The Notebook

How To Nicely End A Relationship?

2012-05-10T09:01:00.001-07:00

Everything that starts surely meets it's end, sometimes you face a happy ending to your everything and sometimes really bad!

Unfortunately if your relationship is living it's last days and whoever from you both is thinking of dumping or leaving the other, make sure and remember that you walk away with your dignity and self respect in hand, your attitude should be kind because no matter, once in your life you had loved or liked this person with all your heart and he/she had been a reason to your every smile.

Have a serious conversation instead of planing to hit or abuse the other and do this " conversation" in a private place where you have ample of time and no surrounding distractions like friends specially. Be truthful but don't be too specific that why you want an end because nobody would love to listen why - they - suck ?

Most importantly if you are aiming to breakup with your so called once better half then don't throw it at them out of the blue like today you are so mushy- mushy and lovey -dovey and the day after tomorrow you scream and move out. first become a bit distant then increase it slightly unless the person senses change in you him/ herself and ask you what's wrong?

Now for the blame game, if you have to blame someone blame yourself and let them be hurt and angry and don't tell them that this behavior is wrong because you are here to end for the " things" happened in the past, pin pointing that " here you go again, that's what i hate about you" or " the way you drive me insane, i'm happy not to be having you anymore" would open a new door to a screamy fight and that's what you want to avoid because when you are already leaving then why leave with a very bad impression.

In the end, remain firm and tell them that it's something you are doing for the better of you both in the long run, be compassionate, shake hands and leave!

Oh! not to forget, remind them " Everyone is made for Someone"

Humor In Pictures!!!

2012-05-06T11:05:00.000-07:00

A day without laughter is a day wasted

- Charlie Chaplin

Ode To Mother - In- Law

2012-05-06T10:19:00.000-07:00

Be Your Own Love Psychic! (Couples Only)

2012-04-23T06:09:00.002-07:00

Have you ever wondered how some of your dreams came true? Have you ever predicted whose call it could be before your phone rings? Can you sometime tell of a thing that is yet to happen? Congrats! Your sixth sense works!

If love is the biggest happiness then it is the biggest problem in life too, ever wished you could read your man’s or a man’s mind? Well may be you can because we all have an Extra Sensing Potential and when it comes to our love nothing is more helpful than your sixth sense.

But how to be your own psychic? Well before we find the answer to it, you need to relax yourself up, get a pen and paper, block all the rubbish that you have in your mind, o yes! You definitely need to turn that cell phone off too, thank you! Close that door behind you; have you blocked any outside voice? NO? Please do those too, remember you don’t want to be distracted! Make sure you are comfortable and would not have a need to visit loo in between the process … light a candle, it would help you to keep your mind still and focused … once you are all done, do these assignment but Do Not Peek At The Answers before finishing else it wouldn’t be of any use to you and let me know if it helped in any way … Happy reading!

ARE YOU COUPLED UP?

So here is your first assignment, it's called The Crystal Ball Of Commitment.

The Crystal Ball Of Commitment: Draw a circle on a piece of paper, Gaze at it for a while until you start finding your thoughts becoming dreamy. Now choose an animal from the list below -
Which one do you see in your crystal ball?
Cat, Dog, Wolf, Parrot, Guinea pig, Fox, Bear, Lion, Pigeon, Bat, Horse, Monkey, Bee, Mouse, Butterfly, Ferret, Hedgehog, Badger, Tiger, Leopard, Dolphin, Goldfish, Elephant, Kangaroo.

If you don't see any of these animals but have a strong and sure feeling about something else, feel free to write it down.

Once you are done with it you need to do the second assignment, it’s called Chinese Chopsticks.

Chinese Chopsticks: Here you are going to use two ballpoint pens, pencils or felt tips. Make one pen A and the other pen B. Write down which is which so that you don't forget. Now cup both pens in your hands, shake them a few times and then quickly drop them on the floor. Open yourself to the dreamy state of mind. Write down as much as you can about pen A, where is it pointing? where is it in relation to pen B? what emotions do you get from it? what does it remind you of? what is it saying to you? has it landed next to another object, like a shoe? what does the object mean to you? keep on writing until you have nothing more to write, say or ask from yourself. Repeat the same with pen B, let your imagination flow. What is the pen saying to you? what is it triggering? Don't edit your words, just write it all down.

Phew! Done? Alright time for the last assignment, it’s called Love Letters

Love Letters: Choose " five" letters from the alphabet. You can repeat a letter if you like. You might spell a word, or a part of word - either is fine. The idea is to choose them randomly and jot them down. Now take each letter in turn and look at it. It begins a word for you. Which word?
When you five words, sit with them for a while and let your mind drift, Next add another word to each of your five. For example, if you wrote down I and then Ice, you might add Cream or if you wrote E and then Elvis you may now add Rocks. One word should follow on naturally from the other- either because it belongs with it or because it makes sense.

Alright you are done here! Excited about the answers? Well here you go with the solutions!

Solutions For Couples Only Assignments:

The Crystal Ball Of Commitment:
The animal you saw in the crystal ball has a message for you about your man's state of mind over the next twelve months.

Cat: Curious about marriage
Dog:The lads come first
Wolf:He wants to be alone
Parrot:He wants what you want
Guinea pig: Love is an experiment
Fox: Bridezillas make him feel hunted
Bear: He wants a family
Lion: Pride is his problem
Pigeon: He wants a home
Bat : Love is blind
Horse: Love is a gamble
Monkey: He is hanging around
Bee: You are the queen
Mouse : He is playing games
Butterfly : Commitment phobe!
Ferret: Getting in to your pants is his priority
Hedgehog: Vulnerable and prickly
Badger: Don't badger him
Tiger: Sex is the bond
Leopard : He'll never change
Dolphin: Love is spiritual
Goldfish: Love and money count
Elephant: He'll never forget his ex
Kangaroo: He wants to go travelling.

Yeah i know it sounds crazy but think of about it : the association between each animal and it's characteristics was always there in your mind, so this is your psyche's way of getting the message across.

Chinese Chopsticks:
Pen A was your partner and Pen B was you. This can be a fascinating exercise because of you look at the floor, all you will see is a couple of pens - but if you check your notes, you'll find reams of information! You were analyzing your chemistry and compatibility from your point of view and his point of view. So what were you seeing? Start with the closeness or separateness of the two pens. Did you find them far apart, or separate but still connected?

Love Letters:
These are five things he loves about you . People discover that their five words pairs have very personal meanings that makes no sense to others. So if you wrote Ice cream. what does that trigger? Your psychic mind thinks like your dreaming mind - in symbols - but it always tells the truth.

Google Earth Reunites Lost Family!!

2012-04-16T11:28:00.000-07:00

Man from India finds lost family using Google Earth!!

Saroo- then and now

Saroo Brierley from India in 1986 at the age of 5 was begging with his older brother, by taking a wrong train which was going in a wrong direction he separated away from his brother and family because during his journey he went to sleep and after 14 hrs of sleep found himself in a notorious slum of Calcutta ( now Kolkata ).

A grown up and successful Saroo Brierley

At first he lived on streets, begged with the local children, for a month tried to find his way back home, nearly drowning in to river Ganges and nearly being abducted by a man who intended to sell him as a slave. He was lucky enough to be taken by the orphanage and then being adopted by a couple in Australia where he was taken to Tasmania and later became a successful businessman.

Commemorating his lost days and adoption he said. " I accepted that I was lost and that I could not find my way back home so I thought it was great that I was going to Australia.

With everyday while he was growing up the desire of knowing his roots and from where he had come from also grew within him but sheer luck he only had vivid memories but not the name of the town he had born or had come from, He took the help of internet for clues. Smart Brierley muliplied the 14 hours he knew he had been on the train by the average speed of trains in India to determine how far he had travelled that night n 1986. He then drew a circle around Calcutta based on the radius and eventually found out that Khandwa was the town he was looking for.

Astonished of his discovery he zoomed and it all came up! he even found the waterfall where he used to play.

Can wait to walk down the memory lane, he flew to India, reached Khandwa and located a familiar home. His family had moved out but fortunately he had remembered their names .. With a little help of the passers by he was taken to the home where his mother lived.

At first he didn't recognize his mother, she on the other hand was stunned in to silence due to his reappearance. She told him how they searched endlessly for him they even met fortune tellers who told them that they would reunite one day.

The moment of unison

What a moment had it been for both the mother and son, for the mother who sent both her sons together and later only found one son dead and one son missing.The elder brother who had accompanied him on train, his dead body was found on railway tracks few days months after Brierley's.

He says, '' To this day i still can't believe I managed to find my family, considering India's population size and how young I was when I lost them". He also admitted that communicating with his new found family is difficult but by reading their facial expressions and hand movements and with little Hindi which he remembers still they make sense to him.

So yeah where there is a will there is always a way!

Truth Or Dare - Madonna

2012-04-15T06:11:00.000-07:00

Madonna is our new perfumer of the year 2012!

Yes, past Thursday in New York she debuted her first signature perfume,Truth Or Dare.But why has she waited so long to bless us with her fragrance ? Because she couldn't find the scent of her dreams . She said " I have always been obsessed by fragrance and for years wanted to create something personal that was an expression of me, but that other people could relate to as well. Something classical and timeless and yet modern.My oldest memory of my mother is her perfume. I carry it with me everywhere. She always smelled like gardenia, fracas and tuberose, an intoxicating mixture, feminine and mysterious. I wanted to recreate this scent, but with something fresh and new about it as well "

Madonna's Truth or Dare is available in 30, 50, or 75 ml Eau de Parfum ($ 39- 68) and in matching body products.The lasting power is very good

Titanic - A Century To The Tragedy Of Human Technology And Civilization Or The Success Of Nature?

2012-04-14T13:01:00.002-07:00

In a solitude of the sea

Deep from human vanity

And the pride of life that planned her, stilly couches she

- Thomas Hardy

Titanic on her maiden voyage!

Titanic, One of the three Olympic class ocean liners, operated by White Star Line was built between 1909- 1911 by the Harland and Wolff shipyard in Belfast.

Titanic before leaving for North America

April 10th 1912, Titanic left South Hampton, England with a sum of 2,224 passengers, her passengers included some of the wealthiest people in the world and over a thousand emigrants from Great Britain , Ireland, Scandinavia and elsewhere who were in seek of a new life in North America. Name any comfort that Titanic didnt have within to offer her passengers from on board gymnasium, swimming pool, libraries, high -class restaurant, opulent cabins to powerful wireless telegraph for the convenience of passengers. She even had high safety features like water tight compartment and remotely activated water tight doors, precisely she had everything and every safety that a human mind could think and provide his fellow being.

April 14th 1912, that makes four days after her maiden voyage and 375 miles( 600km) south of Newfoundland, 11:40 pm ( ship's time) Titanic- the symbol of human pride hit her devastating fate - The Ice berg! This collision was the second attack of nature on human's pride or helplessness in front of it's secret plan, yes the second! why second? because the first attack that nature did was blindfolding human's mind by making them carry only enough lifeboats, had there been life boats as per the passengers, death toll would have been reduced.
So the Titanic hit the ice berg and that caused her hull's plate to buckle inwards in a number of locations and made open five of her sixteen watertight compartments to the sea.Over the next two hours and a half the ship gradually filled with water and finally the " Unsinkable'' sank!

The fate of Titanic right after

Passengers and some crew members were evacuated in life boats and even of those few lifeboats many were partly filled! imagine this scenario that people were about to face their untimely death and the few lifeboats that were available then even they had protocol by the officers, this made over 90% of male passengers from the second class to stay on board at the mercy of nature. The protocol by the officers was - women and children first!

Alright they boarded the women and the little ones but why did they let the boats half filled? fear of toppling? or you'd say nature was even not satisfied even after this all? why the nature was so after Titanic and its passengers that one after one mistake made the reason of their tragic and always to remember death?

Over a thousand sank with the bow and died because of Hypothermia including our beloved Jack * sigh with a wink* , 710 survivors were taken aboard by the Carpathia few hours later .. among them our Rose too survived * wink* ( Jack and Rose's reference here is added to lighten the mood, apologies for any offence! )

Out of 2, 224 only 710 were lucky enough to get saved, 1514 lost their lives to Titanic. that makes the ratio of 32: 68, that means less than one third only survived, some of even them died shortly due to injuries ....

The third class of the Titanic faced step brother fate, 5 of 6 children from first class and all the children from second class were saved whereas only 52 out of 79 from the third class were saved from being perished .. isn't it ironic that from " women and children" only this became the saving toll? 3 percent of women from first class lost their lives whereas 52 percent from third class lost their lives. Why the people who were seeing the death right in to their eyes were blinded by the status boundaries of saving the first class and the second class the most? this didn't end here on the death, all the first class passengers who died their bodies were preserved and the third class passengers along the crew were made to sleep peacefully in the sea ...

We are now commemorating the 100th anniversary on 14th april 2012, it's now on us to justify to mourn at our people's death or at our helplessness in front of nature or God? we agree or not The Unsinkable was meant to Sink because it became the victim between the God's pride and the Human's pride!

R.I.P the survivors and the victims, You'll are still and shall always be missed!

Till Death Do Us Part

2012-04-14T05:17:00.000-07:00

Face; once

So unfamiliar to me

Now a piece of my heart

Who

Bringing sunshine to my

Barren world

And warming my soul everytime

Gave reasons to me

To smile for

Being close; gave me

Memories to cherish for

Sharing my all ecstasies misted every time my eyes

Became My beacon

And a searching torch

In the darkness of this life

A shelter to me

In my every storm

And hold me now by the hand

Till death do us part

Romeo and Juliet

2012-04-14T05:10:00.002-07:00

A sarcastic humour on " crazy,stupid but however epic love "

Mad and naive lover Romeo

So jealous of Death

Thought it has fallen in love

With his sleeping beauty

''I’ll win over you''

Angrily He said

Took the poison to the mouth

And to heaven went after death

With a sigh the beauty awakes

And sadly mutters to herself

''My heart is there with Romeo''

'' How can i leave my heart''?

Pulled the dagger

Pressed it against

And to heaven went after heart

Saying Goodbye .. !

2012-04-14T05:02:00.000-07:00

There's no sadder word in any dictionary than saying goodbye, but they make you realize what you've had, what you've lost and what you've taken for granted.

Every single minute of the ticker

Which is bringing you close to me

Is taking you away too

But always remember this

I'll always love you so!

Never ending distances

Are soon to capture our lives

Which will make, me and my life an obscure for you

But always remember this

I'll always love you so!

I'll never grief our farewell

So never do you too

And haply i may remember

Or haply may forget

But always remember this

I'll always love you so!

Cheating Death...

2012-04-13T08:10:00.001-07:00

When people don’t express themselves, they die one piece at a time. ― Laurie Halse Anderson.

Now my body is stooped by woes

But it is still struggling with life

Am nothing now; But The shadow of an old solitary tree in a ruin

My lingering presence is a curse

And a nuisance for myself

And a mode of laughter for man-kind

Ah!

No blessings for me now

From the great azure

Ive been amputated from my loved ones

Because of their demise

Lonely me, to reminiscence

Tired so now this old soul of living

Then for what iam still cheating death?

Far Away ..

2012-04-13T08:05:00.001-07:00

To love that blooms; Let be near or far

Far away in the land of ecstasy

Someone i know – He lives

He who gave me

Waiting noons

Mourning eves

Sleepless nights

Dreamful eyes

Yearnful life

But love that will bloom

Ecstasy..

2012-04-13T07:31:00.003-07:00

My ecstasy is in your eyes

No matter If they are blind

For our dreams

Dreams- that now i would yearn for

And live with Alone …..

Miss You Lots ..

2012-04-13T07:30:00.002-07:00

I did three things today; miss you, miss you, and miss you.

It is you Now who is leaving

Distances again will occupy me

No escape

I’ve been captured By forlorness

Tried running a lot

But barriers in my feet brought me back

To where i was standing before you

Miss ya already lots!

Taste of Love

2012-04-13T07:29:00.001-07:00

In that forlorn night

When there was nothing more of you

Except for a blurred remembrance

Of an unwanted closeness

Your hesitation with nervousness

And a print of your wet lips

On the rim of my finest glass

Sparkling crystal

I woke myself from your thought

With trembling fingers

Lifted the cold glass

Brought to my thirsty mouth

And tasted your love

Everytime

2012-04-13T07:28:00.002-07:00

To be an adult is to be alone - Jean Rostand.

Every time I want you near

I then get nothing; But Only a tear

And a sigh which only says

Why with you I can’t be there?

Forlorn love, Forlorn odyssey

Is it that life

You promised to me ?

Answer my heart ; Which now only asks

Why with you I can’t be there?

In your hope now

My months are turning in to years

And before i breathe last

O tell me dear; That; Why with you I can’t be there?

Love and Dreams....

2012-04-13T07:26:00.001-07:00

To love and dreams

Which are;

A part of you and me

To those eyes Whom;

Found you but couldn’t see me

And To ecstasies

Which for now;

Have won you and had abandoned me

Should You Spy On Your Guy?

2012-03-29T08:35:00.000-07:00

It was Sunday morning and I was happily seated on my couch reading, Sundays At Tiffany’s that my door bell rang, I opened the door and found my best friend with rage filled red eyes. One look - and I knew her boyfriend of 2 years had cheated on her again, He’d been unfaithful to her twice before. I got her in, gave her water and asked her the reason for her puffy eyes (just to reconfirm my assumption) she said, “I finally broke with Steve”.

I was not surprised to hear that because 5 months earlier I’ve heard almost same and saw her moving back with him with my very same eyes. Not seeing my reaction to her statement she said again, “I Broke With Steve”, I said yeah okay, but for how long? I know I’ve been sarcastic there but honestly “Making and Breaking up “was like a game for them both.

She gave me a sheepish smile and said “For good” I gave her a raised- eyebrow look and asked her the reason for this surety in her voice.

I spied on him, she said, because I could sense a change in his behavior like every time, which he continuously denied and called me paranoid but you know I was tired of these hide and seeks and wanted to find something conclusive to have it out with him.

Her James Bond figure broke in my mind when she further told me that how she spied on him, she bought a listening device around $400, disguised to look like a cell phone and planted it under his car seat, this device when you call on it activates the microphone and you can listen to the conservations that are taking place nearby.

I heard Steve’s conversation with some girl, she said, who I’m sure, was his secretary from office, they were planning their wedding and showing me a white flag so I packed up his things, drove to his office, dumped to his receptionist with a “GO TO HELL” note and now here I’m in front of you …

I offered her to change in to something dashing and wash her anger out so that we two could go out and celebrate her little independence day, while she be gone I thought “Should You Actually Spy?”

I couldn’t say anything to her but, Ladies! Don’t you think that talking to your guy is the best way to solve a relationship? Wobble but its normal to consider turning to a detective if you think he’s cheating? Okay, you decide to spy but prepare yourself that you may find something unpleasant – or nothing at all, in which case where’d you stop? If you do get solid evidence then you can either leave or stick by him but if he finds out you’ve spied on him, then? The “choice” may be his then and he could dump you too. Instead of taking this bold stop why not write all the reasons you believe he’s being unfaithful? Then talk to him about your worries – there may be another reason.

If he continues to act strangely, talk to a trusted friend who is really your trustworthy friend – do your worries make sense or are you being paranoid? If he’s not letting you in on his life, for whatever reason, you need to decide whether you want to stay with. Trust is the pillar of a good relationship and if you can’t trust your man, are you sure he’s the man for you?

So I leave you here again with the question, Should you actually spy?

Great Expectations!!!

2012-03-28T06:27:00.001-07:00

Among all the things that are a part of our lives Disappointments and Getting Disappointed are too. There is something that causes it but before I go further name anything that hadn’t be a reason to your disappointment, I give a few reasons to you for a recall, weather, being not remembered by someone whom you can’t get out of your mind, your weight, your own self, job, outcomes to your work, results, being cheated and the list goes on.. So precisely there isn’t a single human being on earth that hadn’t faced or experienced Disappointments, this counts you too, don’t say that you are not disappointed in anything at the moment? If not then certainly you are a very satisfied person, leave it here only and make your move out before you become a part of this cursed word too but if you are a normal person who experiences it very so often then read it to its end and I hope it gets you somewhere .

Why do we even get disappointed? Have you ever given it a thought? Or tried answering it for you? Please do not say that it is because of people, people have nothing to do to you and don’t even let this thought come to your mind that circumstances and conditions are doing you this honor … external sources are not your enemies!

If external sources have nothing to do with it then what is it? Internal? YES! And by internal source it means, yes, YOU! I’m giving you a situation, after reading it you’d say you don’t call the internal source your culprit, before you assume that, read this there is a traffic jam on the road which doesn’t seem to clear in an hour and you are late for this very important meeting at job after which you have to meet your sweetheart this means, you are going to miss your meeting as well as seeing this person who is waiting for you, you agree so far? Alright, but tell me, what is a disappointment here? Traffic jam? Not seeing this person? Or not being at work on time? You categorize it under the term of place, thing, fate, or a circumstance? NEITHER! YES, neither because Disappointment is a feeling! A feeling that emerges from your inside!

What causes this disappointment in you? Failure? Breaking promise? Again neither! It’s EXPECTATION! We only get disappointed when something couldn’t come to our expectation or doesn’t work the way we have thought it to work for us!

Many people have found an escape from this situation by saying ''don’t expect so I don’t get disappointed trust me it’s not reliable, even I’ve tried it many times but then what else can we try to avoid this condition and live a happy life?

1. Learn lessons from your mistakes

2. Appreciate things

3. Broad the horizon of your parameters

4. Keep a good balance in everything

6. Change negativities in to positivities

7. Strengthen your ego

8. Try to live happy

Widening my parameters , living happy and taking everything as it is coming down my way has helped me a great deal and since an year I can’t recall when last I did get disappointed! TRY SOME OF IT TOO AND BREAK THE CURSE OF DISAPPOINTMENTS!

Be Your Own Love Psychic! ( Singles Only)

2012-03-27T08:36:00.001-07:00

ARE YOU SINGLE?

So here is your first assignment, it’s called the Revealing Rings.

Revealing Rings: Draw three blank circles, the bigger the better, now take your pen and focus on the first circle that you have drawn, think of words, random words and random pictures that you would want to put in this circle. Don’t worry if some of them are rubbish, just fill it up, write and draw whatever is coming to your mind, let it be a sentence, physical feeling, emotional sensation, specific name, place, crushes, food, places, any shape or whatever! The longer you sit with the first circle the better your results would be, Don’t stop unless you ooze everything out of your mind don’t worry if you have your circle got filled, scribble down outside the circle .Now if you have a feeling that you have nothing more to add, stop! Take a few minutes break to clear your head and move on to the second circle, do the same again and then move to the third circle and fill it the same way.

Once you are done with it you need to do the second assignment, it’s called The Ipod Oracle.

Ipod Oracle: Programme twelve songs off the top of your head, don’t think too hard, and just write them down the ones that are coming straightaway, trawl through every music piece that you’ve heard in your life. When were you born? Start from there, move forward, move backward in time . If at any point you want to change the song order, add a new one or delete then feel free to do it. You are even free to write the song lyrics...

Phew! Done? Alright time for the last assignment, it’s called Pass The Parcel.

Pass The Parcel: Think of a man you are interested in, if you are not interested in anyone then think of your old boyfriend, crush etc. Now focus on the man, hard and harder, done? Now imagine you are holding a parcel and see yourself ripping off its first layer, underneath that is another layer of wrapping paper, what color is it? First thought, best thought! Write it down. Take a few deep breaths then rip that layer off and move to the next sheet, again write the color and be specific about it, if its dark shade, light shade, mixed shade or whatever just write that down. The whole range of spectrum is yours, just focus on every layer that your are ripping in your mind and note down its color. Do this only Six times. If the same color repeats then again don’t worry, your mind is your kingdom, you are free to think.

Alright you are done here! Excited about the answers? Well here you go with the solutions!

Solutions For Singles Psychic Assignments:

Revealing Rings:

CIRCLE ONE is the red light of your love. It represents who and what is stopping you from finding a happy relationship. If your psychic ability was working perfectly then you may have actually written down the name of a love-life rival, for e.g. something about you that is causing the block, such as shyness, or if you wrote down of a disease, like asthma, it could be a condition that is holding you back.

CIRCLE TWO represents your amber light- what you are ready to change to find happiness, it also shows what’s altering around you .

CIRCLE THREE represents those people and situation that will be your green light to love.

The Ipod Oracle: You’ve just predicted the future of your love life for the next twelve months. Each song that you have chose to write represents months of the year. Since psychic ability works literally or symbolically, be prepared for the future to take shape in any way.

Pass The Parcel:

Layer one represents: how he appears

Layer two represents: how his ex sees him

Layer three represents: how his friends sees him

Layer four represents: how his family sees him

Layer five represents: how people at work sees him

Layer six represents: the real him

Now interpret the colors that you have come up with.

Red: Hot, Energetic

Orange: Stuck, Unsure

Yellow: Cowardly, Cautious

Dark Green: Earthy, Natural

Light Green: Immature, Naive

White: Saint

Black: Doctor Evil

Pink: A Metrosexual

Dark Blue: Straight, Responsible

Pale Blue: Sensitive, Dreamer

Turquoise: Cosmic, Spiritual

Grey: Pessimistic, Negative

Brown: Sweet, Warm

Silver: Wannabe Millionaire

Gold: Class Act

Purple: Passionate, Dramatic

How To Be A Millionaire By 30?

2012-03-25T05:01:00.000-07:00

Who hasn’t dreamt of retiring at 35 and spending next 20 years on some exotic island?

Now failure is a vital part of everyone, courageous is the one who after the fall rises up and that’s the strategy of successful people - they have a confidence that failure won’t cripple them. If you too get yourself that unwavering belief in yourself then let yourself become infectious!

Check out these TO DO tips and that island dream might not be such a very distant dream after all!

1. Be Prepared To Take Risk:

Don’t look at your job as nine to five; give it your all like be 100% committed. If you start up with a business you won’t have holidays to begin with- whatever you do don’t give up!

2. Dont Get Put Off By The Competition:

Once you’d start something, you being faced by the competition is very likely to happen and that’s there when you get cold sweats so at that point remind yourself that “ the greatest fear is fear itself “ so rather than worrying about any sort of competitions make sure to yourself that whatever you are doing you are doing the best . As a result your competition itself would disappear and your “whatever “that you have started doing would grow and grow.

3. Keep Learning From The Bottom:

Work closely with the staff and listen to their ideas. Never be afraid to talk to your boss either.

4. Never Get Very Comfy:

You have to be bloody determined in your everything and have to have confidence in your abilities. Always follow your instincts and get on with everyone. The danger is people get stuck in job because of their being too comfortable nature and not being open to changes and then they lose the confidence of taking new challenges in life and that’s the worst thing that you could offer to yourself so just put yourself out there.

5. Treat Your Business As If It’s Your Baby:

Nurturing the business is like having a child, you need to look after it, guide it, mentor it, advice and sometime support it. You need to drive yourself very hard but in the end it pays off but during this drive don’t lose the hand of perseverance and endurance .

6. Be Determined:

Don’t let anything in life to demotivate you, let it be your loved ones or your circumstances. if you have given up a job to get self employed and is being called mad then welcome it open heartedly because half the battle is always won if you are determined about your goal. So be positive and prove them, the world wrong.

7. Pick A Great Team:

Don’t be afraid of appointing people who are better than you. Surround yourself with the best talent and have the confidence to delegate the people who are expert in your field.

8. Challenge Your Boss:

Yes! Challenge your superior ones, at first they would be taken aback but they’d definitely come round because suggestions help always.

Many people who are in the list of successful have tried these little improvements in life and now there is no stopping to them!

Are You Miss Right Or Miss Right Now?

2012-03-24T02:22:00.000-07:00

Do men still see women as types: good either for sex or a serious relationship, but not both?

Most men living on this planet, Earth, categorize us, the women in two categories – One that are good for a fling and the other that are potential wives.

Women! Isn’t it ironic that men still see us as either slag or saint and I don’t think that this idea of being immediately labeled as one type or another goes too well with any of us .

So what is a marriage material? Men are basically very old fashioned and want to be mothered they are always found to be looking for signs of long term compatibility. Although looks are important to them but they’d always have this on their mind for you that “if he is going to have kids with you, are you the woman he is going to have them with’’? And for that they’d mostly look for your stability, intelligence and etc.

For some men to pick you as his marriage material, your being from the same background is essential. Now this sounds very old fashioned as it turns as being bound in a class but again -MEN ARE MEN!

Your sun bed tan, plastic boots would although make you out of place among his social circle but you both would always have a question that who is better than the other?

It’s true. Aren’t we just as guilty of dividing men into sex objects and potential husbands but the good part is that while we all make decisions about the opposite gender but this statement rarely set a stone because someone who is Miss Right Now can attain a Miss Right as the relation progresses.

So the bottom line here would be get to know someone because everyone has the potential to be Miss Right for someone and everyone has the potential to be someone’s sex object. If you are lucky you can be both.

Happy living!

Are You Tagging Along a Narcissist?

2012-03-14T08:53:00.000-07:00

A narcissist is someone who is excessively preoccupied with himself/herself either due to childhood trauma or by receiving excessive love from their parents. Before answering that Are You Tagging Along A Narcissist? You must first know what Narcissus, Narcissism and Narcissist are because these three terms are inter-related!

Narcissus:

In Greek Mythology Narcissus – a hunter from Thespian territory in Boeotia was renowned for his beauty, his beauty made him exceptionally proud that he treated all those who loved him with haughty contempt and despise including Nymph Echo. Nemesis- Goddess of revenge saw this and attracted Narcissus to a pond where he saw his own reflection in the water and fell in love with himself not realizing that it was only his image never left the beauty of his reflection in the water. Some sources say he died and some say he changed in to a flower that now bears his name. Narcissism which is a concept of excessive selfishness has been recognized through this history and now in recent times it has been defined in psychological terms

Narcissism:

It is a word with a wide range of meanings depending on whether it is used to describe a mental illness, personality trait, or a theory. Here I’m taking this term to describe a personality trait that involves egoism, selfishness, self obsession and vanity, in psychology the term is used to describe self love and self-absorption.

Narcissist:

A narcissist is someone who is excessively preoccupied with himself/herself either due to childhood trauma or by receiving excessive love from their parents. In extreme conditions a person becomes disconnected from his / her reality and fails in building and maintaining relationships with other.

Since now you have familiarized yourself with these terms and if you are in relationship that has left you feeling frustrated and had made you ask yourself confusing questions then there could be a possibility that you are tagging yourself along a narcissist, here are a few signs for you to watch for and get rid of it before it is a too late for you because life is too short to live with compromises and sacrificing it for the one who wouldn’t, couldn’t and shouldn’t appreciate you as he/ she in medical terms is sick!

1. Preoccupation with fantasies: everyone has dreams, who hasn’t? Right? But you’d always find a narcissist obsessed in his/her own world .They’d have visions for themselves as having unlimited power, success, love, brilliance and what not? And as soon you in his/her eyes become a living object you are nothing for him/her then.

2. Lack of appreciation: since a narcissist is someone who is totally self involved he, she/she wouldn’t have understanding of your feelings and if mistakenly you try to make him/her understand your feelings then, sorry, you’d get an I-DON’T- CARE- ATTITUDE because with him/her it is and would always be his/her problems and feelings that matters the most.

3. Wants excessive admiration: A narcissist would always find ways to get complimented or respected by those around them leaving you in a self complex.

4. Controlling you nature: A narcissist would always want things to revolve around him/ her, if it means that you want to go tonight to a friend’s place and he/she wouldn’t then forget it that you‘d stand a chance to have this visit ever because if it’s something that he/ she wouldn’t want to do then it’s not worth their time.

5. Manipulative: Narcissist wouldn’t have any hesitation in manipulating you, your deeds and your talents so if he/ she is becoming over nice to you it’s only because they want something from you and this being nice would only be temporary.

How to Beat the Office Bitch?

2012-03-09T08:04:00.000-08:00

Are your colleagues at office playing dirty with you? Here is how to win in the work war-zone!

Who isn’t aware of office politics games? You know the games that you always find being played by your colleagues in order be a number uno and to stay ahead of you and everybody? The only rule of this game is “treat your fellows badly and they’d move out your way themselves”.

Hey you ALL victims! Can you fight back without fighting dirty? If Yes? You are certainly the one who doesn’t take the pressure to perform against your competitors but by any chance if No! and you came across the “DIRTY TACTICS” that I’m listing below then act on its “ FIGHT BACK “ and win your battle without fighting bad … so here we go!

TACTIC #1:

They ask for your help with a project and then pass your ideas off as theirs.

Fight Back:

This is their totally flattering, next time if they ask for your help, tell them you love to help them out but presenting your ideas yourself. You know their intricacies? You do right? Then why waste their valuable time in explaining them? Genius!

TACTIC # 2:

They email you to highlight a mistake you’ve made and copy in your boss.

Fight Back:

Don’t ever hit ‘’ reply all ‘’ and rant. Go confront them face- to- face and that’d give you the upper hand because remember here they are the ones who are cowards and not you for they are hiding behind an email. Explain them that if they have a problem, you’d rather love they were direct with you and watch them blush... Don’t step out without watching them blush, I insist!

TACTIC #3:

They tell your boss why you are late? Cause you drank too much the other night and how bad your hangover is today.

Fight Back:

This one’s designed to make you look irresponsible so work extra hard today to show that your social life doesn’t affect your concentration levels. Gently inform your workmate not to expose your dirty laundry in public if they still continue to do so which is making you hurtful and damaging your record then you need to stop sharing your secrets with them.

Heartiest You, ... From, Me!( Part Two)

2012-02-29T03:51:00.000-08:00

Read Part One First.

Waking up from that dream was like any other dream but that was just my thought because the whole day I couldn’t get that out of my mind, the roses, the tree, the house and the voice saying “ watch out “ kept on going in and out of my mind. To tell the truth I was scared that it might be an indication for me to beware of something but days followed, nothing bad happened and I stayed safe and sound.

April 21st was that night and it had been a month to that dream now that I again wandered back to my dream place, this time it was night and I was not inside the house but in the backyard. It was a paradise or a backyard? I couldn’t answer that for it was something I had never seen anywhere, although it was night but the backyard was gleaming and sparkling with lights that covered every tree within the boundary, they were not big lights as spot lights that are placed on the floor and throws it light upwards but they were strings of lights in the shape of ice cluster, they were stunning and were producing a sparkly effect , towards the right to where I was standing and as far as my eyes could travel they traced rose bushes - a variety of roses ranging from white to pink, to red to black bordering a stone walkway and between every bush there were crystal pathfinder lights . This walkway lead to a big pool that had many star shaped candles, this pool was on the left of the backyard , here I came to know that this house was built on a cliff. I was mesmerized of the smell of the flowers but a laughter broke that charm .My feet followed that laughter which was coming from the right side, I walked and walked and between that walk I could listen to slow voices but as they weren’t very near I couldn’t catch the words that those voices were saying , my feet came to an abrupt halt as soon I saw two swings hanging down the old chestnut tree, it was a plain tree but the swings that were hanging down from it had chains of large elegant sparking silver leaves and on the swings sat two figures- a girl and a boy! They were facing each other, I couldn’t see their faces to well and they were talking slowly, they couldn’t see me either as I was on their back at a distance .The girl wore a white strapless dress, fully beaded, her hair were thick, straight black,almost touching her waistline and she had a white rose tucked behind her right ear. The boy had brown hair till his ear lobes and was wearing a white cravat with his coat on his laps, he was moving to and fro with his head bent down and all the way listening to the girls chatter who was very still on the swing.

I listened carefully to what were they saying, girl was arguing for he wasn’t giving her his name although it was their second meeting, she said

“Please, tell me your name now?”

The boy answered, give any name to me Zinnia,

Girl in despair said but I want to know your real name, the one given to you at your birth and stop calling me Zinnia please because it isn’t my name, you are naming me after these white flowers we have in here around us. Why are you doing this? Faking names would fake our identity too and I don’t want such a thing.

Boy laughed and stopped, looked in her eyes and said, Zinnia, I’m not faking your identity but have given a name to your identity.

Girl in a confused voice said, I’m really sorry but you are really not making any sense at all, when I do have a name of my own and I have no objection in telling you that then let’s talk straight.

Would you stop arguing if I make you understand? Boy said in an exasperated tone.

Yes! I will, go on!

Alright, the boy said listen to it carefully now, I know you have a name and yes I do have a name too, but this is Belle Reve, here we are known not of the names given to us by our parents but the names that identify our souls. You are Zinnia, a white Zinnia - which means nothing but “Goodness”.

Hold on! I’m Zinnia and this is Belle Reve? God! Stop this, you are driving me crazy.

I know this is Belle Reve, it’s the name of your house I have seen it written on the gates but this other part that you are saying is making me more confused than ever, Girl almost in a cry sort of voice said that.

At this part even I was fully engrossed in their conversation and my full attention was on them.

You didn’t let me complete and started in between, now would you let me explain in peace Zinnia?

No! Stop it here and only tell me your name for I’m getting late, I promise to meet you again here soon.

Is it time already? I sure am giving away my name and I’m certain it would open a new door to your questions but as we are getting late so I would just give it away without any description and you, please give me a smile and not this obnoxious look .

Hurry on, I get to go back!

I’m Keith, Zinnia, always yours Keith!

The girl gave him a shy smile, shook hands with him and said,

“Keith, yes, a many questions but I know one answer to every question- LOVE!

With this the girl ran towards her left and Keith, turned back, looked at me, smiled and walked away too.

I woke up and it was again five in the morning, I needn’t write this dream in my journal because even if I die a thousand sleeps still I couldn’t forget a single word of Keith and Zinnia.

I took my journal out and wrote...

Zinnia,

To love and dreams

Which are;

A part of you and me

To those eyes

Whom;

Found you but couldn't see me

And

To ecstasies

Which for now;

Have won you and had abandoned me

……………………………………………..END OF PART TWO …………………………………………….

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