McBickle Eyes the Transom

This Is My Dog.

2011-03-18T13:37:00.000-04:00

This is AMERICA.

2011-02-15T13:17:00.006-05:00

Mza: How was your Valentine’s Day?

McBickle: Cuckoo and great. We went to Koreatown. It was wild. Then we tried to see a peep show. Then we wandered through the weird gross Hotel Pennsylvania. Then we went to a 3-D IMAX movie about CAVES.

Mza: Weirdest V day ever.

McBickle: YES.

Mza: Fun?

McBickle: YES.

Mza: Great! You were unsuccessful in seeing peep show?

McBickle: Yes.

Mza: Why? This is AMERICA.

McBickle: Well, there were very sketchy men lingering and everything seemed covered in semen, so we perused the massive dildos and left.

Mza: Yeah, isn't there a peep show for women? Guess not.

McBickle: Not in the 32nd st grossness we wandered into.

Mza: Yeah, yeccchh.

McBickle: Yup. There were like dollar booths and there were videos, not live nude girls. So I was disappointed anyway.

Mza: Yeah, stoops.

McBickle: This convo is worth blogging.

Mza: Where'd you go in Koreatown? I never know where to go in Koreatown.

McBickle: I dunno what it was called.

Mza: Was it Valentines-y?

McBickle: Yes! And scary! That movie was terrifying!

Mza: And you had to cling to each other out of fear, etc...

McBickle: YES. No joke. Like, fucking frightening.

Mza: How many people went to see movie about caves on V day?

McBickle: Us and some very nerdy teens.

Gulpfaced fish

2011-01-08T16:24:00.001-05:00

They stood and stared at me like a bag of gulpfaced fish.

Space

2010-12-21T14:19:00.003-05:00

“Space, baby, space,” I said as I leaned into her silken arms. The moon hung brownish red and blurred in my poor prescription glasses but I knew what it was all the same—this was the eclipsed moon that begins the cycle under which we will marry. It’s not astrology I believe in, it is the act of peering into the night sky, of dreaming of stars and the texture of the space between them. It’s what we both did as children and did again together last night. In this act forevermore, we will find our minds reaching toward the dark in concert, holding hands, winding through the byways of time.

This Is Now

2010-11-18T15:01:00.000-05:00

My grandmother is dying. She is on a morphine drip and has been “taken off things.” She goes and I have not seen her in years. Many years. For reasons that I know she does not understand and now never will but never would anyway. I do not know her—what her interior consists of, what she thinks of the world or what her life has been like. She doesn’t know me, but loved me in her way and I loved her back in the way that we love our flesh and blood when it is only flesh, only blood. That and the memories of a kind soft-skinned woman in my very young years before it all went wrong and I lost a sense of where the adults were who could hear a child speak.

And I am getting married. This weekend I am supposed to go with my future wife to Massachusetts to find a place for our wedding and now I feel a split cleaving myself between New York and New England, my past and my future, my suffering and my happiness. This is a life I am living, and these are choices I will make and there is no going back, ever. I see that now.

I Biked 30 Miles to This Wedding

2010-09-07T16:18:00.000-04:00

Because It's Summer in New York

2010-07-26T17:01:00.000-04:00

Irony!

2010-06-15T13:59:00.000-04:00

Ladyfriend: I'm trying to figure out how to serve an attorney who's dead.

McBickle: Hahaha sorry.

Ladyfriend: Hahaha yea.

Rutilated

2010-06-08T15:46:00.001-04:00

Rutilated.

Meditations on the Dumbest Terrorist Ever

2010-05-05T15:07:00.001-04:00

2:55 p.m.

McBickle: http://gawker.com/5531816/faisal-shahzad-total-tourist

Former Fake Boyfriend: Incredible.

McBickle: How the hell did they find that?

FFB: He has a lot of stuff on social networks.

McBickle: Oh weird. He's the dumbest terrorist ever.

FFB: Thankfully, yes.

10:46 a.m.

McBickle: this is the most compelling thing about the car bomber: “He said he spoke Urdu, English and Pashto and liked to work on computers, play sports and ‘talk to people from different backgrounds.’” The last part—right? Like, WTF. You like talking to people of different backgrounds? You DO?

FFB: Hahahahahahah. I know. Being in foreclosure to me is fascinating.

McBickle: GF and I were discussing, like, is it an opposite? A lie? Wait, why?

FFB: To me.

McBickle: Why? Curious.

FFB: Makes him like so many other people. I think terrorism and an inflated housing market are the two biggest stories of our lives. So this has both…and you wonder how people become radicalized.

I Saw This From the Gym

2010-04-25T23:45:00.000-04:00

I Went to the Yucatan. This Is My Head.

2010-04-02T11:20:00.001-04:00

From "Medicina Rossa + Sequenza Blu/Verde"

2010-03-10T11:53:00.001-05:00

(From this series by Alberto Seveso.)

Estimated Arrival of Tsunami Times Off the Coast of Chile Today

2010-02-27T14:11:00.001-05:00

Probably.

2010-02-08T16:06:00.000-05:00

Sparkle: I'm going to Puerto Vallarta in two weeks.
McBickle: Ooh I've been there—gorgeous.
Who you going with?
Sparkle: Was supposed to be my big brother's wedding
but he postponed it.
McBickle: Why?
Sparkle: Not sure.
McBickle: Seems inconvenient.
And...odd.
Sparkle: Yeah.
She's a whore.
Probably.

Silence Made Visible

2010-01-21T10:13:00.002-05:00

"It was late at night, long past midnight. The silence appeared so rich as to have a visual quality, a sparkle or hard gloss, and a thickness too, like fresh paint. This synethesia must have been due to my disorientation, for this was so familiar, lying here in the green field of her stare, feeling her smooth thin arms."

—Ian McEwan, Enduring Love

Tailoring for Men and Woman

2010-01-10T13:09:00.000-05:00

Happy New Year From My Totem

2009-12-31T10:36:00.004-05:00

I saw this huge bird outside my kitchen window this morning. I immediately thought, "Falcon," but maybe it was a red-tailed hawk?

I took the first photo with its back to me then on my second shot the stupid flash went off and it flew away.

Here's the meaning if it's a falcon (according to whatever Internet loon):

"At its core, the Falcon represents visionary power, wisdom, and guardianship. This powerful bird awakens visionary power, and leads you to your life purpose. The Falcon carries with it a message of transition and change – perhaps in your vocation, work, career, etc. The fact that this Peregrine chose to show itself to you is a powerful message in itself. This is a call for you to pay attention to the your performance, your function, your actions."

And if a red-tailed hawk:

"To accept this Totem, is to be knighted as a Guardian and Protector of the Earth Mother and all her Children, to possess an astute awareness of the interconnectedness of all things, and an inner reverence for all life. These are the souls that are involved in making the world a better place. They will be protectors of the Earth, encouraging and educating Others to do the same. Does the Red Tail appear and Shadow you from day to day? If so, What message did it reveal?"

A Nude Maori Pygmy

2009-12-01T12:39:00.002-05:00

McBickle: I dreamed last night I was dating and dumped by that girl from Twilight.

GF: Hehe. Ew.

McBickle: She was pretty in the dream.

GF: I dreamt that [ex-girlfriend] was dating a pygmy, a nude Maori pygmy.

GF: And you and I were hanging with them and were all like, "Umm yeah, he's...cool." And she was like, "It’s so cute, he trembles when he's excited... and the sex is...gooood." And you and I were like, "We should go."

A doglikedog

2009-11-19T12:18:00.003-05:00

The air is spitty and my love is unhappy at home under a fuchsia quilt and my throat is pulsing with the beginnings of a flu but I am able to concentrate and make essays about Africa cohere today when I am not writing this, which, really, is better than not being able to like I was unable to yesterday, isn’t it now.

Here’s a doglikedog I saw in the post office on Saturday while I was picking up a 1,045 page book by Thomas Pynchon that I may read at some unknown future point as well as a novel by Laurie Moore. The post office has a miserable little lobby that radioactivates small, four-legged animals, maybe.

1920s Boat Ride Around NY Harbor

2009-11-09T11:08:00.007-05:00

I Just Awoke From This Dream

2009-11-08T10:55:00.006-05:00

We were picked up for not having passports in Iran. We were held with fear, not beatings—just deprivation of reassurance and threat that we were in trouble far greater than we knew. We were afraid. At one point, a group of raucous dark-haired Argentineans was held in the next room and I succinctly said to them, “Tell the embassy: We are American journalists.” I felt quite proud I had mouthed the correct words in my narrow window of communication. It was then a fellow prisoner told me that they, these Argentineans, too, would remain in this jail, and why would I think they could help us? I realized she was right and felt impotent again.

The woman jailer came to us and said we would be moved to a place far worse than this. That if we think we’d had it bad, we had no idea what was coming. She looked like a masculine gym teacher I had as a young teenager—hair in a mat of heavy curls cut close to her head. We would be making crowns of thorns, like Jesus wore, not to wear, but for others. And if we think it would not destroy our hands with each prick and cut, we would soon see what a torture this construction would become, that each thorn would tear at our hands’ meat and slice like razors across our fingers and palms. I become more afraid, but resolve I can do it.

We are sent to a road to wait for a bus to move us, only when two large dirty-white cars arrive, our fellow Iranian tells us these are Special Security vans, meant for our subtle, they-will-look-the-other-way escape across the border. We pile in and drive fast. Only the scenery becomes rocky and forested, and we realize we are still being held, only now in a wilderness in which we would die of thirst and hunger if we could not find our way. Green spreads far and thin but holds chunky gray-white rocks in ragged groupings. The close-cut grass is a yellow-blue coat across the earth that lulls me.

But I would soon lose my socks and shoes and shed my jacket without remembering how. I would chill upward from my toes. I would regret that my camera remains at my apartment with all the photos I have taken on this trip before now.

We come across a huge pool in the woods in which a movie is being filmed. I see John Lithgow and realize he is the person to tell we need help. We wade uncomfortably, watched by the crew, the actors, the grips and lighting guys, through the chlorinated water and I whisper as we pass John, “We are Americans. We are journalists. Tell them.” He seems startled but maybe understands.

I see my black dog drinking heavily from the pool, and fear his poisoning, but know his thirst. I realize then the heaviness our families will feel must be beginning as they finally know we are stuck without charge in Iran, possibly tortured. I worry we have been released too soon, that we will be ridiculed for scaring them, that my detention will not matter enough among the dozens of journalists held for prolonged periods in this country. I realize then that as long as we have made it out, it does not. We go onward, to Iraq.

Commands in Hand

2009-11-06T14:27:00.006-05:00

I have been told I must spend this $10 bill on a cab to dinner. It was nestled in an empty cigarette carton, the first pack of cigarettes I’d bought in months. I bought them on a night of a fight—smoked one. The following night, last night, they sat on my couch, hiding under a few envelopes of solicitous junk mail, and one catalogue. This morning, I chucked them into my bag along with matches I’d gotten free at a deli in Brooklyn while crying.

“Did you smoke another cigarette?” Girl asks me.

“No,” I say.

“Look in the box then,” she says.

I do. I find the bill and no cigarettes.

“Read the note,” she says.

I do. She loves me.

Now I am supposed to spend the ten in a cab to go on a date to celebrate an anniversary: “It is all part of an elaborate plan,” she says. “You have to put it back out in the world.”

I argue, assuming this will be a hard bit of paper to part with. But I believe in her, and I will do it.

Seventh Avenue and 29th Street, Morning Commute

2009-11-03T10:02:00.002-05:00

9:42 a.m.

Or a Puppet

2009-10-16T11:15:00.000-04:00

Mza: WTF. That's an emoticon not an animal.