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	<title type="text">The DHX: The Doughtie Houses Exchange</title>
	<subtitle type="text">A mom and a stepmom share stories, ideas, friendship and family</subtitle>

	<updated>2008-12-02T23:31:27Z</updated>
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			<name>Jill</name>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Links for Tuesday, December 2]]></title>
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		<updated>2008-12-02T23:31:27Z</updated>
		<published>2008-12-02T23:31:27Z</published>
		<category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="Links" />		<summary type="html">
CoolMom: Second-Hand Husbands
Becoming a Stepmom: Smackdown for Stepmoms: Visualize Your Ideal Stepfamily

</summary>
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&lt;li&gt;CoolMom: &lt;a href="http://coolmom.com/2008/12/02/second-hand-husbands/"&gt;Second-Hand Husbands&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Becoming a Stepmom: &lt;a href="http://becomingastepmom.wordpress.com/2008/12/02/smackdown-for-stepmoms-visualize-your-ideal-stepfamily/"&gt;Smackdown for Stepmoms: Visualize Your Ideal Stepfamily&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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			<name>Jill</name>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Links for Tuesday, October 7]]></title>
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		<id>http://www.thedhx.com/?p=310</id>
		<updated>2008-10-07T15:02:07Z</updated>
		<published>2008-10-07T15:00:33Z</published>
		<category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="Links" /><category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="forgiveness" /><category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="lovingkindness" /><category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="meditation" />		<summary type="html">
StevePavilina.com: Soulful Relationships - &amp;#8220;&amp;#8230;the best we can do with our lives is to achieve the point of optimal balance whereby serving our own needs and serving the whole body are congruent&amp;#8230; Interdependence is a higher level of consciousness than independence.  Fear serves the latter; fearlessness, the former.&amp;#8221;  (more) 
Oprah.com: Meditations for Interacting with Others &amp;#8211; Guided meditations [...]</summary>
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/10/soulful-relationships/"&gt;StevePavilina.com: Soulful Relationships&lt;/a&gt; -&lt;em&gt; &amp;#8220;&amp;#8230;the best we can do with our lives is to achieve the point of optimal balance whereby serving our own needs and serving the whole body are congruent&amp;#8230; Interdependence is a higher level of consciousness than independence.  Fear serves the latter; fearlessness, the former.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;  (&lt;a href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/10/soulful-relationships/"&gt;more&lt;/a&gt;) &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.oprah.com/article/spirit/inspiration/20080731_orig_soundstrue_others"&gt;Oprah.com: Meditations for Interacting with Others&lt;/a&gt; &amp;#8211; Guided meditations on forgiveness and lovingkindness by Jack Kornfield. (&lt;a href="http://www.oprah.com/article/spirit/inspiration/20080731_orig_soundstrue_others"&gt;link&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
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		<entry>
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			<name>Jill</name>
						<uri>http://thedhx.com</uri>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Hafiz: &#8220;Look what happens with a Love like that, It lights the whole sky.&#8221;]]></title>
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		<id>http://www.thedhx.com/?p=675</id>
		<updated>2008-10-07T15:03:08Z</updated>
		<published>2008-10-07T04:19:59Z</published>
		<category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="Quotes" />		<summary type="html">Even after all these years,
the Sun never says
to the Earth
&amp;#8220;You owe Me.&amp;#8221;
Look what happens
with a Love
like that,
It lights
the whole
sky.
&amp;#8211;Hafiz
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the Sun never says&lt;br /&gt;
to the Earth&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;#8220;You owe Me.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Look what happens&lt;br /&gt;
with a Love&lt;br /&gt;
like that,&lt;br /&gt;
It lights&lt;br /&gt;
the whole&lt;br /&gt;
sky.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#8211;&lt;a href="http://myinneredge.wordpress.com/2008/08/11/look-what-happens/"&gt;Hafiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
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			<name>Jill</name>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[&#8220;I am being carried on great winds&#8230;&#8221;]]></title>
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		<id>http://www.thedhx.com/?p=507</id>
		<updated>2008-10-07T04:12:41Z</updated>
		<published>2008-10-07T04:12:41Z</published>
		<category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="Quotes" />		<summary type="html">&amp;#8220;Sometimes I go about pitying myself,
and all the time
I am being carried on great winds across the sky.&amp;#8221; 
– Chippewa song
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		<content type="html" xml:base="http://www.thedhx.com/2008/10/06/i-am-being-carried-on-great-winds/">&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Sometimes I go about pitying myself,&lt;br /&gt;
and all the time&lt;br /&gt;
I am being carried on great winds across the sky.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;– Chippewa song&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
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			<name>Jill</name>
						<uri>http://thedhx.com</uri>
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		<title type="html"><![CDATA[Ram Dass: &#8220;Our actions and states of mind matter, because we are so deeply interconnected&#8230;&#8221;]]></title>
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		<id>http://www.thedhx.com/?p=672</id>
		<updated>2008-10-01T12:44:13Z</updated>
		<published>2008-10-01T12:44:13Z</published>
		<category scheme="http://www.thedhx.com" term="Quotes" />		<summary type="html">&amp;#8220;Remember, we are all affecting the world every moment, whether we mean to or not. Our actions and states of mind matter, because we are so deeply interconnected with one another. Working on our own consciousness is the most important thing that we are doing at any moment, and being love is a supreme creative [...]</summary>
		<content type="html" xml:base="http://www.thedhx.com/2008/10/01/ram-dass-our-actions-and-states-of-mind-matter-because-we-are-so-deeply-interconnected/">&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;#8220;Remember, we are all affecting the world every moment, whether we mean to or not. Our actions and states of mind matter, because we are so deeply interconnected with one another. Working on our own consciousness is the most important thing that we are doing at any moment, and being love is a supreme creative act.&amp;#8221;&lt;/em&gt; &amp;#8211;Ram Dass (by way of &lt;a href="http://home.ezezine.com/756_3/756_3-2008.09.30.19.30-html-now.jpd.rss.html#1"&gt;Rob Brezsny&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
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