<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9084302996382445562</id><updated>2024-10-04T21:58:08.011-04:00</updated><category term="Sofie"/><category term="cancer"/><category term="life"/><category term="parenting"/><category term="friends"/><category term="family"/><category term="recurrence"/><category term="grief"/><category term="travel"/><category term="spirituality"/><category term="learning"/><category term="celebration"/><category term="death"/><category term="stress"/><category term="camp kesem"/><category term="fears"/><category term="chemo"/><category term="angels"/><category term="disease"/><category term="summer"/><category term="Optic Nerve Hypoplasia"/><category term="hope"/><category term="puppy parenting"/><category term="quiz"/><category term="scout"/><category term="soccer"/><category term="Emerson Waldorf School"/><category term="birthday"/><category term="blogging for lgbt families day"/><category term="cell phone"/><category term="crazy hip blog mamas"/><category term="ghosts"/><category term="home phone"/><category term="new beginnings"/><category term="possessivecat"/><category term="religion"/><category term="retreat"/><category term="side effects"/><title type='text'>The Complex One&#39;s Musings</title><subtitle type='html'>Complex or Complicated? You Decide.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://complex-one.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9084302996382445562/posts/default?max-results=3'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://complex-one.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9084302996382445562/posts/default?start-index=4&amp;max-results=3'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>206</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>3</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9084302996382445562.post-8490275130998611090</id><published>2012-10-25T15:34:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2012-10-25T15:41:28.219-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Emerson Waldorf School"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="learning"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="new beginnings"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="parenting"/><title type='text'>A perfect place for the kid</title><summary type="text">Many of you know the trials and tribulations of being and parenting a middle school kid. The hormones, self doubts and stress(in BOTH of us!!) create an environment unhealthy and&amp;nbsp;nonsustaining.

Last Spring Sofie didn&#39;t get into the school of her choice. In hindsight, I&#39;m grateful. Not that the school wasn&#39;t a good match. I think she would have done well there. Now I see there are better </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://complex-one.blogspot.com/feeds/8490275130998611090/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9084302996382445562/8490275130998611090?isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9084302996382445562/posts/default/8490275130998611090'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9084302996382445562/posts/default/8490275130998611090'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://complex-one.blogspot.com/2012/10/a-perfect-place-for-kid.html' title='A perfect place for the kid'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8SNvxx0-JTxfkN8405wKNjQecUXcvSZTqYY3fZ-hq77gGGJWUOaspIbqzXSWFjm53ZPdqj-sDOsZjWhDddCVnF5XspheUbFc3UPO9ewQ4qPSxur0lRCOFYkt-VWCgQmjwAOwqpwchyphenhyphen6U/s72-c/1.JPG" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9084302996382445562.post-195840034234665365</id><published>2011-11-02T07:31:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-11-02T07:34:04.170-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="celebration"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="family"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="fears"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="hope"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="learning"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="parenting"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Sofie"/><title type='text'>Día de los Muertos inspiration</title><summary type="text">I find it odd that I&#39;ve been inspired to write a blog entry on the Day of the Dead. Especially since this entry is going to be primarily about how death and illness have changed me. A dear friend from college lost her teenage son, quite unexpectedly, earlier this year. To honor him and to help process her grief she started writing a blog of letters *to* her son. 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Five years ago today, I was undergoing a hysterectomy because there were &quot;suspicious&quot; cells that returned from a biopsy. Those &quot;suspicious&quot; cells were, in fact, undeniably cancerous. I was, unbeknownst to me, about to embark on weeks of radiation plus several months of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://complex-one.blogspot.com/feeds/323740342994395646/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9084302996382445562/323740342994395646?isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9084302996382445562/posts/default/323740342994395646'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9084302996382445562/posts/default/323740342994395646'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://complex-one.blogspot.com/2011/07/flashback-july-25-2006.html' title='Flashback: July 25, 2006'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>