The Gift of (3) Three

Giveology: A Gift Giving Survival Guide

2009-11-10T14:27:00.003-05:00

I am so proud of this edition of Giveology. I am looking at it right now and am filled with such gratitude that I can hardly breathe! It took three long months to complete but the final results are amazing...I don't think you can find this kind of money saving and gift giving advice anywhere. Giveology really does have it all! And what did I do to earn the trust of my four fabulous contributors? Stevie, Aly, Kim and Julia...thank you for allowing me to share your voice and expert knowledge with the world. I am simply honored and humbled beyond belief. To my friends, supporters and unofficial editing team, THANK YOU! Expect a special thank you gift when you least expect it :) And praise the Lord for granting me with the patience, knowledge and resources that I needed to get this important publication out into the hands of the folks who need it the most. My prayers have been answered...AGAIN!

If you haven't checked it out yet, you can view your free copy of Giveology by clicking here. I am very anxious to hear your feedback and hope that you will share it among your friends and networks. This is great stuff and it needs to be shared! As always, thank you for visiting and being such an inspiration to me! God Bless and Happy Giving!

Surviving the Holidays: Simple Tips to Save Your Sanity

2009-11-05T20:23:00.004-05:00

Today we kicked off the holiday season with a shopping fundraiser to benefit our local senior center. Although we had a great crowd and sales were good, I have to admit I heard a bit of rumbling--"It's too early to think about Christmas...it's not even Thanksgiving yet!"...I completely disagree, and this is why...

Much of the stress of the holidays is caused by procrastination and the lack of planning. The holiday season spans much more than one day, folks! The earlier you begin to shop, entertaining friends, and exchange gifts the less stress you will have during peak season! Here are a few tips to help you rethink your holiday giving strategy and enjoy the season from this moment forward.

Sit down with your calendar and block off a few dates that you plan to have available to celebrate with extended family and friends. Get on the phone and coordinate a holiday visit, dinner, brunch, pot-luck or gift exchange (if applicable) as early as possible. Plan on exchanging any gifts on that date...even if it is next week!
Stressed financially? Now is the time to re-evaluate your gift list and set a firm budget. Rather than cross people off of your list, consider an affordable lunch or breakfast party where you can enjoy a delicious meal together...go out, or cook in! Creating a new holiday tradition can save you money and enrich your relationships for years to come!
Give holiday themed gifts BEFORE the peak holiday season! Examples include fresh evergreen wreaths, poinsettia plants, holiday centerpieces, and fashion accessories that can be enjoyed during the holiday festivities. Giving something with a holiday theme after peak season just doesn't make a lot of sense to me. To be very honest, the gift is most likely going directly into the attic or closet just to be forgotten until next year. Where is the fun in that?
Strapped for time? Never feel obligated to spread yourself so thin that you can't enjoy the holiday season! Remember your favorite childhood holiday memories and build your holiday schedule around what makes you and your immediate family happy. Schedule post-holiday visits with those you were unable to see after the New Year. It will give you both something to look forward to without the added stress!

How do you keep sane during the holidays? Any great sanity saving tips that work for you? Please share in the comments below!

PS...this is my Mother, Jo Ann. As you can see, we share the same holiday spirit and avid sense of humor! She came out to the fundraiser today and got the party started! Love you, Mom!

Caring Questions by Jennifer Anktowiak

2009-10-22T15:27:00.003-04:00

Just released by Pittsburgh Author Jennifer Antkowiak, "Caring Questions: Sensitive and Fun Conversation Starters for Caregivers" would make a lovely gift for the caregiver on your list. The author offers 150 important questions and conversation starters in 13 categories (ex: Stress Busters, Strength from Above, Whats More Important? Family Traditions). Written by Take Care Tips author and caregiver Jennifer Antkowiak, Caring Questions also teaches about the importance of effective communication in caregiving. This approach can be good medicine for all persons involved, as memories and feelings, laughter and tears, are given respect and appreciation a gently therapeutic process thats good for everyone.

A New Twist on Office Gift Giving

2009-10-18T20:28:00.005-04:00

Not only are holiday gifts often difficult to choose for our office mates, they can also get expensive! Even if you have set a reasonable per person limit, those dollars can quickly add up and blow your entire gift budget if you are not careful. Here are a few "out of the box" strategies for you to consider this year. Have some great money saving suggestions of your own? Be sure to share your ideas and feedback in the comment section below!

The Office Survival Kit: Instead of buying individual gifts for everyone in the office, why not buy one large gift for your department or office mates instead? The office survival kit can contain anything that tends to always run in short supply. Be creative and have fun with the contents. Kleenex, paper clips, funky file folders, anti-bacterial hand gel, cough drops, aspirin, antacids...the sky is the limit! But don't spend a fortune! Set a reasonable budget and shop clearance racks, use coupons, and throw in new but unused items you may have in your supply closet. This gift will keep on giving well beyond the annual holiday office party, too!

The Office Splurge: Ask everyone to pitch in a portion of what they would normally spend on office gifts and buy a substantial gift that the entire office can use and enjoy! For example if ten people contribute $10 each, that $100 can be used to purchase a new microwave, deluxe coffee machine or perhaps a “donut day” once per month. (Sure beats the jelly of the month club)

Office Charity Challenge: Enlist the troops to create their own unique fundraising campaign during work time at the office. Participants must pay a $5 entry fee to be eligible to win the grand prize...half of the entry fees collected. The employee who raises the most $ for their favorite charity will be recognized at an office -wide holiday breakfast or luncheon (paid by the other half of the entry fees) where they may present their donation directly to representatives of their designated cause. A great way to celebrate the true meaning of the holiday season!

How to Give Great Gifts in a Bad Economy

2009-09-23T18:57:00.005-04:00

The years of auto-pilot gift giving are now over. You know--buying gifts and not really paying attention to the price tag or genuine interests of the gift recipient. You found a decent gift, put it on your credit card, and just kept on spending what you didn't have until your gift list was complete. I remember those days all to well. When the bills rolled in during the month of January, I wanted to run and hide. What was I thinking? Yep...been there, done that. Never again!

Many of us (not all!) have all been guilty of this at one time or another. I always admired folks who would pull out their wallets and pay cash for things. Too bad I never felt that satisfaction until after I hit rock bottom and was forced to pay EVERYTHING with cash. It was tough, but I made it through--and learned a thing or two. For families who are facing this dilemma for the first time, I encourage you to see the gift in this valuable lesson. Accept the challenge to give more meaningful gifts (rather than expensive ones!) and watch the magic happen. It's a safe bet that not only will your gift giving skills improve, but the relationships that go along with them will improve as well. You can't put a price tag on that!

If you find yourself in a panic, don't fear! Before you run off to the mall, please consider the following gift giving truths:

Gift giving is optional! When it becomes an obligation in your mind, it is no longer a gift. Think about it and re-visit your gift list. Are you giving gifts in order to avoid conflict, keep up with the Jones's, or keep the family peace? Never put the needs or expectations of others ahead of your own financial stability. There is no shame in speaking your truth and changing the rules this year. Speak up now and make no apologies. For example..."Our family is not in the position to buy gifts for extended family this year, but would love to have you over for a pizza and movie night when it fits your schedule." See how easy that was?

Not all gifts are created equal. Be aware of what types of gifts are the most meaningful to important people on your gift list. Would your best friend prefer a sterling silver bracelet or a laid-back lunch at your favorite local cafe? Does your Grandmother really need an expensive gift set from Macy's or would she prefer an afternoon spent scrapbooking with you? If you don't know, ASK! You just might create a new tradition in the process.

Gift giving is about them, not you! How many times have you given a gift expecting rave reviews but in return you get a luke warm response? Odds are pretty good that you have probably violated this rule. Just because you would love to receive a cashmere sweater coat does not mean everyone else wants one too. Take the time to research and find out what really makes them tick and do your best to give a gift that reflects it. A $25 gift card to Macy's is a great gift if you know that your BFF is saving up for that "must have" leather jacket she's been talking about. Just jot a note in the card that will add meaning to giving the gift card--"Your are going to look great in that new leather jacket...hope this helps you make that big purchase!"

Great gifts come in many shapes, sizes, and price tags. But never forget that the very best gifts strengthen our personal connections with one another, never to weaken them. Buying an expensive gift that misses the mark can really do some damage and change the dynamic of your relationship if not careful. Just stop, think, plan, and do your best connect while minding your budget. I promise you, you'll never loose.

What do you think? Can you relate? Please share your comments below and we can get the conversation going!

The Gift of Peace

2009-09-22T16:06:00.002-04:00

The G20 is setting up shop here in Pittsburgh for the weekend and tensions seem to be running a bit high. With photos circulating from G20 London, the realities of an event of this magnitude are difficult to conceive. Our city will essentially be on a two-day lockdown, ensuring the safety for international dignitaries making their way to and from the convention center as well as residents and employees of the City of Pittsburgh. Yes, there will be a sea of protestors and increased police security along the motorcade route and throughout various locations surrounding the Pittsburgh area. Plenty of media will fill the streets and Pittsburgh will be on the international stage for all to see. But at what price? Let's hope it's not too costly. Money is one thing, safety and security for all involved is my primary concern.

I'm am hoping and praying for a very peaceful G20 summit in our beloved City of Pittsburgh. Won't you please take a moment of silence and send some positive thoughts our way...we would love to see this go on our record books as a great thing for Pittsburgh, without the violence and destruction that comes along with such a polarizing world event. Please pray for the health and safety of everyone involved, including the protestors who are passionate about having their voices heard. And for the public safety officials who will be monitoring this event to keep us all safe from harm. Thank you!

Help this Gift Giver

2009-09-14T16:48:00.000-04:00

Here's an email from a reader who is really stumped on a gift idea...My friend Traci would appreciate any feedback or ideas that you may have. Here we go...

"We were invited to celebrate a 50th anniversary dinner for my husband's aunt and uncle...and the invite says "No gifts please..." Of course you know I'm going to show up with a gift anyways...any suggestions that you can solicit from your readers would be greatly appreciated. This couple is in their 70's, and live out in the country so they like simple things, the type of people who don't like to be fussed over... I thought about getting a nice looking tall plant in some kind of engraved pot with their anniversary date on it, or something like that....help!"

Personally, I love your idea of an engraved planter complete with a hearty plant to symbolize a healthy and hearty life together. I'm sure you all have some creative ideas of your own, so lets hear them in the comments below!

MAJOR News!

2009-09-11T10:35:00.000-04:00

I just had to share this...please forgive my shameless self promotion :)

“You’re Hired!”

Local Business Woman Tapped as National Gift Giving Expert

for Upcoming Television Series

Jennifer Melnick Carota, a.k.a. the Gift Therapist, has been secured by Carolyn and Co. Media as an expert source for holiday gift giving on a budget. Advice from the Gift Therapist will be featured nationally on “Every Holiday,” an eight episode television series designed to help guide women through the hectic holiday season that will air this fall on three national network affiliates and cable giants Oxygen, We and Bravo. Jennifer will share expert gift giving advice, holiday entertaining tips, and shopping strategies designed to make holiday gift giving less stressful and much more fun!

Hosted by former Executive Vice President of Trump Enterprises, Carolyn Kepcher seeks to help women find solutions to daily challenges facing most busy women today. “Every Holiday” is Carolyn’s first effort back into episodic TV and will serve as a sneak peek for the launch of her company’s weekly series next fall.

In addition to the television series, the Gift Therapist will also serve as a contributor to Kepcher’s new website workherway.com, set to launch in October, 2009. More information and details coming soon…stay tuned!

Jumpstart to the Holidays

2009-09-08T10:10:00.001-04:00

One size does not fit all when it comes to gift giving. Although household budgets may be a bit tighter this year, this does not excuse us from mindless giving! Just because you may find seven cashmere sweaters on the clearance rack does not mean that everyone on your gift list would love one! (Although I would not complain...LOL). So how do we combat the stress of giving the perfect gift on a shoestring budget? The key is to start planning now! For example:

Make you gift list TODAY! Don't procrastinate on this...the longer you wait, the harder it will become to narrow your list down and set your budget accordingly.
Start thinking of appropriate gifts that you would like to give to each person on your list. Start jotting ideas down TODAY!
Are you scratching people off of your gift list this year? Now is the the time to have an honest conversation with them about some creative alternatives to tangible gift giving. Pick up the phone...TODAY!
Planning on giving edible or homemade gifts this year? Organize your recipes, craft supplies, and materials TODAY!

The holiday giving season will be here before you know it! Carve out a little time and money each week to help ease the stress of last minute shopping, baking and crafting. Create a plan and get the entire family involved...make it fun, but get started TODAY!!! Trust me...you'll thank me for it later :)

The Golden Rule When Shopping

2009-08-24T09:36:00.003-04:00

I received a surprise in my inbox this morning and it was just too good not to share with all of you! My friend Leann Junker writes:

"I have been thinking about smart shopping for a while now that I no longer work and we are trying to "float the boat" on one income. I have one tip that you might add to your web site or think about when you're helping others. (Unless this is already included in your tips and I missed it.) I always try to be nice when I deal with people at stores. I believe in the Golden Rule and want my children to see me set this good example, so I am always nice even if a sales clerk is rude to me. I believe that being nice has "paid off" on a number of occasions. I'm sure this is nothing short of divine intervention, but there have been some examples lately where someone has thrown in something extra or given me a special coupon or let me in on some helpful information simply because I was friendly. And in return I genuinely show a lot of gratitude because in my situation every little bit helps. "

Indeed, Leann...this is wonderful advice that many of us take for granted! A little kindness and a smile can go a long way! Over the years, I have built very strong relationships with several clerks at my favorite shopping haunts. Because I treat them with respect and have fun with the experience, I seriously believe they look forward to helping me. Long before I was the Gift Therapist, I worked in various retail positions during high school and college. It is NOT an easy job! I still remember the customers who made my day a little brighter or made those long hours seem worth it in the end! Shopping can be a win/win from both sides of the counter if you keep the golden rule in mind! Thanks for your contribution, Leann!

Have you had a positive shopping experience by living the golden rule? If so, please share!

Back to School Stocking Stuffers!

2009-08-18T07:36:00.003-04:00

GMA reported this morning that back to school sales figures are down this year. Expect to see a lot of back to school sales and loss leaders in the upcoming weeks. If you have taken my advice and have created a "gift" budget, now would be a great time to clean up on potential stocking stuffers and smaller gifts that have the potential to make a great compliment to your gifts of three (3). For example:

Journals, pencils, and colorful binders make great gifts for college students all year long! Swoop them up when you see them on the clearance rack!

Hoodies, jeans and screened t's are always a welcome gift for teens on your list. Take advantage of the huge sales in store and online.

Organizational products like desk cubes, designer paper clips, and funky file folders make great gifts for colleagues at the office. Stock up now and give the entire office a giant basket to share as a holiday gift!

And don't forget to surf online and check out your favorite stores. Be sure to visit their sale or clearance section first! There are plenty of free shipping deals out there right now so be sure to take advantage of it!

How to Give the Perfect Gift

2009-08-06T10:50:00.000-04:00

A good friend and colleague of mine recently introduced me to a wonderful and inspiring book that seeks to help couples enhance their relationships by examining the various "love languages" that people often use to express their love and gratitude for one another. After reading "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, I had what Oprah would call an "Ah-ha" moment and quickly realized that these principles also apply to gift giving...as giving tangible gifts is identified as a love language in and of itself! What are the 5 languages and how do they apply? Lets look at the languages, first:

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch

What love language do you speak? How do you show appreciation to people around you? Because we as humans tend to project our needs and desires onto others, the way we choose to give (and what gifts we tend to give) are usually reflective of the needs or affirmations we seek for ourselves...What we tend to "give" is a clear indicator or what we "desire". Ok...therapist hat off...

How does this relate to gift giving? It actually impacts successful gift giving in a major way. I believe it's safe to say that if you are reading this blog, you are very interested in giving "the perfect gift" to someone you love, which requires creativity, inspiration, and often times a lot of thought. By paying attention to the RECIPIENTS love language, you can pretty much ensure that your gift will be wanted, appreciated and a big hit. Never assume that because you prefer to receive tangible gifts that the recipient does so as well...they may have a completely different love language! Can you see how this relates to couples but also relates to showing our love to the world around us?

The moral of the story is...be open, observant, and sensitive to other's needs around you. Please don't buy an extravagant gift for someone who would much prefer a experiential gift with you, or a well thought out note of appreciation. By finding out the love language of another, we can take gift giving to the next level...and hit a home run every time! For more information regarding Mr. Chapman's book, please visit his site below! Happy Gifting!

PS..Thank you, Darla!!!

The Five Love Languages
How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate
Gary Chapman
Published by Northfield Publishers
http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

Christmas in July

2009-07-20T15:11:00.001-04:00

Times are tough and the holiday gift giving season is getting closer. What to do? Start planning your holiday giving now. Note that I said giving rather than shopping! Yes, we must factor shopping into the equation, but for now let's just concentrate on creating a strategic giving plan. It sounds so technical doesn't it? Don't fear...it's actually quite simple. But you need to start now and get your ducks (and dollars) in a row as soon as possible!

Here are are five tips that can help you plan for your holiday giving now and reduce the stress associated with giving the perfect gift:

* Set your holiday budget right now! Divide that number by 4 and figure out your monthly gift budget in cash. Can't aford your monthly total? REDUCE YOUR BUDGET!

* Create a holiday folder. I recommend a three ring binder with pocket inserts. Create sections that include Gift Lists, Budget, Receipts, and Recipes (more on recipes later!). Make out your gift list as soon as possible.

* Prioritize your gift list and begin shopping from bottom to top. I like to say "shop backwards." For example, if you have people on your list that you normally buy a small gift for each year, shop for them first. Challenge yourself to come in under budget on these folks. You can do this easily by following my "Gift of Three" strategy.

* Start shopping for smalle gifts all year long. While you are at the mall or your favorite discount department stores, keep your eyes peeled on the clearance racks. This is where you will find the best bargains on off season merchandise that would make a great birthday, holiday, or thank you gift. Stash in a gift closet or bin for easy access!

* Reduce you spending and increase your thoughtfulness by giving the gift of food! Again, using the Gift of Three Strategy, you can save a ton of money while looking like a gift hero! Choose your favorite recipe and prepare it in a sleek serving container that the hostess can keep. Attach the recipe, a recipe book, or serving utensil to tie the theme together. You'll be the hit of the party! For more great tips on giving the gift of food, please visit my new blog at www.justkeepthedish.com

For more free gift giving tips, advice, and ideas, please visit me online at www.theGiftTherapist.com. I would love to have you come on over and join the conversation! Good luck and Happy Giving!

Coach Boutique Sales and Discounts!

2009-07-11T19:57:00.000-04:00

Love Coach bags and accessories but hate the steep prices? Check out my new Amazon Store where I have searched high and low for the coolest styles at the best prices! As always, when shopping online, be sure to do your research and make sure you are confident with the seller. Always check seller feedback before you purchase a high ticket item...or for any online purchase from Amazon or similar auction site. Great bargains are certainly to be had, but be smart about it and do your homework! Good luck and happy giving!

Holiday Immunity: Are You Feeling It?

2009-06-16T18:08:00.005-04:00

When I was a little girl, my cousin Diane and I used to play dress-up all of the time. So much so, we decided to go trick or treating one day mid-summer just for the fun of it. Our neighbors were very good sports but our parents were mortified! Why would we ever consider doing such a crazy thing? We did it because it was spontaneous and fun...period. Our parents didn't embrace our explanation one bit. I believe I may have been grounded for it...LOL! But remembering their response led me to writing this post...have we become a society immune to celebrating holidays? And if so, why?

As the Gift Therapist, I receive tons of emails asking for gift giving help. Sometimes I receive long rants (I love to get those!) explaining why they feel compelled to buy a gift for someone they barely know or do not like...those really crack me up! But seriously....when did we become so neutral or angry about holiday celebrations?

I realize that not everyone feels this way...but I am hearing enough gruff that makes me wonder how and why all of this negativity is suddenly bubbling to the surface. I have some ideas that I would like to share with you as well as some potential solutions.

Reason #1: Holidays celebrations are usually centralized around the family unit. Since my Grandmother's generation, our family has been progressively shrinking and the traditions are slowly fading. Remembering how great things "used to be" can evoke depressing thoughts, thus creating a thin veil of stress over the holiday celebration...i.e. "Christmas will never be the same with Granny."

Reason #2: Families are much busier and stretched too thin. Increased work demands and two parent working households are now the norm. Who is going to have the time, energy and desire to pull it all together? Feeling the need to do it all, and the guilt of not wanting to do it all is very stressful...

Reason #3: Families are much more extended. Divorce, separation, step-families and step-children add even more stress to the mix. How many families can you reasonably visit (and enjoy visiting) in one day? And how do you set boundaries or allocate your time without hurting some one's feelings? Virtually impossible, yet we strive to do it all and dreading it...Even more stress...

Reason #4: Someone decided that tangible gifts were necessary to commemorate every holiday and special occasion and we bought into hook, line, and sinker. Well, some of us did...and are paying for it now with credit card debt or just plain old overspending for no reason at all. Did we really think that a tangible gift could really be a substitute for something simple, appropriate, and thoughtful? But some of us fell into this time saving (and money gobbling) trap just to cross that person off of our gift list...and now we can't afford to do that anymore...how do we explain that we will be cutting back this year?...Even more stress!

Reason #5: We are just plain bored with holidays due to one or more of the reasons listed above. We've conditioned ourselves through the law of diminishing returns...after a few years of holiday related stress syndrome, we just become numb...or worse, we check out completely. What used to be manageable has now become avoidable...holiday? What holiday?

Does this sound like you? Can you relate? I certainly can...been there, done that! Here are some things that I have done to bring back the joy and eliminate some of the stress that a holiday celebration can bring:

I choose to celebrate with people who I have close relationships with and enjoy celebrating with. I no longer feel compelled to accept invitations from people who don't communicate with us on a regular basis. If you're not calling just to say "hi" or asking us to meet up for coffee date throughout the year, odds are you are not going to see us the "day of" a primary holiday...sorry...but I may buy you a small gift and deliver it to you at a later or earlier date out of respect for familie ties.
I don't follow the rules...except for the golden rule, which I live and give by. I give what I can, when I can. I put as much thought into making both the holiday and gift giving fun for those who choose to celebrate with me. That strategy alone can work wonders for you!
I look forward to creating my own traditions and holiday celebrations. I know that I can never recreate the past but I can certainly build from it! I think my parents were wrong when they punished me for my 'trick or treating in July" caper...it was fun, creative and memorable....even 30 years later.

What will you do to make your next holiday celebration more joyous, memorable, and worth celebrating? I am very anxious to hear your thoughts and comments...

Happy Giving!

No Fail Father's Day Gift Ideas

2009-06-15T16:41:00.004-04:00

Skip the kitchy t-shirts, monogrammed golf balls, and personalized coffee mugs and give Dad a gift that he will really love and appreciate! Here are some ideas for that hard to buy for Dad on your gift list this year!

The Gift of Time: This year, we are spending Father's Day at a local racetrack and casino with my Father. Why? Because he just loves to go there! At 74 years old, I have learned over the years that another tie, tshirt, or coffee mug is just going to gather dust! Do something together as a family...cook his favorite meal, visit his favorite hangout or take in a ball game together. Make sure he knows this day is all about him and you'll hit a home run!

The Gift of Green: Is your Dad an outdoors man? Does he like to spend time puttering in the garden? Visit your local nursery and pick up some greens and tools that you can plant together as a family and watch the memories grow!

The Gift of Art: Handmade items from the little ones are always welcome and appreciated, especially if Dad is a great sport! Create a family night with a gallery theme and showcase all the love for Dad displayed strategically throughout your home. Leave no room untouched and include some handmade pieces of art from Mommy, too!

The Gift of Food: You knew I couldn't resist this one! Prepare Dad's favorite meal or send his favorite culinary indulgence across the miles. With hundreds of "of the month" clubs out there, you are sure to find a club that matches his taste! (I would personally skip the jelly of the month club, though...LOL) When in doubt, I go with Omaha Steaks....this is what my Dad will be getting this year...Bacon Wrapped Fillet Mignon ...

What are you giving your Father this year? Tell us...savvy shoppers want to know!

Product Review: The Hana Mini Flat Iron ROCKS!

2009-06-07T13:32:00.004-04:00

I was skeptical yet excited when I received my new flat iron in the mail a few days ago. I just returned from a wonderful vacation in Cabo San Lucas and my hair was completely trashed from a seven day dose of tropical sun, salt water, and chlorine from a fairytale life of luxury...LOL. Before I tried my Hana Nano Mini, I had pretty much given up on flat irons. Although my hair is short, it is thick with a very funky wave that drives me insane!!! I am extremely happy to say that the Nano Mini blew my expectations out of the water...after ten minutes of use, my hair was perfectly straight, smooth as silk, and completely frizz free...FINALLY! I love this compact version (retail $70), but will definitely look into the full sized version as well because that should speed up the straightening process even more!!! My only complaint about the Hana Mini is that I received it too late...it would have been perfect to take with me on vacation!

The Gift of Three: Give the Hanna Mini with a styling brush, straightening serum and travel sized cosmetic bag for your favorite girlfriend on your list! She will rave about it for years to come! Happy Giving!

Help this Gift Giver!

2009-05-06T07:45:00.004-04:00

This just in...a request for help from a loyal reader! Let's do our best to come up with a great gift for her to give her mom...

"Maybe you can help me out. My Mom says she doesn't want anything. She says this every year. I've made her scrapbooks, videos, homemade coupons, bought her jewelry, makeup, etc. She's a breast cancer survivor but doesn't like pink. She loves coffee but she's trying to cut back. She's also in school for her second master's degree so she's running low on spare time. She's 50+ years old and has 3 grand kids, but she's not into wearing anything that says "Grandma". Any suggestions for something under $40.00?"

At first glance, I would ask you what types of gifts does your mom normally give you? This is often a great clue to the types of gifts that she would like to receive! That being said, focus on an experience that your would like to give to you mom and build a theme around it! Instead of a tangible gift, could you take her and the kids out for ice cream or prepare her favorite meal? If she is pinched for time, perhaps a gift certificate to her favorite hair salon with some small pampering essentials that she can do in the comfort of her own home? If you want to go with a "school theme" would she appreciate a roomy but trendy tote bag to lug her gear or a comfy lap desk for her to use while she lounges with the family?

Readers...what do you think?

Knock Knock

2009-05-04T12:07:00.010-04:00

So many of you have asked me where to find these fun office supplies, that I did a little research and found the best prices out there for you :) In case you don't know this about me already, I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and just love to give gifts that will make someone smile. Knock Knock products certainly fit the bill! Here are some of my faves, but please visit Perpetual Kid for a full selection of Knock Knock (and more!) at the best prices I could find!

Crap File Folders: $8.49 for a set of 6, two in each style

OMFG and ASAP Expandable File Tote: $15.99

Door Hanger, Office Edition: $6.99 for a set of three double sided hangers

Timing Task Clips: $7.99 for a set of 12, three styles each

Things You Must Do to Make Me Happy: $6.99 for a 60 page tablet

And last but not least...

Old School Sticky Set: $12.99

Knock Knock products really do make great office, graduation, or "just because" gifts. Indulge in the gift of laughter...you won't be sorry! For the best prices and selection, check out Perpetual Kid Happy Giving!

Mother's Day Gifts Under $50

2009-05-04T11:47:00.002-04:00

It's not to late to find, buy, and give a unique gift to mom just in time for Mother's Day 2009! Check out some of my favorite gift items that I found online!

For a mom that loves the sun...

Boho Flower Beach Tote - $ 32.00
From: Room It Up

Fun Flower Towel & Sling Bag - $ 20.00
From: Room It Up

For a mom that loves to travel, mix and match any of these items!

Boho Flower Overnight Duffle Bag - $ 32.00
From: Room It Up

Boho Flower Garment Bag - $ 36.00
From: Room It Up

Boho Flower Travel Set $20.00
From: Room It Up

It's super easy to make a "Gift of Three" out of any of these choices. Just choose the "experience" that you would like to give to your mom and build a theme around that! Books, CD's and homemade goodies always make a great "go with" gift that can tie the theme together!

What experiences are you giving this year for Mother's Day? Please share your gift ideas below in the comment section! Happy Giving!

Priceless Gifts that Keep on Giving

2009-05-01T10:23:00.006-04:00

Gift giving season is quickly approaching folks! And I'm not talking about Christmas, either. The spring months ahead will be loaded with holidays and special events that will sneak up on you quickly if you don't prepare. Here are a few scenarios and gift ideas to "go with" to give you a jump on the upcoming gift giving marathon that many fail to plan for this time of year!

For the Graduate: Teach your teen about money and stocks with "I'm a Shareholder" by the folks at Giveashare.com. For only $13.95, the gift of financial literacy is both practical and fun. It is designed to grab kid's attention with full, vivid colors, stunning graphics, and engaging exercises, This book targets kids ages 8-25 but many adults would find it informative, too...I sure did! Pair this book with a REAL share of stock (experts say that Wallstreet is on sale right now!) and you have a gift that will be memorable, and potentially lucrative! Choose a share that any teen would love: Disney, Nintento, Nike, Starbucks...the choices are endless. Prices vary, so shop around for a stock option that is in your budget range! Check out the book and stock selections at http://www.giveashare.com/!

For the Bride and Groom: Can't afford to buy something that's on the gift registry? Don't feel guilty! Just be sure to look at the registry and come up with a gift that will compliment their taste, style, and personality. Check out this personalized stamp that is both practical and fun for less than $50. Toss in some stationary and envelopes and you have a fabulous and classy gift that won't break the bank, but will also be used for many years to come!

For Mom and Dad: No one said that you can't combine gifts for Mother's Day and Father's Day. Just be sure to recognize them with a nice card or handwritten note on the "day of" and communicate to them that a joint gift is coming this year that they both can enjoy! Have parents that love to travel? How about this pair of passport wallets? Only $39.99! Toss in a few travel guides and travel sized toiletries and you have a pretty cool gift for under $50.

For Baby: Gift giving for new arrivals is so much fun, so get creative with it! I just love these BabyPack Pads by Buttoned Up...they are so cute and practical! From diapers to baby formula, antibiotic ointment to cotton swabs, or water bottles to kleenex, new parents will never the leave the house under prepared for any situation parenthood may bring.Only $6.99 each and would make a great complimentary gift to a diaper bag or stress reduction kit for the new mommy! Don't you just love these?

Have you found some creative and affordable gift ideas that you would like to share with our readers? Please tell us in the comment section below! Happy Giving!

Ballerina Booty Socks by Mud Pie

2009-04-24T09:18:00.004-04:00

For the future ballerina, these little socks are just adorable. Why fuss with shoes when these little numbers can do double duty? So precious and quite affordable at $14.99 for a set of three. Incorporate these into a ballerina theme and give the gift of dance to the little one! Maybe you could find a tiny tu-tu or sparkly hair accessories. How cute would that be? Oh...what fun it is to dress little girls! What else could we add to this gift to make it really special? Please share your comments below! I can't wait to hear them!

Ballerina Booty Socks by Mud Pie™

A "Get Organized" Gift for Mom

2009-04-20T14:36:00.005-04:00

I found a new favorite website! Organize.com
Just by their name you wouldn't think they would have gift ideas would you? I am happy to report they have a ton of unique, affordable and memorable gift options for everyone on your gift list! Like this beautiful magnetic organizer for only $14.99! Practical, fun and fully customizable. Throw in a cute pen, note cards, or a sheet of stamps...perfect gift of three! I have a hunch that I will be posting a lot of gift ideas from this website, so be prepared! And the they even have a clearance section...yipee! Check it out and be sure to tell me what do you think?
Clearance Items at Organize.com - up to 80% OFF!

Happy Giving!

The Gift of Kindness

2009-04-19T18:56:00.004-04:00

(photo taken from www.kindnotes.com)

While working on a interview with Bargain Babe I stumbled upon a fabulous gift idea that you can either purchase online or get creative and make from your craft bin. Kindnotes has a full collection of customizable memory jars that would be a fabulous gift for Mother's Day, a special birthday or graduation gift. Starting at around $27, the idea is that you fill little envelopes with sentiments, memories or inspirational notes, place them into a keepsake jar or box, and the notes can be opened by the recipient every day. I just think they are really beautiful and can easily be replicated at home if you are on a tight budget. What else has caught my eye recently? Head on over to Bargain Babe and check out our interview on romantic gifts that won't break the bank! Enjoy and Happy Giving!

Gift Giving Dilemma: Suggestions for Brooke?

2009-04-15T15:47:00.002-04:00

I just received this in my inbox today and wanted to give Brooke as much help as I could, so I decided to throw out this scenario to you and see what you creative folks come up with! Here's the dilemma...

"My parents' 30th wedding anniversary is coming up in early May. Obviously, this is a big one, and I would like to give them something special without spending a lot of money. They were planning a trip to the beach, but have cancelled it because, in this economy, they just don't have the $. I would have to ship the gift, as they live in NC and I am in PA. I know that they enjoy wine, but I'm not sure if shipping wine is a possibility. They also already have plenty of drinkware. My mom enjoys photography, gardening, nature, she also likes to cook. My dad is a pretty simple guy, he works, is very handy, and spends a lot of time out in the yard with my mom. Any ideas?"

Please share you comments below and help solve this gifting dilemma for Brooke!