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How to Color Block? Color Block Dress Up and Fashion Tips

2012-02-27T22:19:00.005-08:00

Have you attempted this spring's colorblock trend?

It feels intimidating wearing all those colors, but in reality, colorblock looks flattering, and creates one of the prettiest outfits for spring. However, if you colorblock incorrectly, you could look mismatched, or even twice your size.

To make your colorblock experience successful, here are some fashion tips on how to wear one of the hottest spring fashions for women.

How to Color Block:

1. Pick only 2 to 3 colors.

In my colorblock attempt (see pictures), I picked two bright faves.

2. Make sure the chosen colors are 2 - 3 shades within each other on the color spectrum.

Pink and red -- close but not the same.

3. Tone down the rest of the outfit.

A neutral under shirt and neutral shoes won't complete with main colors.

4. Wear separates.

No need to pile on the colors in one outfit. You can build colors piece by piece.

5. Don't wear a lot of accessories.

Let the bright colors be the star(s) of your outfit, not the bling.

Do you have any colorblock tips to share?

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Seattle Weekend - Kids Birthday Party, Freelance Assignment, BLiv and Mob Wives

2012-02-27T09:25:00.002-08:00

Happy Monday girlies

This past Seattle weekend was super busy -- one of those occasions that I wish time froze.

Kids Birthday Party

We started Saturday with a kids birthday party for one of kiddo's friends. The little man turned two, and his parents threw quite a feast.

Kids birthday party's essential ingredients:

Yummy sweets

Healthy snacks for kids

Delicious cuisine for adults

and Balloons

Freelance Writing Assignment

After the kids birthday party, we enjoyed hours of family fun. By night time, I threw myself into work. (I know. Loser!)

Unfortunately, in the middle of it all, I realized that I misread the editor's initial email. Ouch! Stayed up until four in the morning to redo everything.

My "oops" face at four in the morning

BLiv Skincare Products

Received BLiv skincare in the mail for review. Can't wait to start on these.

Have you heard of Bliv Skincare?

Mob Wives

Have you watched VH1's Mob Wives? I had no idea this show is so addictive. Or that the mob really existed. (Where have I been?)

Don't you think reality TV is the best way to spend Sundays?

That's all the updates for now.

How was your weekend?

Casual Weekend Outfit Idea - Plaid Shirts for Women

2012-02-25T22:35:00.002-08:00

Like a notorious comeback artist, plaid has returned as one of the hottest fashion trends for women -- or has it ever left the radar?

All around Seattle, as well as blogosphere, I see plaid skirts, flannel shirts, and even accessories in this wildly popular pattern.

Why is Plaid Popular?

Plaid resembles the epitome of womens casual clothing. Think weekend wear. Think street chic. Think the most cozy, relaxed casual shirts you've ever worn. I'm sure you are thinking of plaid.

Womens Casual Wear in a turquoise shaded plaid.

How to Wear Plaid Shirts for Women?

Thinking of grungy flannel shirts of the 90's? I think not. Instead, try a fitted button down shirt over skinnies (in my opinion, the best jeans for women), and a pair of casual boots.

The next time you are thinking "what to wear this weekend?" Try casual shirts in plaid. You'll look cool, casual and effortlessly stylish.

Aren't skinnies the best jeans for women?

They sleek up any outfit.

Are you deciding what to wear this weekend?

How do you feel about casual shirts in plaid?

Moons over my Hammy - Easy and Healthy Recipe for Play Dates

2012-02-24T20:21:00.000-08:00

Not only do play dates help toddlers learn to interact and share, they give stay at home moms, even those with actual work at home jobs, a chance to engage in adult conversation, and feel less isolated.

Serving food on play dates takes some thought. Meals or snacks must be quick, because toddler-chasing gets busy. Also, it is important to make healthy meals for kids.

Yesterday, two mamas brought their toddlers over for a play date, allowing me to show off an easy to make recipe for lunch. Moons over my hammy sandwiches, a protein-rich fusion of eggs, cheese and ham, made healthy meals for kids and adults.

Yummy and easy - recipe both kids and adults will enjoy.

Because both mamas liked their sandwiches so much, I decided to share this easy lunch sandwich recipe with everyone.

Moons over my Hammy

Healthy Meals for Kids and Adults

Ingredients

1 stick of mozerella string cheese
1 slice of American cheese
2 eggs
2 - 4 slices of ham
2 slices of wheat toast
2 tbl spoons of butter
Salt

Step 1

Cut string cheese into bite-sized bits.

Step 2

Crack eggs into a bowl. Add string cheese. Add a pinch of salt

Step 3

Butter a flat pan. Toast bread.

Step 4

Take toasted bread out.

Melt more butter in the pan. Pour eggs in.

Step 5

When one side is fully cooked. Flip eggs over, top with American cheese.

Step 6

When the other side of the eggs is fully cooked, and the cheese on top is melted, take eggs out and lay it on the bread.

Grill ham in the pan for 10 - 20 seconds.

Step 7

Top eggs with ham.

DONE!!

Looks juicy. Tastes even better.

So, are you ready to make your own moons over my hammy?

Do you have any easy and healthy lunch recipes to share?

7 Types of People to Unfriend on Facebook

2012-02-23T15:05:00.001-08:00

Afraid to unfriend someone on facebook?

You shouldn't be. You are not the only person who finds certain people's facebook behavior annoying. Or perhaps you simply need a total wellness check by getting rid of toxic friends -- on facebook and off.

I had the pleasure of guest posting on Melissa Blake's award-winning blog, So About What I said, on the topic of types of people to unfriend on facebook -- and yes. I have unfriended people on facebook before.

7 Types of People to Unfriend on Facebook

(My guest post on So About What I Said)

Hi all, I am the owner of Girlie Blog Seattle, and I write about beauty, fashion, and enjoying life in Seattle. I am so honored that Melissa asked me to guest post. I love reading her blog because it brightens my day. Today, I am writing about types of people to unfriend on Facebook. I know this is a somewhat controversial topic, and you might have opinions to express, but please keep comments cordial.

The Narcissist
Have you ever seen someone so perfect? She has the perfect man who never argues with her, perfect friends who’ll do anything for her, a perfect job that she loves, perfectly good looks that every girl is jealous of and the perfect life she feels everyone should want. Her pictures have perfectly practiced poses, with perfectly styled outfits. Every wall post is either an achievement – implicitly stated or subtly implied – or some kind of sentimental reminder about her beautiful life.

The Ghost
You were friends, or even best buds, back in high school. You have lost touch until Facebook connected you. Now that you’ve “friended” each other and caught up, you have seized communication again for the past two years. Don’t worry. You won’t miss each other. If you have lived a good life since high school, without your “ghost” friend, you’ll live a good life still.

The Gossip Columnist
You ask her, “What’s going on?” She tells you what’s going on with everyone else. None of the information seems significant or has trustworthy resources. In fact, your conversations with her always revolves around someone else’s business, and she seems way too interested in talking about them, for no reason at all.

The User
The user has no shame. He invites you to a party across town, but expects a ride, because he has no car. If you don’t offer him a ride, he’ll tell all your common friends about how sorry he is to miss out, right in front of you, until you offer him a ride. He has guilt-ed you into giving him a ride numerous times, but never offers gas, or coffee or some type of nice gesture so you wouldn’t feel used.

The One-Upper
You tell her that you have been busy. She tells you that she’s much busier, even though she calls you up Friday nights and talks your ears off until you fall asleep on the phone. Then she’ll call you up next Friday night, strategically on her way to dinner and reminds you again that she’s busy.

The Promise Breaker
He has been asking you to meet up for months, but bails out every time you plan something. He tells you that he’ll take you out for your birthday. But when the check comes -- and you offer to pay for yourself to be nice -- he’ll gladly let you. He tells you that he’ll do nice things for you, but then drops off the face of the earth.

Your boss
If you don’t want someone to see old college photos of you flipping off the camera, chugging beer or doing anything “fun,” unfriend. Better yet, don’t add them in the first place.

Do you have anything to add?

Have you unfriended someone on facebook?

Eye Shadow Color for Dark Brown Eyes - Soft Pink

2012-02-22T20:40:00.000-08:00

In a previous post about the best eye shadow color for dark brown eyes, I used olive. (You can view the post here.)

Olive received great feedback. Today, I am introducing another one of the best eye shadow color for brown eyes -- soft pink.

To demonstrate, I am using "Pink Chiffon" by Cover Girl. "Pink Chiffon" is a shimmery eye shadow that looks natural and pretty. Its tender color flatters most skin tones, and its shimmery effect brightens the darkest, dullest eyes.

(By the way, for cheap eye shadows, Cover Girl Eye Enhancers offer wonderful quality and a wide range of colors. Powders never fall loose, and colors last for hours.)

Cover Girl Eye Enhancer -- One of the Best Cheap Eye Shadows Out There

Step 1

Line upper and bottom lash lines with a dark brown or black eye liner.

Using: NYX, another one of my favorite cheap make up brands.

Makeup Tip: to add drama, thicken the line on top.

Step 2 (Optional)

Using an eyeliner brush, or a sponge tip, smudge the stop line.

Step 3

Using a blending brush, apply the shimmery eye shadow all over lids.

Makeup Tip: Use circular motion to apply color evenly.

Step 4

Curl lashes. Add mascara.

Done.

Soft, pink, shimmery eye shadow -- one of the best eye shadows for dark brown eyes.

Do you think soft pink is a good eye shadow color for brown eyes?

Finding Your Signature Scent - Dos and Don'ts

2012-02-21T23:20:00.001-08:00

Still looking for that one-of-a-kind perfume?

It takes a while to find a signature scent that matches your unique personality. There is no one else like you, so you need a signature perfume that smells like no one else but you.

You have a lot of choices for a signature scent. Nowadays, even reality stars have their own perfume. (And I feel disturbingly curious about what Snooki smells like.) The perfume market is (literally) diluted, so it's hard to find something unique.

Need a personal fragrance finder? Read on for Dos and Don'ts of finding your signature scent.

Do: Revert to Classics

Like classic movies, classic perfume have won the test of time. Women adore them for two reasons -- they smell beautiful, and make women feel beautiful as well.

Estee Lauder Pleasures - a classic love of mine.

Don't: Try on Old Perfume

When you test perfume at stores, ask the sales person for the expiration date on the bottle. Expired products smell different.

Do: Get Perfume Samples, Perfume Minis, or Perfume Sets

Although you don't get your money's worth with perfume samples, minis and sets, at least you are not stuck with large quantities of something that stinks.

One of the few samples from a Chanel haul.

Don't: Buy Perfume in a Huge Bottle

Even if you like a perfume, getting an economy-sized bottle is not worth the money. Perfume isn't mouthwash. You don't need a cap full each time. A 1.7 Fl. Oz bottle should last at least one year. Even if you wear it everyday.

Do: Test Products. One at a Time. And Wait.

When you zone in on a potential buy, spray on a test run. Then walk around for a while, or even wait for a day.

Why? Formulas smell different on each person's skin. Test to see how it smells on yours.

Waiting lets you find out how long the perfume lasts.

One of my biggest regrets :O( I did not test well, and got stuck with this huge box.

Don't: Test Multiple Products at the Same Time

All those smells mixed together just sounds stinky.

Do: Use a Fragrance Finder Tool

Fragrance finders or quizzes online narrow down your choices by analyzing your personality.

Here is one I recommend: Total Beauty Fragrance Quiz

Don't: Ask Your Dad

Or your kid brother.

Signature Scents -- What is yours and do you have any tips to share?

Blogging Tips Weekly - How to Add Meta Tags with Keywords to Individual Blog Post on Blogger

2012-02-20T14:52:00.001-08:00

In a previous Blogging Tips Weekly post (you can visit it here), I stressed the importance of using keywords on SEO design (Search Engine Optimization), and showed you how to add keywords to blogger blogs' meta tags.

The trick I showed you was for your blog's landing page. Each individual blog post can also have its own meta tags and website keywords. These keywords pertain to each post instead of the entire blog.

Why add keywords and meta tags to individual blog posts?

If your blog is about beauty and fashion like mine, then your blog's best keywords might include "beauty," "makeup," "fashion," etc. But if your latest post is about fashion tips for teens, then your post's keywords might include a completely different set of vocabulary, like "fashion tips for teens," "teen clothes," and perhaps even "rocker chic style." (Seriously. Is that what's in this season?)

Providing different website keywords for each blog post enables you to customize SEO and attract more visitors.

How to add meta tags to individual blog posts?

Adding meta tags to an individual post is really quite simple, and similar to how you added meta tags to your entire blog. The difference is you need to tell the browser that if it looks at a different page (an individual post's URL), then the browser should look at a different set of keywords.

Step 1

Log into your blogger account > Go to "Design" tab.

Step 2

Click on "Edit HTML" link, and arrive at HTML editor text box.

Step 3

Download template to back up current version.

Step 4

Look for the following line:

(Essentially anywhere inside the <head> section, but I like being specific.)

Step 5

Right above the line, add the following code for each individual post:

<b:if cond='data:blog.url == "Post URL"'/>
<meta content='the best keywords you can think of for your current post' name='keywords'/>
<meta content='Post Description' name='description'/>
</b:if/>

** NOTE: You must add the code above for each individual post.

Step 6

Replace "Post URL" with your post's actual URL. Replace "the best keywords you can think of for your current post" with the keywords you want to use for your individual post.

Step 7

Save and publish.

Update since last publish:

** Note: Thank you Melli at Casual beauty and Ebony Young at Vaintastic for your questions. They asked if you need to do all seven steps above for each post.

The answer is: yes. But you can also pick your most recent, or most popular, post(s), because they generate the most traffic. That's what I do, actually.

I am no expert, so if anyone else has other ideas or knowledge, please leave a comment or shoot me an email.

How are my meta tags working out?

Since I implemented meta tags on Girlie Blog Seattle, I have seen a hike of about 150 - 200 visitors per day (from 450 to about 600 daily visitors on average.)

Please also realize that because of other writing assignments, I haven't been marketing myself and commenting on other blogs as much. So this improvement in visitor counts, though not scientifically proven, does attribute to adding meta tags to some degree.

At day's end, I think my visitor count for today was around 550.

That's all the blogging tips for today.

Any blogging tips you want to share?

Seattle Weekend - Sunset over Elliot Bay

2012-02-19T15:31:00.000-08:00

The best remedy for a miserable cold? Stepping outside for fresh air.

This weekend was awful -- stuffy nose, congestion, and forcing medicine down my throat. On top of that, Saturday was rainy like usual. I felt like curling under the blanket all day.

A sudden sun break, however, appeared at dusk. It motivated me to step outside for fresh air.

One very pleasant thing about neighborhoods in Seattle is that wherever you live, you have a gorgeous view in your back yard. From the Olympics to the West to the Cascades on the East side, Seattle is surrounded by 360 degrees of natural beauty.

On Saturday evening, my family and I watched a beautiful sunset over Elliot Bay. The view was unmistakably a calm and lovely experience. No matter how bad of a day I had, one look over the burning horizon, life turned into heaven.

Speaking of heaven, doesn't this brownie sundae look heavenly? Every bite packed chocolate gooeyness.

I enjoyed my brownie sundae with a frothy latte.

At the end of the night, I did curl up under the blanket, and watched one of the best Ryan Gosling movies yet.

Have you seen Drive, by the way? Pretty interesting plot. A definite recommend.

My Seattle weekend was pretty chill and relaxed, as you can tell.

How was your weekend?

Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub Review

2012-02-19T00:26:00.000-08:00

Adult acne happens to more people than you think. According to AcneResource.org, "at an estimate, acne affects...50 percent of adult women."

50 percent. Ouch! Bet you all adult acne sufferers, myself included, are in search of a good cleanser.

Enter Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub. "Santa" left it for me in the stocking last Christmas, and it claims to treat acne and clear skin. After two months of using this product, I am ready to review. Hope you all think it's useful.

Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

Give pores a breath of fresh air

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

Formula felt tingly on the face. A definite refresher.

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

Our gentle yet effective face scrub uses perfectly spherical beads—not jagged edges—and the pore-unclogging power of salicylic acid to deep-clean clogged pores.

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

The beads were tiny, smooth and round.
They felt really nice against my skin.

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

The scrub unclogs pores by penetrating deep down where blemishes start, and helps prevent future breakouts.

My Take on Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

No offense, but I honestly did not feel the scrub "penetrate deep down." How are you supposed to tell, any way?

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

Show the door to nasty pore-cloggers with this face scrub and get ready for beautifully clear, smooth skin.

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

I do feel that the scrub cleaned well. However, I don't feel the scrub alone cleared clogged pores.
I use it after steaming my face, which opens pores. So of course the scrub cleans deep into the pores.
I don't think it is any more special than other scrubs.

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to the bottle)

Acne treatment and complexion clearing.

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

I did not see a huge difference in my acne problem.
Complexion did not even out as expected

Likes:

Nice scrub. Cleaned well.
Great price.
Refreshing, tingly sensation after use.
Beads felt really good.
Thick foam after scrub. Didn't thin out.

Dislikes:

Did not deep clean like it claimed.
No real adult acne help.
Not too much different from other products.

Overall Rating:

3/5

Re-purchase?

Maybe. I'd like to try a few other products first.

Tube-style bottle was easy to use.

Formula was nice and thick.

Scrub felt refreshing on the skin.

Thanks for reading. Hope you found the review helpful.

Have you tried Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub?

Do you have any face scrub to suggest?

Blog Love Therapy Blog Hop

2012-02-18T20:30:00.000-08:00

Blog Love Therapy, an online blog directory, is hosting a blog hop this month.

What is a Blog Hop?

A blog hop is a list of blogs with similar interests linking up to each other.

Why should you blog hop?

In addition to connecting with other bloggers, you get to expose your own blog as well.

When does Blog Love Therapy blog hop end?

Next Saturday.

So hop on over to Blog Love Therapy and join the fun now.

Kate Beckinsale for Friday Girl Crush

2012-02-18T02:21:00.000-08:00

Among all the Kates of Great Britain, Kate Beckinsale may be the fairest of them all. Quiet and exquisite, Beckinsale look every bit the quintessential English rose. Until she suits up in tight vampire gear, and kicks some serious booty.

In addition to beautiful and bodacious, Beckinsale is also versatile -- epics, romantic comedies and adventure, she has done them all, and done them well.

Photo credit:

http://graphicdesignjunction.com/

Young Kate Beckinsale

Beckinsale was born in England, in 1973. Dad was actor Richard Beckinsale. (He passed away when Kate was young.) Mom was actress Judy Loe. Guess acting was in her genes. Three years into Oxford, Beckinsale decided to pursue acting as a career.

Her Big Break

After small roles in television and movies, and a few movies that flopped, Beckinsale caught her big break as leading lady in 2001's Pearl Harbor. Though critics did not favor the movie, fans noticed Beckinsale's charming looks.

Photo Credit:

http://www.screenjunkies.com

She then played opposite John Cusack in romantic comedy Serendipity -- one of my Valentine date favorites, and then BAM! She emerged as a leather-wearing, gun-swinging vampire in Underworld.

A Break from Block Busters

After all that action from Underworld, Beckinsale was involved in smaller projects like 2007's independent film Snow Angels and 2009's feel good movie Everybody's Fine.

Beckinsale Back in Action

Even though a quieter career suited her well, and perfected her acting chops too, Beckinsale was ready for action again. In 2012, she finished a third installment of Underworld Series, and is currently working on a remake of Total Recall.

Really can't wait to see her kick booty again.

Photo Credit: Flickr, Karen in Toronto

Kate Beckinsale -- Are you crushing on her too?

Comfort Foods - Tuscan Tomato Bisque and Grilled Cheese

2012-02-17T01:22:00.000-08:00

Do you need a remedy for cold weather?

Comfort foods do it for me. I especially like Tuscan Tomato Bisque from the local Safeway. It's creamy, spicy and packed with flavor. I like my tomato bisque with a juicy grilled cheese.

Tuscan Tomato Bisque - Creamy, Delicious, Comforting

Next time you need comfort in cold weather, try a bowl of hot tomato bisque.

Comfort foods - the instant mood lifter.

What is yours?

Cute Dress Up Ideas for Tank Tops

2012-02-16T01:49:00.000-08:00

Are you a tank top and jeans girl like me? If so, then you know my dilemma -- while dressing down in tank top and jeans is an easy style, it looks plain and mundane. As much as you'd like to reflect a casual street style, and rock that girl next door look, your plain ensemble could use a bit dazzle.

Tank top and jeans are my go to, but this outfit needs a serious makeover

Don't worry. I don't suggest walking out the door all bling-ed up like a tribal bride on her wedding day. Just additions here and there to take you from casual to casually dressed up.

Cute Dress Up Idea 1 - Long Necklace

Drape a long necklace to add glitz. While at it, why not add matching bracelets too?

Long Necklace and Braided Bracelet from Forever 21
Chained Bracelet from MzFashionCloset

Cute Dress Up Idea 2 - Scarf

Wrapping a scarf around your neck creates dimension to a flat outfit. It also adds patterns and prints to a basic black tank top.

Dress up with a silk scarf adds a nice layer to your flat tank top

Cute Dress Up Idea 3 - Vest

Think outside the box. Think men's wear. Wearing a vest gives your outfit authenticity.

A pin striped vest also offers slimming effect

Seattleite meets Dick Tracy

Do you have any cute dress up ideas for tank tops?

So About What I Said Owner Melissa Blake Guest Posts about the Power of Blogging

2012-02-15T13:26:00.000-08:00

I am thrilled to have Melissa Blake of So About What I said as a guest. I read her blog everyday, and it has been an inspiration to me. Please enjoy her hearty take on the power of blogging.

Melissa on her 29th birthday

Hello, everyone! My name is Melissa, and I blog over at So AboutWhat I Said. As a writer and journalist, words have always been my passion. In fact, it's hard to remember a time when I wasn't writing, whether it be for my college's newspaper or for a magazine article after I graduated. I was, am and will always be a writer -- plain and simple. So, it only seemed natural when I found myself starting a blog 3 years ago. All writers should have blogs, I thought. At the very least, it will keep me writing and help me stay focused since freelancers don't have typical 9-to-5 jobs and it's easy to get distracted sometimes.

When I started blogging, I knew I wanted to write about love and my physical disability. But what I didn't know? How much I'd grow over the next 3 years and how much my blog would grow with me and help shape the person I am today. Because truthfully, I had virtually no idea where it would all take me or the lessons I would learn along the way. Here are my Top 3 (Unexpected) Blogging Lessons of the last 3 years...

Blogging gives you a sense of community

Ask any blogger and they'll tell you that the sense of community in the blogging world is unlike anything that you could ever imagine. I've gotten to know people I never would have had the opportunity to meet. It's such a supportive community, and everyone genuinely cares about each other. We've laughed, cried and even shared our dreams with each other.

Blogging gives you insight into yourself

Not only does it give you the chance to get to know other bloggers, but blogging gives you a glimpse inside yourself. For me, blogging has forced me to write truthfully and honestly -- sometimes about painful things like my father's suicide and my struggles with depression last year -- in a very candid way that I'm not sure I'd be able to do in real life. Blogging was just the outlet I needed to help me get through a very painful time. And, I was glad that readers could identify with what I was writing about; it's good to know I may have helped someone else going through the same thing.

One of the many positive messages from Melissa's blog.

Blogging helps relieve stress

For some people, chocolate is their go-to when they're stressed and overwhelmed. For me, it's blogging. Any time I need to relax and unwind, all I have to do is start writing a blog post. My favorites have always been my LettersTo My Future Husband since I'm a hopeless romantic.

What about you, friends? What has surprised you the most about blogging? How has it changed you for the better? I'd love to hear from you! xoxo

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Writer/Blogger/Columnist

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How to Have a Thrifty Valentine's Day

2012-02-14T16:40:00.000-08:00

Happy Valentine girlies! How is your day going?

Kiddo and I spent today going on a quick play date, enjoying sushi lunch, and devouring chocolate-covered strawberries. Can't you see I'm tiring her out, so she goes to bed early tonight?

After we put the kiddo down, hubby and I plan to spend our Valentine's at home. Because we are living on one salary, we no longer have money for extravagant Valentine's celebration and presents. And since we already went out during the weekend, our actual Valentine's will be a frugal one.

However, it doesn't mean we won't have a good time. In fact, a thrifty Valentine's date is the funnest.

Wear something romantic

Clothes shouldn't cost more than a meal. If you dig enough at thrift stores or discount shops, you can find cute clothes for a great deal.

For Valentine's Day, I wanted to wear something romantic and flirty -- what better combo than a red shirt with floral details and sequins?

I got this top at Ross for $5 -- super thrifty, right?

Ross - one of the best discount stores in Seattle

Love this shirt's florals and sequins

Wore it with a pair of wide-legged trousers for tonight

Eat something sweet

Do you know what your man's favorite dessert is? Bet you he'd like to have some tonight.

Hubby loves chocolate, and goes soft for devil's cake. So I picked one in a heart shape.

Delicious Chocolate Devil's Cake from the local bakery

Coincidentally, hubby also bought me one of my favorite type of chocolates.

Ferrero Rocher

Write a love letter

Sometimes, the simplest things can make someone's day, or steal their hearts.

Ever since we met eight years ago, hubby and I have exchanged cards. Sometimes, we even do it out of the blue.

Even though words cannot express how much I love and appreciate him, I can certainly try.

Valentine's card - $3.99. Seeing him read it - priceless.

Buy flowers

Flowers, especially roses, symbolize love. They don't cost much, but say a whole lot. I was lucky that hubby bought roses for me.

Beautiful roses from my sweetheart

In the end...

Indulgent meals and expensive presents were nice for a couple of love chasing young-lings, but hubby and I have matured into a family that values time together more than what money can buy.

In the end, you just can't buy love.

Happy Valentine's Day!

How are you celebrating tonight?

Blogging Tips Weekly - What is a Hook, and How to Use a Hook to Draw Readers in?

2012-02-13T15:43:00.000-08:00

If you are going to die, how would you spend your last seconds on earth?

Okay. That was dramatic. But I got your attention. (And don't you worry your pretty, little head. I'm certain you have a long and prosperous life ahead.)

Your blog, however, is much more ill fated. With millions of blogs on the web, readers don't stay in one place for long. This gives your blog mere seconds to "live."

How long do visitors stay on a blog?

Visitors to your blog are on a strict timer. Don't let them leave so quickly.

I haven't actually conducted an analysis myself. But according to online resources, visitors stay on one site for anywhere between a few seconds to a few minutes.

Problogger used a metric tool once, and concluded that visitors spend, on average, 96 seconds on his site. (You can read his article here.)

96 seconds is short, especially for a blog as interesting as his. If you want your readers to linger, then, you need to capture their attention, and do it quickly.

What is a hook?

In journalism, a hook is something that draws the audience in. It sparks curiosity in readers and tells them why they should read your blog RIGHT NOW.

So, want to capture readers and make them stay? Add a hook (or two) to each blog entry.

Hook your readers, so they'll stay and come back.

Why are hooks helpful?

Do I have to explain this part? Okay. Fine. Consider this scenario: I'm blogging about a lipstick haul from target.

Here's a version without hooks:

I wandered into Target today.

I walked through the makeup aisle, as always.

I saw L'Oreal's latest spring collection. I picked one of the lipsticks from this collection in "bubble gum pink."

I love this color, because it's so pretty and spring-y.

(Insert swatch.)

Excuse me, you still awake?

Wakeup lazy cat. The good part's coming.

Here's a version with hooks:

Have you seen the latest spring collection from L'Oreal? Bursts of pinks, reds and funky colors, all with some type of yummy name -- mango peach or sugar plum berry, anyone?

No thanks, but I'll take -- and I did -- a lipstick in "bubble gum pink." Its color looks as delicious as its name.

(Insert swatch)

Thanks again, L'Oreal, for offering us the latest and best makeup for spring. Now that I've just hopped into Target and got mine, when are you getting yours?

Hope you get the idea.

Where should I place hooks?

Essentially, anywhere you want. However, I suggest two places: 1) In the beginning, to "hook" the reader, and 2) in the middle, when your writing starts to "lag." The minute you feel like you are blabbing, wake it up with a catchy tune.

Suggestions for writing hooks

Your hook should reflect your own personality, as well as the unique voice of your blog. Do what you are comfortable with, but if you run into writer's block, here are some suggestions:

Question

This is my favorite type of hook. Ask a question, let readers think of an answer. Then they have just invested in your blog, and will most likely remain.

Quotes

Quotes work because they are interesting and exudes a personable approach. They don't even have to be from famous people.

Example:
"Time heals everything," said my best friend, who survived one of the worst breakups with a boyfriend.

If she can let something as precious as a 5-year relationship go, you can part with the brand, new Jimmy Choos you cannot afford...

Dilemma

Bloggers, especially women, like to lend a hand and offer advice. Start your blog entry with a dilemma. Ask people for their help.

Example:
Polka dots or stripes? I just can't decide. With a limited budget, I can only pick one trend to buy. Really need readers' help today.

Metaphor

Metaphors make people think on a different dimension -- and everyone likes intellectual stimulation.

Example:
If blogs are like books, then my blog is a comic book. I write with humor and use a lot of pictures.

Wow. I just said an earful. That's all for today girlies.

Do you use a hook to draw readers in?

If so, do you have any good ideas for writing a good hook?

Fitness After Pregnancy - One-Arm Tricep Extension with Dumbbell

2012-02-13T01:38:00.000-08:00

Looking for tricep exercises?

Pregnancy makes you lose muscle tone. After having a baby, you often find your triceps jiggle and flab. To tone them, you need to continuously perform tricep exercises.

One-arm tricep extension with dumbbell is one of the best tricep workouts. Not only does it stretch and strengthen your triceps, it is also easy to do. This tricep exercise doesn't require much space, equipment or movements. Plus, you can do it while watching your favorite TV shows.

One-arm tricep extension - Step 1

Sit upright on a chair or bench.

Grab a dumbbell of suitable weight, and extend arm straight above your head.

Remember to not lock your elbow.

Sitting up right helps control your movements.

Tip: To help balance arm, gently press on the tricep of the extended arm with your free hand.

One-arm tricep extension - Step 2

Slowly lower the dumbbell behind your head with forearm.

Keep upper arm steady.

Stop when your forearm is parallel to the floor.

One-arm tricep extension - Step 3

Slowly raise dumbbell up again to starting position.

Move your forearm, but keep upper arm in position.

Repeat movement for 10 reps and switch arms.

Try to complete 3 to 4 sets.

That's all the tricep exercises I can handle for today :O)

Have you found the best tricep exercises to share?

Seattle Weekend - Cactus Restaurant for Valentine's Date

2012-02-12T14:59:00.000-08:00

Hi girlies, how is everyone's weekend so far?

Sunday is gray skies in Seattle again. Hubby and I just put the kiddo down for a nap, and are reminiscing about our wonderful Valentine's Date last night.

Have you heard of Alki Beach? It's a stretch of natural sand along Elliot Bay in West Seattle that overlooks the peaceful Sound, as well as Seattle's beautiful skyline.

Along Alki, there are many shops and restaurants, including local favorites Duke's Chowder House and Spud's.

A friend of ours suggested Cactus on Alki, so hubby and I decided to venture out to West Seattle and enjoy Mexican cuisine.

Cactus Restaurant

Cactus Restaurant Alki

Since its opening in 1990, in Seattle's Madison Park, Cactus has been serving a fusion of Southwestern, Mexican and Spanish foods. It opened its second restaurant in downtown Kirkland in 2002, and branched out later to Alki and South Lake Union.

For more information on Cactus, look here.

Ambiance

Dim lights, cozy seating -- Cactus Alki provided both a romantic and comfortable atmosphere. Though the restaurant seemed busy, hubby and I enjoyed each other's company at a quite spot for two.

Food and Drink

With a full menu of delicious dishes and specialty drinks, we had a hard time picking our dinner. Eventually we decided on some mouthwatering choices.

Colorful and sweet mangotini.

Fruity Sangria.

Carnitas chimichanga with Spanish rice.

Lamb tomales.

Service at Cactus Restaurant

Our server Brian was friendly and attentive. Food came quickly and our water glasses were never empty.

We were mostly impressed by the restaurant's management, who came out and greeted us herself. In addition to her cordiality, she also presented us free dessert, for simply coming to Cactus for the first time.

Scrumptious flan swimming in melted caramel.

Valentine's Date After Party

Hubby and I don't go out by ourselves often, because babysitters are expensive. But when we do, we have a really good time, as we did on our Valentine's Date last night.

The best part, however, was returning to the comfort of our own home, and spending "alone time."


Hubby went to Victoria's Secret - he shouldn't have!

Have you been to Cactus Alki?

How are you celebrating Valentine's?

Whitney Houston Dies at Age 48

2012-02-12T02:10:00.000-08:00

We all die sometime. Some of us, however, die young.

On February 11, 2012, singer Whitney Houston passed away. She was only 48.

A New Jersey native, Houston was the daughter of a gospel singer, and grew up performing. Her golden voice caught the attention of music execs, and soon became a common name on pop charts. Emmies, Grammies, movies -- Houston snagged them all, and became a sensation.

Her personal life, however, was far from sensational. With a public marriage (to singer Bobby Brown) and a very public divorce (with Brown as well), the pop diva fell victim to substance abuse and scrutiny.

For a while, Houston vanished from the public eye only to return today with shocking news of her death.

Officials have not determined the cause of death, but no foul play was discovered. An autopsy is scheduled.

No. No one lives forever. But Houston's untimely death is perhaps an honest reminder to us all that fame and money doesn't buy happiness.

The faster you reach the top, the quicker you fall down.

Good-bye talented and beautiful Whitney Houston -- may you rest in peace.

Subtle Neon - How to Wear 2012 Neon Fashion Trend in Three Subtle Ways

2012-02-11T02:37:00.000-08:00

Can you believe that New York Fashion Week is already in full swing? Crazy, isn't it? While designers introduce the newest of fall, girlies like us are still getting used to spring and summer fashion trends.

One of the brightest 2012 fashion trends is neon. Boy has it become a favorite in blogosphere! Fellow bloggers have worn the neon trend in all kinds of ways -- color blocking, leggings...you name it!

Unlike those brave souls on fashion blogs, I get timid about wearing the latest style. Something as loud as the neon trend certainly intimidates me. But they, you only live once, right? If I can't go full-on neon like others, there are alternative ways to do it.

Here are three subtle but cute ways to wear 2012 neon fashion trend:

Neon Nail Polish

A great way to wear brights is to try it for makeup. Painting your nails a bright color is an inconspicuous way to introduce neon trend.

Try Wet n' Wild Wild Shine in Sunny Side Up.

Bright polish for brighter days ahead.

Neon Accessories

Next time you step out, punch up your outfit with a neon accessory. The clutches I saw at Target below make great adornments.

Neon clutches from Target

Aren't they adorable?

Mix Fun with Business

Color blocking with various shades of neon looks super cute. A subtler way, however, is to pick one neon item, and mix it with something less attention-grabbing.

Here I have paired a neon print top with a business-y pencil skirt -- a witty way to add a trendy twist to classic pieces, right?

A neon top can really spice up an outfit.

Don't you just love pencil skirts? They are such classics.

Do you like the latest fashion trend of neon?

How do you wear the neon trend?

Friday Girl Crush - Olivia Thirlby

2012-02-10T20:52:00.000-08:00

Don't let her good looks fool you. Actress Olivia Thirlby is more than meets the eye.

A trained thespian, Thirlby was named one of "Hollywood's New Wave" by Vanity Fair Magazine -- and Vanity Fair is never wrong. At only 25 years of age, she already has a number of award-worthy films under her belt, including Oscar-winning movie Juno and Sundance winner The Wackness.

Studious New Yorker

In New York City, here Thirlby was born, she attended Friends Seminary in Gramercy neighborhood, and then attended French Woods Festival of Performing Arts in Upstate New York. To further perfect her crafty, Thirlby also studied at American Globe Theatre, Royal Academy of Dramatic Arts, and British Academy of Stage and Screen Combat.

Film Career

Prior to her breakout role in 2007's critically acclaimed independent film Juno, Thirlby appeared in several movies and TV shows. But her performance as Juno co-star Ellen Page's bestie escalated Thirlby's movie career.

Since then, she was cast opposite Ben Kingsley in The Wackness, Seth Rogen in Pineapple Express, and No Strings Attached with Natalie Portman.

They are just a few of Thirlby's accomplishments.

Hollywood's Rising Star

What's next for the young actress? A slew of new movies yet to be released, many wonderful opportunities, and surely anywhere her talent can take her.

Maybe an Oscar? I wouldn't be surprised.

Are you crushing on Olivia Thirlby?

Eyeshadow Color for Dark Brown Eyes? Try Olive.

2012-02-09T16:44:00.000-08:00

Do you have trouble finding the right eye makeup colors for your eyes?

Whether you shop drug stores or high end department stores, makeup brands always try to but never really oblige to an individual's eye color.

Being Asian, I have dark brown eyes. They are not brown. They are not light brown. They are almost black. It has been a challenge finding a suitable eyeshadow color for eyes as dark as mine.

Last year, I stumbled upon an olive- and green-toned E.L.F eyeshadow duo. The colors looked so earthy, I wondered if they would be good eyeshadow colors for someone with dark brown eyes like mine?

A pretty pair -- E.L.F eyeshadow in olive and green

This eye palette cost around $2 - so affordable, right?

This E.L.F eyeshadow palette contained rich pigmentation. I especially liked the olive color.

E.L.F eyeshadow swatches

The olive and green colors looked very nice on the skin.

In all honesty, the olive and green eyeshadow pleasantly surprised me. The colors blended well and looked subtle and becoming.

Here's an eye makeup how to with my E.L.F eyeshadow duo:

Step 1

Use an eye makeup brush, apply olive eyeshadow to your lids.

Keep it below the crease lines.

An eye makeup brush is great for application.

Here's a tip: Dab shadow on in small, steady motions. Don't just sweep across the lids.

Step 2

Apply green eyeshadow to just the outer corner of your crease line.

Blend green and olive eyeshadows.

Remember to blend well. Don't go into the brow bone.

Step 3

Using a blending brush, apply cream-colored eyeshadow to the brow bone.

Using another E.L.F eyeshadow here.

To highlight, a blending brush is a must.

Apply highlighter in circular motion gives the best results.

Step 4

Curl lashes and add mascara.

Done.

Subtle olive and green - great for day.

Keep the rest of the face muted so that focus is on your eyes.

Do you like olive eyeshadow?

What are your favorite eyeshadow colors for brown eyes?

Hump Day Hunk - Armie Hammer

2012-02-08T19:47:00.000-08:00

Today's Hump Day Hunk came highly recommended by a mom friend, and I don't blame her. Armie Hammer, with his clean cut, all-American look, is too gorgeous for words.

Armie Hammer looking gorgeously clean cut.

Aren't those the prettiest baby blues?

Although he isn't the most well known actor yet, 25-year-old Hammer has already been in two Oscar-worthy movies -- he played entitled twin brothers Cameron and Tyler Winklevoss in Oscar nominated Social Network, and Clyde Tolson in 2011's J. Edgar. Both movies earned him notable award nominations.

Armie Hammer co-stars with Leonardo DiCaprio in J. Edgar.

His performance in J. Edgar just might earn him an Oscar nod.

What's next for Hammer? He co-stars with Julia Roberts in the upcoming Mirror Mirror, and Johnny Depp in The Lone Ranger.

I cannot wait to see what wonderful performances he is going to offer.

Happy Hump Day girlies!

What do you think of Armie Hammer?

Casual Fashion Style for Movie Date - an Outfit Post

2012-02-08T01:09:00.000-08:00

Thanks to my wonderful parents, who offered to babysit, hubby and I finally went to the movies for the second time in the last year and a half. We were so excited to be out by ourselves that it didn't really matter what movie we saw.

I have seen teenage girls in glamorous outfits and makeup at the movies, but they are rare. Most people in Seattle wear casual street style. Jeans, for example, are extremely popular here.

Following Seattle's casual style fashion myself, I decided to go with a simple top, Levis and boots.

Casual style with a pair of overly worn Levis and boots

A little windy that day.

Not posing - I swear! Just trying to keep hair from flying.

To add a romantic touch, I wore a beaded necklace and bracelets.

Jewelry from Forever 21

Also, I chose an easy day makeup of soft gray eyes and pink gloss.

Easy day makeup goes well with casual outfits

In the end, we decided on Sherlock Holmes 2, and enjoyed it with popcorn and soda. It was certainly a fun movie date with the hubby.

What do you wear on a movie date?

Do you deck yourself out or dress in casual fashion style?

*Seattle Beauty and Fashion Blog - Girlie Blog Seattle

How to Color Block? Color Block Dress Up and Fashion Tips

How to Color Block:

Do you have any colorblock tips to share?

Seattle Weekend - Kids Birthday Party, Freelance Assignment, BLiv and Mob Wives

Kids Birthday Party

Kids birthday party's essential ingredients:

Healthy snacks for kids

Freelance Writing Assignment

BLiv Skincare Products

Mob Wives

Casual Weekend Outfit Idea - Plaid Shirts for Women

Why is Plaid Popular?

Womens Casual Wear in a turquoise shaded plaid.

How to Wear Plaid Shirts for Women?

Aren't skinnies the best jeans for women?

They sleek up any outfit.

Are you deciding what to wear this weekend?

How do you feel about casual shirts in plaid?

Moons over my Hammy - Easy and Healthy Recipe for Play Dates

Moons over my Hammy

Healthy Meals for Kids and Adults

Ingredients

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So, are you ready to make your own moons over my hammy?

Do you have any easy and healthy lunch recipes to share?

7 Types of People to Unfriend on Facebook

7 Types of People to Unfriend on Facebook

Do you have anything to add?

Have you unfriended someone on facebook?

Eye Shadow Color for Dark Brown Eyes - Soft Pink

Cover Girl Eye Enhancer -- One of the Best Cheap Eye Shadows Out There

Step 1

Line upper and bottom lash lines with a dark brown or black eye liner.

Step 2 (Optional)

Using an eyeliner brush, or a sponge tip, smudge the stop line.

Step 3

Using a blending brush, apply the shimmery eye shadow all over lids.

Step 4

Curl lashes. Add mascara.

Soft, pink, shimmery eye shadow -- one of the best eye shadows for dark brown eyes.

Do you think soft pink is a good eye shadow color for brown eyes?

Finding Your Signature Scent - Dos and Don'ts

Do: Revert to Classics

Don't: Try on Old Perfume

Do: Get Perfume Samples, Perfume Minis, or Perfume Sets

Don't: Buy Perfume in a Huge Bottle

Do: Test Products. One at a Time. And Wait.

Don't: Test Multiple Products at the Same Time

Do: Use a Fragrance Finder Tool

Don't: Ask Your Dad

Signature Scents -- What is yours and do you have any tips to share?

Blogging Tips Weekly - How to Add Meta Tags with Keywords to Individual Blog Post on Blogger

Why add keywords and meta tags to individual blog posts?

How to add meta tags to individual blog posts?

How are my meta tags working out?

That's all the blogging tips for today.

Any blogging tips you want to share?

Seattle Weekend - Sunset over Elliot Bay

My Seattle weekend was pretty chill and relaxed, as you can tell. How was your weekend?

Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub Review

Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

My Take on Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to Biore.com)

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

The Claim - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub (according to the bottle)

My Take - Biore Pore Unclogging Scrub

Likes:

Dislikes:

My Seattle weekend was pretty chill and relaxed, as you can tell.

How was your weekend?

Comfort foods - the instant mood lifter.

What is yours?

Long Necklace and Braided Bracelet from Forever 21
Chained Bracelet from MzFashionCloset

Step 1

Use an eye makeup brush, apply olive eyeshadow to your lids.