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		<title>A disturbing review</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It was in the Number 1 Bestseller bin at my local Christian bookstore when I strolled in for a browse last week. And it was hard to miss at other places around the store, with its bold, red, attention-grabbing cover: &#8220;Real Marriage: The Truth about Sex, Friendship, and Life Together&#8221; by Mark and Grace Driscoll.  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/04/a-disturbing-review/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was in the Number 1 Bestseller bin at my local Christian bookstore when I strolled in for a browse last week. And it was hard to miss at other places around the store, with its bold, red, attention-grabbing cover: &#8220;Real Marriage: The Truth about Sex, Friendship, and Life Together&#8221; by Mark and Grace Driscoll.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t buy it, and now I&#8217;m wondering whether perhaps that was a wise move. That would certainly be Heath Lambert&#8217;s advice, who has written a measured but stinging review of the book in  the most recent edition of <a href="http://www.dennyburk.com/spring-issue-of-jbmw-now-online/">The Journal for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood</a>. He concludes:</p>
<blockquote><p>I hope that after reading it you will not sense the need to read Real Marriage. I want to be clear: I have nothing against Mark Driscoll and his wife. Instead, I am thankful for (what I have been told is) a clear witness to the gospel in Seattle. Having said that, I am deeply disturbed by this book on marriage. This book will hurt people. It is going to create confusion in marriages, trouble in the sexual relationships of married couples, turmoil in individuals struggling with all manner of difficulties, and questions about the nature of marriage from God’s perspective.</p></blockquote>
<p>Has anyone read the Driscolls&#8217; book and the review? Are Lambert&#8217;s concerns justified?</p>
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		<title>The mistakes of Phillip Jensen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phillip Jensen | Tony Payne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Tony Payne:</strong> Phillip, you’ve been in ministry for quite a long time…</p>
<p><strong>Phillip Jensen:</strong> Well, ever since I became a Christian; that’s when you start ministering, and that was back in ’59.  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/03/the-mistakes-of-phillip-jensen/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Tony Payne:</strong> Phillip, you’ve been in ministry for quite a long time…</p>
<p><strong>Phillip Jensen:</strong> Well, ever since I became a Christian; that’s when you start ministering, and that was back in ’59.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> You’ve often said that you learn from your mistakes in life, and in ministry.</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Which is why I know so much. I’ve made so many.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Well that should make for a decent length interview, because I’m going to ask you about your mistakes. I want you to look back and think about your blunders. Let’s start, Frank Sinatra style, with regrets (“I’ve had a few, but then again too few to mention”). Looking back on your ministry, do you have any major regrets?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> No, none. I don’t think regret is really a Christian characteristic; it’s an atheistic characteristic; it’s a Sinatra characteristic, because he lived for himself. But if you live for God, and God is the sovereign God who cares for us, loves us, forgives us, pardons us, then we move on, forgetting what is in the past. I press on to the goal of the future, so I don’t live in regret, and I don’t think we should.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Perhaps it’s going to be a short interview after all…</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Ah, no, because you started out talking about mistakes, and that will make a very substantial interview, because I’ve made lots of mistakes. But I don’t regret mistakes. I say sorry, I ask for forgiveness, I fix what can be fixed, and I move on. I try to learn from mistakes, but I don’t live in regret about them.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Okay, let’s start with theology. Theologically speaking, and in your understanding of the Bible, how have you changed your mind over the years? As you look back, what things do you think you’ve got wrong?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Lots of things. For many years I was an Arminian. It took some kind, loving friends to bash me over the head for some months to get me out of that kind of thinking. I was and I still am a teetotaller, but I used to believe that alcohol itself was evil, whereas clearly that’s not what the Bible is teaching. So there were those kinds of mistakes—some of them really fundamental, like Arminianism; some of them more marginal.<br />
I was a pacifist for some years, and again that’s a hopeless position, because you can’t really be a Christian pacifist and worship the ‘God of armies’ (which is what ‘Lord of hosts’ means). And you can’t make sense of punishment or of the cross if you’re a pacifist, but for years I was a pacifist and it took me a while to work that out.<br />
Most of those errors were in my early years as a Christian. And I had the benefit of good fellowship, good church teaching, and the great benefit of Moore College to help me sort out the big issues, the big fundamental issues. Since College, I’ve changed my mind on lots and lots of little issues. I’ve also changed my mind about lots of Bible passages—so I learnt the framework of expositional preaching and exegesis of the Scriptures, but I thought I knew what was in the passages before I actually did the exegesis. But then I discovered in a great many cases that the passages didn’t say what I thought they were going to say; they said something different. And so I needed to change my mind. And I’m still doing that and I’m still learning. I’m preaching a new series on 1 John at the moment, in which I’ve come to quite a different understanding of 1 John which, blessedly, my son has taught me. But that’s a discovery I’ve only come to in the last little while.<br />
I should say that nothing of huge significance has changed since coming out of college. I still believe in God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit!</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> It’s really interesting that your experience was after receiving that training, that theological framework, it actually equipped you to keep growing and changing your mind. The perception might be that you go to somewhere like Moore College and you learn a body of knowledge that is fixed forever more. But in fact what you learn is a framework and a set of tools to keep learning and growing.</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Yes, that’s exactly right. That’s the exact reverse of expectation. My youth fellowship group took me through Louis Berkoff’s <em>Systematic Theology</em>. And so I went to Moore College thinking I knew it all. But instead they dismantled much of what I’d learned—especially the sense that here’s the question, here’s the Bible verse, here’s the answer. They said, “Well, what does this proof text verse say in its context, and what does the book say?” And it just didn’t actually prove the point that Louis said it proved. What Moore College did was radicalize my mind to think biblically and creatively, rather than giving me all the answers so I didn’t have to think any more. I had that before I went to College. College freed me from it.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> As you left College, and went out to apply your newfound understanding in ministry, you found yourself dealing with people, because ministry is people. Thinking back on your relationships with people and on the pastoral issues you’ve dealt with, what mistakes stick out in your mind? Things you wished you’d done differently, things you’ve learnt from?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Well, people are an inexact science! You can wish that every relationship is going to work perfectly—but they don’t and they’re never going to. And so there are certain people that I’ve hurt and people who have hurt me. And they would wish, hopefully, that they hadn’t hurt me, and I certainly wish that I hadn’t hurt them! And so there are just mistakes that we all make in relationships.<br />
But in general, with people, I think I was too naïve and trusting of people, especially early in my ministry. I took people too much as I found them.<br />
I didn’t really believe enough in the doctrine of sin. And so I took people on face value, which in one sense you have to if you’re going to trust people, and if you’re going to have a relationship with people. But over the years you learn that the enthusiast, especially the newcomer enthusiast, is often the shallow soil that will burn out very quickly when the opposition comes. And you need to be wary.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> You made mistakes in trusting people too quickly, in other words?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> That’s right. And it’s really a delegation problem. In Christian ministry you’ve got to delegate to people. I didn’t spend enough time on that, because I didn’t know to train people properly before I delegated to them. So I met them, I liked them, they seemed good people, and I got them to do things. Then down the track I discovered that they didn’t actually believe the same things I believed; or didn’t live with the same lifestyle that I expected of a Christian. I remember setting up a couple of church plants in my early church planting days. And I talked to a couple of enthusiastic people who were all fired up to establish this church. But three months down the track, after we had put in a lot of effort, and gathered people in, it became quite apparent that this couple I had trusted actually had huge marriage problems. They separated, and the whole church disappeared. And in hindsight, I simply didn’t spend enough time with them. I didn’t get to know them, and didn’t understand how they functioned as people. I just took them at face value.<br />
I also did it institutionally. The first missionaries I sent out, I sent with a missionary society that didn’t actually screen people properly, didn’t train and equip people properly. I had thought, “Well this is a missionary society. They know about the third world. I know nothing about the third world. Here’s a missionary who wants to go. They want to take them. Perfect.” But it was dreadful, and disillusioned a lot of Christians in support of the mission field. There was hardly any good to come out of it, other than the dear missionary who was a very fine Christian person and survived through it all. But that was the kind of mistake that I made, just trusting people—although the mistake is not really trust. It’s lack of discernment. You have to trust people, but you need to do so discerningly.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Speaking of discernment, one of the things I’ve always appreciated about your ministry was your willingness to disagree when that was necessary; to have a fight when there was a fight to be had. As you look back on your conflicts, what have you learnt?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> I can think of several lessons. The first is that as a young man I enjoyed a fight too much. I grew up in a family of brothers. We fought a lot, and I grew up through debating and arguing, and I liked a good argument. A very kind senior academic came and talked to me years ago, and pointed out that when the Bible urges us to “flee the passions of youth”, it’s not talking about sex. It’s talking about argumentativeness, if you look at the context (in 2 Tim 2). The Lord’s servant must not be argumentative, but teach patiently and pray that God may change your heart. So as a young man, my own personality and argumentativeness was too strong. So that was a lesson to learn.<br />
All the same, God uses even our mistakes and flaws for good. Down the track, I think I was able to cope with the conflicts that I went into or had thrust upon me much better, because of what I had learnt in the scrums of yesteryear.<br />
The next problem was this lack of discernment in trust. I grew up in a very loving family, a very caring family, with a certain degree of naïve trust in the institutions of our society and our world. So I trusted the Anglican Church, I trusted the <em>Sydney Morning Herald</em>, I trusted the university and educational system. That was an incredibly misplaced trust. Those institutions were nothing like I imagined them to be. So I thought the university was a place of learning, open enquiry, genuine intellectual robust discussion, truth-seeking… and there are people like that in the university world. I’ve met them. But that’s not really what the university is about. I only discovered that when I tried to teach the Bible at the University of NSW. As long as I was marginalized, as long as I kept my head down and was out of the way, as long as I didn’t speak or draw a crowd, I was tolerated.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> But when you did?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> But when I did I was pilloried and attacked and persecuted consistently.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> By the university authorities?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Sometimes it was the authority structure itself; sometimes it was just individuals within the system. The university is a complex community. Sometimes it was the student union, or sometimes the university newspaper. Sometimes it was the enrolment office. It was generally anti-Christian people in the system. But they never attacked you for preaching Christ as such. They attacked you for handing out a leaflet in the wrong place.<br />
Each year there was another way in which people within the system at the university fought against me gathering Christians on the campus to hear the word of God. Every year there was conflict—over giving out water to students, over room bookings, over activities in Orientation Week, or over whatever it was this year. That was difficult. But it made me realise that the university was not a place of free and open debate and enquiry about the truth, but a political game that was played according to certain rules—and the rules were made and changed by those in power for their own purposes.<br />
That was a very different world to the university I grew up imagining. But it was good for me, because I learnt. And so I lost my respect of universities.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Throughout the 80s and 90s, there was significant conflict within Christian circles over the charismatic movement. In fact, as a young charismatic arriving at your church many years ago, I found your strong stance on those issues a difficult thing to wrestle through. Do you think you made any mistakes in the way you responded to charismatic issues?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> This may sound strange, but I think we should have fought harder quicker. By the time we understood what was going on, we had already lost a lot of ground and a lot of people.<br />
But I also made mistakes by taking too long to realise that there were two basic kinds of charismatics. There were the ex-evangelicals who became charismatics, and who were moving away from evangelicalism. And then there were non-Christians who were converted in a charismatic or Pentecostal church, and were moving towards evangelicalism. The problem when you met a charismatic was that you had to work out which direction they were travelling, in order to know what to say.<br />
Rarely did the ex-evangelicals ever come back to the Bible. They tended to keep going into more and more charismatic extremes and often out of Christianity. But for the non-Christian who became a charismatic… usually that was their first ever taste of the gospel of Jesus, and when they had it explained more clearly to them they continued on a trajectory away from charismatic theology. So there were several years in which I was preaching as if the congregation were ex-evangelicals, when they really were ex-non-Christians. I was being too harsh in what I was saying because I was misreading the people who I was speaking to.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Let’s think about church life more generally. Looking back on the various things you’ve done over the years (and you’ve always been someone who’s tried things, who’s experimented) what have you learnt? What blunders did you make in the tactics of church life and church planting?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Oh, sometimes travelling too slowly. By 1982, we had filled St Matthias church on a Sunday night, and then we couldn’t work out what to do. For two or three years we ran with a full church, until we worked out that we could take the students out and start a new church on Friday night in a lecture theatre. Now it’s hard to imagine how radical an idea it was to move out of a church building and into a lecture theatre, or to move away from Sunday night onto a Friday night. But as soon as we did it, we started building a new church. Within three or four years we had two congregations the same size. But the thing is, we lost three years, just because we were too slow to work out what do to and how to do it.<br />
Another mistake is to use the wrong venue. Venues do matter in churches. In the early 90s, we combined three congregations and went into Unisearch House, which I don’t think is there anymore. It used to be a bowling alley, and had a very low ceiling. We had about five or six hundred people, and it was oppressive. It’s profound the effect architecture has on you. Nobody liked being there. And I didn’t like being there. I liked being there with the people, but it just wasn’t a pleasant building to be in. Your spirits dropped when you entered it, I don’t know why.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> They probably had one of those big machines in the basement that sucks the life out people.</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Yes perhaps that was it! Sometimes God also turns your mistakes into unlikely successes. One of the congregations we folded into that larger meeting in Unisearch House had originally been a Wednesday night congregation. That was one of our brilliant mistakes. We had set it up to reach city workers, and the whole pattern, the way we did it, the serving of a meal beforehand—it was all to reach city workers. And we got about, I don’t know, 40 or 50 city workers to come and plant it together. Within two years, hardly any of them were in the church and, although the church had grown to 100, none of them were city workers. They were shift workers, and all kinds of people, many of whom were marginalized in society. And so we completely failed to reach the people the church had been planted for; so that’s a mistake. But over the years we found that there were more people converted in that congregation than in almost any other we ran. It never grew beyond 100, because the kinds of people it attracted were the kinds of people who needed a small church, who could not cope with a large church. So as soon as the church grew beyond a hundred they left. And other people would come in. So it looked like a failure, and struggled to be self-sufficient. But in terms of seeing people converted it was a huge success—just not the success we had aimed at. So it was a brilliant mistake.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Let’s talk politics. You’ve been actively involved in Anglican politics over many years. I don’t mean that negatively, as if politics is a bad thing. Politics is just the way humans organize themselves in a group. But looking back at all the ins and outs of that involvement, are there things you wished you’d done differently?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Once again, I would say naivety was a major failing, especially early on. I trusted the Anglican Church too much. I was raised on the 39 Articles and the Prayer Book of 1662, and on the idea that as a denomination we were constituted by law, and that we had all the safeguards of constitutional authority. But of course, that was a nonsense, because I discovered that the Anglican constitution was only ever used to hold back evangelicals from the work of the gospel. It didn’t hold back other people—you could believe the most outlandish heresy and wind up as an Anglican bishop leading a diocese. You could practice certain immoralities and still wind up in positions of power. But if you wanted to change a jot or tittle that might advance the cause of the gospel, you would find all kinds of people against you.<br />
I went to General Synod—which is the governing body for Anglicans around Australia—and that was a mistake. We discussed a new prayer book that they were putting forward and I thought that those proposing it believed what they were saying (when they said that they stood by the 39 Articles and the 1662 Prayer Book). But they clearly didn’t believe what they were saying, because when I pointed out major inconsistencies between the new prayer book and the 1662, I was shouted down and overruled. At one General Synod meeting, people stamped their feet and scraped their feet on the ground as I spoke—the kind of rudeness that you wouldn’t even expect from a non-Christian, but this was the General Synod of the Anglican Church of Australia.<br />
The Anglican Communion around the world is full of lovely Christian people. But it’s also full of people who are Christianized by culture, but have moved so far away from their understanding of Christianity that they will approve that which is sin and deny that which is truth. Which is the total antithesis of Christianity.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Thinking of Sydney Anglicanism and its politics, one of the most significant periods was the 1990s—I’m thinking of the founding of the Reformed Evangelical Protestant Association (REPA), your involvement in that, and the archepiscopal election that took place… Looking back on all those events, what mistakes do you think you might have made?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> I made the mistake of not spending enough time with people, explaining myself to them, listening to them carefully, and re-explaining myself in their terms so that we shared a common mind. It’s a mistake I keep making. You mentioned REPA. I didn’t understand how much people saw it as a political movement, because for me it was spiritual. Our diocese was suffering from a profound spiritual malaise—of complacency and self-satisfaction—and we were not confronting the evangelistic needs of our society by changing in a way that could reach our community. I formed REPA to address that issue, and to drive change. But in the process, my friends nominated me for the role of archbishop in 1993, and I allowed them to do that. But I didn’t understand the degree to which people then thought that the whole REPA thing was a political move to get me elected. When I stood for archbishop, it proved their point, and so they then didn’t have to listen to the spiritual challenge that I was trying to bring because, after all, it was just an attempt to get me elected. I never thought that the spiritual change necessary in our diocese could be done by an archbishop. If my friends thought that this was the best way of using my gifts and time, I was willing to allow that to happen.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> But looking back you wish you hadn’t?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Yes, in some ways I wish I hadn’t. It was a very hard decision at the time. Was it a mistake? Yes, because it derailed people from hearing what I was saying. That was the mistake. The important thing is not the message sent but the message received. And if you don’t spend enough time explaining your message, correcting misperceptions, and explaining again, then you might send the right message but it’s not heard properly. And I think the REPA message was not heard properly because of the political processes that were involved.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Well, knowing what you do now, thinking back over decades in ministry: if you were talking to a young man or woman in ministry just getting started, what would you say to them?</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> You’ve got to take up your cross and follow Jesus. So this is no career move for the faint-hearted. This is no career move for someone who wants an easy life or a nice life. You’re not going to be accepted, and you’re not going to be liked: you are following the crucified one.<br />
So grasp that reality before you start. That’s not an invitation for nasty people to join the ministry. If you enjoy conflict you have a spiritual problem. But if you withdraw from conflict, or think you’re going to win people over by niceness, you have a major problem because you’re not actually dealing with Christianity. People like using the suffering servant of the cross as an image of loving service. It is that. But it is also an image of painful martyrdom and alienation and rejection. That’s what Christian ministry is always going to be about.<br />
Secondly then, it’s really important to be at one with your spouse about it. Family life is really important, and without a good wife beside me I could not have survived the years that God has given me in the work that I’ve been doing. Helen’s strength has been massive in enabling me to do what I do.<br />
The third thing is: expect to make mistakes. It’s okay to make mistakes. In fact, it’s good to make mistakes. A person who hasn’t made mistakes hasn’t tried hard enough. You can’t be in a people ministry without making mistakes. You can’t be in something as complicated as Christian ministry without making mistakes. But you’ve got to learn how to deal with mistakes. You’ve got to be able to say, “Yeah, I got that dead wrong. I need to say sorry, and to fix up the things I can fix up, and to leave the rest to God. I have to pick myself up, dust myself off, and start all over again.” Mind you, some mistakes have consequences that you bear for the rest of your life. You can’t avoid that.<br />
And finally, I would say: make sure you go to Moore College and be trained properly—trained so that you can keep learning, and growing in knowledge and understanding, and not be locked into a closed framework of mind.</p>
<p><strong>TP:</strong> Thanks for talking to us today.</p>
<p><strong>PJ:</strong> Pleasure!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been reflecting on how horrible teenagers can be. Here&#8217;s a quick pen portrait.</p>
<p>Teenagers find it very difficult to believe that the world does not revolve around them. They live in a self-regarding bubble, and cannot for the life of them see why things shouldn&#8217;t be organized for their convenience. They are quite happy to take, but reluctant to give. And although they do a lot of taking (and others do a lot of giving) words of thanksgiving are rarely on their lips.  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/03/a-thought-about-teenagers/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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<p>Teenagers find it very difficult to believe that the world does not revolve around them. They live in a self-regarding bubble, and cannot for the life of them see why things shouldn&#8217;t be organized for their convenience. They are quite happy to take, but reluctant to give. And although they do a lot of taking (and others do a lot of giving) words of thanksgiving are rarely on their lips.</p>
<p>Although their parents gave them birth, and have provided them with basically everything ever since, they really would prefer them to butt out and leave them alone. Teenagers want to live as they please. They avoid their parents where possible, keeping interaction to the minimum that is required to get what they want. And although their parents might actually be  intelligent people, and live full and satisfying lives, yet to teenagers, parents are outdated and embarrassing; an encumbrance barely to be tolerated.</p>
<p>Does anyone recognize the species?</p>
<p>Seems to me it describes all of us perfectly, vis a vis God.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I was preaching on Ecclesiastes 3 yesterday, and made what I guess is the pretty familiar point that although we experience meaning in our daily lives, we also experience the frustration, bewilderment and &#8216;vanity&#8217; of life under the sun. We know that there is a bigger story—there is eternity in our hearts—and so we see the beauty or appropriateness of different things that happen (a time for this and a time for that). And yet God has also made sure that we &#8220;cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end&#8221; (v. 11). There is a frustrating opacity to life that is meant to humble us, and lead us to fear God (v. 14).  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/03/is-parenting-a-vanity-too/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was preaching on Ecclesiastes 3 yesterday, and made what I guess is the pretty familiar point that although we experience meaning in our daily lives, we also experience the frustration, bewilderment and &#8216;vanity&#8217; of life under the sun. We know that there is a bigger story—there is eternity in our hearts—and so we see the beauty or appropriateness of different things that happen (a time for this and a time for that). And yet God has also made sure that we &#8220;cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end&#8221; (v. 11). There is a frustrating opacity to life that is meant to humble us, and lead us to fear God (v. 14).</p>
<p>I applied this to our working life, where we do and achieve good things and (under God&#8217;s blessing) find satisfaction in our toil. And yet there is also a sense of pointlessness to it all, not least because like the beasts we die and return to dust (vv. 18-19), and all our achievements fade away or are passed on to someone else. (Hence the common experience of the businessman&#8217;s mid-life crisis: Now that I&#8217;ve climbed the ladder, what was it all for? What&#8217;s the point?)</p>
<p>But then I did something a little riskier and also applied this idea to parenting. Simply having children and raising them is much the same—it is good and right, and if God blesses us we find great joy and satisfaction in it. And yet, family life is also frustrating and bewildering, and we are prevented from seeing the larger purpose of what God is doing. Why do we have children and raise them, since both they and we will die like the beasts and return to dust? Is it so that they in turn will have children and raise them, who in turn will have children and raise them? What is the larger point? What&#8217;s it all for?</p>
<p>In our culture, where we tend to worship our children and our families, this a particularly challenging idea: that pouring your whole life into your family is about as meaningful in the long run as pouring your whole life into your work. It too is a vanity of vanities that is meant to humble us, and lead us to fear God.</p>
<p>Fair point do you think?</p>
<p>(And yes, comments are open for this one!)</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you’ve been going to Sunday church services for as long as I have, you will no doubt have a list of things that you don’t find very edifying (i.e. things that drive you nuts). But what should we do about this all-too-common lack of quality in our church gatherings? <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/03/better-church-the-why-and-how-of-running-sunday-meetings/">(more…)</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve been going to Sunday church services for as long as I have, you will no doubt have a list of things that you don’t find very edifying (or to put it in a slightly less edifying way, things that drive you nuts). For example, has something like this ever happened in your church?</p>
<p>The person leading the meeting announces that it is time for the Bible reading. And even though the person doing the reading has been told in advance exactly when the reading will take place, he waits till the announcement is made, and then gets up out of his chair, which is in the middle of a row, two-thirds of the way towards the back of the building, and makes his way ponderously to the front. He arrives at the lectern after what seems like 15 minutes, takes his glasses from his pocket, puts them on, and then announces where the reading is from. No-one hears him though, because the guy on the sound desk hasn’t pushed up the slider to activate that particular microphone—even though he has watched the entire slow-motion tableau unfold to this point. And so the Bible reader looks up at the guy on the sound desk, who thus being startled out of his reverie, pushes up the slider. The reader taps the microphone with his finger a couple of times—toof, toof, toof—smiles a slightly bashful smile, and finally starts his reading with the words I badly need to hear: “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another”.</p>
<p>Or perhaps the thing that gets to you is the lack of apparent logic or flow within your church meetings. The meeting starts with a song, and then a prayer, and then a Bible reading, and then an interview with a visiting missionary, and then a song, and then some announcements, and then a break to say hello to the person next to you, then another song, then the sermon, then some prayers, then another song, and then a closing benediction (in the form of “please stay for morning tea”). And you’re left at the end feeling slightly flat, and wondering whether the pastor has gone back to using RandomChurchServiceGenerator.com.</p>
<p>You no doubt have your own pet peeves. And there is no shortage of things to be peeved about in church meetings: sloppiness, incompetence, paucity of imagination, poor planning, incoherence, lack of awareness of visitors/newcomers… and so the list goes on.</p>
<p>What should we do about this all-too-common lack of quality in our church gatherings?</p>
<p>The first thing we must do is repent for having such a selfish and critical spirit. It is really beyond irony to be spending our Sunday mornings in a funk because the church meeting is not edifying. The whole point of that marvelous passage in 1 Corinthians 14 about the importance of ‘edification’ is that we need to stop focusing on ourselves and start loving other people. My role in church is not to be a critic who assesses the different aspects of the meeting, but a lover who cares more about other people and their growth than my own preferences or needs. My role is to listen to God’s word and respond with a soft and humble heart; to pray that God’s Spirit would be at work in my heart and those around me; and to encourage and build those around me by everything I say and do.</p>
<p>However, if I am the person responsible for organizing and running the meeting, or one of the people who contribute in some way, then the same spirit of love and selflessness should lead me to make my contribution in a way that actually helps and builds up other people. Out of basic kindness and generosity I should do what I can to improve the quality and ‘edification-factor’ of our Sunday gatherings.</p>
<p>But this leads us to another thought: surely it is the power of God’s word and Spirit that makes our meetings ‘better’ or not. So why not simply read the Bible a lot, preach a lot, pray a lot, and then go home? Does it really matter, in the end, how high-quality everything is, or in what order we do things?</p>
<p>And if we say that it does matter, and we devise really clever meetings with lots of bells and whistles and videos and interviews and slick music and who knows what else, are we starting to doubt the power of the Word? Might we get into a situation where we are manipulating people’s affections and emotions in order to make them feel closer to God?</p>
<p>So is there a good reason—a good biblical and theological reason—to bother working hard to make our church meetings ‘better’?</p>
<h2>1. Edification and common grace</h2>
<p>The apostle Paul points us towards an answer in 1 Corinthians 14. The overall point of the passage is very clear: that when we gather together as a church we should pursue love, and exercise those gifts which most effectively build or ‘edify’ the church. This is the single most important criterion for what we do in church: “Let all things be done for building up” (v. 26).</p>
<p>How do we know what makes for ‘building’? In 1 Corinthians 14, edification happens when two conditions are met: firstly, when some sort of word from God is spoken (such as prophecy, knowledge or teaching), and secondly, when it is spoken in a way that is intelligible to the hearer. This is why prophecy is superior to tongues (at least, to uninterpreted tongues), because those present can actually understand what is being said. Paul uses some illustrations from different fields of human endeavor to make what is really a very obvious point:</p>
<blockquote><p>If even lifeless instruments, such as the flute or the harp, do not give distinct notes, how will anyone know what is played? And if the bugle gives an indistinct sound, who will get ready for battle? So with yourselves, if with your tongue you utter speech that is not intelligible, how will anyone know what is said? For you will be speaking into the air. (1 Cor 14:7-9)</p></blockquote>
<p>Theologically, Paul is drawing on the doctrine of revelation—that God reveals himself to us by his word as we speak it to each other, and that this word is what the Spirit uses to ‘build’ us. But he is also drawing on the doctrine of creation or common grace to make the simple point that if our speaking of God’s word does not respect the realities of living in God’s world, then nothing will be communicated or understood. Just as a bugle will not effectively communicate the call to battle if it has a sock stuffed in it, so a speaker in church will not effectively communicate God’s word if no-one else has a clue what he’s saying.</p>
<p>This is because the people who are gathered together in a church are (in most cases) humans. We are creatures of God living in God’s world. We live in human communities with their languages, customs, and habits. We have no access to each other, to communicate God’s word with each other, except via these realities—as one creature to another.</p>
<p>In 1 Corinthians 14, the key factor is language. However, the principle applies to more than language, because there are all sorts of creational factors that affect how humans hear things and communicate with one another and relate to one another. For example, even if we speak the same language, you still may not hear and understand me if my voice is very soft and there is lots of background noise; or if I use complicated words or ideas that are beyond your educational level; or if I have left all the windows open so that you are freezing cold and can’t concentrate; or if I speak like Fidel Castro for seven solid hours so that you can’t possibly follow my point.</p>
<p>These sorts of factors affect all human interactions everywhere—not just those that take place in church. And we need to respect, to understand and to work with these factors as we run church meetings.</p>
<p>Now I know those of you who are preachers already believe this, because of how you construct your sermons. You don’t just stand up and tell people some random thoughts you had concerning the passage (well, most of you don’t). You craft it. You think about how to engage your listeners’ minds at the beginning; you think about how to use humour at various points to lighten the mood; you think about when to get deadly serious; you use gestures; you vary the pitch, volume, inflection and tone of your voice; you think about the logic that would make the most sense; you think about how to surprise your listeners with a twist they weren’t expecting; you work out how to help them understand with a story or an illustration; you try to speak in a language they will understand.</p>
<p>When you do some or all these things as part of your preparation and delivery of a sermon, are you doubting the power of the Word? No, you are expressing your belief that if you are going to actually communicate the Word to the bunch of humans in front of you, you need to use the gifts of common grace that God has given to us to relate together—clear speech in a language that is understood, humour, logic, story, personality, voice, gesture, and so on.</p>
<p>Now it is very possible to misuse the gifts of common grace to manipulate and fool people, and to generate a response that mimics a true response to God’s word. We can tell stories that tug the heartstrings and use that to generate a response. But the fact that the gifts of common grace can be abused and misused doesn’t mean we don’t use them! In fact, we have to use them, because we have no access to people and their minds apart from as one human relating to others, with all the constraints and gifts that we share. And this is precisely why most preachers work hard on the construction and delivery of their sermons, and not just on the raw ideas.</p>
<p>My question is this: <em>if we believe this about sermons, do we also believe it about church meetings?</em> If the general quality of our church meetings is anything to go by, I would judge that many of us do not.</p>
<p>Many of our church meetings are like sermons where the preacher has run out of time to really work on the packaging—where he has the basic message and ideas, but hasn’t found the time to organize them better, edit out the extraneous stuff, and craft the whole thing so that it works. And so the end result feels thrown together, a bit flat, haphazard or even boring. It lacks the impact and effectiveness it might have had if it had been communicated in a way that accords with the common grace of how humans communicate.</p>
<p>In the rest of this article, I want to encourage those of you who organize and run church meetings to think about doing it better, in much the same way as you might think about writing and delivering better sermons.</p>
<p>To do so, you will need to do two basic things:</p>
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<li>Work out the Bible-driven content or message that will be the heart of the meeting</li>
<li>Organize that content in a way that is likely to be effective with the bunch of humans you expect to turn up.</li>
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<h2>2. The Bible-driven content</h2>
<p>In Briefing #397, Phillip Jensen argued that “the distinctively Christian gathering or assembly, that historically has come to be called ‘church’, is made up of those whom God has saved and redeemed in Christ, and who now in repentance and trust gather around him to listen to his word, so that they may persevere and grow in holiness and righteousness” (‘What is church for?’, p. 20).</p>
<p>If this definition is correct, then our meetings should basically consist of two very distinctive and important things:</p>
<p><strong>1. Listening to God’s word</strong>—we read the Bible, preach the Bible, speak to one another in psalms, hymns and spiritual songs, exhort and encourage each other, prophesy to each other, and declare the great deeds and works of God (otherwise known as ‘praise’). But this word of God that we listen to is not a disembodied word. It isn’t written by a hand on a wall, or spoken directly to us by God. We only hear God’s word in our assembly as we speak it to each other from the Bible. This is the great and primary thing we do in church meetings: speak God’s word to each other in a multitude of ways.</p>
<p><strong>2. Responding to God’s word in repentance and faith</strong>—we respond to God in prayer or in song, we confess our sins, we take our prayers and supplications to him, we give thanks, we rejoice, and we urge and encourage each other to keep on doing these things. (It is worth noting that singing fits into both categories. It is a wonderful God-given means of proclaiming and listening to God’s word, as well as responding to God’s word.)</p>
<p>These two kinds of things should determine what we do when we gather. And those of us who are Anglicans and have grown up with The Book of Common Prayer should know this, because that’s pretty much all that the BCP is—a whole variety of ways for God’s people to listen to God’s word together and to respond to him in prayer and thanksgiving.</p>
<p>In one sense, then, the Bible-driven content of every church meeting will be the same. It will consist of only these two sorts of things, in some combination. It will be built around the basic gospel idea that God approaches us graciously with his saving word, and that we gratefully respond by his Spirit in repentance and faith.</p>
<p>Even though each meeting will be exactly the same in this sense, each one will of course also be different depending on the particular message of the word of God for that day, and what sort of repentant faithful response it calls for. Most meetings will have their own particular biblical emphasis or theme.</p>
<p>So our question now is: how do we organize and run meetings with this sort of Bible-driven content (general and particular), using the gifts of common grace to speak God’s word and respond to it, given who we are as people? How do we take the sock out of the bugle?</p>
<h2>3. Observations of common grace</h2>
<p>As I’ve put together church meetings over the years, and thought about what has and hasn’t worked, it seems to me that good meetings are like most exercises in communication—that is, good church meetings:</p>
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<li>Have conceptual flow</li>
<li>Vary the emotional temperature</li>
<li>Contain both familiarity and variety</li>
<li>Spring from someone’s heart and mind.</li>
</ul>
<h3>Good meetings have conceptual flow</h3>
<p>Like sermons or books or articles or speeches, a church meeting should go <em>somewhere</em>. It should make some sort of sense to those participating in it, because that’s the way our brains work. Things have more impact for us when there is a movement of thought, when one thing leads naturally and logically to the next.</p>
<p>This was one of the strengths of some of the classic liturgies of Reformed Christianity, such as the Morning Prayer service from The Book of Common Prayer. It has three main movements:</p>
<ul>
<li>Movement 1 starts with a scriptural call to repentance, and an exhortation, followed by confession of sins, a declaration of forgiveness and a response. We are preparing to listen to God’s word.</li>
<li>Movement 2 exhorts us to listen obediently (via Ps 95), and then moves into the first Bible reading, a responsive hymn, the second Bible reading, and a second responsive hymn.</li>
<li>Movement 3 focuses on the response of faith, with the recitation of the creed, various prayers and the thanksgiving.</li>
</ul>
<p>Now this is not a divinely inspired movement of thought, or the only way to do it. But it does make sense. It makes gospel sense, because the flow of the service takes us repentantly to God to listen to his word and then calls on us to respond joyfully with faith.<br />
Do your meetings have any conceptual flow to them like this? Or are they more like a TV chat show: “And now we have… and now we have… and now we have”. (Mind you, good TV chat shows also have their own logic, but that is a point to pursue another time.)</p>
<p>We don’t have to have the same conceptual flow every time. There are a range of ways to structure a meeting to achieve the basic goal (which is to speak God’s word to each other and respond). For example, we could focus more on God’s word in the first half of the meeting, and then spend the latter part of the meeting exploring the response. Or we could have hearing God’s word as the climax of the gathering—after spending some time preparing for it—followed by response. Or we could have multiple cycles of hearing and responding.</p>
<p>How we do it will depend to a significant extent on the particular theme or Bible passage that we have chosen to focus on. But in whatever way we do it, we must think about the conceptual flow of the meeting. What is the reason for this next component—how does it fit into the whole? How does it relate to what is before it, and to what comes after? Does it make sense? Does it take the congregation somewhere? (I could say quite a bit here about ‘announcements’ and their tendency to break up the conceptual flow, but more on this below!)</p>
<h3>Good meetings vary the emotional temperature</h3>
<p>Humans are emotional and affectional creatures.</p>
<p>The way we organize things, and the way we conduct ourselves and each part of the meeting, will have an emotional effect on those present. It will tend to evoke lightness of spirit, or joy, or sober reflection, or excitement, or boredom, or anger, or thankfulness, and so on. It’s not as if we have a choice about this. Our meetings will have a constantly varying emotional temperature, whether we like it or not. So we should be aware of the emotional temperature, and seek to work it in with the conceptual flow.</p>
<p>Does this sound potentially manipulative? Of course it does. But we will affect and manipulate people’s emotions by how we run our meetings. We can either do so haphazardly, unintentionally and unhelpfully, or we can be sensitive to the effects of what we’re doing.</p>
<p>Preachers do this in sermons all the time, and rightly so. They don’t speak with the same emotional register all the way through. They have light and shade; moments of humour as well as sadness; moments of great earnestness when they’re really laying it on the line. If the sermon has the same emotional register all the way through, it’s not only boring and ineffective, it’s inauthentic. The listener begins to think: “Is this guy a normal person? Doesn’t he have a sense of humour? Or isn’t he capable of being serious?”</p>
<p>It’s the same with meetings. If they have the same emotional temperature throughout they just doesn’t work for most people—especially when the emotional or affectional tone is jarringly out of sync with the content; when we speak of the most profound realities in the universe in a light-hearted, flippant or matter-of-fact way.</p>
<p>This is one of the things we struggle with in my part of the world (it seems to me). We aren’t too sure how to do seriousness and gravitas. Sometimes the whole meeting is conducted with a breezy informal chattiness—which is great to have as we welcome people and make them feel at home. But if this becomes our only emotional tone, it communicates that none of this affects us, that none of it is serious or important or worth being passionate or joyous or repentant about. The gospel is a matter of heaven and hell, of misery at my sin and joy in forgiveness. If this is never reflected in our manner of speech, then what are we communicating?</p>
<p>We need light and shade. We need a dash of humour, but we also need times of quietness, seriousness and celebration.</p>
<p>There are other crimes we can commit against the emotional logic or effectiveness of a meeting. The schoolboy error is to put on a rip-roaring, emotion-pumping song just before the sermon. So we get everyone hyped up and excited emotionally, just in time to sit quietly for 30 minutes and concentrate. In most cases, the emotional temperature you’re after just before the sermon is one of quietness, as people prepare to listen to God’s word with humble hearts.</p>
<p>Mind you, it is just as much a crime to start the meeting with all 17 verses of ‘The God of Abraham Praise’ played in slow time. Or to follow a time of deep and personal prayer with ‘the announcements’.</p>
<p>Announcements can be a problem. If you insert ten minutes of announcements and ads for upcoming events right in the middle of your meeting, you’ve pretty much destroyed whatever conceptual flow you had running, and taken the emotional temperature of the room down to that feeling you get when the ads come on about 20 minutes from the end of the movie. All of a sudden the congregation is taken out of listening to God and responding to him, and into the men’s breakfast next Saturday morning, the working bee, the house party, and whatever else you’re trying to drum up enthusiasm for. (Ditto for long interviews with people that are really thinly disguised advertisements to try to get the congregation to sign up for things.)</p>
<p>The best place for announcements, if we must have them, is usually at the very beginning or very end of the meeting.</p>
<h3>Good meetings need both familiarity and variety</h3>
<p>In cricket, good spin bowlers usually have a devastating, wicket-taking delivery in their arsenal. Shane Warne had the ‘flipper’, a delivery that would hit the pitch and then shoot through quicker and lower than the batsman was expecting. The effectiveness of Warney’s flipper lay in the fact that he kept it in reserve. He would throw it in every now and then when the batsman wasn’t expecting it. If you bowl six flippers in a row, they lose their effect. But if you throw one in every now and then, it keeps the batsmen very watchful and interested.</p>
<p>Likewise with our gatherings: many things in our church meetings will be similar from week to week, and this is good. There are only so many ways you can listen to God’s word and respond to it together. And we do like a certain degree of familiarity. But we also like variety. We also need to keep throwing in flippers—things that are different or unexpected. It’s a good rule of thumb to aim for one ‘flipper’ each week.</p>
<p>Here are three simple ideas for ‘flippers’. I’m sure you can come up with many more:</p>
<p><strong>The life interview:</strong> Interviews of different kinds have become quite common in church meetings, but they are often rambling and poorly prepared. If an interview is going to communicate something of God’s word rather than just interesting stories or unfocused waffle, we need to put in a bit of preparation (as any decent interviewer in any other context does). What is the point of the interview? What is its trajectory? What are the key things you are hoping will come out? How do these connect with the main biblical theme of the day?</p>
<p>The interview can easily become a gap filler, and without preparation and thought it often drains both conceptual and emotional momentum from the meeting. But if we take time to choose a topic for the interview that connects with the biblical theme of the morning, to prepare with the interview subject, and to ask real questions, interviews can be as varied as the people you have available to interview.</p>
<p><strong>Post-sermon ‘prophecy’:</strong> Here’s an idea that I have seen tried a few times, and which worked extremely well. The preacher picks a mature, thoughtful person from the congregation and shares with them (say on Thursday or Friday) the burden of what is going to be preached on Sunday. Then you ask the person to prepare a short response: a reflection on how this message digs down into their lives, what it means day-to-day, what it will require them to change, what implications it has. And then you invite them up for a few minutes after the sermon to share their encouragement and exhortation with the congregation. I’m not sure whether this is exactly what 1 Corinthians labels as ‘prophecy’ (who is?), but it’s one of the closest things I’ve seen.</p>
<p><strong>Sing a song:</strong> Quite a few of the songs we try to sing congregationally actually work better as solos. So get someone to sing it really well, and then talk about the message of the song. Use it as another way of speaking the Word to one another.</p>
<h3>Good meetings spring from the personality and mind of a leader</h3>
<p>Just as we don’t preach the same kind of sermon because we are all individuals, so meeting leaders will do things differently and make it work differently, depending on their personalities, their sense of humour, the way they get serious about things, their style of communicating.</p>
<p>The meeting leader is crucial to the whole process, because as humans we don’t relate to an order of service but to a person who is leading us through whatever is going to happen next. The meeting leader is not only vital in planning and preparing the conceptual and emotional flow, and in thinking creatively about the content of the meeting, but also in actually delivering it and leading it. He is the glue that holds it together, the engine oil that keeps the parts moving.</p>
<p>This is why, in the end, a return to set liturgy would not raise the standard of our meetings any more than reading out a centrally-approved sermon would raise the standard of our preaching. A set pattern of words achieves a degree of minimum-standard quality control; it will ensure uniformity. But it will also achieve mediocrity. We can share templates and patterns with each other, but each meeting needs to be worked out according to not only the particular message and emphasis for the day, but also according to the kind of congregation you have.</p>
<p>Ideally each meeting should be planned and led by <em>someone</em>—by one person who thinks it through and has the authority to make it all happen. Very often church meetings are designed by a loose committee. Someone chooses the music, someone else lines up the pray-ers, someone else (possibly the preacher) chooses the Bible readings, someone else puts together the announcements. And then the components are slapped together quickly, and off we go. And we wonder why our meetings can often be mundane and even boring.</p>
<p>If you’re going to make a start by improving just one thing about your Sunday meetings, <em>improve your meeting leaders</em>. Give them the training, the time, the resources and the authority to pull it together and make it work. Sundays will work better when someone is devoting real time to thinking it through, preparing it, and making it happen.</p>
<p>There is, of course, so much more to be said, and so many more good ideas to be shared. For some suggested church meeting templates, check out my <a title="So what does the gathering look like? (Part 1)" href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2009/10/so-what-does-the-gathering-look-like-part-1/">So what does the gathering look like?</a> series (part <a title="So what does the gathering look like? (Part 1)" href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2009/10/so-what-does-the-gathering-look-like-part-1/">one</a>, <a title="So what does the gathering look like? (Part 2)" href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2009/10/so-what-does-the-gathering-look-like-part-2/">two</a>, <a title="So what does the gathering look like? (Part 3)" href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2009/10/so-what-does-the-gathering-look-like-part-3/">three</a>, <a title="So what does the gathering look like? (Part 4)" href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2009/10/so-what-does-the-gathering-look-like-part-4/">four</a> and <a title="So what does the gathering look like? (Part 5)" href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2009/10/so-what-does-the-gathering-look-like-part-5/">five</a>).</p>
<p>Perhaps the best way to conclude is with a benediction:</p>
<blockquote><p>And now may your microphones always be on when you step up to them; may your PowerPoint stand faultless, blameless and in sync; and may your musicians not jam after the meeting at such a volume that no-one can hear themselves think. Amen.</p></blockquote>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Further to my last post on being hated, Jean Williams posted this insightful comment and question on my wall:</p>
<blockquote><p>Here&#8217;s a verse I&#8217;ve been reflecting on that came to me as I read the post: &#8220;Woe to you, when all people speak well of you, for so their fathers did to the false prophets&#8221; (Luke 6:26). Sobering words, and ones that challenge me.</p></blockquote>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Further to my last post on being hated, Jean Williams posted this insightful comment and question on my wall:</p>
<blockquote><p>Here&#8217;s a verse I&#8217;ve been reflecting on that came to me as I read the post: &#8220;Woe to you, when all people speak well of you, for so their fathers did to the false prophets&#8221; (Luke 6:26). Sobering words, and ones that challenge me.</p>
<p>Tony, how do you think this fits with Titus 2, where we&#8217;re told to &#8220;adorn&#8221; the gospel and not allowing it to be spoken ill of by our lives?</p></blockquote>
<p>I think the answer is hinted at earlier in Titus 1, where Paul says, &#8220;To the pure, all things are pure, but to the defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure; but both their minds and their consciences are defiled&#8221; (1:15).</p>
<p>People will see the same thing and come to different conclusions; just as the gospel itself smells differently to different people (2 Cor 2:15-17). Some will view our good works and give glory to God (Matt 5:17), just as others will revile us on account of our allegiance to Jesus (Matt 5:11).</p>
<p>It&#8217;s interesting the way Peter puts it: &#8220;Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation&#8221; (1 Pet 2:12). It&#8217;s as if the acknowledgement that we are not in fact &#8216;evildoers&#8217; will only be wrung out of them under the searching gaze of God on the day of judgement.</p>
<p>So bottom line: regardless of what people say, just keep on renouncing ungodliness and worldly passions, and  living self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in this present age (Tit 2:12). This truly does glorify God and make his gospel look good, and by the grace of God some will  have eyes to see that. Others won&#8217;t. They will hate and revile us for the very same words and deeds.</p>
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		<title>Time to be hated?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Maybe you&#8217;re a people-pleaser (like I am), and like to be liked by the smart and the sensible. If that&#8217;s you, then I wonder if Jesus&#8217; words in John 7 will cut you like they did me this morning.  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/02/time-to-be-hated/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe you&#8217;re a people-pleaser (like I am), and like to be liked by the smart and the sensible. If that&#8217;s you, then I wonder if Jesus&#8217; words in John 7 will cut you like they did me this morning.</p>
<p>He is speaking with his unbelieving brothers, who want him to go up to the feast in Jerusalem, presumably because they are keen to see him get in some sort of trouble with the authorities. (And if you think brothers wouldn&#8217;t do that to each other, you&#8217;ve lived much too sheltered a life.)</p>
<p>Jesus says to them, &#8220;My time has not yet come, but your time is always here. The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify about it that its works are evil.&#8221; (Jn 7:6-7)</p>
<p>Their time is still here. And when we speak words that belong to this time, and that don&#8217;t challenge this time, we will never be hated. Can&#8217;t be hated, in fact.</p>
<p>A disciple is not above his master. If they hated Jesus for testifying to the evil of their works, they will hate us for doing the same. Are you ready to be hated?</p>
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		<title>But is Matthias Media really worth supporting?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In my last <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/02/something-important-to-share-with-your-group-leaders/">post</a> I reproduced an email from Sandy Grant, in which he asked his youth and Bible study leaders to give some special support to Matthias Media and to buy our resources wherever possible.  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/02/but-is-matthias-media-really-worth-supporting/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my last <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/02/something-important-to-share-with-your-group-leaders/">post</a> I reproduced an email from Sandy Grant, in which he asked his youth and Bible study leaders to give some special support to Matthias Media and to buy our resources wherever possible.</p>
<p>A friend wrote me a really nice email in response, which in the most gracious and polite way possible basically said, &#8220;Look, I love you guys, but shouldn&#8217;t you be innovating and riding the new digital wave rather than asking for &#8216;support&#8217; as you cling to a dying publishing model?&#8221;</p>
<p>This warmed my heart. No, it really did, because my friend was precisely right, and cared enough to write to me about it. We&#8217;re very aware that this is the challenge in front of us. If MM is going to have a productive contribution to make to gospel growth in the years to come, we will (like all publishers) have to adapt to a rapidly changing publishing and communications landscape.</p>
<p>The tricky part is that for the time being at least we will need to keep creating and publishing paper-based resources, because they still comprise the vast bulk of reading and publishing worldwide, both Christian and secular. And it&#8217;s a tough time do that, for a whole range of reasons (tightening margins, declining volumes, the high Aussie dollar, and so on).  At the same time, we also need to invest in the new technologies and digital publishing platforms that promise so much (both in the kinds of ministry resources we might produce and how we might distribute them).</p>
<p>So at the moment, we&#8217;re at a kind of crossroads, where threat meets opportunity. At one level, things are tighter and harder than we can ever remember them being (and this is true for all publishers). But at the same time new vistas and opportunities are opening up that have enormous promise for promoting and facilitating gospel ministry through digital publishing.</p>
<p>What I appreciated about Sandy&#8217;s original email to his leaders was the sentiment that now would be a good time to be especially mindful of publishing ministries like MM, and to support us and help as you&#8217;re able. It&#8217;s a difficult transitional moment (and will be for the next couple of years).</p>
<p>All of which means: please pray for us, and support us where you can. And stay tuned for a bunch of new digital resources from us over the next 12 months. First to be released is the <em>Two ways to live app</em> for iphone and ipad, due out in a couple of weeks.</p>
<p>(<a href="http://www.matthiasmedia.com.au/enews-signup">Subscribe</a> to our free email newsletter for notifications about these and other MM resources.)</p>
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		<title>Something important to share with your group leaders</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><em>My intentions to write more short pithy posts notwithstanding, this post is a little longer because it basically consists of part of an email that Sandy Grant recently sent round to the small group leaders and youth leaders at his church. For reasons that will become obvious as you read, Sandy is saying things that I strongly endorse! Can I suggest you follow his lead, and give some encouragement in this vein to your leaders?</em>  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/02/something-important-to-share-with-your-group-leaders/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>My intentions to write more short pithy posts notwithstanding, this post is a little longer because it basically consists of part of an email that Sandy Grant recently sent round to the small group leaders and youth leaders at his church. For reasons that will become obvious as you read, Sandy is saying things that I strongly endorse! Can I suggest you follow his lead, and give some encouragement in this vein to your leaders?</em></p>
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<p>…  Fourthly, can I make an appeal. The appeal is this: Would you please give strong consideration to your group using Matthias Media studies/courses this year, especially for the first couple of terms. (And I mean buying them legally, copies for each member, and not just photocopying which is always wrong as a breach of copyright.) Let me explain why.</p>
<p>As you may know, I am the Chairman of the Board of Matthias Media. This means I get a bit of an insight into the publishing world. I can tell you that&#8230;</p>
<p>(1) <strong>Publishing is hard</strong>. It always has been hard to get anything published, let alone successfully sold. The competition is enormous. (Didn&#8217;t a philosopher preacher once say that &#8220;Of making many books there is no end&#8221;!? Eccl 12:12)</p>
<p>It is even harder now to sell physical books, as people take to the electronic world of e-books and Kindles and blogs.</p>
<p>(2) <strong>Publishing in Australia is very hard</strong>. Publishers in Australia have struggles with the tyranny of distance and a small market, compared to the rest of the world. It&#8217;s just hard to be economic.</p>
<p>In the last couple of years this has been exacerbated by high exchange rates, and the explosion of internet shopping, which make it harder to sell Australian published books overseas, and easier and often cheaper for customers to import overseas books via Amazon, Book Depository etc.</p>
<p>(3) <strong>Christian publishing in Australia</strong> <strong>is exceptionally difficult</strong>. The Christian market  is certainly well below 10% of the Australian population. If it&#8217;s getting harder to find a decent local book shop, it&#8217;s near impossible to find a local Christian one. And sadly many Christians of various varieties are not that interested in reading good biblical Christian literature. And all the other challenges above also apply!</p>
<p>That probably helps explain why there are hardly any Australian Christian publishers. (I could bore you with the names of publishers that have closed over the last two decades).</p>
<p>But Australian Christians have many good things to say. We know the Australian scene better than anyone else. And in our own circles via Moore College and the Sydney Diocese and other evangelical friends, we have a doctrinally rich, biblical-theology heritage, and an evangelistically enterprising ministry mindset. For example, <em>The Trellis and the Vine</em> from Matthias Media was widely received in North America as a revolutionary and helpful book about ministry. Something of a surprise hit, for those us here in Australia who took it for granted.</p>
<p>How to ensure Australian Christian publishing survives into the new era of electronic publishing? <strong>One good way is</strong> <strong>support Matthias Media</strong>. Deliberately be positively biased towards buying Matthias Media products over overseas products where they are of equivalent quality. (And they are often better.)</p>
<p>(Of course, the same can apply towards Anglican Youthworks or Acorn Press in Melbourne too.)</p>
<p>And subscribe to <em>The Briefing</em>, even though you can get it free on the web. I think you are more likely to read it through in magazine-style hard copy. Much easier to read and digest.</p>
<p>But right now, I am asking you all to consider, if at all possible, committing to your group to using Matthias Media Bible studies or study courses especially for the first couple of terms this year, even if you could write your own, or get something somewhere else. The cash flow will really help MM in what is a very tough publishing environment at the moment.</p>
<p>Some people might think that Matthias Media studies are too hard for your type of group. Some of them may be, but MM also now produces a simpler more straightforward Bible study series (the Pathway Bible Guides), as well as the video-based resources for groups like <em>Six Step to Reading Your Bible</em>, <em>Where to Lord?</em>, and so on.</p>
<p>The Matthias Media webstore is <a href="http://www.matthiasmedia.com">here</a>. You might find it useful to go straight to their special <a href="http://www.matthiasmedia.com.au/small-groups">small group page</a>.</p>
<p>I understand the MM Resource Guide (i.e. catalogue) will be available in the next 7-10 days. I also understand they will be giving some really great <a title="Current specials" href="http://matthiasmedia.com.au/specials">specials</a> in the next month.</p>
<p>You can order direct online or via phone, or if you prefer, it can be arranged via the church office. (However in that case, we really need you to collect all the cash and bring it in, so we can pay our bills without being out of pocket.)</p>
<p>Please contact me with any questions or concerns.</p>
<p>Yours in Christ,</p>
<p>Sandy Grant<br />
Senior Minister, St Michael&#8217;s Anglican Cathedral</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>We know that the much-misunderstood word &#8216;faith&#8217; basically means to trust in or rely upon someone or something. And many of us have heard (and used) the &#8216;chair illustration&#8217; as a neat way of explaining this; that you demonstrate your faith (or &#8216;trust&#8217;) in a chair when you sit on it. Likewise, you only really have faith in Jesus (&#8216;trust in Jesus&#8217;) when you rest your weight upon him.  <a href="http://matthiasmedia.com/briefing/2012/01/the-opposite-of-faith/" class="more-link">(more…)</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We know that the much-misunderstood word &#8216;faith&#8217; basically means to trust in or rely upon someone or something. And many of us have heard (and used) the &#8216;chair illustration&#8217; as a neat way of explaining this; that you demonstrate your faith (or &#8216;trust&#8217;) in a chair when you sit on it. Likewise, you only really have faith in Jesus (&#8216;trust in Jesus&#8217;) when you rest your weight upon him.</p>
<p>However, trusting in a <strong>person</strong> involves more than simply resting upon him, or depending upon him to support you or help you or even save you. Placing your trust in a person also unavoidably means listening to and trusting and acting upon that person&#8217;s words, especially when that person is a lord or a king. In this sense, &#8216;faith&#8217; or &#8216;belief&#8217; or &#8216;trust&#8217; in Jesus, who is the Christ and Lord of all, is very close to &#8216;faithfulness&#8217; and &#8216;loyalty&#8217; and &#8216;obedience&#8217; to him.</p>
<p>I was reminded of this while reading John 3 this morning: &#8220;Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him&#8221; (Jn 3:36).</p>
<p>The opposite of faith in this verse is not doubt or even unbelief, but disobedience.</p>
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