The High-Strung Loner

Bear Art show

2009-04-26T01:24:52Z

Jim Bloom

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Jim Bloom [Flickr]

2009-04-25T18:19:55-07:00

highstrungloner posted a photo:

at the Bear Art show

Hot guy in the news

2009-04-25T17:33:46Z

Romanian Constantin Marius Mituletu in today’s New York Times.

I’m listening to “Miserablism” from Alternative by Pet Shop Boys.

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Separated at birth?

2009-04-24T05:19:29Z

gayporno000 from the Philadelphia chat room on gay.com and Susan Boyle. gayporno000’s profile is fascinating:

hi every 1 i am so tired of being cheated on i need a man that will love me forever lol bobby ur not that man i thought u were but u r not gay or bi u r str8 i found that out today y didnt u just say u were str8 instead of hurting me again ima make u feel the pain this time watch so every 1 on here i kno the truth he just told me he was str8 so no body talk to youngbod or youngbob wat ever 1 is his screen name unless u wanna get hurt like i did so plz i need a guy that lives close to me and can kick bobbys ass for me and love me forever i need a man that drivess tooo lol

I’m listening to “It Takes All Kinds” from Bachelor No. 2 by Aimee Mann.

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The Exquisite Queer

2009-04-23T03:19:52Z

A few months ago I had my picture taken as part of a project by Dave Kube, a student at Temple’s Tyler School of Art. He explained the project as a sort of “Exquisite Corpse” flip book of gay folks. As usual, I was incredibly uncomfortable getting my picture taken but I got through it. As a kind of payment for being part of the project, he gave his subjects a bunch of photos to take home. Mine were great! I don’t think I’ve ever looked so good. (I say this even though the pictures actually look like me!) Anyways, Dave decided to use this as his thesis project and it's on display for a few days at Temple Gallery. That’s my weird head in the upper right in the postcard above. If you want to see more of Dave’s work, the details are below. April 22-25, 11:00 - 6:00 Reception: April 24, 6:00 - 8:00 Temple Gallery, Tyler School of Art Norris and 12th St., Philadelphia, PA 19122 In the meantime Dave received the well-deserved First Prize in the 4th Annual Juried Art Show in March at William Way GLBT Community Center, where he showed two stunning photographs from another project. My old friend, the great Jimi Mooney (aka Helen Back) got 2nd prize for his equally beautiful collages. Look for them both in future gallery shows at Willian Way.

I’m listening to “Le Feel Internacionale” from A Wizard, A True Star by Todd Rundgren.

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First block on Grindr

2009-04-23T02:36:22Z

I took an entire month, which might be a record, but I finally got some abuse on Grindr. All I did was turn down sex with an 18 year-old. They almost never take that very well. (His messages are on the left, mine on the right.) I wish I had thought to grab his picture before I blocked him.

I’m listening to “Carioca”by Esquivel and His Orchestra from The History of Space Age Pop, Vol.3: The Stereo Action Dimension.

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Separated at birth?

2009-04-17T03:10:10Z

ZenithX3 from the Philadelphia chat room on gay.com and Bat Boy.

I’m listening to “God (Interlude)” from Speakerboxxx/The Love Below by Outkast.

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Blowoff queen

2009-04-09T07:15:06Z

When this guy showed up in the chat room I put him on my gay.com “hot list” because he looked really sexy (with a nice mustache!) in his main picture on gay.com. (Not this one!) It soon became clear that he had an agenda when he almost instantly started mouthing off, out of nowhere, about how “ironic” it is that Madonna is more popular with gay men than Bob Mould is. OK, first of all, there’s nothing ironic about it. Really. Nothing at all. Second, are gay men supposed to flock to Bob Mould simply because he’s a gay man? In my opinion, he hasn’t made a good record since 1985 when Hüsker Dü were still Hardcore and, last time I checked, Bob Mould wasn’t actually popular with anyone. Why pick on gay men for not liking him? No one likes him. Besides, he sings like he’s got a hankie in his throat. When several chatters pointed some of these things out to Mr. Fixit, he retreated, saying, “I’m sorry I brought it up.” I bet. The butcher-than-thou attitude from these Blowoff queens is really tiresome. Blowoff is probably really fun, and the audience have nice hairy faces and hard muscles, but it’s still just a circuit-style dance party with a couple of famous DJs. They play Madonna and even Britney! Please, get over yourselves. As much as I wish they did, muscles and beards (and Black and Decker cordless drills, for that matter) do not make you masculine. Then I read his obnoxious, judgmental (I know, pot/kettle) profile, which I’ve posted in edited form below, and saw his other incredibly silly picture, above. I swear, It looks like something from bad calendar from the 80s. (Love the Daisy Dukes, honey!) Totally embarrassed, I removed him from my list immediately. Sadly, he could still see that I had added him in the first place. The limits of technology continue to vex me. Please note: He’s already won the crunchy race! He says he “was ‘crunchy’ long before you,” so there’s no point even trying. Of course, none of the gay men reading his profile could be nearly as evolved as he is. Please. And don’t forget to “gush” at dinner.

I go to school, I am butch, smart, take care of my body, my mind and my soul....do you? Carry on a conversation for more than 3 lines. Challenge my mind, not my dick. Do not pretend to want to get to know me if you dont read anything on my profile. You will add illiterate to other derogatory words. If all you want are pics to look at you damn well better have some in return. You will notice I do not ask for pictures and that is because I am more interested in who you are than what you look like. What I'm Looking For A man who is not needy, a guy who knows how to do butch things and doesnt feel bad about it. I am not overcompensating, I just dont care to talk endlessly about shit on TV that has no substance. A guy who is a prince on the street and can be a pig in the bedroom. A guy who I could take home to my mom (if she were here) and she would like, cuz I am that guy for him. Someone who likes to snuggle with the pups, prune the dogwood, and gush when a good meal is made for both of us..... Ask Me About Please don's start off asking me about my sexual role. I was 'crunchy' long before you were. Bob Mould, who is a SINGER he is also queer as hell., Richard Morel who is Bob's 'Partner', I love this dude and his homosound....Bob Mould, huskerdu, sugar, copperblue, body of song, last dog and pony show, circle of friends...DISTRICT LINE......don't make me cry any more.....moving vans. Ask Me About Ask me about me, not the size of my dick, whether I am circumcised or not (it is not 'cut' or 'uncut' -- that is an absolutely disgusting question to ask someone you are not face to face with. If all you are shopping for is a fuck, this store is closed to you. I am an intelligent, hardworking sincere, funny, creative, interesting man. I can frame a house or hang an IV. Hobbies I fuckin get HARD over ICE HOCKEY. Music BOB MOULD, RICH MOREL, BLOWOFF DC TV and Film do not ask me if I watch QAF, Queer Eye, yada....I try to fill my head with good stuff, not garbage. I do not play or like video games (maybe Wii).

I’m listening to “Concrete and Clay” by Unit 4+2 from The British Invasion: History of British Rock, Vol. 6.

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Cruising on the iPhone!

2009-04-01T21:33:50Z

During my most recent trip to Atlanta I was lucky enough to get to test a pre-release of Grindr. I think it’s the very first gay hook-up social networking app for the iPhone. Grindr uses the iPhone’s GPS capabilities to find the men closest to you. Users can chat and, with the usual iPhone camera/photo integration features, trade pics. The UI is really nice and navigation is easy. Best of all, it’s FREE! Nice job, guys! Apple has approved the app, so now you can grab it yourself at the App Store. There are already a bunch of guys using it in Philly. The closest one is only 1,300 feet away!

I’m listening to “Raining Dub” from Blind Idiot God by Blind Idiot God.

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Man on the street

2009-03-29T08:17:54Z

This sexy man was having breakfast at the next table at West Egg in Atlanta the other day. He has beautifully hairy arms.

I’m listening to “Melt the Guns” from English Settlement by XTC.

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Barney Fag

2009-03-21T01:37:53Z

From gay.com chat:

WCH_II: barney frank oughta give up his bonus...
PennWhitebread: i heart barney frank
Me: me too
PennWhitebread: incredibly unattractive man but i love him
Me: he used to be much worse!
PennWhitebread: i think it gives him more authority
PennWhitebread: oddly
PennWhitebread: my dad once said during meet the press 'i just cant stop thinking about him going down on someones knob'
PennWhitebread: i nearly peed my pants
PennWhitebread: he throws out some REAL zingers
WCH_II: think hes a top or bottom?
Me: apparently dad thinks he's a bottom
PennWhitebread: i think anyone with a television would assume that

This is funnier than most of you will ever know.

I’m listening to “I Can’t Believe You Would Fall For All The Crap In This Song” from Exotic Creatures of the Deep by Sparks.

Separated at birth?

2009-03-01T00:50:18Z

Philly’s legendary Wibbage “Good Guy” Hy Lit and a local “Bear looking for love.” I first posted this five months ago, in the beginning of September. A friend had pointed out to me that this guy looks a lot like a young Hy Lit and I made graphic to empicturalize it. I didn’t mean to insult or offend him. In fact, it was a compliment. Hy Lit was a really handsome man in and for his time, and well-loved. About a week later I got a nearly unintelligible email from an unidentified person asking me to remove his picture from the top of my web site. The message went on and on about gay.com’s Terms of Service. Since I didn’t get his picture from gay.com, the picture at the top of my web site is a picture of me, and the Hy posting had moved down a few places by then because that’s how blogs work, it took me some time to figure out that it was actually Hy Jr. who was pissed off. I responded via email that I wasn't criticizing him and that no offense was meant. He wasn’t really satisfied with that so I removed the posting entirely. It’s the only posting I’ve ever taken down from The High Strung Loner. Four months later, on New Years Eve night at the Bike Stop, I happened to be occupying the urinal next to Hy II. He looked at me and said, “You are a small, ridiculous idiot” and with a dramatic flourish he left the bathroom. I laughed out loud and I have proudly been using that phrase as my bio-line on gay.com chat ever since. Early this morning in chat, five months after I posted that picture, he started again. Three of us tried in vain to convince him of two things: 1. That the original posting, though ambiguous, was a compliment and 2. That once you post your picture publicly to the internet it’s pretty much fair game. We (well, the other two guys, at least) tried to keep it in good humor but it quickly became obvious that it wasn’t going to work. Getting furious, I said he should be glad I don’t enumerate his repeated racist remarks in the chat room and really embarrassing displays of public drunkenness at the Bike Stop which I haven’t because, until this morning, unbelievably, I still liked him. Then it happened:

delcoguy_: hiv must be a sad lonely existance
Me: i knew that was coming. what a dick
Woof60: you can go there, but it will have no effect.
delcoguy_: and i understand it goes to the brain but really
Me: you think this is making you look better? it's amazing how low gay men will stoop to to be bitchy and that is the lowest. why don’t you go pick on people with cancer?
Woof60: or make fun of a maimed soldier

Anyway, now I don’t give a shit what he thinks and I’m sorry I removed it in the first place. Using HIV as an insult in an argument is nothing less than a sign of self-hatred and homophobia. Coming from a gay man it’s simply grotesque.

I’m listening to “Twist & Crawl” from What Is Beat? by The English Beat.

Anus

2009-01-23T06:49:30Z

Starbucks, 12th & Walnut.

I’m listening to “25 Avril - Orchestral Marstall” from A Year With Swollen Appendices: The Diary of Brian Eno by Brian Eno.

Curious

2009-01-15T03:58:23Z

I have no idea what these posters mean but they’re all over the place in University City and West Philly.

I’m listening to “Golden Age” from Dear Science by TV On The Radio.

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