sure to include vegetables and non-meat options in case any vegetarians attend.</p>
<p><strong>Grilling and Chilling</strong></p>
<p>Food sizzling on an open flame goes hand in hand with celebrating the Fourth of July. So whether the party is at your house or you&#8217;re gathering friends at a local park, be sure to throw some meat on the barbecue.</p>
<p>Select foods that make sense for your party. Informal gatherings are great for burgers and hot dogs. If you&#8217;re hosting a more upscale affair, then steak and seafood are probably more appropriate.</p>
<p>The single biggest mistake people make when grilling is overcooking the food. Many professional chefs advise touching the steak to test how done it is.</p>
<p>Rare: Touch your thumb and forefinger together so you form a circle. Press on the fleshy pad under your thumb, next to your palm. It should be soft and a little bouncy. This is how a rare steak feels.</p>
<p>Medium: Touch your thumb and middle finger together and press on the fleshy pad under your thumb. There should be some give and it should feel springy to the touch. This is how a medium steak feels.</p>
<p>Well-Done: Touch your thumb and little finger together. Press on the fleshy pad below your thumb. There should be no give and it&#8217;s very firm. This is how a well-done steak feels.</p>
<p><strong>Party Fireworks</strong></p>
<p>The use of fireworks in celebrating the Fourth of July goes all the way back to the very first anniversary after the signing of the Declaration of Independence. Founding Father John Adams wrote to this wife that &#8220;guns, bells, bonfires, and illuminations&#8221; should be used throughout the country.</p>
<p>Today, obviously, fireworks are still used in celebrating the holiday. However, laws and legal statutes vary widely. Research your local area and find the perfect spot to watch the public fireworks display with that special someone. The rewards that night will be worth the extra effort.</p>
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		<description>My buddy Christian Hudson&amp;#8217;s (used to work with Juggler) has released a new program, &amp;#8220;Unbreakable Game and Confidence&amp;#8221;.  
I received quite a few emails about this program &amp;#8211; you guys could tell that it was different and that a lot of thought has gone into it.  And I&amp;#8217;m not the only one who [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My buddy Christian Hudson&#8217;s (used to work with Juggler) has released a new program, &#8220;Unbreakable Game and Confidence&#8221;.  </p>
<p>I received quite a few emails about this program &#8211; you guys could tell that it was different and that a lot of thought has gone into it.  And I&#8217;m not the only one who was spreading the word.  If you&#8217;re on other mailing lists or read blogs about this stuff, I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if you&#8217;re hearing about it from them too.</p>
<p>Christian&#8217;s program is unique.  It is about developing an instinctive level of confidence, social intuition, and social skills, or &#8220;game&#8221;. When you&#8217;re talking to a woman, your words should be charming, genuine and bold, and having had a chance to look at this program now, it delivers on that promise in a big way.  There are four major sections of the program.</p>
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<p>First Christian (and his friend Nick Sparks) break down social interactions for you in such a detailed way that you&#8217;ll instinctively understand *exactly* what women are thinking when they&#8217;re out and when you&#8217;re talking to them.  You&#8217;ll also be given a minute-by-minute breakdown of how your words and confidence are affecting her, and how you can use this knowledge to your advantage.</p>
<p>Then you&#8217;ll &#8220;dive&#8221; into your own mind and learn about some of the hidden factors of confidence.  These are the things that are putting a glass ceiling on your personal growth, and once you break through, you&#8217;ll understand why Christian is calling the program &#8220;Unbreakable&#8221; &#8211; that is how your confidence will feel.</p>
<p>They then explain how elements in your life &#8211; the story of who you are &#8211; can be hugely attractive if you tell that story in the right way. Think of this as your lifestyle on steroids.  If you&#8217;re already a cool guy living a great life, you&#8217;re going to learn exactly how to tell it attractively without sounding like you&#8217;re bragging.  And if you&#8217;re still working on getting things together, it will help you see who you are in the best possible light &#8211; in fact, you&#8217;ll be excited to see your own life in this new way and its only going to add to your confidence.  And in both cases, you&#8217;re going to get great new ideas and insights from Christian, whose lifestyle is one of the coolest of any guy teaching this stuff.</p>
<p>Then finally, they tie it all together to explain how all of that contributes to your personality, social skills and &#8220;game&#8221;.  You&#8217;ll learn what they call the &#8220;Unbreakable Method&#8221;, which is a step-by-step method for meeting women, and you&#8217;ll also learn about all of the little nuances and skills that give a guy the edge and make him stand out.</p>
<p>And then you&#8217;ll get four weeks of coaching calls, and access to a 2-day conference they&#8217;re hosting in September.</p>
<p>Now you can probably see why this is getting so many people excited.</p>
<p>They are only opening 300 spots, and when I talked to Christian yesterday, he said there were over 13,000 people on his interest list. I&#8217;ve been watching the launch blog and there are hundreds of comments&#8230; so you need to move fast on this one.</p>
<p>Christian has been around since the early days, helping some other big-named gurus, but stayed out of the spotlight for a long time.  But it seems like&#8217;s finally stepping out of the shade and acknowledging how well his stuff works.   This is literally game-changing stuff; you&#8217;ll be kicking yourself if you didn&#8217;t get onboard when you had the opportunity.</p>
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<p>Go there now, get the program, and get excited&#8230; this is the one program you do not want to miss this year.</p>
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		<description>Nick Savoy from Love Systems emailed me his BRILLIANT breakdown of a pick up for your study and enjoyment. Get as much out of this as you can! Gold.
Women have different rules for men who “get it” – men who have women in their life &amp;#8211; than they do for men who don’t. 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nick Savoy from Love Systems emailed me his BRILLIANT breakdown of a pick up for your study and enjoyment. Get as much out of this as you can! Gold.</p>
<p>Women have different rules for men who “get it” – men who have women in their life &#8211; than they do for men who don’t. </p>
<p>In other words, men who understand women get to play by a different set of rules. My friend TD called this the “secret society” &#8212; but it’s not a secret if you know what to look for. Men in this club don’t take any one conversation with an individual woman too seriously, don’t put women on a pedestal and hold them to expectations of nun-like purity, and aren’t judgmental to women who enjoy their sexuality. Women will let such men get away with things they&#8217;d never find acceptable in other guys – or in the same guy before he “got it”. </p>
<p>I’ll explain with an example – one that also lends itself to tangents about picking up 9s and 10s, and threesomes. So, hold on tight. </p>
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<p>A few years ago, a friend introduced me to “Karen”, then one of the top up-and-coming fashion designers in Los Angeles. At the time, I was only just starting to piece together the secrets of meeting an dating beautiful women &#8211; the techniques that I later revealed in my book Magic Bullets and now form the basis for Love Systems’ teaching worldwide. But, with some difficulty, I was able to date and then seduce her. She might even have been my first “10”. </p>
<p><img src="http://www.nottinghill.co.uk/images/notting-hill/pubs-bars-clubs.jpg" align="left" /> During this time, Karen’s behavior was pretty typical of a young beautiful woman dating an average guy. She resisted my advances at first and made me work. She didn’t sleep with me right away. She didn’t seem especially sexual (without being a prude). She claimed to have no interest in threesomes and told me she’d only been with six men in her life. She was… &#8220;normal”. I did finally close the deal on the third date and we dated for a while after that, but because we both traveled all the time, we never got to see each other and ended up as casual friends. </p>
<p>(Which actually worked out great, because hot fashion designers have hot friends and hot models they work with. Using a precursor to the literally game-changing techniques designed by Mr. M and Braddock in their Social Circle Mastery program, I worked my way into a great position in her social circle and have hooked up with a few of her friends – we’ll get to why this is important in a moment) </p>
<p>Fast forward to last weekend. I was teaching an advanced invitation-only bootcamp at the Playboy Mansion. The main event was this big fashion show, and a student and I interrupted our debrief to watch. We saw the most unreal girl walk the runway – the 2nd most beautiful woman I’ve ever met in Los Angeles. Tall, perfect body, beautiful face, perfect skin (I’m a sucker for perfect skin) and that long soft straight blonde hair I love so much. And a walk that conveyed complete confidence and intense sexuality. She was not only a 10, she defined 10s. We’ll call her Lara. </p>
<p>One of the guys wanted me to pick her up. I wanted me to pick her up. I could feel the whole Love Systems community wanting me to pick her up. OK, maybe that’s going too far. Let’s just say that the vodka from the Playboy Mansion open bar also wanted me to pick her up. But I did relish the challenge &#8211; captivating the obvious star runway model in the center of the Playboy Mansion grounds surrounded by cameras and…because there’s no other way to put it…hordes of horny dudes. Those guys did NOT want me to pick her up. </p>
<p>The mechanics of the pickup actually weren’t all that different from any of the countless pickups that happen every night around the world using the Magic Bullets model. Since most readers are already familiar with these I won&#8217;t waste time on the easy stuff; I&#8217;ll just hit some of the twists and turns. </p>
<p>First off, I don’t like to approach the “star of the show” head-on. An actress signing autographs, a model getting photographed, a singer coming off-stage, these women are already surrounded with men sucking up to them. </p>
<p>This is why when I occasionally do private programs on how to pick up and date a porn star, guys are usually surprised when I tell them to stay AWAY from official events, autographing signings, etc. There are MUCH better places to meet them, where the balance of power is a bit more in your favor. </p>
<p>But at the Mansion, there wasn&#8217;t going to be a second chance. So the next best course was to &#8220;rebound&#8221; into a conversation with her. I started talking to two guys who among the many surrounding her. And then when the moment was right (she just finished a conversation), I pivoted to her as if I’d been arguing with these two guys about something, and jumped straight into a shortened version of LBD’s text message breakup opinion opener from the Love Systems Routines Manual. </p>
<p>Yes, the humble opinion opener – which I still use. </p>
<p>(It&#8217;s funny &#8211; I sometimes get emails from people who ask me for the &#8220;secret&#8221; routines that I use. When we want a routine, we go the same places everyone else does &#8211; the <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/mystery-method-routines-book-review/">Love Systems Routines Manual</a>). </p>
<p>If you’ve read <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/magic-bullets-by-savoy-review/">Magic Bullets</a>, you know what came next. I know I wouldn’t have much time, and had to race to at least get to the Comfort phase of the 6-step Emotional Progression Model. This meant getting quickly through the Transition, Attraction, and Qualification. It wasn’t easy, because guys were interrupting us every 2.4 seconds and when she started leaning in to me to show she was attracted, one of her girlfriends came over to “rescue” her. Meanwhile, one of her manager people was trying to move her to somewhere else she supposedly needed to be. </p>
<p>Taking her home was going to mean work, if it was even possible, and I had workshop guys to get back to. So I got her phone number, arranged to have a drink with her the next night, and left. </p>
<p>Here’s where the lessons come in. A guy who didn’t “get it” – who took every women seriously when he first met her, who didn’t understand how female psychology and sexual decision-making worked would have taken her on a traditional date, hoping to get somewhere by the end of the night. No problem with dates – I use them when I don’t have a better option – but I knew I only had one shot with her (they’d only brought her in from New York for the show) and wanted to seal the deal in the one night I knew we’d have together. </p>
<p>I invited a bunch of my friends (ah, the joy of mass text messages) to a bustling outdoor bar/café that would have great social energy, drinks, and food. (i.e., no excuses to have to go somewhere else). I invited mostly girls, but also brought one of the students from the private advanced bootcamp along so he could see how things should look. </p>
<p>One of the girls who showed up was Karen, who I hadn’t seen in six months. I must have texted her 10 times in the past six months with no response. A guy who doesn’t have girls might have gotten frustrated or deleted her number. To me, it didn’t matter. I still thought she was cool, even if she was busy or not answering, and it doesn’t cost me anything to keep inviting her. So when she showed up, there was no “edge” – no under the surface wondering why she hadn’t been responding before. I was just happy to have her as part of my night and enjoy the moment without worrying about the past or the future. That’s what guys who have women do. </p>
<p>Lara was still the woman I was interested in. Karen and I had hooked up enough times before, I could take it or leave it. Whenever I am in a group situation with my friends and a woman I am interested in, I follow the same pattern (WRITE THIS DOWN) </p>
<p>• Put the girl you’re interested in beside you</p>
<p>• All the touching goes to her (ideally under the table)</p>
<p>• All the conversation goes to everyone else </p>
<p>Lara was resisting my under the table touching at first. When did she start reciprocating? About five minutes after she realized that I’d hooked up with both of the other women at the table. Don’t confuse this with Pre-selection. Pre-selection is an attraction switch – one of the eight revealed in <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/magic-bullets-by-savoy-review/">Magic Bullets</a> – but I was well past Attraction at this point. No, what this conveyed was that I was a guy who had women in my life and that I “get it”. </p>
<p>I wasn’t jealous or controlling with the girls I’ve hooked up with. I just enjoyed their company, and them mine. Even though Karen and I were having boiling sexual tension, both of the other women looked on in approval as Lara and I started connecting physically. </p>
<p>After a while of that, I sealed the deal when I leaned in to whisper in her ear: </p>
<p><strong>Me:</strong> What kind of women are you attracted to? [I’d already established that she has hooked up with women in the past]</p>
<p><strong>Lara:</strong> [Lists some qualities]</p>
<p><strong>Me:</strong> What do you think of Karen?</p>
<p><strong>Lara: </strong>She’s beautiful…etc.</p>
<p><strong>Me:</strong> Well, no promises, but I’ll see if I can convince her to join us when we go home later </p>
<p>I want to make this clear – up to this point we’d never kissed, never really talked about sex, and certainly never discussed going home and having sex that night. But when she passively accepted the frame that I set with the last line above, the question changed from “where is this going tonight?” to “will this be a regular hookup tonight or will it be a threesome”? </p>
<p>It’s similar – but far more effective – to when I used to joke around with women on dates about whether the night was going to end with us having sex once or twice. Either choice I win, and even said jokingly, as long as she doesn’t object, it helps establish the frame. </p>
<p>[This "joking" to introduce sexual themes is covered in more detail with more examples by superstars Braddock and Kisser in their interview on Sexualization] </p>
<p>It seems like a little thing, but it’s not. As I always emphasize when I teach, the dividing line between a woman sleeping with you or not sleeping with you can be exceedingly narrow. Lara was fully intending to have a drink with me, flirt, maybe kiss a bit, but leave it at that. This changed the game. </p>
<p>Once I’d told Lara that I’d try to get Karen home with us, I fortified that frame a couple of times with “no promises, but I’ll see what I can do”. And then of course I started shifting my attention to Karen. Who had seen Lara clearly into me and me responding, etc. After I had made out with her, Karen said the punchline that is the reason why I wrote this article in the first place:<br />
<em><br />
“I love you because you’re such a whore” </em></p>
<p>I don’t know if it was just because I’d gone from heavy touching with Lara to making out with her – without embarrassment – or because I’d hooked up with her friends (and been discreet enough never to mention it to her…she found out from them, not me), or just because I was conveying that attitude, but it was interesting because Karen changed at that moment. </p>
<p>Gone was the woman who had been more or less typical with me up to that point. Now she was openly talking her sexual experiences, letting me touch her in public in ways that I had had to struggle to do in private before, etc., etc. It’s not that Karen changed. It’s that in her mind, I’d changed. I’d gone from a cool, fun, but normal guy in her mind to a guy that has women. Who &#8220;gets it&#8221;. </p>
<p>• Guys who have women in their life are safe. They won’t freak out when a woman doesn’t call back or has to cancel.</p>
<p>• Guys who have women in their life aren’t jealous or controlling,.</p>
<p>• Guy who have women in their life aren’t judgmental. They understand that women are complex and multi-dimensional and can’t simply be labeled virgins or whores. </p>
<p>Closing the deal from that point on was just basic logistical mechanics. </p>
<p>Look, I’m going to be straight with you here. You’re not going to be having threesomes with two 10s as soon as you read <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/magic-bullets-by-savoy-review/">Magic Bullets</a> and the <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/mystery-method-routines-book-review/">Love Systems Routines Manual</a> (though some of the sexualization routines in Volume 2 are pretty intense). You will need to practice, and it will take some time to integrate it all. A bootcamp is a giant-ass shortcut to getting good instantly, but you&#8217;re still going to have to practice some. </p>
<p>But what I will say is this: There’s nothing in this particular pickup that isn&#8217;t taught at a bootcamp. In fact, I&#8217;d even say that there&#8217;s nothing in this pickup that couldn&#8217;t have been pieced together from a combination of Magic Bullets, both Routines Manuals, and a couple of interview series volumes to cover any sticking points or advanced subjects on the way. </p>
<p>So if you’re sitting around wanting to get better with women – at least meet me halfway. Get a hold of the basic information you need to succeed.  Like <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/magic-bullets-by-savoy-review/">Magic Bullets</a> or the <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/seduction-product-reviews/mystery-method-routines-book-review/">Love Systems Routines Manual</a>.</p>
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		<title>How To Fix Your “Inner Game” Dating Problems</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 07:24:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>A good one from David Deangelo:
I have a couple of PERSONAL questions I&amp;#8217;d like to ask you&amp;#8230;
You may have never shared these things with anyone before&amp;#8230; but I want you to think about them, and be as honest as possible&amp;#8230;
Has the lack of women in your life ever made you worry that something might be [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>A good one from <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David Deangelo</a>:</em></p>
<p>I have a couple of PERSONAL questions I&#8217;d like to ask you&#8230;</p>
<p>You may have never shared these things with anyone before&#8230; but I want you to think about them, and be as honest as possible&#8230;</p>
<p>Has the lack of women in your life ever made you worry that something might be WRONG with you&#8230; but you don&#8217;t exactly know what?</p>
<p>Have you ever felt (or do you feel now) that if you could just get that one special girl, those feelings would disappear&#8230; and everything would be ok?</p>
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<p>Do you secretly fear that this might NEVER happen&#8230; that you might NEVER find that &#8220;one&#8221; girl for you&#8230; and that you might spend the rest of your life lonely&#8230; and alone? Now, on a slightly different note&#8230;</p>
<p>Was there ever a time when you felt that if you could just learn the right &#8220;moves&#8221;, you would have the success with women you are looking for?</p>
<p>Since then, have you had the experience of learning some great lines, techniques, and strategies that SHOULD work with women&#8230; but they just don&#8217;t seem to working for YOU?</p>
<p>Do you secretly fear that no matter WHAT you learn&#8230; things might never REALLY come together for you&#8230; and that you might NEVER really have the success with women you want?</p>
<p>If this hits home with you, you are not alone.</p>
<p>For many of us, these types of &#8220;Inner Game&#8221; challenges can be a mystery that&#8217;s almost impossible to solve.</p>
<p>The frustration and pain can keep you awake at night.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve ever felt this way&#8230; or feel this way now&#8230; I can relate.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been there myself&#8230; and I remember it well.</p>
<p>I remember feeling so hopeless that at times I thought it might be easier to just give up and accept things as they were.</p>
<p>The most frustrating thing was that I couldn&#8217;t put my finger on exactly what my problem was.</p>
<p>I figured if I could just get a sexy, caring, affectionate girlfriend&#8230; I would be &#8220;the man&#8221;&#8230; my friends would be green with envy&#8230; most importantly&#8230; I would prove to myself and everyone else that I was a man that women wanted.</p>
<p>I secretly imagined on that day&#8230; the day I met that &#8220;perfect girl&#8221;&#8230; my pain and desperation would end FOREVER.</p>
<p>And&#8230; of course&#8230; I figured that if I could just learn the right &#8220;tricks&#8221;, I&#8217;d be able to meet her.</p>
<p>I can even remember making &#8220;pictures&#8221; in my head about learning to meet women&#8230;</p>
<p>I would be able to go up to a woman in a bar&#8230; whisper a few words in her ear&#8230; then take her straight back to my place for some fun&#8230;</p>
<p>I would be able to make a woman fall in love with me the very first time we got together&#8230; and keep her interested for as long as I desired&#8230;</p>
<p>I would be able to finally meet that special girl I had been looking for&#8230; and all of my problems would disappear&#8230;</p>
<p>I figured that these techniques HAD to exist&#8230; I&#8217;d seen guys do this kind of stuff before&#8230; so why couldn&#8217;t I just learn what those guys did and do the same thing?</p>
<p>I made a plan&#8230; and I read all of the books, every magazine article I could find&#8230; and I quizzed every woman I knew&#8230;</p>
<p>I made friends with some guys who were &#8220;naturals&#8221; with women&#8230; and memorized everything they said word-for-word.</p>
<p>But something was wrong.</p>
<p>I would approach a woman with one of the same lines I had heard one of my friends use&#8230; but it just wouldn&#8217;t have the same effect.</p>
<p>I would use my skills to get 3 phone numbers from women in a single night&#8230; and I wouldn&#8217;t be able to get any of them to even meet me for a cup of coffee afterwards&#8230;</p>
<p>Then there were times when a woman would agree to meet up with me&#8230; only to call and cancel at the last minute&#8230; or even worse&#8230; not show up at all.</p>
<p>Now&#8230; every once in awhile I would end up going out with a girl that I was REALLY into and things would go GREAT&#8230; sometimes we&#8217;d end up hanging out 2 or 3 times in one week&#8230;</p>
<p>But sooner or later&#8230; for reasons I couldn&#8217;t explain&#8230; she would become unavailable or just disappear&#8230; and I&#8217;d never see her again.</p>
<p>I just couldn&#8217;t pull it all together.</p>
<p>What killed me was that I didn&#8217;t understand why&#8230;</p>
<p>I had all of the &#8220;tools&#8221;&#8230; I knew more &#8220;pick up lines&#8221; then any of my friends&#8230; even the guys who were &#8220;naturals&#8221; with women!</p>
<p>But why did these friends of mine still have more women in their lives than I did? Why weren&#8217;t things working out for ME?</p>
<p>Even worse was the FEELING that I had inside.</p>
<p>I was trying SO hard, but it just wasn&#8217;t working for me&#8230;</p>
<p>Maybe I&#8217;m just an ugly dude&#8230; and there was nothing I could do about it&#8230;</p>
<p>Maybe I was just too short&#8230;</p>
<p>Or maybe the women were to blame. I knew I was a good guy&#8230; what was wrong with these women that they couldn&#8217;t see it?</p>
<p>Or&#8230; as much as I was afraid to admit it&#8230; maybe there was something WRONG with ME (this was my SECRET FEAR, actually).</p>
<p>Have you ever felt this way?</p>
<p>Maybe you&#8217;ve gone down this same road yourself&#8230; and had this same experience.</p>
<p>It hurts.</p>
<p>And the worst part is&#8230; it feels like there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING you can do about it.</p>
<p>You feel like you&#8217;re riding a never-ending wave of frustration, pain, and failure&#8230; and just when you think you&#8217;re about break free, you meet a woman that seems interested in you, but then she doesn&#8217;t return a call&#8230; or flakes on a date&#8230; or tells you she&#8217;s not interested&#8230; and the wave smashes you back down to the ground where you started. Frustrated, hopeless, and alone.</p>
<p>The really sad thing is that most men experience these painful situations forever. They never escape.</p>
<p>But why?</p>
<p>I believe that the HONEST reason why&#8230; is because most men never address their &#8220;Inner Game&#8221;.</p>
<p>They never learn how to overcome their Inner Game psychological and emotional issues&#8230;</p>
<p>Instead, they try to learn &#8220;techniques&#8221; and &#8220;tricks&#8221;&#8230; hoping that they won&#8217;t NEED to address the HARD stuff.</p>
<p>To make a long story short, the BIG changes came for ME when I finally took the time to go INSIDE&#8230; and work on my Inner Game issues.</p>
<p>And once I did, EVERYTHING changed for me with women.</p>
<p>Probably the most IMPORTANT change was that I stopped NEEDING women. This one &#8220;shift&#8221; that happened for me has probably had the biggest effect of ALL.</p>
<p>Once I stopped NEEDING women, I started to attract them LIKE CRAZY.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s an old saying &#8220;The hungry don&#8217;t get fed&#8221;.</p>
<p>Well, the same goes with women.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re NEEDY, then women RUN away from you.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re a mature, &#8220;real man&#8221;&#8230; who has his life together&#8230; and has taken the time to get his &#8220;inner issues&#8221; handled, then women can FEEL it.</p>
<p>And they&#8217;re attracted like a MAGNET.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve gone through any of my programs, then you know that I think it&#8217;s CRITICAL for a guy to work on his &#8220;Inner Game&#8221;. In fact, it&#8217;s the one thing that guys report as the MOST important thing they&#8217;ve learned about success with women.</p>
<p>Until now, there has been NOTHING available for men&#8230; that is TOTALLY focused on helping them get their Inner Game together&#8230; when it comes to women and dating.</p>
<p>All that is about to change.</p>
<p>I have created a very special DVD program called &#8220;Deep Inner Game&#8221;. This is a one-of-a-kind program I did with a good friend named &#8220;Dr. Paul&#8221; (you may have heard him on one of my monthly interviews&#8230; or on one of my other programs).</p>
<p>Deep Inner Game was designed with ONE thing in mind: to help you overcome your INNER issues FAST.</p>
<p>And I want you to go check it out.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve put up a special webpage where you can watch some killer sample video clips of the program.</p>
<p>If you want to ELIMINATE your Inner Game issues, then this program is going to CHANGE YOUR LIFE.</p>
<p>Go here to the page where you can watch the sample videos and get all the info:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/deepinnergame/">http://www.DoubleYourDatingInsider.com/DeepInnerGame</a></p>
<p>David Deangelo</p>
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		<title>What Story Do You Hide Behind?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 20:21:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Wygant</dc:creator>
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		<description>Today&amp;#8217;s podcast is going to be really interesting, but also really short, because I want to be sure to get this message across to you guys.  I&amp;#8217;m not going to tell you exactly what it is here cause I want to be sure you will listen to it.
Before I go into today&amp;#8217;s blog, though, [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today&#8217;s podcast is going to be really interesting, but also really short, because I want to be sure to get this message across to you guys.  I&#8217;m not going to tell you exactly what it is here cause I want to be sure you will listen to it.</p>
<p>Before I go into today&#8217;s blog, though, a little update for you.  Within the last week I went to get a second opinion about my back, and based upon that I am not going to have surgery.</p>
<p>According to this doctor, who is one of the top doctors in Los Angeles, my body can heal itself.  Apparently what I have is really not that serious.  The doctor says that the herniated disc and the fragments that are attached to it can heal themselves.</p>
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<p>Our bodies can work miraculous recoveries.  The doctor actually told me that I am crazy to undergo surgery when I can heal without it.  So, now I am in the process of healing myself.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s interesting how we really have the power to do anything.  I truly believe that.  You have the power to heal yourself.  You have the power to cure yourself of anything.</p>
<p>A lot of you suffer from approach anxiety.  A lot of you suffer from fear of intimacy.  The reason you suffer from these things are the stories that you&#8217;ve created behind them.</p>
<p>A lot of us create stories.  Now, I&#8217;m not talking about telling a great story.  I&#8217;m talking about the stories you create about things that happen (or don&#8217;t happen), and the fears and emotions you attach to events.</p>
<p>Let me give you an example.  Say you&#8217;re fooling around with someone, and they say &#8220;Not tonight&#8221; when you invite them to stay the night.  Immediately you think to yourself, &#8220;You know, every single time this happens.  Women just aren&#8217;t attracted to me.  I don&#8217;t know what it is.  I must not be a good lover.&#8221;</p>
<p>That dialog in your head is the story you&#8217;re creating.  You&#8217;re creating that story instead of listening in the moment.  Stories are created when you don&#8217;t listen to what&#8217;s actually going on in the moment.</p>
<p>Here is another good example.  Say you ask a woman out and she says, &#8220;I&#8217;ve got a boyfriend.&#8221;  So many guys will immediately create an entire story about that when this happens.  They think, &#8220;Why does this always happen to me?  What am I doing wrong?&#8221;</p>
<p>These are the stories we create, and those stories are the way that we validate how we are.  In reality, though, those stories are nothing more than your fears and excuses.</p>
<p>You go out to bars and every night you come home and think, &#8220;You know, the same thing happens every time.  I always go up to a woman at the end of the night and she doesn&#8217;t seem interested.  Women just aren&#8217;t attracted to me.&#8221;</p>
<p>The truth is that all of that is just the story you&#8217;ve created.  The real reason women aren&#8217;t attracted to you in the bar is because you stare at them all night long, and then by the time you walk over to them they don&#8217;t respond well to you because you&#8217;ve given you the creepy &#8220;stalker guy&#8221; vibe.</p>
<p>So really, what are your stories?  Behind what do you hide?  You need to become  conscious of what your stories are, so that you&#8217;ll realize that those stories are just fears and excuses.  If you would just really listen to people, you wouldn&#8217;t need to create all these stories.</p>
<p>Have you ever listened to someone, actually head what they were saying and didn&#8217;t create a story based upon it?  A woman at the end of a first date says &#8220;God, I had such a great time!  Can&#8217;t wait to see you again.&#8221;</p>
<p>So instead of listening to what that woman says, you create a story and you think, &#8220;I wonder if she actually means it.  I&#8217;ve heard women say that before and things didn&#8217;t work out.&#8221; Based on that you then wait five days or a week to call her.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what we do.  We create stories.  You do it, and I do it.</p>
<p>Someone doesn&#8217;t call you back, and immediately you create a whole story based upon it.  You think, &#8220;Barry is ignoring my calls.  Why is he ignoring my calls.  Why is he ignoring my texts?&#8221;  The reality may be that the person is not doing that at all.  The reality may be that they just put their phone down, or left it somewhere, or that they were having dinner with a friend.</p>
<p>We all do this, but this is not what life is all about.  Life is about getting out of your head and stopping yourself from creating stories that aren&#8217;t true.  When you create stories that aren&#8217;t true, they based on paranoid fears from past programming.</p>
<p>You need to start recognizing this behavior.  When you start creating a story in your head, you need to realize from where that story is coming and then be able to separate what is truth from what is just a story.</p>
<p>Enjoy today&#8217;s podcast!</p>
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		<title>Stop Speaking From Your Dick</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 20:30:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Wygant</dc:creator>
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		<description>Today&amp;#8217;s podcast is all about speaking from your heart and communicating from your heart.  This is something that really sunk in with me the other day during a conversation with my girlfriend.  I really became conscious of the important difference between speaking from your head and speaking from your heart.
I was really irritated [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today&#8217;s podcast is all about speaking from your heart and communicating from your heart.  This is something that really sunk in with me the other day during a conversation with my girlfriend.  I really became conscious of the important difference between speaking from your head and speaking from your heart.</p>
<p>I was really irritated about something &#8212; I don&#8217;t know if it was something having to do with her or something else, but I was frustrated.  As I was talking to her, she says to me &#8220;You&#8217;re so in your head.  Speak from your heart.&#8221;  So I took a deep breath and thought about it, and I realized that I was speaking from frustration (and from my head).</p>
<p>Speaking from the head (as opposed to from the heart) is something that men in particular tend to do when talking to women.  We want to go and meet women, and yet we&#8217;re not speaking their language.</p>
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<p>Women understand and are usually all about speaking from their heart and soul.  Men, on the other hand, will talk to women and stay in their head the entire time.<br />
All they are doing the entire time is thinking about what to say next and what to do.</p>
<p>When men do this, women know it.  It shows.  They will say &#8220;hello&#8221; in a nervous tone of voice, or say some line in a completely dispassionate way (all because they read somewhere that it was something they should say).  They speak with absolutely no passion.</p>
<p>Have you ever had an argument with a woman where they start telling you all sorts of things that start with the words &#8220;I feeeeeel. . .?&#8221;  All you hear is that extended sound of all the &#8220;e&#8217;s&#8221; as she says those dreaded &#8220;I feeeeel this&#8221; and &#8220;I feeeel that&#8221; phrases.  It drives you crazy because you don&#8217;t want to hear the word &#8220;feel.&#8221;</p>
<p>Feeling, however, is what women are all about.  Women feel and speak from their heart.  They want to connect with you.</p>
<p>The reason so many guys fail when they approach women is because they&#8217;re talking either from their penis or from their head.  They are like a walking penis, approaching women in a way that says to them &#8220;Hello.  I&#8217;m holding my penis in my hands.  Do you want to touch it?&#8221;</p>
<p>When men think with their dick (and sometimes only with their dick), women feel it.  They know it.</p>
<p>One of the greatest exercises I tell men to do, is to just walk up to people all day long, and say to them from their heart &#8220;Hi.  How are you today?&#8221;  A lot of guys will refuse to do this exercise because they don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s fun, but it is a great way to learn how to communicate sincerely with people (including with women).</p>
<p>People really understand when you&#8217;re sincere.  They know it.  They can smell it if you&#8217;re not.</p>
<p>The insincerity tied to the use of pickup lines and routines exposes you right from the get-go.  Women will know immediately that you are not sincere and aren&#8217;t speaking from your heart.</p>
<p>The other day, someone asked me when this whole concept came to fruition for me.  I have actually been great with women most of my adult life, but once I started speaking from my heart my connections with women got deeper and more intense.</p>
<p>So, let&#8217;s say you see a woman who intrigues you and you want to approach her. She just ordered a great-looking sandwich.</p>
<p>You need to walk over to that woman with the curiosity of a little kid and say something like, &#8220;God that looks good!  What is that?&#8221;  She will feel your passion and your sincerity.  She can smell it.</p>
<p>If, however, you walk over to her with your penis leading you and comment on the sandwich only because it&#8217;s a way to &#8220;open&#8221; her, then she is going to perceive you completely differently.</p>
<p>You may say something very similar like &#8220;Hello. Is that a good sandwich?&#8221;  If you&#8217;re nervous because you are worried about how to deliver the line, though, the woman will smell it.  She will know that you actually couldn&#8217;t care less whether or not she is enjoying that sandwich.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve got to speak from your heart.  Life is not about speaking from your head, and so many of us spend most of our time doing that.  Life is about speaking from your heart.</p>
<p>I go into more depth about how to speak from your heart to make better connections with women.  Find out how women can begin to perceive you in a whole different light &#8230; starting RIGHT NOW.</p>
<p><strong>Click here to listen to the podcast:</strong></p>
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<p>More from David Wygant at <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/davidwygant/">his official website here</a>.</p>
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		<title>Scot McKay or Billy Mays?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2009 03:22:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>Here&amp;#8217;s our friend Scot McKay:

Here&amp;#8217;s infomercial genius Billy Mays:


Amazing!
                                              As [...]</description>
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<p>Here&#8217;s infomercial genius Billy Mays:</p>
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<p>Amazing!</p>
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		<title>Project Rockstar 2009</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2009 01:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>Love Systems are running Project Rockstar for a second year. Project Rockstar is a free intensive 8 week program for 6 carefully selected guys from around the world to train every day for 2 months in London with the best of the best &amp;#8211; dating coaches, pick up artists, fitness instructors, entrepreneurs and business gurus [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love Systems are running Project Rockstar for a second year. Project Rockstar is a free intensive 8 week program for 6 carefully selected guys from around the world to train every day for 2 months in London with the best of the best &#8211; dating coaches, pick up artists, fitness instructors, entrepreneurs and business gurus in the UK and internationally.</p>
<p>Last year Project Rockstar altered the lives of all people involved. One Rockstar made a contact through using social circles who gave him a whole business plan and a start-up loan that enabled him to build a corporate business which is currently booming in the States. One quit his job at a prestigious hedge fund to become an extreme sports instructor. </p>
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<p>Another decided to drop his job, start his own business and travel the world with all that he had learned. To add to this, most flew out to LA to party at the Love Systems Superconference in LA (one even got to party at the special bootcamp at the Playboy Mansion). Some flew to China and got to meet the CEO of a massive internationally renowned company who, when he found out, literally pulled out his phone, opened the Project Rockstar email and said, ‘this isn’t you guys, is it!!? I’m a huge fan!’.’ And everyone, without fail, got the benefit of meeting inspirational people’</p>
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		<title>Carlos Xuma Alpha Masculinity “Bootcamp” Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>In this video, Carlos Xuma discusses what he found out about how men perceive their level of masculinity.   He also gives a great technique on getting better responses from women that you approach.  


To watch the 2nd free video called &amp;#8220;Alpha Tools&amp;#8221; in Carlos Xuma&amp;#8217;s Alpha Masculinity Bootcamp series, click here.
  [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this video, Carlos Xuma discusses what he found out about how men perceive their level of masculinity.   He also gives a great technique on getting better responses from women that you approach.  </p>
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To watch the 2nd free video called &#8220;Alpha Tools&#8221; in Carlos Xuma&#8217;s Alpha Masculinity Bootcamp series, <a href="http://tinyurl.com/koj9wq">click here</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>Do You Suffer From Perfect Picture Disease?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 22:34:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Wygant</dc:creator>
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		<description>What is the perfect picture mentality? On a Friday night, we go out with these amazing expectations of what is going to occur.
       We think, this is the night; this is the party or whatever thing we’re meant to go to. We have this perfect idea [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>   What is the perfect picture mentality? On a Friday night, we go out with these amazing expectations of what is going to occur.</p>
<p>       We think, this is the night; this is the party or whatever thing we’re meant to go to. We have this perfect idea of how the night should turn out.</p>
<p>       You’re going to talk to the woman who had that college sweatshirt on two weeks ago, because you finally have figured out something to say to her. But then she walks in wearing a different sweatshirt, and you don’t have anything to say.</p>
<p>       We have this perfect picture of the way things are going to be. And then once we arrive, the night progresses and reality begins to set in. When reality sets in, all of a sudden that perfect picture just disappears.</p>
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<p>       Our monkey chatter starts coming back, and all of the things we imagined the night to be contrast what the night really is.</p>
<p>       Most people, when they go out, are not present at all. They are thinking about what COULD happen.</p>
<p>       Listen to a conversation of people in a bar – the men are always telling each other, “Hey man, check her out!” You’re not even listening to the conversation that you’re having at that moment with your friend!</p>
<p>       So if you dial it back a little bit and remain 100% present, the outcome will be entirely different. If you’re fully present and into the conversation you’re having with your friend, you’re actually creating attraction. You’re creating the type of night that you want to have.</p>
<p>       You have to get this picture out of your head. We all do it – even on dates. Maybe you’re on the third date and you’re thinking, this is going to be the night that you sleep with her. You make her dinner at your house, and you think that everything is going to be perfect – but you didn’t realize that she had a stomachache and her period.</p>
<p>       So you come on to her a little bit, she pushes you away, and you’re thinking to yourself, I don’t understand! She tells you that tonight is not a good night for her, and you take it personally as either an insult or rejection. But really, it just wasn’t a good night for her!</p>
<p>       This perfect picture tends to ruin just about every night that we have. Our expectations are so strong and powerful that we ruin it.</p>
<p>       Staying present and getting rid of expectations really give you the opportunity to expand and enjoy yourself. I’ve found that the best nights that I’ve had are the ones where nothing turned into something. My worst nights are the ones where I have expectations so let go of everything stay present and have fun.</p>
<p><strong>Learn more from David Wygant at <a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/davidwygant/">his website</a>.</strong></p>
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		<title>What To Do When She Does Not Call</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 01:55:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Donovan</dc:creator>
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		<description>Rat atat tat tat tat rat atat tat tat.  Have you ever heard that sound in your head &amp;#8211; rat atat tat tat tat rat atat tat tat tat tat?   Do you have any idea what it&amp;#8217;s like to be a Vienna sausage stuck in a jar with not enough liquid?
Well, yesterday [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rat atat tat tat tat rat atat tat tat.  Have you ever heard that sound in your head &#8211; rat atat tat tat tat rat atat tat tat tat tat?   Do you have any idea what it&#8217;s like to be a Vienna sausage stuck in a jar with not enough liquid?</p>
<p>Well, yesterday I experienced all of that.  I got the MRI.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t begin to tell you how cheap they were.  It&#8217;s not like I was hoping to experience a &#8220;happy ending&#8221; or anything, but for what I&#8217;m going to have to pay that my insurance doesn&#8217;t cover (and believe me, Michael Moore, I&#8217;m sure the insurance company is going to stick it to me on this one!), you&#8217;d think they&#8217;d at least invest in some Bose® noise-reducing headphones.</p>
<p>The MRI machine looks like one of those Japanese hotels.  You know, those beds you rest on in Japan that look like you&#8217;re sleeping in a drawer.</p>
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<p>It was pretty good at first.  They put out a sheet and a pillow.  I was actually starting to feel good, until they hand you a cheap pair of earphones.</p>
<p>They tell you that you may hear a few sounds.  You MAY hear a few sounds?  Sure, only if you&#8217;re almost deaf.  It sounds like an airplane engine trying to start.  So, really, some noise-reducing headphones would have been much better than the experience I had.</p>
<p>I also have to say that waiting for test results is the ultimate mind-fuck.  So many of you stress out about if he (or she) is going to call you back.  They don&#8217;t call you back, oh well!  Whatever they do say to you on the phone, they are not going to tell you that you have a blown disc in your back.</p>
<p>So why are you stressing about whether someone calls you back?  If they call, it is definitely good news.  If they don&#8217;t call, then you have your answer.</p>
<p>With an MRI and test results, all you know when the phone rings is that the caller ID is letting you know it&#8217;s your doctor&#8217;s office on the phone.  There&#8217;s really two very different ways that phone call can go.</p>
<p>So as I&#8217;m laying here waiting for test results, I can&#8217;t help but think that we all need to stop sweating the &#8220;is she (or he) going to call me back&#8221; thing.  I get emails about this from people all the time &#8220;David, is she going to call me back?&#8221;</p>
<p>People even play mind games on themselves about this calling back issue.  They will start to sweat about WHAT the person will say if they do call back.  Let me tell you one thing: In dating, if someone calls you it&#8217;s generally a GOOD thing!</p>
<p>When a doctor calls you, it can be either good or bad.  You could hear you have a blown disc, or you could hear everything&#8217;s pretty much good and that you just have a minor structural problem.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t it funny that no matter what we do, our mind will take us places we never want to go?  I always tell people that my mind is like New York City.</p>
<p>One minute it&#8217;s there in Soho enjoying a beautiful art gallery and sitting outside in a nice cafe.  The next moment it&#8217;s in the projects in a dark alley, and you&#8217;re the only one without a gun.</p>
<p>If you think about it, all of our minds are like a city.  They have some good neighborhoods, and some really bad neighborhoods.  The question is, how do you keep your mind out of the bad neighborhoods and only live on the upper East Side?</p>
<p>Because, of course, as The Jeffersons always said, &#8220;We&#8217;re movin&#8217; on up to the East Side, to a deluxe apartment in the sky.  Oh, we&#8217;re movin&#8217; on up to the East Side.  We finally got a piece of the pie&#8230;.Now we&#8217;re up in the big leagues getting our turn at bat.&#8221;</p>
<p>By the way, on one final note, I made a decision while I was in the MRI machine.  I decided that I want an open casket when I die.  I mean, I got to be in one of the open MRI machines which was pretty nice.  So when I die, I don&#8217;t want my soul to feel claustrophobic.  My soul needs to be free!</p>
<p>Today&#8217;s podcast deals with what to do when he (or she) doesn&#8217;t call you.  Find out exactly what kind of mindset you should have to get through that situation, and what you can take away from that situation.  This will forever change the way you feel about not getting that call!</p>
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		<title>Why Women Test You, And How To Respond</title>
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		<description>Women test men.
That&amp;#8217;s the reality of the situation.  Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and they keep on testing FOREVER. If you don&amp;#8217;t know how to deal with the tests that women throw at you, you have VERY LITTLE chance of improving your success in the dating world. 
HOW DO WOMEN TEST MEN?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women test men.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the reality of the situation.  Women test men RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING, and they keep on testing FOREVER. If you don&#8217;t know how to deal with the tests that women throw at you, you have VERY LITTLE chance of improving your success in the dating world. </p>
<p>HOW DO WOMEN TEST MEN?</p>
<p>For most guys, the concept of a woman &#8220;testing&#8221; them seems a little strange.</p>
<p>Why would a woman WANT to test a man?</p>
<p>What could she possibly gain from it?</p>
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<p>The answer: A LOT.</p>
<p>By testing a man, a woman can learn THE MOST IMPORTANT thing about him&#8230;</p>
<p>And I&#8217;ll share what that is a little bit later on in this newsletter.</p>
<p>TEST: A DEFINITION</p>
<p>So I was thinking about this particular topic today, and I realized that I&#8217;ve never looked up the definition of the word &#8220;test.&#8221;</p>
<p>When I did, here&#8217;s what I found:</p>
<p>1. A procedure for critical evaluation; a means of determining the presence, quality, or truth of something; a trial; a test of one&#8217;s eyesight; subjecting a hypothesis to a test; a test of an athlete&#8217;s endurance.</p>
<p>2. A series of questions, problems, or physical responses designed to determine knowledge, intelligence, or ability.</p>
<p>3. A basis for evaluation or judgment: &#8220;A test of democratic government is how Congress and the president work together&#8221; (Haynes Johnson).</p>
<p>OK, so take a moment and read those again.</p>
<p>The purpose of a test is to figure something out. It&#8217;s a way of getting &#8220;true&#8221; information about something.</p>
<p>So back to my earlier question&#8230; Why do women test men in the first place?</p>
<p>BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.</p>
<p>If you walk up to a man and say &#8220;Hey, how much money do you make?&#8221; he can LIE. If you ask him if he is good in bed, he can LIE. If you ask him if he&#8217;s strong enough to deal with the challenges of life, support a family, and reach his goals, he can LIE.</p>
<p>Are you with me here?</p>
<p>In other words, if you get to the end of one of your college courses, the teacher COULD just ask you if you have a comprehensive understanding of the material you learned during the course.</p>
<p>But you could LIE.</p>
<p>So the teacher gives you a TEST to see if you REALLY know what&#8217;s going on. Well, in the same way that teachers test students, women test MEN. And that means YOU, Sparky. But there&#8217;s one LITTLE TEENSY WEENSY difference between the kinds of tests that women give you and the kinds of tests that teachers give you&#8230;</p>
<p>Women don&#8217;t tell you first&#8230; that they&#8217;re going to test you!</p>
<p>And they don&#8217;t teach you what you need to know BEFORE they test you. They just do it. Right when they meet you. Within the first few seconds, actually.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p>Because women don&#8217;t have the TIME to deal with all the guys who are interested in them.</p>
<p>And they&#8217;re not interested in getting together with a man who doesn&#8217;t &#8220;get it&#8221; in the first place.</p>
<p>Beautiful women aren&#8217;t looking for a guy to TRAIN.</p>
<p>And the tests don&#8217;t stop&#8230; by the way.</p>
<p>If you meet an attractive, interesting, emotionally healthy woman, you can expect to be tested until either:</p>
<p>1) The relationship ends.</p>
<p>2) You or she DIES.</p>
<p>WHAT WOMEN ARE TESTING FOR</p>
<p>Now, women will test men for ALL KINDS of things. Some women will test to see if you have money. Some will test to see if you&#8217;ll SPEND your money on them. Some will test to see if you&#8217;re intelligent. And some will test to see if you&#8217;re loyal. But BY FAR, in my experience, more women will test you initially to see if you&#8217;re a WUSSY!</p>
<p>That&#8217;s right&#8230;</p>
<p>The VERY FIRST thing a woman wants to &#8220;know&#8221; about you is whether or not you&#8217;re a submissive, ass-kissing boy who has no balls.</p>
<p>And if you ARE, then you might as well throw in the towel. If you are a Wussy, and you fail the &#8220;Wussy Tests&#8221; that she throws at you, then you stand very little chance of succeeding with the woman who is testing you.</p>
<p>Of course, MOST men fail with MOST women&#8230; MOST of the time.</p>
<p>As a side note:</p>
<p>There is one exception to this rule. If you act like a Wussy, but you&#8217;re willing to pursue a woman for a few YEARS, and deal with the idea that you have about a 1 in 100 chance, then you MIGHT be able to convince her to marry you. But like I said, the chances are VERY slim, and the effort required just isn&#8217;t worth it. There is a FAR better way&#8230;</p>
<p>THESE TESTS ARE VERY SUBTLE</p>
<p>Probably the most interesting thing about tests from women is that they&#8217;re not OBVIOUS. At least, not to most men. In fact, I&#8217;d say that 99% of all the tests that women use on men FLY BELOW RADAR.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re right out in the open, obvious to other women (and a few men), but for the most part, they go COMPLETELY UNDETECTED. For instance, let&#8217;s say that you&#8217;re standing at a bar talking to some friends, and you make eye contact with the cute girl standing six feet away from you.</p>
<p>What do most guys do?</p>
<p>They look away.</p>
<p>And they do it FAST.</p>
<p>Of course, most guys will LOOK AGAIN within a few seconds. But it&#8217;s already too late.</p>
<p>TEST FAILED.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s another&#8230;</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say you&#8217;re at a bar talking to a girl, and she says &#8220;Hey, buy me a drink.&#8221;</p>
<p>You say &#8220;Great, what do you want?&#8221;</p>
<p>Guess what?</p>
<p>She just told you what to do, and you went for it without a second thought. Or maybe you&#8217;ve started a conversation with a group of girls at a coffee shop.</p>
<p>One of them says that she doesn&#8217;t like your shoes. You say &#8220;Oh, well I wasn&#8217;t planning on seeing anyone important today&#8230; I just put on whatever I could find.&#8221;</p>
<p>In other words, you MAKE AN EXCUSE for yourself. As you can probably guess, that&#8217;s a BAD IDEA. In that moment, you have just failed the test with flying colors.</p>
<p>THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU</p>
<p>If you think back in your life about all of the situations with women that went BAD, you&#8217;ll probably find that you were TESTED, and you FAILED.</p>
<p>In one way or another, you probably missed some VITAL clue that you were being tested, and you wound up failing.</p>
<p>RESULT: She hit the road.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s happened to all of us. If I had a dollar for every time&#8230;</p>
<p>LOL&#8230;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been through this one so many times in my life that it HURTS. I should probably get the jackass award for most tests failed with women.</p>
<p>And before I give you some tips on handling tests from women, I want to say AGAIN: If you find yourself failing tests from women on a CONSISTENT basis, then you should get yourself some &#8220;in- depth&#8221; reprogramming on a DEEP level. The best way to do that is HERE:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/onbeingaman">http://www.DatingTechniques.com/OnBeingAMan</a></p>
<p>HOW TO DEAL WITH TESTS</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re going to successfully deal with tests from women, you first need to &#8220;get it.&#8221;</p>
<p>To say it differently, you need to learn how to RECOGNIZE tests quickly&#8230; and know when they&#8217;re happening.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s the best way to know when you&#8217;re being tested?</p>
<p>Well, one way that I KNOW I&#8217;m being tested is my GUT. Your gut doesn&#8217;t lie. In fact, if us guys would just learn to use this amazing &#8220;test detector&#8221; called our GUTS, then we&#8217;d live happier lives.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how it works&#8230;</p>
<p>Next time you&#8217;re interacting with a woman and she does or says something that makes your gut tense up, you&#8217;re probably being tested.</p>
<p>Now, I can&#8217;t go into all the aspects of how to deal with tests from women&#8230; because that would take me several hours.</p>
<p>But I will say that the most IMPORTANT thing to do is EXPECT tests&#8230; and then pay close attention to how you&#8217;re responding to them.</p>
<p>Most of the things we do with women are NOT CONSCIOUS. When a woman looks at you, and you look away, it wasn&#8217;t a &#8220;conscious decision.&#8221;</p>
<p>It just HAPPENS. All of a sudden, you&#8217;re feeling butterflies and glancing away. It happens in an instant.</p>
<p>So you first need to recognize when it&#8217;s happening to you. When a woman tells you what to do, she&#8217;s testing you.</p>
<p>When a woman tries to change plans or cancel at the last minute, she&#8217;s testing you. When a woman asks you to buy her something, she&#8217;s testing you.</p>
<p>When a woman nags, whines, or complains, she&#8217;s testing you. Learn to SPOT IT when it&#8217;s happening. Next, notice how you respond.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve failed a million tests with women already, so don&#8217;t worry about ten more. Just notice how you respond.</p>
<p>Most men respond by trying to win the woman&#8217;s approval. If she tries to cancel plans at the last minute, you&#8217;ll say &#8220;Oh, no problem.&#8221;</p>
<p>If she complains about something, you&#8217;ll say &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry, let me fix it.&#8221;</p>
<p>You know what I&#8217;m saying. Again, just notice what&#8217;s going on when you respond. Finally, learn how to PAUSE before you respond, and then UNDERSTAND how you need to respond to each test.</p>
<p>Most tests will be tests to see if you&#8217;ll allow her to CONTROL YOU. If you DO allow a woman to CONTROL you, you will lose.</p>
<p>And you can take that one to the bank. You will lose in one way or another, almost guaranteed. Women don&#8217;t want men that they can control.</p>
<p>So make sure you pass those tests first. The more you pay close attention, the more you&#8217;ll see the subtle tests that women are using with you.</p>
<p>And the more of these tests you pass, the more success you&#8217;ll have.</p>
<p>YOU MUST GO BEYOND THE TEST</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m going to share with you a secret that&#8217;s even MORE IMPORTANT than the idea of tests from women&#8230;</p>
<p>If you REALLY want to have success with women, you need to learn how to deal with tests even BEFORE THEY HAPPEN.</p>
<p>Think of it this way&#8230;</p>
<p>In some colleges you can demonstrate a level of mastery in an area that allows you to SKIP A LEVEL. In other words, you get credit for taking classes, even though you&#8217;ve never taken them.</p>
<p>Well, the same goes with women. There are certain things you can do that will INSTANTLY communicate to a woman that you &#8220;get it&#8221;&#8230; and don&#8217;t require the INITIAL TESTS.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong, women will always test you&#8230; no matter what you do. But you can SKIP TEN LEVELS of the initial testing, and accelerate the process of &#8220;getting together&#8221; with a woman DRAMATICALLY if you know the right things to do.</p>
<p>And by FAR, the most important of these things is to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you. Sure, you can show her that you&#8217;re a great leader, or self-confident, or that you won&#8217;t kiss up to her before she tests you for it.</p>
<p>But this doesn&#8217;t actually ACCOMPLISH anything. It just gets you fewer tests. If you REALLY want to skip ahead ten levels, then you need to TRIGGER ATTRACTION inside of her.</p>
<p>As you probably know by now, Attraction Isn&#8217;t A Choice.</p>
<p>Women don&#8217;t go through a logical process to decide if they&#8217;re going to feel ATTRACTION.</p>
<p>It just HAPPENS. But it doesn&#8217;t happen very OFTEN.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re one of those rare men who knows how to use your body language, voice tone, and other communication to make women feel ATTRACTION, then you will have the kind of success that most men only dream of.</p>
<p>And you&#8217;ll deal with far fewer tests from women. In the last several years that I&#8217;ve been studying this area of life called &#8220;Success With Women&#8221;, I&#8217;ve focused on the idea of making women feel ATTRACTION.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s something that no one talks about. It&#8217;s something that no one understands. As a matter of fact, I&#8217;d say that not one in a hundred men understands how to make a woman actually FEEL ATTRACTION.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;ll tell you something else&#8230;</p>
<p>Learning this particular skill has made ALL THE DIFFERENCE in my life. Now that I understand how to make women feel that powerful physical and emotional response known as ATTRACTION, I have the kind of success and choice that most men only dream about.</p>
<p>The good news: any guy can learn this stuff. I&#8217;ve spent a long time figuring out what makes women feel attracted to some special men&#8230; and then testing out what works in the real world.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve spent hundreds and hundreds of hours watching guys who are REALLY good with women&#8230; and distilling the specific techniques that they use.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also spent a tremendous amount of time putting together systems that any guy can use to improve his success with women.</p>
<p>I certainly wish this stuff would have been available when I started out. It would have saved me YEARS of frustration.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re just getting started, then I highly recommend that you go download my online ebook &#8220;Double Your Dating.&#8221; It&#8217;s a great introduction to my main concepts, and it contains dozens and dozens of great ideas for meeting women. You can download it now, and be reading it in just a few minutes. Download it here:<br />
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<p>Till next time,<br />
<a href="http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/david-deangelo/">David DeAngelo</a></p>
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		<title>Rather Not Peacock… Check Out Spanish Fly T-Shirts</title>
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		<description>Ever think you could have women approach you because of your Tshirt?
So, I&amp;#8217;ve never been a fan of peacocking, but these t-shirts work like a charm.
I got something you have to check out: spanishflytshirts.com.  If you are hosting a birthday or bachelor party, or just looking to go out and be the hit of [...]</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever think you could have women approach you because of your Tshirt?</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;ve never been a fan of peacocking, but these t-shirts work like a charm.</p>
<p>I got something you have to check out: spanishflytshirts.com.  If you are hosting a birthday or bachelor party, or just looking to go out and be the hit of the bar, these shirts are the cheapest and easiest way to have an amazing time. I have a friend, no game, NO experience with talking to women&#8230; making out with the hottest girls of the bar by the end of the night! With these games on your shirt  you become the party at the bar, and no girl can resist. True.</p>
<p>They are the ultimate ice breaker because you approach with a game that any girl will say yes to.  Want to see her D cups? Just smile and hand her the marker&#8230;</p>
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<p>Each one of these packages comes with a handbook on tips and tricks to get the cutest girls to do the dirtiest things to your bachelor, birthday boy, or even just being a bachelor.</p>
<p>Check out the <a href="http://www.spanishflytshirts.com/zencart/index.php?main_page=page&#038;id=17">pictures on their site</a>. It&#8217;s a cheap way to get out of your comfort zone and conquer some approach anxiety.</p>
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