<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225</id><updated>2026-05-16T03:56:34.257-04:00</updated><category term="finances"/><category term="health"/><category term="musings"/><category term="debt"/><category term="goals"/><category term="weekly review"/><category term="investments"/><category term="monthly review"/><category term="carnivals"/><category term="job"/><category term="computer"/><category term="lending club"/><category term="politics"/><category term="contest"/><category term="death of a child"/><category term="meme"/><category term="personal"/><title type='text'>The Debt Hole</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>83</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-355748558684730768</id><published>2008-07-08T21:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-08T21:01:42.931-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><title type='text'>Out of commission</title><content type='html'>Public Service Announcement - it&#39;s a bad idea to ignore symptoms because you&#39;re annoyed at medical professionals.&amp;nbsp; I apparently did too much of that.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m off to the hospital for a while, so updates will be on hold for a bit.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/355748558684730768/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/07/out-of-commission.html#comment-form' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/355748558684730768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/355748558684730768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/07/out-of-commission.html' title='Out of commission'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-3271806824595779549</id><published>2008-07-03T17:40:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-03T17:53:27.525-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>Off track</title><content type='html'>I really got off track in June.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;ve justified it to myself in a lot of different ways, and in truth, most of my spending hasn&#39;t been frivolous.&amp;nbsp; There has just been a lot of it all at once.&amp;nbsp; I think the biggest reason is that I&#39;ve been fairly focused on getting set up in my new place and getting back to some semblance of normalcy that I stopped focusing on the financial picture.&amp;nbsp; It hasn&#39;t hurt me too much, though I did spend more than I earned in June (more on that later), but if I don&#39;t get back on track, I think it will.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/3271806824595779549/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/07/off-track.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3271806824595779549'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3271806824595779549'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/07/off-track.html' title='Off track'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-7068600193238243790</id><published>2008-06-28T22:53:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-28T23:03:07.883-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>Completely unfrugal</title><content type='html'>Is unfrugal a word?&amp;nbsp; Non-frugal?&lt;br /&gt;
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Anyway, I picked a stupidly expensive habit.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;ve decided to take up horseback riding.&amp;nbsp; Preferably, eventually, competitive horseback riding.&amp;nbsp; It&#39;s hard to imagine a more expensive sport.&amp;nbsp; Financially, I can afford to do this, although it&#39;s going to mean sacrifices in other areas.&amp;nbsp; But after taking two lessons today, I think it&#39;s worth it.&lt;br /&gt;
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One, and maybe most importantly, it makes me happy.&amp;nbsp; I love being on a horse.&amp;nbsp; I love animals, and horses give pretty powerful feedback about the bond you establish with them.&amp;nbsp; I love training animals, working with them, learning how to better communicate with them.&amp;nbsp; Owning a dog isn&#39;t feasible at the moment, but horseback riding gives me that pleasure without the ownership requirements.&lt;br /&gt;
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Two, it gets me out of the house.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;m somewhat naturally awkward in social settings that are unfamiliar, so I don&#39;t tend to make friends easily.&amp;nbsp; Outside of work, I don&#39;t do much, and this is a good way to prompt me to get out and be around people.&amp;nbsp; That&#39;s important for my mental status, so I don&#39;t feel isolated and sink into a cycle of depression.&amp;nbsp; It&#39;s sometimes hard to get the willpower going to actually make the effort to get up and out, but once&amp;nbsp;I do, I usually feel a lot better.&lt;br /&gt;
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Three, and maybe this is the most important one, it&#39;s good exercise for me.&amp;nbsp; I have a serious problem with exercise - it hurts and I can pretty seriously injure myself with a single wrong step.&amp;nbsp; Many typical exercises I can&#39;t do, and even walking is seriously problematic due to my joints.&amp;nbsp; With riding, I have basically the same injury risks as anyone else - stepped on, kicked, or bitten by the horse, thrown or falling off the horse - but it&#39;s a form of exercise that I can do without feeling like I&#39;m killing myself.&amp;nbsp; I don&#39;t feel like I medically have a need to lose weight, no doctor has ever mentioned it to me, and I don&#39;t have any weight related issues.&amp;nbsp; However, I do have excess pounds on me, both from the pregnancy and from taking medications that caused me to gain weight.&amp;nbsp; So I&#39;m about 30 lbs heavier than I was in high school, and I want that off.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;ve been tracking what I eat, and staying right around 1,200 calories, so food isn&#39;t the problem (although I&#39;ve probably destroyed my metabolism from the days that I don&#39;t eat due to pain.)&amp;nbsp; Any exercise that will help me both burn calories and get into better shape will make me feel better about myself and maybe even help my other medical issues.&amp;nbsp;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/7068600193238243790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/completely-unfrugal.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/7068600193238243790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/7068600193238243790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/completely-unfrugal.html' title='Completely unfrugal'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-4570507236484421457</id><published>2008-06-21T13:03:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-21T13:03:01.099-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="debt"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><title type='text'>Eliminating debts, slowly but surely</title><content type='html'>I&#39;m down to just under $11,000 in consumer debt now.  This debt free thing may come sooner than I expect! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One thing I&#39;m very, very determined to stick with is that I will not incur any new unsecured debt.  If I end up getting credit cards at some point in the future, I will pay off the bill every month, without fail.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/4570507236484421457/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/eliminating-debts-slowly-but-surely.html#comment-form' title='47 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/4570507236484421457'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/4570507236484421457'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/eliminating-debts-slowly-but-surely.html' title='Eliminating debts, slowly but surely'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>47</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-3805656144410367456</id><published>2008-06-19T10:48:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-19T11:09:22.474-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>My spending spree, and why</title><content type='html'>I&#39;ve been on the move pretty much constantly for the past 3 years.  I&#39;ve had to deal with leaving my apartment, being in and out of the hospital, then temporary living arrangements for a while.  Additionally, I haven&#39;t bought new clothes in about 7 years, resulting in 99% of my wardrobe being too small, too large, or worn out.  This doesn&#39;t come close to conveying the impression I would like to and need to convey at work. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I made up my mind that my new place represents a fresh start and I&#39;m going to make the most of it.  I&#39;m going to stop living out of boxes and actually unpack and organize my stuff.  I don&#39;t really have a ton of things I need to get rid of, since the majority of my &quot;stuff&quot; disappeared when I went into the hospital (I mean that literally, I have no idea what happened to it,) but I am looking to actively make a home for myself.  I&#39;m also replacing my wardrobe a few pieces at a time.  I did some research into what is actually needed for a nice, professional wardrobe, and I&#39;m concentrating on buying pieces that fit well, are high quality, and provide me with several different outfits.  This is going to be a slow, expensive process, since I have to replace an entire wardrobe, but I think it will make quite a bit of difference in how I&#39;m perceived professionally and personally.  Ultimately, I think it&#39;s an investment for my future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In both of these tasks, I&#39;m spending money that isn&#39;t exactly necessary, but I think it&#39;s valuable.  I&#39;m following my basic principles about spending, I&#39;m not buying impulsively, I&#39;m doing my research, and I&#39;m buying quality items at a good value and intending to get several years worth of use from my purchases.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/3805656144410367456/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/my-spending-spree-and-why.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3805656144410367456'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3805656144410367456'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/my-spending-spree-and-why.html' title='My spending spree, and why'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-1160935909977179512</id><published>2008-06-17T10:26:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-17T10:48:37.148-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="personal"/><title type='text'>Settling in to the new place</title><content type='html'>I finally finished moving in this weekend.  I&#39;m not yet sleeping very well, due to the new noises in the place, but it&#39;s the first time in years I&#39;ve been sleeping on a real bed, so that&#39;s nice.  My spending will definitely be drastically up this month, I&#39;ll probably have spent between $1200-$1500 to get all the household things I need.  But for that, I&#39;ve gotten a mattress, sheets, comforter, pillows, a desk, monitor, printer, keyboard, mouse, chair, a dock for my laptop, and several shelving items.  Given that I work from home quite often, having a workstation set up was necessary, and it&#39;s a little hard to get by without bedding.  I feel pretty good about the way things are coming together.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/1160935909977179512/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/settling-in-to-new-place.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/1160935909977179512'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/1160935909977179512'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/settling-in-to-new-place.html' title='Settling in to the new place'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-8589921325897557685</id><published>2008-06-13T23:17:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-13T23:21:54.194-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="politics"/><title type='text'>An icon falls</title><content type='html'>I was shocked to hear of Tim Russert&#39;s death today.  He&#39;s been a fixture of Sunday mornings for nearly my entire life.  It was heartbreaking to watch the MSNBC news anchors unable to get through their comments without visibly breaking down, some in tears. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No one can replace him.  As we move forth in what I truly believe is the most pivotal election in decades, it will be without one of the most iconic figures.  I&#39;m saddened to know that he won&#39;t witness the outcome of an election he was so excited about. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m also truly hoping I won&#39;t be saying the same thing about Teddy Kennedy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have a lot of posts coming over the next week or so, I&#39;ve simply been so unsettled with packing and getting ready to move tomorrow that other things have slid by the wayside.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/8589921325897557685/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/icon-falls.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8589921325897557685'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8589921325897557685'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/icon-falls.html' title='An icon falls'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-3947576392261944468</id><published>2008-06-10T23:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-10T23:36:41.147-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>A story of my parents</title><content type='html'>A &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.mightybargainhunter.com/2008/06/01/when-do-parents-hold-the-financial-hammer/&quot;&gt;post at MightyBargainHunter&lt;/a&gt; gave me pause.  The post is a discussion of parents holding control over their minor child&#39;s finances.  I haven&#39;t discussed my family history too much on this blog, simply because I&#39;ve tried hard to move on from that aspect of my life.  However, the post sparked some thoughts. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I was young, I hated to spend my own money.  I&#39;d happily spend other people&#39;s money, and by and large, my parents would buy me stuff to make up for their other failings.  But I can still remember the first purchase I made, a $30 Timex digital waterproof watch, when I was 11, and I agonized over the purchase for weeks.  I saved all birthday and Christmas money, as well as any extra money I got from allowances, grandparents, etc.  My grandparents on both sides would also regularly purchase savings bonds.  All this money went into a savings account, and by the time I was ready to go off to college, it had well over $25,000 in it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or, it should have.  There wasn&#39;t a single cent in it.  My parents were never good with their finances, and they took the money without telling me.  I might have been more willing to accept their need, had it not gone to finance my father&#39;s prostitution fixation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How differently would life had turned out for me if I had a cushion for when my life turned upside down and I ended up in the hospital?  If I had that money now, I could be completely debt free, with a bit to spare. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That being said, if my parents had been the type to not need to raid their child&#39;s savings, my medical crisis probably wouldn&#39;t have led to the financial crisis as well. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But maybe the most significant thing I think my parents &quot;did&quot; to me is maybe the least tangible.  When I get into some sort of trouble, either of my own making, or something that was out of my control, I&#39;m really bad about asking for help.  I panic, and usually make decisions that end up making the problem worse.  Admitting mistakes, even if they weren&#39;t my own, was always a recipe for trouble, and I never really learned how to reach out. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&#39;s not to say that my situation isn&#39;t my responsibility, it is.  I had a lot of young and stupid moments, as well as some really immature decisions.  I&#39;m working on it...</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/3947576392261944468/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/story-of-my-parents.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3947576392261944468'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3947576392261944468'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/story-of-my-parents.html' title='A story of my parents'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-8734181095942364878</id><published>2008-06-06T23:19:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-06T23:45:05.063-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>Mental block</title><content type='html'>I met the major goals for this month, and really, my life has gotten back on track.  I&#39;ve taken control of my finances, although from now on out, my expenses will be up since I&#39;ll be responsible for rent and groceries again.  I have a job, a place to live, and I&#39;m feeling reasonably secure and independent. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet...I&#39;m still struggling mentally.  One of the ways I tried hard to fight sinking back into depression from the trauma I went through, the chronic pain, and the general isolation was to focus on a checklist of things that I absolutely had to fix in my life.  Now that I&#39;ve corrected most of the disasters, I&#39;m feeling a little lost and unsure of where to go from here.  I don&#39;t really have any more answers than I did a year ago, and I guess I was sort of hoping that I&#39;d have some sort of revelation once I cleared the major hurdles.  But I don&#39;t.  Without a defined checklist, I&#39;m floundering a bit.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/8734181095942364878/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/mental-block.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8734181095942364878'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8734181095942364878'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/mental-block.html' title='Mental block'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-2200388706836128405</id><published>2008-06-03T08:37:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-03T08:52:01.839-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="monthly review"/><title type='text'>May 2008 Review</title><content type='html'>My net worth as of May 31st, 2008:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;($16,191.18)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assets:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Liquid assets:&lt;br /&gt;$1,579.62&lt;br /&gt;Investments:&lt;br /&gt;$5,232.20&lt;br /&gt;Total:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#33cc00;&quot;&gt;$6,811.82&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Liabilities:&lt;br /&gt;Consumer Debt:&lt;br /&gt;$23,003.00&lt;br /&gt;Hospital Bills:&lt;br /&gt;$0&lt;br /&gt;Total:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;$23,003.00&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#000000;&quot;&gt;That is a 62% increase in my net worth. My assets actually decreased a bit this month, mostly due to an increase in spending. My big discretionary expenses were a large entertainment bill and a larger transportation bill. The entertainment expense was purchasing two tickets to a baseball game, this is an event that I will attend in Sept. There&#39;s a chance that my team will make it to the playoffs this year, and I had the opportunity to get front row tickets directly next to the visitor&#39;s dugout. It&#39;s not cheap, but I&#39;m very excited about it. I&#39;m not sure why the transportation bill was so large. My quarterly medical retainer bill came through, as well as some repayment expenses. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m going to try something new and put the spreadsheet I use online for everyone to see. I use it to track and categorize my income and expenses, as well as keeping track of my net worth. Check it out &lt;a href=&quot;http://spreadsheets.google.com/pub?key=ppUtW9Ke1m0Hsr7fjwK6TeA&amp;amp;gid=1&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. I did earn more than I spent for the month.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/2200388706836128405/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/may-2008-review.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2200388706836128405'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2200388706836128405'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/may-2008-review.html' title='May 2008 Review'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-8005438663431986375</id><published>2008-06-02T23:09:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-06-02T23:19:44.211-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><title type='text'>May Goals review</title><content type='html'>At the end of each month, I will go through and evaluate the progress I made on the goals I post at the beginning of the month.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For May:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Financial:&lt;br /&gt;Increase net worth by 15%&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I achieved this. I&#39;ll post the detailed breakdown further, but I&#39;ve resolved all my medical debt. This caused my net worth to increase by a whopping 62.39%. I&#39;ve continued to add no debt, and I&#39;m making slow progress on my consumer debt. Things should certainly begin changing on that front over the next month or two.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Personal:&lt;br /&gt;Move into a new home&lt;br /&gt;File complaint with landlord-tenant board&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;I met one of these - well, mostly.  I&#39;m still moving &quot;stuff&quot; to the new place, but it&#39;s mine.  I&#39;m pretty excited about it.  I&#39;m putting some money into household items (things like new pillows, for example), since I have an actual bed instead of sleeping on a couch, as I have been for...2.5 years now.  I&#39;m going to strive to actually take better care of myself and begin making an actual life for myself instead of constantly living out of boxes.  I don&#39;t know why I haven&#39;t made the effort to file the complaint letter with the landlord tenant board.  I&#39;m going to absolutely force myself to do this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Two of three, and the two major ones...not bad.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/8005438663431986375/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/may-goals-review.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8005438663431986375'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8005438663431986375'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/06/may-goals-review.html' title='May Goals review'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-3815012101280577182</id><published>2008-05-27T08:33:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-27T08:33:00.461-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="investments"/><title type='text'>Slowly but surely</title><content type='html'>You&#39;ll notice the graphs on the sidebar have been slowly increasing.  I&#39;ve managed to put an extra $2000 into my Vanguard account.  By 6/6, I&#39;ll be able to split that fund into the growth and income funds I&#39;ve planned on. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That means I&#39;ll have 6 months to come up with another $6,000 to manage to get all my funds bought.  That&#39;ll be a real stretch to meet it by the end of the year, and 5/1/09 is definitely the more realistic goal.  A lot will depend on how my debt payments end up working out.  Either way though, I feel that I&#39;m really starting to get a true handle on my finances.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/3815012101280577182/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/slowly-but-surely.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3815012101280577182'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3815012101280577182'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/slowly-but-surely.html' title='Slowly but surely'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-3937153458089488127</id><published>2008-05-25T10:27:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-25T10:27:00.906-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><title type='text'>I did my part</title><content type='html'>This is for all the ER docs and nurses reading this blog (if there are any).  When I was in the ER, I behaved well.  I tried to be as polite as possible to everyone that came into my room.  I only described the pain when asked, made no complaints, and didn&#39;t ask for a thing.  I apologized profusely when the EEG wouldn&#39;t work because my muscles are clenching and twitching too much for an accurate reading.  I smiled and said please and thank you whenever I could.  I also refused the pills and prescription they gave me on discharge. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My ER experience may have been the one of the more unpleasant things I&#39;ve ever done, but I&#39;ve taken the blogs I read to heart, and tried to behave in the way you&#39;ve requested patients act.  It didn&#39;t really make any difference to the way I was treated, but at least I can be fairly confident I won&#39;t be making a featured appearance in a blog post.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/3937153458089488127/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-did-my-part.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3937153458089488127'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3937153458089488127'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-did-my-part.html' title='I did my part'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-3869082920053803893</id><published>2008-05-23T10:13:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-23T10:23:25.111-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>A few updates</title><content type='html'>Well, this weekend was one of &quot;those&quot; weekends.  I managed to land myself in the ER Thursday night, for the first time related to pain.  It wasn&#39;t quite normal pain though, I started experiencing sharp, excruciating, and unrelenting pain just underneath my ribcage on my left side.  I called my doctor after about an hour, and he had me go to the ER thinking it could be a heart or lung issue.  I thought it was more in the abdominal area, but I was panicking and scared and went anyway.  After an EEG and a contrast CT, they figured out it wasn&#39;t my heart or lungs.  So I got written off as a drug seeker and parked in between the homeless people passed out from a night of alcohol and left for 6 hours.  Not the most fun. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I&#39;m still experiencing the pain intermittantly, along with some blood coming from somewhere inside, but I&#39;m not going do anything about it right now.  If it&#39;s a small tear or something, it will heal on it&#39;s own.  If it&#39;s cancer, I wouldn&#39;t get treatment anyway.  If I start feeling shocky, then I&#39;ll call my doctor.  Until then...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So after doing all of that Thursday/Friday, I decided to have some fun over the weekend.  I went out to a minor league baseball game, which was a ton of fun - no one goes to single A games, and there&#39;s no security, so you can basically hang out with the ballplayers.  It&#39;s even better when you&#39;re on the visitors side.  Then I went out to dinner afterwards.  I spent some money on that, but I needed something to get my mind off of things.  I&#39;m also going to get a haircut next week, which is a fairly major expense, but I only do it every six months.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I move into the new place next weekend, so I&#39;ll have to start thinking about how to make the space my own.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/3869082920053803893/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/few-updates.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3869082920053803893'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/3869082920053803893'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/few-updates.html' title='A few updates'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-1377733664363505738</id><published>2008-05-19T12:45:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-19T12:45:01.018-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><title type='text'>I found a place to live</title><content type='html'>$900 per month includes everything - utilities, cable, internet, rent, and furniture.  I&#39;m going to need to buy some household items, things like hangers, but this expense is significantly less than I thought it was going to be a month ago.  The important thing is I like the landlord - renting privately means that the relationship I can have with the house owner is fairly significant.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The downside is that it&#39;s farther from public transportation than I would like, meaning I&#39;ll have a pretty heavy reliance on cabs until I&#39;m able to purchase a car.  Given the risk to my physical well-being walking long distances presents, there aren&#39;t many other good options.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m a little concerned that I made an impetuous decision, but overall, I think it will be a decent situation.  It is, at minimum, a plenty doable short-term solution.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/1377733664363505738/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-found-place-to-live.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/1377733664363505738'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/1377733664363505738'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-found-place-to-live.html' title='I found a place to live'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-8148921335646188071</id><published>2008-05-17T15:22:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-17T15:22:00.527-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><title type='text'>More on concierge medicine</title><content type='html'>As regular readers know, I&#39;m extremely happy with my new doctor and the concierge medicine program.  It&#39;s worth every penny of the monthly fee ($125).  Recently, he referred me to an orthopedist; I have an appointment at the end of the month.  I made the appointment, let my doctor know, and he took the initiative to call up the orthopedist to have a lengthy, in-depth discussion about my health concerns and his goals for the appointment.  Now I feel as though I can go into the office and spend the time talking about management options instead of having to go through the history. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Similarly, he sends me a copy of my medical records whenever they&#39;re updated.  He made a point of noting in them that I displayed no drug-seeking behaviour.  One of my biggest frustrations was feeling like I had to clear that hurdle with every specialist I saw, and I think having the notation in my chart will be a big help.  It was done spontaneously too, I made no special requests. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If I were perfectly healthy, I wouldn&#39;t see this as a needed expense.  But $125/month is a minor expense if it makes me feel not quite so alone in facing down my condition.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/8148921335646188071/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/more-on-concierge-medicine.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8148921335646188071'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/8148921335646188071'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/more-on-concierge-medicine.html' title='More on concierge medicine'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-2157369184908797506</id><published>2008-05-15T13:37:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-15T13:37:00.566-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><title type='text'>Living on 50%</title><content type='html'>If things go well, I hope to have a new residence tomorrow.  Assuming that it does, my finances will change a lot, since I&#39;ll take back on responsibilities for utilities, food, and rent. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In planning for this, my monthly, fixed bills will be just under half of my net salary.  This includes rent, utilities (all of them, including internet and home/cell phone bills), and my medical retainer.  I can then put away 1/3 into investments/savings, and reserve about 25% of my pay for groceries, transportation, and personal spending. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is an allocation I feel comfortable living on for a fair amount of time.  I hope to maintain this amount as my salary increases, so I&#39;ll be able to put a larger portion of my income towards saving over time.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/2157369184908797506/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/living-on-50.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2157369184908797506'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2157369184908797506'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/living-on-50.html' title='Living on 50%'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-2927376702402652041</id><published>2008-05-13T11:33:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-13T11:35:42.090-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="debt"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="investments"/><title type='text'>Why I invest</title><content type='html'>Someone questioned in the comments why I invest if I still have debt.&lt;br /&gt;That&#39;s a fair question, and there are several reasons. &lt;p&gt;First, I think it&#39;s important to have an emergency fund set aside before&lt;br /&gt;focusing on debt. Unplanned events happen in everyone&#39;s life and having&lt;br /&gt;money that&#39;s fairly easily accessible means that you don&#39;t end up going&lt;br /&gt;further in debt when they do occur. I&#39;m probably a bit more paranoid&lt;br /&gt;than most about this issue, given the experiences I&#39;ve had so far, but I&lt;br /&gt;have 3 months of living expenses set aside. I invest 75% of this money&lt;br /&gt;in order to get a pretty good rate of return without significant risk. &lt;p&gt;Second, my debt is not increasing. It&#39;s in the hands of collection&lt;br /&gt;agencies, and due to the laws in my state, they&#39;re not allowed to tack&lt;br /&gt;on additional fees and interest. I have legal representation in order&lt;br /&gt;to handle this in the way that will minimize the impact on my future&lt;br /&gt;financial outlook. Thus, while I will eventually pay everything I owe,&lt;br /&gt;it&#39;s actually not advisable for me to pay it off monthly or&lt;br /&gt;immediately. I&#39;m putting aside a fairly significant amount of money and&lt;br /&gt;using that to get a decent return so that as agreements are made, I can&lt;br /&gt;pay off a specific creditor and be done with it. &lt;p&gt;Finally, when the money is put in an account that I don&#39;t have immediate&lt;br /&gt;access to, I&#39;m really unlikely to spend it. Transferring the money adds&lt;br /&gt;additional time for thought and reflection about any purchase I intend&lt;br /&gt;to make. Anytime I have the opportunity to put money into an account&lt;br /&gt;and let it passively increase, I try to take it. Even if I only put it&lt;br /&gt;in an index fund in the short term, I&#39;m comfortable with that level of&lt;br /&gt;risk, and the upside is a lot more than letting it sit in my checking&lt;br /&gt;account. &lt;p&gt;So for most people, after setting aside at least $1,000 in an emergency&lt;br /&gt;fund, paying off high-interest debt makes much more sense than investing. &lt;p&gt;As a side note, my using the term &quot;consumer&quot; debt is a bit misleading.&lt;br /&gt;About 80% of this debt was never credit card debt to begin with. About&lt;br /&gt;$20,000 of it was a direct result of my ending up in the hospital.&lt;br /&gt;Secured loans defaulted, bills went unpaid, etc. - my parents refused to&lt;br /&gt;come up (not that I would have wanted them to) and no one else had any&lt;br /&gt;authority to handle my finances. Moreover, no one was really too&lt;br /&gt;concerned about those, as my chances of survival at the time were small&lt;br /&gt;- bills tend to take a back seat to that. So most of this debt never&lt;br /&gt;had interest.&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/2927376702402652041/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/why-i-invest.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2927376702402652041'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2927376702402652041'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/why-i-invest.html' title='Why I invest'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-1756141131878865034</id><published>2008-05-07T19:40:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-07T19:40:00.956-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><title type='text'>I have a confession to make</title><content type='html'>This probably won&#39;t come as a surprise to those who can read between the lines of my blog. I&#39;m not particularly frugal. I have no real intentions of saving hard for retirement - the odds that I make it to 59 1/2 (and can withdraw from an IRA account without penalties) are miniscule. Instead, my time horizons are much shorter - the next 10-20 years. I don&#39;t want to be tied to a specific job, living paycheck to paycheck, but I also intend to work as long as I can. I&#39;ve taken my year and a half off from the job market, and honestly, I&#39;m happier working, even if individual days are sometimes rough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are, however, a few guidelines I&#39;m using in my money management that I think are important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;I spend intelligently. I just spent nearly $1400 on electronics (a new laptop and a new cell phone). That&#39;s a lot of money. But I thought seriously about both purchases and they&#39;re ones that will last me a long time and add significantly to my quality of life. I keep track of every penny I spend, so that I&#39;m able to identify the areas where spending is not contributing to the enjoyment of my life, and make changes in those areas.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I don&#39;t live paycheck to paycheck. That is one of the most stressful things I&#39;ve done, not knowing whether I was going to make payments for all my expenses. Now, I plan for recurring expenses in advance and reserve that money the month before it&#39;ll be needed. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I keep an emergency fund. For the unexpected expenses, I know that they won&#39;t wipe me out financially. I have very few obligations at the moment (I&#39;ll have rent, utilities, groceries, and medical bills) and I&#39;m only responsible for myself. So I have 10% of my gross annual income set aside. This would cover 3 months of no external income whatsoever, comfortably, 4 months if I really stretched. As my expenses grow, or as I acquire more points of failure (for example, a car that might need repairs), I&#39;ll increase the amount in the funds. This came first and was absolutely my highest priority. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I don&#39;t buy on impulse. I readily admit, I have expensive tastes, and I would much rather pay a premium for quality. But I heavily research purchases and give them a lot of thought. When I do make a decision to buy something, I feel good about it and can enjoy what it contributes to my life, as opposed to regretting it and feeling locked into a purchase.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I don&#39;t go into debt for purchases. If I can&#39;t afford it now, I wait. Moreover, I don&#39;t throw every penny I have towards a purchase. My set-aside funds don&#39;t get touched, my bills and obligations, including automatic savings, come first.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;I set goals, both short-term and long-term, and I work towards those. I want to get out of debt. I want to buy a car. I want to get out of the rental market and own my own home. I work towards these diligently and I don&#39;t lose sight of them just because a shiny new object comes out. In other words, I spend money now to make my life better, but I also put money away towards my future.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;So on balance, I earn more than my monthly obligations. Once those obligations are satisfied, I split the balance between long-term goals and short-term ones. Does this fit the traditional definition of frugal? No, not really. I would reconsider my position if my life circumstances were different. But for me, I think I&#39;ve started on the road to a good balance between now and later. &lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/1756141131878865034/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-have-confession-to-make.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/1756141131878865034'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/1756141131878865034'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/i-have-confession-to-make.html' title='I have a confession to make'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-7510480717669054883</id><published>2008-05-05T11:24:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-05T11:24:02.001-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>Entertainment on a budget</title><content type='html'>April was a really rough month for me. I had a lot of mental ups and downs (a bit more downs than ups). I did have one really fun moment. I&#39;m a big baseball girl. I don&#39;t root for the local team, but my team comes to town occasionally. I&#39;m working on getting a team hat signed (17 out of 25 on the active roster - 3 position players, 2 of whom are starters, and 5 pitchers, 3 starters). I actually skipped going to the game, but spent about 7 hours hanging out, getting autographs, pictures, talking to ball players, and watching batting practice. Best part - it was free.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was amazed at how genuinely nice and fun some of the players are. These are people who are making millions of dollars per year, who are all over TV, and yet they still manage to keep their head on straight. Not all of them, of course, but a significant number of them are. I spent the day bouncing off the walls.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No chance I would try something like this with the New York teams or the Red Sox, but that&#39;s the benefit of rooting for a small market team.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/7510480717669054883/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/entertainment-on-budget.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/7510480717669054883'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/7510480717669054883'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/entertainment-on-budget.html' title='Entertainment on a budget'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-4440917705684337125</id><published>2008-05-03T11:14:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-03T11:14:01.016-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="computer"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="musings"/><title type='text'>Lenovo R61 thoughts</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;My new computer arrived a couple of weeks ago.  I couldn&#39;t be more pleased.  The 2.4 GHz processor and 3 GB of RAM allow me to run Vista without a hitch, and the discrete graphics card means that I can play the one computer game I still play regularly (Civ 4).  In fact, I can turn the graphics all the way up and play on the largest map setting with no difficulties at all.  I&#39;m plenty happy with the weight as well.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My only complaint, and it&#39;s a small one, is the lack of a horizontally aligned USB port.  I have a USB EV-DO network card provided by my company, and when it&#39;s plugged in, I can&#39;t have my laptop flat on the desk.  &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Financially, this could not have been a better decision.  I was expecting to pay about $4,000 to replace my laptop and buy a desktop + all the peripherals.  But given that the laptop can do everything I need without a hitch, I don&#39;t feel any need to buy a desktop, plus the laptop only cost me a bit over $900.  Eventually, I&#39;ll probably buy a docking station and the peripherals anyway, just to make life a bit more convenient when using the computer at home, but I&#39;ll still come in significantly under half of what I had planned.  Essentially, I&#39;ll have spent just over half of my tax refund on this purchase.  Given that I used the rest of it, along with my tax stimulus check for long-term savings, I feel very comfortable with this purchase.  I fully expect this computer to take me through several years.  &lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/4440917705684337125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/lenovo-r61-thoughts.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/4440917705684337125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/4440917705684337125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/lenovo-r61-thoughts.html' title='Lenovo R61 thoughts'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-2992482177000051873</id><published>2008-05-02T12:38:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-02T12:38:00.844-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="monthly review"/><title type='text'>April 2008 review</title><content type='html'>My net worth as of April 30st, 2008:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;($43,051.66)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assets:&lt;br /&gt;Liquid assets: $3,748.40&lt;br /&gt;Investments: $3,078.84&lt;br /&gt;Total: &lt;span style=&quot;color:#33ff33;&quot;&gt;$6,827.24 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Liabilities:&lt;br /&gt;Consumer Debt: $23,003.00&lt;br /&gt;Hospital Bills: $26,875.90&lt;br /&gt;Total: &lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;$49,878.90 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My assets have increased by 43% since last month.  My investments were the big increase, with an increase of over 1400%.  My debts decreased by nearly 13%.  I still have a long way to go on them, obviously, but things continue to move in the right direction.  Overall, my net worth increased by nearly 18%.  When I do move, it will be hard to maintain that level of increase, but I am going to work on keeping my expenses lower than my income. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Monthly income and expenses:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Income:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Interest: $1.45&lt;br /&gt;Internet income: $88&lt;br /&gt;Other income: $1,567&lt;br /&gt;Salary: $2,333.66&lt;br /&gt;Total: &lt;span style=&quot;color:#33ff33;&quot;&gt;$3,970.11&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#33ff33;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#000000;&quot;&gt;Expenses:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Charity: $20&lt;br /&gt;Clothing: $41.34&lt;br /&gt;Debt Repayment: $59.00&lt;br /&gt;Dining: $27.69&lt;br /&gt;Entertainment: $129.79&lt;br /&gt;Gifts: $21.15&lt;br /&gt;Household: $1344.66&lt;br /&gt;Medical: $177.26&lt;br /&gt;Misc.: $25.90&lt;br /&gt;Transportation: $87.00&lt;br /&gt;Utilities: $54.00&lt;br /&gt;Total: &lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;$1987.79&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Overall Total: &lt;span style=&quot;color:#33ff33;&quot;&gt;$1,982.32&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I spent quite a bit this month.  Purchases of a cell phone and a computer contributed for the bulk of the expenses.  I came very close to covering my entertainment bill with my internet income, and I think that will be a goal every month.  I definitely met and exceeded the goal of earning at least $25 extra every month.  My tax refund came in, which made a big different in my income, although I still spent less than I earned if you exclude that.  I expect my discretionary expenses to decrease next month.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/2992482177000051873/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/april-2008-review.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2992482177000051873'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2992482177000051873'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/april-2008-review.html' title='April 2008 review'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-2733411026072393802</id><published>2008-05-01T16:26:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-01T16:26:00.880-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><title type='text'>May Goals</title><content type='html'>My goals for May: &lt;br /&gt;Financial:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Increase net worth by 15%&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;Personal:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Move into a new home&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;File complaint with landlord-tenant board&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;p&gt;My goals for this month are mostly designed to stabilize my situation.  With a steady increase in my net worth and getting my living situation straightened out, I&#39;ll put myself well on a path to achieving my bigger, long-term goals.  &lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/2733411026072393802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/may-goals.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2733411026072393802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2733411026072393802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/may-goals.html' title='May Goals'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-6747087862448588714</id><published>2008-05-01T12:04:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-01T12:26:49.019-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><title type='text'>April goals review</title><content type='html'>At the end of each month, I will go through and evaluate the progress I made on the goals I post at the beginning of the month.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For April:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Financial:&lt;br /&gt;Re-fund emergency account ($1,000 total)&lt;br /&gt;Open an account at&lt;br /&gt;Vanguard with $3,000 invested in an &quot;income&quot; class index fund&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I managed both of these.  Well, mostly - my index fund is a balanced income fund.  I&#39;ll be investing $100 a month into the Vanguard account automatically and hopefully more than that.  Once it hits $6,000, I&#39;ll divide it into two. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right now, I feel as though my finances are in shape for any sort of emergency.  Obviously, I hope not to have a situation like that, but if something were to come up, I would be able to survive it.  I&#39;m not going to touch this $4,000 unless it&#39;s imperative. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Debt&lt;br /&gt;Contact all hospitals and doctors with outstanding medical bills to&lt;br /&gt;determine progress&lt;br /&gt;Reduce consumer debt to under $20,000&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These two are still a bit up in the air.  The medical bills are actually down to just one hospital, but that&#39;s half of it.  I have to submit a form (I submitted it once, they lost it,) but I can&#39;t really do that without a good idea of my expenses. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#39;m still waiting on some creditors to get back to me with respect to the consumer debt, but I think this goal is met. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Personal&lt;br /&gt;Move into new home&lt;br /&gt;File complaint with landlord-tenant board to recover security deposit and any associated damages&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I haven&#39;t done either of these.  No real excuse beyond not finding the right place that will also take the chance on me.  I&#39;m going to call about the form today. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So...all in all, the month looks pretty bad.  2 goals just missed entirely, 2 on hold, and 2 met.  But, the 2 that I met were, in my mind, the most important two.  I&#39;ll take some comfort in that, and chalk April up to being one of those months.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/6747087862448588714/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/april-goals-review.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/6747087862448588714'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/6747087862448588714'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/05/april-goals-review.html' title='April goals review'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3860739711284589225.post-2242410912629488742</id><published>2008-04-27T10:27:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-27T10:27:01.061-04:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="finances"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="investments"/><title type='text'>Investing and planning</title><content type='html'>I received my tax refund on Friday.  Together with my paycheck, I used that to start my account at Vanguard (&lt;a href=&quot;http://finance.google.com/finance?client=ob&amp;amp;q=MUTF:VFINX&quot;&gt;VFINX&lt;/a&gt;).  My initial plan had been to invest my first $3,000 into an &quot;income&quot; class fund.  This is classified as a large blend fund, however, and I think I&#39;m comfortable with that. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once I have $6,000 in that fund, I will split it into a growth fund (VIGRX?) and an income fund (VIVAX).  This will allow me to keep $3,000 in a relatively low-risk account for a financial catastrophe while using the bulk of my money to try to obtain a better rate of return.  Eventually, I would also like to add in a small/midcap blend fund (VEXMX?) and an international fund (VGTSX?).  Thus, I need $9,000 more to set up my portfolio the way I would like it.  If I really stretched, I might be able to manage that by the end of the year.  More likely, I&#39;d like to have all 4 funds purchased by May 1, 2009.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meanwhile, I am adding $50/paycheck to this fund.  Additionally, at the end of every month, I plan to transfer additional &quot;leftover&quot; money (hopefully at least $400) to the fund.  I&#39;m expecting this to become the primary location for my mid- and long-term savings.   If I can average $500/month, I&#39;ll be on track to seriously consider purchasing property of my own by the time I&#39;m 30.  Being debt free and a homeowner at 30 is a nice dream!</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/feeds/2242410912629488742/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/04/investing-and-planning.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2242410912629488742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3860739711284589225/posts/default/2242410912629488742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedebthole.blogspot.com/2008/04/investing-and-planning.html' title='Investing and planning'/><author><name>S</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01662271570381154898</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>