The Motivator

The Motivator is Back

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 10:45:00 +0000

Wow. I couldn't believe that I haven't made any single post here this year. How time flies when it is spent on challenging endeavors. To be candid, when I started this blog, I wasn't feeling too optimistic about my situation and position in life. So many things weren't the way I wanted them to be. I was depressed most of the time, so much that, it was becoming so difficult to concentrate on anything meaningful.

I figured that motivating others or just plain researching and writing motivation messages would not only uplift whoever gets to read the messages, but also help me out of the gloom that was pervading everything I did. And truthfully, it did worked. I was happy to wake up every other day thinking about what I would post on my blog. I stayed focused and was able to achieve more. Of course, just posting motivational messages didn't solve all of my problems, but it helped me see these issues from a different and better perspective.

Problem is, I got excited enough to live everyday without worries, I got myself into several challenging tasks, I found enough motivation and strength to chart a new course for myself, and unfortunately, in the process, I became too lazy to update this blog.

Well, that's all going to stop now. I am going to give this blog the attention it deserves. And if there is anybody there that has missed me and this blog, forgive me for quitting on you. So, let's get it started again.

Another Year Just Gone By

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Thu, 25 Dec 2008 09:39:00 +0000

It's the end of another year again, and as is usual, we all want to do self checks. We want to assess our achievements and failures, what we set out to accomplish in the year, how close we got to achieving them, what contributed to our successes and failures. These are all valid points to reflect on as the year runs out, but, we could do better.

One full year is a very long time in a man's life time. A lot of things; the good, the not so good and the ugly, happen or could happen in the course of 365days. Someone one's said that most of the frustrations and depressions we experience in life is because we view time in chunks of months or years, and most times wait for a year to end before reflecting on what we want out of life. A lot of things could happen in one full year, leaving you with a lot of things/events to worry about.

Life would be a lot easier, if time is measured in hours and days. Set daily goals and targets and evaluate your success everyday. There is less to worry about and more to learn if we measure our lives in days. At the end of every day, take time to evaluate what you wanted out of the day and what you got, draw your lessons and start each new days as you would start a new year.

Of course, months ends and year ends are critical periods to re-evaluate our lives, I am not contending that fact, what am pointing out, however, is that these rituals become more meaningful and less confusing, if we take our hours and days more important.

It's Christmas, have some fun, share joy and happiness and help lift this pervading gloom.
I wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Prosperous 2009.

Life's Little Lessons

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 08:15:00 +0000

I found this video on Youtube and just felt like sharing.
It's an emotionally rich video and I believe you'll be touched

Success is a Result of Focused Energy

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 09:57:00 +0000

The first rule of success, and one that supersedes all others,
is to have energy.

It's important to know how to concentrate it.
Focus your energy on important matters
instead of frittering it away on meaningless things.

Nothing will add more power to your life
then concentrating all your energies
on a limited set of goals.

You must focus the full power of all you are
on what you have a burning desire to achieve
if you truly want to be successful.

Gather in your resources, rally all your faculties,
marshal all your energies, focus all your capacities
upon attaining your objectives.

You must be single minded, and drive for the things
you have decided upon.

The sun's rays do not burn until brought to a focus.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today
It is never too late to be what you might have been
George Eliot

A person is only as big as the dream they dare to live
Anonymous

Thinking Positively Gets you There

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 16:03:00 +0000

Someone defined 'positive thinking' as a mental attitude. An attitude that admits into the mind images, thoughts and/or words that encourage a positive worldview, that propels one towards the achievement of goals and success; it is, in sum; a 'never say die attitude'; and the ability to see the good part of every situation. Sure, that’s a lot of words to define one concept, but the fact is, it is well worth.

Optimism or positive thinking is one major trait that differentiates happy and successful people from timid, fearful and depressed failures. There would always be challenges in life, but the ability see through them and think positively determines ones success in life. A lot has been said and read about positive thinking, but am sure the topic is never oversaturated.

The following story I got from somewhere illustrates the power of positive thinking:

Allan applied for a new job, but as his self-esteem was low, and he considered himself a failure and unworthy of success, he was sure that he was not going to get the job. He had a negative attitude towards himself, and believed that the other applicants were better and more qualified than him. Allan manifested this attitude, due to his negative past experiences with job interviews.

His mind was filled with negative thoughts and fears concerning the job for the whole week before the job interview. He was sure he would be rejected. On the day of the interview he got up late, and to his horror he discovered that the shirt he had planned to wear was dirty, and the other one needed ironing. As it was already too late, he went out wearing a shirt full of wrinkles.

During the interview he was tense, displayed a negative attitude, worried about his shirt, and felt hungry because he did not have enough time to eat breakfast. All this distracted his mind and made it difficult for him to focus on the interview. His overall behavior made a bad impression, and consequently he materialized his fear and did not get the job.

Jim applied for the same job too, but approached the matter in a different way. He was sure that he was going to get the job. During the week preceding the interview he often visualized himself making a good impression and getting the job.

In the evening before the interview he prepared the clothes he was going to wear, and went to sleep a little earlier. On day of the interview he woke up earlier than usual, and had ample time to eat breakfast, and then to arrive to the interview before the scheduled time.

He got the job because he made a good impression. He had also of course, the proper qualifications for the job, but so had Allan.

What do we learn from these two stories? Is there any magic employed here? No, it is all natural. When the attitude is positive we entertain pleasant feelings and constructive images, and see in our mind's eye what we really want to happen. This brings brightness to the eyes, more energy and happiness. The whole being broadcasts good will, happiness and success. Even the health is affected in a beneficial way. We walk tall and the voice is more powerful. Our body language shows the way you feel inside.

Positive and negative thinking are both contagious. All of us affect, in one way or another, the people we meet. This happens instinctively and on a subconscious level, through thoughts and feelings transference and through body language. People sense our aura and are affected by our thoughts. Is it any wonder that we want to be around positive persons and shun negative ones? People are more disposed to help us if we are positive. They dislike and avoid anyone broadcasting negativity.

Negative thoughts, words and attitude bring up negative and unhappy moods and actions. When the mind is negative, poisons are released into the blood, which cause more unhappiness and negativity. This is the way to failure, frustration and disappointment.

Words For Today
People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within
Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday
regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past...
We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have,
and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me
and 90% of how I react to it.
And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.
Chales R. Swindol

Laugh; It's Healthy

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 12:05:00 +0000

The ability to laugh at a situation or problem gives us a feeling of superiority and power. Humor and laughter can help you build a positive and hopeful attitude. You are less likely to succumb to feelings of depression and hopelessness if you are able to laugh at what is troubling you. Humor gives us a sense of perception on our problems. Laughter provides an opportunity for the release of those uncomfortable emotions, which, if held inside, may create biochemical changes that are harmful to the body.

No matter what you problem is, laugh it off.

You Are What You Believe

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 08:51:00 +0000

Without doubt, what and how you think, shape what you see. And your belief determines what you get out of life. So, for starters, if your life is not what you would like it to be, it's time to re-examine what you believes, and where necessary change your beliefs.

The question is: what exactly are beliefs?
There is no simple definition, however, it suffices to just say that beliefs are ideas you hold on to as facts; thoughts that you've processed through your mind repeatedly, and as such, constitute the foundation of your world view and life experiences. Unfortunately, beliefs are not always facts, neither are they universal truths, but your mind gives power to what you think repeatedly; power enough to control your life.

I read somewhere that: "your beliefs have a great deal of power over you, because you consistently come across evidence to support them. Your experiences in life will constantly prove your beliefs to be seemingly factually correct. The reason for this is that your conscious mind cannot possibly cope with every piece of information that it is exposed to. So your subconscious sifts all the information it receives and rejects that which contradicts your beliefs and retains that which supports them."

That explains why you would always see what you believe as facts and universal truths. Our beliefs come from a myriad of sources; what we learnt from parents as kinds, from teachers at school, from friends, societal norms and values and the list could go on.

However, what is important is not where your beliefs come from, but the fact that they influence your life because your mind sees them as undeniable fact. The worst problem with beliefs is that most of us leave with 'Limiting Beliefs', which tend to hold us back from going for what we want out of life, or interfere with our attempts to think about things in a new way. How you regard yourself, your strengths, abilities, financial situation, friends and families, to a large extent, determine your success in life.

If you are the type that has been programmed to see evil in everything, if you believe you can't achieve anything good, if you don't trust in your strengths, abilities and capacities; you may never be able to change things for the better in your life. Instead, you will encounter plenty of obstacles to support your belief that this is beyond your capabilities, your family doesn’t love you, your friends don't appreciate you or whatever it is that you're assuming to be the case.

Conversely, if you believe positively in your abilities and strengths; if you believe your family and friends love you and would always be there for you; if you believe things would always work out well; no matter the situation. Then you would always find success and happiness. Your beliefs won't stop you from encountering obstacles and barriers on the way, but they would make it easier to overcome these. You will always find loved ones to support and encourage you and you will be able to deal with failure and still move forward.

Changing your beliefs won't just change your life, it would help transform you into a better and more effective person.

And the good news is that, it is easy to change your beliefs.
Identify your beliefs in that area of your life you want to change. Ask yourself what beliefs would support your goals in these areas. Write out or search for positive affirmations. Recite these to yourself repeatedly for as long as it takes you to believe them. Just remember that for every belief you want to eliminate, there must be a positive one to replace it. Nature hates vacuum.

Go change your life; you deserve a better one!

Words For Today

Far away in the sunshine are my highest aspirations.
I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty,
believe in them and try to follow where they lead.
Louisa May Alcott

Open your eyes, look within. Are you satisfied with the life you're living?
Bob Marley

control Your Emotions

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:44:00 +0000

Anger and frustrations do always drive men into rash and irrational actions. People tend to take out their frustrations on others, and in the process start chain reaction that could potentially affect a lot of people and a lot of things.

I found this story among my collections and decided to share it. It's not mine, but I can't remember where I got it from.....

Jane, a bank executive, got caught in traffic on her way to an important presentation at a board of directors meeting. As a result, she was forty five minutes late for her presentation. After the meeting, Jane was in a really bad mood. Upon returning to her office, she discovered that several expected reports were not there.

Jane called Kevin, her administrative assistant, into her office and reprimanded him for not ensuring the reports had arrived on time. Another department was preparing the reports. Kevin had no control over when they would be delivered. Jane was in a foul mood and she didn't want to hear excuses.

Upset and stressed, Kevin called Donna, the secretary for the department preparing the reports. He started yelling at her that the reports he requested had not arrived on time. Although this was the first time Donna heard of the reports, Kevin didn't care. He was upset and took his anger out on Donna.

By the time she got off the phone with Kevin, Donna was seething. Who did Kevin think he was speaking to her like that? Just then, ED from the mailroom called Donna to ask how she wanted a package shipped. Donna accused ED of being an idiot for not knowing the package should be sent overnight because it was so important.

Ed tried to explain that there was no way he could have known what she wanted. Donna just slammed the phone down in a huff. Ed was livid. Did Donna think he was a mind reader? Ed was still agitated as he went to the diner for lunch.

The diner was extremely busy. His waitress, Stacey, took longer than usual to take his order. Ed was annoyed with the slow service. He was rude to Stacy and left her a small tip. Stacey was running herself ragged and was offended by Ed's attitude and tip.

The rest of Stacey's shift seemed to drag. When she finally got off work, she was in no mood for anymore hassles from anyone. As Stacey walked into her apartment, her five year old son, Jimmy, ran excitedly to greet her.

Stacey immediately noticed that Jimmy's pants were filthy. "I just washed those." She yelled. "Can't you keep anything clean?" Jimmy ran up to his room crying. His cat came over to him puffing. Jimmy was so upset he kicked the cat.

Wouldn't it have served a lot of people a lot of grief if Jane had gone directly to Stacey's house and kicked Jimmy's cat?

When you take out your frustrations on others, you may be starting a cascading chain reaction. If someone takes out their frustrations on you, break the chain by not taking it out on someone else. When you react negatively to another person's behaviour, you allow yourself to be drawn into their problems.

You are in charge of your emotions and thoughts. If you feel offended and annoyed, wait and think before speaking or acting.

Words For Today
Remember there's no such thing as a small act of kindness.
Every act creates a ripple with no logical end.
Scott Adams

The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday
regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past...
we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have,
and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me
and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you...
we are in charge of our Attitudes.
Chales R. Swindol

Find Your Weaknesses

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 21:12:00 +0000

In his "The Law of success", Napoleon Hill rightly observed that most successful people only became successful after discovering and correcting the weakness in their person and character. I have often heard people argue that knowing your strengths and building on it guarantees success, but I think differently.

Knowing your weak points and striving to correct them, is as important, if not even more important, than knowing your strengths.

Your weaknesses - the most dangerous being selfishness, greed, jealousy, revenge, egoism, lust, conceit and wanting to reap where you did not sow; could destroy you faster than your strengths would uplift you.

In fact, whatever strengths you posses would only successfully uplift your body and mind if they are not counter-balanced by your weakness. The weakness in our traits often tend to hide our strengths; it is by correcting these weakness that anyone can fully tap into their strengths and make success out of it.

Make it a point of duty, from now on, to identify your weaknesses. Ask colleagues, friends, or classmates to assess you; it is often difficult for relatives to say the truth about our characters, but real friends and colleagues should be sincere about their opinions.

Once you identify your weaknesses, start doing everything you can to correct them. If people describe you as selfish, start forcing yourself to share everything you possibly can; if you are egocentric and/or greedy, learn to think about others and their emotions and you'll be moved to act along this line; if you're revengeful, strive to always let people know when they've hurt you and their apologies might soften your heart.

Always remember that your weaknesses are the major barrier between you and happiness/success. You would only be eternally successful, if you identify and correct them.

Words For Today
Nobody needs a smile so much as the one who has none to give.
So get used to smiling heart warming smiles,
and you will spread sunshine in a sometimes dreary world
Lawrence G. Lovasik

The most effective way to achieve right relations
with any living thing is to look for the best in it,
and then help that best into the fullest expression.
Unknown

Don't Live in Fear

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 10:17:00 +0000

Fear is man's worst enemy; it kills slowly and painfully.
The problem is, it is sometimes difficult to live without worries;
Worries about tomorrow, worries about the unknown, worries about uncertainties.
Worries deteriorate into fear, if left uncontrolled
Fear dominates and directs thinking and actions.
Fear becomes the first step towards poor self esteem
And then depression and then a wasted life.....

You can see that fear starts off as something less obvious
And leads to something quite debilitating.
You can break this chain reaction only if you seriously want to

Start living your live without worries.
Learn to live one day and one moment at a time.

Be grateful for every success that comes your way.
See every challenge as an opportunity to grow
And every failure as a lesson; a chance to start over again
With better tools and better knowledge.

Remember that you cannot do anything to change yesterday
And that tomorrow depends, to a large extent, on what you do today.
Make today, this moment counts
And look up to tomorrow with optimism and hope
Leave worries in the past
And your live will be free from Fear and its consequences.

Words For Today
Yesterday is but a dream, tomorrow but a vision.
But today well lived makes every yesterday
a dream of happiness, and
every tomorrow a vision of hope.
Look well, therefore, to this day.
Such is the salutation to the dawn.
Sanskrit proverb

Open your eyes, look within.
Are you satisfied with the life you're living?
Bob Marley

Making it Happen

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 02:56:00 +0000

The real pleasure in life is in the 'small' things;
the things we most often fail to notice.
I have spent years wishing I could do more,
wishing I could achieve more.
And because I ignore those small successes
that come my away every time, those big dreams weren't just 'happening'.
But now I have realized that the real success
is not in those huge breaks that happen once in every lifetime,
but in those small achievements we make along the way.
Your life can be more meaningful
if you would just find joy and be grateful for
those 'little happiness' life throws your way every now and then.
When you appreciate and find joy in the little things,
your attitude towards life changes.
Happiness becomes a thing you achieve daily and
not once in a lifetime; and those big dreams,
becomes less big, less intimidating and easier to overcome.
If you are going to make those big dreams happen,
you must start by first paying attention to,
appreciating and finding strength in those little successes
life endows every one of us with, daily.

Words For Today

Depend upon yourself. Make your judgment trustworthy by trusting it.
You can develop good judgment
as you do the muscles of your body -
by judicious, daily exercise.
Grantland Rice

As for the future, your task is not to foresee it, but to enable it.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery

You Don't Have to Be Right

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 01:28:00 +0000

Life's too short to be spent in the search for perfection.
Indeed, in the final count right and wrong are just opinions, not fact. What's right to one man is wrong to another.
In everything you have to do, people's opinion about its 'rightness' should come a far second to how you feel doing it.
If you are going to find happiness and fulfillment down inside, then just go ahead; people laughing at you today, will come around and laugh with you, if you keep doing what you love doing, because you would always excel at it.
You don't have to be perfect; you don't even have to be right. You only have to be happy. That's the sole purpose of living, anyway.

Words For Today
This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well.
Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly.
Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature.
Take the power to control your own life.
No one else can do it for you.
Take the power to make your life happy.
Susan Polis Schutz

I can't change the direction of the wind,
but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination
Jimmy Dean

Failure is A Chance to Start Again

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 08:09:00 +0000

It hurts so deeply when all your efforts seem to be insufficient
When no matter how hard you try, you can seem to succeed at your dreams
When you put so much effort into something and get nothing in return
But
If you would just look deeper
You would realize that in every failure, there is a lesson.
And most importantly, you are given the opportunity
To start all over again and to correct
every mistakes you made on the way.

Failure is not the end; it's a better beginning.

Words For Today

If you have made mistakes...
there is always another chance for you...
you may have a fresh start any moment you choose,
for this thing we call "failure" is not the falling down,
but the staying down.
Mary Pickford

The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.
Chales R. Swindol

The Odds Are Always With You, If You Try

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 08:00:00 +0000

Success in anything is connected with action.
Successful people keep moving.
They make mistakes but they don't quit.
They hang on long after others have let go.

You must have persistence.
Keep trying is the rule that you must follow
to become successful in anything.

Persistence means taking pains to overcome
every obstacle, to do all that is necessary
to reach your goal.

You must never, never, never give up.

Words For Today

This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly. Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do it for you. Take the power to make your life happy
Susan Polis Schutz

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking
new landscapes, but in having new eyes
Marcel Proust

If only

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 08:26:00 +0000

The trouble with "if only" is that is quickly turns into "only if." When you tell yourself something like "if only I had a new computer, then I could get much more work done" you soon start to believe that "ONLY IF I have a new computer can I get more work done."

Sure, it would be great to have a new computer -- or job, or car, or relationship, or whatever, but do you really want to limit yourself in the meantime? There's almost always another way.

With an attitude of "if only" you effectively give control of your life over to something outside yourself. That's not such a good idea. Success is not achieved by those who wait for conditions to be perfect. Achievement comes not from what you would do "if only" but rather from what you do with what you have, right here and now.

Challenge yourself to replace each and every "if only" with "here's how I will with what I have." Forget about "if only." The time for action, the time to achieve, the time to make a difference, is now.
By Ralph S. Marston, Jr. The Daily Motivator

Words For Today

If you have made mistakes...
there is always another chance for you...
you may have a fresh start any moment you choose,
for this thing we call "failure" is not the falling down,
but the staying down.
Mary Pickford

As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
Garth Henrichs

Life in Abundance Comes Through Great Love

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 08:21:00 +0000

There is no force more potent than love.
Take away love and your world is a tomb.
Your life echoes emptiness without love.
With it, your life will vibrate with warmth and meaning.
Even during hardship, love will shine through.

As you look back upon the events in your life you will find
that the moments that stand out, the moments when you have really lived,
are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love.

If you have it, you don't need to have anything else,
and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter what else you have.

Therefore, search for love.
Once you have learned to love, you will have learned to live.

Love is the most important ingredient to your success.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today

Follow your heart, but be quiet for a while first.
Ask questions, then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart.
Unknown

I've learned to trust myself, to listen to truth,
to not be afraid of it and to not try and hide it.
Sarah MacLachlan

You Are What You Repeatedly Do

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 08:55:00 +0000

First you make your habits, and then your habits make you.
You become a slave to your constantly repeated acts.
What at first you chose, at last compels.

Your thoughts lead you to a purpose.
Your purpose moves you to take action.
Your actions form your habits.
Your habits determine your character,
and your character fixes your destiny.

Your habits are either the best of servants
or the worst of masters.

Once in motion, a pattern tends to stay in motion.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today

Whether you be man or woman you will never do anything in this world
without courage. It is the greatest quality of the mind next to
honor.
James Lane Allen

Let no man turn aside, ever so slightly, from the broad path of
honour, on the plausible pretence that he is justified by the
goodness of his end. All good ends can be worked out by good means.
Charles Dickens

Desire is The Fire of Life

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 09:12:00 +0000

The key that insures your success
in any endeavor is desire.

If you are willing to pay the price,
even your circumstances will change.
If you want something badly enough
you are sure to get it.

Reality forms around the commitments you make.
Your desires will in time externalize themselves
into concrete facts.

Obstacles don't matter very much.
Pain or other circumstances can be there.
But if you want something bad enough,
you'll find a way to get it done.

You only have to love a thing greatly to get it.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today
Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you
will be happy to live with all your life.
Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny,
inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.
Golda Meir

Trust your own instinct. Your mistakes might as well be your own,
instead of someone else's.
Billy Wilder

Do it anyway

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 09:06:00 +0000

Though you won't get it perfect, do it anyway. Though you don't think you have the time, do it anyway. Though others may find fault and criticize, do it anyway.

Though you can think of a lot of reasons not to, do it anyway. Though you've been disappointed in the past, do it anyway. Though it will challenge you and make you a little uncomfortable, do it anyway. Though it will take some time and effort, do it anyway.

You know what must be done. You know what actions will bring you the results you desire. You know what is right and what is wrong. You can spend a lifetime making excuses, thinking of reasons why not, but where would that get you? Touch your own sense of excellence and do the right thing. Do what must be done. Do it anyway, in spite of all the excuses. Do it anyway. Make a difference. Get somewhere. Take yourself to the next level.

Do it anyway and you'll be glad you did.
By Ralph S. Marston The Daily Motivator

Words For Today
Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will
be happy to live with all your life.
Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny,
inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.
Golda Meir

As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
Garth Henrichs

The Glass is Always Half Full

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 08:56:00 +0000

There is a good side to every situation.
View your problems as opportunities.
You cannot have the success without the failures.
Any experience can be transformed into something of value.
Everything depends on the way you look at things.

What are stumbling blocks and defeat before you
can be stepping stones to victory if you remain determined.

In all of your adversities lies the seeds of equivalent advantages.
In every defeat there is a lesson showing you how to win the next time.

When it's dark enough you can see the stars.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today

The consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and
richness to life that nothing else can bring.
Oscar Wilde

The sign of intelligent people is their ability to control emotions
by the application of reason.
Marya Mannes

Respect

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 09:26:00 +0000

The engineer who most assiduously respects the laws of physics is able to create the most useful machines. The government which best respects the will of the people becomes the most powerful and beneficial. The degree to which a business respects its customers has a direct impact on the success of that business.

The forces of nature can be powerful, harsh and potentially destructive. Yet with enough understanding and respect, they can be harnessed and put to positive use. The same can be said of human forces.

When you learn to understand and act in harmony with the world around you, the results are much better than if you try to hide from it or fight against it. Most things can be harmful or helpful depending on the amount of respect and understanding you grant them.

The things which still work against you, are lessons available to hone your skill and understanding. Heed them well and their substantial power can be yours.
By Ralph S. Marston The Daily Motivator®

Words For Today

To do the useful thing, to say the courageous thing, to contemplate
the beautiful thing: that is enough for one man's life.
T. S. Eliot

The sign of intelligent people is their ability to control emotions
by the application of reason.
Marya Mannes

Focus on Your Future, Not Your Past

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 08:48:00 +0000

Your future is a big adventure.
Prepare for your future don't live in the past.
Savor your good memories,
use any bad ones as lessons in life.

Carve out a niche for yourself in your imagined future.
Think, feel and see yourself as successful.
To achieve any goal in life, you need to project your end result.
Think of the elation, the satisfaction, the joy you'll feel.
Carry these ecstatic feelings with you every day
and they'll bring your desired goals into view.

Sooner or later, you can win if you think you can.
The cards you are dealt in life
are less important than the way you play them.
Everyday you're offered a new deal and new cards.

Success is in your future if you're willing to work for it.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today

When it comes to the future, there are three kinds of people:
those who let it happen, those who make it happen,
and those who wonder what happened.
John M Richardson Jr

Gratitude helps you to grow and expand;
gratitude brings joy and laughter into your
life and into the lives of all those around you.
Eileen Caddy

Freedom Means Responsibility

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 09:25:00 +0000

Freedom is the right to live as you wish.
If you wish to free yourself from enslavement,
you must choose freedom and the responsibility it entails.
There's a price for every freedom,
something to be given up for every liberty.

It's up to you to weigh the price you must pay
for each of your freedoms.
And everything you want has a price.

Freedom is the opportunity to make decisions.
It's the capacity to take a hand in your own development.
Freedom is the right to choose.
It's the right to create for yourself the alternatives of choice.

No one is free who is not master of himself.
You are free to do whatever you like.
You need only face the consequences of your actions.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today

The secret to living the life of your dreams is to start living it,
at once, to any degree that you possibly can.
Mike Dooley

The best way to predict your future is to invent it. It's up to you.
Frank Maguire

Forgiveness

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 10:44:00 +0000

Think of the time and energy a little forgiveness could buy you.

Being frustrated, annoyed or angry uses up your precious time, energy, thoughts and actions. Certainly there are situations worth getting angry about, but do you truly wish to give over even a little bit of yourself to the petty little things which really don't matter?

When someone does something to annoy you, consider how much of your valuable time you could save by forgiving that person, in your own mind, right then. When you forgive before you've even shown any anger, the matter will die and you can quickly move on.

Expect the best from those around you, and you'll very likely get it. Yet when someone falls short of your expectations, don't aggravate the problem by letting it sap your time and energy. Look for a way to quickly forgive and forget.

The more little things you can forgive, the more big things you can accomplish.
By Ralph S. Marston, Jr. The Daily Motivator

Words For Today

Let's assume that each person has an equal opportunity,
not to become equal, but to become different.
To realize whatever unique potential of body,
mind and spirit he or she possesses.
John Fischer

Adversity is the first path to truth.
George Gordon, Lord Byron

Stay in The Game If You Want To Win

noreply@blogger.com (The Motivator) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 11:15:00 +0000

The more you try, the greater your chance of succeeding.
The law of averages is on your side.

Taking a risk is often your first necessary step toward success.
If you don't take some risks, you won't get the chance to succeed.
While you are trying, you are winning.

Never get discouraged.

Every wrong attempt is another step forward.
People that make no mistakes usually don't make anything.

Make up your mind not merely to overcome a thousand obstacles,
but to win in spite of a thousand defeats.
Your mistakes are stepping stones
to success and your installment payments to victory.

You can't be a winner and be afraid to lose.
By Max Steingart

Words For Today

There is no value in life except what you choose to place upon it and
no happiness in any place except what you bring to it yourself.
Henry David Thoreau

The meaning of life is not to be discovered only after death in some hidden,
mysterious realm; on the contrary, it can be found by eating the succulent fruit
of the Tree of Life and by living in the here and now as fully and creatively as we can
Paul Kurtz