But now I’m looking forward to another special holiday dedicated to love: Valentine’s Day in April (celebrated April 14). Now, before you groan and think, “Geez, just what I need: another holiday to try to live up to.” Let me give you some good news: It’s not an official holiday and your honey doesn’t even know about it.

In fact, that’s the whole point of this holiday! The idea is to surprise your sweetheart with a special evening dedicated to your love for one another. The element of surprise is exactly what will enhance the fun and romance of the evening. She or he will be caught totally off guard and will be very happily surprised that you wanted to celebrate a special romantic night out together for no particular reason at all. No calendar obligations, no expectations from your partner, just a wonderful night of romance.

So, this April 14th let’s surprise our significant others with a wonderful night of romance. You will be amazed at how happy they will be. But make sure you treat this special night with the same care you would for Valentine’s Day — flowers, box of chocolates, dress up, reservations at a nice restaurant, pull out chair for her… you know the drill. Mark it on your personal calendar and make it a special night to remember!

Have you been the recipient of such a kindness as this?

I’m telling you that if you want to claim a number one spot in the heart of the person you love, then look for opportunities to step in and publicly defend your partner.

No one likes to be publicly humiliated or publicly put down. If you will be the one to spare your loved one public put downs and to turn the situation around so that you are actually testifying to the positive qualities of your loved one, you will surely warm his or her heart and become their personal hero. Nothing is more endearing than to see someone stick up for you while everyone is turned against you.

It comes down to the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

This Rule should be applied all the more to your sweetheart and don’t forget to follow this rule when in public. If someone puts down your honey thinking that they can pull you into joining them in mocking or demeaning your loved one, give them a little surprise and stand by your man or woman while the heat is on.

This is truly the most romantic, heart-warming gift you can give.

Well, I just found out about a Valentine’s Special being run by the top relationship guru that I know of. He has been on Oprah and has been featured on over 400 radio and television shows.

He doesn’t just talk the talk — he walks the walk! He has been happily married for 17 years and he and his wife have never had a fight. Does this sound unbelievable to you? Well, to tell you the truth, my wife and I have been using many of Michael Webb’s secrets in our marriage of 7 years and we also enjoy incredible happiness and NO FIGHTS in our marriage.

In fact, my wife was just saying the other night, “How is it that after being married for seven years I am still just as in love with you as when we were dating?”

Would you like to know how to keep your relationship THAT fresh? Would you like to know all the secrets to a blissfully happy life together?

All the secrets to a blissfully happy love relationship are all laid out for you in these books — and you can get Five FREE if you take action BEFORE Valentine’s Day.

Here are the books that will guide you to the happy love relationship you were designed for:

Okay, let’s get you your books:

The green one, The Newlyweds’ Guide to a Happy Marriage, was written by me and I’m giving you a Free copy HERE (link opens in new window for you)

Get the five remaining books by Oprah relationship expert, Michael Webb, and by another relationship guru HERE (link opens in new window for you)

This is what you will get on that Valentine’s Special page:

50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships

50 More Secrets of Blissful Relationships

101 Romantic Ideas

Keep Your Marriage: What to Do When Your Wife Says ‘I Don’t Love You Anymore!’

101 Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Wow, in all you will get six amazing relationship books that will guide you to the kind of relationship bliss that is rarely even depicted in the movies — and you get five of them free if you get them now!

The video is by Nicole Gayle who is the author of How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife.

I encourage you to check out Nicole’s website:

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The romantic life you are looking for can be unlocked. The key to better romance is Intimate Questions.

You see, if you and your guy ask each other any of these 500 intimate questions you will learn how to make each other happy in ways you never even thought of before.

You will delve deeply into subjects such as dreams, desires, romance, love, and sex. The 500 intimate questions are categorized according to their level of intimacy so you can build up to the appropriate level of intimacy in your relationship before tapping into the most intimate questions.

In the process of going through these questions together, you will learn about one another (and yourselves!) and become experts at making one another extremely satisfied.

Suddenly, he will be doing exactly what you have always wished for but were too shy to suggest or would never even have thought of if it weren’t for the questions.

You’ll both wonder how you ever lived without your newfound intimacy and deeply romantic and sexually satisfying lives.

Read the entire guide to 500 Intimate Questions for Couples to awaken an intimate relationship more fulfilling than you ever thought was possible.

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Any relationship expert worth his weight in salt will tell you that great romance starts in the mind. If you want the woman in your life to be turned on to you, then you need to excite her mind.

You want the woman of your dreams to give every last ounce of her heart to you?

You want to reinvigorate your stale, boring, or even non-existent sex life?

I don’t care who you are, what you look like, what your checkbook balance is: You are capable of winning her complete devotion and put your sex life on super drive if you can first reach her mind. And that is easier to do than you think if you know this one litte secret: Ask her intimate questions.

That’s it! Is it easy? It is if you know what you’re doing!

If you don’t know what you’re doing, then you’re liable to get slapped across the face and never see her again – because intimate questions are THAT powerful. But don’t be scared away from this powerful method for developing more intense intimacy with the woman you love.

My friend Michael Webb is a relationship genius. He is the author of dozens of relationship books and he has written a guide to asking intimate questions that will teach you how and what to ask a woman to make her totally give her heart to you and turn up the heat in your relationship like crazy. His guide includes 500 intimate questions to ask and he has categorized them according to how intimate they are so you know which ones will be the most effective for where you’re at in your relationship so you can intensify the romance fires like a pro.

Bottom line is that when you follow these strategies for asking intimate questions the woman you care about is going to know that you love her and truly care for her and she is going to start sharing some of the most intimate parts of her mind with you. Once she shares these secrets with you like that her heart will be more yours than EVER before. PLUS these intimate questions will open up a whole new realm that your sex life has never seen before. Read the entire guide to 500 Intimate Questions for Couples to awaken a hot romantically super charged relationship more exciting than your wildest dreams.

But do not despair. Today, I want to share a few tips for dealing with a breakup. Plus, I want to share an amazing tip from my buddy that will immediately help you feel better.

The most important thing to do after a breakup is to rediscover who you are and to love yourself. You had a good life before you met that special someone and you can have a good life again.

Many people make the mistake of jumping right back into the dating pool after a breakup. But if you are not happy with yourself, then you aren’t ready to start offering yourself in a relationship.

Get to know what makes you so special. What makes you attractive — and don’t tell me that you aren’t attractive. That is a big lie! After all, if you weren’t attractive then you wouldn’t have ever gotten into a relationship in the first place.

Do you have a good sense of humor?

Are you smart?

Do you have interesting life experiences?

Are you a loyal person?

Are you gentle?

Are you strong?

Are you kind?

Do you have a unique talent or skill?

Do you enjoy learning new things?

. . . Any one of these and many other qualities make you an attractive person.

Rediscover an old hobby or start up a new hobby. What gets you excited? You are rediscovering who you are. You are an amazing person and spending time with yourself can be a great experience. Once you know how fun it is to spend time with yourself, you will feel better about being by yourself. Also, once you rediscover what a great person you are you will be ready to attract great people who will want to hang out with you. One of these people might turn into something more. . .

Speaking of other people, you have friends and family right? Don’t just spend time by yourself. How did you spend your time before you were in the relationship that took a turn for the worse? You want to get back into that routine or start a new routine.

Go bowling with a friend. Take your parents out to dinner. Go do something for old-time’s sake.

So, for quick healing, return to the routine of your pre-relationship days, have fun with friends and family, and re-discover who you are by exploring your interests in a hobby or something else that you enjoy doing.

Now, my friend T.W. Jackson has seen many breakups because he offers help to people who have been through a breakup. In fact, he has even helped some people restore their relationships with their exes. You might want to check out his website if you feel that you should try to get back with your ex.

But regardless, I think you will find this de-stressing technique to be quite helpful. You will experience instant results and you can do it right now in front of your computer while watching this video.

Here are some ways to kick the romance volume up a notch:

Gifts

The worst thing you can do is forget a birthday, anniversary, holiday, or some other special occasion. These are timeslots built into the calendar year to help you show your love and appreciation for your honey.

The minimum requirement is to remember and give a gift and / or do something special together. You can either meet the minimum requirement, or show extra thoughtfulness and effort to make the occasion extra special.

Surprises

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Surprises are one of the easiest ways to be romantic. All you have to do is treat the day as if it were a birthday or Valentine’s day without being prompted by the calendar. Give a gift or handwritten letter of appreciation “just because I wanted you to know how much I love you.” Keep his or her interests in mind and surprise him or her with tickets to a concert or musical. Be spontaneous. Make a special effort to express your love even when your calendar doesn’t tell you to.

Affection

Walk up to her and kiss her or hug her. Sweep her off her feet.

Show him how much you love him with a hug and kisses. Give him a massage.

Combine your affection with the element of surprise.

Affirmation

Affirmation is like affection except that affection is shown while affirmation is said. When employing affirmation for a romantic moment, tell the person with words how much they mean to you.

Write a love letter telling her what you appreciate about her.

When he needs encouraging, encourage him.

When one of you achieves a goal, celebrate together.

Remind one another that your lives are complete and happy because you are together.

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FACT: your BODY is an ESSENTIAL part of being attractive to women.

There are no ifs, ands, or buts about this matter. There’s no getting around to maintaining a great body that’ll keep women interested in you.

But before you start panicking, let me just say that it’s NOT what you think.

Maybe you’re already spiraling into a heap of self-pity at the thought of perfectly sculpted male models flaunting their brawn in magazines. Perhaps seeing those flawless celebrities on TV with screaming women in the background will lead you to think that you can’t possibly measure up to them.

Perhaps you want to scream, “Crikey, hot women will ONLY go for men like THOSE…how could *I* ever hope to date chicks of that caliber?!”

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Well my friend, I want you to gather all those pre-conceived notions you have about physical looks and take a sledgehammer to them.

It’s all part of reprogramming your ideas about seduction and attraction, which begins with Meet Your Sweet’s groundbreaking book for men:

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Got it? OK…

So: if you believe that you have to look like those guys in order to be outrageously attractive, you’re dead wrong. Look at the world around you and you’ll know I’m right.

Take a stroll around the shopping mall, a park or any other populated area. You’ll find average-looking guys who DON’T look like an actor are holding hands with the hottest babes in the vicinity.

I’m talking about the men who make you think “HOW in the hell did she end up with HIM?”

Are you going to tell me that those men are just a fluke? Are you going to deny the fact that they simply know something that you DON’T?

Take the shutters off your eyes and realize that you too can pull this off! If a regular guy (on the outside at least) can date beautiful women, you can surely do the SAME.

The good news is that your less-than-perfect body is VERY much capable of attracting hordes of gorgeous women.

Even rock stars who dress like they crawled out of a dumpster are able to draw women like moths to a flame. Well, maybe they’re a freak exception because of the baked-in charm that comes with being in a band.

Those guys live on another plane of reality, so the non-rock star demographic can still score big with the beautiful and brainy ladies.

First of all, you need to wrap your mind around this basic truth: the ability to attract women NEVER comes from an outside factor. It’s already within you, and all you need is to get accustomed to using these inner traits.

Thus, you need to STOP comparing yourself to other men. Doing so is the path to madness.

OF COURSE there’s going to be someone who’s thinner, brawnier, richer, taller, or stronger than you.

BUT does that have anything to do with your own attractiveness? Does the existence of “better” men statistically reduce your chances to have a sizeable piece of the action?

That’s a big “N” to the “O”. There are literally millions of women out there, and at least a handful of them will find you attractive.

Yes, YOU. They can AND will see you in an attractive light if you unlearn whatever standards of physical beauty you’ve been made to believe in.

Don’t fret about losing ALL the good women to other guys; there’s plenty enough to go around for everyone.

The problem with us guys is that we’re primarily into the visual aspect of attraction when it comes to selecting a partner. Before a man finds a girl attractive, she’s gonna have to fit into his particular set of criteria.

This is why some men automatically ASSUME that women think the same way.

REALITY CHECK: NOT all women need their man to have impossibly good looks to feel attracted to them.

Look, I’m not saying that better-looking guys don’t have an advantage. But what I am saying is that YOU don’t need those things to attract women yourself.

And I’m not trying to contradict myself by saying that looks ARE important. It’s just that it’s not important in the way you might THINK it is.

Let me re-frame your concept of looking good. Physical attributes matter in a “I-look-after-myself-and-care-about-being-a-clean-presentable-man-who-is-serious–about-meeting-women” kind of way.

In other words, it’s more of showing everyone that you have the HABIT of looking the very best you can.

Even a naturally handsome guy would horribly lower his chances if he let himself go. You know: not taking a shower, not shaving, letting his fingernails grow disgustingly long, and so on.

Basically, you’re gonna have to be at your physical best, regardless of the mug you were born with. NO ONE is exempt from this – well, at least those who want to meet and date women.

Let’s get the matter of fitness out of the way. Even guys who are overweight can get beautiful women, but you’ll have an easier time if you have a relatively proportional body.

Besides, ANY guy will stand to benefit from working out on a regular basis. But it doesn’t have to be like the inhumanly merciless exercise program that the cast from “300” had to go through.

You don’t need a six pack, nor are you going to war with the Persian army.

All you need to do is come up with a reasonable schedule (like 2-3 times weekly) for cardiovascular activity. Don’t let the age-old “I don’t have time” excuse get in the way.

Even if you weren’t trying to attract women, working out regularly has been clinically proven to greatly reduce the risk of getting all those life-threatening problems you always hear about.

Not to sound preachy, but if you’re not going to do it for the ladies, at least do it for your own well-being. Any guy who stuck to a fixed workout schedule is bound to lose a few pounds at the very least!

Just as a warning, don’t try one of those fancy-schmancy diets you might have heard about. It’s not a good idea to shock your system by radically changing your eating habits.

You’re better off consulting with a licensed dietician, nutritionist or physician for sound and realistic advice on eating healthy. You could probably stick to working out, but improving your diet (read: not starving yourself) is going to give you quicker results.

Ok, now we move on to DETAILS. Women love a guy who pays attention to details, so I’ll give you a quick walkthough on this matter.

Let’s talk about HAIR. Get a reputable stylist to sit you down and figure out which style TRULY matches your facial features and the general shape of your head.

For instance, guys who are balding should just go all the way and shave their thinning dome. Don’t let errant, lingering, hairs dampen your sex appeal (think about Bill Murray’s character from the movie “Kingpin”!).

Beards and other forms of facial hair are fine as long as they’re trimmed and properly kept under control. Unless you’re only interested in fans of “Lord of The Rings”, don’t think that sporting a Gandalf beard is going to improve your chances.

The same goes for hair from the chest downwards. Modern technology has made it easier for guys to trim these areas, so invest in an electric razor or any other method that will help you in this regard.

Would you want your date to neglect her nether regions as well? Didn’t think so. Be a pal and return the favor.

Additionally, watch out for any stay hairs coming out of your ears or nostrils. Clippers and tweezers don’t cost much, so pick one and get to work.

Your finger and toenails need to be short and free of any grime underneath. If you have the budget for it, go to a men’s salon because they often include a foot scrubbing service along with the package. Otherwise, a pair of clippers isn’t going to break the bank.

Crooked or yellowish teeth need to be treated as well. Check with a specialist on which option will work for your budget. There are plenty of options out there, such as kits you can use at home, or setting an appointment with a qualified dentist.

Trust me, a polished smile is eye candy to women and they’ll definitely NOTICE it. So make the effort to do something about this matter.

Clothes are a bit of a tricky subject because everyone has different ideas about fashion. On a basic level however, your appearance must tell women that you took the time to look good by choosing threads that work best on your frame.

(Again, NOT about physical perfection…)

Generally, clothes with holes and torn seams are a no-no. Shirts and pants that are old and worn out give the impression that you’re immature and don’t care about looking nice for the ladies.

When it comes to picking out stuff that’ll look good on you, ask your friends and sales staff to help you make a decision. Sometimes it takes another pair of eyes to REALLY figure out the exact kind of clothes that suit your specific body type.

While your socks, shoes, belts, and wallet need to look crisp and neat (no scuffs or other battle damage please), they don’t exactly have to cost you a pretty penny outright.

Plenty of quality stuff is on sale in most shopping malls, so start looking there. There’s always a good bargain to be found if you take the time to look!

Lastly, don’t overstuff your pocket. Try not to put anything in there except for your wallet, cellphone and car keys. The less bulkier your pockets are, the sharper you look.

And that about does it. Remember, setting aside enough time for these things will benefit you greatly because it will manifest in how you look.

Women will see AND appreciate the effort you’ve gone through. If we’re defined by what we do repeatedly, then imagine what a habit of good style and grooming can do for you.

They don’t even have to say it – you’ll find that they’ll naturally be more open to chatting with you and you’ll have an easier time approaching them.

Furthermore, knowing that you’re at your best will greatly BOOST your self-confidence.

I mean, wouldn’t you feel more RELAXED and LESS ANXIOUS because you’re aware of how well-put together you are?

In case anyone hasn’t told you, it’s this exact kind of attitude that makes you more eye-catching to women.

Neglecting your looks will make you tense and even apologetic for the very space you’re occupying. That’s not a very attractive vibe to give off, now is it?

If you really want to seal the deal however, might I recommend an excellent book to bring out your seduction skills and self-confidence to the fullest:

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This empowering guide is a must-have for any guy who wants to be THE MAN when it comes to dating. The cool thing about it is that it’ll also improve the other areas in your life.

After all, having a confident personality will help you succeed in ALL of your pursuits, whether it’s your career or a relationship.

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