The Heavenly Gallery

Year of Transformation

2012-01-01T10:00:00.004-05:00

TRANSFORMATION is taking place on both the spirit and natural realms. This is not a year for shyness, timidness, or wimpiness! Have you heard the expression, "The universe rewards the bold"? It could not be more true! Even if I had never heard that expression I would have made the very same observation. Yes!!! God shows FAVOR to ASSERTIVE people who take the INITIATIVE. It is imperative that Christians approach the world with BOLDNESS, not rude or offensive, but undaunted and determined! Why does it seem that wicked people seem to have most of the prosperity? Because they are DETERMINED to fulfill their agenda no matter what. This same determination can be translated even more effectively on the Christian end of the spectrum. The problem is Satan constantly throws obstacles in our path. These obstacles drain us of our MOTIVATION and ENERGY. We become disinterested and discouraged more easily than wicked folks. The more aggressive you become in achieving your goals the more RESOURCES will be available to you. You will network with people that will be RESOURCES and guide you to other ones. Unfortunately, I learned this lesson the hard way. I was in a situation where I could have networked easily with influential, powerful people. I had access to a multitude of resources, but did not take advantage of them because I was too DISTRACTED. My attention was toward a toxic, dysfunctional relationship that used up all my energy. As a result, I had no energy left for the important stuff. DISTRACTION is a major weapon of evil used toward God's children. This is how Satan keeps the Christians down...poor, struggling, ignorant, socially deprived, overweight, you name it. Things that distract you must either be CONTROLLED or REMOVED...it is that simple. CONTROL IT OR REMOVE IT. This includes people, objects, and situations that stress you out. Pray, meditate, read the Word over and over and over again until your brain waves are in alignment with what you are reading. SATURATE your brain with POSITIVE THOUGHTS. SPEAK POSITIVE WORDS. I cannot emphasize that enough. Avoid listening to a lot of secular music if you can. That is another major weapon of the devil, if not the most powerful one. Maintain your health and take good care of your bodies. Poor health is a major distraction! As a healthcare provider, I observe heart disease, cancer, and diabetes literally wiping out the population, particularly African-Americans. People from other countries who stick to their native diets are not plagued with these diseases. It is important to network with individuals of other cultures. God gives different information to different people. Focus on building your knowledge base via formal or informal education. It is impossible to fulfill your destiny if you are ignorant! Ignorant people cause a lot of damage/trouble and are distractions in and of themselves. Ignorant people will bring you down and prevent you from fulfilling your God-given purpose. Keep them at a distance and do not be one of them.

In summary, positive transformation requires HIGHER energy levels that come from being in sync with the Creator. The Creator favors those who are assertive, bold, determined, undaunted, motivated, and intelligent. He favors those who generate positivity. He also favors those who are humble. Matthew 5-5: "Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth." These are the Words spoken by Jesus Himself. Note that He said "MEEK" not "WEAK." There is a big difference between the two descriptions. One can be both super powerful and meek. However, it is impossible to be both powerful and weak because they are antagonistic states. God needs powerful, strong people on his team that will claim the prosperity that Satan constantly steals from us. Therefore, we must not continue to fall prey to his distractions and claim what is rightfully ours. ARE YOU READY FOR THE TASK? ARE YOU READY FOR 2012 & BEYOND?

Do Sex Pheromone Products Actually Work?

2011-06-19T23:01:00.006-04:00

The perfume industry has formed a partnership with biology to create fragrances that contain human sex pheromones. They are chemicals secreted by most living organisms from insects to plants to every animal species. Human beings are no exceptions. We give off powerful scents that serve as signals for other members of the group to detect. Pheromones are Mother Nature’s way of facilitating certain behaviors or reactions to ensure the survival & continuation of a species. There are numerous types of pheromones that living organisms excrete depending on the situation, biological cycle, task to accomplish, etc. Some members of the animal kingdom release a foul/pungent smell when physically attacked to cause a “flight” reaction from the attacker. The most popular funk producing animal is the skunk. However, according to Texas Parks and Wildlife, the skunk’s toxic chemical is not a pheromone because it is released in response to any form of danger-- not to communicate with other skunks. The key to pheromones is communication between members of the same species to bring about a response. There may or may not be an actual smell. The type of pheromones that I will discuss in this post are the most fun type of all!

Research has shown that human sweat is major source of the erotic compounds that stir our sexual appetites. The arm pits and unsurprisingly the genital area are also major exit sites for nature’s perfume. It is a known fact that human females and other mammals secrete bountiful amounts of sex pheromones during ovulation to attract the male species. The female ovulation scent occurs for the purpose of reproduction to ensure continuation of the species. No kidding? Sex pheromones are also secreted heavily during activities involving touching or tactile stimulation aka kissing, fondling, stroking, and foreplay. Even before I learned about pheromones, I noticed that my former companion released the most wonderful smell while kissing or being sexually aroused. I knew it was natural, coming from within. His natural aroma makes me even more excited and eager to please. In spite of the visual inclination of males, the scent of a woman only invigorates and intensifies whatever attraction exists. The female pheromones may even be powerful enough to override the visual component and bring about attraction where initially there was none. Who knows? However, attraction based solely on smell may only be temporary and the visual perception will likely take over.

The question remains, do pheromones in commercial preparations actually work? I am afraid the jury is hung on this one. Everyone seems to have a broadly different experience based on differences in body chemistry, who they are trying to attract, and which pheromone preparations they are using. Commercial preparations are designed to enhance what God already gave us. Some companies sell the chemicals pure grade and others incorporate them into colognes/perfumes. There are pheromones for every sexual combination: men to attract women, women to attract men, men to attract men, and women to attract women. Just like certain fragrances smell better on some more than others, the same applies to pheromone fragrances. Body chemistry is as unique as your fingerprint. Certain aromas will simply complement you more favorably than others. In like manner, certain smells will affect people differently. Therefore, whoever you are trying to attract may respond in a number of ways. You may get the response that you want or you may not. When I wear a certain pheromone brand, my companion definitely notices and informs me how lovely I smell, but does not seem sexually aroused or excited. On the other hand, he attempts to rips my clothes off when I am wearing a certain fragrance that does not contain any biological ingredients. I know for a fact he goes bonkers over me when I am wearing Jasmine Vanilla Aromatherapy by Bath & Body Shop. The Love Scent website has a good selection of pheromone products to choose from.

In summing things up, human sex pheromones are biologically secreted chemical compounds that are sold in commercial preparations. They are formulated in pure form or combined with colognes/perfumes to accommodate all possible sexual combinations orientations. The opinions of whether these pheromone preparations work vary broadly based on a number of factors, such as body chemistry, the target of attraction, or the particular product used. I recommend experimenting with different ones and various combinations--biological with nonbiological, and scented with unscented varieties. Don't forget to incorporate aromatherapy into your regimen. You should eventually get the response you want from who you want it from. It is not rocket science but raw biology enhanced by modern technology so indulge & have fun!

Aphrodisiacs: A Lift for the Libido

2011-06-11T12:58:00.015-04:00

The libido or sex drive varies broadly from one person to the next. It is impacted by numerous factors, such as, genetics, health status, hormonal balance, age, emotional/psychological state, and social influences. We often use the slang "horny" when referring to a strong sexual drive. On the other side of the coin, individuals with low sex drives have been referred to as cold, frigid, and indifferent. No matter what the reason for the lack of desire, aphrodisiacs can provide a lift to the libido and rev up a drab sex life. They have been cultivated and used throughout recorded history. The term aphrodisiac is defined by the Free Dictionary by Farlex as something that arouses, increases, or intensifies sexual desire. A food or drug that arouses sexual desire. A drug that arouses sexual instinct. Synonyms for aphrodisiac include but not limited to excitant, stimulant, and Spanish fly. AphrodisiacMenu.com explains that the word originated in Greek mythology inspired by the love/sex goddess Aphrodite. She was one hot mama and was desired by all men. I personally am not concerned

with harvesting the lust of all men just my Poo Bear. The aphrodisiacs I am going to present are healthy foods, herbs, and spices that should comprise the diet of most health conscientious people. Most foods that are considered aphrodisiacs are also very healthy and good for you. Many of them not only rev up the sex drive but the immune system, metabolism, encourages natural detoxification, and improves the condition of your skin, hair, and nails. Most of the following foods are listed and explained in Aphrodisiac Recipes-Eat Your Way to Better Sex-Natural Libido Boosters by Redbook an excerpt from Redbook's 500 Sex Tips by Judy Dutton. Information was also acquired from Aphrodisiac Foods on gourmetsleuth.com.

Almonds-contain fatty acids essential for sex hormone production. Many perceive the aroma as sexually enticing.

Aniseed-contain estrogen-like compounds.

Arugula-the seeds have been used as sexual stimulants since the first century AD. The greens are often used in salads.

Asafetida-a dried, powdered herb from India with a strong garlic-like taste is used in Ayurvedic medicine.

Asparagus-reputed to have libido enhancing qualities containing potassium, vitamins B6, folic acid, A, C, and fiber. Folic acid increases histamine levels needed for orgasms.

Avocados-rich in potassium, vitamin B6, and folic acid promote testosterone production.

Bananas-loaded with potassium, B vitamins to facilitate production of sex hormones.

Black Licorice-known for its seductive aroma and increases blood flow to the penis by 13%.

Cardamon-contains cineole that increases blood flow to areas it is applied.

Carrots-high in beta-carotene and other vitamins are very nourishing to the sex organs.

Chili peppers-contain capsaicin a natural pain reliever. Consuming this food causes sweating, increased heart rate, increased blood flow, and irritating effect on genitals/urinary tract that mimics sexual excitement.

Chocolate-enhances dopamine release by providing the compound methylxanthine. This increases sexual feelings, particularly in women.

Coffee-(caffeine) small to moderate consumption stimulates the mind and body.

Coriander (cilantro seeds)-used a sexual enhancer for centuries by middle eastern cultures.

Cucumbers-have a seductive scent and increase blood flow to the vagina.

Eggs-provide vitamin B6 that balance hormones and the body's reaction to stress.

Fennel-the seeds contain natural plant estrogen.

Figs-when sliced open are thought to resemble the female genitalia.

Garlic-renders the component allicin that dilates blood vessels and increases circulation.

Ginger-increases metabolism and energy levels.

Honey-provides the mineral boron that promotes the metabolism of estrogen.

Mustard-stimulating to the sex glands.

Nutmeg-used by Chinese women to increase sexual desire.

Oatmeal-found to increase testosterone levels.

Oranges-rich in vitamin C that increase oxytocin levels that promote feelings of warmth and affection.

Oysters-high in zinc to increase male libido and sperm count.

Pineapple-used in homeopathic medicine to treat impotence. A sex counselor once recommended drinking pineapple juice before giving fellatio to neutralize the strong taste of the semen.

Pine nuts- rich in zinc necessary for male potency.

Steak-decreases a chemical known as prolactin in the blood that diminishes the sex drive.

Sweet Basil-thought by many to have a stimulating aroma.

Strawberries-contain vitamin C and antioxidants that improve circulation.

Vanilla-endowed with a deliciously erotic scent and taste.

Walnuts-render a blend of fatty acids for the sex hormones.

Wine-relaxes the body and stimulates the senses if consumed in moderation.

One of the oldest guides to sex, the Kama Sutra, mentions asparagus, honey, licorice, and peppers as foods for sexual vigor. A superb collection of aphrodisiac recipes that use many of the foods presented can be found at the Redbook website previously referenced. I personally favor the honey, strawberries, pineapple, & chocolate served with red wine...ooh yeah. So please, hurry and make that shopping list and rush to the grocery/health food store to pick up hearty quantities of these super healthy, passion-inducing foods.

Gettin in da Mood

2011-06-09T07:53:00.002-04:00

Does listening to certain songs make you wanna get yo groove on? How do you cope with sexual feelings if practicing faith-based celibacy?

Sex Over 40: Is it Still Good?

2011-06-07T08:00:00.037-04:00

It is of no benefit to deny the inevitable: People will age, get old, and eventually die. One of those not so great facts of life we all must contend with. The aging process drags the body through colossal changes that are not very appealing. The real challenge is counteracting the negative aspects as much as we can. Our ultimate goal is to maintain the highest quality of living for as long as we can. I could go through a very long list of the specific physical/mental changes one goes through, but I am not. You either are going through it or are observing someone else going through it. The culprit for much of the aging transformation is the "M" word when we arrive to the infamous middle-age. Any woman over the age of 40 knows about the "M" word or is about to find out. Another not so great fact of life is the longer you live the more likely you will get sick or develop medical conditions. What happens next? The doctor puts us on a boat-load of medications. They do not cure any diseases, but only mask symptoms and create new ones (side effects). You better believe the health care and pharmaceutical industries love it when we hit middle-age. They know that their pockets are going to get nice & fat!

It is no big surprise that all of the previously described processes could interfere with sexual desire and performance. You may no longer have as strong a sexual urge or diminished libido. Unfortunately, the medications we take can put out the strongest fire. On the flip side, you may still have strong desire but impaired sexual abilities. For example, my friend suffers erectile dysfunction (ED) due to prostate issues. His libido never changed. He still gets horny and wants to do it, but his penis just will not cooperate. In my case, my libido plummeted although my parts are fully functional. The good news is the medical and alternative health fields are bursting with new and not so new remedies for aging lovers. Many of the problems we endure that dampen sexuality can be resolved with adult gadgets/products. In some cases, all one has to do is replace their medication with a natural alternative. If you are a younger person reading this you will be educated and prepared. Living a healthy lifestyle while youthful will prevent many problems later and make the transition into the middle years a lot smoother.

In conclusion, sexuality over 40 can be severely compromised due to the aging process, illnesses, and the negative effects of medications. The health care sciences have come to the rescue with numerous remedies/therapies that are worth investigating. Therefore, I answer the title question, yes, sex after 40 is real good and only gettin betta baby!