A Lone Stranger

There was a time...

2025-06-11T13:00:00.001+05:30

Childhood memories...

"There was a time..."

We had to go to school on our own, because there was no custom of being dropped off by cycle or bus. Our parents never worried about what good or bad might happen, after sending us to school. They never feared anything either.

Pass or fail - that's all we knew. We had nothing to do with percentages.

Admitting to going for tuition, was embarrassing, because we might be considered fools.

We believed that placing peepal leaves, study leaves, or peacock feathers in our books, would make us smarter.

In cloth bags…in satchels…and later in aluminum cases, we were experts at organizing our books and notebooks neatly.

Every year, before starting a new class, we would cover our books and notebooks with brown paper - and this was no less than an annual celebration or a festival.

At the end of the year, we sold our books and bought used ones for the next year - and never felt ashamed, because back then, neither books nor syllabus, changed every year; our parents never felt, like our studies were a burden.

Giving a friend a ride on the front bar of our cycle and another, on the rear carrier and wandering through the streets - that was our daily routine. We must have wandered endlessly this way.

Getting slapped by teachers, standing holding our toes, standing on benches, or having our ears twisted until they turned red - never hurt our self-respect, because honestly, we did not even know, what self-respect meant.

Getting scolded or beaten at home or school, was just a normal part of daily life - both, the one hitting and the one getting hit, were happy. The one getting hit, because they got hit less today than yesterday and the one hitting, because they had a good go at it again today.

Playing barefoot cricket anywhere, with wooden planks and any kind of ball, was a joy only we knew.

We never ever asked for pocket money and our father never gave us any.

So, our needs remained very small - a few times a year, having some spicy puffed rice mix, or a sooji ka halwa, toffee or candy, felt like a big treat and we were genuinely happy with that.

Small needs were usually met by anyone at home, because families were joint.

During Diwali, breaking apart firecracker chains, to light one cracker at a time, never felt embarrassing.

We were never able to tell our parents how much we loved them, because we didn't even know how to say, "I love you".

Today, after facing countless shocks and taunts from the world, we are just a part of a struggling world - some got what they wanted and some did not - who knows?

Riding double or triple seat on school benches and getting treats from friends at the small candy stall outside school in half-pants - we still remember that kindness.

Where are those friends now, where did the baer-seller go; where did the girl selling digestive powder disappear; who knows?

No matter where we are in the world now, the truth is, we grew up in the real world and truly faced reality.

Keeping clothes wrinkle-free and maintaining formalities in relationships, was never our thing.

Besides breakfast and dinner, the joy of carrying rotis wrapped in newspaper in our tiffin, is something today's kids will never understand.

We don't blame our fate - whatever life we are living, we live it with joy and this mindset, helps us keep going. The life we lived, simply cannot be compared with today's.

We do not know, if we were good or bad, but we had our time.

And most importantly, today, I want to come out of my hesitation and from the bottom of my heart, say to my "divine-like, always-remembered mother & father" - I am forever grateful for your "unparalleled love, affection, blessings, care and the values you gave me."

🙏🙏🏻☺😊

PS:

One thing is for sure - whoever reads this entirely, will definitely be reminded of many beautiful moments from their own past.

🙏🏻

Never Marry a Woman Who Thinks Duty Is Oppression

2025-06-11T10:21:00.001+05:30

Never Marry a Woman Who Thinks Duty Is Oppression

Let's flip the script.

Modern women don't mind love.

They mind responsibility.

They say they want a husband…

But act allergic to the weight that comes with being a wife.

Let's break it down:

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1. She Wants Rights—But Hates Roles

She says she wants marriage.

But only if she can rewrite the terms.

No submission. No service. No sacrifice.

Just: – Her career – Her comfort – Her convenience

She wants you to pay the bills, protect the house, lead the vision…

But call her "wife"?

Suddenly she's not your partner—she's a prisoner.

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2. Duty Is a Trigger Word to the Modern Woman

Say: "A wife should cook."

She'll say: "What is this, 1950?"

Say: "A wife should support her husband's mission."

She'll say: "I'm not losing myself for any man."

Say: "Marriage is about sacrifice."

She'll say: "That sounds abusive."

Everything that once built homes…

Now gets labeled toxic.

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3. Her Feminism Ends Where Her Comfort Begins

She quotes bell hooks on Instagram.

Reads self-help books about boundaries.

Talks about partnership and purpose…

But ask her to:

– Wake up early for the kids

– Submit to a decision she disagrees with

– Stretch her ego to save the marriage

She'll say:

"This isn't what I signed up for."

Of course it isn't.

Because modern women don't sign up for responsibility.

They sign up for lifestyle perks.

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4. You Can't Build a Home With a Woman Who Thinks She's Doing You a Favor

She married you—but acts like she's volunteering.

She gave vows—but still moves like she's single.

She calls herself a wife…

But never shows up in the trenches.

And when you demand structure?

You're "controlling."

When you ask for peace?

You're "emotionally abusive."

Her entire identity is rooted in avoiding anything that feels like work.

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5. Love Without Duty Is Just Performance

She says she loves you.

But won't clean, won't compromise, won't listen.

She says she's loyal.

But only when it's easy.

She thinks being present is enough.

But presence without contribution is just furniture.

You don't need a woman who shows up.

You need one who shows up with purpose.

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Final Word: If She Thinks Duty Is Oppression—You'll Spend Your Life Apologizing for Leadership

She'll accuse your standards.

Resent your vision.

Sabotage your peace.

And when the marriage fails?

She'll tell the world you "couldn't handle a strong woman."

But truth is:

You tried to build a kingdom…

With someone who didn't want to hold a brick.

So here's the rule:

Never marry a woman who thinks duty is slavery.

Because you'll carry the whole mission alone—

While she posts about burnout from watching movies.

MOST WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY THEMSELVES

2025-06-09T14:54:00.001+05:30

They thought they were upgrading.

They thought leaving their husbands for "freedom" and "independence" would give them peace, happiness, and self-discovery.

Now they're out here with tears behind their makeup, regrets hiding behind motivational captions, and loneliness haunting their nights.

Why?

Because they listened to bitter, man-hating feminists online who've never built a home, who despise structure, and who thrive on chaos.

Here are "10 painful" realities women only realize after destroying themselves, after it's too late:

1. "No One Else Will Tolerate What Their Husband Did"

That man they dumped was patient, loving, and forgiving. But outside?

No man is willing to deal with your entitled, combative behavior.

2. "Feminism Doesn't Pay Rent"

Online feminists will hype you up,

but when you're broke, lonely,

and falling apart, they won't offer a dime or a shoulder.

3. "Séx̌uäl Market Value Drops with Age

You're not 24 anymore."

You're older, more baggage, less patience.

The options shrink.

The demands increase.

And most men now want younger, feminine, peaceful women.

4. "Freedom" Is Just Loneliness in Disguise

You thought you were escaping a "boring marriage," now you're eating dinner alone, faking happiness on Instagram, and battling depression in silence.

5. "Your Kids Suffer the Most"

You broke a family to chase trends.

Now the children grow up emotionally fractured. No father. No stability.

No structure.

6. "Being a Single Mother Is Not a Badge of Honor"

You thought it made you strong?

It made life 10x harder.

Now no high-value man wants to sign up for a ready-made burden.

7. "Hypergamy Has a Deadline"

You wanted a richer man, a more exciting man. Now you realize the pool you thought was full is actually shallow.

8. "Attention Is Not the Same as Respect"

You may still get likes and DMs.

But no one respects you anymore.

You're entertainment, not investment.

9. Peace is Priceless, and You Threw It Away

He wasn't perfect, but he gave you peace.

Now your world is chaos, drama, and anxiety. And you caused it.

10. "The Internet Doesn't Care About Your Regret"

You followed strangers online, now you're suffering offline.

And guess what?

They've moved on.

You're the one paying the price.

This is the reality of modern women who traded submission for rebellion, family for fantasy, and wisdom for TikTok, WhatsApp advice.

Let this be a warning:

not all that glitters is gold.

Cheers

MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR THE REBELLIOUS, ARGUMENTATIVE, OR NAGGING WOMAN

2025-06-09T08:08:00.000+05:30

Let's stop pretending.

Men don't get married for emotional rollercoasters, mental debates,

or war-room discussions.

Men marry for peace.

Not just comfort. Peace.

Not just kids. Peace.

Not just sex. Peace.

And here's the brutal truth:

You can be beautiful.

You can be brilliant.

You can be a boss.

But if every conversation feels like combat?

He'll never come home happy.

Let's break it down:

1. "Men Aren't Looking for a Debate Partner"

He's had a long day.

Deadlines. Traffic. Pressure.

And the moment he walks through that door?

Boom.

> "Why didn't you text back fast enough?"

> "Why didn't you take my suggestion?"

> "Why do you always do things your way?"

Now he's defending himself—at home.

He didn't marry you to be cross-examined.

He married you because he thought you were his safe place.

Turns out, you're the courtroom.

2. "Every Argument Is a Brick in the Wall"

Yes, men want smart women.

Yes, men want strong women.

But nobody wants to be corrected 24/7.

Every time you question his every move.

Every time you challenge every word.

Every time you correct like a mother,

not a partner?

He doesn't hear "maturity."

He hears: You don't respect me.

And once a man loses respect in his own home?

He either goes silent…

or disappears altogether.

3. "Nagging Isn't Communication. It's Noise."

There's a reason ancient proverbs say:

"It's better to live on the roof than inside

with a nagging woman."

"Let that sink in" :

He'd rather face the rain than your mouth.

Men are not perfect.

But men do remember tone.

Pressure. Humiliation.

The man who once ran home to you?

Will now take detours… just to breathe.

4. "If You Want to Lead, Marry Yourself"

Some women weren't raised to partner.

They were raised to compete.

Everything is a challenge.

Every suggestion is an attack.

Every disagreement is a power struggle.

But a man doesn't want to wrestle every day.

He doesn't need a boss.

He doesn't need a critic.

He doesn't need a mirror.

He needs a woman who lets him lead with peace and purpose—not paranoia.

5. "Marriage Is a Surrender. Not a Strategy."

Ladies, hear this:

Marriage is not a TED Talk.

It's not a feminist campaign.

It's not a trial run for dominance.

"It's a daily surrender of ego for partnership."

If you're still armed with childhood trauma,

If every man reminds you of your absent father,

If every disagreement triggers survival mode.

You're not ready.

Because the man you claim to love?

He's not your enemy.

He's not your opponent.

He's not your project.

He's your partner.

And if peace isn't part of your offering?

Don't be surprised when he chooses silence over conversation… and distance over dinner.

Final Word:

Men Don't Leave Because You're Strong.

They Leave Because You're Loud.

The modern woman can do everything:

>Earn money

>Raise kids

>Lead teams

>Win arguments

"But ask yourself" :

Can you preserve peace?

Can you follow without resistance?

Can you trust his instincts without a lecture?

Can you express pain without projecting disrespect?

Because marriage is not for the rebellious, argumentative, or nagging woman.

It's for the woman who knows how

to speak without stabbing.

How to disagree without disgrace.

How to love without leading a revolution.

"Don't fight the man who's fighting for you."

Drop the sword.

Build the peace.

Become the home.

Cheers

MOST WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY Themselves...

2025-05-29T08:50:00.001+05:30

I am writing to share some observations regarding the experiences of women who have undertaken significant life changes with the aim of achieving greater personal fulfillment.

It has been noted that numerous women who embark on paths toward independence and self-discovery sometimes experience the ending of their marriages. While the initial expectation may be one of increased peace and happiness, the ensuing reality can present a different set of circumstances.

Frequently, the anticipated freedom is accompanied by unforeseen difficulties, such as feelings of loneliness and regret. These feelings can occasionally be attributed to external influences that may encourage certain decisions without fully taking into account the long-term ramifications or the value of stability and commitment.

The following are some challenging realities that have been reported by some women following substantial life alterations:

1. The degree of tolerance and forgiveness they may have known within their marriage may not be readily encountered in other relationships.

2. Although online communities can offer a sense of support, they may not provide practical assistance in daily life.

3. Perceptions and preferences within the realm of dating can evolve over time.

4. The pursuit of independence can, at times, lead to a deep sense of isolation.

5. Significant alterations in family structure can have a considerable impact on children.

6. Single motherhood, while sometimes unavoidable, often presents considerable challenges and may affect how future relationships are viewed by others.

7. Seeking different partners based on specific criteria may not invariably result in enduring satisfaction.

8. The pursuit of attention can be distinct from earning sincere respect.

It is important to acknowledge that these are intricate issues with diverse individual experiences, and this perspective represents only some of the potential challenges that may arise.

They can’t be replaced.

2025-05-29T08:00:00.001+05:30

One day, you'll come to understand that some people are simply one of a kind.

They don't come around twice.

They can't be replaced.

And once they're gone, no one else will feel quite the same.

We live in a world that celebrates moving on

like people are easily swapped out,

like connections are disposable.

But the truth is, certain bonds leave a mark on your soul.

They saw you, understood you, brought out something no one else could.

Losing that kind of person isn't just about losing them

it's losing a part of yourself that only existed in their presence.

Sometimes, we hurt those closest to us.

Not because they deserved it, but because we didn't know how to hold their love properly.

We assume they'll always forgive, always come back,

but not everyone waits.

Not everyone gives endless chances.

Some walk away silently,

carrying their hurt in quiet dignity,

and by the time you realize what they meant to you,

their absence has already become permanent.

You'll search for pieces of them in other people

in their smile, their voice, their presence

but nothing will feel quite right.

That's the cost of taking something rare for granted.

Be gentle with the hearts that trust you.

Speak kindly.

Apologize when needed.

Appreciate the ones who bring light into your life while you still have the chance.

Because the most meaningful connections

are also the easiest to lose

when we stop treating them like they matter.

Not every soul is replaceable.

So be careful who you push away

you may never find their kind again.

Let’s stop acting naive

2025-05-28T19:48:00.001+05:30

If You Make It Too Comfortable for Her to Love You—You'll Never Know If She Does.

Because comfort hides character. And ease erases effort.

Let's stop acting naive.

She didn't love you.

She loved how easy it was to be with you.

You brought the car.

You picked the bills.

You paid the rent.

You moved her into the good life.

And now you're surprised she vanished when things got hard?

She didn't change.

You just never made her prove anything to begin with.

Because if you make it too comfortable for her to love you,

you'll never know if she actually does.

1. You Should Have Hidden Your Hand—Not Played It All at Once

You showed her your wallet before you saw her heart.

You revealed your status before you saw her substance.

You led with lifestyle, not leadership.

You were busy trying to win her… while she was watching if someone better was coming.

You didn't date her.

You sponsored her.

And when the lifestyle paused,

so did the affection.

2. Every Woman Is Sweet in Soft Life—Wait Until the Pressure Hits

She cooked.

She cleaned.

She moaned like a lovebird.

But that was before rent was due, and your business dipped.

Now she sighs every time you talk.

Now "you've changed."

Now she "needs space."

She didn't lose feelings.

She lost benefits.

She was never tested, never strained, never asked to choose you without comfort.

So when real life entered—she exited.

3. If You Want Loyalty, Create Conditions That Reveal It

Say no.

Delay gratification.

Hold back your resources.

Slow down the rewards.

Let her meet the man—not the gifts.

Let her see the work—not just the wins.

If she only claps when you're balling,

she's not your wife.

She's your fan.

And fans don't stay when the performance ends.

4. You're Playing by the Heart—She's Learning from the Pros

You're out here thinking,

"If I love her enough, she'll stay."

But she's studying the algorithm.

Learning from TikTok therapists, divorced aunties, and girls who say:

"Never settle."

"If he slips—dip."

"Upgrade, don't wait."

You're loving from the chest.

She's planning with her checklist.

You're thinking about forever.

She's thinking about her next option.

You're loyal.

She's strategic.

And if you pause, she'll replace you—before you even finish explaining yourself.

5. The Substitute Strategy Works Because Every New Man Overperforms

She knows:

Every new man starts with his best self.

New man = new effort = new benefits.

So why should she struggle with a man in "grind mode"

when a fresh suitor is flying her out by Thursday?

Why endure…

when substitution brings faster results?

She's not in it for the process.

She's in it for the payoff.

6. Her Circle Is the Whispering Wind Behind the Exit

You think she's just "overthinking."

No, she's being influenced.

By friends who already left.

By single mothers who want her free.

By social media stars who preach quitting over building.

"Girl, you too fine to be suffering."

"He's not your only option."

"You deserve soft life."

Now your hard-working hands look like punishment.

Your discipline looks like control.

Your vision feels like a burden.

She's no longer yours—

she's theirs.

7. Her Loyalty Is Built on Lifestyle, Not Love

You gave her the best.

Now she can't even manage the average.

You brought her up from struggle—

Now she calls that struggle "toxic."

You turned her life around—

Now she sees you as the bare minimum.

She never wanted to grow with you.

She just wanted to benefit from your elevation.

And once the stream dries up,

so does the "I love you."

8. She Doesn't Want the Builder—She Wants the Finished Product

She's not waiting for the house to be complete.

She wants the mansion, furnished, scented, and photo-ready.

If your money isn't loud,

if your life isn't soft,

if your timing isn't perfect—

She's gone.

And when you finally make it,

she'll return as a "changed woman."

But brother, don't fall for the remix of what already failed the first audition.

Final Truth: You Thought You Were Her Blessing—She Saw You as a Bridge

You gave her ease.

She gave you attitude.

You gave her stability.

She gave you silence.

Because you made it too easy.

Too sweet.

Too convenient.

And in a world where options are endless,

easy love is easily replaced.

Final Word to Men:

Discipline yourself.

Slow down your yes.

Don't offer the palace before you test the peasant.

Make her show up when the lights are off.

Make her prove herself when there's nothing to post.

Make her stay when the world says she should leave.

Because if she can't endure pressure,

she doesn't deserve the palace.

And if she's only sweet when it's easy,

she's a luxury guest—not a life partner.

I spent an hour in the bank with my dad

2025-04-30T19:59:00.000+05:30

I spent an hour in the bank with my dad,

as he had to transfer some money. I couldn't resist

myself and asked...

''Dad, why don't we activate your internet banking?''

''Why would I do that?'' He asked...

''Well, then you wont have to spend an hour here for

things like making a transfer.

You can even do your shopping online. Everything will

be so easy!''

I was so excited about initiating him into the world of

Net banking.

He asked ''If I do that, I wont have to step out of the

house?"

''Yes, yes''! I said. I told him how even groceries can

be delivered at your door now and how amazon

delivers everything!

His answer left me tongue-tied.

He said ''Since I entered this bank today, I have met

four of my friends, I have chatted awhile with the staff

who know me very well by now.

You know, I am alone...this is the company that I need.

I like to get ready and come to the bank. I have

enough time, it is the physical touch that I crave.

Two years back, I got sick. The store owner from whom

I buy fruits, came to see me and sat by my bedside

and cried.

When your Mom fell down a few days back while on

her morning walk, our local grocer saw her and

immediately got his car to rush her home as he knows

where I live.

Would I have that 'human' touch if everything became

online?

Why would I want everything delivered to me and force

me to interact with just my computer?

I like to know the person that I'm dealing with and not

just the 'seller'. It creates bonds of Relationships.

Does Amazon deliver all this as well?'''

Technology isn't life..

Spend time with people .. Not with devices.

PEOPLE WITH GOOD HEART ❤️

2024-02-22T14:50:00.001+05:30

Here's the thing about people with good hearts.

They give you excuses when you don't explain yourself.

They accept apologies you don't give them, even though you should.

They see the best in you when you don't need them to.

At worst they lift you up, even if it means putting their own priorities aside.

The words "too busy" does not exist in their vocabulary.

They make time even when you don't.

And you wonder why they are the most sensitive people.

You wonder why they're the most caring people.

You wonder why they are willing to give so much, without expecting anything in return.

You wonder why their existence is not so essential to your well-being.

It's because they don't let you work hard for the attention they give you.

They accept the love they think they've earned, and you think they're entitled too.

Let me tell you something.

Fear the day when a good heart gives up on you.

Our skies don't become gray out of nowhere.

Our sunshine does not allow darkness to take over for no reason.

A good heart does not turn cold, unless it's been treated with coldness for a while.

HAVE A GOOD HEART AND BE GOOD TO OTHERS

IF IT DOESNT PAY TODAY, IT WILL SURELY PAY TOMORROW 👌

MAY YOUR DAY BE BLESSED 🙏❤️

WHAT MANY PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND ABOUT LOVE❤️🫂

2024-02-20T17:15:00.001+05:30

1. There will be times I will be so mad at you and cold towards you. It's not that I hate you. I am just disappointed by what you did, my love hasn't gone anywhere

2. There will be times I will not spend as much time with you as you wish me to. It's not that I am ignoring you, I am working hard for our future

3. There will be times I will say or do something wrong. It's not that I meant to hurt you, we all fall short sometimes. Forgive me, teach me to love you

4. There will be friends in my life. But never doubt that you are my priority

5. There will be moments when I will not be that conversational, I will not be so fun to talk with. It's not that I find you boring. My mood has changed, I need some minutes to myself, I will come around

6. There will be moments where I want to scream at you and say all that is in my head in anger. It's not that you are my enemy, but sometimes you get on my nerves. I will control my temper and my tongue, you're still the one that I love

7. There will be moments where you want sex but I will not be up to it. It's not that I don't find you sexy anymore or I am cheating on you. I am just tired, allow me to rest and I will sex you well when I am refreshed. I love the sex in our marriage

8. There will be wonderful people of the opposite gender at work and in public, they dress well and are successful; some of them more successful than you. It doesn't mean I will abandon you and chase after them

9. There will be moments where I will be tough on you. It's not that I am trying to change you or treat you like a baby. I am only challenging you to be better because I know your potential

10. There will be moments when I forget things, special dates, or a duty I said I would do. It's not that I am taking you for granted, sometimes in this busy life, the mind forgets

This Conscious Kiss

2024-02-16T17:39:00.001+05:30

For so many of us kissing is a prelude, something we do that leads to something else. And for some people it's something they have to do to get to the next step.

Conscious Kissing is its own incredible moment of being. There is nothing else other than the delicious sensation, the feeling, the taste of our mouths.

Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we can share with a partner, in fact there are times when kissing is more intimate than sex. Kissing brings us closer together than anything. Because kissing is so intimate, it also expresses our emotional state.

Kissing is the sharing of our essence. In the exchange of fluids and breath we mix ourselves with our lovers.

Our kiss is a communication. As well as being arousing it's a journey we take our partners and ourselves on. In the delicate touch of lips and tongues we tell where we are. Our intention, our love and our desire are communicated in the moment.

We can bring ourselves into presence during our kiss. It's not just a prelude to sex, rather a world of sensation and emotion on its own. When we're present during a kiss it has no need to go anywhere, be anything other than the beautiful connection it is.

We can ride the waves of gentleness and fire, kissing slow and soft, hard and deep and urgent. Our mouths become the expression of all that is within us at that moment. My hand in your hair pulling you to me as I share my fire with you. My hands on your face surrounding you, enclosing us in connection.

Kissing is playing, celebrating our joy in each other.

Kissing is sex and lovemaking on its own. We get lost in the taste, in the sensation. My whole body, my whole being, my heart is expressed in my kiss. It's a dance of energy as we move in and out and around each other. It's the song of our intimacy in our sighs and our moans. And it's the portal to lovemaking divine in the sacred element of our kiss.

There are reflexology points on the tongue.

There is a connection between the tongue and the brain. We often hold a great deal of tension in our tongues, which is linked to tension in the jaws. The more relaxed your tongue can be, the quieter your mind can become.

Kissing becomes a meditation, on sensuality, on presence.

When I teach massage and touch it begins with a Heart Connection.

You can do the same with your mouth.

Connect with your Heart, feel your Heart Centre in the middle of your chest.

Maybe even put your hands there.

As you breathe, imagine that you're breathing in to your Heart.

There might be a feeing, a sensation, a warmth, a colour…

As you breathe, allow that to get stronger, brighter, more intense…

Then as you breathe, allow that to move to your mouth, let it be in your lips, in your tongue, in your teeth, everywhere…

When your mind wanders during your kiss, come back to your breath.

Then focus on the feelings and sensations you're experiencing. This will intensify the moment.

Look into your lover's eyes.

Bring the energy from your Heart into your gaze.

Approach them slowly.

Allow the first moment to be soft, to be gentle, a greeting, a melting…

Explore all of their mouth, their lips, their teeth, their tongue…

Suck their top lip into your mouth, then their bottom lip…

Gently bite and nibble their lips, then not so gently…

As you suck their top lip, they suck your bottom lip…

Be absolutely passive, allow them to kiss and explore you, to lick your lips, circle their tongue on your lips, in your mouth…

Mirror each other's dance, whatever they do, you do…

Sigh your breath, your moan, your love, your desire into their mouth…

Slowly, so slowly you kiss…

And then a wave of passion as I grab you with my arms, squeeze you as I kiss you hard and deep…

Change your position, the angle of your mouth on theirs…

Laugh as you kiss…

Look into each other's eyes as you kiss…

Suck their tongue into your mouth…

Surround their mouth with yours…

Lick outside their lips…

Kiss from your heart, it will be an expression of your love.

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

WISDOM FOR WOMEN

2024-02-16T15:07:00.001+05:30

As a Wife, Your BEAUTY attracts your husband, but your WISDOM will continue to keep him!

Your ELEGANCE catches his ATTENTION, but your INTELLIGENCE convinces him!

NAGGING irritates your husband, but your "Constructive Silence" weakens him!

Remember that the "boyish" character in your husband comes out occasionally, But your ability to always handle it, is a sign that you are a MATURED WIFE!

Every man has "Secret Struggles and Pains, including your husband, if you should ever find them out from him, Please exhibit the greatest maturity by asking the Originator of your marriage, (THE HOLY SPIRIT) to help you with USEFUL IDEAS, that you will suggest to him (your husband)!

In the long-run, your WORDS matters to your husband than your "LOOKS"! So always invest the RIGHT WORDS!

Earn your husband's respect and he will consider you as the yard-stick for all his actions!

Learn to mould your husband's moods, and he will naturally give you his "FUTURE" as he recalls your maturity in the past issues!

Remember : WOMEN are everywhere, but REAL WIVES are scarce, let the QUEEN in you come alive, and your husband will always hold you in a very HIGH ESTEEM!

Together we will make the BEST MARRIAGES in our society at large. May the GRACE of GOD bless us all!

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

5 THINGS TO OFFER YOUR PARTNER

2024-02-14T22:08:00.001+05:30

Yesterday evening, I was just scrolling through my news feeds on here and I came across a post that was posted in one of the popular Facebook group like that. The post says, "As a lady, mention 3 free things a guy can benefit from dating you."

The post interested my mind and I went to the comment section to see what the ladies have to say. I was baffled with the kind of answers I saw there. I'm sorry to say this, from the comment section, it was very obvious that many ladies have nothing to offer.

Some say good sex, good food, peace of mind, company, jokes, etc. The one that really baffled me was the answer of one particular lady. She said she had nothing to offer. I don't know if she was joking or serious but that was what inspired this write up.

Before then, I saw one video of a lady on Instagram ranting that no guy should approach her in this 2020 if he's not capable and ready to spoil her silly, buy her Peruvian and Brazilian hairs, take her on vacation bla bla bla...and I was like well-done ma. If you cannot take care of yourself, I cannot can.

You see, relationship is supposed to be symbiotic and mutually beneficial. But we have a lot of parasitic people in relationships these days sucking life out of their partners.

Let me ask you and I want you to be sincere and honest with yourself. What do you have to offer your partner? As a lady, what can a guy benefit from being in a relationship with you, what can you offer a guy? Is it just sex, food, peace of mind etc? As a guy, what do you have to offer your woman? Think about it.

Relationship is supposed to be symbiotic and mutually beneficial. You're supposed to benefit from your partner and your partner is supposed to benefit from you. But when you're the only one benefiting, then you're a parasite!

What are the things you're supposed to offer your partner?

1. Spiritual Support

Let it be that it's because of you your partner is closer to God, goes to church, reads his or Bible, prays and lives right and not fornicating up and down.

You're supposed to pray for your partner and help him or her to become strong spiritually but how can you do when you're not strong yourself? Take your relationship with God seriously. Be spiritual.

2. Emotional Support

Sometimes life happens. Sometimes we are knocked down. Sometimes our failures and shortcomings overwhelms us causing us to be depressed and despondent.

It's your responsibility to offer emotional support to your partner, to encourage, to give hope and to strengthen the person and to help the person to overcome low self esteem and to regain confidence.

3. Financial Support

For many ladies, all they know how to do is to collect money from their guys, to chop the guy until pocket runs dry.

No question is asked about whether the guy has a savings, investment or even the source of his income. The same with some guys, in fact many of them are professionals and experts in chopping ladies with "I want to marry you" mantra.

It's your responsibility to offer your partner financial support both in terms of giving cash, offering advice on how to make more money, save money and become financially prudent and free.

4. Intellectual Support

Most of the problems were having today is as a result of our intellectual bankruptcy. Nothing dey head. We have many beautiful girls without brain, many thick, tall and handsome guys without sense.

It's your responsibility to offer your partner intelligent ideas, knowledge and solutions that will better his or her life. Add something to your head.

5. Developmental Support

We're living in a very fast paced world. Everything is moving on a high speed that if you don't buckle up, you will be left behind hence the need to developing, improving, evolving and enhancing with the season and be in tune with what's obtainable at a time.

These are what you are supposed to help your partner to do, to become better in every aspect because they met you. Let it not be that his became worse because he met you. Help your partner to become a better version of his or herself.

Make up your mind that you will be an asset to anyone that comes across your life. Be an asset. Don't be a parasite!

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

IF A WOMAN LOVES YOU, YOU WON'T HAVE TO BEG FOR THESE 5 THINGS🍁

2024-02-12T08:00:00.000+05:30

In a healthy relationship, there are certain things you shouldn't have to beg for because they come naturally to a woman who genuinely cares for you.🥰

PICTURES: ```When your girlfriend truly loves you, sharing pictures is a delightful way of staying connected.

It could be a selfie from her day, a funny meme, or a sweet moment captured in a photo.

These little visual snippets are a way of saying, "I want to share my life with you." They show that she values your bond enough to keep you updated and involved in her daily experiences.```

QUALITY TIME TOGETHER: ```Spending quality time together is a fundamental aspect of a loving relationship.

When your partner loves you, she won't make you beg for her time and attention.

Instead, she'll eagerly look forward to moments when you can be together, whether it's for a romantic dinner, a movie night, or just cuddling on the couch.

Her willingness to prioritize your relationship speaks volumes about her affection.```

A TEXT BACK: ```Communication is key in any relationship, and when she truly loves you, she won't leave you hanging.

You shouldn't have to beg for a simple text back or worry about being ignored.

Her prompt and considerate replies indicate that she values your thoughts and wants to maintain a strong connection, even through simple text exchanges.```

AFFECTION AND ATTENTION: ```Love should be expressed through gestures of affection and attention.

Whether it's holding hands, hugging, or giving each other loving glances, these non-verbal cues are essential in a relationship.

When your girl loves you, she'll naturally offer these expressions without you having to plead for them, making you feel cherished and valued.```

TRUST AND SUPPORT: ```True love comes with trust and unwavering support.

You shouldn't have to beg for her trust or feel like you're on trial. Instead, she should have faith in your bond and offer her support in your end.

6 LESSONS TO BE A HAPPY MAN

2024-02-10T13:05:00.001+05:30

1. There are many things more precious than money

It is easy to be enslaved by the mindset that money is the most imperative treasure in society. Money is always transient, just like most things in life. It comes and goes, but how much are you willing to pay for the fleeting pleasure? The consequences of a money-mentality are much more damaging than the value of money itself. Are you willing to put your mental, emotional, and physical well-being on the line? There are things more precious than money. Here are a few:

-Experiences

-Genuine connections

-A feeling of purpose

-Genuine concern for helping others

-Eddie says, "there are many things in this world that no amount of money will buy you, and some things are priceless beyond measure."

2. Weakness can be turned into hatred

Weak people lack the ability to maintain any level of emotional intelligence. People who lack emotional intelligence and a strong sense of self are easily influenced to hate. Their values and convictions are not based on strong foundations; rather, they are proponents of radical causes. Hatred is a disease that consumes the human mind to the point of no return, causing significant harm to oneself and others.

"If enough people had stood up then come on Kristallnacht, and said, 'enough what are you doing? What is wrong with you?' then the course of history would have been different. but they did not. they were scared they were weak, and their weakness allowed them to be manipulated into hatred " — Eddie Jaku

3. Tomorrow will come if you survive. one step at a time

The majority of people give up because they feel the suffering will never end. They relinquish control because their vision is clouded by minor inconveniences rather than the bigger picture.

"The closer you get to something, the blurrier it gets," as the saying goes. Be well-rounded, logical, and foresighted. Nothing on it has the word "forever" written on it.

4. You can find kindness everywhere, even from strangers

If you take a step out of your own world for even a moment, you will notice that you are not alone. The most serious problem is that we cannot talk freely about ourselves, our lives, and our issues. You are not alone in the universe. There are people who would happily assist you if you were willing to be vulnerable.

5. One good friend

"The greatest thing you will ever do is be loved by another person" — repeat this sentence until you realise that love and friendship are the best medicine.

I cannot emphasise this enough, especially to young people. Without friendship, a human being is lost. A friend is someone who reminds you to feel alive.

6. Education is a lifesaver

I do not mean formal education when I use the word "education". Yes, formal education is fantastic and brings great opportunities, but life education is much more critical. Understanding the laws of human nature, being mindful of worldviews, and knowing how to connect so that your voice is heard are all examples of life education. To be self-sufficient and not depend on others for a good life.

You may not be able to change the world because it is beyond your power, but you can change yourself. Change is possible, despite what you can believe, but it requires discipline.💯🙏👑

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING

2024-02-10T08:00:00.001+05:30

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO DURING A MISUNDERSTANDING TO AVOID IT FROM GETTING OUT OF HAND.

Misunderstanding is something you can never do without in a relationship/marriage, misunderstandings would come to either make your relationship weaker or stronger, you can make your relationship strive no matter the misunderstanding that comes your way if you know how to handle them when they come.

Most people who do not know how to handle misunderstandings in their relationships/marriages have become victims of divorce and heartbreak. If you can master how to handle misunderstandings when they come, be rest assured that you're going to enjoy a beautiful relationship.

HOW TO HANDLE MISUNDERSTANDING

📌LISTEN: The first thing to do during a misunderstanding is not shout back at your spouse, the first thing to do is to listen to what they are saying and try to understand where they are coming from, even when they are screaming on top of their voices, relax, be calm and listen.

📌DON'T RETALIATE: It is often said that two wrongs cannot make a right, so when they are shouting at you don't retaliate, just keep your cool. This will give you time to study your partner's emotions and also hear them.

📌DON'T USE HARSH WORDS: During a misunderstanding and you are trying to explain what happened be mindful of your words and don't say anything that would make the situation worse. Take time to explain with a language that's soft and low.

📌SHUT THEM UP WITH LOVE: There are certain things you will do to your spouse that would keep them shut immediately, except if your spouse does not love you but if your spouse does love you, they will keep shut, call them pet names, tell them they don't look good when they are angry, hug them and tell them you love them, stare into their eyes and say they have beautiful eyes or beautiful lips, just say something sweet to them.

📌APOLOGIZE IF YOU'RE THE ONE AT FAULT: If you're at fault and you are sure you are, apologize and move on.

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

A smart woman

2024-02-09T20:47:00.000+05:30

How many men have I heard that they want a "smart woman" in their life ! ..

I would encourage them to think about this...

Smart women make decisions for themselves, have their own desires and set boundaries.

You will never be the center of her life because it revolves around herself.

A smart woman will not allow herself to be manipulated or blackmailed, she takes responsibility.

Smart women question, analyze, argue, are not satisfied, move forward.

Those women had a life before you and I know they will continue to have once you are gone.

She warns, she doesn't ask for permission.

These women are not looking for a leader to follow, a father to solve their lives, or a son to save them.

They don't want to follow you or mark someone's path.

They want to walk beside you.

She knows that life without violence is a right, not a luxury or a privilege.

They express their anger, sadness, joy, and fear in the same way, fear doesn't make her weak, the same way anger doesn't make her "masculine."

These two emotions and others, all together, make her only human.

An intelligent woman is free because she fought for her freedom.

But she is not a victim, she survived.

Don't try to tie her up because she will know how to escape.

The intelligent woman knows that her worth does not reside in the appearance of her body.

Think twice before you judge her by her age, height, volume or sexual behavior because that is emotional abuse and she knows it.

So, before you say you want a "smart woman" in your life, ask yourself if you're really willing to join her.

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

SOME WARNING SIGNALS YOU MUST PAY ATTENTION TO IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP!

2024-02-09T18:27:00.001+05:30

ANGER: If he/she easily gets angry when you have a little misunderstanding, he/she doesn't tolerate jokes, be conscious before you committed to him/her.

THREATENING YOU: If he/she threatening to leave you when you have a little argument, he/she will threatening and may leave you in marriage, be wise.

BEATING YOU: If he beat you up every time, if he slaps you during an argument, he will do the worst in marriage. Be wise.

LACK OF COMMUNICATION: If you are the only one that does all the calling, caring, messaging, texting... It depicts that you are forcing yourself on him/her. A man/woman that truly loves you will show it through his/her actions, he/she will not make excuses, they will find time to connect with you no matter how busy their schedule is. He/she will see you as their priority...Be sensitive.

WOMANIZER: If he womanizes, if you always see him with different girls, if he cheats on you on countless occasions, he may not change if you marry him. Look well before you leap.

HIDING YOU: If he/she hides you if he/she is not proud of you, if he/she fails to introduce you to his friends and family, it possible you are not his/her only option... Be wise.

MUMMY'S BOY/MUMMY'S GIRL: If he/she is a Mummy's boy/girl, if he/she can't make decisions by himself/herself, if he/she must consult his/her mum at all times before he/she can talk to you, his/her mum will influence him/her in marriage. Be wise.

LACK OF MATURITY: If he/she still behaves like a child, if he/she is not mature Spiritually, Emotionally, Mentally, Financially, etc. Marriage is not for kids, marriage is for mature. Be wise.

LACK OF VISION: If he/she doesn't have visions, goals, and dreams, such a man/woman can not be responsible, you will be the one taking all the responsibility if you marry him/her.

Cheers 🥂🥂

HOW TO APOLOGIZE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

2024-02-09T09:41:00.001+05:30

1. ADMIT YOU ARE WRONG

Many grown-ups are not humble enough to admit to their fault. Will you mess up your love just because of your pride?

2. EXPLAIN WHY YOU DID WHAT YOU DID

Give the background sequence of events that led to you being on the wrong. A blank apology doesn't address the issue

3. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER HOW HE/SHE FEELS

Allow your partner to vent, cry, shout, and tell you how much your actions/words pain him/her. Emotions and hurt shouldn't be hidden if true reconciliation and healing are to occur. This also shows you care for your partner's feelings

4. SAY SORRY

Let your partner hear you say those words, 'I am sorry, please forgive me'

5. COMMIT TO NOT DOING IT AGAIN

Say you won't repeat the mistake and mean it. An apology is empty if it's not sincere

6. HEAR FROM YOUR PARTNER IF YOU ARE FORGIVEN

Get to hear your partner tell you 'I forgive you'. It has to be official

7. THANK YOUR SPOUSE FOR FORGIVING YOU

Appreciate the goodness of your partner's heart to forgive you. It takes love to overlook your wrong, don't take that for granted

8. AGREE ON A PLAN TO KEEP THE WRONG FROM BEING REPEATED

This is why it is important to know the history that led to you doing or saying wrong; you two get to agree on what to do to prevent it from happening again

9. SEAL IT WITH A KISS

Kiss as soon you are given an official forgiveness. Now that your partner has forgiven you, your lips will be well-received

10. MAKE LOVE

Your spouse's heart feels safe because you care, you feel pardoned; make passionate love to bring you two even closer. Make-up sex

11. DO SOMETHING SWEET

Go out of your way to make your partner smile: leave a love note under the pillow, buy her flowers or a gift, cook his favourite meal, take a photo of the both of you happy and frame it, cater to each other❤️❤️

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

HOW TO GIVE YOUR WOMAN A HEARTFELT LOVE...

2024-02-08T23:14:00.000+05:30

At times we men are accused of not loving our women but the truth. Many men love their women but lack the means to express and outlet that love.

Men are creatures of love naturally hence God even said "Husbands love your wives". In history, we record men dying for love since it's their nature to give in love but at times we fail to show that love.

1) Presence;

If you truly love your woman be present in her life. Show up in times of need and pain even joy and happiness. The lack of presence of men in women's lives raises concern for care and support. Just be present; be available.

2) Passion;

If you truly love your woman then show some passion for her; not just interest like you just like her. Be passionate about her life progress; state of affairs; your conversations; and your physical affection. Passion simply means being live lively and behaving like you are forced to be with her.

3) Publicity;

If you want to show how much you love your woman then embrace her publicly, let your world see her; post her pics on Facebook; set them as status; use her as a screen saver; and walk with her in open public spaces. Women feel more appreciated when they are not hidden.

4) Partnership;

If you want her to see your love then allow her to be your partner. Create an inter-dependence relationship with her. Even if you know you can do some things ask her and allow her to do some things for you. Allow her to choose some clothes for you; decide your life to an extent; determine this and that. Give her that power in your life for her to feel needed and useful.

5) Privacy;

Every man loves his privacy so much, but that privacy destroys intimacy with women. You should open your world a little bit for her to see into it. Let her know your source of income; your past life; your nicknames; your life before her; your this and that few you call private.

6) Promotion;

Any man who claims to love any woman must dare to promote her to the level of a wife or even a certain amount of commitment towards her. Your love cannot be seen by your woman if you still have her at the bottom of your life like a footnote reference in a paragraph. If you love it put a ring on it (I will write more on it).

7) Power;

At times women fight for power that they fight for anything. Women feel less loved especially when they have no power in the relationship. Give her the power to decide some setups of your life. Your love can be hidden and held back by a power struggle. Give your woman some power to see how much you love her and trust her with that power.

8 Pampering;

One of the things men fail to keep up with is the idea of pampering their women. Women see no love when they are not given things they love and enjoy for their pleasure. Women can be pampered differently depending what is their preferences according to their love language (5 Love Languages by Dr Gary Chapman). Find a way to pamper your woman. Get to know how to spoil her rotten.

9) Prayer;

Our love has to be based on activity beyond physical more. Our spiritual journey has to build and grow our love. Men must introduce and facilitate their women to their spiritual journey. Our women feel less loved because all they see is the physical molecule impediment of love which can be both ways than inner spiritual intimacy that creates companionship in life.

KINDLY TAKE THIS AS BROTHERLY ADVICE NOT A PROVOCATION FOR DEBATE OR TIME TO ARGUE. BUT IF YOU DIFFER WITH IT PLEASE JUST SKIP IT AS IT IS.

BUT FEEL FREE TO SEEK CLARITY WHERE NECESSARY.

I HOPE WE FIND A WAY AROUND LOVE AND JOY ON EARTH AS WE LIVE.

Cheers 🥂

SEVEN SIMPLE THINGS MEN WANT FROM WOMEN BUT PROBABLY WON’T SAY

2024-01-23T09:09:00.001+05:30

There are certain things a lot of men would love their women to do, but they might never tell her. They probably won't tell you because they don't want to pass the message of being too needy.

Men don't want to be perceived as being too demanding and being insensitive, so they act like they are okay — but do not be deceived, every man wants the following:

1. RESPECT 🤷‍♂🤷‍♀

Men interpret respect as love. Show me a man who is respected by his woman and I will show you a man who feels loved.

Every man loves to be respected, by his lady especially. Men also feel valued when they're respected, and it kills their ego when their lady doesn't give them respect.

When with friends and family, every man would want to be shown respect.

2. LOVE TO BE WANTED

Women love to be wanted, but this trait isn't just found in women alone, men love to be desired as well — men love to feel loved.

Men feel valued when their lady give them that feeling that they are wanted.

3. COMPLIMENTS AND ADMIRATION

Who doesn't love to be admired? Everyone does, and men want this as well.

He wants to be seen as sexy, charming, handsome and good-looking by his lady.

He loves to be admired and he loves to be told as well, but he probably won't tell you that.

4. COMPANIONSHIP

No man wants to be lonely, and companionship to a man isn't just someone to be with — no! To him, companionship is being with that woman he loves and admires, having a good time with her — a time to have those deep and intimate talks he won't have with anyone else.

There is something about companionship a man wants, and even the men that are not "romantic" also want that companionship from the women they love.

5. TO LOOK GOOD ALWAYS

Every man wants this! Every man wants this! Every man wants this! This is one thing every man wants from his lady — to look good, to look appealing at every point in time.

Every man wants a lady he can take pride in, and some men even become ashamed of their partner when they don't look appealing.

6. ENCOURAGEMENT AND BELIEF

No man wants a lady that would give up on him at the slightest instance, and no man wants a lady who would only criticise for anything and everything he does.

Every man loves that woman who would always encourage him and believe in him.

7. APPRECIATION

Every man wants to be appreciated and feel appreciated. He doesn't want a lady that's selective in her appreciation, but one that really sees the good he does no matter how little.

The lady that appreciates even those little bits is the one he would probably love to do more for.

These seven things make a man feel more loved and valued in a relationship.

Monogamous Relationship

2024-01-21T16:23:00.001+05:30

In a monogamous relationship between a man and a woman where the woman takes the feminine pole and the man takes the masculine pole...

The man is the leader.

The woman is the pace setter.

The man commands her to open.

I didn't say demands...

He commands her to open with his conscious presence.

No words are even needed.

A conscious man won't settle for less.

He will go where he is received.

His aim is to always be growing.

And so for this he commands her openness so that they can grow together in love and intimacy.

His desire to penetrate permeates and if the feminine has healed her wounds she will naturally respond.

Because her desire is to be obliterated with his love.

A conscious man wants to always go deeper.

To discover the ever winding layers of the woman he is in love with.

For this he requires openness, and receptivity.

She is the pace setter.

We are never FULLY healed.

There is always another layer.

And so the woman responds to man's command with her openness as he takes her to her edge, and beyond...

The man's key role is the holding of this sacredness.

When a woman expresses her uncomfortability, her fears, or whatever is coming up for her, it's the man's job to adjust the sails.

He knows where the ship is going, but he's not attached to how long it takes to get there, or even if it makes it there at all, he is open to the truth of the moment.

It's a never ending sea of exploration, and for the feminine to truly open there must be NO demands, coercion, manipulation, or expectations.

The unforeseen will inevitably come, and a conscious man will see and feel into what is necessary in that moment.

Too many men are lost in entitlement.

"I'm the man, I'm the leader. You're supposed to follow."

She's not "supposed" to DO anything...

And she's got a "FUCK no" for that.

As men it's not our job to rush things.

Having the patience to take things slow and steady and hold space for when delicate things are touched and need to be worked through is the very thing that will ACTUALLY get you what you want.

Especially... and first and foremost, with ourselves.

Loving connection, and even deeper penetration.

Rushing, pushing, and demanding will only usher in closure and disconnection.

She requires steadfastness in times of chaos.

Can you hold it?

Can you hold yourself?

When you're feeling frustrated when you're not getting what you want, can you breath deeper and look inside to see what's coming up in you?

This is the task set before us if we want to go even deeper than we ever thought possible.

Can we be intimate with our own chaos?

Our own fears?

Our own desires?

Our own shadow?

If we can't do this, we will never be able to hold space for our partner.

And she won't open if she doesn't feel safe.

She envokes his unwavering presence.

He commands her into pleasure.

Patience, presence, openness, and a calm cool center.

This is love.

This is the dance.

Masculine and Feminine.

Cheers 🥂🥂🥂

2024-01-21T06:08:00.001+05:30

WOMAN WANTS TO TEST HUSBAND (funny)

Not too long, there was a woman who felt that her husband was being distant and unloving. She wanted to know how her husband would react if she left without telling him where she had gone..

She decided to write him a letter saying she was tired of him and didn't want to live with him anymore. She knew it was petty and perhaps childish, but she needed to know how her husband felt..

And besides, this was more of a prank than a real test, right?...

After writing the letter, she put it on the table in the bedroom and then climbed under the bed to hide until her husband got home. She hoped to hear his outraged response or to see him get upset..

When the husband eventually came back home, he saw letter on the table and read...

After a few moments of silence, he picked up the pen and added something to the letter then he started to get changed, whistling happy tunes and singing and dancing while he did so. He seemed overjoyed rather than crushed and heartbroken..

The woman was shocked and incredibly hurt..

But things only got worst..

As the husband grabbed his phone and dialed a number..

His wife listened from under the bed as he started chatting sweetly to someone..

Husband: hey babe(into the phone)..I'm just getting changed now I'll join you in a bit..as for the other fool, it finally dawned on her that I was cheating on her and she left(laughed)..I was really wronged to have married her, I wish you and me had met earlier. see you soon, honey!

As he hung up and walked out of the room..

After some time, the wife heard the front door open and close..

her husband was gone..

In tears and very upset, she climbed out from under the bed and stumbled over to read what her unfaithful husband had written on the end of her letter..

Through teary eyes, she read....

I COULD SEE YOUR FEET UNDER THE BED YOU IDIOT I'M GOING OUT TO BUY BREAD....

5 THINGS EVERY COUPLE SHOULD KNOW

2024-01-20T14:38:00.000+05:30

1. Women are naturally intuitive while men are rational. Everything has to make logical sense to men. Intuition may not always be right, your wife may not be able to logically explain why she is recommending or suggesting certain things to you, but do not discard what she says. So learn to LISTEN to your wife.

2. You have to protect your territory as a man. Men are territorial in nature and in this context, your territory is your wife. Protect her, don't leave her unguarded and tend to her needs.

3. If you are a lady, your husband is not "another lady". If you are a man, your wife is not "another man". Don't relate with your spouse like you are talking with your fellow gender. Your wife is not "your guy".

4. When your wife is speaking, sometimes she's not asking for your solution. She just wants to talk. So don't cut her off while she's conversing with you, just enjoy the conversation.

5. If you are a man and you are not spiritual, you are in a dangerous place. Don't leave all the praying and 'spirituality' to your wives alone. You would make more progress in your family when both of you prioritize the precepts of God in your home.

Stay blessed ❣️

Dear men - use patience

2024-01-20T08:06:00.001+05:30

- It takes PATIENCE to live with a woman..

- It takes PATIENCE to love a woman.

MARRIAGE will TEST your PATIENCE as a man. Start building it now.

A woman can make you go late for EVENTS back to back because she will take 3hours to get ready, remember you only need 3minutes.

If you are not PATIENT, you will talk to her in a manner or do something you will regret later.

A woman can Burst into TEARS just because you forgot to tell her I LOVE YOU before you dozed off to sleep.

A woman loves to talk, if you are not PATIENT as a man, you will SNAP one day and tell her woman, you talk TOO MUCH, Don't you ever keep quiet? And those words can damage a WOMAN'S SELF ESTEEM almost irreversibly.

A woman craves ATTENTION and PETTING, this can sometimes get on your nerves as a man and only PATIENCE will help you.

A woman can get angry, and you will use full 45minutes to be APOLOGISING, if you are not PATIENT you can't keep her..

She will say she is not hungry, then after you buy only one BABEQUE, she will be dragging it with you.

You will both have a plate of rice before you, but she will leave her plate of rice and be eating yours.

When she is on her MENSTRUAL PERIOD, you will see DRAMA, PATIENCE..

When she's PREGNANT, MAXIMUM DRAMA, PATIENCE..

You will run ERRANDS in MARRIAGE oo. HONEY SCRATCH MY BACK, HONEY HOLD ME, BABY TELL ME YOU LOVE ME, and you just said it 3minutes ago.

My brothers, truth is RELATIONSHIP and MARRIAGE will TEST your PATIENCE as a man. I have told you ahead. Carry patience and enter MARRIAGE.

Women are wonderful creatures. Fear WOMEN. This gender that will stand in front of a mirror just to CRY and CHECK if she is CRYING BEAUTIFULLY 😂 😂😂.