The Moon Is My Home | .. N.O.H.A ..

أنا ونفسي ومش بعدي الطوفان ولا حاجة .. عادي!

2012-01-14T05:39:00.001+02:00

بقالي كتير قوي .. كتير قوي ما كتبتش حاجة ليَّا أنا .. حاجة عشاني أنا .. كلام يعبّر عني وعن حالتي أنا ..

ولو مش هيعبّر عني .. على الأقل أقوله ليَّ أنا .. هو ده السبب الرئيسي اللي خلاني أكتب من الأول .. يوم ما عملت المدونة دي من سنة 2007 وأنا كنت بـكتب لنفسي .. كانت محاولة مني إني أعبّر عن نفسي من غير أي قيود ..والأيام عدت وجريت بيَّ وأنا باردو لسة حاسّة نفس الإحساس .. لسة عندي نفس القيود كإن حد بيبُصّ عليَّا ومخابّيلي حاجة تحت الترابيزة هيطعنّي بيها ..

يمكن عشان كده معظم كتابتي عامة جداً .. حتى وأنا بـتكلم عن نفسي .. دايماً بـفكّر نفسي قبل كل بوست .. "لا تذكري أحداث ولا أسامي ولا أوقات ولا تلمحي بأي حاجة لأي حد .. خدي بالك!" .. مع إن أول ما إبتديت المدونة محدش كان بيشوف كلامي تقريباً ..

ياه .. جه على بالي دلوقتي جملة قالهالى واحد زميلي في الجامعة -الله يمسّيه بالخير- لما قلت له أنا عملت المدونة بس مش عارفة إذا كانت هتوصل لحد ولا لأ .. رد عليَّا وقال لي: "محدش عارف .. ممكن قوي توصل .. المهم إنك إبتديتي :)" .. وتقريباَ هي دي عقدة حياتي دايماَ .. إني ابتدي :)))) .. إني أعمل الحاجة اللي بحبها و مش مهم رأى حد!

طب وهو أنا ليه بـأكتب الكلام ده دلوقتي؟؟ معرفش ..

إيه يعني المفيد في كلامي؟ برده معرفش ..

كل اللي أعرفه إني محتاجة أرجع أكلم نفسي تاني .. محتاجة أفتكر أنا قد إيه كنت بحب الكتابة .. وليه إبتديت أكتب أصلاً بعيد عن المجلات والناشرين والجو ده .. والأهم من ده كله .. محتاجة أكتب وبس .. لمجرد إني أقول اللي جوايا .. عشان أحس إني عايشة وبـتنفس ..

ساعات كتير قوي الواحد بيحس إنه محتاج يقعد مع نفسه ويراجع حساباته في حاجات كتير .. بس محدش بيعمل حسابه قد إيه العملية دي مؤلمة ومتعبة للشخصية أو الكينونة اللي جوانا .. بس مبيهموش ..

عارفة ليه يا نهى؟؟ (أيوه في المرحلة دي لازم اوجه الكلام لنفسي .. متتخدّوش) ..
ليه؟! ..
عشان عنده أمل :) .. حتى لو كل حاجة في الدنيا بتقول له غير كده .. فطرته بتحفٍّظه وبتزقّه عشان يتغير ويصلّح من أحواله .. حتى لو كان غصب عنه ..
طب وبعدين؟ وأخرتها؟؟؟ ..
معرفش ..
يعني إيه متعرفيش؟! أُمّال مين اللي يعرف؟؟
ربك هو علام الغيوب و بكل شيء .. توكلي عليه ..
ونعمة بالله .. سبحانه جل جلاله بيده كل شيء وهو على كل شيء قدير .. ولا حول ولا قوة إلا به .. عليه توكلت وهو رب العرش العظيم ..
أيوه كده .. أذكري الله .. هو الوحيد اللي عالم بحالك وقادر يريّح قلبك ..

لأ أنا مش مجنونة .. ده اللي بيحصل معايا كل يوم تقريباً .. صراع رهيب ومعظم الناس فاكراه من الفراغ و إنى لو إشتغلت شغلانة تلهينى كل يوم و خرجت و نزلت كتير هـأخف :) .. بس المدهش بقى إن طول عمره معايا وعمره ما فارقني الحمد لله .. أيوه بقول الحمد لله عشان دي مش حاجة وحشة .. دي حاجة إسمها "تهذيب أو جهاد النفس" .. خناقة يومية بين النفس الأمارة بالسوء والنفس الطيبة ..

إنت بقى .. كل يوم عندك صراع في إيه؟؟ أو مع مين؟؟؟ .. جربت مرة تقف مع نفسك كده وتشوف أول سلمة خطيت عليها كانت ليه؟؟ .. بقولكم إيه .. أنا مليش دعوة .. كل واحد حر .. مش هقول لحد شعارات .. هـوفرها لنفسي و يا ريت تعملوا زيي ..

أنا شعاري المرحلة الجاية "لا جدال" :))))

.. N.O.H.A ..

Power to the Writers! : An interview with Shaymaa El-Gammal, Journalist & Media Consultant

2012-01-03T21:35:00.000+02:00

Power to the Writers!

Photo by : Basma Fathy. Edited by: Ahmed Atef Megahed

An interview with Shaymaa El-Gammal, Journalist & Media Consultant

Believe it or not, a lot of people are actually afraid to look themselves in the mirror each day. They're not all excited about facing their daily routines and responsibilities; managing to suppress their feelings inside, not giving themselves a chance to breathe freely every now and then. However when they start asking for help, they usually receive the same advice; "Go away, travel sometime, lighten up a bit, you need to change…" Nonetheless, no one actually helps them, only until they meet a wise man who would instruct them to start writing. Yes, to simply start pouring out what they have in mind, heart, and soul in papers to release the amount of pressure they are facing every single day.

Consequently, this power of confession comes to their rescue. It revives their soul and helps them explore a whole new dimension of sanity, relaxation, and peace. But, some people use this power as their own profession. They practice it as a way of discovering the world, making a difference in one's life, or simply babbling about it for the fun of it. Shaymaa El-Gammal is one of those people who enjoy this power of confession. She goes with the motto of, "Don't Hide What You Are!" Her job as a writer has grown in her ever since she was a child, which encouraged her to start a blog and post her own ramblings to the world as well. Not having the difficulty to validate what she has in mind, she developed into a professional, daring, interesting Journalist and Media Consultant. Her writings are spontaneous, very enjoyable to read, and highly informative. We have come across her very own first book, "Ta2 Marbouta," and decided to interview her, so she can tell us more about her experience with publishing, writing, and self-development. Speaking about her own thoughts and revelations, or as we called it above "babbling," she managed to present her own "EAT PRAY LOVE" journey to us. Make sure you grab your copy; you will definitely find yourself in a chapter or two. Who knows, maybe it may encourage you to break-through your silence and start writing your own book someday. To check out her latest updates, go to http://www.facebook.com/Shaymaa.Gammal.

· Please introduce yourself to our readers.

I'm Shaymaa El-Gammal, 25 years old. I'm married and I have one kid called, Firas. I've graduated from the Faculty of Arts, Ain Shams University to work as a Tour Guide for a while. Then, I shifted my career to a Children Instructor when I came across Kelmetna magazine and started practicing my writing, which I neglected since I was 12. At that point, I regained my real passion towards writing, so I started working as a Journalist along Education. Now, I contribute in several publications, like Cairo 360, Al-Wafd News Portal… etc. I love music, reading, photography, food, and surfing the net.

· What does the book talk about?

It's a collection of my articles, ramblings, and revelations I've written since 2008 and till now. It presents several occurrences I've experienced, like the first time I fell in love, my marriage, the birth of my baby boy, the death of one of my friends/relatives, along with some situations I tried expressing my point of view through them.

· What encouraged you to write?

I started writing my diaries when I was around 9 years old; what I thought about some movies, songs I liked, famous quotes… etc. Having so much time on my hands, as I was brought up in Saudi Arabia, made me write; I disliked the loneliness. But then, I stopped at the age of 12 and started writing again for Kelmetna as I mentioned before.

· What does your child, Firas, represent to you? Did marriage influence your writing by any means?

Firas represents the future I'm living for. My world revolves around him and my husband. My marriage encouraged me to be more successful due to my husband's love and constant support. Of course, I had to turn down a lot of opportunities in TV and Journalism, but it's ok; it's never too late to achieve it later.

· What made you decide to write a book?

I took the decision when I read these specific books: "Rice in Milk" by Rehab Bassam and "Whatever You Think, Think the Opposite" by Paul Arden. Rehab taught me how to write about myself; how to be cosy, honest, and universal at the same time, while Paul introduced me to creativity, innovation, and breaking the habits writing/publishing. Also, Al-Shorouk publications stimulated my thought of working on my project, after I saw their successful experiences of turning several blogs into books.

· What inspires you?

Usually ideas come to me whenever I witness any influential incident, read a book, or watch a video on YouTube… etc. Strangely, I feel the urge to write whenever I go to Virgin stores; its atmosphere urges me to pick a café afterwards and just write!

· What's the difference between writing a book and writing on your blog?

You don't have to think of the consequences when you write a new blog post. In other words, you are able to breathe, caring less about your writing style. On the other hand, writing a book requires solid structure, more vocabulary, and organization. You have to deliver a message, not just rant.

· What's your parents' response after reading your book?

Surprisingly, they respected everything I wrote and no one made feel bad whatsoever.

· What's your life philosophy?

As Fayrouz once sang, "I'm a humming bird… my people set me free to wander under the sun through endless roads…," I enjoy life, freedom, work, and the sun. My eternal daydream is to fly while sleeping. I love living as simple and as light as a bird. My motto is to accept all human beings just the way they are.

· How do you picture yourself when you're 40?

I think I'll gain weight, but I'll enjoy who I will become. I'll always feel I'm in my 20's. I'll refuse to wear high heels. I'll be writing a lot, and will have good fans too. I'll maintain my childish character with my kids.

· What do you mainly focus on in your writings?

I write what I feel; I do not usually seek to be funny or try to deliver what everyone wants. I am who I am, and that's simply it.

· Do you think writers have a different personality? Is it true they live in their own bubble?

Usually, a writer lives two lives; a public one and a secret one. He/she has to successfully separate both personalities to be able to get in touch with his/her inner-self. It's all about focus and control. A writer can be very shy and decent in real life, but may live like hookers on paper to engage with what is written.

· To which extent stability is important to a writer and how?

Stability is not essential to a writer; on the contrary, it's very damaging. It can kill any inspiration along the way. That's why, the best writings are produces in times of love, break-ups, giving birth to a child, divorce, death… etc.; occurrences like these create amazing pieces.

· What would you say to those who did not unleash their writing talents yet?

You have got to release your souls and get out of your cage, that's simply it. And, here's a small tip for you; if you're not brave enough to write as a first person, you can always use a third person narrator.

· It has been brought to my attention that you discussed loneliness in your book. In your opinion, how deep can it affect girls?

Loneliness can turn a girl into a positive, creative artist. It can help her make peace with herself. On the other hand, she can become worse by all means; acting all differently and doing thing she's not usually satisfied about.

· Clearly, it's demonstrated how much you love Fayrouz. What's the story?

Including her unique voice, I feel she has sung to most ladies out there; encountering us in several emotional states. She's deep, thoughtful, calm, and not glamorous, which I strongly like about her. Fayrouz is an idol to me, like Guevara or Marlin Monroe to anyone else.

· Do you believe in change?

Indeed! Everyone changes as he/she becomes older. Man's relationship with God is a living proof of that. Writers need change in their lives be able to develop their writing styles every one and then. New experiences definitely revive your way of life and help you endure the amount of pressure you're going through any period of time.

.. N.O.H.A ..

Shaymaa El-Gammal's Contacts:

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/Shaymaa.Gammal
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/ShaymaaelGammal

Blog: http://ayamwayam.blogspot.com
E-mail: shay_reda@yahoo.com

You've Got the Love!

2011-12-23T01:25:00.000+02:00

You've Got The Love!

It's never too late to start living. It's never too late to be recognizable, to feel alive, or to embrace life. You deserve to be treated with respect, for you have rights for a better future. Believe that you can achieve beyond your imagination. Never belittle yourself. Never think you're less than anyone else. Never underestimate your intuition. Become your own best friend to have the will of overcoming, conquering, and defeating your own demons.

According to Psychologists, "Personality" is defined as a combination of emotional, attitudinal, and behavioral response patterns of an individual. Consequently, these patterns develop your character; they shape your lifecycle. Govern them, you'll blossom; abuse them, you'll breathe heavily. Everyone of us has his/her mechanism, which is regularly affected by various inputs, and this is how we're evolved into the people we are today. To be able to peacefully get along with yourself, you have to daily remind yourself of this quote; "No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We, ourselves, must walk the path," (Buddha). Bring a piece of paper and hang it where you can see it every day. Highlight these words, "No one" and "Ourselves" to recognize the power of self-confidence. Waiting to be loved is not your only way to salvation. Loving yourself is your highest priority. Explore your missing pieces and fit them all back together in harmony because no one will do it for you. Only then, you'll revive your own soul.

Be Good .. Be Kind .. Be Truthful .. Be Sensible .. Be Joyful .. Be Considerate .. Be Giving .. Be Passionate .. Be Glamorous .. Be Confident .. Be Strong .. Be Beautiful .. Be Grateful .. Be Helpful .. Be Patient ..

Interview Yourself
Have a one-on-one interview with yourself. Write down a list of your advantages and disadvantages in one piece of paper; put each in a separate column. At the end, your good qualities will lift up your mood. See?! You're not too bad after all.

"Getting in touch with your true self must be your first priority." ~ Tom Hopkins

You're not Alone
The first thing you have to realize is that you're not alone in this world. Believe it or not, someone, somewhere is living- if not-a similar situation, then a worse life than what you're living at the moment. Be patient; you never know what the future holds for you. Accept your fate and it will turn out for the best on its own.

"All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Let Go of your Anger
Forgive the ones who hurt you, and forget the incidents that came along with it. If someone is sorry, give them a chance to redeem themselves to you. You never know what they had in mind. If it's still too hard for you, then make use of it; work out, write, read… etc. Just make sure you keep your mind off of thinking.

"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned." ~ Buddha

Be Kind
Listen more than you talk. Give away some charity money. Be giving, and try not to say no if someone is calling for your help. Put yourself in people's shoes to experience what they feel. By then, you'll be amazed by the amount of support you'll have later. Also, don't forget to pamper yourself; you deserve it.

"Begin to be now what you will be hereafter." ~ William James

Become Closer to God
Maintain your daily rituals. Recite more prayers from your heart. Believe it or not, this specific element is the only common factor to all good things. Stop being so stubborn and face it; you'll realize how much it makes you feel better!

"What is Faith? When your good deed pleases you and your evil deed grieves you, you are a believer. What is Sin? When a thing disturbs (the peace of) your heart, give it up." ~ Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)

Develop Yourself
Read more self-development books to motivate you. Find inspiration by reading true stories. Try to limit your materialistic urges and replace them with more knowledge. Be curious and thoughtful about our daily news. Novels can encourage you to be analytical and understand more people as well.

"He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life." ~ Muhammad Ali

Let Go of Negativity
Think happy thoughts. Fight the dark waves that invade your mind. Break away from sadness, either by having a 30 minutes wake everyday or going on a vacation every now and then. Changing your daily routine will help you greatly. If someone invites you for a community activity, go ahead and try it; you may love it.

"A people free to choose will always choose peace." ~ Ronald Reagan

Limit Your Access to Technology
Too many machineries, too many wires, too many than what our bodies can endure! "Disconnect to Connect" as I saw once in an advertisement. Go out and socialize. Call your old friends and get together somewhere. Open your eyes to your surroundings. Add a little glimpse of nature to your day; "Green" is good to your system. It certainly cools you off and clears your mind.

"Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the winds long to play with your hair." ~ Khalil Gibran

Create Your Own Masterpiece
Whether you write, cook, design… etc., unleash your talents within your friends and family, and ask them for support. Let your voice be heard and share your creations for the world to explore. Be effective and never live only for yourself; your existence will be worth-living.

"Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren't used to an environment where excellence is expected." ~ Steve Jobs

.. N.O.H.A ..

دماغي كده!

2011-12-19T18:31:00.000+02:00

بالله عليكم .. قبل ماتيجوا تتناقشوا معايا وتعلقوا على أي حاجة بحطها عندي .. ماحدش يفتكر إني بدافع عن اللي بيحرقوا ويبوظوا الممتلكات .. أنا بدافع عن اللي بيتظاهروا وبيعتصموا .. عندي قناعة إن المجلس الحقير ده هو السبب في كل اللي بيحصل وهو اللي ساب البلطجية وهو اللي عمل الخطة دي كلها من أولها لأخرها عشان تيجوا أنتم تخافوا وتقولوا هنعمل إيه من غيره؟؟! .. هو اللي مأكلنا هو! هو اللي شيلنا هو! .. هو اللي حامينا هو!!! وهو لا حاميكم ولا شاريكم ولا بيفكر فيكم أصلا .. وعامل عليكم تمثيلية كبير قوي وأخدتوا الطعم صح قوي!! تمام زي ما كان مبارك منايّمكم .. وأنا بقى لا طاهرة ولا شريفة ولا فوق البشر عشان فاهمة قذرته .. أنا واحدة عادية جدا ومش بأتعالى على حد! بس ماحلتيش غير دماغي اللي بفكر بيها وبرفض أي حد يستعماني ويستغفلني لأني مش ساذجة الحمدلله !!! فـبالله عليكم سيبوني في حالي لو مش مقتنعين باللي بقوله .. ودمتم!

.. N.O.H.A ..

A Sealed Promise

2011-12-12T21:30:00.000+02:00

A promise has been made .. A fate has been written ..
A precious seal has found its way to my heart ..

He has succeeded .. Yes, he did ..
He has managed to revive my soul ..
He knew how to bring me back to life ..
And that's what he does best ..

People keep wondering why ..
They wish they had the chills he gives me ..
I'm not sad, though ..
For who has tasted eternal love, wishes the same for all ..

Mark this day forever .. It's written in our history ..
It's the day we signed our own manifesto ..
There's no turning back .. No, now is the time of the brave ..
You dream, you'll conquer .. You let in fear, you'll fail ..

My love, read these words and repose ..
Save yourself for the one who cherishes you the most ..
Remember, don't ever forget ..

Your heart is safe here with me ..

The letters of your name are carved on mine ..

Your soul will never be alone even if I'm not around ..

.. N.O.H.A ..

*Inspired by Christina Perri - A Thousand Years

بالنسبة للناس اللي في التحرير

2011-11-26T01:02:00.001+02:00

للعلم .. مش كل اللي في التحرير عايزين البرادعي ولا عايزين يحرقوا أقسام ومنهم شباب الإخوان والسلفيين وشباب من ائتلاف شباب الثورة ومنهم ناس كتير قوي من الشعب .. طلعان عينهم وشايفين كرامتهم فوق كل شيء

اعرف الناس بجد نازلة عشان إيه وبلاش تجمع ... حاول تبقى عادل وحيادي وعقلاني ..
على فكرة أنا ضد المجلس وضد الباردعي .. أنا مع الإنتخابات وحكومة إنقاذ وطني !

حكومة إنقاذ وطني حاجة ومجلس رئاسي مدني حاجة تانية خالص خلوا بالكم!

الإنتخابات هي الحل دلوقتي .. ماتخلوش اللي بيحصل في التحرير والعباسية يغمي عنيكم على أهم حدث عدّى علينا من ساعة الثورة .

استعلم عن لجنتك الانتخابية و المرشحين
http://www.elections2011.eg/

حملة التوعية بالإنتخابات

http://www.youtube.com/user/Elections2011Eg?feature=watch

.. N.O.H.A ..

أنا قلت نعم!

2011-11-18T15:32:00.001+02:00

تصوير عمر كمال

أقر أنا المواطنة المصرية نهى عبد التواب إني واحدة من اللي قالت نعم ..

أنا قلت نعم للثورة مش لبقاء العسكر ..

أنا قلت نعم لتعديل 6 أو 7 بنود مش لإعلان دستوري ..

أنا قلت نعم لاستقرار مش دوّامة لمدة سنتين ..

أنا قلت نعم لتسليم السلطة لرئيس جمهورية مش لعسكري ببدلة مدني ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان صفوت الشريف يتحاكم مش عشان يتسكت عليه وميطلعش عليه خبر واحد هو وأمثاله ..

أنا قلت نعم للمادة التانية من الدستور مش لمجلس من غير إستفتاء شعبي ..

أنا قلت نعم لإنتخابات مجلس شعب في سبتمبر 2011 وإنتخابات رئاسية في 2012 مش لشلل ربعي لحد نص 2013 ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الأمن يرجع مش عشان قانون الطوارئ يمتد ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان صوتي يطلع للناس مش عشان يتقال عليه تطاول وعدم إحترام .. لأ وكمان إنى بلطجية ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الشرطة تحترمنا مش عشان يربّونا على ثورتنا ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان أخد حقي مش عشان يتقاللي كفاية إعتصامات ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان ألاقي تأمين صحي وأمان مش سرقة في كل حتة وتكاسل ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الفقراء والعشوائيات والفساد مش عشان رجوع فلول حزب وطني وقصور التجمّع الخامس ورشاوي هنا وهناك ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الناس تتكاتف مع بعض وتبطّل أنانية مش عشان كل واحد يفرش فرشته في أي ميدان ويرمي زبالة في كل حتة ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الطفل يتعلم كويس مش عشان يتقال له في كتاب إن حسني مبارك لسه بيحكمنا ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الشباب يصنع قرارات مش عشان يتسجن بمحاكم عسكرية ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان المجلس قال إن جاتله أوامر بالضرب ورفض مش عشان يقولوا إحنا بتوع إشاعات ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان اطلب طلب ويترد عليَّ مش عشان اتساب بالأسابيع والشهور لحد ما أزهق ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان أنا واحدة من الشعب وصوتي يفرق مش عشان يتقال إني من حزب الكنبة ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان كنت واثقة في المجلس العسكري مش عشان يأخد الثقة دي وشويه بشويه ينسب الثورة لنفسه ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الجيش يرجع لثكناته مش عشان يحكمنا رئيس عسكري من تاني ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان اللي سرق يأخد جزاؤه مش عشان يتفقوا معاه يسلم ويستلم ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان قانون العقوبات يتفعّل بجد مش عشان قانون الطوارئ يفضل يحكمنا ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الوزارء يورونا وشهم مش عشان يقعدوا على مكاتب ومانفتكرش حتى أساميهم ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان ينتهي عصر الورق والتصاريح مش عشان أغرق في روتين ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان ماحدش يشتمني لما أنزل مش عشان حد يضربني في الشارع ويجري ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان أتظاهر بإسلوب متحضر مش عشان أمن مركزي يفرقني بالقوة ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان الطبقية والإستعلاء فى التعامل ينتهوا مش عشان اللي معندوش ينداس عليه ويتباع بالرخيص ..

أنا قلت نعم عشان اللي عندي عمره ما هيخلص ولازم المجلس يفهم كده .. لازم يعي إن الناس مش هتهدى وتخرس زي زمان .. الكيل فعلا طفح وعفّن وانتشر في كل حتة فى البلد .. يا حكومة يا إما تعابرونا يا إما تسيبونا .. الشعب عمل ثورة على البلد نفسها: سياستها بمنشأتها بأحزابها .. على أكلها وشربها وإقتصادها وأسلوب قمعها .. ثورة على أقل حق لينا إننا نحس بكرامتنا فى أرضنا !

أنا قلت نعم عشان مخافش أكتب كلام زي ده مش عشان أستنى مكالمة تهديد من أمن دولة أو أمن مسمي نفسه وطني !

.. N.O.H.A ..

هو أنا بكلم نفسي هنا؟

2011-10-04T00:46:00.001+02:00

هو أنا بكلم نفسي هنا؟
أُمّال ليه أنا حاسة بكده ؟؟

أنا ليه حاسة إن ماحدش سمعني؟؟ أنا ليه أيقنت إني مسجونة ؟؟
ليه دايما عندي إحساس بالوحدة مع إن عندي صحاب كتير ؟؟
وليه دايما حاسة إن حقي مش موجود مع إني بأكل وبشرب ومصروفي موجود ؟؟

وليه حاسة إنى بتضيع مع إن عجلة الإنتاج ماشية والإستقرار مالي البلد لحد الملل ؟؟
وليه دايما خايفة إن المجلس العسكري يحكمنا بدل مبارك مع إنه دايما بيوعدنا بغير كده ؟؟
وليه مجلس الشعب متعملش في سبتمبر مع إن الثورة قامت في يناير ؟؟

وليه لسة بيتقال على الشباب شوية عيال وبلطجية مع إن اللي سرقوا و قتلوا بيتحاكموا ؟؟
وليه عيال زي أحمد سبايدر وكريم حسن لما يطلعوا يقولوا على الملأ إنهم بيضربوا في ناس مابيتشدوش وألتراس أهلاوي يتعمل عليهم كمين عشان يحرمهوا ينطقوا تاني ؟؟

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وليه 6 ابريل يتقال عليهم خونة واللي خان البلد 30 سنة قاعد في مستشفى 100 نجوم ؟؟
وليه أول ناس إتحسن وضعهم في البلد هم الظباط وأهل الدويقة قعدوا بالشهور في الشارع من غير ما حد يعبرهم وفي الآخر اتفضوا بالقوة ؟؟؟

هو ليه دايما الشعب في ناحية واللي حاكم البلد من غير ما يختاره حد في ناحية تانية ؟؟

هو مش إحنا في بلد واحدة ولا إيه ؟؟

هو إحنا مش بنشرب نفس المية و بنأكل نفس الأكل و بنروح نفس الأماكن و عايشين في نفس الكرة الأرضية ولا إيه ؟؟؟

بالله عليهم حد يرد عليا .. يمكن أنا غلطانة .. مش مهم .. بس الأهم أرجع أحس من تاني إن حواليا ناسي وأهلي وعزوتي اللي خايفة عليَّا وحمياني من الأطماع و الغدر و الخيانة ...

إمضاء ..

مصر

.. N.O.H.A ..

Waiting is Gold

2011-10-01T23:52:00.001+02:00

What exactly are we waiting for? Is it Salvation? Is it Peace? Is it Harmony? Is it Love? Is it Marriage? Is it Kids? Is it Money? Is is Happiness? Is it paradise? ..

A lot of times I don't know the answers to these questions, on the other hand I'm okay with it ..

I tend to feel fine with the kind of life I'm living .. I tend to have peace with myself, even if people think otherwise .. I understand how they must feel .. They're just afraid of the things they know nothing about, specially when they actually care .. I agree I may seem confusing .. Surprisingly, they can't live my life, so they start urging me to change and live my life by their own rules ..

However, I'm okay .. I'm Waiting ... :)

Waiting isn't always a dreadful thing to feel .. Waiting isn't always demeaning or forsaken ..

Waiting sometimes can be your only solution .. It may become your only road-to-cross for a better future ..

Waiting, if it comes along with Patience, usually succeed to keep me right on track .. It helps me to survive, to appreciate life and go that extra mile everyone waits for ..

Call me crazy, as I recently fell in love with Hope .. Hardships do not always bring you down, they can quickly pull you back up and make you stronger than you've ever known ..

Suppression isn't always the key to become better, in other words to FEEL better ..

I've been there... I've known what it's like to prevent yourself from the things you love, the things you desperately long for, and the things that make you safe .. just to feel whole again ..

If you tried waking up in the morning and going through your life journey, believe me you may find it fine after all .. Just tell yourself, you're gonna get what you want, you're gonna achieve what you've always dreamed of .. Just remind yourself of the treasures you have never taken a look at .. I'm sure you'll find a good thing or two that you love about yourself ..

Have a conversation with yourself every now and then .. Don't feel shy about it .. It does actually work!

Everything matters, don't ever undermine what you feel inside, don't ever think you're worthless .. That would only let you become more brutal, more cruel, more offensive to everyone else ..

And yes, you do not live alone :) .. Whether you like it or not, you'll have to deal with someone somewhere some day ...

I guess what I'm trying to say is ... Keep it simple, light, and full of flavor .. It's YOUR life we're talking about here .. It deserves some care, some appreciation, some joy to help you endure, affect, and enjoy ..

Try to be graceful with yourself .. indulge it, pamper it, and caress it every once in a while ..

You'll be blown away by the rewards if you let everything be reveled on its own ...

.. N.O.H.A ..

*Inspired by Take That's "I'd Wait For Life."

Love Sick

2011-09-25T23:59:00.001+02:00

She tends to drown in your eyes just by hearing your voice .. She loves hearing your heart beeping for her and only her .. She misses you everywhere she goes .. She sees you in every little thing she does ..

Forgive her if she's love sick .. Forgive her if she may seem demanding .. Forgive her if she's too sensitive to handle .. She loves you and pleads for your kindness ..

Everyday is a brand new day for her, only if she hears your voice .. Each morning she wakes up with a smile just because you're by her side .. And when the night comes, your arms is all she's got ..

Try a little tenderness ...

.. N.O.H.A ..

*Inspired by Adele's Lovesong :)

Just BE

2011-09-23T01:09:00.000+02:00

It's never too late .. It's never too late to start living .. It's never too late to fall in love .. It's never too late to feel alive ..

Know that you deserve to be treated with respect .. Know that you have rights for a better future .. Believe that you can achieve beyond your imagination ..

Never belittle yourself .. Never think that you're less than anyone else .. Never underestimate your belief in You!

Be Good .. Be Kind .. Be Truthful .. Be Sensible .. Be Joyful .. Be Considerate .. Be Giving .. Be Passionate .. Be Glamorous .. Be Confident .. Be Strong .. Be Beautiful .. Be Grateful .. Be Helpful .. Be Patient ..

Be Real .......

Only then ..... You'll Never Lose :)

.. N.O.H.A ..

Book Review: Shaymaa El-Gammal's "Ta2 Marbouta"

2011-09-06T01:13:00.000+02:00

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Cute! That's the first thing that came to my mind when I grabbed Shaymaa El Gammal's "Ta2 Marbouta." Its design gave me an impression that the book is certainly a fun, different ride; small and colorful, yet very enjoyable to read. It's very rare that I find Arabic books with appealing illustrations that goes along the readings as well.

So, here's what I thought about the book after reading it cover to cover. Shaymaa managed to gather some of her personal life experiences, day-dreaming revelations, along with few interesting resolutions; reciting bits and pieces of what she believes in. It is quite shown that she gave her all and poured what she had in her heart to be able to write the chapters of this book. This book is her first experience in the world of publishing, however she's been writing for years now as a journalist in several magazines.

Every girl will definitely relate to a chapter or two. The book is light, and very easy-to-read. It's mostly written in slang Arabic, exactly like she talks in real life. With every page that you flip, you'll feel it screams out her character. Her aspects are revealed in every story, every thought, and every vision.

My personal favorite segment is called, "Sho'aa'a Nour" or "Ray of Light," expressing how a writer can feel sometimes when he/she can be consumed by their moods; how one can be stuck in a mental state of mixed feelings, not knowing what to write but few ramblings and subjective wishes.

Also, you'll notice that Shaymaa's writing style is daring and surprising. For example, She wasn't scared to narrate how she used to steal stuff from the library when she was a child, not realizing she did a bad deed in the first place of course, or how she gets jealous at her husband from the slightest incidents, like drinking a cup of cocoa that gives him warmth or sleeping on a pillow that may hold his head all night long.

You don't want to miss "Ta2 Marbouta." After you finish reading, you'll be surprised to realize how it would provide you with the exact push/energy you wish to receive from a close friend. I felt good vibes coming out of this book. Encouragement is what I gained when I read these words: "Try to focus and remember the times when you were truly happy. Indeed, you have some memories that help you stick with whatever makes you sense real joy. Do not be shy ever!" ~ A quote from "A'an M'ana Al-Sa'ada Athadath" or "Speaking of Happiness."

P.S: If you'd like to check more of her writings, go to: http://ayamwayam.blogspot.com

Cilantro Central Magazine
October/November 2011

.. N.O.H.A ..

The Fog is Finally Lifting

2011-08-27T07:19:00.000+02:00

Is the block finally coming to an end? I hope so .. I'm starting to feel some of the thoughts growing in my brain again .. They're like seeds sent from heaven .. Don't know where they come from ..

My only solution is to stay calm .. Whenever I start recalling the past events, I panic; my brain takes a hold on me, sometimes totally freezes! Could it be because of the incidents that happened in my life recently? I really don't know ..

Hopefully, this free writing practice will help me release the evil thoughts I have .. It may liberate me once again from my dark side .. Every writer has one, that's for sure ..

I usually advice myself to fight back, but for this block I totally went with the flow .. I know it's almost a year since I've written a decent article or post, however I managed to keep up as much as I could .. You see... for me it's always about the idea... The quality, not the quantity! I can't help but wait for the right moment of inspiration, and start to pour out what I have in mind .. I'm not the kind of writer who can write for just writing .. I have to feel it! Call me emotional, but that's the way I'm made of .. in almost everything!

I know this post may sound pointless, but it means something to Me :)
After all, I have always been into writing because I wanted to have a voice, not because I wanted to earn a living...

I sincerely ask for your prayers... I'm experiecing some tough times nowadays and I could use your kindness anytime of the day...

May ALLAH, the most gracious, the most merciful, grants us the right path and guides us to what he sees best! Amen!

.. N.O.H.A ..

إديني ودنك يا مواطن

2011-08-14T07:40:00.000+02:00

ممكن معلش طلب صغير؟

كفاية كلام .. آه والله كفاية كلام ..

التلفزيون مابيبطلش كلام .. الناس مابتبطلش كلام .. الراديو مابيبطلش كلام .. والأهل طبعا مابيتواصوش :)

دول الناس اللي ماينفعش تقولهم بطلوا كلام .. مش عشان عيب مثلا لا سمح الله .. لأ عشان مفيش فايدة مش هيبطلوا أصلا :)

المهم .. أنا قصدي كفاية لإيه طيب؟

كفاية هلس .. آه والله كفاية هلس .. بمعنى أصح كفاية تُفشر وإنت مش عارف ..

كل من هبّ ودبّ دلوقتي يطلع على التلفزيون يقول أي كلام ملوش أي تلاتين لازمة يعملوا بيهم إشاعة يا إما يسنّوا سنة حسنة صراحة تلاقي كله قلّدهم وهلم جرّه ..

لو عليَّا مثلا مش مشكلة .. بس المشكلة في أمي اللي بتصدق أي حاجة ماشية في الشارع .. طب أعمل معاها إيه طيب .. يا نهى ماتنزليش .. حاضر .. يا نهى متعمليش .. حاضر .. يا نهى بيقولوا السلفيين .. هيموتونا .. لأ يا ماما متصدّقيش .. طب والمسيحيين اللي قاعدين لنا عالواحدة .. يا ماما متخافيش مفيش حاجة .. يا بنتي أنا بخاف عليكي .. عارفة يا ماما ..

ويالهوي لما كانوا بيجيبوا المسلسل الزفت اللي اسمه مطلوب رجال .. يا خراشــــــــــــى .. بلاش أحكي بقى :)

خلصت الكلام .. بس بالله عليكم إتصرفوا .. يعني أنا مش بأقول ماتتفرجوش ولا متسمعوش ولا ماتتكلموش ... بس أوزنوا الكلام كده بعقلكم .. يعني مش أي حد ييجي يقول أي حاجة تصدقوه .. عايزين نقضى على حملة "إديني ودنك يا مواطن" اللي الشيطان عمل يووورررر فيها لما خلاص !!

كلمتين كانوا واقفيين فى الزور وحبيت أقولهم .. بس كده !

.. N.O.H.A ..

I Miss Him

2011-08-09T00:58:00.004+02:00

I miss him ..

I miss the little beep in my heart that spreads like fire within me whenever I hear him calling my name ..

I miss how he looks at me without uttering a single word, waiting for me to tell what he feels instead ..

I miss the tingles, the yawns, the breathe I take whenever he's around ..
But, what I miss the most is how he caresses me by his soothing voice all day long ..

My soul longs for eternity by his side ..
My voice aches to beg him to stay every time ..
My heart knows what my mind wants, but can't seem to surrender to what we're living in, what we're walking up to, and what we're waiting for, every single day ...

Patience is our only allegiance ..
God is our only allay ..
Pleading for mercy is the only way ...
To be granted a glimpse of heaven if only for a while ...

.. N.O.H.A ..

مناجاة

2011-07-28T02:54:00.003+02:00

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إلهي أُشهِدك إني أُحِبك و أُحِب من أحَبّك فأرزُقني اللهُم من أُحِب فضلاً و ليس فرضاً .. جزاءً لطاعتنا و ليس أمراً .. اللهم إجمعني به في خير .. رحمةً و مودةً منك .. اللهُم أنت الغني ونحن الفقراء إليك .. ليس لنا سواك .. لا منجى و لا ملجأ منك إلا إليك .. أنت مولانا و حسبنا في الدنيا و الأخرة .. اللهم تقبل دعائنا و بدِّل سيئاتنا حسنات و حبِّب إلينا الطاعات .. اللهم آمــــــــيـــــــــن

.. N.O.H.A ..

I'm Not a Little Girl Anymore!

2011-07-28T00:12:00.002+02:00

Here's a Reality Check for you, I turned 29 years today.. Oh, yes.. I'm not a little girl anymore :)

I have a mind, body, and soul that can talk, walk, act, feel, cry, object, scream, and reject your insightful advices!

I don't need some shitty job to define who I am, I don't need you to tell me I've done nothing with my life, and I won't let ANYONE to choose any life decisions on my behalf..

I already have a personality.. I already know what I love and what I hate.. I already have goals that your mind can't process!

I don't have to be you to succeed, I don't have to endure the nonsense I hear from you or anyone else about how my life is worthless and useless...

I'm done taking my orders from you, I'm done waiting for you to understand, I'm done giving you a chance to redeem yourself..

I'm standing up for myself, I'm taking the most important decision in my life, I'm fighting your typical norm of living..

I won't be you .. I won't be anywhere near you .. I won't even wait for your empathy anymore ..

I have a will and I'm gonna fight for it! I'm gonna do what I want, what I decide, and what I plan ..

I want to live my life as I dream for it to be.. I want to believe in what I do, I want to feel I'm good at what I do.. Give it a rest, I'm not like you.. So, quit lecturing me!

Either you offer your support, or simply SHUT the **** UP!

.. N.O.H.A ..

Enough Formality

2011-07-15T21:40:00.003+02:00

I'm not an ordinary person & I never will be .. Yes, I get bored easily, deal with it .. But, disrespect?! This, I won't endure by any means!!!

What goes around comes around in case you didn't already know that .. And, yes I may lose a lot of ppl thru my life & I may not have lots of close friends .. However, I gain others each day. Believe it or not, whoever stays, a.k.a stands by me, is as genuine as hell!

This reminds me, I'm done writing formal essays & useless words .. Yeah, I'm bored as hell & you know you are too! Unless the piece grabs my attention, I'm placing it in the nearest trash! I'm writing what I want, when I want, how I want!!!

Ugggghhhhhh!!!!!

.. N.O.H.A ..

Pain is Power!

2011-07-13T10:23:00.006+02:00

Despite what other people may think, I believe that "Pain" is a crucial part of our lives..
It's our fuel.. It's what keeps us going and ignites our fire..

Unfortunately, people misuse it.. They tend to re-live it over and over again, when it's only meant to push you along the way..

I admit, I was trapped for many years in this type of looping phase; where I see all non-living things feeding on my brain.. I was standing still, couldn't manage to breathe or maybe think of a solution.. As if I'm trying to be dead, when I'm not :)

I used to wonder how people actually live beside all this torments and delusions.. Depression was the only road for me.. Didn't know the true meaning of positivity.. I would be positive for a few days in a month, and the rest are full of total misery..

But, something truly happened... I got got fed up!

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I knew then I had the power to choose..
I knew that anger wasn't the solution to everything..
I knew that talking to someone actually helps..
I knew that there were people feeling the same as I am; breathing the same air that I'm inhaling..

Suddenly, I was not alone anymore.. I was set free.. I could do anything I wanted in the world..
I was convinced that I matter for real.. I felt "Pain" was always there for a reason.. I finally knew why I had had to put up with all what I'm facing.. You can flip it, toss it, turn it around, re-shape it.... you name it! Do ANYTHING you want with it :)

What a relief! Kindness genuinely works in our life... Whether you CHOOSE to believe it or not, CHANGE can actually happen...

Try it yourself.. Give a chance to Good to vanquish Evil.. Darkness do fade away..
"Set Fire To The Rain" as ADELE sings ;)

Have a good day everyone!

.. N.O.H.A ..

Reality Check: I Don't Care!

2011-07-13T09:48:00.004+02:00

Holding on to your grudges.. What a splendid work of art!

The situation goes as follows.. Someone decides to argue with you, then you choose not to go for it.. The conclusion is that you're not brave enough to respond.. (Or, that's how their mind works).

Here's a wake up call for you :)

Maybe they decided to do that ("retreat" in their case, or this is how you picture it) 'cause they actually cared about your feelings.. Maybe they chose not to be drawn to a loop of useless, inefficient arguments.. Maybe, just maybe they didn't want to live by your delusional standards..

Oh, yes.. For the sake of goodness and friendship... They ARE actually good people :)

Believe it or not, you're not so perfect either.. You have to realize that it was your fault one way or the other.. Maybe you weren't so brave yourself when you decided to hold the grudge.. Maybe you weren't as strong as you think when you chose not to confront them (earlier)..

I may not make sense to you right now, nor to those reading this post.. But the fact that you choose a demeaning way to deal with a person explains a lot...

Here's another wake up call for you ... We're not God :)

We do not get the chance to lecture/control people... We do not choose how a person responds, acts, or feels towards another...

If you simply want to stop knowing a person, don't make a fuss about it... Making a scene isn't always the solution...

Also, if you want to REGAIN someone's trust, you have to give your all.. You have to fight to make things right... That's how they really acknowledge how genuine you are.. Whether you like it or not, people need pampering..

At the end, all this could happen on only one condition: that this person would ACTUALLY CARE :)
Unfortunately, they don't :)

Cheers!

.. N.O.H.A ..

This "Something is Missing" phrase has to END!

2011-06-27T04:27:00.003+02:00

"Something is Missing!"

How many times do you recite this phrase to yourself everyday?
How many days do you wait for a miracle?
To what extent are you willing to really wait for the one?
Are you really satisfied with your life?
Have you achieved what you've always dreamed of?
Have you got the chance to actually get to know yourself?
What was your childhood dream job?
Do you practice what you preach for real?
What's the one thing you're still holding on to?
What makes you unique?
What do you really want? Not what your parents want, nor your friends.. Just YOU!
....................
...........................

Do I need to list more questions? Did I succeed to grab your attention?!

Now please answer. For the love of God, do it! Don't stand still. Don't blame others. Just be true to yourself for once. Bring back the fire you're losing. Remind yourself of what you've always wanted. Ignite your lost flame.

Believe it or not, using your brains actually is effective like fireworks. Even though you're standing still, THERE IS HOPE. There are way worse circumstances than what you're living in. Of course, I'll hear you saying, "I need to care about myself now. Me soul needs repairing." HELL YES it does, that's why you MUST listen to other stories that yours. :)

Get your mind off of things. Search out for the different colors of life. Try not to be selfish for once and help others. Forgive! And that's an order :) You may think those tasks are tiring, but trust me when I tell you this; Only those who are enjoying this life we're living are the ones who really embrace pain.

This is not another shitty blog post, nor I'm trying to impress you. This is an attempt to remind myself, before you, that we all matter. We are born for a purpose, Don't die just yet!

Keep it simple as much as you can. You never know what you're facing next in life, you oughta be prepared to be risky. That's your only ticket to salvation.

.. N.O.H.A ..

A Colorful Message

2011-05-17T04:32:00.002+02:00

I very much love innovation, maybe cuz I'm Bipolar. Then again, who doesn't?!

Although, most people nowadays see the back seat of everything, I still choose to see it in my own way. This country IS & WILL BE great! Not because we want to, but because ALLAH (swt) has decided to grant us, at last, the true path to salvation.

I still have hope and I still see the light at the end of the tunnel. It's there, it's near, and it's, indeed, for all mankind, and not just for Egyptians. We have known the true meaning of Fajr Prayer, and that, my friends, is our first weapon.

I hope this coming stage spreads not more but amazing ideas and free-spirited visions, which will help us all on our road to failure; consequently, our country's first, true life experience.

.. N.O.H.A ..

*Inspired by: "It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all -- in which case, you fail by default." ~ J.K. Rowling .. Author and Best Seller of Harry Potter series.

إرفع رأسك فوق .. إنت مصرى :)

2011-05-10T00:19:00.002+02:00


Credits goes to: B+ Bassem Youssef Show

اليهود بيتغذوا على الكره والغيظ والخوف اللي في قلوبكم .. مابيهدلهمش بال ولا بيناموا بالليل كده وهم شايفين البلد دي بتكبر .. تصريح امريكا بإعفاء المليار جنية وانجلترا النهارده بالحكم علينا غرامة ما يتعداش بسهولة .. خدعوك فـقالوا هيبقوا راضيين عننا أو إن صورتنا تتحسن قدام العالم كله .. ولو حد إستسلم وصدق الهلس اللي بيحصل ده .. يبقى العيب فينا إحنا مش فيهم ...

يا رب أرزقنا الهداية و أرنا الحق حق و أرزقنا إتباعه و أرنا الباطل باطل و أرزقنا اجتنابه .. ادعو بكده يا ريت :)

وعشان تهدوا أعصابكم اتفرجوا على اللينك ده : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTw8FR9s_qU&sns=fb

و عشان تفهموا وجهة نظرى إقرأ الخبر ده: http://www.dostor.org/politics/middle-east/11/may/6/41412

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I - R E F U S E

2011-05-09T02:06:00.002+02:00

"I refuse to lose how you make me feel. I refuse to neglect the fact that it's real. I refuse to let go of something so rare to find, so hard to get. I refuse to surrender to negativity, to give in to my fears. But, I only agree on becoming more stronger, to grow older, to feel recognized... You're the only road I see ahead of me." ~ .. N.O.H.A ..

If You Like It, Then You Should Put a Ring on It ;)

2011-05-09T01:56:00.001+02:00

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Hmm… speaking of the devil, "COMMITMENT" is usually the sum of all fears; the scariest action a man has to do. But, a person has to be fair, as well, because there are some men who are craving for some love and dedication in their lives. Obviously, those aren't the ones whom we will be talking about here. Let's first review the meaning of Commitment, shall we?

The What

Usually, Commitment is to be able to fully give in to the person that you love and desire. It is to be devoted and willing to love unconditionally, while having the courtesy of being responsible and living up to it. But, let's face it; that's how WOMEN see it. Men, on the other hand, think of it as some sort of entrapment. Unfortunately, it has been widely spread nowadays among their species that it is the hardest decision they will have to take through their entire lives. Then again, they're the ones who own the keys to the whole kingdom. Usually, they think that it is the toughest job ever; far more complex than climbing mountains, traveling through time and space or having dinner with President Obama for instance. It's exactly like taking the hottest girl on the block out for a day! You'll feel trapped and dazzled at first, but then you can get bored and want to instantly shoot her due to her stupidity. But still, if she's got the looks, then she's worth the trouble ;)

That's how I think men talk to themselves when they hear the word "Commitment" for the first time:

"Commitment? ... What in the world is that word? ... Who came up with this word in the first place? ... I've never heard about this word in my entire life, I swear! :| "

While that's how women usually react:

"Oh my! You're my ultimate love... You're whom I've been dying to meet through my entire life... How can you not know about commitment? ... Aren't your mum and dad committed already?"

Men reply as follows: "All I know is that they're taking turns of yelling at me. I never knew that's called Commitment!"

Funny, huh?! There used to be a time when men craved for a look or just a three words letter sent by their sole soul mates. They spent hours and hours waiting for their love to just drop by and say Hi.

The Why

You see, our domestic problems have widely grown. The policies and routine lives are growing on us, but the main issue is that we all have family conflicts. We all suffer from the lack of communication and we all do absolutely nothing about it. God only saves the ones who truly try to make things work for themselves and genuinely offer all what they have to give for the sake of peaceful reality. If you ask any guy about their relationship with their parents, they mostly answer as follows: "I don't see them that much to have a relationship that often." They tend to escape their lives and lead a totally different one on the outside. I've always believed in the saying that states: "If you really wanna know how a man will treat you, you should observe how he treats his mom." You may think I'm old fashioned, but believe me it's incredibly true. Just observe it for yourself and you'll know I'm right.

The Who

Whenever you ask a man nowadays of how he sees his future, he goes like: "Ahhh ... mmm ... of course, of course... Hey dude, wait for me!" And that's how the show ends ladies and gentlemen. Who do you think is responsible for this? OF COURSE THE WOMAN WHO ASKED; Are you kidding me??!! **Laughing Out Loud** And, the list just pops out of his head; "she's definitely complicated, ignorant, and bossy. I'll never call her again!" I usually wonder why they wanna escape having thoughts or even neglect to try having a 5 years plan for example. It's very hard to find a decent thoughtful guy who doesn't think that he's some sort of a God around here. Most of them think they're GAMDEEN AWI; fantasizing the day when they will conquer any heart of a woman and give her the privilege of being his companion. And, who's always the one to blame for any disaster? OF COURSE, THE WOMAN as well. "Why the hell do you go talk to that guy for?" (a man acts nervously) "Haven't I told you million of times to call me when you decide to go out? ... Aren't you supposed to make me better?" Oh please! For the love of God, enough having meaningless quarrels! On the other hand, try to reasonably discuss things and treat your woman like a human being, who has a brain and not just a soothing ointment that you use whenever you feel a bee's sting. It's widely known among the society of women that they have to act dumb ALL THE TIME, in order to preserve the guy she's with -- as if he's a national treasure or something!

So, don't ever think that we're endlessly lost. Believe it or not, we do know how to act and react around men. In fact, it mostly consumes as all our lives and that's because "WE'RE BORN TO DO IT!" We're specially designed to contain and embrace your existence, not to clean up your daily smelly mess.

The How

-- I'm the man of the 'Dos' & not the 'I Dos' -- Huh?! What does that even mean?! You're a man who loves action, but can never be a part of it. So, it means that you'd love to have a woman in your life to cherish, to hold … bla bla bla, but you can never get hitched. SPLENDID! So, that's how it has been working for over 5 years or more now. Whenever you talk to a guy about marriage, he simply and literary freaks out! They instantly think you're trying to trap them or something. They amazingly start changing the subject and may, suddenly, remember that he had a doctor appointment that he's missed and need to reschedule for his own health. It's like Jason has risen from the graveyard and decided to pay him a visit. I'll never forget the expression that I heard from a friend's ex-boyfriend, when he suddenly asked her to hang up the phone just because she mentioned that she could wait for him "IF" -- and I repeat "IF" -- he decided that they should get engaged. Hmm, but I think that was slightly better that the other guy who was ALREADY engaged and still wants to be with her. I was like and I quote: "Why didn't he ever think of getting engaged to you?" and she replied, quoting his words as well: "I don't know. I just never thought of you as my wife!" And what really makes you laugh is that he's totally convinced that he's not doing her any harm or to his wife-to-be. He's being honest and that's an amazing privilege in her life (In his bloody sweaty twisted dreams!).

Do us a favor and just be direct once and for all guys. If you're into having fun, just inform women up front. You'll be surprised of the outcomes and I'm not kidding. Just be open and allow us to be ourselves without all the lies and deceit that you all wish they could disappear. Moreover, if you're truly into a woman for real, highlight it and don't be afraid to just pour out what you have to say so spontaneously. Women always love a man who's protective of his feelings, but passionate as well.

The End

I hope I didn't sound offensive or anything. I know I tend to be strict when it comes to morals. And, I repeat; I'm not against ALL men and I'm not some sort of an angel either. I just think that the ignorant way of treating a woman is past tense. However, I admit that some women deserve to be treated as pets because they simply choose to act like one. To make things end up pretty smooth, I would love to express my gratitude to the manly race; they're the reason we exist and they're the ones who make our lives easier. It always feels like heaven when a man simply decides to 'yedala3 el wa7da menena shwya.' All they have to know is that we're not slow as we seem and we do deserve some respect and harmony every now and then. Simply, treat people like you want to be treated and have a healthy conversation every now and then. This saying goes out to both of you! Cheers!

Cairo Elite Magazine
November 2010

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