Question: “Why have you chosen me?”

AFC response: “Errm … because … errrm …. you are special!”

Alpha response: “Because <insert strong qualification response here>!”

In the seduction process you are usually qualifying the girls after creating attraction. A common qualification question is: “<cool dancing story>, do you know how to dance?”.

So when you’re in bed with the girl and she’s just asking for a reason … give her one: “Because I love the way you enjoy life and dance all night long, most of the girls don’t know how to dance but you have a passion and you are actively improving upon it”.

Steps:

• open, attract
• qualify: get 2-3 responses and start showing your interest
• comfort, number, comfort, date, kiss
• lmr => quote her responses and show how much you enjoy those things about her
• great fsckin’ sex

I’m going to start a series containing small but efficient tips I found in my PUA journey. They don’t have a story attached but they provide incredible results!

Best international opener

In my travels I often find myself in the following situation: I open a big group with at least 2 gorgeous girls in it and my target doesn’t know English (while the second girl does). Yes, you can take it as a challenge but you can also get the opportunity to choose between the girls before stating your intention using this basic opener: “Do you speak English?“.

You may laugh at this opener, you can tell me it’s extremely basic but this opener right here got me laid while going direct and trying to figure out something in Min Dong (a chinese dialect) didn’t.

Opening on the beach

Best beach opener ever: “I saw you while I was jogging on the beach and you were cute …“. This gave me the best results in Costa Brava. An opener with an included DHV.

Best phone closing routine

I found that this little trick enhances my phone closing percentage quite a lot:

“I’m going to call you in 5 to 10 days, I’m not the one-hour-phone-conversation type of guy. What’s your number?”.

Best routine after she refuses to give her number

The girl’s main fear when you’re trying to get her number on the street is that you won’t stop calling her, that you’ll be some kind of stalker.

After she refuses to give you her number you can try again with this: “Let’s do it like this. I’m going to call you once, if we don’t have a great conversation I’m going to delete your number.”

I found out that 2 in 5 girls will give me their number after this routine (and after refusing the first time).

How to get into comfort FAST!

Sometimes you’re stuck in the conversation at the attraction phase, or maybe you can’t qualify the girl. Why abandon when you have this lil’ technique to get into comfort fast?

After anything she says: “cool, I had a friend that was doing X, she knew exactly what she wanted in her life”.

Replace “doing X” with whatever link you have from the previous sentence.

After this you can ask the girl about her life goals or if she was in this situation before, etc.

I’m doing a training on Day Game and Social Circle Game in Timisoara, Romania together with my friend and fellow trainer Dodo (Inginerul).

If you are interested, you can find more information here.

The training will be held on 19.11.2011.

Research done on the subject using 4 hidden cameras to detect the destination of feminine glares. Check it out.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NdIAa6gnaco

I was pretty busy in the last month with the Sex Systems online training course. We’re now in the final stage of the system and providing the best material the seduction community has ever seen! (And I’m not bragging here, we’ve got live demos, interviews, basic and advanced pickup training and  recorded sarges that prove everything we’re teaching).

And now I’d like to teach you a simple system to kino the girl

The kino points system

There are some sets in which the girl talks to you, a bit to socially to your liking and you don’t know where you stand. My solution to this is to kino the girl! Touch her and see how she reacts.

+2 if she responds to kino (she’s touching you back, holding your hand, etc)

+1 if she accepts kino (she lets you touch her but doesn’t reciprocate)

0 if she’s not quite comfortable but she doesn’t say or do anything to keep you from kinoing her (she’s not yet accustomed to being touched by you but she’s interested)

-2 if you don’t do kino

In my opinion this is the quickest method to find out how’s somebody feeling in your presence. There are numerous techniques to do that kino (holding hands, touching her legs), I’ll go into that in another article but for now keep this scale in mind and apply it anytime you don’t know if she’s interested or just social.

This is one of my fully recorded approaches. I have her on audio from the street approach to the first date lay.

Timeline:

• 17.06 I day gamed her: street approach, dominance, teasing and a game (I needed the game on audio for a student at my one on one trainings)
• 18.06, 20.06 I call her, we speak but she says she is busy
• 22.06 I catch her on the phone and establish a date
• 23.06 We meet, I sexualize the conversation from the beginning, kiss her in the first minute and we fuck like rabits in my apartment

Bad boy beats everything!

A few days ago I was going to a date when suddenly the phone rang: she was going to be late.

Perfect! Sarging time!

I went to a park and saw a girl that was going to a public fountain holding 3 bottles. I stopped her in a dominant way, holding my hand in front of her and saying: “Stop! I think you are cute and I want to meet you. I’m Angelsin!”.

We chit chatted a bit, I teased a lot, took her hand and lead her to a bench. There I took the bottles from her, put them down and started a roleplay.

She was looking at me with big eyes and I noticed from her body language that she was into me.

I took her hands and put one of them over my shoulder. Then I told her: “You know what would be cool?”, then I moved her other hand over my other shoulder and put my hands on her hip “To kiss you on the street!”.

She looked at me and didn’t say anything. Had she said no I would have teased her more but she just looked so I brought her closer to me, firmly, and kissed her.

I then spinned her, pulled her hair, kissed her dominantly and lead her into a block nearby. There we made out, I took her hand, moved it over my body, to my dick and fingered her!

This was 10 minutes in the interaction.

After a lot of kissing and fingering she started telling me she didn’t want this (even though she was very wet) so I stopped the interaction first, lead her outside and did a bit of comfort.

While we talked a friend of hers passed by and they started talking. I didn’t want to make acquaintance (because if I did then the other girl would feel comfortable staying longer) so I just ignored her friend (yes, counter intuitively, but it worked). Her friend left and I continued talking to my target.

I tried pulling her again but she didn’t want to go in the block so I changed locations. We went for a walk in the park (I was searching for a place to fuck) and we talked about extreme sports, me leaving the other day (to promote a same day lay), etc.

I found a good spot, got her there and started making out with her.

Key words for the next phase: fingering, pulling her hair, spitting on her, fucking.

Oh, yes, I also told her I was a seduction trainer and she gave me a video interview (in romanian) on the approach and the close )

Calibration gets you laid!

Everything you’re learning, all the approaches you’re doing develop your personality and show you how to adapt. And, as you all know, those who do not adapt do not make it in life. Once I understood this I made a point of learning to calibrate in every situation. Now, years after, I’m giving you all that I’ve learned regarding calibration.

Calibration one on one

1. Calibrate attraction

If she is attracted you can do something to impress her like bringing her to a romantic date && stuff. It won’t hurt your game (but it will send you straight to the relationship frame).

If she is not attracted trying to impress her will hurt your game badly!

2. Calibrate comfort

If she trusts you go for bigger plans (weekends together, roadtrips, etc), she’ll come.

Don’t tell stories that don’t fit with the interaction (e.g. don’t talk about how you almost killed someone with a girl that had 3 dorks for boyfriends)

3. Calibrate teasing

When you’re in the attraction phase tease her a lot. Tease her until she gets offended, then quickly qualify her and start creating comfort. After a while tease her again.

When she smiles you can neg her and she won’t get offended (because she’s in a happy state) but it will lower her ego.

4. Calibrate online

Some introverted SHBs can’t stand being single, if she has changed her Facebook relationship status to single in the last few weeks send her a message and try to establish a date, she’ll be an easy target.

5. Calibrate for quick sex

Check her relationship with her father. If it’s bad (he’s missing, drunk, etc) she’ll probably be a quick lay (daddy issues).

6. How to calibrate in general

Don’t calibrate by your reactions (e.g. you did attraction now you follow with qualification), calibrate by her reactions (she feels attracted => you can qualify her).

Keep in mind that a girl responds in 3 ways: positive (deepen the interaction), neutral (take caution), negative (change subject, change frame)

The three needs a girl can have and how to react to them:

1. she needs to feel comfortable
   • always meet her friends
   • establish social proof
   • tell stories that match
   • give a time constraint
2. she needs trust
   • DLV yourself if you miscalibrated the attraction
   • SOI her
   • qualify her (you like her a lot)
   • listen to her and be genuinely interested
3. she needs to feel attracted to you
   • get DHV in the following order: by her observing you, by your pivot or wing telling her, by you telling her
   • create a jealousy plotline
   • neg her, tease her, use push pull and C&F
   • show disinterest

The tease test

The excerpt bellow was taken from an article from Entropy that I can’t find any more:

So how do we know where we are in regards to her? What’s her perception of us?

I have a simple process that I apply when I’m in set: Once I hook the set, I’ll throw out a very light tease to the girl and see how she responds.

• If she laughs and responds positively, it means my value is equal or slightly higher to hers and I’ll keep teasing until I stop getting a positive reaction.
• If she responds negatively and seems offended, it means I’m OVERVALUED and I stop. I will compliment her, state my interest or DLV myself (buy her a drink) to bring myself closer to her. This is to make me “attainable” in her eyes. You’ll have to do this often with shy or reserved girls.
• If she responds negatively and is cold and bored, it means I’m extremely undervalued and I need to tease her even harder. Girls who react this way, you’re not even on their radar screen yet, so you have to say something really bold and outlandish to wake them up to you.
• If she shit-tests me back in a playful way, it means she values herself slightly more than me, in which I keep teasing until I get a negative response.

Once I know where my value is relative to hers, I follow this blueprint:

• If I’m OVERVALUED, I will compliment her, state my interest in her and even DLV myself.
• If I’m UNDERVALUED, I tease and neg her harder until I get a more positive reaction or she blows me out.
• If I’m around her value, I keep teasing at the same level and being escalating.

Take one of these techniques and try it, come back and report how it went!

My blog lacks articles on Body Language and Vocal Tonality. That’s because I always considered myself as not having any sort of problems in these fields.

Well, not having problems with your voice and body language doesn’t mean they are your forte!

Recently I started challenging my beliefs in this regard. It seems that by not improving in this area I was just a little bit above average!

So in the last few months I started testing stuff and, using the Pareto Principle to get the most results by doing only a few changes, I discovered that some classic techniques are greatly underused even though they get you the most results.

Dominance in the club

1. Leading

In the club the quickest and simplest way to present dominance is to lead. I know you’ve all read about leading but you’re probably considering leading an optional attitude. I dare you to do club game and add leading to your permanent repertoire, you’ll see instant changes!

E.g.put your hand on the girl’s lower back when you’re moving her around the club (as if protecting her from all the drunk guys there)

This gives her the feeling that you’re dominant, alpha and know how to handle girls; it also creates comfort and attraction.

2. Being dominant and high energy

I love day game because I can really talk with the girl. I’ve travelled a lot, exchanged ideas on various subjects and I know how to take a stand without destroying the relationship. But during club game my main advantage is nullified, girls can’t hear what I’m saying.

Sometimes I can just go to the girl and shout in her ear but I found that using another textbook advice, being a bit more energetic than the girl, greatly enhances my results. High energy by itself will create the clown impression but if you can lead the girl and be high energy you’ll get a lot of compliance.

Dominance on the street

1. Showing decisiveness through your voice

Of course you can use leading here too but another great trick is to present dominance through the decisiveness in your voice. Talking flatly and outright will express the personality of a leader and, as you probably know, girls are aroused by a guy ordering them around and showing dominance.

2. The bad boy attitude

During the last two years I switched completely from going direct to a bad boy style. Now I’m not hard to get, I’m just good to fuck. Bad boy is not an attitude you can learn through techniques, you have to understand it at a deeper level. In the last video I’ve made for the Sex Systems training course I told my students to study pickup trainers like Krauser (mid thirties pickup instructor who gets same day lays and posts video proofs of his sarges) and Sleazy (who in his book, Sleazy Stories, gets the girls to masturbate him and fucks them in the bathroom).

I’m going to give you two scenarios to see the differences between being direct and being bad boy (don’t treat them as rules, just see the attitude behind):

a) When she brings up her boyfriend you don’t switch the subject, instead you say “we’ll be discreet” (aka you don’t want a relationship, you just want to fuck her)

b) Before the kiss close you’re not running some indirect routine like “how good of a kisser are you?”, what you’re doing is whispering in her ear: “You know what I’m going to do to you? (…) I’m going to take you to a dark alley and kiss you until your legs tremble”

c) You’re not the gallant type at the date, you’re putting your hand between her legs and masturbating her

As a result of this attitude girls get intoxicated by your personality. They don’t want to be your girlfriend (you’re not boyfriend material), but they feel the need to be around you, to get your approval.

Learning pickup using edutainment … after hitting Jeffy’s show on youtube I couldn’t believe my eyes.

They guy’s fucking hilarious!

Great entertainment, great punchlines and good pickup advice.

Check it out!