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Mystery

2020-03-19T05:34:00.002-07:00

har kisi ki koi khani hai...

har ko apni khani ka raja or rani hai....

hme nhi pta kisi ke sath kya hua hai..

agr koi aj aisa h to jroor uske peeche koi na koi khani jroor rhi hogi...

par wo khani kya hogi ye mere lilye or ho skta h apke liye bhi koi mystery ho..
ek aesi khani jo koi ni janta wo bs ek mystery hai.....
us khani ne kisi ka nazariya bdla hoga...

JINDAGI OR PLATFORM

2020-03-01T23:53:00.002-08:00

JINDAGI KA PLATFORM

jindagi mano ruk si gayi ho... aage bad hi nhi rhi, jane kiska intzaar h ise.

na mujhse kuch kehti h na kuch btati h, bas ruki si khadi h ek jgah par

jese kisi ke ane ka intzaar kr rhi ho.......par kiska btati hi nhi

jese jindagi jeevan ke us platform par khadi h jha abhi tak uski train ayi hi nhi...
bas khadi h apne stop par, train ati h, rukti h or chali jati hai.... par wo chadti hi nhi kisi train k dabbe me,
pta nhi kisse darti h, kyun darti h? ya abhi tak koi shi train ayi hi nhi jisme wo chdna chahti ho
kya pta bheed dekh kar dar jati ho , ya phir wo galt platform par khadi h, ho skta h jha khadi h us platform par uski train ayegi hi nhi.
par use apne platform tak phochne k liye abhi filhal kisi na kisi train me to chadna hi hoga,
agr shi smey par koi train nhi pakdi to us stop par bheed badti jayegi.
agr stop par crowd jyada ho gya to khi aisa na ho ki bheed use dhakka de kar kisi glt train me chdade.
(quki bhut der se khdi h logo ko bhi jana h...agr wo khud nhi chdi to log use chda denge, kuch aisa samjho ki khud se pta nhi kiya ki life me rna ka hai fir ya to ap logo ke kehne pr wo cjeej kroge ya apne parents ke)
glt train pkdna mtlb waps nhi aa skte fr us stop pr or jyada door nikal gye to kuch nhi kar paoge..
thats why I am telling you, jo bhi decision lena h jldi lena hoga, ese ek jgh jindagi ruk jaye to mano jeevan khtm.
agr jeena h to chlna hoga, move krte rehna hoga like heart beat, move hoti rehti h to jinda rakhti h or agr ruk jaye to.......

jindagi ko chlna hoga, aage badna hoga.....

The Trap

2020-02-06T23:31:00.006-08:00

kabhi kabhi hmari life me ek esa phase ata h, jab hme lgta h ki hmne bhut kuch kr liya or hasil kuch nhi kiya.....
hmare kuch dreams hote h unhe pura krne ka sapna dekhte h, koshish krte hai par ek point esa ata h jab lgta hai ki hum apne sapne tak phuchne hi wale h par, bar bar ghoom kar usi jgh par waps a jate hai jha se start kiya tha or again hme whi se start karna hota h, then this life look like a trap, aisa trap jisme hum fas chuke hai. hum isme se bahr kese nikle wo rasta dikhta hi nhi. jese hi us raste k kreeb ate hai ki bs ha ab niklne wale hai wese hi pta nhi wo rasta kha mud jata hai h or hme ghuma kr whi le jata hai ,fir lgta hai ki yar bas ab bhut ho gya jab bar bar whi ghoom kar ana h to q na jha h whi rhe or whi khushiya dhoondle, q bahr niklne ki koshihsh kre jab ana whi par hai,par fir lagta hai ki ek bar fir se last try krke dekh le may be is bar bahr nikl jaye,but again we came to starting position.
at that time of life we feel like disappointed, feel like a failure, useless, helpless, good for nothing and so on......
ap kitna motivated rakh skte ho khud ko, you know this is also a fact of life.
ye wo fact h life ke jise mostly log phase krte hai .you know dusro ka kehna ki stay motivated sab acche k liye hota h and so on...
ye sab acche k liye hota h but jab ap ese situation ko phase krte ho na to apke sare life k funde rakhe reh jate h, apko lgta h ki yar sab bakwas h akhir kon kab tak motivated reh skta h,
ho skta h apke liye esa ho pr kisi or k liiye nhi, it depends on sitiuation and your mindset . life me motivated rehna accha h positive sochna bhhi accha pr kabhi kabhi life hme ese mod par lake khda kr deti h jha se ye sab kuch dhundla sa lagta h, aisa lagta h jese ye bate srf kehne k liye or sunne me acchi lgti h, to isliye kha jata h, pr inka role nhi dikhayi deta jab life apka exam leti hai.
yeah! exam hi to h and its a tough exam, complicated and you can say that out of syllabus. ab is out of syllabus ke exam ko crack kiya jaye ya nhi????
par jha h wha bhi accha nhi lg rha quki aj tak apne dreams k liye jee rhe the ab jab whi nhi rhega to fir kya wjh hogi jeene ki.
is trap me se niklne ka koi to rasta jrooor hoga agr hum is trap me enter hue h to exit gate bhi jrrooor hoga
lets find out the exit gate together.......

A Struggling Girl

2019-07-17T07:46:00.003-07:00

A Struggling Girl

This story tells about a girl who struggles between her family and dreams. she doesn't know how to face them and how to struggle in this situation. But she never gives up. she tried and tried until she doesn't achieve her goal. To know how she struggled in her life lets read it below.

ek ladki jo apni jindagi me apne sapno or asal jindagi k beech jhoojh rhi thi.

use apne sapne to pure krne the, par kisi ko dukhi kar ke nhi. agr wo apne sapne pure krti to use apne family se ladna hota or esa krke wo apni family ko dukhi nhi karna chahti thi. uski family ko uske sapno se aitraaz isiliye tha quki unhe pta tha ki isme kafi risk h. wo nhi chahte the ki unki beti k sath kuch bura ho.

wo use mna krte the, use kehte the tu pdai kr or acchi si koi job kr le ek bar settle ho gyi life me to jo karna h wo bad me krte rehna.

pr us ldki ko kuch smjh nhi aa rha tha ki wo kya kre.......use pta tha ki wo jo krna chahti h usme risk h or agr use apne spno ko pura krna hi h to pehle use settle hona hoga, koi secure job krni hogi.

ab use ye to pta chl gya ki use krna kya ,uske parents kuch glt nhi bol rhe pr problem ye thi, ki wo kre kya. wo pdne bethti, pdadi krti, pr use kuch smjh hi nhi ata. uski family use daily kehti "kuch kr le kitna time nikl gya kab tak ese hi bethi rhegi, tere sath ki sari ladkiya kuch na kuch kr rhi h, bas ek tu hi h jo abhi tak ghr pr bethi hai". uske parents kafi preshan the kyunki wo apni ldki ko independent bnana chahte the. taki ake jake jab koi uske sath na ho wo khud apne liye kuch ar ske.

usse dekha nhi ja rha tha ki uski wjh se uski family dukhi h. par wo bhi kya krti wo kr to rhi thi mehnat pr kuch jyada fayda ho nhi rha tha. wo pdai to kr rhi thi pr pta nhi may be uske mind me ek bat beth gyi ki wo nhi kr payegi..

use writer bnna tha, wo daily search krti khi magzine me article uska publish ho jaye. usne kyi newspaper me bhi contact krne ki koshish ki but no respose. na to uske article koi magzine me publish ho rhe the or na hi uski job lgi thi or pdai use smjh nhi a rhi thi.

ese me wo ldki bhut preshan ho gyi, daily jb bhi pdne bethti to ro jati, andr se kafi udas rehne lgi pr bahr se hsti rehti.

uske pas koi nhi tha jisse wo apne dil ki bat share kr ske na koi dost or na hi koi family member, jise bta ske ki wo pdai kr rhi h pr smjhna mushkil h or jyada time uske pas h nhi. uske pehle hi 2 saal kisi exam ki prepration ki wjh se khrab ho chuke the.

wo ese me krti to kya use dheere dheere lgne lga "she is good for nothing"

usse dheere dheere sab kuch chhoot ta ja rha tha. uski paintings, uski writing, sketching sab kuch.

use ab sab se chid hone lgi thi, wo khi chle jana chahti thi, khi esi jgh jha koi bhi na ho, jha srf wo ho or bas charo trf shanti.

use dheere dheere apne hi ghr me ghutan hone lgi thi. wo bhagna chahti thi, chillana chahti thi, khul k bolna chahti thi, rona chahti thi, pr wo ye sab kr nhi pa rhi thi. bs andr hi andr ghut ti ja rhi thi. kyunki use lag rha tha ki wo kuch nhi kr pa rhi h, or uske parents uski wjh se preshan ho rhe h .

lad rhi thi khud se, jeetna chahti thi is situation se, wo pdai to krti pr pda hua sb bhool jati, ya kuch esa ho jata ki use smjh hi nhi ata. usne internet pr khoob search kiya pr filhal uske hath nirasha hi lgi.

pr abhi bhi wo lad rhi h, usne abhi tak har nhi mani, chahe wo kitna bhi roye, kitni hi takleef ho use, usne apne htiyar abhi tak nhi feke
abhi thodi si jaan baki h, abhi thodi si jindagi baki hai, thoda door or chlna baki h, chain ki sans lena baki hai......

ab dekhna ye h ki kya use pdai smjh ayegi? kya uski job lag payegi? wo apne sapno ko pura kr payegi? writer bn payegi?

ya fr wo halato se haar man legi, bhool jayegi apne sapno ko or uhi andar hi andr ghut ti rhegi.

dekhte h wo iska samna kese krti hain.

To be Continued.........

Believe in your self

2018-12-26T17:55:00.004-08:00

Self Believe

youtube video

2018-09-19T09:49:00.002-07:00

Quote

2018-08-31T00:52:00.000-07:00

Its Matter

It Doesn't Matter What world Thinks,

The Matter is What our own People Thinks.

It Doesn't Matter if you commit mistakes,

The Matter is Do Not Learn From Mistakes.

Quote

2018-08-30T02:06:00.000-07:00

फर्क पड़ता है

दुनिया क्या सोचती ह फर्क नहीं पड़ता,

अपने क्या सोचते है फर्क पड़ता हैं |

गलतिया करने से फर्क नहीं पड़ता,

गलतियो से न सीखने पर फर्क पड़ता हैं |

Childhood Memories

2018-04-16T09:06:00.002-07:00

Childhood Memories

Jab bacche bde ho jate hai tab hum unka bachpan yad krte hai, infact me bhi badi ho gyi hu or me bhi apna bachpan bhut miss krti hu ☹️.....

I Love my childhood days.

Pta nahi kab palak jhapakte bde ho gye..... esa lagta hai jese abhi to school jana start kiya tha..... mano jese kal ki hi bat ho, jab hum gali k sare bacche mikar khoob khelte the .....puri gali me hmara hi shor hua karta tha. Mera aj bhi man karta h fir se bat uthaye sare baccho ko bulaye or fir se gali cricket khele.....par aj abhi jab bhi time milta hai to gli k chote bachho k sath khel leti hu sacchi pucho to yar bhut mza ata hai.......fir se bachpan ko jee leti hu... tab schoool ka homework itna accha nhi lagta tha jitna aj miss krte hai us homework ko.....sabkuch bhut accha tha .....

Sachhi ,me dosto kya din the wo.....acche, pyare or suhane😊.

Kya ap bhi apna bachpan miss karte hai, agr krte hai to mujhe btaiye apki koi bachpan ki pyari si bat jise ap miss krte hai or wo yad ate hi apke chehre par smile le ati hai.

Agr btana nhi chahte to it's ok par yad jroor karna shayd itni tension bhari duniya me whi apke chehre par ek pyari si smile le aye ......or agr ap chahte hai ki whi smile hmare bhi chehre par aye or ap use hmare sath share karna chahte h to beshak hmare sath ap share kar sakte hai....

share karne k liye ap mujhe comment kijiye......

Always keep smiling mere dosto😊

A WOMEN IS NEVER OFF DUTY.

2018-02-25T04:10:00.000-08:00

💖A women💖

https://www.facebook.com/portraitistpriya/

A Women which is never off duty.

Jab hum school jate hai to wo bhi hmare uthne se phle uth ti hai or hmare liye lunch pack krti hai..

Jab hum school se ate hai to hmare liye lunch taiyaar rkhit hai, or rat ko dinner sabko khilane k bad khud khati hai, fir sabke sone k bad soti hai.

Ab aya Sunday ka din jab sbki chutti hoti hai, ham sab khte h are aj hi to baccho ki chutti hai inhe khelni kudne do.... matlb Sunday ki chutti sabke liye...or us women ka kya jo pure hafte kam krti h hmare liye....use to Sunday k din or double kam krna pdta hai. Holidays hmare liye hote hai, Summer vacation, winter vacation par unka kam to wesa ka wesa hi hota hai. unke liye to na hi koi summer vacation hota, na hi koi winter vacation or na hi koi Sunday.

Kya ek Sunday ki chutti par uska adhikar nhi.. kya use hak nhi ki wo bhi sunday ki chutti ka lutf uthaye. I think she deserve the Sunday holiday.

Iska na ek hi solution lgta h mujhe....ki Sunday k din hum sab unka hath btaye unhe thoda relax feel krwaye.. at least itna hak to bnta h yar unka. wo hmare liye itna sab kuch krti hai hum itna to kar hi skte hai yar.

Or agr isse better koi or solution apke pas hai to please comment box me comment krna na bhuliye..

The Fact Of Life

2017-11-13T01:47:00.002-08:00

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Find Your Inner Voice

2017-08-31T07:03:00.000-07:00

HELP

Whenever we are in trouble or in any dilemma, we often say that "someone is not helping me, I wish anybody can help me".

Often we use these sentences at such times. But can anyone help us in the right way?

I do not think anyone can help us. If there is someone who can help you, then you are yourself and no one else. No one else can understand you well in life, no one else can understand. Does anyone know what is in your mind or what you want? We ask those people for help that we do not know in reality, they do not even know what we want.

When we have to decide on our future, we also ask from others. And he tells us later that brother do whatever you want to do. Then tell your help you can do it yourself or that which you do not know.

People can definitely with you, they can stand with you, they can empathize, encourage you. But remember when someone will not be around you, then there will be a man who will accompany you at every step. Even when everyone will leave with you. He is not out of nowhere, that's what you have inside, just waiting to recognize him. That is what will always be with you, those who will always help you. But you will not see them in this crowded world. You have to find him. The day you got it then you will not need anybody's help.

What to Find? 😐 This question must have arisen in your mind.

Finding yourself, you have to find the inner voice, which is probably lost in this crowd. Finding the sound of silence.

On the day you hear your inner voice, you will not need to ask someone for help.

As we say,

God helps those who help themselves.

So stop asking for help from right now and find the person inside you.

Stop asking for help from others

2017-06-28T08:28:00.000-07:00

मदद

जब कभी हम परेशानी में होते है या फिर किसी दुविधा मे होते है , तो हम अक्सर ये कहते है कि "कोई मेरी मदद नहीं कर रहा , काश कोई मेरी मदद कर दे "।

अक्सर ऐसे समय में हम इन वाक्यों का प्रयोग करते है। मगर क्या सही में कोई हमारी मदद कर सकता है।

मुझे ऐसा नहीं लगता कि कोई हमारी मदद कर सकता है। अगर कोई है जो तुम्हारी मदद कर सकता है , तो वो तुम खुद हो और कोई नहीं। जिंदगी में तुम्हे अच्छे से तुम्हारे सिवा कोई और नहीं समझ सकता ,कोई जान नहीं सकता । क्या कोई ये जानता है की तुम्हारे मन में क्या है या तुम क्या चाहते हो। ये जानते हुए भी हम उन लोगो से मदद मांगते है जो हकीकत मे हमे जानते ही नहीं हे उन्हें ये तक पता नहीं कि हम चाहते क्या हे।

जब अपने भविष्ये का फैसला लेना होता है तो भी हम दूसरो से पूछते है। और वो बाद में हमसे ही कहता है भाई तेरा जो मन है , तू जो करना चाहता है वो कर। तो बताओ तुम्हारी मदद तुम खुद कर सकते हो या वो जो तुम्हे जानता ही नहीं ।

हा लोग तुम्हारा साथ जरूर दे सकते है , तुम्हारे साथ खड़े हो सकते है, वो तुम्हे सहानुभूति , हौसला दे सकते है। पर याद रखना जब कोई तुम्हारे आस पास नहीं होगा, तो एक शख्स होगा जो तुम्हारा साथ देगा हर कदम पर। तब भी जब सब आपका साथ छोड़ देंगे। वो कही बाहर नहीं है , यही है तुम्हारे अंदर बस उसे पहचानने की देर है। वही है जो हमेशा तुम्हारे साथ होगा, वो जो हमेशा तुम्हारी मदद करेगा। पर इस भीड़ से भरी दुनिया में तुम्हे वो दिखायी नहीं देगा। तुम्हे ढूढ़ना है उसे। जिस दिन भी तुम्हे वो मिल गया ना फिर तुम्हे किसी की मदद की जरूरत नहीं होगी।

क्या ढूढ़ना हे ? ये सवाल जरूर आया होगा आपके मन में।

खुद को ढूढ़ना है , आपके अंदर की आवाज को ढूढ़ना है , जो शायद इस भीड़ में कही खो गयी है। ढूंढ़ना है उस खमोशी की आवाज को।

जिस दिन तुम्हे अपने अंदर की आवाज सुनाई दे जाएगी ना उस दिन तुम्हे किसी से मदद मांगने की जरूरत नहीं पड़ेगी।

वो कहते है ना,

भगवान भी उन्ही की मदद करते है, जो स्वयं अपनी मदद करते है।

तो आज से दूसरो से मदद मांगना बंद करो और अपने अंदर के उस शख्स को ढूंढो।

Switch Off your Light, Switch On Your life

2016-02-05T08:37:00.002-08:00

TURN LIGHTS OFF WHEN NOT IN USE

BECAUSE IT MIGHT NOT REACH IN

SOME VILLAGES AND THEY ALSO HAVE FULL RIGHT TO GET LIGHT IN THEIR HOMES

thoughts of Dr.Kalam

2016-02-01T09:50:00.002-08:00

Every Youth wants to be UNIQUE

But The world around you is doing it's best,

Day and Night

To make you just everybody else

whether you want to be you or everybody

else?

Everybody else is convenient

At the first glance but not satisfying

in the long VISION

The challenge therefore my young friends

is THAT........

You have to fight the hardest Battle

Which any human being can ever imagine to FIGHT

and Never stop fighting until you arrive at your destined place

That is,

The UNIQUE you

To get the unique you

is a BIG Battle

the battle means you don't need to take a gun

The Battle means you have to have 4

UNIQUE Things

4 UNIQUE things you must have in that Battle

One is you have

"SET THE GOAL"

second one is

"ACQUIRE THE KNOWLEDGE CONTINUOUSLY"

Third one is

"HARDWORK WITH DEVOTION"

And fourth is

"PERSEVERANCE"

(Written by: Dr.A.P.J Abdul Kalam)

The Facts Of Life| Blog

Mystery

JINDAGI OR PLATFORM

JINDAGI KA PLATFORM

jindagi mano ruk si gayi ho... aage bad hi nhi rhi, jane kiska intzaar h ise.

na mujhse kuch kehti h na kuch btati h, bas ruki si khadi h ek jgah par

jese kisi ke ane ka intzaar kr rhi ho.......par kiska btati hi nhi

jindagi ko chlna hoga, aage badna hoga.....

The Trap

A Struggling Girl

A Struggling Girl

This story tells about a girl who struggles between her family and dreams. she doesn't know how to face them and how to struggle in this situation. But she never gives up. she tried and tried until she doesn't achieve her goal. To know how she struggled in her life lets read it below.

Believe in your self

Self Believe

youtube video

Quote

Its Matter

It Doesn't Matter What world Thinks, The Matter is What our own People Thinks. It Doesn't Matter if you commit mistakes, The Matter is Do Not Learn From Mistakes.

Quote

फर्क पड़ता है

दुनिया क्या सोचती ह फर्क नहीं पड़ता,

अपने क्या सोचते है फर्क पड़ता हैं |

गलतिया करने से फर्क नहीं पड़ता,

गलतियो से न सीखने पर फर्क पड़ता हैं |

Childhood Memories

Childhood Memories

A WOMEN IS NEVER OFF DUTY.

💖A women💖

The Fact Of Life

Find Your Inner Voice

HELP

Stop asking for help from others

मदद

Switch Off your Light, Switch On Your life

thoughts of Dr.Kalam

It Doesn't Matter What world Thinks,

The Matter is What our own People Thinks.

It Doesn't Matter if you commit mistakes,

The Matter is Do Not Learn From Mistakes.