The Decision

The Decision: Birthday Reflections

2012-03-19T12:59:00.001-05:00

The Decision: Birthday Reflections: So yesterday was my birthday! A year ago at this time I was planning my move to Colombia , South America! It was all so exciting and adventu...

Birthday Reflections

2012-03-19T12:29:00.000-05:00

So yesterday was my birthday! A year ago at this time I was planning my move to Colombia , South America! It was all so exciting and adventurous, all I thought about was leaving a place that was full of pain for me personally. One year later I am living my dream on the farm I have always wanted. Do I have thoughts on my journey, of course! Are they all great? NO! I have learned enough in one year to last me a lifetime, a lot about myself and my past way of looking at my life. I have learned to adapt, and change with my ever changing circumstances. A process that started long before my move. I have learned that Colombia does not operate the way the United States does, I can not have everything I want with a phone call. Colombia is so advanced in some things and way behind in others. I have yet to pay the few bills I have online! I have to drive to places and wait in line to pay a simple bill! This is what the Colombians do! I have to find adequate internet, another MAJOR problem! The internet here really sucks. I have it, but sometimes I am unable to connect, and it is not a strong signal. Of course, living in Paradise more than makes up for this problem and I have learned to take this in stride and keep trying until I accomplish my goal.
Is it worth it to live in a new country? Yes it is. Is it difficult to do what I have done? Yes it is. I am close, so close to everything I pictured in my dream to come here.

So what did I do to make my day special? I did what I love to do, spent time with my animals, exercise making curtains for my traditional Colombian kitchen..I also reflected on my peace, my own personal peace. No present, greetings, a call from someone, can accomplish this for me. I know, I seem O.K. even peaceful and happy. I am to a certain extent, but well, the thought of my daughter is always there, it never leaves. I guess that is what grieving is...I know grief. My parents are dead, dear friends and relatives have passed over the years, but my daughter's death is about what she did not experience and I still do. I thought about this a lot yesterday. How I miss her being on this earth. How I used to stalk her twitter. How I knew what was always going on with her, even when I was not with her physically. Now, I have to believe she is in a better place, I have to keep her alive in my life. I have donated to a little church here in her memory. That was my real birthday present to myself, a place to go and feel her, and to talk with her. The church will be there long after I am gone, the people in my small community will always tell others about the paintings and crosses donated by the American in her daughter's name. I will continue to help this church as long as I am here, in any way I can. That is very fulfilling for me as the people are not rich but live a very rich life. I wanted someting that would live on in history to honor her, and this will.

I guess that it will always be this way with me. I accept that. I am a different person from her death. I have read many things about really hard times bringing lessons to your life. I can honestly say hard times have changed me. I am less judgemental, and am more forgiving. I do not engage in arguments, but stick up for what I believe in. I live with the thought that my farm will be a place for the people I most treasure, my son, and my granddaughter, to visit and enjoy. I am working hard to put everything in place to have a calm , tranquil life without stress. It has only been a year, but so much has changed because I did something about the way I was living my life. If I can do this so can you who read this blog, no matter what it is you feel you need to change. Go for it, take one day at a time, and see the results. You might take a few steps back, but you will take more steps forward.

The Decision: It's A Dog's World!

2012-02-27T07:03:00.000-05:00

The Decision: It's A Dog's World!: Marley Taz and Yuki My animals are so important to me that they were a major reason I moved to Colombia, South America. I had always...

The Decision: It's A Dog's World!

2012-02-26T16:42:00.000-05:00

The Decision: It's A Dog's World!: Marley Taz and Yuki My animals are so important to me that they were a major reason I moved to Colombia, South America. I had always...

It's A Dog's World!

2012-02-26T16:36:00.000-05:00

Marley

Taz and Yuki

My animals are so important to me that they were a major reason I moved to Colombia, South America. I had always wanted to retire to a farm and have lots of animals. Moving to Colombia has fulfilled that dream! I just moved to Villa Migelita, (an agricultural farm) with my original three dogs, and have three more that I have adopted in the last 8 months. Farm living agrees with my animals, and with me! They have unlimited space to play and socialize, and I have peace of mind knowing that they all will live happy lives. I was very worried about where I was going to live before I moved here, and I knew I could not afford the upkeep on a home with land in Florida. It has been a win/win situation, one that has brought peace of mind to me and a wonderful living environment for my animals.

Colleen after I picked her up from the cargo area

When I first arrived in Colombia, I had hoped to move right to a farm, however it was not meant to be. Colleen was exhausted from the trip here in the cargo hold, and she needed to have a safe living area to relax in. My rented house fulfilled that for her, but I so much wanted to have her live the rest of her life on a farm where she could wander around and her thick coat would not be too hot. The mountains have done wonders for her health, and she no longer looks exhausted. My other dogs are so loving and kind with her, it sometimes brings tears to my eyes. Colleen is 13 years old , and going strong!

Taz sitting at a restaurant

Then there is my Taz, he is a Rat Terrier who holds a special place in my heart..and my bed. Taz is my only dog who sleeps in my bed, and anywhere he can jump up and get under covers! I never cared until I moved to Colombia and he learned he could run with the street dogs! If you live in the United States, street dogs are picked up and brought to shelters, here they roam free. It is unfortunate that other countries do not have the same education on spay/neuter programs as we do in the USA. I see that the dogs are not treated badly, and they live from scraps and people setting food out for them. However, the female dogs are very abused by other male dogs and do not have long life spans if they are not adopted. My first dog I rescued here is a callejera (street dog) by the name of Nayela. She just showed up on my front patio July 4th, and I kept her. She was a little bitty puppy, and now is a great watch dog on the farm. She is always first to bark at any noise, and alerts the other dogs. Taz is thrilled for his freedom and learned to run with the other street dogs within a month of moving to Colombia. I gave up really fast trying to contain him. Dogs really do not need leashes here and can go with you to restaurants and any store.

Marley is my other Collie and one of the kindest dogs I have ever owned. He goes with the flow, and Nayela is his constant companion. He never growls at the other dogs or tries to take their food, and only wants to please. He is so beautiful to look at that he is constantly remarked on by the Colombian people when we are out. Marley and Colleen always were on leashes before we moved to the farm, as they do not understand that you have to move when a car comes! Now , well they are free to wander aimlessly all day if they so desire. Marley spends his days now laying in the sun or shade, and he also enjoys the mild temperatures of the Colombian mountains!

Orion

Yuki is a Bull Terrier (or a Boston Terrier) that was found digging in the trash. He is so calm, he often falls asleep sitting up. He has to be watched constantly, and can not be allowed to go with me on walks as he gets easily distracted and wanders off. He can never get enough food, and needs to wear a little doggie outfit for warmth. Taz and Yuki are good friends (which is unusual, as Taz likes to be left alone) , they often sleep next to each other, and where there is one you will usually find the other on the farm!

The last dog that I adopted here in Colombia, was given to me by my neighbor the night before my move. I think the word was out that I liked dogs by now! He is an American Staffordshire Terrier, and is the biggest dog I have ever owned! I gratefully accepted him with a big smile because I had wanted a guard dog for the farm. I had thought I was going to have to buy a Rottweiler, but Orion was perfect. The fact that I rescued him only made it nicer. His prior owners lived in a normal sized home, and he was way too big and needed too much exercise for them to keep in a home without a big yard. They even gave the papers with him and his shot history. He is gentle with the other dogs, and very loyal to me. I definitely would not want to come upon him while looking for trouble.

Nayela

Taz, Colleen, and Marley(my original 3 dogs)

So we all are living peacefully on Villa Migelita, my original three dogs plus three more rescues. I am now hoping to expand my animal family to include horses, cows, chickens, ducks and a goat! Before I forget, I also have 2 cats Cloudy and Franchesca who complete the family, we all hope to live happily ever after here at Villa Migelita!

The Decision: For the love of horses

2012-02-03T05:44:00.000-05:00

The Decision: For the love of horses: I learned to ride as a little girl at a friends ranch in Florida. I used to visit this friend every weekend and ride her horse. I also have ...

The Decision: For the love of horses

2012-02-02T07:32:00.000-05:00

The Decision: For the love of horses: I learned to ride as a little girl at a friends ranch in Florida. I used to visit this friend every weekend and ride her horse. I also have ...

For the love of horses

2012-02-02T07:27:00.000-05:00

I learned to ride as a little girl at a friends ranch in Florida. I used to visit this friend every weekend and ride her horse. I also have a cousin who owned a horse named Honey. I loved Honey and visiting my Aunt Katie every summer for two weeks. I would run outside across a small field to give Honey a carrot every day while enjoying my special time with my Aunt and her family. I have fond memories of Honey and those summer vacations, leaving me with a suppressed yearning to have a horse of my own. I have never missed an opportunity to ride as my life has gone forward. When I moved to Colombia, I found myself surrounded by horses. In my past blog I mentioned how I was delighted that I found sweet horses grazing in front of my home (you can read it here http://migelitaincolombia.blogspot.com/2012/01/glorious-heartwarming-wonderful.html?spref=bl) during my first days in Colombia.

Horses hold their back foot posed and ready to prance

stables

On Mother's Day in 2011 I was invited by family here in Colombia to go to a restaurant and watch beautifully trained horses show off their talents. Colombian riding is quite different than what I learned as a child, the horses prance and the rider holds the reins to keep them in steps of dance-like moves. The sound of the shoes hitting the pavement can be heard in any small town as even horses on farms prance this way. The rider sits tall in the saddle and directs the horse in beautiful symmetric moves. We ate a wonderful meal while watching displays of Colombian riding. Afterwards we walked the stables behind the restaurant to see and pet the horses , and anyone could go for a ride if they so desired. I vowed that day I would have a horse when I was able to move to a farm.

If you read my past blog Playing tourist in Palmira Valle del Cauca (http://migelitaincolombia.blogspot.com/2011/12/playing-tourist-in-palmira-valle-del.html) I mentioned El Paraiso area and the home to visit. This area is a center for locals to visit and enjoy on the weekends. I go there often to wander the booths of food and to ride a horse. The horses are friendly, in perfect health, and

hores waiting under the trees

waiting for riders

a rider can go with their own private guide for a long ride through the mountains. They have little horses for the children, delightfully sweet, to teach your little ones as young as a baby ( I see fathers holding infants on horseback here) to get used to the feel of a horse. In Colombia, animals are part of life and children grow up with the knowledge of riding and the love of animals. After your ride, wander across to the park and have one of the fruit concoctions that our sold with ice cream! Delicious! People watching is a must, and the children playing in the steam brings a smile to your face. A wonderful way to spend a Sunday in Palmira!

I have met people here while looking at farms and just sitting on my front patio of my home who invite me to ride. They will always go with you or send an escort to guide you on your way. The people of Colombia are warm and friendly and love to show their hospitality to any person visiting their country. I have had many chances to ride, one of the most memorable overlooking the small town of St Elena where I live, at sunset. I was transported to another time while I rode the horse up a mountain path. I sometimes feel I am on a movie set here, the green of the grass, the blue of the sky, the sun peeking through clouds, makes for memories that will stay in my mind as I grow older. I never miss an opportunity to photograph horses along my travels. Mothers with babies, horses in pastures the mountains looming behind while they graze.

If you love horses, then you will have many opportunities to ride, watch or just pet them. What is better than the soft nose of a horse, the sweet way they move their ears, the magnificence of their demeanor? I can never get enough of them. In the future I will have my own, a lifelong dream.

The Decision: Nirvana a nature park in Bruitrera

2012-01-23T06:48:00.000-05:00

The Decision: Nirvana a nature park in Bruitrera: If you love to hike, love beautiful views and enjoy nature Nirvana is a must see when visiting the Valle de Cauca. Located in the mountains...

Nirvana a nature park in Bruitrera

2012-01-23T06:46:00.000-05:00

If you love to hike, love beautiful views and enjoy nature Nirvana is a must see when visiting the Valle de Cauca. Located in the mountains of Palmira, this natural reserve starts with an enchanting entrance and does not disappoint as you continue your journey. As you walk the steep road through the restaurants and home at the beginning of the climb the sounds of nature are calling! There are two choices for participants who hike this reserve, you can choose the long path or a shorter less strenuous path. This reserve is privately owned and is a sanctuary for rescued parrots and also has a nursery where plants can be bought. Look for the natural pool with fish that are caught and eaten in the restaurant. It is truly a beautiful journey worth taking.

I choose the longer path, and it was well worth it. Along the way I stopped to watch the parrots whom are in huge enclosures, the natural pool and the nursery. The plants and trees all around are well maintained. I was in running shoes, but the ground was slippery, so I suggest a pair of shoes that have a good grip! The path is winding and steep with benches along the way to rest. I was very grateful for those benches. The altitude can make you breathless as you climb. I felt like I was climbing sideways at times. Sometimes going through dense foliage and long vines. As I continued up the views were outstanding. I had walked later in the day, with the sun slowly going down. I was able to see magnificent views with the sun as the backdrop!.

The path winds around and goes up at the same time. The trees have dropped leaves which cover the path at points. I found myself being super careful, and once again thought a different pair of shoes would have been nice! Everytime I heard a bird call, or the wind rustle the trees, I felt like this was what the Rainforest of Colombia would be like. I made a mental note to see it soon! It is a long way to the top with lots of spots to take a break and observe the views.

view on the way to the top

Once at the top , the long hike is well worth the effort. An observation area is waiting to relax after your hike to Nirvana. The view has to be why it is named Nirvana! A lovely home is at the top, with flowers and natural landscaping. A small store is available to buy snacks and beverages, beer included! Just standing and looking out over the valley below is breathtaking and peaceful combined. The breeze is fresh, para gliders can be seen (http://migelitaincolombia.blogspot.com/2012/01/decision-parapente-para-gliding-is-like_23.html take a look at my recent blog), birds fly by, and the sounds of nature abound! A stay of 20 to 30 minutes enjoying a beer and the view, allows enough rest for your travel back down the mountain. Going down is (of course) much easier and the restaurant is added incentive to return to the bottom! My mouth was watering at the thought of fresh fish to eat! The walk is brisk and quick going down, the natural surroundings never boring. Local workers on the reserve have little homes and come out and say "buenas" to the park's visitors. A truly charming way to spend 3 hours of your time! I had a chuckle as I left, as this carving is large and one of the last things you see after you leave the hike and make your way to the restaurant. I encourage all to stay and enjoy the local dining. The food is quite tasty! A wonderful way to end a hiking adventure and leave with a full belly and rememberance of enchanting views! Maybe you will see an eagle on your hike!

The Decision: Parapente ( para gliding) is like flying, having w...

2012-01-23T05:07:00.000-05:00

The Decision: Parapente ( para gliding) is like flying, having w...: Parapente business One of the larger more populated Parapente sites Getting the sails ready In Palmira Valle de Cauca there are m...

The Decision: Parapente ( para gliding) is like flying, having w...

2012-01-22T07:52:00.000-05:00

Parapente ( para gliding) is like flying, having wings like a bird!

2012-01-22T07:49:00.000-05:00

Parapente business

One of the larger more populated Parapente sites

Getting the sails ready

In Palmira Valle de Cauca there are many parapente businesses, just travel a mountain road and you will see a sign directing you to go to a business to enjoy this sport. Having lived here and observed the sails above me on many occasions, I wanted to learn more about this adventure. All guides who operate the business need to be licensed, so it is important that when you decide to check this off your bucket list, you make sure the guide is licensed! If you are an expert already, I saw people going by themselves, so that is possible also. Papers are to be signed releasing the business and guides from any responsibility. Payment ranges from 80,000 pesos and up (40 dollars USD) and includes transportation back to your spot of takeoff.

A few more steps and they are off!

Once you decide where you are going to enjoy your adventure, watching others leave can increase your anxiety (if you have any) as it looks like the people run right off a cliff. However, once you watch for awhile, you become immersed in the beauty of the colors and the sounds of awe made by the participants as they float into the air!

Once floating the ride is not long. It can take anywhere between 10 to 20 minutes to float to the landing, depending on the guides expertise. As you float prepare to feel suspended in air, enjoying the views you will have seen from roads, in a new way. Imagine flying like a bird, seeing the mountains as they do, avoiding the landing for as long as you can! Be prepared to see storm clouds , even lightening, as thunderstorms are common in the mountains, but what seems near is really far away! You will see breathtaking views of the large city of Cali, looking very near as you fly. The largest buildings looking close as the sun reflects off them. You might fly through a cloud and feel the droplets on your skin. Birds will fly by you, a hawk, eagle, or parrot, and the sounds they make will ring in your ears!

As you get near to landing the instructor will tell you to lift your legs, as landing is fast and you will pitch forward if you try to run as you land. The cows are grazing on the field, as you descend, and take no notice of

the large object approaching. The heart beats fast again as you realize the time went by so quickly, and you are done and safe on the ground. I am sure the experience will be one you tell your friends and family about for the rest of your life! You might even decide to do it again!

The Decision: Colombian food is healthy, organic and delicious!

2012-01-11T09:14:00.000-05:00

The Decision: Colombian food is healthy, organic and delicious!: cows hanging out on a farm I have gained 10 much needed pounds since my move to Colombia. However, do not think you will gain this muc...

Colombian food is healthy, organic and delicious!

2012-01-11T08:44:00.000-05:00

cows hanging out on a farm

I have gained 10 much needed pounds since my move to Colombia. However, do not think you will gain this much weight if you visit this magnificent country. I have never been a great cook, nor a healthy eater. All changed once I was settled in my home. I hired a maid, and she cooks me two meals a day. The food is fresh and the meat and poultry are grass fed free range. The fish are from natural lakes, the vegetables from gardens of nearby farms, the fruit also from farms in the area. I gained weight because I was actually having meals that were healthy on a regular basis. I also visit restaurants on the weekends, you can always see the kitchen and the cooking that is going on! There is no worry here of unsafe sanitary practices anywhere you eat. The kitchen and cook is there for all to watch!

Mama Mia, my favorite Italian restaurant!

The kitchen and outside is off to the side of this Brazilian

restaurant

Most restaurants are open air and covered with roofed patio's and charming tables with colorful tablecloths. A small candle is always lit for the guests at even the smallest restaurants. Most of these charming eating spots have a home off to the side where the family who owns them live. The families all take part in running the restaurant, and make time to greet you and chit chat when you visit them. The dishes can be traditional, or specific to what restaurant you visit. Colombia has a lot of Chinese restaurants, and Asian people who live here. I have eaten in social clubs on the weekends that have playgrounds and pools that entertain the kids, and there is never a rush to get you out of the table you occupy! It is relaxing and beautiful wherever you choose to eat, along with being easy on your pocketbook!

I have had many new dishes here in Colombia. The first time I ordered fish I was really surprised by how it was served. I had always had fillets and was a bit overwhelmed when the dish showed up with the whole fish staring at me! What I found was this fish is local (usually Tilapia) and caught fresh and never frozen. I had to watch for the little bones, but have since become quite adept at eating and enjoying the wonderful taste of the local fish. My favorite Colombian Italian restaurant Mama Mia has the best Italian cooking ever! The owners are Italian, relocated here from Italy, and the food is authentic Italian direct from Italy! The first time I had a pizza, I was transported back to Pisa and the great pizza I had had on one of my many excursions to Italy. Their pasta is equally as food and you leave with a full belly and enough food to take home to have a late night snack.

Pizza at Mama Mia

Sancocho is a common Colombian dish that you can make with fish, beef, chicken or pork. Sancocho de gallina is originally from the Colombian Region El Valle. I am not a huge fan of this meal because I do not love soup. However, talk with any Colombian person and they will say they could eat it everyday. It is their heritage, their culture, their memories combined in one plate of chicken, corn, rice and a soup that has the foot of a hen inside. I have not really gotten used to that yet! I do eat it , as I eat everything here, but it is not my favorite dish! I love the pork, one dish is cooked as little ribs that are really :"finger licking good"! All dishes, that are traditional Colombian are served with rice. I have learned to put the rice in my soup, and mix it with my vegetables (which are all fresh from local gardens) and meat.

plantains served with salsa as an appetizer

Fresh juice and eggs from local chickens are used every morning for my breakfast. I used to wait until mid morning to eat and then would have an egg on a muffin or yogurt. Now, I am hungry early, and exercise after my morning meal. The juices are made from local fruit, some examples are mango, tangerine, tomato (yes, there is a difference between the plant and the tree which produces fruit) pineapple, and many Colombian fruits that are unknown to the USA. I live in a small farm community, and I know that pesticides are not used and the chickens run around freely eating the grass. All of this adds up to a healthy way to live, and I feel better and look better since I have moved to Colombia. Is it the food? I would say yes, my diet has improved 100% and plays a major part in improving my health and overall well being! Eggs are not refrigerated and are delivered to my home, on a as needed basis. Milk is straight from the cow, and is boiled on the stove. I have it every day mixed with the fruit as a juice or on cereal as a late night snack. No pasteurization, and I have no problems with this. I have never been a milk drinker and now can not go a day without it! Goat milk is even more delicious and also is boiled before drinking.

beans from a local farm

One dish I have learned to love is cow's tongue. I know, you are gagging as you read this. I was a bit taken aback the first time I saw the tongue and did not want to eat it. I tried the meal, which is served with boiled potatoes, rice and vegetables. The sauce is made with garlic and onions. I was pleasantly surprised by the tenderness of the meat and the taste of the meal. I now have tongue at least once a week and savor every morsel! The cows are from farms and are for milking and yes they are killed to be eaten. I have yet to eat anything frozen here. Meat is bought at the grocery store or small tiendas in town , cut by a butcher.

Food is delicious, savory and healthy here in Colombia! I have learned to enjoy the variety of meals, cooked in the Colombian way. I miss American food only on traditional holidays, and not that much. I think my body craved healthy food, and now realize that when I bought "green" in the USA, I was buying a label, not the actual thing! Green or organic is a normal way to eat here, and if I mentioned the word organic to a local I would get a blank stare! It is just the way it is here! So now, I am ready to eat my breakfast of two eggs and the bunuelos (locally made fresh daily) a round ball with soft bread inside, and go for my walk along the country road with a full belly to start my day! Chiao!

The Decision: Glorious, heartwarming, wonderful Nature..living w...

2012-01-04T07:06:00.000-05:00

The Decision: Glorious, heartwarming, wonderful Nature..living w...: I think my decision to move to Colombia was based on the beauty I saw in my first moments in Colombia. I was transfixed with the colorfu...

Glorious, heartwarming, wonderful Nature..living with it's beauty

2012-01-04T06:22:00.000-05:00

I think my decision to move to Colombia was based on the beauty I saw in my first moments in Colombia. I was transfixed with the colorful, moving, array of sights immediately. Once I was immersed in daily life, the walks on a little country road, I was amazed by what I saw in nature on a daily basis. A ride on a motorcycle through the mountains brought unexpected surprises and delight. Who knew parrots would fly by making their sounds that settled in my ears with delight? A mother hawk teaching her baby to hunt was right before my eyes while I exercised on my small country road. Eagles sitting on fences, or flying right over my head! Eye candy that is a normal part of life, living in the country of Colombia! Nor the fact that horses and cattle are allowed to graze freely along the small country roads.

I found myself suddenly surrounded by cattle when I got off my moto to inspect a beautiful tree!

I would be fooling myself if I said it was "no big deal" these glimpses of nature and animals I saw during my first months. Being born and raised in South Florida, a lot of these moments I was seeing on a regular basis, were only known to me at the zoo or in books and movies. I was filled with poignant moments on a daily basis. The first time I woke up to horses grazing in front of my home, I rushed for my camera. Little did I know these moments would continue and get better with each passing day. The unexpected was always there, and when I least expected it!

I have a really special place in my heart for hummingbirds. My daughter and I would wait every summer , when we would visit our vacation home in Tennessee, for the first hummingbird to show at our feeder. Naturally I had to have a feeder for my house here in Colombia. I did not wait long for them to show up, Colombia is full of hummingbirds, and many species of birds. This country has the highest species of birds in the world. I sit and watch them on a daily basis, fascinated with their ability to move backward in flight, and to play with each other, just as other animals do in nature. One day I arrived home from errands to find one in my house, calmly perched on the screen of my window. I will always look to this moment as a sign from my deceased daughter saying "Hi Mom, I am still around you in spirit!". I cried with joy, letting the little creature stay on my screen for awhile..then gently guiding it out the door.

Wild bunnies

Small parrots, a variety of colors fly by and land on trees as I walk. I stop and watch still, they are so full of life and fun! Colombian Amazon parrots are in people's homes and in nature. I see them in the sky , from my hammock while reading a book. Their sounds filling the air with what I think would be them laughing! I smile anytime I hear them. Geese, ducks, chickens and roosters are on all farms walking around freely and bringing a bounty of eggs to their owners. They have wonderful sounds also, once you get used to it. I no longer notice the roosters next door calling early in the morning. I have learned to embrace the sounds. The cow that lives across the street regularly greets me when I take my dogs out in the morning. I would never have thought last year at this time, this kind of beauty would become second nature to me now.

On my various travels I run across different species of wildlife regularly, taking a moment to be still just long enough for me to catch a photo. One blog can not capture my thoughts on living in nature, my daily experiences. You will hear more from me on nature in Colombia and how it interacts with man. I leave with this thought, all of nature enjoys their life, and I look to it for my inspiration and focus.

The Decision: Bring it On 2012, I am riding into the New Year!

2012-01-01T09:25:00.000-05:00

The Decision: Bring it On 2012, I am riding into the New Year!: This gal is happy to start the New Year! I leave 2011 with great memories, a hope to continue on a path towards peace and fulfillment, a f...

Bring it On 2012, I am riding into the New Year!

2011-12-31T17:16:00.000-05:00

This gal is happy to start the New Year! I leave 2011 with great memories, a hope to continue on a path towards peace and fulfillment, a future that holds new adventures and fun. I have realized a lot of my dreams this year, I have gained knowledge, and am on my way to independence from my past. A past that has troubled me with regrets. Life plays out for all of us in a way that is at times really wonderful and at times so horrible we wonder "why me"?. I think the most important lesson for me in 2011 was to realize this and to move forward with an attitude that says "why not me"?

Some of my most memorable moments were simple, unassuming moments. An eagle on a post as I rode on a motorcycle, watching my dogs run free without a leash while I fast walk, having the people of Colombia speak with me in Spanish, all the while realizing I could understand them and answer back! Those types of moments are what I have learned to live for and enjoy. Finding myself was my "ahah moment" as Oprah would say. A me that is forgiving of myself first, others who have hurt me, all the while acknowledging the past that is part of me , the good and the bad.

Colombian traffic jam!

I have learned to accept things that I found to be disturbing because I am American. Watching a motorcycle ride by me with a child on board without a helmet, actually seeing babies asleep across their mother's knees while the father is driving. I know, it is hard to picture and fathom, but it is part of society here. I now only look twice when I see something really different. I see moto's with two men carrying a pig that is skinned across their back without a blink of my eye. I see horses pulling a carriage full to the brim with supplies on the main highway, along with cars, bicycles, motorcycles, mass transit, and even an occasional wheelchair. Everybody fighting for their space. I see cows being herded to a new field to graze on roads traveled by all, and the people wait patiently to get by. There really is no angry honking of horns here in Colombia. Just patient people who live a calm life.One of my most treasured memories is "Horsey" whom visited me on several occasions. He first started grazing in front of my home, gradually entered my patio and then my house. I miss Horsey because he stopped coming to visit a couple months back. This is not unusual as the Colombian people are about making money and selling! If you look interested in anything, they offer to sell it to you.The Colombians have firsthand knowledge of "getting ahead" and saving their money for what they want. I have learned to appreciate the small things here, as the small things add up to big things and happiness.

I leave this year with happiness, gratitude, thankfulness. I have left my past behind, but still embrace it. I find memories when I least expect them among st my many boxes still left unpacked. I am ready to ride into the future on a motorcycle, one of many accomplishments yet to be learned. Looking forward to sharing my thoughts in the New Year. Bring it on 2012!

Playing tourist in Palmira valle del Cauca

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I arrived in Colombia thinking that I would be living on a farm that I had made an offer on before
I moved. A mudslide and rains were a gift that showed me I had made an impractical decision. I
had not signed any papers and the deal was called off. So now a place to live was necessary and
family here had connections to a new house that had been built and was available in the small country town of St Elena. I got settled quickly, and was curious to start seeing all the sights near my area of
residence.

The first place I visited was the famous Hacienda El Paraíso, a house museum, it is the icon of this Colombian region and is known worldwide as the stage for the epitome of Latin American romantic novel: María, by Jorge Isaacs. This novel is what brought many Japanese people to the area, and is

widely acclaimed for the beauty described in the book of this region of Colombia. Palmira and surrounding towns are known as the main agricultural developers for sugarcane, coffee, corn, rice and more. Sugarcane being the most abundant crop in my living region. As you can see from the photos this museum is beautiful with rooms depicted exactly the way it was. The grounds of the Hacienda El Paraiso are spectacular as well and many photo opportunities are to be enjoyed. Another beautiful spot nearby is the El Cerrito: A Museum for Sugar Cane which represents sugar cane and its derivatives in this municipality. There are gardens full of plants, instruments used for the cultivation of sugar cane, and historical information about the industry. A beautiful spot and a must see for visitors.

About an hour or so away is the town of Lago Calima known for its impressive lake, and the Museo Arqueologico Calima Darien. The objects displayed and their uniqueness has become a vital site for study

about the cultures that created them. This area has been a focus for unlawful stealing by "treasure hunters". The climate is crisp in this town , and a jacket is needed for warmth. I have been visiting all on a motorcycle, and was very happy I had warm clothes. As you ride up the mountain road to see the beautiful views surrounding the lake, the wind kicks up and the weather becomes quite cool. On my way back I had to stop to see the town of Buga, and have lunch. This town is known for Basilica del Senor de los Milagros, the church which houses an image of Christ called El Senor de los Milagros ( The Lord of the Miracles). It is well worth the stop, and I bought a huge wooden rosary to be blessed and displayed in my home.

If you choose to go further ( about 3 hours away by motorcycle) you can visit Armenia, another city in Colombia. Armenia is cool also , and warm clothes are a necessity! This beautiful country town is known
primarily for the crops of coffee, plantains, and bananas. The main tourist attraction is Colombian National Coffee Park, it is kind of like a small theme park those from the USA are used to visiting. This park has all kinds of attractions for all ages. The bed and breakfast type hotels nearby make for a wonderful time, and

I stayed an extra day because of the little hotel I stayed in! The picture above shows my hotel and all around was nature in abundance. I woke up to wild rabbits outside, visited the ducklings and parrots on the property, and watched from my hammock all kinds of birds that would fly by! I saw eagles, parrots and hawks, not mention the smaller variety of birds. Colombia is known for having the most species of birds in the world! I felt like I got to see many on my visit to Armenia!

Palmira valle del cauca is about an hour away from the mountains of Cali, again by motorcycle, and the beautiful waterfalls Chorrera del Indio waterfall is a must see if you visit Cali and the surrounding areas! As you travel up the road to view this waterfall, you will see the local people out enjoying themselves in the rio along the way. Vendors are selling mango and other local fruits, while music plays all around. It is quite festive! This was a day trip, and well worth it. On the drive back through Cali, the Three Crosses are visible
and beautiful.

I played tourist on weekends just driving around on the motorcycle and looking at the magnificent views from the mountains that surround Palmira. I am totally captivated by Colombia and all it has to offer. I still need to expand my trips and go further to the coasts and other large towns. Bogota is beautiful, as I had mentioned in an earlier blog. I will continue exploring my new country as I learn Spanish and enjoy the beauty that available to me , just a short walk outside my door. This final photo is the end of my street here in my small town.

The Decision: Staying healthy in South America is easy!

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The Decision: Staying healthy in South America is easy!: Let's talk health insurance, and how reasonable it is here in Colombia. Let's also talk about not having health insurance in Colombia vs t...

Staying healthy in South America is easy!

2011-12-23T12:53:00.000-05:00

Let's talk health insurance, and how reasonable it is here in Colombia. Let's also talk about not having health insurance in Colombia vs the USA.

I left the USA without health insurance because I could not afford it after my divorce. My premium was 700
dollars and that did not include the co-pays or prescriptions. In my mind, way to much! I took this expense into account when making my decision to move to South America. Hey, a girl has to live and have some spending money! That was not possible for me in the United States. I had health insurance through my ex husband's employer and that was gone the minute I
signed on the dotted line. What to do? I needed insurance because of a persistent and painful back problem, I also need my regular check ups, for all the well care that keeps us healthy. I read up on the healthcare system in Colombia before I moved, and it is highlighted as a great reason to live here. I left the USA with all my check ups and dental cleanings done, but I still had a back problem and would need my
regular check ups within a few months of living there.

I arrived in Colombia and focused on getting settled with my menagerie of animals, and thought I would
tackle the healthcare in a couple months. I was healthy, with only my persistent back pain. In Colombia if
you get an infection, all that is needed is a local pharmacy for small sicknesses which we all can diagnose
ourselves. YES, I KNOW when I have a respiratory infection, a bladder infection, a common cold! Pharmacists are as educated as doctor's here and ask your symptom's and give you medicine. Simple! The cost of a prescription here is negligible,only about 2$ to 5$ per prescription US. I , however, did not take in
account that my back would really flare up due to all the moving. I had to see a specialist, but visit a doctor in the emergency clinic first to be referred. Sound familiar? It is, but the one thing missing is it was fast, and
cheap. The emergency visit and the specialist came out to less than 100$ and that was with an injection included!

My next encounter with a healthcare provider was a teeth cleaning. A dental facility was nearby and the
price was 10$ US. The offices are all white , clean and have sparse decor. The rooms where the exam
or in this case dental cleaning take place , very simple with the equipment, and the doctor. I have had my
teeth cleaned so many times, I knew he did a good job and I am about to get my next 6 month cleaning
at the same place. In the USA you call and get a switchboard for appointments. In Colombia, most of
the time you just drive to the office and see if they can take you. If they can not take you they give you an appointment for the next day. Simple and efficient , not expensive, and this is without insurance.
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I was able to get a policy after living here for a few months by getting my Colombian ID card. This card is
necessary for all aspects of life, it must be shown for a bank account, at the doctor's, for buying a car or motorcycle, it is your identification in Colombia as a member of the country. I got mine after I received my
Visa. All Colombians have country run insurance that they have to buy for hospitalization, doctor visits, and all health needs. It is basic and not expensive. It costs around 15$ per month per person US$ (the money

is pesos here) and all of the country is covered for their health needs. Once I got this simple policy , I upgraded to the VIP policy that gives me private hospitalization if needed, a book of specialists in my area, and many other perks. I have a co pay of around 12$ US if I use a specialist. I start that plan in January 2012, and for a 6 month premium for one person is around 260$ plus the other insurance of 15$ per month.
Affordable insurance with doctors just as educated and professional as the doctors of the United States. I could not be more pleased with these options, and I do not have to break my budget or lifestyle!!!!

Another way to go is the small town doctor. I found this out in the last two weeks. I had some pain in my abdomen due to a small infection. My manicurist told me to go to the little clinic in my town. I did not know
we even had one! If you get there first thing in the morning with a copy of your ID, you are seen without
insurance for 5$ US, I kid you not! My visit involved a pap smear for 5$ US too. Here in Colombia if
you get a test like that, you buy your own kit at the pharmacy and give to the doctor or nurse who see's you. The kit is also really inexpensive. I also had an injection , which you buy at the pharmacy with the syringe, and the doctor or nurse injects you. So you see, you are the middleman, and the costs are kept low. I had blood work drawn, and that was done in my town by a nurse who has a business in her home.
She had the results that same afternoon. The blood work was a complete work up and was around 10$ US and then I had to see the doctor again with results. She sent my to the city to get a sonogram, which was the most expensive at 40$ US. I have had this sonogram in the United States before and it was NOT inexpensive but ridiculously expensive! My care was wonderful, and the same as the United States, and
once again the professionals here are not to be questioned. I was told I was AOK before she finished, as
like most of the Doctors here she spoke some english.

I will start my well care in the New Year with health insurance, peace of mind, and no worries. What more could a girl ask for? I can live well , free of worry from health issues that might come up in the future. I have thought since I have lived here, this is a simple uncomplicated system, that appears to work well with other entities. People in the USA would find it the same but different. I embrace the difference because I am well taken care of!

Christmas reflections, and how I learned to embrace my spirituality by living here

2011-12-22T06:40:00.000-05:00

Christmas had lost a lot of it's meaning to me in the last years. I hate to admit that, because I always loved the decorating, the Christmas tree, and all the good cheer. I lost the meaning of the season because my life was disintegrating around me. When I would see all my neighbor's in the USA putting up decorations after Thanksgiving, I would think "oh no, I have to start decorating, it is so much work" instead of, "I can't wait to
see my house in all it's Christmas glory"! I had secretly felt this way for a very long time. How could I have felt like Christmas was an obligation I had to fulfill? I know, terrible right? I did not even get a decoration out last year, I could not bear it, this would be the first Christmas since my daughter's death. I was relieved to have a reason not to decorate, because I was leaving on my trip to Colombia! No one I knew would question my motives, as I was going to be out of town. Truth be known, I could not think about looking at my many Christmas items, with all the memories attached to them. I had lost my spirituality, my traditions, all that the season meant.

Arriving in Colombia on Christmas day had such an impact on me. My inner self exploded with excitement the minute I arrived in Colombia and took a taxi through Bogota on the way to the place I was staying. All around were lights, festive music played loudly emanating through the streets. Lots of people out, even though it was late. I was swept off my feet in less than 20 minutes. Colombia had brought back Christmas to
me! I went to sleep Christmas night reliving the ride from the airport and the sights I had seen of beautiful holiday cheer and wonderful sounds. I felt alive for the first time in years. I fell asleep knowing that the next day would bring more of the same.

Waking to a beautiful day, off we went to a church on a mountain in Bogota. We had to take a cable car up to the Church of Monseratte built high on a mountain that overlooks Bogota. What an experience! The church is white and not really fancy on the outside. The inside is special, with ornate religious rooms built off to the sides of the main church, and Jesus is black, one of only a few in the world. I was overwhelmed, and had to go outside and sit for awhile, tears flowed freely. I felt spiritually and emotionally drained after this excursion. The true meaning of Christmas had flowed right into my body that day in that church. This was the beginning of a wonderful vacation, influencing me enough to get my strength and vitality back, to go home and start my plan to move to this wonderful country!

Now a year later, I am living in Colombia during this festive and religious time of year. I have simple decorations put out, which I relish. My home is simple, my past decorations (the few I brought over) still
packed in a box. I bought inexpensive lights, bulbs for my tree, and holiday ribbon to adorn my home. It is
what I wanted for this year. I know that looking at past memories will bring heartache, thoughts that might take away from my new beginning here in Colombia.

Colombian traditions are different and more religious than those of the United States. Christmas is the season of the Church, primarily Catholic in this country. I was raised Catholic so I can relate to everything. Nativity's adorn business showrooms, homes, restaurants, front lawns, every home. They are built in large or small and hold the same theme of a village, with Jesus, Mary, and Joseph the center of the theme. They are delightful! I love seeing a new nativity, and the differences in all. I love how the season starts in November and does not end until sometime in January. I remember hounding my ex husband to take the lights down the day after January 1st, and how I disliked the work involved in packing up everything. I see it differently here, I relish enjoying every second of the festivals, Christmas Day, New Years Day, and the fiesta's that will continue on in the celebration of the three Kings.

All I have accomplished in this year can be summed up with the Blessings of the season of Christmas. This is a spiritual awakening for me, a fresh beginning. My heart is filled with the joy of the season, my love of life once again. The only thing I have desired for so long has been attained, inside I am free of pain, the sadness is there, but the peace is also there. I wish all of you who take the time to read this, a loving holiday no matter what your views, religion, or feelings. It is a time for reflection for us all, one that had lost meaning for me. My true present is to have found Colombia, and healing .

The Decision

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When I first told my friends and family I was moving to Colombia , South America astonishment was the look I got, the question that came next was expected. "Isn't it dangerous there?" No, it is no more dangerous than any big city in the United States.One year ago Christmas day 2010, I visited Colombia for the first time and fell in love with the beauty, the people, and the lifestyle. I had always wanted to retire to a farm in my long held dreams, but the state of the economy and my personal life made that dream seem unattainable. I held my dream close to my heart, during a divorce that( seemed) would never end, and the tragic death of my daughter in the middle of this horrific divorce. I would get up everyday and look around wondering where I would be in a year, would I be able to afford a home, and keep my five animals with me. Really, I could barely think of much else. I guess that is why I endured, I did not want a whole lot at this point, except peace and to be able to grieve my daughter without some nasty ploy by the opposing counsel being thrown at me. When I actually was divorced, and saw my settlement, I knew that a condo in a neighborhood that was full of high rises, one in an undesirable location, was all that I could afford in the United States. I new I would struggle with bills. I still did not think much about my future, because I was still in my marital home trying to sell it, and my life consisted of one day at a time.

Enter a good friend who lived near me, gave me a lot of support,loved animals (especially mine) as much as I, and is a dual citizen of the USA and Colombia. "Hey lets visit my family at Christmas , it is such a beautiful time of year there"! I jumped on that idea, as Christmas was not going to be a great time for me, considering the death of my daughter, my divorce, the uncertain future. As a retired flight attendant, I am no stranger to travel, so the trip was planned. We arrived in Bogota on Christmas day 2010, and stayed longer than scheduled, my future looked brighter. I now saw what I wanted, but was unsure of how to do it. Another trip was planned for February as we talked and discussed options of actually moving to Colombia. The second visit, cemented my dream to reality. I now had a vision, a goal! I also had to figure out how to pack up a huge house, ship my animals, and start my life in another country. Somewhat difficult, but not unrealistic.

I researched becoming an ex patriot on the internet, printed out all I "thought" I needed to know and went for it! I actually did quite well, as I arrived with all my belongings on April 12th 2011. My animals and I are living a wonderful adventure, complete with great climate and beautiful surroundings. I will be sharing on my blog what I have learned along the way, and what you can do to follow your dream of living a lifestyle that is no longer available in the United States. A decision I will never regret, one that has given me peace after years of turmoil and pain. We all have dreams, but often think they are not realistic. I hope by following my blog, and personal journey, you will see that you can also make your dream come true through perseverance, hard work and determination.