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<p>I strongly recommend to visit the site I mentioned above to educate yourself on the subject, this will help you to find the best product for yourself, what suits your needs and which of all the available on the market products are bringing the best value for your money. I used natural fertilizers as well and can tell you that they are by far better then the soil in the garden, even though I did think that &#8220;natural&#8221; and &#8220;fertilized&#8221; cannot come together.</p>
<p>Today, when more and more people are learning to appreciate the power of clean ecology, natural fertilizers are a must to have in your garden or your country side house. You will also learn more about dangerous chemicals in the garden, and the ranking process of the fertilizers, &#8212; simple that website will answer all your questions about the subject. Enjoy the gardening!</p>
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</div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheDarkLightOfLove/~4/KCK6G93F2PY" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded><description>It seems that Natural Fertilizers are becoming more and more popular today, all thanks to their incredible qualities. If you want to know what actually a Natural Fertilizer does, I strongly recommend to read some reviews online that are written especially on this subject.  For example, http://www.safe-fertilizer-reviews.com &amp;#8212; this site was made especially for [...]</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/05/15/natural-as-natural-as-it-can-get/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/05/15/natural-as-natural-as-it-can-get/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Why “Cocky and Funny” Attract Women?</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheDarkLightOfLove/~3/voWOrvjZtjM/</link><category>Men's Zone</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">admin</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 04:20:54 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/05/12/why-cocky-and-funny-attract-women/</guid><content:encoded xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><![CDATA[<p>Are you aware of the ways of attracting women? May be you already have some great ideas to pull women towards you, still some more of those are always welcome! For most boys, it is habitual to say that being cocky and funny does not only mean to be a gentleman but it also shows the bad side. If you just consider this from the other end, it seems to be an excuse for those guys who fail in attracting women towards themselves. What you need instead is to remember that you are being cocky and funny to make others laugh.</p>
<p>While doing this, if you come to know that you are the only person laughing, and all the others are quiet, it is definitely indicative of something wrong. You will be surprised to know that most women are attracted to men who are conceited, and positive. Men, who belong to the alpha category, do have an exceptional power to attract women. It has been found that these types of men are aware of the tactics of making a woman laugh, and have a good sense of humor, rather than being cocky and funny. However, for men who are only expert in kissing, and sucking up women for them, there is no other way out rather than being lonely.<span id="more-406"></span></p>
<p>While talking about attracting women, the cocky and funny materials inside you should be in a proper ratio. Women are attracted till the moment they are able to digest your cockiness. If it goes out of their tolerance, then the situation seems to be nothing better than arrogance to them. We all know that too much of everything is not good, and the same thing happens when your cockiness goes beyond the level. Eventually, women are deterred from talking to you. Women will just fall on you when they get a good mixture of jokes, and haughtiness from your cocky and funny behavior.</p>
<p>It is not necessary to have a great outlook all the time; the main thing is your body language, rather than attitude. While talking, girls do follow your tone, your verbal communication, and your eyes. The movement of your eyes plays an important role while talking to a girl. They are capable of making the difference between a positive man, and a man who is quite nervous. Being cocky and funny from the deep of your heart attracts a woman, instead of acting in front of her. Women are attracted to men who know how to play, and at the same time is cocky and funny.</p>
<p>It attracts a woman once you manage to present both of the activities together because, it helps to decrease your conceit, and increase your appeal. When men are able to strike equilibrium between their arrogance in the exact ratio then they are able to attract a woman. Instead of answering all the questions asked by the girl, try answering a few of them to yourself, and change focusing on fun emotions. If you manage to point out a subject that chills a woman or suits her, then you have the game half won. Being cocky and funny should not mean that you are only trying to end up in sex with her, it is rather about impressing upon the woman.</p>
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&#8211;Ibn Abbad</p>
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2. &#8220;In real love you want the other person&#8217;s good. In                       romantic love you want the other person.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Margaret Anderson</p>
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3. &#8220;In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Janos Arnay</p>
<p class="quote">4. &#8220;Love is                       composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Aristotle</p>
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5. &#8220;Each moment of a happy lover&#8217;s hour is worth an age of                   dull and common life.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Aphra Behn</p>
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6. &#8220;Your words are my food, your breath my wine. You are                   everything to me.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Sarah Bernhardt</p>
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7. &#8220;In my wildest dreams, you always play the hero. In my darkest hour of night, you rescue me, you save my life.&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Bliss and Cerney</p>
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8. &#8220;Come live with me and be my love, and we will some new pleasures prove, of golden sands, and crystal beaches, with silken lines and silver hooks&#8230;&#8221;<br />
&#8211;John Dunne</p>
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9. &#8220;What I do and what I dream include thee, as the wine                   must taste of its own grapes&#8230;&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Elizabeth Barret Browning</p>
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10. &#8220;I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul                   can reach&#8230;&#8221;<br />
&#8211;Elizabeth Barrett Browning</p>
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&amp;#8211;Margaret Anderson

3. &amp;#8220;In dreams and [...]</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/03/25/10-beautiful-love-quotes/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/03/25/10-beautiful-love-quotes/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Rent Parking space in UK</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheDarkLightOfLove/~3/F6DjPJFX8dw/</link><category>Uncategorized</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">admin</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 09:12:51 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/03/25/rent-parking-space-in-uk/</guid><content:encoded xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><![CDATA[<p>If you live in the UK, you must know how hard it is to find a good parking spot, let alone close to the place you need. It&#8217;s been a big problem over the past years, which is why many local people start switching to public transport, only in order to save time and hassle, let alone money for the parking space.</p>
<p>This problem can easily be solved, because now you can <a href="http://www.parklet.co.uk">Rent a Parking Space</a> and enjoy having your own little spot reserved for you any time when you need it. You won&#8217;t ever spend precious time searching for parking because it will be there for you, always on the same place as long as you rent it. The good thing is, you can rent and choose a place directly online with parklet.co.uk and compare prices. Perhaps this is the next questions, how expensive would it be?</p>
<p>To my total surprise, the prices are very reasonable, lets say on average from 80 to 200+ pounds, depending on the location, of course. Check their website for more accurate information and pricing.  Among other advantages is the possibility to rent airport parking or request a call back, to save money even on the call. Moreover you can refer friends who also need parking space and earn 20 pounds per each referral, so apart from getting a parking space and continuous convenience, this can also be a nice source of business and revenue!</p>
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</div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheDarkLightOfLove/~4/2ceW3iFQiZ8" height="1" width="1"/>]]></content:encoded><description>I think women always look for a new way to take a better care of their skin. We are often depressed by the glamorous shots in Vogue and other magazines that make us look so far from perfect, but on the other hand, can we afford all these cosmetics the celebrities use? Probably not. So [...]</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/03/14/girls-do-you-care-about-your-skin/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/03/14/girls-do-you-care-about-your-skin/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>How to Fake Orgasm “Good” and Avoid Mistakes</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheDarkLightOfLove/~3/nS0n08y4QX4/</link><category>Men's Zone</category><category>Mind Games</category><category>Women's Zone</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">admin</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 13:43:26 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.toptut.com/darklight/2008/03/12/how-to-fake-orgasm-good-and-avoid-mistakes/</guid><content:encoded xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><![CDATA[<p>It seems to be a pretty popular topic across the love-oriented blogs, so I thought I&#8217;d cover it also. Let&#8217;s face it, most women do fake. According to researches we are talking about 70% of women who either always fake, or fake occasionally, which is a pretty big percentage! There are various reasons why would woman decide to fake it, starting from tension and inability to achieve it in the first place, to just a way of &#8220;speeding up the process&#8221; if it&#8217;s starting to take too long. Another common reason is when the couple has strong feelings to each other, the girl would not want to leave the guy with a bad feeling and do it to avoid &#8220;offending&#8221; him. Whatever the reason is: most women do it and it&#8217;s a fact.</p>
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<p>However, not everyone do it right and this results in extra fights, tension and uncomfortable feelings, even breakups, so here are the most common mistakes women do while faking, and how to avoid them.</p>
<p><strong>Mistake nr 1: All the orgasms are always identical. </strong></p>
<p>This is a very common mistake women do. The real orgasms always vary in their intensity and reaction they cause, while most of the parameters and physical reactions are similar, sometimes they are stronger, sometimes they are &#8216;lighter&#8217;. Some make the girl scream, others pass almost unnoticed to the guy. That&#8217;s nature. However, when faking, women always think that if it won&#8217;t be loud enough OR won&#8217;t look similar to the previous time when they faked it already &#8212; then the guy would suspect something and hence they always do the routine identically.</p>
<p><strong>Solution</strong>: Vary your reactions, and explain that it&#8217;s not always strong&#8230; This will look natural. naturally evil&#8230; <img src='http://www.toptut.com/darklight/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>Mistake nr 2: Faking Vaginal Spasms (or not faking them).</strong></p>
<p>Regerdless the intensity and outward appearance of woman&#8217;s orgasm, there are always always always vaginal spasms that are impossible to ignore if you are inside her. They come in sequence, from about 5 to 20+, relatively fast and strong. Woman with more experience knows that they need to fake that too, which is very hard, while women with less experience in this area don&#8217;t do it in the first place and then, it&#8217;s rather obvious to the guy that this was fake.</p>
<p><strong>Solution</strong>: If the girl decides to fake the spasms, she would either apply tension on her entire genitals system (which is also wrong because you would squeeze all the muscles and won&#8217;t have the &#8220;pauses&#8221; between the spasms), or try to &#8220;squeeze&#8221; the vaginal muscles,<span id="more-398"></span> but then again she probably won&#8217;t manage to do it fast enough. The only real solution that will help you to avoid any doubts on guy&#8217;s part is NOT to let him be inside you during &#8220;your orgasm&#8221;. You can always express wishes for his hands to be elsewhere, which will, of course, &#8220;help you to reach the climax&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>Mistake nr. </strong><strong>3: Heartbeats rythmn remains the same.</strong></p>
<p>Before natural orgasm the heartbeats rhythm goes significantly higher while afterwards is slowly goes back to normal. When the orgasm is fake, the heartbeats either won&#8217;t go much higher (if you are not particularly in the mood) or, if you want to climax but don&#8217;t manage, the high heartbeats rhythm won&#8217;t go anywhere after the alleged &#8220;orgasm&#8221; because you still want it! Those who practice yoga can artificially play with their heartbeats rhythm, although it won&#8217;t always work because you can&#8217;t fully concentrate (assuming your partner is somewhat good and manages to destruct you).</p>
<p><strong>Solution</strong>: What you can do it either artificially increase your (deep) breathing which will have a similar effect, and try to take a few deep and slow breaths &#8220;after&#8221; to calm yourself down, or if you are really aroused, make him think that is was so damn good and you want again&#8230; and more&#8230; That would look more naturally (evil..)</p>
<p><strong>Mistake nr. 4: Combining Real Orgasms with Fake one</strong></p>
<p>Perhaps one of the biggest mistakes women make. If you always fake, you have less chances to be suspected, because the guy had seen nothing to compare to. Even if he compares you to his previous partners, you can always claim being different, and you could be! When you let the guy compare and he might analyze that when you are more tired or less in the mood for it, the orgasms are different. Normally the guys are not that bright, but sometimes they analyze&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Solution</strong>: I am not saying you shouldn&#8217;t aspire to achieve a real one or should totally avoid faking it (guy, don&#8217;t kill me for saying it, ok?), but having a ratio of 50-50 is easily suspectable.</p>
<p><strong>Mistake nr. 5: Don&#8217;t get down to Earth too quickly.</strong></p>
<p>So, you just had an &#8220;orgasm&#8221;, coffee, anyone? Woman are built different than man. Men can have the pleasure of their life, then zip up and go, that is mostly their physiology. Women, on the other hand, have the need to cuddle and enjoy the warmth and love of their partner. They wanna talk after it hugging close together or just lay together in silence. If the girl had orgasm and quickly got dressed and run to do something else, the guy would easily feel  it was just fake.</p>
<p><strong>Solution</strong>: Even if you &#8220;need&#8221; to fake it to get done with the process, make sure you take a few minutes to &#8220;recover&#8221; from your &#8220;orgasm&#8221; and spend at least a few more minutes to cuddle up and make the guy feel how amazing it was.</p>
<p><strong>Mistake nr. 6: Speaking during your orgasm</strong></p>
<p>You want to be like any of these porn stars that your boyfriend spends hours watching, and not to be boring&#8230; But remember, porn and real life sex are totally different and most guys would know it. If you keep commenting on your guy&#8217;s performance during the orgasm &#8212; it might look sexy, but for sure will also look fake.</p>
<p><strong>Solution</strong>: Concentrate on faking good, not on talking.</p>
<p><strong>Mistake nr. 7: Lastly&#8230; Never say you faked to others</strong></p>
<p>Saying that you faked to all the previous partners but with you, darling, you finally have real ones &#8212; will butter up his ego but on the other hand will seed a doubt in his heart. He shouldn&#8217;t think you are capable of faking or even justify others doing it.</p>
<p>Bottom line line is, remember your orgasm is YOUR pleasure and not your partner&#8217;s entertainment, so be selfish and concentrated on yourself, don&#8217;t try to do it in a beautiful pose while licking your chops&#8230; <img src='http://www.toptut.com/darklight/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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