I did a Q&A with the founder of Love Systems and author of Magic Bullets to find out what to expect at the upcoming Super Conference in Las Vegas, Oct 9-11th, 2009 is about:

Q: What is the Love Systems Super Conference?

The Love Systems Super Conference is the big annual event for people learning, teaching, or studying how to attract, date, and seduce beautiful women. It’s where the best of the best dating coaches come to share ideas, network, and of course to present their newest and best breakthroughs. It is three days filled with seminars, live exercises, and infield (going out to meet women with dating coaches instructing you).

It started as the Mystery Method Super Conference back in 2005 but renamed to Love Systems Super Conference in 2007. Past speakers have included:

- Mystery PUA (aka Erik Von Markovik, of VH1 The Pickup Artist, creator of The Mystery Method)
- Style (aka Neil Strauss, author of The Game)
- Savoy (author of Magic Bullets)
- Cajun PUA (winner on Keys to the VIP)
- Braddock (appeared on Tyra Banks)
- The Don (appeared on Dr Phil)
- Sinn (Sinns of Attraction)
- Brad P (Brad P Presents)
- Carlos Xuma (Alpha Lifestyle)
- Daniel Johnson (Pickup 101)
- Dr. Paul (doctorpaul.net, Deep Inner Game with David Deangelo)
- And more….

All Love Systems instructors will be flying in to be at the Super Conference. There will also be other guest speakers and so far Brad P, Dr Paul, and David Wygant have confirmed to come. We have a couple more in the works with a surprise guest lined up.

There are two packages: Silver and Gold.

The Silver level attendees will be able to attend all the live exercises and seminars during the Super Conference. The Gold level attendees will also be able to do live exercises and seminars, but will also go out two nights with infield coaching by our instructors. The price for Silver is $947 and Gold is $3,797.

Here’s a video of the Love Systems Super Conference of last year:

Q: When and where is the Super Conference taking place?

It will take place in Las Vegas, NV, USA at the Hard Rock Hotel. The exact date is October 9-11 (three days). We chose Vegas because it’s affordable for people come to Vegas and there are plenty of beautiful women from all across the globe partying it up.

Q: What sessions can we expect at the Super Conference?

What’s great about the Super Conference is that we will have two rooms booked. There will be two sessions running at the same time in the seminar and breakout room.

The breakout room will all be interactive. That’s where people will be able to talk to instructors and work with them on a particular part of their game. These live exercises include:

* Approaching and Transitioning – Get your approaching skills down!

* Teasing and Bantering – How to think on your feet and build attraction FAST!

* Physical Escalation – Touching gets results and prevents you getting in the friend zone!

* Body Language – Project confidence with your walk, posture, and gestures!

* Frame Control – Steer interactions the way you want it to go!

The seminar room is where the instructors and guest speakers will reveal their latest breakthroughs, give lectures, and talk about specific topics on dating.

Subjects have included:

* Social Circle Mastery

* Advanced Attraction

* Deep Comfort

* Inner Game

* Relationship Management and Multiple Relationships

* Callback Humor

* Day Game

* Strippers and Hired Guns

* And lots more…

You decide what you want to do because there are always two sessions running at the same time. If you want to work with an instructor, you can go to the breakout room. If you want to listen to a lecture on a specific topic, the seminar room is where you want to be. You can tailor the whole weekend to your own level of game. If you’re new to the game I would suggest you mix it up with breakout and seminar sessions.

Q: Do you need to have taken one of your bootcamps or seminars before you go can go the Super Conference?

It is true that the Super Conference will be covering a lot of advanced techniques and never before revealed secrets. However, you do not have to have taken a bootcamp or seminar of ours to go to the Super Conference. Even if you are completely new, if you take the Gold level (which includes infield) you will get the same experience as a normal bootcamp. The added bonus is that you will work with more instructors than a normal bootcamp, so you will get to see a lot of different styles of game and get feedback from a lot of different instructors.

One day before the start of the Super Conference we have set up an optional introductory program for new students. The Head Start seminar is about getting the foundations of solid game right. It will allow you to walk into the Super-Conference confident that you fully know and understand the underpinnings behind the game and to enable you to get the most out of the advanced theories that will be put forth throughout the weekend.

Q: Will there be a DVD of the Super Conference?

Short answer: No.

When we release our latest breakthroughs, we want to keep it to the people who will be at the Super Conference. Normally we release sensitive information only on the Lounge, a private forum for people who have done training with Love Systems, but we will be discussing all new theories, routines, and techniques in person at the Super Conference. That’s why we have people sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) to prevent our secrets and breakthroughs from leaking to the public.

Q: It’s too expensive for me. Anything I can do to still make it to the Super Conference?

We understand that in this tough economy money can be tight. We normally don’t offer payment plans but we want to help men out as much as we can so we are making an exception for this Super Conference.

If you can’t afford the Gold level ticket, you might want to consider the Silver level ticket. You can attend and participate in all seminars and live exercises, and it’s only the night training that you’ll be missing out on. Although there will be loads of other guys who will be eager to head out on the town with you!

Click here if you want to find out more on the Love Systems Super Conference.

Here are some reviews of students on the past Love Systems Super Conferences.

Sinn - One of my favorite things about Super Conferences is being around all of the instructors. Every one of them is a really cool guy. Can’t wait till next year!

Psilite – I had a lot of fun and thought this whole Super Conference was genius! Especially the way the rooms were set up. There was A LOT of information that was gold in the entire Super Conference! Much of it helped me a lot when I went out that same day. I wish I had a gold or higher ticker to go out with the instructors.

J The Ripper – My brain is still on overload as I’m trying to sort out all the knowledge that was handed down by the Love Systems instructors. They had a really cool format where you could basically choose your own schedule. The upstairs auditorium was dedicated to seminars, which was one speaker after another. Each speaker would discuss a different topic (ie Approach Anxiety. Routines, Day Game, Qualification, 10 Min. lays, Female Psychology, etc…) The side room and downstairs room were dedicated to group exercises, where the instructors would go over a certain aspect of game, and then coach you on it and give you instant feedback (teasing and bantering, storytelling, frame control, etc). I had a great time and recommend everyone check it out next year.

Capo - What can I say? I mean… the Super Conference offered way more than I thought, I mean, it was way better than I had anticipated, even having read all of what was posted on the site. I thought it was going to be a really fun and educational weekend… it turned out to be one of the funnest and coolest (educational as well) weekends I’ve ever had, it was really awesome. Every single instructor that took the stage or got to be in charge of the workout room was very knowledgeable and they all took as much time as needed to answer all the questions they were being asked. The Super Conference was awesome, I met a lot of really cool guys and got to hang out with some of the best instructors in the world, what more can I ask for?

SirSlick – Whatever you want, LS has instructors that are experts on different areas and you can just walk up to them and ask them whatever you need to know. I never had the idea that the instructors “were better” than the attendees. My impression of them was they were genuine in helping people and were just like “us”. I’d highly suggest for everyone to get a SC BC, it’s worth the money. I’m college student and tight on money, but the investment was totally worth it. It totally opened my reality on what I can do now and in the future. The BC definitely cut my learning curve by several months up to maybe a year, because it eliminated two sticking points and now I know what weaknesses I have in my game. With that I also have exercises and notes on how to improve my success with women.

Goodrake - While it’s great to hear someone talk about it, seeing the instructors do it, answer questions, and then watch and evaluate as the students did it was a great learning process. Almost without exception each of the presenters showed both a real depth of knowledge and experience about the subject matter, and a genuine passion for sharing this with the attendees and seeing it benefit them. If you come to one of these or a bootcamp, be sure to be prepared to take a lot of notes, in a quick and organized fashion. When the instructors are in their groove, the information is flowing. If knowledge is water, think of it as trying to drink from a fire hose. Even though I’ve been studying and applying this stuff for about a year, there’s still plenty of new insights to be gained from attending, as well as retouching on foundational stuff, and the occasional “light bulb over head” moment, when the clouds part and you see something you didn’t see before. How much is a “breakthrough” worth to you?

Monk – As I began talking to other attendees, I realized the lengths community members were willing to go to to attend this event. I met guys from all over CA, from the east coast, and instructors from London, Sweden, Paris, Thailand and other exotic locales. Everyone. Thank you. My life is different. Fears and doubts I’ve had since adolescence are gone, perhaps forever.

Guythano – I really had quite a bit of fun, but more importantly conquered some sticking points. It all just suddenly clicked. A week after I returned, it just started raining women. I would just like to thank everyone again for all their efforts to make the superconference possible and if you have the chance to go, I highly recommend that you do!

Xander - Let me just say that Love Systems truly is dating science. It’s an accurate term. It’s the most cutting edge, advanced stuff around and it’s constantly being refined by great tactical seducers. Overall a life-changing weekend and a total bargain.

Jiggawha - I was so surprised at everyone’s high levels of positive energy, and when I heard the instructors speak, I was instantly blown away. Every word that they spoke struck me with an “AHA!” moment, and shot my motivation up the roof. They were so down to earth that I felt I had a chance of becoming like them. I had already gotten my money’s worth. I usually never talk to my parents deeper than an informational level, but I called my mom Monday night, and we had a deep conversation for half an hour about my life and about her’s. It literally almost brought me to tears when I got off the phone with her; also making me realize how much I’ve changed over this past weekend. She told me how much she enjoyed the conversation, and I agreed. A conversation beyond an informational level hasn’t happened in over 5-10 years. Before that, I had dinner with a good friend of mine and we also had a really deep conversation about everything. He commented on how very different I am now, after coming out of this conference. All the attendees and instructors have changed my life and my eyes have been opened to new perspectives once more. Coming into the conference, I couldn’t even open a set properly, but after that first failed set, the learning has never stopped. Every single one of you has had an impact on me. Life has meaning again. Thank you so much.

Cleanface - The conference this year was nothing short of amazing! What an awesome event!

Zyder – The Love Systems Super Conference in Vegas was a really exceptional experience. Considering that I only first started reading Magic Bullets on my flight over from Paris then to say I was a newbie to all this material would be a bit of an understatement! The seminars covered pretty much every aspect of gaming women. Three days of seminars with the instructors often around and between sessions to answer your questions was such a great deal. I was genuinely shocked by how articulate and knowledgeable the instructors were.

Tenorio - I walked away from EVERY presentation having learned something — and that’s saying a lot, since I’ve read everything. Going out both nights in Gold Level groups…well, I don’t know what to say. There’s no better way to put theoretical lessons into action than through practice, and Gold Level was a perfect way to do this. I left the weekend with some sticking points nailed and a concrete gameplan for my evolution going forward. There’s not much more I could ask for.

SSnake – There was lots material that I had never heard or read and getting it straight from the horses mouth made all the difference. Of course, there is already more good material on-line, in books, and on CD then you could ingest in a life-time. I went to actually hang out with these instructors and network with other students. You can’t get that from media.

If you want to attend the biggest dating conference, you better get your seat. There are only a finite number of seats available and seats will be selling out soon.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/16/q-a-with-savoy-about-love-systems-super-conference-video/feed/ 2 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/16/q-a-with-savoy-about-love-systems-super-conference-video/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAttractionChroniclesBlog/~3/hqDsn6gyEgM/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/11/youre-not-bothering-them/#comments Sat, 12 Sep 2009 06:18:29 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1231 I was with a friend of mine the other day who was in town visiting, and he said to me “I actually do see women I’m attracted to, but when I do I don’t want to go over and bother them. She’s probably hit on all the time, so she would probably be annoyed that [...] I was with a friend of mine the other day who was in town visiting, and he said to me “I actually do see women I’m attracted to, but when I do I don’t want to go over and bother them. She’s probably hit on all the time, so she would probably be annoyed that I’m walking over to talk to her.”

So I looked at him (while keeping an eye on the road at the same time), and said “That’s your excuse! That’s your fear making you feel okay about not trying to go over there and talk to her. That is the way that you protect yourself from being rejected. You figure by not going over and talking to her, and by making up an excuse for her, you can rationalize in your head that it was not the time to go over and talk to her. This excuse makes you feel better.”

So he looked at me (because he didn’t have to keep his eyes on the road), and said “So you’re telling me that women would be up for speaking with me?”

Now I really looked at him hard, gave the wheel of the car to my dog (who is trained to do this by the way), and I said “You already know that. We’ve had this discussion over and over again. You just refuse to try.”

I then proceeded to tell him “I can give you all the tools. I can even teach you the approach. What I can’t do is hold your hand and bring you over to the woman.”

There comes a point when studying this stuff is not enough . . . you have got to start trying to do it.

My friend is not alone. I have found a lot of people who suffer from approach anxiety. The number one excuse I hear from people as to why they are so anxious about the approach, is that they think that they are bothering somebody.

Unless you’re a mind reader and you can predict the future, then you have no idea what somebody would be thinking if you walked over and talked to them. Granted, there are some things you can look for to see if someone is open to a conversation.

• Are they smiling at you?
• Are they lingering next to you in a supermarket aisle?
• Do they look over at you while standing next to you in line at Starbucks?

Those are some obvious ones. The truth is that the complaint I hear most often from women who are super hot and sexy (and remember “super hot and sexy” is whatever type of woman you’re attracted to), is that men just do not approach.

A lot of times women don’t know how to make themselves approachable. They do not use any of the above tips.

When I am coaching someone, whether it’s in one of my Bootcamps or one-on-one, I always teach people to be friendly to everybody. If you are friendly to everybody, then people will start noticing you and they will want to start talking to you.

Recently while I was doing a Bootcamp with several guys, I was talking to this senile old lady at the farmer’s market. Three women were walking in our direction, and my students were getting antsy because they did not want to waste time talking to the senile old lady. The old lady prepared to leave just as the three ladies approached where we were, and as she left the old lady gave one of my students a hug, thanked us, and told us to have a nice day.

Immediately one of my students said “We just blew it with those three girls!” And I said, “I’ll bet you what you paid for my bootcamp that they will all turn around, stop, and want to talk to us.” Immediately every one of my Bootcamp students smiled and shook my hand . . . which is all part of what I wanted to do to create energy in the first place.

The women took five more steps, then turned around, stopped, and they all smiled directly at us. So why did this happen?

This happened because women not only want to be approached, they want to talk to the people with good energy. When the little old lady (who really was senile, but who was pretty cute in her senility) hugged my friend, that triggered a warm emotional response in those women who walked by us.

The bottom line is this: By creating good energy and talking to everyone wherever you go, you will have people wanting and desiring to talk to you.

You can literally combat your own fears about approach anxiety. You need to realize that by being friendly to somebody and approaching a woman based on the power of observation (which I cover in depth in my MEN’S AUDIO MASTERY SERIES), you will start to realize that you can approach everybody as long as it is not done with a cheesy pick-up line.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/11/youre-not-bothering-them/feed/ 1 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/11/youre-not-bothering-them/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAttractionChroniclesBlog/~3/PFN4b9VQJQk/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/10/overcoming-loud-club-music/#comments Fri, 11 Sep 2009 06:07:40 +0000 Donovan http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1229 This post was from Evolve, at the Stylelife Academy. Many people find themselves having trouble communicating over the loud, repetitive sounds of the night club. If you’re not used to the noise it can be hard to think, let alone communicate! This exercise is an easy way for any guy and his wing to overcome the deafening [...] This post was from Evolve, at the Stylelife Academy.

Many people find themselves having trouble communicating over the loud, repetitive sounds of the night club. If you’re not used to the noise it can be hard to think, let alone communicate!

This exercise is an easy way for any guy and his wing to overcome the deafening noise of the nightclub.

Level 1: Get Comfortable in the Noise

First you’ll need a stereo that can really blast some music (the stereo in your car will work for the Level 1 exercise.) Put on something loud, anything from bumping club music to grinding death metal will do. Blast the music. Stand about 10 ft away from a friend and simply talk about anything for 5 to 10 minutes.

Get comfortable with thinking and speaking over loud music. It doesn’t matter at this point if the other person understands what you are saying. What matters is that you can keep on track and tell a story all the way through, over the music.

Repeat this exercise 4 times over the course of a week and you will find yourself to be much more comfortable around loud music.

Level 2: Storytelling and Listening

Write up, find, or memorize a story that your partner has never heard before. Stand across from each other and crank the music up. One of you will be the storyteller and the other will be the listener. The storyteller will try to communicate his story over the blasting music. The listener will try to figure out what the story is all about.

Once the storyteller is finished telling his tale, turn the music down. Now, the listener will explain what he believes the story was all about. If his version of the story is way off, then the storyteller needs to change how he expresses his story.

The storyteller and listener should discuss ways that you could use your body language and tonality to more accurately tell the story. Use your hands, make gestures, or change your facial expressions to match feelings or events in the story. Emphasize specific words that are important to the meaning of the story. Find parts of the story where you can throw in some kino. Tell the story again. Then change roles.

There are two lessons for this exercise. The first lesson is how to communicate an entire story to a group of people in a loud night club so that the listeners get the point.

The second lesson is how to listen to and interpret a story in a loud environment. This is especially important when a girl is telling you a story. The more you can hear, the better your response could be.

One of the worst things you can do in a noisy club is to “peck” when you can’t hear what someone is saying. When you can’t hear someone, most guys will lean in closer to the speaker.

Some men even think this is a positive form of kino because they can use the noise as an excuse to get close to the lady. However, by repeatedly leaning in, you resemble a ravenous chicken, pecking at feed in the chicken coop. It looks bad and it conveys lower value.

Resist the urge to peck. If you can’t hear what someone says, stand tall and simply ask them to repeat it. Do not lean forward. Stylelife Executive Coach Bravo is an expert on this maneuver.

“I lost the hearing in one of my ears as a result of firearms training,” he says. “I just point to my ear, explain that I have difficulty hearing, and ask the woman to speak up. But my posture never changes. I remain in a confident, upright, and powerful posture.”

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/10/overcoming-loud-club-music/feed/ 1 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/10/overcoming-loud-club-music/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAttractionChroniclesBlog/~3/Ym6IahPGQkQ/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/02/day-game-kiss-close-under-10-mins-video/#comments Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:01:59 +0000 Donovan http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1226 Here’s a new video from PUATraining that has an amazing day game kiss close in London in under 10 minutes. One of the biggest things we work on in our bootcamps is dispelling the myth that it takes “7 hours” to move things forward with a girl. Yad (the guy in the video!) pulls off instant [...] Here’s a new video from PUATraining that has an amazing day game kiss close in London in under 10 minutes.

One of the biggest things we work on in our bootcamps is dispelling the myth that it takes “7 hours” to move things forward with a girl.

Yad (the guy in the video!) pulls off instant kisses in just minutes and often just takes the girls home right then and there.

I’m more of a night-game guy myself, but I usually take things open to close in under an hour!

The biggest thing for you to take out of this video is that almost anything is possible with women..very, very quickly.

The key to believing is actually seeing it with your own to eyes. And then getting the results for yourself.

Hopefully this video really helps you out and expands your reality.

Check it out:

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/02/day-game-kiss-close-under-10-mins-video/feed/ 3 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/02/day-game-kiss-close-under-10-mins-video/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAttractionChroniclesBlog/~3/LiE03khWfFk/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/01/dr-paul-mindos-deep-inner-game-chicago-seminar-announced/#comments Wed, 02 Sep 2009 07:53:50 +0000 Donovan http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1222 Dr. Paul, creator of David DeAngelo’s Deep Inner Game program, has announced that he’s holding his MindOS seminar Oct 24-25th in Chicago. It’s been over 5 years since Deep Inner Game was created, heralded as one of the most comprehensive solutions to inner game problems by many guys in the community. Dr. Paul stated [...] Dr. Paul, creator of David DeAngelo’s Deep Inner Game program, has announced that he’s holding his MindOS seminar Oct 24-25th in Chicago.

It’s been over 5 years since Deep Inner Game was created, heralded as one of the most comprehensive solutions to inner game problems by many guys in the community. Dr. Paul stated in his email newsletter that for those who have seen Deep Inner Game and previous versions of the program can expect new applications, material and tools to use to breakthrough inner game issues.

Here’s a video from Dr. Paul:

I’ll be attending the seminar, it’s under $500 which is less than the Deep Inner Game program on DVD/CD. It’s for men and women, so it should be a really transformative and fun event. Hope to see some of you there. You can get more information and specifics from Dr. Paul’s page here.

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]]> http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/01/dr-paul-mindos-deep-inner-game-chicago-seminar-announced/feed/ 0 http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/09/01/dr-paul-mindos-deep-inner-game-chicago-seminar-announced/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheAttractionChroniclesBlog/~3/5YJV8XdvEYU/ http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2009/08/28/the-1-communication-problem-men-have/#comments Fri, 28 Aug 2009 18:23:38 +0000 David Wygant http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/?p=1220 The other night during dinner I came up with a quote I want you to read: “Embrace change at my own pace.” I embrace change at my own pace. You need to really take that statement in and listen to what it’s saying. How many times in a relationship have you talked to someone and given [...] The other night during dinner I came up with a quote I want you to read:
“Embrace change at my own pace.”

I embrace change at my own pace.

You need to really take that statement in and listen to what it’s saying. How many times in a relationship have you talked to someone and given them your point of view, and then expected them to just react right away?

Let’s say you’re dating someone and you’ve been talking a little here and there about moving in together. Then you say to the other person that you want to move in with them and you list all the reasons why it’s a good idea. Do you then expect the other person to immediately respond with an answer? Do you get angry if they don’t immediately react and respond?

So many of us spend so much time wanting people to react the way we react. We want them to react exactly how we react and do it when we want them to do it.

Think about this from a little different perspective. When you are in a relationship and decide you’re ready to bring up a really important subject with your partner, you have almost always spent a lot of time thinking about and processing that topic before you actually bring it up.

Your partner, however, is just hearing about that topic for the first time when you raise it with them, and they haven’t had the benefit of being able to process the subject like you have. So don’t expect them to be ready to respond in that instance.

So many of us spend so much time wanting people to react the way we react. Then if and when they don’t react in that exact way, we start freaking out and playing mind games with ourselves.

I am equally guilty of that. In my relationship, sometimes I will have a conversation with my girlfriend and I’ll say something to her to which I want an answer that day. When I do this, she always says to me, “Give me time. Let me react in my own time.”

So many of us make assumptions. We hear what we want to hear. How many times do you have selective hearing?

Say you call someone on a Saturday. They don’t call you back that day . . . or the next one. Do you text them three times asking, “How come you haven’t called me back? Why aren’t you calling me back?” Perhaps they didn’t have their phone on them.

How many times to do you send an email to someone at 10:00 a.m. and, if you don’t get a response by noon, you send another email asking “How come you never responded to my email?” Allow people to respond on their own time.

When you allow people to respond on their own time you are not only going to get the response you desire (because the answer will come from their heart), but it’s going to be a real response and not a forced one.

People suffocate each other all the time, and they don’t allow each other the space they each need to reflect on these “heavy” conversation topics. When we do that, it’s a reflection of the lack of trust and faith in both the other person and in yourself. That instant gratification you want really can ruin a relationship, because you are forcing someone to answer you when they are not ready.

There is no reason to force people into answering when they’re not ready. There is no reason to make someone say something they’re not ready to say.

Have some patience in life. The more patient you are in a relationship, the greater a relationship with someone will be. So many of you ruin relationships that could potentially be great because of the way you force it.

If you give people time, then a relationship will grow and become exactly what you need it to be. You need to have trust and faith, because neurosis will just drive people crazy.

In today’s podcast, I talk more about communication and about how bringing up these heavy conversation topics can create fear and anxiety in all of us. Then I go into how to relax and feel better about talking out the tough times in your life with friends, relationship partners and business associates. This is one you don’t want to miss!

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Years ago a friend of mine told me a story about a bunch of little frogs who decided to have a race up a huge tower.

Whoever hops to the top of the tower first would be the winner, they determined.

A huge crowd gathered around the little frogs. No one believed the tiny frogs even had a chance at making it to the top of the tower.

People from the crowd heckled the little guys with: “You’re way too small to climb that tower, you’ll never make it!”

And guess what?

Heaps of frogs slid off the tower.

The crowd heckled louder, and the rest of the frogs tumbled down – except for one. The crowd continued to berate and snicker at him. But he slogged his way to the top.

Do you know why?

He was deaf.

There’s an important lesson here about attracting and succeeding with women you may already realize.

If not, don’t worry. I’m going to discuss it in a minute.

But first…

Have you ever noticed that most ladies men see reality different from the average man?

An ordinary man, for example, might perceive a woman as showing little to no interest in him.

But transplant a ladies man’s brain into his skull and he’ll see the same woman as a little pervert who can’t keep her dirty paws off him.

Though, my friend, this is only half the story…

Similar to the deaf frog, most ladies men are blind and deaf to certain facets of reality. And this is a big part of what makes them disgustingly good at attracting women.

When a woman with the soul of a filthy virus hisses a crippling putdown, most men feel like she’s pulling their heart out and stepping on it.

But the ladies man boots these words out of his reality.

Or interprets them as meaning: she’s trying to play hard to get because she knows I’m a good catch.

If a ladies man approaches a woman and she spouts, “Scat loser!” he doesn’t have an “I’m gonna cry” mentality. Instead, he fails to notice the bitter words flowing from her lips.

Most mortal men have a voice of doubt that snakes into their ears every time they want to push forward with a woman.

If they want to approach a girl, the voice might sneer, “She’s out of your league. She’d never go for you.”

If they want to kiss her, the voice of doubt might scream, “She’s not attracted to you! Spare yourself the embarrassment!”

Sound familiar?

The ladies man, similar to ordinary men, has a voice of doubt too. But because he’s deaf to negative forces, he can’t hear the voice. The only time his hearing improves is when the voice starts saying things that empower him to take action with women.

“Can an ordinary man see reality like a ladies man?” you might be wondering.

Yes, any man can learn to see the world like a ladies man does. The key is to develop the right beliefs for succeeding with and attracting women.

Beliefs create a direction or focus of attention for the mind.

One of my friends, for example, believes women aren’t attracted to him. Because his focus of attention is on women not feeling attraction toward him, he’s always noticing how women aren’t attracted to him.

Likewise, I’ve seen women who looked like they wanted him so bad that they’d have sold their children into slavery to get a piece of him. But he couldn’t see it because that’s not where his focus of attention is.

On the other hand, I know a guy barely hovering above 5′3” whose belly juts out further than his hyperthyroid eyes. He drinks like a fish and stinks like a skunk. And to make matters worse, he’s missing a hand.

It used to make me cringe to see him approach women. He’d almost always start off on the wrong foot. I’d think: “They aren’t just a little turned off by him; they’d rather be torn to shreds by a pack of rabies infested hyenas.”

But he doesn’t see this. He believes all women want him. Like a high powered laser beam he’s always focusing on and looking for every aspect in which women are mushrooming with love for him.

Because of this… he’s blind as a bat to women wanting him to disappear quicker than a turd plunging down the toilet.

But something weird happens in his interactions with women. The first time I witnessed it, it gave me the creeps. (Note: What you’re about to read is an important piece to why ladies men are devastatingly effective with women).

He takes women from wanting to shoot pepper spray in his eyes to feeling compelled to kiss him. He can mutate a churning stomach into a belly fully of attraction.

“But how?” you might be thinking.

There are some deep psychological reasons…

Most people are lumbered with weak and pliable beliefs. More often than not, when two people are interacting, the person with the weaker belief system takes on the beliefs of the person with the stronger.

What this means for you is that…

If a woman starts off believing you’re less attractive than a fetus with a cigar in his mouth, yet you possess the unwavering belief that she’s attracted to you, there’s a high probability she’ll start believing this too.

But I should warn you…

If you don’t have the unwavering belief that a woman is attracted to, chances are, she’ll plunge you into a reality where success with her is slim to none.

The good news is… I’ve spent a lot of time putting together a book that contains the exact tools, skills, and exercises to developing an ironclad belief system.

As a result, many men just like you have been developing unwavering beliefs systems, giving them the power and confidence to generate attraction inside the women they desire.

But this only covers the tip of the iceberg of what you’ll learn inside my book. It’s a world class education on dating and attracting and succeeding with the women you desire.

Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my book right now. You deserve it.

You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.

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Your loyal datin coach,

Swinggcat

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