The Nerdy Fashionista - Life as a Girly Engineer

Lip Stains - Actual Long Lasting Color and Shine...Who Knew?

2012-10-30T20:21:00.002-05:00

While some fashionable people might not admit it, a lot of the knowledge they have on fashion and beauty comes from those around them. I will be the first person to say that I have always relied on the help of others to point me in the right direction.

If there's a void in beauty, it's definitely lip products. No, I'm not talking about making them bigger (I think you're at the wrong place if you're looking for that) I'm not talking about finding the right color that shines and lasts for longer than 5 minutes. My theory with make-up is that I want to apply it once and not have to worry about it all day...and in my experience you can't find that in lip products.

Enter my BFF and fellow fashonista Sarah. Sarah is perhaps the one person I know who has more products than I do (she recently revealed to me she has 6 different shampoos in her shower...) and so I definitely trust her opinion when she lets me know about something she really likes. This weekend she introduced me to YSL's latest creation, the Glossy Stain. If you've been a long time reader you know that I've had a lot of success with YSL. It's definitely a quality product (just look at the price) but well worth it!

Glossy Stain, $32, sephora.com

While we were getting ready on Saturday, Sarah told me I had to use her new product before we went out. Never one to pass up trying something new (especially from YSL) I obliged. The stain goes on like a gloss, but here's the trick...you can't rub the stain in or smack your lips for approximately 30-60 seconds to let the stain seep in and dry. I know...so counterintuitive, but the results were proof that this product is exactly what I have been searching for. Sarah had two shades - coral and berry - which I adored...really great colors for the fall. And here's a secret that you may not realize...berries and violets that have blue in them actually give the illusion that your teeth are super white! Kill two birds with one stone.

So thanks to Sarah I'm hoping to hit up Sephora this weekend in Indianapolis and pick a few up for myself. I liked it better when I was making her buy new products...I'll be billing you later Sarah!

Fashionable, Fun, and Gadget Friendly Accessories - a MUST!

2012-10-22T14:06:00.000-05:00

As I sit here in the library waiting for my student (I tutor in my "free time"; what can I say, I'm a person of many talents...and in need of shopping money) I'm concerned by the upcoming generation. Seriously, I could not tell these kids apart if you asked me to.

Off to the corner sits the group of girls who are obviously "cool" but are trying to demonstrate that they are "too cool" to care if they are "too cool." All of them are wearing your standard pair of hooker sweatpants...yeah you know, the glittery pair that says PINK all over the derrière and costs you an arm and a leg. All I know is that in the 90s there were sponges, and puffy paint. Just saying...

Any way, it made me consider how much I hate having the same stuff that everyone else has. Granted, in Fort Wayne, Indiana it's not too difficult to stand out fashionably considering most wardrobes consist of your standard pair of Wrangler's and a NASCAR t-shirt but I simply hate when I get something new that I'm so excited about and then I see 3 people with the same thing - the nerve!

Well, when it comes to gadget accessories I am always searching for something that makes me stand out as individual. I'll pass on the bedazzled cases or the branded cases (in my opinion, you are wasting a lot of money to prove something here...to whom, I'm not sure) or even the bulky cases that swear to protect your device until the end of eternity. Yawn. Give me something fun and enticing that most people won't have. Your accessories should show off your personality, not demonstrate that you are a brand freak or like too much glitter.

I currently am rocking this Petunia iPhone case and I love it so much. It's simple and elegant and it goes with everything. It's bold without being BOLD and to be honest, I think the case protects my phone just as well as many of those other cases (otterbox anyone?). I mean, if I dropped $50 on an ugly case, why not drop $35 on a case I actually like!

As you probably already realize, I'm also a big fan of anything Kate Spade. She is so clever and comes up with some really fun and retro designs. Here is one of my favorites from her line:

Kate Spade Word Search Case, $40

Kate Spade Ipad Sleeve, $50

A little steep for your budget? Sign up for e-mails and as a new customer you get 15% off on your first purchase! Stock up and save!

Want to show off your alma mater or sorority without overdoing it? Check out Lilly Pulitzer for some fresh takes on sororities with their new sorority patterns. I'm a huge fan of the Chi Omega print (Go Chi-O!) and have been contemplating a purchase for several months now...

Lilly Pulitzer Chi Omega Case, $28

And if those don't make you happy try making your own! Nothing says is as unique as a one-of-a-kind piece - maybe you'll make it a business. I hear Etsy calling...

Blake Lively - Celebrity Fashionista of the Month

2012-10-20T19:14:00.004-05:00

In honor of her recent nuptials (kudos to you, Mrs. Ryan Reynolds!) it's hard to believe that Blake Lively has not graced us with her presence on the blog. Let's face it, when Karl Lagerfield and Christian Louboutin think you're the 21st century version of Grace Kelly...you run with it.

It's her striking appearance that has allowed her to grace the presence of every fashion house's campaigns and spring runway shows...however, it's her charm that has won over the hearts of everyone who matters - including little old me.

Blake has definitely been the breakout star of the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants and Gossip Girls series, and it appears that she isn't going anywhere soon. Ms. Lively (or Mrs. Reynolds...who knows what she is going by these days!) is gorgeous dressed up or dressed down...and her cellphone is definitely filled with the right contacts. I definitely don't think we'll be seeing her on the Worst Dressed List any time soon...

Argan Oils and Balms - the Miracle Product for those dry months!

2012-10-14T18:48:00.002-05:00

With the colder weather approaching and the lack of moisture in the air I can already feel my skin drying up...yuck! I don't know about you, but there's absolutely nothing I hate more than dry, cracked skin. Not only is it painful, unbecoming, and a mess (flakes - yay!) but it causes every lady to have to change up their beauty regiment. However, don't you get tired of having to buy several products to cure the same thing? You need something for your face, your body, your lips...that adds up fast!

Well, I recently came across a new product put out by supermodel Josie Maran's cosmetic line that was infused with Argan Oil. If you're a nerd like me, you originally read the title wrong and were concerned to see a product with Argon (you know, that noble gas that's actually an asphyxiant...i.e not good) in it, but after I reread the title my nervousness subsided. I decided to look into this "Argan" which is actually the name of the tree that the oil comes from in the land of Morocco. Apparently it's liquid gold there, so I figured it couldn't be that bad...

While I am sometimes skeptical to buy a product endorsed by a celebrity, I have to admit that when it comes to beauty products I figure that models have probably seen their fair share and must have good idea of what works and what doesn't. So, I decided to give a few of the products a try. However, my favorite go to product is the Argan Oil Balm.

The balm is the perfect combination of soothing moisture without the greasy nature of some oils and lotions. What I like best about it is that I can use it everywhere...I carry one with me in my purse to help my hands and elbows as well as my lips. I also do a ritual before I go to bed where I make sure my feet, hands, and lips stay moisturized. It's not cheap, but 6 months later I'm still on my first container of Argan Balm. All-in-all, I'd say it's one of the best beauty investments I've ever made.

Argan Balm, $42, josiemarancosmetics.com

And, if you're into the whole natural, organic, cruelty free, recycle thing...there's that too. All of the products from the line are certified organic and made with love. (No, seriously...it says that).

So consider this your fair warning - stock up before it's too late. Even though winter is a great time to...hide some of those imperfections, you never know when that Miami Beach trip is around the corner...always be prepared!

To New Beginnings and Boots Galore!

2012-10-13T19:14:00.002-05:00

Hello my faithful friends and followers - it has been some time since our last discussion on the latest and greatest in fashion.

For those of you who know me personally, you know that 2012 has not exactly been my year. My track record for hospital visits continued to grow (even out of state!) but lead to two medical diagnoses that were years in the making. This in turn caused me to adjust my life and begin a gluten free lifestyle and focus more on being very health conscious...which has had its ups and downs.

However, the big shock came most recently when my husband of 2 years and I separated after an indiscretion on his behalf.

I have to admit, it's been a pretty dark year but I'm starting to see the possibilities that come with a fresh start...and there's certainly something that could use some revamping - my closet! Over the last year, the medical visits and stress of every day life definitely put my fashion forward attitude on the bench for a few games - but now I'm ready to get back in and give myself the makeover I deserve.

I've always adored the classically chic look of a good pair of boots - seriously, they give any outfit a boost. However, I have been cursed with these calves that any gymnast would envy...oh, and did I mention I'm probably 5'4" on a good day? Basically, I'm not made for the look that I so envy on every lady with legs for days...grr! Fortunately for me, the Fashion Gods and I were aligned for this fall season because shorter boots and shall I say, "booties" are back! Thank YOU! I might finally have a chance...

As you've probably already realized, I have great taste...which just happens to be very expensive as well. I swear if there were a table of boots my favorite pair will always be the pair with a few more digits than I find necessary for my bank account. Why do beautiful, supple, gorgeous boots have to be so darn expensive?

One brand of boots that I am always drawn to is Frye. Seriously, this brand has got it all right...I mean, can you think of many brands that can combine a cowboy, classic, edgy style into one boot without you thinking the boot has multiple personality disorder? There's just one con...these boots are investment pieces. If you're like me, you care for your closet like it's your first born child...and therefore you get a return. For me, a classic boot is a good investment because I know I'll get my money's worth...but emphasis on the classic. Here's one of the pairs I've got my eye on...

Frye Shirley Strappy Short Boot, $298

Here's the reason why I love these boots - not only are they unique but the possibilities are endless! The color allows for combinations with most palletes, and the height and strap allows you to dress them up or down. Whether you pair them with a dress, leggings, or jeans they are sure to make a statement. I feel all warm and fuzzy just thinking about it. If only there were like...half the price. Sigh.

When if comes to getting a good deal on a fashionable and trendy boot, I like to go for certain brands that I know won't break the bank - Nine West, Jessica Simpson, Steve Madden, and Big Buddha to name a few. Normally these brands offer a selection of styles that will work for most wardrobes without causing you to miss a meal...or seven.

Rocket Dog SoundOff Boot, $59

Big Buddha Willo Boot, $59.95

Madden Girl Prittyy Black Boot, $59.95

Nine West Smitten Boot, $99

And if you can't get those Frye boots out of your head like me, just wait until the end of the season...when the prices are slashed in half. Let's face it...with the holidays coming up all I can think about are those fantastic sales - nothing like a good deal to get this Fashionista fired up!

So hopefully you'll continue to join me on my fashion journey as I rediscover all of those items that I just can't live without...or at least not this season!

Beach Baby - Old Navy Accessories for Fun in the Sun!

2012-06-24T20:05:00.002-05:00

Recently a few friends and I received the opportunity from Old Navy's Style Council to peruse our local store for the latest and greatest in beach accessories. Not only were we supposed to critique the selection and like ability of the line, but we also got to take some goodies home. It was a great day, and I just couldn't wait to show you what we found...

Sarah (below) has an easy breezy bohemian meets romantic style mixed in with a little boldness. As you can see, she is an accessory queen! So, this task was made for her. I love the oversized sunglasses she chose - they are bold and are actually navy blue! Not everyone can pull that style off... I'm also a big fan of the bag she chose. On the hanger I wasn't so fond of it, but we all agreed it grew on us in outside in the light (plus it looks great with her dress). And how could you forget Old Navy's staple flip flops? Sarah went with bright pink...definitely a fun shade!

Vic has a very classic taste with an edge. I love that the accessories she chose actually go well with her current outfit...except for the crossbody bag. One downfall to our "take home certificate" was that you were unable to take home any items on clearance and it just so happened that most of their beach bags were just that...on clearance. We originally opted for straw totes like the one below, but she ended up having to go with the woven crossbody in the picture.

In the end, the crossbody may be more functional for nights on the town, but not quite as beauty!

And of course I can't forget my picks. My style could probably be described as simple with a twist. I adore bold prints but prefer to pair them with pieces that can be mixed and matched with just about anything. I went for this fun chevron beach towel, woven hobo, and neutral sunglasses. All of these items (besides the beach towel) are probably pieces I wouldn't normally pick out at a higher end store - which is what makes Old Navy so great because you can take more of a risk without the blow to your wallet.

But since I hate to rub it in that we had such a great time finding all of these goodies, I can't leave my readers empty handed. So...if you want to win the bag below just comment on this post as to why you should receive it! Winner will be announced on July 1st. And in the mean time, check out Old Navy for some great buys in summer attire and accessories.

Taking Care of your Pairs - the best stuff for denim!

2012-06-18T13:12:00.000-05:00

Recently, I was given the opportunity to try out Woolite's Extra Dark Care detergent through Crowdtap. (Side bar, but if you haven't joined this site yet - please do. You get to network with some awesome brands and try the latest and greatest stuff for free!) Any way, Woolite has been campaigning recently about the Extra Dark Care detergent and how great it is for preserving your favorite denim!

As I've mentioned before, denim is one of those investment pieces that when you find the right fit - you've got to get them. I have $20 to $200 jeans...but if they are my favorite I want to wear them forever!

My latest pair is this super comfy pair of Jag Jeans. What I love the most about this denim is that they are casual enough for the weekend, but are professional looking so that I can wear them to work. Part of the reason for that is the awesome wash - which is dark enough to create a perfectly slimming silhouette.

So in comes Woolite Extra Dark Care. Since I had the free sample, I figured I should make use of it. And...I was pleasantly surprised to see the results. Where I normally get some run out or areas where the dye is no longer consistent, my jeans looked brand spanking new. A little bit goes a long way!

If you're like me, Woolite is an expensive product, and you only want to invest if something works. Well, this is the stuff! If you really love your denim, you need to pick up some Woolite Extra Dark Care. And...I have a few extra samples left...so the first 3 people to comment on this post will get a free sample of the Woolite Extra Dark Care! Then you can pass on the good news - that this stuff keeps your darks looking well....dark!

Skincare - One of the Few Places You May Want to Spend a Few Extra Bucks!

2012-05-25T19:33:00.001-05:00

These days it's overwhelming to pick out a skin care regiment. With random celebrities promising you brand new skin overnight and new fads popping up every single day it's hard to know what's best for your skin.

Recently, a guy near and dear to my heart, came to me because he had the breakout blues. However, like most guys he wasn't willing to go run to Sephora to get an expert's advice - he was just using whatever stuff he could find at the local grocery. Don't get me wrong, the grocery store has some great finds, but many skin care products just aren't cutting it and he was seeing no change in his skin.

Fortunately, he came to the right person. I have had flare up skin since probably the 4th grade, and have probably tried every skin care line you can think of. What I've found is that most don't work for my combination skin - they either don't get rid of the oil or dry me out! So, after years of experience here are my do's and don'ts on skin care products - with a list of many of my favorites. Don't let the price tags fool you...if you use many of these products the right way they can last for 6-months to a year. And...that's a whole lot of piece of mind!

One of the first things I asked my friend was if his face wash or toner was turning his towels strange colors. He replied that they were definitely turning colors. Well, what most people don't realize is the secret to many skin care lines is lots of bleach and alcohol. While these won't hurt you, in most cases they don't get rid of your acne by treating it, but seek to dry out those pesky zits. Problem? Yeah, they do that to your entire skin. It dries your skin out so much that once your skin gets a little oil guess what? The zits are back. These products will strip your skin and cause redness and puffiness. So, read the labels! While words like "organic" and "natural" may have caused you to steer clear in the past, they may actually be worth looking into.

Secondly, make sure you use products in the right order. Someone recently told me they didn't understand why they couldn't get rid of their acne. However, after questioning them they had the right products but weren't using them as directed. It sounds silly, but if you pop a zit and then try to use your toner to calm down the inflamed region, you're only spreading the bacteria that just came out of your pore.

Lastly, if you are a lady, invest in make-up remover. It doesn't have to be top of the line make-up remover (I actually prefer Sephora's totally affordable $10 bottle below), but you do need some. Why? Well, if you have heavy eye make-up on and simply try to use your cleanser to remove it, you'll end up using twice as much cleanser and won't fully clean your face - causing a breeding ground for bacteria and oil to get trapped and have a zit pop up by morning. If washing your face isn't your strong suit, then invest in a face brush. While I have not tried the over-the-counter brushes, I love my Clarisonic and the best part is that any product can go on the brush. You'll get a deep clean and softness that you won't feel after just a quick wash.

Sephora Waterproof Makeup Remover, $9.50 for 4.2oz bottle

If you're looking for an all-in-one cleanser, try Philosophy's Purity. It's one of the most affordable cleansers and the `6oz bottle will last you a year if you use it two times a day. This product is the perfect every day cleanser for the person who wants to keep it simple.

Purity Made Simple, $32.50 for 16oz bottle

One of my favorite natural brands available at many drugstores and groceries is MyChelle dermaceuticals. When I found out I had Celiac's disease, I had to get rid of a few of my favorite products and turned to this brand for some gluten free relief. I'm a huge fan of the White Cranberry Cleanser - it's gentle and controls oil which is perfect for summer weather. And, at a totally affordable $10/bottle it won't break the bank!

MyChelle 2.1 oz White Cranberry Cleanser, $9.69

If you're looking for oil control in the t-zone or all over there are a few products that are great. Depending on how oily your skin gets, you want to proceed with caution. I use some of my deeper cleansers or exfoliators just 1-2 times a week so I don't dry out my skin. One of my favorite lines for oil control is Kiehl's White Clay - the Deep Pore Cleanser is a God send. You will definitely feel this product working, and at only 1-2 times a week it will last forever! Just remember a small bit goes a long way!

Kiehl's Rare Earth Deep Pore Daily Cleanser, 5oz, $22.50

One of my other favorites for oil control is from a high end line called La Mer. This product was recommended to me by one of the ladies at Nordstrom, and if I had known the price I probably would have never purchased it. However, 6 months later I've used only 1/4 of the tube and love how it control my oil. The best part? It's a cleaning foam that works great with a brush system or just a little friction from your hands. I use 1/2 a dime size and have enough for my whole face - one of the best investments I've made!

La Mer Cleansing Foam, $65 for 4.2oz

And lastly, for an every day cleanser that smells great, feels great, and does great things try Fresh Soy Face Cleanser. This gentle cleanser leaves your face super soft - and it's French! Ooo la la!

Fresh Soy Face Cleanser, 5.1oz bottle for $38

Still not sure? Check out the travel or trial sizes of many of these products. It's a great way to see if it's the right cleanser for you without breaking the bank!

Just remember, even if you have genetically flawless skin (like my mother, ugh! thanks, dad!) you still need to take care of it! Damage to your skin is irreversible so treat it well!

Outfit Breakdown - Race Day!

2012-05-18T06:00:00.000-05:00

Calling all race fans! Race Day is just around the corner and just because some people will be sporting...less clothing than normal...doesn't mean you can't look flawless but be comfortable at the same time.

Now even if you have someone to impress, Race Day is not the time to break out those new wedges you've been dying to wear...but you may not want to show up in your Jeff Gordon get up either (plus, he's Nascar...duh!). What you'll want to do is dress for the occasion...and be sure that if your clothes did get dirty or sweaty you're not going to yell at your neighbor in the in field "Hey this is dry clean only!"

Below I've put together a great race day look for just under $75. By looking at some of my favorite affordable retail shops, I've combined some basics (that you may already have in your closet) with a little pop of color to keep you looking fresh all day.

I'm a huge fan of these shorts from Old Navy, and the bow detail and fresh navy color make it a staple for your summer wardrobe. This style can be dressed up or down, so for race day throw on your favorite racerback tank for more coverage and lots of comfort. I love this style from Penney's because the straps aren't too thick - making it less likely that you'll end up with super crazy tan lines!

Instead of your usual flip flops, opt for a sporty espadrille like this version from Airwalk for Payless. There will be lots of traffic off the track as well, so you'll want to protect your tootsies (and your recent pedi) as much as possible!

Lastly, throw on some fun accessories to give your outfit a twist. I'm a big fan of these rubber Ray Ban Wayfarer knock offs from Target - only $12.50! Then you won't have to feel bad if the bright color doesn't go with everything (although I love my bright shades!). For all of the "food and drinks" you may be lugging in, pick up a shopper's tote like this one from Forever 21. The fun print adds spunk to any outfit, and for $1.50 you won't be discouraged if you leave it behind. A great pair of earrings (I recommend studs so you don't lose them) and a fun bangle like this one from Forever 21 gives you the extra edge so that makes you look effortless.

Comfort? Check. Inexpensive? Check. Ready for racing? Oh yeah...

Got the Blues?

2012-05-16T06:00:00.000-05:00

Blue tones are everywhere - especially for your nails! And I have to say, I'm loving the way they look on everyone's skins. Whether they are jewel tones or baby blues, these colors are adding a little flare to every outfit.

My favorite? I love "Go Overboard" from Essie's 2012 Summer Collection. The color is so rich, and a little bit goes a long way. The way this pictures looks shows it with more green tones, but it's actually much darker than shown here. I'm in love...

If you've got a good tan go for something more demure like Coat Azure or Barbados Blue. They will bring out the bronze your skin is showing off in the summer months.

Summer is in the air and it feels so good...

Fashion Star - Worth the Hype?

2012-05-14T06:00:00.000-05:00

For over a year now we have been hearing the hype about Fashion Star, NBC's latest reality series with a Project Runway-esque vibe. While I was skeptical (Jessica Simpson as a fashion mentor...not exactly my idea of Tim Gunn...) I still had to watch - thank goodness for DVR because this lady can't make it past that 10pm hour.

First of all, I have to give the creators a hand for at least trying to diversify themselves from other fashion shows out there. Let's face it, when Bravo sold Project Runway to Lifetime and decided to revamp the show they may as well have called it Project Runway 2.0. However, Fashion Star looks more at how an item will actually sale in the retail world by having buyers from 3 pertinent stores (Saks, H&M, and Macy's) bid on items that the store would be willing to sale. This year's competition took place last summer and I was so confused as to why that was. Then I realized - it was so they had time to manufacture the clothes! That's right, the items that the buyers bid on are available online and in stores the next day - my favorite aspect of the show. Don't you hate on Project Runway with Rami has draped the most exquisite cocktail dress and you never see it again? Boo!

All positives aside, I must say that Fashion Star should be more like "Amateur Hour" in my opinion. Perhaps it's because the show is only on its first season, but most of the talent seems new to the fashion world and very few have been consistently successful. Those that have though, have earned their spot in the final 3. My favorite? Kara Laricks. Not only is her story unique (she was at one time a closeted lesbian elementary teacher) but her design esthetic of menswear inspired pieces manages to have just the right touch of modern details.

And who could forget Ronnie Escalante? Named by John Varvatos as the "dark horse" Ronnie has come up in the past few weeks as the buyers and mentors favorite designer. Me? I'm not so sure. While I usually like the cut of his pieces, he seems to have trouble picking fabrics? He did a women's suit this past week in a floral print that looked like it belonged more on the windows then on your bottom.

Nzimiro Oputa is the last finalist, and while his designs were strong initially, I believe he is in the finals because he brings a menswear perspective. His style is very Brooks Brothers with a European twist, and most men I know wouldn't be wearing what he's selling...but then again, I do live in Indiana...

The finale airs next Tuesday, May 15th on NBC. Before then, check them out their designs at H&M, Macy's, and Saks. The winning designer is supposed to be able to appeal to all retailers, which as you can see could be pretty challenging for three places known for completely different options. Either way, I'm interested to see how the show turns out and if it will come back. Personally? I say they clean house. The only mentor I'm impressed with is Nicole Richie...she has really made her stamp in the fashion world and those 15 minutes last for days!

Here are some of my current favorites selling, both from the finalists and past designers. Snatch up these one of a kinds (err...most of them) while you can. Some of these designers are worth a second glance.

Colorblock Dress by Orli Shani, $295, saks.com

Suit by Ronnie Escalante, $208, macys.com

H&M Top by Kara, hmfashionstar.com

Designers you Love at Affordable Prices!

2012-05-11T06:00:00.000-05:00

I don't know about you, but I love a designer collaboration when it saves me some dough. Recently, many stores have started offering special limited time collections from your favorite high end designers at a more affordable price. Here are a few that are on my radar that I couldn't help but share with all of you!

Trina Turk is known for her vibrant colors and classic cuts that makes going to work fun! In June, Trina and Banana Republic will be launching a 60 piece collection available at Banana Republic stores nationwide. With pieces ranging from $50 to $250, be sure to sign up for e-mails to ensure that you catch the latest coupons. Nothing will make that purchase better than 40% off!

Trina Turk for Banana Republic

Rachel Roy has been designing a line for Macy's for a little while now, and it offers easy silhouettes is bright colors that can be worn to work or a night on the town. Like Banana Republic, Macy's is always having a sale, so be sure to hit the store when these great pieces are discounted.

Romper, $109

And who could forget QVC? While you may not have a chance to try on these items before you purchase, why would you need to with styles from Rachel Zoe, Isaac Mizrahi, and the Kardashians.

Rachel Zoe Military Jacket, $132

Isaac Mizrahi Crossbody Quilted Bag, $148

K-Dash top, $52.32

Big style, great designers, and more affordable prices? Yes, please.

Beat the Brass - Renew Your Color Without a Stop at the Salon

2012-05-09T06:00:00.000-05:00

Now, while I hate to make assumptions, I would guess that most of you out there have had your color done a few times in your life. Well, with summer approaching it's easy for your color to lose that glow you achieve after just having it done. Rather than going back every few weeks to renew that look, why not use a product that will give you that "just left the salon look."

Rita Hazan, Celebrity Colorist, has recently come out with her Foaming Gloss product that promises to take out the brassiness and have your locks looking shiny and new.

For $26, it's much cheaper for most of then hitting up the salon again. Just be sure to pick the right shade for you...if you don't have golden tones, you definitely don't want to pick that shade.

So don't put the ball cap on just yet - renew your color and shine and have everyone asking how your color always looks great!

Buying on eBay - not as Scary as it Seems...

2012-05-07T06:00:00.000-05:00

Many people are surprised to learn that I not only use eBay for selling some of my old items, but I also buy some of my higher end items there as well.

Here's a great example: You walk into Saks Fifth Avenue and fall in love with a M Missoni cocktail dress. It's gorgeous, unique, and everything you are looking for in a statement piece for your friend's summer wedding. You try it on, and it fits like a glove...and then you look at the price tag - $650. Say what? With a few months until your friend's wedding you scour the Saks website and store praying for a sale...of epic proportions. However, the next time you head to the store your dress is gone and with only a week to go you are freaking out about what you will wear to your friend's wedding. Relax. With a little planning and your best car salesman attitude I can get you that dress, probably in brand new condition, for a fraction of the price.

Since college I have been super savvy when it comes to purchasing items that I know I won't get much use out of - high end cocktail dresses, fancy heels, and even jewelry. I always want to look unique and put together at certain events...and my worst fear is being the girl at prom whose dress is also on several other girls. So, a few years ago when I was prepping for a college formal I went to Nordstrom and bought the prettiest dress I could find...that was way outside my budget. While I looked amazing the night of, I never wore that dress again and I realized that I had gotten caught up in the drama of the dress rather than thinking about the worth of the dress.

At that point I was still an eBay novice, but I started to think that if I sold a lot of my items on eBay that other people probably did as well. The next time I had a special event coming up I did my research. I went to some of the high end retailers I loved and tried on loads of dresses. I examined them all closely and using my notepad (every girl who doesn't use a smartphone should carry one!) and copied the designer, style of the dress, the price, and the size that fit me best. Satisfied that I had done enough digging, I went to eBay and started searching for the dresses. Low and behold, there were tons of dresses there - some the same style but different prints or colors and a variety of sizes.

Here's where the wheeling and dealing comes in - a lot of eBay sellers sell full time. It's there job, and they can't buy more inventory until they sell their others. Whether they work for the brand, live close to an outlet mall, or just have a killer discount they get the styles at a fraction of the price and want to turn a profit on ebay. However, if an item has been on sale for awhile they want to get rid of it. This is what I normally do if I have time. I "watch" the item for at least a week. A lot of items are buy it now, and if no one has purchased it in a week there's a good chance you can deal with them. In that case, message the buyer and offer them a lower price. For example, if a dress is $150, offer $115. that gives you both room to negotiate and get a great deal. Usually buyers will offer the dress at 50% off, give or take, so $115 would be over 60% off the retail price! In some auctions there is a best offer button available where you can negotiate, and others are like live auctions where you can have a bidding war with other buyers. Be careful not to get caught up in the adrenaline rush of bidding back and forth. Rather than pushing the price up days before auction end, wait until the last few hours if you have time. More than likely other bidders will have forgotten about the item.

Honestly, this works! And the best part? If you hate it or wear it once, you can turn around and sell it on eBay as well - sometimes even making a profit! It's an awesome way to look fabulous without feeling guilty. I've purchased sunglasses, handbags, shoes, dresses - you name it!

Now, there is one warning. If a deal seems too good to be true, proceed with caution. While eBay has gotten much better about keeping fraudulent people off the site, many people will sell counterfeit items. So, if a Louis Vuitton bag is $50, don't expect it to be authentic. Check the sellers feedback to see if other sellers have been pleased. Anyone with a feedback rating under 97% should be avoided. And don't be afraid to ask questions...if you want to see a receipt or ask if authenticity is guaranteed than ask. That's like an insurance policy in case issues arise and you have to open up a case with eBay.

Lastly, many sellers have opened up there outlet stores on eBay - check out Neiman Marcus Last Call, Coach Factory, Under Armour, and other retailers for awesome deals on some of your favorite styles and brands.

There's nothing wrong with getting a good deal and looking great - in fact, I think I love my items better when I know that I paid less than the person next to me!

BIg Girl in a Skinny World - A Must Read for the Curvy Lady

2012-05-03T06:00:00.000-05:00

While everyone else is joining the high tech world of Nooks, Ipads, and Kindles, I still enjoy the feel of a good magazine. However, I must "thank" those of you who have moved on to these devices because magazine subscriptions are super cheap and several years ago I subscribed to nearly every fashion/fitness/gossip magazine out there.

Even though I love my fashion magazines, I get annoyed with some of the super editorial looks that feature women with abnormal measurements in clothing that the Queen probably couldn't afford. Honestly, who wants a $20,000 motorcycle jacket? Love you Gucci, but when the price says, "upon request" this girl is out.

That's why I found it so refreshing when Marie Claire started featuring a monthly column from their own Nicolette Mason. Mason is unlike most of the women working in this superficial industry; she is plus size and proud! Each month she takes on a new topic that often finds curvier women shying away when it comes to fashion. May's issue featured Nicollette sharing her own former fears about shorts. While shorts have emerged all over the runways, most of them are a wee bit, well...short, and nothing is less chic than a lady pulling her shorts down every time she takes a step!

Check out her blog and learn more about her fashion finds. Even if you're a skinny twig, some of her advice is applicable to all of us. With her personal touch it's hard not to identify.

So the next time you're at the Supermarket skip the Cosmo (do you really need to know how to make your man hot in bed...I mean...he's a guy...he probably doesn't care...) and pick up Marie Claire. With fashion advice from Tim Gunn and Nina Garcia, it's hard not to see that Marie Claire is heading in the right direction when it comes to fashion for all!

Big Style, Small Price - Designers that Give You More Bang for your Buck

2012-05-02T06:00:00.000-05:00

I've always been jealous of my friends that live in larger cities because they always pick up the most unique items that looks super chic and expensive but are completely affordable. I don't know about you, but there's nothing I despise more than going to the mall and seeing 3 people with the same top on. It's funny, because at 14 I wanted to look like everyone else (Abercrombie & Fitch all the way!) and as an adult I want to be completely unique from my peers. I want to enter a room and have someone say, "wow I love your dress" and then be able to say, "yes, and I got it so cheap!" - there is nothing more gratifying than feeling like you got your moneys worth. Well, some of us may never have the opportunity to peruse the local high end consignment shops in search for someone's 1970s Missoni dress but with the internet there is a way that some of us can still look chic without having to give in to the monotony of so many stores these days.

For those of you who have been in a coma for the last year, you may not have heard that Kate and Pippa Middleton have emerged as the style elite. However, unlike some of their peers they like to mix up high end pieces with more affordable items as well. There favorite go to brand? Zara. This international brand has just recently made the move to the States, and for almost a year us Americans have been able to peruse the shop online. Seriously, this was big stuff for someone like me. For the price, Zara's quality and tailoring is impeccable and most looks are classic enough that you will get several seasons out of it. Here are some of my favorites for spring.

Blazer - $99, zara.com

Dress - $79.90

Shorts, $59.90

Topshop is another fabulous brand that offers some cutting edge designs for a much more reasonable price than premiere designers. Many celebrities have been seen at high end events wearing pieces from the line, while others have collaborated to create designs. One of the most popular collections from Topshop was designed by Kate Moss - who still works with the line today. Pregnant? No problem - they offer maternity gear too! Best part - free shipping over $100...and since it's coming from the UK, it's well worth the discount!

Chiffon Dip Hem Dress, $84

Floral Romper, $76

So if you're tired of the usual mall stops try out these two online havens. One recommendation - check the size charts! European sizing is very different than US sizing and many silhouettes are more narrow. If you have to change your size, don't sweat it - just send it back and order something new. Trust me - you can find something from these fabulous lines!

Celebrity Fashionista of the Month - Jennifer Lawrence

2012-05-01T06:00:00.000-05:00

Jennifer Lawrence is certainly living the high life right now - she has hit mega stardom after being cast as Katniss Everdeen in the Hunger Games series, she is on the cover of all of the hottest magazines, and oh yeah...she's drop dead gorgeous! All of the hottest designers are throwing their latest and greatest creations at this girl because she is walking the red carpets EVERYWHERE!

But before she was walking the streets of LA in a Balenciaga jacket, Miss Lawrence was growing up in Louisville, Kentucky with fairly humble beginnings. However, with that face, that hair, and those piercing green eyes I think it's safe to say that she's right where she belongs. Check out some of her latest looks!

at the LA premiere of the Hunger Games

at the 2012 Peoples Choice Awards

in Ralph Lauren @ the Hunger Games premiere in London

a look from her Glamour photoshoot

another look from her Glamour photoshoot

This "girl on fire" has really made her mark. Seriously, can she look bad? Let's hope not...we wouldn't want to have to revoke her "fashionista" status!

Alive and Kicking - The Nerdy Fashionista is Back!

2012-04-30T14:59:00.001-05:00

In case you didn't realize...I've been gone for quite some time. Let's just say, that life gets in the way of the fun stuff. For those of you who know me personally, you know that 2012 hasn't been very smooth thus far. In January I was diagnosed with Celiac's disease and recently my husband was diagnosed with epilepsy. Besides all of the medical ailments, we have moved around and changed jobs and let's just say it's been a little...interesting.

A few of my readers asked me why I had stopped blogging and I normally would point to the obvious factor - no time! However, when I considered how much I spend on the net any way (I may have an addiction to the Facebook game WeTopia!) I realized that time really had little to do with my MIA status. In fact, it had more to do with the fact that my lifestyle had changed. You see, having the moves and the months of unemployment has hit the budget pretty hard and my husband and I went from a very comfortable lifestyle to penny pinching. This has caused me to have to cut back on a lot of extras like mani/pedi's, massages, shopping splurges, and fashionista-like activities.

However, the other day while waiting on a prescription at CVS and perusing through some of the "As Seen on TV aisle" I saw the Electric Pedi Spin (the battery powered version of the pedi egg) and thought, "what the heck?"

So, $10 later I was at home and trying out my latest purchase. And you know what? The thing really worked! Sure it wasn't quite as relaxing as the spa, but after ignoring the sound and my husband's terrified expression, I realized that my feet were feeling just as soft as after a pedicure and it clicked! I can still write my blog, but now I can focus more on being savvy and saving all of us a little moolah while still getting our fashion on!

In short, I'm back and hopefully more budget friendly. I may not be on here every day, but I hope to bring you guys lots of great ideas to freshen up your look without breaking the bank!

Celebrity Fashionista of the Month - Michelle Williams!

2012-01-13T22:45:00.000-06:00

I've been a fan of Michelle's since she was climbing the ladder into adolescent filmmaker Dawson Leery's bedroom on everyone's favorite teen drama Dawson's Creek. And while she's come a long way since the high school wild child, I must say that Ms. Williams has proved that you don't have to marry an A-list celebrity to hang with the big guns (ah hem Katie Holmes...).

Let's face it, Michelle's rise to stardom hasn't been an easy one. However, even through the drama of a public romance, a child, and a death of your ex she has still come out on top and has earned roles in some of recent years most acclaimed pictures. In fact, her recent role as Marilyn Monroe has been getting quite a bit of Oscar buzz. And even if she does lose to Meryl Streep (don't worry Michelle, it's a common occurrence that most actresses go through) at least she still looks amazing while doing so.

As many of us know, once you're on the top your wardrobe better match your new caliber status. Therefore, it's no wonder that Ms. Williams has been looking absolutely delectable throughout awards season. However, she still manages to look fabulous walking with little Matilda. This is a single mom who knows what she is doing!

at the Critics Choice Awards 2012

channeling Marilyn in Vogue (breathtaking!)

hanging with Matilda

at the Marilyn Premiere

Seriously, this girl has got some natural beauty to support those acting chops! Keep is up Michelle - we need more talented, beautiful actresses like you!

HANA Hair Dryer - a Must for EVERY Lady!

2012-01-13T22:27:00.000-06:00

With the holidays recently over and the winter weather actually settling in (I was actually starting to believe in global warming...) it's likely that you're starting to wonder why you made that new years resolution to hit that gym boot camp class at 5am every morning. Am I right? Well, maybe there' s a way to revamp your look without all of that hard work...

When winter weather comes plowing in so does the dryness, and it sucks the life out of your skin and your hair! Not to mention that the constant thrust of cold wind and a running nose can make your often just done locks look like you got in a fight with a weed whacker on the way out. Seriously, when it comes to the winter blues...my hair is the last thing on my mind.

I always get tired of people telling me how nice my hair is. My mother and my husband (who by the way, both have very short hair) are always begging me to wear my hair down or not to cut it. But let's face it, for most of us time is of the essence and if you're a mom, a working lady, or both you certainly don't have hours on end to primp every morning. That's one reason why I seem to always be stashing elastics everywhere! - in my purse, on my wrist, at my desk, in the car - you name it. What may start out as a day to wear my hair down could quickly turn into a day to to wear it up.

To get back to my point, winter is the worst. With the dry weather (and hence all that static) blow drying my hair doesn't even seem like an option. Why bother if it's just going to look like I stuck my finger in a light socket or have hat hair all day? I've tried just about every hair dryer out there and even with my genetically blessed hair (one of the few things I can't complain about) I just never seemed to be impressed. Until now...

Recently, I came across the HANAair Professinal Hair Dryer on the Misikko website and I was impressed with what I had read...so I had to try it out for myself.

One of the things I love most about this hair dryer is that the thing works fast! Even with my Chi hair dryer it would take me up to 10 minutes to blow dry my hair...and half the time I had worked up enough of a sweat that it wasn't even worthwhile! The HANAair professional hair dryer comes with 2 fan speeds and 3 heats - and there is a noticeable difference! I noticed I was able to dry my hair in approximately 5 minutes. And the best part? Even with my ionic heat that the Chi produced I still always had to run a straightener through my hair after already drying my hair - just another annoying, hair damaging step. Not with the HANAair - my hair was super shiny and soft. I have to say that I was shocked...I had no idea that a hair dryer could make so much of a difference.

I also recommend the HANA hair shine shield thermal protectant that is specially formulated to work with these products. It's just a small enhancement to ensure that when you are using your blow dryer or other heated styling product that you're not doing any more damage than necessary. If you have dry hair ladies - this is for you! My hair looks so shiny and healthy without being greasy.

Lastly, I have to say that I've found a new favorite beauty and hair website in Misikko. With free shipping over $75, some of the best package prices on the internet, and not to mention super packaging with free goodies you can not beat what this place has to offer. Personally, I'm already saving up for a new straightener and curling wand. Check out their selection - and start your wish list now!

Flat Irons

Curling Irons and Wands

So if you see me this summer, I may not be 10lbs lighter; however, my hair will be looking FABULOUS! Can't wait!

Gifts Sets - They Don't have to be Gifts!

2011-11-06T11:16:00.000-06:00

One of my favorite things about the holidays is that companies know that they have to increase the incentives in order for you to buy, buy, buy! For us fashionistas, this means more for our buck. Most of your favorite beauty brands produce fabulous gift sets during this time of the year and although they make great gifts, they're also great for you!

There are so many reasons why gift sets are the way to go. I often buy a gift set when I want to try a new product or brand but am not prepared to invest in the larger sizes and prices. About a year ago I had read some great reviews on the brand Fresh. All of their products were praised for their natural skincare approach and I was excited to try them out. However, on my next trip to Sephora I found that a hefty price tag came with the good experiences. That's why I chose this gift set below. For $45 I got to try the fresh sugar scrub, the lip treatment, and the spray. What I loved most? I am now OBSESSED with all of these products and more. It was a great introduction to the line - for a fraction of the cost!

Fresh Set, $45

Don't you get annoyed when you're planning a big trip and you realize that all of the economy sized shampoos and body washes you've purchased are just not going to fit into your carry on (or meet the TSA requirements...obviously men made those restrictions!)? Well...that's why I sometimes like to splurge on some gift sets where they give you a variety of miniature sized body gels and lotions that are perfect for travel. Philosophy is a great brand to find these items.

Philosophy "Sweet Kisses and Merry Wishes" Set, $36

L'Occitane Hand Cream Collections, $40

Perfumes are even jumping on board and are ditching some of the body gels and creams in their bonus sets and are opting for a travel sized bonus. Or take a look at this Marc Jacobs fragrance set. Try 3 of his most popular scents for only $38. Each rollerball will fit perfectly in your purse!

Marc Jacobs Rollerball Trio, $38

Armani Code Set, $82

So obviously you now realize that gift sets are the way to go! Whether you split the set up for numerous gifts, give the whole thing as a gift, or keep all the goodies to yourself there's one thing that's for sure - you will be looking great, smelling great, and have more dough in your wallet for all of the after Christmas sales!

Smashbox - Personalized for your Eyes!

2011-10-30T07:00:00.000-05:00

I'm always trying to mix up my eyeshadows. However, it seems like I'm always drawn to colors that don't compliment my eyes. That's why I was so excited when I saw that Sephora was carrying a new palette from Smashbox specifically for your eye color.

That's right, for $42 blue-eyed, brown-eyed, and hazel-eyed beauties everywhere can get 6 colors made specifically to compliment their eye color. Shown below are the colors for all of us hazel ladies. The top row gives you a great look for day and the bottom row a more fun, glamorous look for night. What I love the most is that you can do so many things with these colors.

Check them out the next time you're at Sephora. Your lids will thank you!

Rachel Zoe - Stylist, Mother, and now...Designer!

2011-10-26T13:29:00.000-05:00

So for those of you who tune in to my other blogs, you probably realize that I am a reality TV nut! Therefore, it should come as no surprise that I am in LOVE with Ms. Rachel Zoe. This lady is BANANAS for fashion!

The past year has offered a lot of change for the lady. At the age of 40 she gave birth to her first child (without even looking pregnant - Bitch!) and her first official fashion label. Now before we dig into Zoe's affordably chic line, let's talk about this child of hers! This little boy has a closet most women would die for. Umm...I don't remember having a Stella McCartney sweater and Gucci booties when I was 3 months old. Sigh.

Any who, back to the fashion! I must say I was a bit concerned when I heard Rachel was releasing her own fashion line. I mean, the girl can style, but would it translate into the every day girl? It's easy to make ladies like Kate Hudson and Anne Hathaway look gorgeous but could you or I pull off the chic sophisticated style that Zoe is known for? It was obvious this season on the Rachel Zoe Project that I wasn't the only one a little concerned for Miss Rachel. From her husband Roger, to her sister Patti, to her team of model-esque fashion minions everyone seemed to wonder how The Rachel Zoe Collection would be perceived by the public. From handbags to tuxedo jackets to 70s inspired pants the collection (with most pieces under $500) has everything to offer to the girl who wants to look classy and on trend at the same time. Here are a few of my favorites...and of course be sure to check out Bloomy's for the entire line. Personally, I can't wait to see what's up for my favorite celebrity stylist!

Rachel Zoe Andrews Blouson Sleeve Dress, $450

Rachel Zoe Gia Scaf Top, $375

Annie Pumps, $295

Rachel Zoe Zoe Tote, $450

Old Treasures = Money in your Pocket!

2011-08-08T17:16:00.000-05:00

In the past few years, I've truly converted to adult hood. Gone are the days when rent was free, car insurance was paid for, and pay day was shopping day! Let's face it, most of us have more responsibility than ever right now - and you have to pay the bills before you can have some fun.

Well, what you may not realize is that you could have hundreds or thousands of dollars in your closet right now! Did you know that this is the best time of the year to sell clothes, accessories, and shoes on ebay? It's true. With many parents having to cut back on their back to school budgets, many people are turning to places like Goodwill, eBay, and discount stores to buy back to school clothes and goodies.

In the past 5 years I have probably made $5000 annually just by selling stuff on ebay. Normally, this money just goes back into the latest and greatest in fashion - but it's definitely the best way to justify a big shopping trip.

Here's what I recommend:

Clean out your closet at least two times a year. I usually do it at the end of winter and summer.
Make 2 piles - one for the nonprofit of your choice, and one for eBay sales. Even though garage sales and places like Plato's closet seek to give you the same opportunity as eBay, you can make almost 3 times as much by selling on ebay. However, there is a small fee to list on ebay, and you do have to mess with shipping the items out.
If you haven't worn it or used it in 3 months and it's not seasonal (like a bathing suit) then it's time to say goodbye. Even if you might eventually get back to the size of your high school jeans...you will be better off to buy a newer more current style than to be "so 2000"!

So take a Saturday or Sunday afternoon and list your goodies. Describe your item honestly, and bring in the moolah! Even if you just make a few bucks, it's still more than you had before!

My Top 5 Beauty Busts

2011-07-31T10:26:00.000-05:00

Recently, I seem to have been plagued more by bad buys than good. I'll read about how great a product is in a magazine and it sparks my interest. So, on my next shopping trip to Sephora I check it out, and I buy it. Then, I get it home...try to use it and am immediately frustrated that this wonderful product is not magical like I was lead to believe.

Therefore, here are a few items I recommend you skip...

1. Stila Glitter Eyeliner

Stila is usually one of my favorite brands, so I didn't think it would be much of a risk to buy this glitter eyeliner. The ad for this looked amazing - definitely not a day to day look but I had a bachelorette party coming up and thought that this eyeliner would glisten in the brown color.

I am actually somewhat skilled with liquid liner, but the glitter makes this not show up whatsoever. It looked clear with a sparkle here and there. Additionally, it kept running and my eyes would immediately begin to water. It was terrible. By the time I had my eye done it was so red that I looked like I had pink eye.

This is a case of good marketing, not a good product.

2. Fekkai Products - in General

I've tried several Fekkai products and can we say overrated? For the price, you definitely don't get anything above average. I've used their color shampoo, hairspray, color treatments - you name it! Every time I'm disappointed that this product is nothing spectacular. Avoid!

3. Kiehls Ultra Facial Toner

Those of you who read my blog know that Kiehls is one of my favorite skin care lines. That's why it breaks my heart to have to call this product a bust. When Kiehls discontinued my other toner, I went with the Ultra Facial from the recommendation of the counterperson. Unless you have excessively dry skin, I would not use this product. It left my skin oily and not feeling clean. I have combination skin, so I definitely need moisture in some areas...but wow - this was above average. They recently released an oil free version that is hopefully better but this one...a bust.

4. Bare Escentuals Exfoliating Treatment Cleanser

This water activated powder cleanser is a little unusual for those of us who are used to a cleanser that really lathers. Although this product isn't a complete bust, what I hate is that I never know how much powder to use. And, if I put it on my Clarisonic the powder goes down in the middle hole area and is wasted. So frustrating. For $26, I can't help but think I waste about $13 of it.

5. Philosophy Bronzer (Instant Sunshine)

I love Philosophy, but I hate this applicator. It's a bit hard to use and get even. Unless you have super even skin that is soft like a baby, I would not use this on your face. It's going to make you look a little Jersey Shore. However, it's not as bad for the body. Either way, I would look else where.