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        <title>What is a Conversational Leader?</title>
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        <summary>Having trouble viewing this email? Click here ￼ What does it mean to be a Conversational Leader? Greetings! As we turn the corner in April and move forward into May, we would like to take a moment to thank you....</summary>
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invites others into the conversation seeks common understandinguses CPO and checks for understanding, closes the loopis non-judgmentalacknowledges and responds respectfully&amp;nbsp;&lt;br/&gt;
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employs cognitive creative tension acknowledges and asks asks a lot of questions relationally superior earns trust and creates safe space is able to honestly define their current state is able to recognize emotional tension and create dialogue acknowledges different learning styles uses the conversational guidelines is intentional about practicing the disciplines gets everyone&amp;#39;s voice into the meeting uses provocations to surface thinking of others leverages every agenda item, including only the critical few journals frequently uses clear, concise, quick stories to illustrate a point slows down the conversation recognizes we learn more from conflict than agreement understands it is dangerous to want something for someone else understands that knowledge lies within everyone not just them is supportive and knows the people they lead is authentic and transparent, inviting vs demanding holds concise focused meetings listens and doesn&amp;#39;t correct people&amp;#39;s thinking, just facts embraces vulnerability&lt;br/&gt;
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        <title>News from Jorgensen Leadership Center</title>
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        <summary>Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Jorgensen Leadership Center March 2012 Greetings! We have turned the corner into March as we continue our journey through 2012. The JLC Team hopes this finds you and your family well, rested and...</summary>
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We have turned the corner into March as we continue our journey through 2012. The JLC Team hopes this finds you and your family well, rested and peaceful. Our intention is to continue to support our clients in learning with informative articles, links and resources that will enable the to continue to develop three edges of leadership: Conversational Leadership, Aspirational Leadership and Systems Thinking. We invite you to share this with others as well as to send us interesting resources you have found helpful in continuing to build your capacity as a leader.&lt;br/&gt;
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Have you ever been in a meeting or conversation when the intended outcome is unclear? When some of the participants were brainstorming while others were determining what actions needed to take place. One of the greatest challenges leaders encounter is being intentional with every conversation, whether it is with one person or with many. Ask yourself, what is it I am trying to achieve with this conversation? What phase am I in? Dialogue, discussion or decision making? &amp;nbsp;&lt;br/&gt;
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understanding about which phase of the conversation you are in with a clear intended outcome, meeting participants might walk out of the meeting without feeling like anything was accomplished. All to often people try to do all three symultaneously will unsuccessful results. Discussion and decision making are more familiar than than dialogue, therefore let&amp;#39;s take a deeper look into that phase of the conversation.&lt;br/&gt;
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Dialogue &amp;quot;comes from the Greek word dialogos. Logos means &amp;#39;the word&amp;#39; or in our case we would think of the &amp;#39;meaning of the word&amp;#39; and dia means &amp;#39;through&amp;#39;. Dialogue suggests a &amp;quot;stream of meaning&amp;quot; flowing among, through and between us. This makes it possible to create a flow of meaning from the group so that new ideas or understandings will emerge. &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br/&gt;
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Suspend certainty. Be open to the thinking of others. This process doesn&amp;#39;t include coming to a conclusion or convincing someone you are right. Regard one another as colleagues. Dialogue can only take place when we suspend our notions of authority and hierarchy. This will open up a safe space for all to feel comfortable and participate. Facilitate the conversation and hold the context of the dialogue. A focused facilitator can remind participants to refrain from discussions and keep the conversations in the dialogic space.&lt;br/&gt;
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        <title>Zapped: Unraveling the Mystery of What Ails You.</title>
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        <published>2010-10-24T16:52:05-04:00</published>
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        <summary>(Image credit from Etsy's Vinyl Soul and Harper Collins Publishers) When Harper Collins Publishers sent me ZAPPED by Ann Louise Gittleman, I was annoyed with myself for agreeing to read and review it. I was even more annoyed that I'd...</summary>
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<p>(<a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/59771146/apple-crossbones-vinyl-decal-for-iphone?ref=sr_list_33&amp;ga_search_query=vinyls+mac+decals&amp;ga_search_type=handmade&amp;ga_page=2&amp;order=&amp;includes%5B0%5D=tags&amp;includes%5B1%5D=title" target="_self" title="Vinyl Soul">Image credit from Etsy's Vinyl Soul</a> and Harper Collins Publishers)</p>
<p>When <a href="http://www.harpercollins.com/searcheng/2pagesearchx.aspx?mode=search&amp;search=zapped" target="_self">Harper Collins Publishers</a> sent me <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Zapped-Shouldnt-Outsmart-Electronic-Pollution/dp/0061864277" target="_self" title="Zapped Amazon Link"><strong>ZAPPED</strong></a> </em>by <a href="http://www.annlouise.com/" target="_self"><em>Ann Louise Gittleman</em></a>, I was annoyed with myself for agreeing to read and review it. </p>
<p><a href="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f5503646970b-pi" style="float: left;"><img alt="Zapped" height="355" src="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f5503646970b-320wi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="Zapped" width="237" /></a> I was even more annoyed that I'd put off doing it,  have a nasty cold  and hardly felt like writing a book report.  It's very title threatened  my lifestyle and I braced myself in opposition as I interpreted it's  glowing orange cover and it's byline as a warning to clutch my digital  and electronic treasures close while she tried to tell me why they are  inherently bad for me.</p>
<p>It's simple: I WANT my <em><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Money_for_Nothing_%28song%29" target="_self">MTV</a>,  TV, cell phone, Mac, digital camera, ipod touch, wireless phone,  microwave oven, Wii, TiVo, remote control for TV &amp; said TiVo, iPod  docking station, air purifier, invisible-fence collar for my dog,  wireless mouse, dishwasher, blender, stove, refrigerator, Keurig one cup  coffee machine</em>...... and I really don't want anyone telling me  that I should not have them. (Not to mention I felt a bit like like my  fathers generation wanting to "Pshaw" the hogwash fruitcake rantings of  yet another evangelist proclaiming electronic pollution <strong><em>"NONSENSE!"</em></strong> he would have cried!)</p>
<p>By page eight, I was truly spellbound and fascinated by what i was reading:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">1) <a href="http://www.annlouise.com/" target="_self">Ann Louise Gittleman </a>is no fruitcake, but in fact a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ann_Louise_Gittleman" target="_self">highly educated, thoughtful and introspective woman </a>   who's credentials include a PhD, CNS, and is an award-winning New York  Times bestselling author of over 30 books on natural health, beauty,  internal cleansing, and weight loss.  Most impressive right off the bat  is her innate way of immediately connecting to the reader (me) by  letting me know we're both on the same team.  She immediately  establishes her position as an avid user of technology and electronics,  while simultaneously introducing the hazards of it's usage and the  inconvenient truths that if brought to light, may help many of us to  feel better physically, mentally, and emotionally. The good news is that  once you know what you did not, you can fix it!</p>
<p>The opening pages set the tone of the book by first and foremost  establishing human beings as "energetic" beings whose own complex  circuitry is specifically designed and <em>"wired to respond to the world around us."</em>   One of several example she uses is what happens when we "touch" an  antennae when we can't get a picture on TV or a radio station only to  have it come in clearly until we step away, our body having momentarily  been the conduit for the flow of energy.</p>
<p>This past winter I learned my own invaluable lesson about my  "energetic" body having gone through the emotional transition of closing  a business, and heading down the path of divorce.I was depleted of  energy, and my inner balance was completely disrupted by my emotional  state. What manifested was various types of illness including autoimmune  issues, deep depression, nutrient depletion and even physiological  changes to my body.  My way back to health after trying almost  everything was to finally seek <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acupuncture" target="_self" title="Define Acupuncture">acupuncture</a> which brought me back to health.  Anne sites acupuncture as just one  scientific example of how energy can get stuck or stagnated inside the  body creating blockages and "dis-ease" which can lead to almost any  health issue or ailment. Once manipulated or "cleared" this energy can  then flow freely bringing the body back to a state of homeostasis and  balance, thereby reestablishing wellness in the body.</p>
<p>As human beings we can be in or out of sync with our internal balance  by what happens in either our inner or exterior worlds, and our very  biochemistry shifts to accommodates those influencers.  When our  energetic being is disrupted or compromised it can literally effect  every aspect of our lives including decision making, emotions, and  health.</p>
<p>So if we are energetic beings made up of our own frequencies and our  own intricate and delicate wiring?  What happens when these frequencies  are repeatedly interrupted by other sources of energy?  What happens  when several devices in several rooms of our homes interrupt our bio  chemistry repeatedly over days, months, and years?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">2) The  fact is that many of us have adopted technology and all it's modern  conveniences without much thought about how it might be effecting our  health over the long term.  We are wired for instant gratification, and  the conveniences and benefits of modern technology are are countless and  undeniable but nor are the many "complaints" of the masses who now  suffer from headaches, fibromyalgia, anxiety, insomnia, chronic fatigue,  depression, cancer, attention deficit disorder, and the list goes on,  and on, and on.</p>
<p>What if we can feel better? healthier, more energetic, sleep well?</p>
<p>Louise creates a very compelling argument for the eradication of  these maladies by giving excellent examples of individuals who have  determined the source of their ailments, and gone on to  lesson or  eliminate their exposure to certain environments or devices which were  in fact making them sick, and in doing so have embraced a new bill of  health.  Some solutions are as simple as changing the location of your  cell phone at night. </p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">3)  Louise has a healthy and growing body of experts who are in agreement  with her findings, and compliment her work.  The beauty of  <em><strong>ZAPPED </strong></em>is  not that she is presenting new material that's been previously  undiscovered (although there is plenty of that) but instead in how she  fluidly, factually, and categorically lays out the material for her  reader in such a way that they can easily connect the dots to expose the  whodunit of the modern day digital thugs, killers, muggers and  terrorists.</p>
<p>In short- <strong><em>Zapped</em></strong> is fascinating, filled with some amazing information, tips, recipes and suggestions for<em> Zap-proofing</em> your life.</p>
<p>Historical, factual, interesting, and informative, <em><strong>Zapped</strong></em> is a great read for anyone who is interested in technology, ecology,  health, nutrition, wellness, the digital movement, homemaking, and  parenting.</p>
<p>It reads like a wonderful expose on a culprit who may have been an  obvious suspect all along , but got away with the crime until someone  came along with the right mix of skills to lay it all out. What better  way to spend my morning with my box of kleenex than on a couch curled up  with a good mystery?  <em>Elementary My Dear Watson!</em></p></div>
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        <title>Go Stuff Yourself.</title>
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        <published>2010-10-22T05:10:01-04:00</published>
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        <summary>I've seen some stupid products before but I'm pretty sure this is right up there at the top of the list. via earthsavers.typepad.com</summary>
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        <title>ZAPPED:  COMING SOON</title>
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        <published>2010-10-15T09:06:02-04:00</published>
        <updated>2010-10-15T09:06:02-04:00</updated>
        <summary>I'm looking forward to an early review of New York Times Bestselling Author Ann Louise Gittleman's: ZAPPED Why Your Cell Phone Shouldn't Be Your Alarm Clock and 1,268 Ways to Outsmart the Hazards of Electronic Pollution. My official review will...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>I'm looking forward to an early review of New York Times Bestselling Author Ann Louise Gittleman's: <b>ZAPPED</b> <i>Why Your Cell Phone Shouldn't Be Your Alarm Clock and 1,268 Ways to Outsmart the Hazards of Electronic Pollution</i>.<br /><br />My official review will publish on October 25th so stay tuned! <br /><br /><img style="max-width: 800px;" src="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f517090d970b-pi" /><br /><br /><br /><div class="zemanta-pixie"><img class="zemanta-pixie-img" alt="" src="http://img.zemanta.com/pixy.gif?x-id=ed092d58-920c-8029-b45d-4c1e83dbef5d" /></div></p></div>
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        <title>There's no place like OM.</title>
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        <published>2010-10-06T14:44:50-04:00</published>
        <updated>2010-10-06T15:28:08-04:00</updated>
        <summary>Sure, you've heard of activism but what about craftivism? This sweet little collection of Om's created by designer Miquette Bishop was inspired to offer hope, healing, and help to anyone who may just need sweet relief in the form of...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><blockquote><br /></blockquote><blockquote><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, clean, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; "><p>
<a href="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f4e39d5b970b-pi" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Miq family" border="0" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f4e39d5b970b image-full " src="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f4e39d5b970b-800wi" title="Miq family" /></a> <br /> </p><p /><p><em><a href="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f4e30243970b-pi" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; display: inline; "><img alt="Panache OM" border="0" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f4e30243970b " src="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f88340133f4e30243970b-800wi" style="cursor: pointer !important; border-top-style: solid; border-right-style: solid; border-bottom-style: solid; border-left-style: solid; border-width: initial; border-color: initial; border-top-width: 1px; border-right-width: 1px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 1px; border-top-color: black; border-right-color: black; border-bottom-color: black; border-left-color: black; " title="Panache OM" /></a> <br /><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande'; "> </span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-family: 'Lucida Grande'; " /></span></em><em><span style="font-style: normal; "><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">Sure, you've heard of activism but what about </span></span><em><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Craftivism" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; "><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">craftivism?</span></span></a><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">  </span></span></em></span></em></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">This sweet little collection of Om's created by designer </span></span><a href="http://www.blogher.com/interview-1-earth-saver-miquette-bishop" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; "><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">Miquette Bishop </span></span></a><span style="font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; "> was inspired to offer hope, healing, and help to anyone who may just need sweet relief in the form of a small hat wearing being ( what IS under that hat?) </span></span><span style="line-height: 17px; font-size: 14px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">who just might be the only one who can offer some. </span></span></p><p><font size="4"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">Om's are hand crafted and each one has a unique and powerful story to tell.  Recently featured on</span><a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/OMsByMiquette" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">Etsy's spotlight</span></a><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; "> as a top pick for a reasonably priced anytime gift, I was also inspired to learn that Miquette decided to create her Om's as her own way of maintaining hope and promoting healing.  Her husband Peter Zuerner of </span><a href="http://www.zuernerdesign.com/studio.html" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">Zuerner Design</span></a><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; "> has struggled for years with Lyme disease and after a particularly difficult year of frustration and despair finally decided to create something that might offer hope and a smile to anyone, anywhere. </span></span></font></p><p><font size="4"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; "><a href="http://www.etsy.com/treasury/4ca748f563448eef5bc0afc7/discover-me-pounce-undiscovered-ii" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">Om's</span></a><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; "> range in price from $14.00- $24.00 and 10% of all profits go a myriad of needed causes.</span></span></font></p><p><font size="4"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">Collect them all and be notified as they are released by signing up on Om's </span><span style="font-size: 14px; "><a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/OM-by-Miquette/149083378462228" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; ">facebook</a></span><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; "> page and</span><span style="font-size: 14px; "><a href="http://twitter.com/ombymiquette" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; " /><a href="http://twitter.com/ombymiquette" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; ">twitter fee</a></span><span style="font-size: 14px; "><a style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; ">d </a></span><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; "> including the Celestial Om's, Healing Om's, Birthday Om's, Encouragement Om's, You Go Girl Om's and soon you'll be Oming them all!</span></span></font></p><p><font size="4"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; "><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Tahoma; ">and don't forget to bookmark the site at </span><span style="font-size: 14px; "><a href="http://www.ilovemyom.com" style="color: blue !important; text-decoration: underline !important; cursor: text !important; ">www.ilovemyom.com</a></span></span></font></p></span></blockquote></div>
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        <title>This is my favorite new greeting card</title>
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        <published>2010-10-04T15:39:00-04:00</published>
        <updated>2010-10-04T15:39:00-04:00</updated>
        <summary>I almost peed my pants when i saw this greeting card yesterday in a gift shop in Wickford RI. There is nothing more funny to me than irreverence. It's so perfect given my world lately. It's amazing - neither my...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><a href="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f8834013487f71a96970c-pi" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Divorce Greeting" border="0" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e553e4fe8f8834013487f71a96970c image-full " src="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f8834013487f71a96970c-800wi" title="Divorce Greeting" /></a> <br /> <p /><p style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14px;">I almost peed my pants when i saw this greeting card yesterday in a gift shop in Wickford RI.</p><p style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14px;">There is nothing more funny to me than irreverence. </p><p style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14px;">It's so perfect given my world lately. It's amazing - neither my husband or myself have asked our friends to take a side, and yet inevitably... they do.  I figured that IF there WERE a side to take it would CLEARLY be mine but it's not working out that way.  I can think of like eight people i would love to send this to.  There were tons of other options from <a href="http://www.thatsallgreetings.com/shop.php">That's All Greetings  </a>so if you just care to spend the next 20 minutes looking through all the options laughing till you cry - go nuts. Betcha anything you find one that works for you! </p></div>
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        <title>Creative Spin + Brand = Social Success</title>
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        <summary>The bad news about the "follow me" widget on Type pad is that when you first put it up...there are no followers. If you would like to make me feel less pathetic - I'd love for you to hit "follow...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>The bad news about the "follow me" widget on Type pad is that when you first put it up...there are no followers. If you would like to make me feel less pathetic - I'd love for you to hit "follow me" <a href="http://www.earthsavers.typepad.com/">http://www.earthsavers.typepad.com/</a></p></div>
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        <title>Letter to a Friend</title>
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        <summary>Dear XXXXXXX, I'm so sorry your feeling so mixed up, and sad and lost. I truly empathize. I have been physically separated from my husband for the last eighteen months, and before that...well, is anyone's guess. How can one be...</summary>
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<a href="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f8834013487d3408e970c-pi" style="display: inline;"><img alt="Hug" border="0" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00e553e4fe8f8834013487d3408e970c image-full " src="http://earthsavers.typepad.com/.a/6a00e553e4fe8f8834013487d3408e970c-800wi" title="Hug" /></a> <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Dear XXXXXXX, <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">I'm so sorry your feeling so mixed up, and sad and lost. I truly empathize. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">I have been physically separated from my husband for the last eighteen months, and before that...well, is anyone's guess.  How can one be "together" with someone else when they live "separately" inside themselves.  Maybe we were never together? <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Maybe it was him, maybe it was me, and maybe it was both.  Maybe it does not even matter. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Maybe what matters most is that I spent the last thirteen years of my life loving him, loving myself, and loving my children. I spent my time trying to fit into the picture I wanted for my own life, his life, and our collective life.  After ten years of trying inside a marriage my only conclusion is that it was not working- for either of us. does it mean our love failed?  I don't think so.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Do I love him any less now? No. I still love him with all my heart, and will continue to love him for my eternity because of all he taught me, all he gave me, all he is and is "becoming." <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">I can not "pin" faults on him or on myself ( although I've made that mistake) as I truly think we can only do the best we can as we are, with the information and wisdom we have at the time.  I CAN of course look back and find faults, as we both have them.  We are human. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">I believe we would do ourselves a huge dis-service to focus on the faults instead of focusing on what we learned, and on what's important now. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">What IS important now? I guess each person is his or her own judge of what's important now, and sometimes it's hard to quiet the voices of the well intended or not so well intended around us as they clamor their opinions, judgments, advice, and criticisms.  <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">It's hard to rise above the noise of "fall- out" of friendships, disappointed parents, or unexamined rumors from the community at large, and just listen to one's own heart. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">My heart tells me which direction to head... and some days the path seems dark and hollow and foreboding.  Other times i am sure i can see sunlight breaking through the clouds, and a clearing just around the bend.  I don't know for sure where my heart is leading me but I'm taking the bet that wherever it is- it's a journey worth taking. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Don't be afraid of self doubt, and of looking over your shoulder at the past- it's normal. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Just don't make the mistake of dragging your past into your future, because you'll find yourself moving in circles- around and around, and that's no fun either.  <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;"> Just listen deeply, and quietly and carefully- and I know you'll find your way. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">I'm positive of one thing: <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Each one of us is unique,  individual and unrepeatable.  Each one of us must face ourselves in the final hour of our time here and be able to "rest" at peace knowing that we strove toward our best selves and gave it our all.  <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">It's important that we allow each other the space to listen and learn at our own pace and to discover our own unique purpose.  If we can bring the gift of our discoveries to the surface and share with those around us, it's possible to spread light and love in our wake - and with courage- illuminate a path for those who are coming through behind us, just as those did who have walked the path before us. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;"><br />You are not alone. <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">All my love, <br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;">Monica <br /></span></p><p><br /><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;" /></p><p><br /><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;" /></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 14px; font-family: Lucida Grande;"><br /></span></p></div>
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