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Host an online toy party and get double spending bonus!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 10 Jun 2010 18:55:00 +0000

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June Customer Special

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August Hostess Specials!

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For hosting a party (online parties included), you can earn great stuff at an exteremely discounted price. August Specials are in. June & July Specials are available for viewing in the photos section on this blog and in photos on Facebook.

June Sign Up Promotion!

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Fetishes

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 29 May 2010 03:35:00 +0000

Would you think that it was odd if you were flirting with someone and before you had ever kissed, the person asked to touch your feet? If that were to happen, you could probably assume that the person has a fetish. A fetish is an attraction to a non-sexual object of body part that arouses one in a sexual way.

When a body part is fetishized, the person feels more aroused by that seemingly non-sexual part than he or she would from a typical sexual body part. It's easy to imagine a man who has a breast fetish-that is, a man who needs to touch or kiss or breast in order to achieve orgasm. Now stretch your mind a little, and you can probably imagine a person who has a foot fetish-who needs to touch or lick or suck or kiss a foot in order to soar to orgasmic heights.

For many people, an object can become a fetish accidentally in childhood. For example, if an 11 year old boy sees a woman undressing for the very first time in his life, and she is taking off a red silk tank top, then it's possible that for the rest of his life, he will be aroused when he sees a red tank top.

Sometimes fetishes develop during the teen years and are often associated with a person's first sexual experiences. Maybe the smell of leather makes a girl's nipples stand at attention because her first boyfriend was wearing a bomber jacket the first time he fingered her. Or if the first girl a guy has sex with had her hair in a ponytail, he might need nothing more that to glimpse of a ponytail to become instantly erect.

Fetishes may include certain items of clothing. Bras, garter belts, stocking, panty-hose, lingerie, and high-heel shoes are considered erotic by many people. When someone has a fetish for this type of clothing, he or she many need to see it, touch it, or wear it to get aroused. Some people have fetishes for seeing their partner in a uniform from a particular job, such as a policeman, maid, cheerleader, or military officer. Some other common fetish outfits include clothes made of leather, latex, or rubber that are cut in a a style that displays the body in a sexually provocative fashion. This type of "fetish wear" is available (and expensive) from sex stores and catalogs.

Fetishes are a normal aspect of human sexuality. The fact is that some things are just more arousing to some people than they are to others. Fetishes are extremely individual. the only time that a fetish is problematic is if it gets in the way of someone's life or love life. For example, if a woman can't enjoy sex unless she's having it on an oak desk in a man's office, then her fetish for oak desks might become a problem. She might get caught having sex or work, or maybe she will cheat on her partner ever time she happens upon someone with an oak desk. However, most people can control their fetishes enough to enjoy sex and relationships, and hopefully, they are able to share their little eccentricities with their partners in a fun and healthy manner.

Source - The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex

June Special!

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With every $50.00 purchase in the month of June, you will get a Silver Bullet Vibe for FREE!

Fun with Condoms

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 26 May 2010 16:41:00 +0000

Once you learn the basics, you can learn a fun trick to do with condoms. Here's how to put a condom on your partner using only your mouth:

~ Open the condom package and make sure that the condom is going to roll down.

~Place the condom in your mouth, gently holding the edges with your lips.

~Make your mouth into an O shape, still holding the edges with your lips.

~Without letting your teeth touch the condom, use your lips to push the condom over the head of the penis and roll it all the way down the shaft, still using only your lips.

~Run your lips up and down the shaft to squeeze the air out of the condom.

~Be very careful not to let your teeth come in contact with the condom.

~Check with your hands to make sure it is on properly.

As you can see, condoms are quite simple to use an can even be fun to use once you get accustomed to them. And you should use them because, besides being a method of birth control, they are the only way to stay protected against sexually transmitted diseases and the HIV virus.

Source - The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex

The G-Spot/Female Ejaculation

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 23 May 2010 18:03:00 +0000

The G-Spot

The debate over the g-spot seems to never end. Does it exist, is it important, should it be talked about, does it have any usefulness? Definitive answers are rare, so while the experts debate, why not do your own research, and get to the heart (or would it be gheart) of the matter. Many women can stimulate their g-spot using their fingers. Some people will find it easier using a toy that is curved, either a dildo or a vibrator.

Time Required: You might find your g-spot immediately, or it could take several attempts. Don't pressure yourself.

Here's How:

Avoid performance pressure about the "magic spot".
People can become fixated on achieving a sexual goal (multiple orgasms, simultaneous orgasm, g-spot orgasms) One thing I can promise is that this is the best way to NOT enjoy any sort of sexual encounter. Remember that sexual exploration is mostly about the journey, not the destination (although the destination is better than most, I’ll agree). Try not to make this another notch in your “sexually self-actualized” belt.
Turn yourself on.
Any homework that starts with this is bound to be somewhat fruitful. The spongy area around the g-spot gets engorged with blood when you’re sexually aroused, so it is much easier to find and feel when you’re turned on.
Get comfortable and find the g-spot area.
Lie on your back, squat, or lie on your stomach. Place your palm face down on your vulva and slowly insert a finger inside your vagina (use lube if you’re feeling a little dry), crooking it forward in a “come hither” motion. When you’re up to about the second knuckle you should feel a slightly bumpy or ridged area on the upper wall of your vagina.
Notice how the g-spot feels.
The texture of the g-spot area will likely be noticeably different from the typically smooth walls of the vagina. When you’re aroused it can expand, so feel it at different times during your arousal to get familiar with its contours and sensitivity. The g-spot responds to pressure, so press down and pull forward using that "come hither" motion with your fingers.
Explore the g-spot with toys.
For some it can be awkward to stimulate the g-spot by hand. A g-spot vibrator or dildo can be a great helper in this. Apply a little lube to your toy, and insert it with the tip (if it’s curved) pointing up toward the top wall of your vagina. Work it in slowly, far enough (a couple of inches) so the tip is pressing against your g-spot.
Experiment with pressure and motion.
Some women will find pressure against the g-spot pleasurable, some women like the feeling vibration when a toy is pressing against the g-spot. Experiment and see if either feels good for you. For most women, the g-spot responds to firm pressure. In the beginning, use your toy as if you were trying to scratch an itch—don’t pull the toy all the way out, but use short strokes, applying firm pressure, against the g-spot.
Vary the movements.
A circular or back-and-forth motion may be necessary to get you started, but you might soon graduate to a more vigorous thrusting. If you’ve got a vibrator, try playing with the vibrations both on and off to see which you like better.
Add clitoral stimulation to g-spot play.
You’ll know you’re hitting the spot as you feel tingly sensations, the urge to pee, and an overall elevation in your arousal. When you feel the urge to come, stimulate your clitoris using your favorite method. Keep stroking your g-spot.
Let go.
With continued stimulation, you’ll eventually feel a sensation much like having to pee. This can be quite disconcerting at first, and has probably led plenty of women to abandon the process, but if you stick with it you’ll be in for a pleasant surprise. You may or may not ejaculate, but ejaculation is perfectly normal (and it's not urine).
If you don’t at first orgasm, try try again. It can take several practice sessions before you notice any build up. Try varying your position, using a different toy, experimenting with breathing and kegel exercises (to strengthen your PC muscle), or having a partner help you. Because the g-spot is most responsive when aroused, you may also want to try stimulating it after you’ve had an orgasm.
Remember the ear lobe.
Experimenting with the g-spot can be fun, and you never know what you’ll learn in the process. But try not to get hung up on this being a mind-blowing experience. If you’re playing around and it’s not doing anything for you, try something else, and know that there is nothing wrong with you, and what turns us all on is incredibly individual and unique.

Female Ejaculation

Female ejaculation is the g-spot's kissing cousin when it comes to "is it real or is it fake" medical debates.

In one corner are the legions of doctors, who when asked, maintain that there is no way a woman can ejaculate. They point out that in their textbooks, and anatomy classes there are simply no structures to provide for this physiological experience. They say that if anything is happening, it's urination.

In the other corner there are arguably larger legions of women, women's health practitioners (including doctors), sex activists, a few scientists, and thousands or tens of thousands of women who say that it does exist.

There are no standards or rules for this. Some women are worried that they have incontinence and that they are peeing during sex, or specifically during orgasm. Some women have always been "very very wet" during arousal and climax, and like the way they respond. Because of the increased attention paid in the popular media to female ejaculation there are many women who want to know more, and are interested in trying to ejaculate.

The bottom line, as with all matters of sexual response and behavior is to avoid any sort of pressure to do something or experience something that doesn't feel right for you. If you do something that you think is ejaculating, and your happy with it, that's great. If you're concerned that you are "too wet" during sex, you should know that there is a very natural variation in the amount of vaginal lubrication that women produce, and getting wet is probably just a sign of healthy arousal. You can always have a towel handy if it's a real concern for you. And if you're interested in learning more about female ejaculation then you should go for it. Just try and avoid the pitfalls of performance pressure, and thinking that ejaculation is some magic bullet that will transform your sex life from humdrum to super fantastic. Of course it might do that, but counting on it is a sure way to miss important learning and experience along the way.

Here are a few tips gleaned from the experts:

Empty your bladder first. The feeling just before ejaculating is similar to the feeling you have when you have to pee, but you want the urge to come on as a result of arousal and not a full bladder.
Practice in a comfortable place. Many writers suggest that one of the reasons women don't ejaculate is that they hold back when the feel the urge to "release". To deal with this worry, you can try to practice in the bath or while sitting on the toilet. The idea is to lose your fear around the possibility that you might pee. (This seems as good a time as any to point out that peeing is not the end of the world, and many women who experience incontinence deal with this all the time. In the face of hot sex and a great orgasm, a little urine shouldn't get in the way!)
Most people say that ejaculation will come on as a result of stimulating the paraurethral glands and/or the g-spot (urethral sponge).
Stimulating the g-spot for any length of time will be easiest to do with a dildo or vibrator. Any toy that is firm, or one that is curved for g-spot stimulation will do.
Use a lot of clitoral stimulation, but also stimulate your urethra by massaging inside the top of your vagina both around the opening and inside a few inches. Many women find urethral stimulation very pleasant in and of itself.
Keeping up the clitoral stimulation you may also want to try and stimulate the g-spot . Some women like g-spot stimulation, others find it too sensitive, or don't feel much at all from this type of stimulation.
Vary the strokes and the pressure and experiment with what feels good.
As you are doing this you may feel the urge to pee (along with feeling very turned on). This is the experience many women say happens just prior to ejaculating. At this point most of the instruction manuals resort to phrases like "go with the flow" and "just let it out". It's hard to provide specific instruction on how to "go with the flow". The best I can offer is to follow the above guidelines and experiment on your own. Make sure you have fun doing it, and that every time you try, you give yourself a wonderful orgasm whether you ejaculate or not. If you want to know more there are several books and videos devoted to the subject worth checking out.

Source - About.com

Food is Foreplay

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 22 May 2010 07:13:00 +0000

There are certain foods that have a reputation for awakening and exciting our taste buds. They can be used to stage any type of food fantasy.

The Keys to Preparing Foreplay Food:

Keep it Simple. Foreplay should be fun. It should be creative and it should NOT be some long arduous process.
Size and Shape - Bite-sized is just right. Look for foods that look like sexual body parts. (strawberries shaped like nipples, Bananas curved like penises)
Raw or Natural - Sex is energy. You can feed your energy with the raw energy of fruits and vegetables.
Beverage Selection - Champagne is the official beverage of seduction, followed by red wine and then white wine.
Presentation is Everything - Be creative. Mix different colors. Present it on a tray.

Add fresh flowers and candles. (roses make any tray romantic!)

Top Five Foreplay Trays:

The Breakfast Foreplay Tray- Prosciutto, bagels, capers, lox, strawberries and champagne.
Chocolate Foreplay Tray- Assorted bite-sized chocolates, fresh fruits, whipped cream.Chocolate-Martinis (optional)
The Italian Foreplay Tray- Roasted peppers, artichoke hearts, cheese, cold meats, crackers & bread sticks, fresh basil, champagne & strawberries.
The Tea & Me Tray- Finger sandwiches, biscuits, lemon cookies, assorted teas. Coffee (optional)
Champagne Foreplay Tray- Chilled lobster tails, caviar, dates, warm olives, crusty bread and champagne.

Mix and Match the Following:

Black & Green Olives
Cucumbers
Capers
White & Yellow Cheese
Grapes
Bananas
Brown Sugar
Marshmallows
Strawberries
Chocolate Syrup
Blackberries
Cream/Milk
Whipped Cream
Assorted Crackers
Champagnes, Liqueurs & Mixers
Red Wine
White Wine
Fun Edibles!

Anal Sex

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 22 May 2010 06:44:00 +0000

Whether or not people are actually having more anal sex, there is little doubt that people are talking more about anal sex than any time in recent history. The rise in public discussion of anal sex has pros and cons. On the plus side, more people are talking about anal sex and hopefully learning how to have it safely and pleasurably (if they want it). On the negative side, the increased talk may increase the pressure some feel to try anal sex. Anal sex is not a required part of healthy sexual expression, but if you are interested in trying anal sex, you’ll find the basics below.

Time Required: Anal sex requires time, a slow build up, and a sustained period of arousal.

Here's How:

What’s My Motivation?
The only reason to want to have anal sex is because you want to have anal sex. If you’re feeling pressure from a partner or based on some idea of what a hot and healthy sex life should be, forget it. Anal sex can be perfectly safe and highly pleasurable, but if you’re the one being penetrated and you aren’t turned on and completely into it, it could turn out to be neither. There may be lots of reasons why you want to do it, just make sure you know at least a few of them and they don’t all have to do with someone else.

Anal Play vs Anal Sex?
Usually when people think of anal sex they think of penetration. This is but one part of anal play. If you’re not interested in penetration, it doesn’t mean you have to ignore the entire part of your body. This whole area has been largely ignored for its sexual potential. The bum, the anus, and the rectum are all sites of enormous potential pleasure. They respond to feelings of touch, pressure, movement, and can be incredibly pleasurable. Here we’re talking about anal penetration, but there’s much more to explore without going inside.

Do Some Homework
There are some great books about anal sex and several educational anal sex videos, plus most

sex manuals include a chapter about anal sex. Learn the basic parts of your anal anatomy

including the sphincter muscles, the anal canal, the (male) prostate gland. There’s nothing like a

hands on education, but checking out the road map first might help you orient yourself a little

easier.

Practice When You’re Alone
Before you have anal sex with someone else, try it on your own. Even if you aren’t ever planning on being penetrated by your partner, knowing what it feels like, and getting a hands on education with your own anal anatomy will go a long way when you start doing things to someone else’s body.

Talk With Your Partner
There are lots of ways to surprise your partner in bed that they’ll love. But “surprising them” by trying to have anal sex without talking about it first isn’t one of them. Anal sex requires the receptive partner to be very relaxed, feel safe and comfortable, and trust you to not make any sudden moves that will hurt them. This means that anal sex requires good sexual communication. If you’re not comfortable telling your partner you want to try anal sex, you may not be ready to have anal sex with that partner.

Anal Sex Safety
Everyone involved should know the basics of anal sex safety and how having dangerous anal sex can hurt your body. Always use condoms and gloves for anal sex, and have plenty of personal lubricant on hand to replenish during the sex play. If your anal sex involves sex toys, understand what makes a sex toy safe for anal use. Taking the previous steps will not only make anal sex more pleasurable, it’ll go a long way to keeping everyone safe psychologically and emotionally, and making anal sex more pleasurable.

Work From the Outside In
Start by exploring your partner’s entire backside with your hands and fingers. Massage their bum cheeks and once you’ve got your gloves and lube you can start gently touching and massaging the anal opening. Don’t rush to penetration, and don’t stampede to the anus. Instead pay attention to how their body is responding to different kinds of touch. Try a circular massaging motion with your fingers or gently knead the skin and muscle underneath. Take note of where they like to be touched, and where they can handle more vigorous stimulation versus a softer touch.

Pushing Not Poking
Never force a penis or dildo into the anus. Using what you learned during your solo anal exploration press the tip gently against the anal opening and wait for your partner to relax and let you in. Keep stimulating your partner at the same time with your hands or with a sex toy. If you’re having anal sex with a woman, providing clitoral stimulation is a good idea. Pay attention to how you’re partner is moving and move with, not against, them. Once your partner’s sphincter muscles relax you’ll feel yourself being drawn in. Let yourself slide in only as much as your partner’s body allows.

Just Be There
Once you’ve penetrated your partner for the first time, don’t immediately begin thrusting or even moving very much at all. Just take a moment to feel what it’s like and to let your partner get comfortable with some penetration. Don’t forget to keep other kinds of stimulation going (talking, using your hands, using sex toys). If you’re partner is moving their body you can gently move with them. Unless they know how deep they want it, don’t try to penetrate them deeper until your both turned on even more.

How to Move
Once you’re both comfortable begin to experiment with different movements. Start moving slowly inside of them trying both in/out and side-to-side movements. Pay attention to how their body is responding to your movements (also, you can ask). When you find something that works for both of you begin to ramp up the intensity slowly. Anal penetration is not like vaginal penetration and it has to build up slower and may never be as vigorous. If your partner is unsure you can ask them to do the moving and at first keep your body still. You can also suggest they be on top.

Anal Sex Positions
Anal sex is a much slower kind of penetration play and requires a longer period of intense arousal. Changing positions can mean a break in arousal that gets in the way. But for some people changing an anal sex position can really bump up the heat, or provide more physical comfort and greater range of motion. There isn’t one perfect anal sex position. If you enjoy anal sex the best thing to do is experiment until you find one, or a few, that work for you. Here are some examples of popular anal sex positions.

Check In Often
Be sure to check in with your partner often during anal sex. You can do this verbally (is that good? Do you like that? Do you want more, less, different? etc…) and you can ask your partner to give you feedback without you asking (more, slow it down, let’s try this, etc…) You can also get a lot of information from what’s happening non-verbally with their body. Are they tensing up? Are they moving more? Is their breathing becoming heavier, deeper, shallower? Are they getting wetter? All of this information can help you get into a rhythm with them and speed up, slow down, or keep going.

Sex Toys
Anal sex toys can be a great way to explore anal sex. It’s usually a good idea to let the partner being penetrated play with the toy on their own first so that they can help their partner know what they like and how to use the toy. If you’re having anal intercourse involving a penis an anal sex toy may be less useful. But using a vibrator to add stimulation for the partner being penetrated an/or the partner doing the penetration is a great idea. Because anal sex requires a slower build up and sustained sexual arousal hands can get tired, and a vibrator never does (although motor can burn out).

Cleaning Up
Even if you don’t see it, fecal matter and bacteria can and will be spread if you touch anything after touching the outside or inside of your anus. You should never move from anal play to vaginal play without washing carefully first. Bacteria that live happily in the anus are not happy in the vagina, and can cause serious infection. Below are some tips on cleaning up after anal sex.

Tips:

Taking Off the Gloves
Avoid touching the outside of the glove you used to touch yourself. To remove your gloves, put a clean finger under the cuff of the glove and pull it down and right off your hand at once, so that the glove turns completely inside out. This way you won’t come in contact with any part of the outside surface of the glove. If both hands are gloved, wash your hands carefully after removing your gloves.

Cleaning Sex Toys and Lube Bottles
If you touched your bottle of lubricant with a glove that had been inside you, wash the outside of the bottle carefully as well. Try to avoid touching the cap with the same hand you are using to touch yourself as the cap is often a harder part of the bottle to get clean. The easiest way to keep anal sex toys clean is to put a new condom on the toy each time. If you have silicone anal toys, you can boil them in water for 2 to 5 minutes. Remember to wash your hands after cleaning toys and lube bottles.

Source - About.com

Erotica

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 21 May 2010 22:23:00 +0000

Fire and Ice
By: Kris Williams

He had promised me something different, and although I couldn’t possibly think of what it might be – we had done everything under the sun and then some, it seemed – I tingled with anticipation.

Driving home that evening, with the sun’s rays glittering off the polished hood of my car, I was more aware of the ache between my legs than I was of the traffic. A sharp horn from behind reminded me that the light had turned green, and I goosed the accelerator just a little too hard, narrowly missing the car in front of me.
Get it together, Mel! I thought. It can’t be that good!

Except that, with Darren, I knew it could be. He had a boundless imagination, and he knew how to artfully walk that line between sexy domination and cruelty. He knew when to pull back before hurting me, and that capacity, combined with his never ending lust, made me want him with a desperation I had never felt for any man.

When I pulled into the underground parking at our apartment building, I wasn’t surprised to find myself weak and shaking. Darren didn’t often warm me of his plans beforehand, so I knew this had to be something special. I was on fire by the time I reached our third-floor apartment. My hand trembled as I fit the key into the lock, and to my surprise, the door swung open to reveal a dark, silent apartment.

I stepped inside and closed the door. “Hello?” I called, as I put my briefcase down on the floor. I shrugged out of my coat and tossed it onto the couch, and it was then that a movement to my right caught my eye. I looked, all the breath leaving my body in a rush. It suddenly became a struggle to remain on my feet.

Darren moved toward me, his tight, chiseled body totally naked, his smooth skin glistening in the waning light that came in from the front window. His muscles were taut and beautiful, devoid of hair, and before I could stop myself my eyes wandered down, between his legs. When I saw that he wore a glittering gold cock ring, his penis jutting out, swollen and rigid, my knees went weak and I had to brace myself against the arm of the couch.

Darren sauntered toward me, looking perfectly at ease, his dark eyes amused at the look on my face. When he reached me, he placed both hands on my shoulders and bent to brush my lips with his.

“See anything you like, princess?” he murmured, and my hand came up automatically to touch his cock, to feel that glorious hardness in my hand. However, he brushed it away and pulled me to my feet. I looked into his eyes; certain that mine now held an expression of desperation.

“No, no,” he told me, still in a soft, sexy voice.

The ache inside me pulsed relentlessly, beginning to hurt.

“Not until you’re naked.”

He took my hand and led me into the bedroom, and I was astonished to see candles on every available surface, some long and tapering, others short and squat. They filled the room with a cornucopia of perfume, but I was past noticing; my body had other needs.

The covers were turned down invitingly on our queen-sized bed, and a bowl filled with ice was on his bedside table. There were several of the longer candles on mine, but before I had time to wonder, Darren pulled me into his arms, slammed his mouth down on mine, and kissed me passionately. Between us, I felt his rock-hard erection, and I pushed my hips into his, wanting it, needing it, feeling as though I would do anything just to have it inside me.

Darren’s hands began to work on my blouse, and I pulled away a little to allow his fingers to undo the buttons, which he accomplished with practiced ease. He reached around behind me and unhooked my bra neatly, with two fingers, and before I knew it, both items of clothing had fallen to the floor and my bare chest was exposed to his view.

He bent and took one of my nipples into his mouth, and it hardened instantly under his touch, the sharp sensations shooting through me, darting right to that place between my legs that needed him so urgently.

Darren eased me back toward the bed, and when the backs of my knees bumped into it I sat down. He pushed me gently onto my back and began to work on my pants, and I lifted my hips eagerly as he slid them off. I could still see his erection, hard and ready, and when I noticed a drop of moisture on the tip I nearly cried out with the force of my need.

My pants discarded, Darren lay on his side beside me and kissed me until I was out of my mind, begging him to take me, take me now, oh, God please take me NOW …

He had my hands pinned above my head and was teasing first one nipple with his tongue, then the other, and I arched my back, my head turning back and forth as the need grew inside me, become a raging animal. I moaned and twisted, gripping his head with fingers that shook as he slid down and began to work on me with his tongue, the tip of it flicking out and teasing my clitoris, just enough to take me higher but not enough to bring me over the top. His cock was pressed against me, a reminder of what I wanted, but for some reason, wasn’t allowed to have.

“Oh, God, Darren,” I gasped. “Fuck me now, please fuck me, I need it I need it so badly – ”

Darren lifted his head from between my legs and gave me a devilish grin. “We’ve only just started, Melanie my love,” he told me, and while my brain tried to process that, he lifted himself up until his head was level with mine.

He reached across my body to the bowl of ice that was on his side of the bed. Extracting a cube, he put it in his mouth and then bent his head to my breasts, licking and sucking them, with the added sensation of the freezing ice in his mouth. My chest bucked as I hitched in my breath with a gasp. A tiny rivulet of cold water ran down the side of my chest, only adding to the exotic feeling of his chilly tongue.

When I thought I could bear it no longer, Darren looked at me, his eyes speculative.

“How much can you take, Mel?” he asked quietly, and again I was startled. He continued to look at me expectantly, and I realized he was waiting for me to answer.

“How much can you take before I fuck you?”

At the word “fuck” a ripple of desire ran down my backbone, and I struggled to formulate the answer I thought he might want to hear.

“As much as you can give me,” I whispered, and the ache inside me grew worse as a sexy grin stretched his mouth.

“As much as I can give you?” he echoed. He leaned over and kissed me lightly on the mouth. “Well, babe, this is going to be a long night.”

He reached over and took another ice cube from the bowl. Starting at my collarbone, he ran it over my heaving chest, between my breasts, over my abdomen, and down the length of my body until he was brushing the top of my pubic hair. When he drew the ice cube over my swollen clitoris, something like a scream escaped my lips and my hips bucked.

“Ah, ah,” Darren told me, rubbing the ice cube back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. “No squirming, love. Besides, this isn’t the end.”

He parted my legs and slid the ice cube inside me, pushing it up with one finger. He eased my legs closed with the same hand and bent his lips to my ear.

“Can you feel that melting inside you? Your heat is melting it, but it’s cold right now, isn’t it … it’s cold …”

He was right. Two sensations warred within me: the heat of wanting Darren and the chill of the ice. Gradually, they melted together, until the cold became part of the wanting. I felt it dripping out of me, and it reminded me so much of his juices that I strained against his hands.

“Please …” I asked him, looking into his eyes, certain that mine reflected my need.

Darren smiled again. “Please? Please what, Mel?”

I realized I had trapped myself by what I had said earlier (“as much as you can give me”). I turned my head to the side, tears starting in my eyes. Darren laughed, a low, sexy chuckle, and I didn’t see what he did next. When I turned my head back toward him, he was holding one of the tapered candles in his hand, and my eyes widened as he brought it perilously close to my breast.

“What are you doing?”

My question was a breath of fear, and Darren smiled as he tipped the candle over, its fire creating a tiny pool of wax that dripped onto my breast. I sucked in my breath; it burned, just a little, before hardening into a crust that felt strange on my skin. Darren continued to drip wax on my body: between my breasts and down my stomach. As the he drew the candle even lower, I became truly frightened. He saw my expression and his own softened as he leaned over to kiss me.

“Now stay still, babe, and this won’t hurt, I promise.”

He held the candle directly over my clitoris and it took every ounce of control I had not to move, to roll sideways, away from that burning wax. But I knew if I did that I wouldn’t get what I needed, so I lay still, flat and trembling, as he tipped the candle once again.

Searing pain shot through me as the wax landed on my clitoris, and I panted with the effort of controlling myself. To my surprise, it cooled almost instantly, and the tight feeling of the contracted wax on my tender flesh was almost … exciting. I looked up at Darren, and he smiled in satisfaction.

“Again?” he asked, and I nodded. He scraped the wax away with one careful finger and tipped the candle again. I gasped as the hot wax landed on me again, but this time there was a definite rush of excitement, and I moved my legs wider apart and lifted my hips just a little.

Darren replaced the candle in its holder with a hand that shook just a little. “Holy shit,” he said huskily. “I sure as hell didn’t expect that. I can’t wait now.”

He quickly got between my legs, and with one smooth movement, he thrust himself into me. I clung to him and screamed as his cock filled me, every inch of me, right to the brim. I lifted my legs and wrapped them around his waist as he began to pump in and out of me, and as every thrust became better and better, I realized it was the slight soreness of my clitoris, rubbing lightly against the skin of his lower belly by the movement of his body, that was turning me on the most.

I came in ecstacy, bucking my hips to pull him farther in, and when he exploded inside me, he threw back his head and groaned.

Shuddering, he collapsed on top of me, and I held him, smiling.

“That was definitely one of your better ideas,” I said.

His breathing had to slow a bit before he could answer. He raised himself on his elbows and looked down at me.

“Seriously?”

“Oh, yes.” I kissed him hard, squeezing his still rigid cock with all the strength of my inner muscles. “You have quite the imagination.”

“I’m glad you approve.”

Darren returned the kiss, beginning to move his hips, and as I realized he still had the cock ring on, I closed my eyes and surrendered myself yet again.

The Art of Role-Playing

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 21 May 2010 21:52:00 +0000

By Jennifer Good

When you're ready to take your sexual relationship from average to exceptional, role-playing is certainly an avenue you may want to explore. There's something about the guise of being in character that allows couples to open their mind to things they might not have considered before. Role-playing also makes it easier to reveal some of your hidden desires. It can alleviate some of the boredom and pressure to be creative or try every new position under the sun. If this is something you'd like to try, or you'd just like to get new ideas for, read on…

First things first…

If you've never engaged in this activity before, it might seem a little silly at first, especially if you chose to wear costumes. The best way to start out is to really go slowly. You can introduce the topic by asking a simple question such as, "Have you been good today?" The endless answers to that kind of question invite many different role-playing scenarios. You can also set up a scene that you both must act as a character in. For example, one of you will come to the door to fix something and things lead from there. If you want to be a little more formal about the process, send an invitation to your partner inviting them to join you in a little sex play. Explain their character and give any other instructions you wish them to follow. After you've done it a few times, you'll both feel a little more comfortable with it and the ideas for new adventures will be something you'll both be eager to explore.

The Scenarios…

Once you've decided to try this type of sex play, you'll need to pick a role-playing scenario to act out. Below are a few favorites and maybe some you've never considered. Pick a few to try or act them all out. Just remember to have fun and make sure you are BOTH comfortable with what you're trying.

Teacher/Student
This is probably the most common role-playing scenario. Usually the woman plays the student and the man is the teacher or professor. You can make the scenario anything from pleasing the teacher in exchange for grades to being the teacher's pet. Costumes are fairly easy for this scenario as well. A short skirt and white button up shirt usually works for the female student role. The male teacher role doesn't really involve any special costume idea. Just wear what you feel comfortable in. If you switch the roles and have the female as the teacher and the male as the student, you can really get creative. You can have the female teacher be extremely sexy or extremely harsh, depending on your partner's fantasy. She can have her hair tied up in a bun and wear large rimmed glasses for the naughty schoolboy approach.

Slave/Master
This role-playing scenario is perfect when one partner doesn't wish to have to think about what to do or how to behave. It also quite stimulating for both partners involved. Costumes or play wear should be decided by whoever is playing the role of master. You might also consider props like a blindfold and some items to use to tie up your partner. Always make sure both partners are completely in agreement with the props and activities. The best idea is to have some type of safe word to make each partner comfortable with the limitations.

Service Worker/House Wife
In this scenario one partner plays the role of a service worker. There are many roles to choose from in this scenario including a mailman, plumber, cable repairman, phone repairman, or pizza delivery person. You could even include occupational role playing of police officer, fire person or a military service person in this scenario. Typically this role-playing scene plays out with the service person coming to the door and finding the other person alone in the home. What happens from there is virtually endless.

Bar Pick Up Scenario
This role playing scenario starts outside the home. You meet and anonymously one of you gets "picked up" at the bar. You can also go all out for this one by meeting at a hotel bar and getting a room for an "impromptu" lover's tryst. This particular role-playing idea is especially great for couples who have been together for quite some time and really need an infusion of spark and romance.

Artist/Model
For those with a creative flair, this can get quite steamy! There are two possibilities for this scenario. The first is one is the artist and the other partner is sitting for a nude portrait. You can also do this as a photographer/model scenario. The second scenario is a little more fun and creative. One partner is still the artist, but the other person plays the part of the actual canvas. The artist will then begin to paint the "blank" canvas any way they wish.

Escort/Client
This is another one to try when one partner would rather give up control of the scenario. With this idea one partner is scheduled to meet the other, usually at a hotel. When they get to the scene, the other partner is not there. Instead they find the clothes they must wear and instructions to wait. When the other partner arrives they begin to command what the escort should do. You can actually go through a whole date while playing these roles. Things could get interesting!

Stripper/Client
This is a fairly straight forward role play. One person plays the stripper and the other is the lucky benefactor. You can also add this role-play to the escort/client or master/slave scenarios as well.

Doctor/Patient
Need a check up? Your partner might thing so! This role-playing idea is a very common one. Decide who will be the doctor and who will be the patient and have fun setting up your scenario. Will they be a good patient or a bad patient? There are many ways to play this one out.

How to Strip For Your Man

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 20 May 2010 17:01:00 +0000

I have been trying to think of new things I can integrate into me & my sugar's routine. I am thinking about pole dancing & lap dancing. Fortunately, I live in a town with a pole & lap dancing school (It's Vegas baby!), so I am going to have to check out some classes. If you are not as lucky as I, I do sell a couple of instructional videos on the topics.

I like the idea of pole & lap dancing on a couple of different levels, first of course, fitness ( Have you seen the bods on those professional pole dancers!! Yowza!). Second, confidence. When your prancing around the room, playing motor boat with your man, you got to have a lot of confidence to pull that off sexy. And third, giving your man a nice show, that lets him know you have taken the time and effort to let him know he floats your boat. So check out some of the videos in my store. Plus, if the economy gets any worse, we can take it on the road (just kidding mom).

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In the mean time, here is a stripping how-to that I poached from ehow.com

How to Do a Strip Tease for Your Husband

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Do a Strip Tease for Your Husband

Whether you realize it or not... you're hot. In fact you're sexy and hot. No better yet... you're sensual, sexy and hot. And your husband loves a tease. Learn how to combine your powers to tease your husband to the point of no return!

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

music
2 chairs
killer high heels
candles
robe
fitted skirt with zipper
white button shirt
men's tie
thong panties
lacy bra

Step1
Set the two chairs facing each other far enough away so you have room to dance. Light many candles around the room, but make sure they're far enough away so that you won't knock them over.
Step2

Put on your thong, bra and high heels. Cover up with a robe as you sit your husband down on the chair. Tell him the show will begin in a few minutes.
Step3
Put some "intro" music on for him to listen to while you finish dressing. This will build great anticipation. By the time the show starts he'll already be "standing at attention"! ;)
Step4
To start your tease, move your hand over your body slowly. Remember when your husband sees your hand (or anything else you rub on your body) he actually imagines it's his hand. Purposefully avoid rubbing your breasts and kitty too soon. Remember this is a tease!
Step5
Look at your husband in the eye as you SLOWLY unzip your skirt. Now with your back turned to him, wiggle it down 'til you take it off.
Step6
As you rock your hips side to side, SLOWLY take off your tie. Stretch it out, bite it and rub it against your breasts and/or your booty. When your done teasing with the tie put it over his neck.
Step7
Now is the time to give him a good rub down. Run your fingers through his hair, bite his ear, kiss him on his neck, rub your thigh against his crotch, sit in his lap, rub your breasts on his face ... you get the picture. Just get him all hot and bothered!
Step8

Next sit down on the empty chair and SLOWLY unbutton your shirt. You can look at him in the eye "seducing" him, or close your eyes "yearning" for him. Don't take your shirt off yet.
Step9
Open your shirt slightly and run your fingers between your breasts. Heaving your chest can make this move look more intense.
Step10
With your shirt still on, straddle the chair with your back towards him and reveal one shoulder at a time. Make sure you are turning your head looking at him and moving your shoulders rhythmically. Finally slip off your shirt
Step11
Gracefully get off of the chair and walk slowly toward your husband. Sway, bounce, gyrate or roll your hips as you stand very close to him.
Step12
Lastly straddle your husband. Place his hands on your booty. Unhook your bra and softly rub your bare breasts against him face. Finish off with a kiss!

What is Tantric Sex

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 18 May 2010 19:33:00 +0000

Sex is exciting, but it’s nothing new. It’s possible that for as long as we’ve had sex, we’ve had people who wrote about sex and thought about what it means and what might make it more meaningful. Tantric sex and teaching about Tantric sexuality represent one of the oldest examples of a philosophy of spiritual sexuality that continues to be practiced today.

What is Tantra?

One translation of the word Tantra is "tools for expansion." Tantra is over 1500 years old, and like yoga it originated in India. It is a set of teachings and practices that are specifically designed to help us feel more, to increase our awareness of our own energy and the energy around us. The path that Tantra uses to these ends is the exploration of sexual energy.

The goal of Tantric sex is to allow us to experience more depth and breadth in our sexuality. The goal is not necessarily orgasm, but rather enriching the whole sexual experience.

Is Tantra a Religion?

While traditional Tantric teachings refer to concepts such as “universal energy” or “higher power” the teachings are, in many cases, not about stubbornly sticking to one set of beliefs or rules. If you are interested in the idea of sexual expression bringing you closer to a higher power, you will find much in Tantra that speaks to you. If you are looking for a way to enhance or deepen your sexual connection with your partner, Tantra can offer many wonderful opportunities without requiring that you follow any specific set of beliefs.

Who is Tantric Sex Good For?

Many of the teachings are about desire and the experience of sexual energy. Unlike western approaches to improving your sex life, Tantra teachings do not focus on external evaluations of what our body looks like, what kind of car we drive, how we wear our hair. In this way Tantric sex teaching are open to anyone who is interested in exploring a new path to sexual fulfillment.

Incorporating ideas of Tantra into your sex life can be something anyone does, regardless of age, sexual orientation, and what your body looks, like, how it feels, how it moves, etc…

What are Chakras?

Tantra distinguishes many different energy systems within us. One of these that you might have already read about is chakras; energy centers in the body between the pelvis and the top of the head. In this system of thought, there is the idea that the smooth flow of energy in our bodies can get stuck somewhere in the system blocked from moving freely or depleted for a variety of reasons. Tantric practice works toward keeping energy flowing through us smoothly and naturally.

What is Tantric Sex Like?

Tantra is different from western ideas about sex in some other important ways. The western concept of sex is like a story with a clear beginning (sexual excitement), middle (penetration), and end (orgasm). This is the way it’s supposed to be and if you don’t follow the story, something is wrong. Sex without penetration is often viewed as being "not real” or “merely” foreplay.

In Tantric sex the point of sex is not orgasm, the point is to feel. There is no clear cut beginning middle or end. Most of the exercises related to Tantric sex involve slowing things down, trying not to focus on our external body, or orgasm, or anything outside of our experience of the moment.

Without a focus on orgasm, the goal becomes increased awareness leading to greater understanding of ourselves, which eventually leads to enlightenment. There is no pressure to "get over the top". This doesn't mean that orgasm doesn't exist in Tantra, it just isn't the be all and end all. The spiritual practice and the good sexual feelings are inter-related, each leading back to, and improving the other.

What Tantric sex “looks like” will be different for different people. Tantra is taught by many teachers around the world, who have their own take on it, influenced by the cultures they grew up in. Certainly a key feature of Tantric sex is the importance of breathing, and slowing down sexual behavior compared to the hectic, orgasm-focused North American approach.

Source - About.com

It was right under my nose the whole time.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 18 May 2010 05:11:00 +0000

As I was going thru my catalog for the bizzillionth time this evening, I noticed a page that I am sure I have seen many times before, but never paid any attention to. It was a toy sizing chart on page 58. I had seen the A-E letters in the toy descriptions, but never paid attention to what it meant. Unbeknownst to me the letter represents the diameter and circumference of the toy. So you know exactly what you are getting into...or what's getting into you.

Online Toy Parties. Like Tupperware, But With Lube....

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 17 May 2010 20:59:00 +0000

The Pleasure Prescription offers, online toy parties. You will get all the same hostess benefits as if you threw the party in your home. This is perfect for busy people & it allows you to invite as many people as you want no matter where they live.

How does it work? You can contact me with your guest names and emails. We will set up a time frame for your online catalog party, which can begin almost immediately. I will send out an email invitation to all your guest letting them know that they have been invited and further instructions on how to view the online store and/or catalog. I keep your party open for 10 days, giving everyone ample time to make their orders. Upon conclusion of the party, I will tally up your guest totals and let you know what & how much hostess benefits you qualify for so you can make your own purchases. You never have to cook an hor' deurve, set up a decoration or take out the trash. All of your guests purchases will be mailed to them.

A great way to earn free toys! For Your Pleasure has great hostess benefits!

Hostess Benefits and Monthly Specials/Hostess Exclusives(pages 2-7)

How to Choose Your Perfect Vibrator

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 17 May 2010 20:31:00 +0000

Consult this checklist to help you get the most pleasure from your new "friend".

~Function. Start by asking yourself how you plan to use the toy: Overall vulva, clitoris, g-spot, anally, or more?

~Use. Are you planning to enjoy it on your own, or with someone very special?

~Location. On your way to work, on your business trips, or simply after a long day, in your own tub or bed?

~Noise. Thin walls? Nosy neighbors? Curious roommates? Controlling parents? Go for quiet.

~Portability. Do you want a toy that slips discreetly into your purse or backpack, or a plug-in model that mostly stays home?

~Design. Do you like the look and texture of a real penis, or prefer a completely different appearance?

~Frequency. Do you like slow or fast, deep or shallow? Get your hands on different units to see how they feel.

~Price. Aren't you worth a few extra dollars for all the orgasms you're going to enjoy? Don't skip on pleasure-get what will satisfy you!!

Source - Toygasms by Dr. Sadie Allison

May Special!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 05 May 2010 18:35:00 +0000

With every $30.00 purchase made in the month of May, you will receive a set of Glow in the Dark Erotic Dice!**

**mailed separately

New to blogging

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sun, 02 May 2010 00:00:00 +0000

Hi guys,

FYI, I have just discovered blogging, so this blog is a work in progress as I figure out how I want it to go. Though it is not pretty yet, all of the info is accurate and you can contact me here or at any of the links.

Smoochies ;)

Mystery Hostess Online Party

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 03:07:00 +0000

First Mystery Hostess Online Party!!!!

May 4, 2010 at 7:30 PM - 8:00 PM (Pacific Standard Time)

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This will be the first of many Mystery Hostess Online Parties.

This party will be taking place at http://www.DirectSalesParty.com on May 4, 2010 at 7:30 PM - 8:00 PM (Pacific Standard Time).

It will be via webcam. You will be able to see and hear me and be able to communicate with me via chat. I will be showing you some of the toys and answering any questions you may have.

This party will have a Mystery Hostess, which means that at the conclusion of the party, and provided you make a purchase, your name will be entered into a drawing to be the Mystery Hostess of the party. For all qualifying parties ($150.00 in retail sales) you will receive all of the For Your Pleasure, Inc. Hostess rewards.

This party is open to everyone, 18 years of older. If you would like to host your own online party just for you and your friends, please email me to schedule your date.

For more information on how online parties works, click on the “Host a Party” page and then click on “online” under #2.

Look forward to seeing you on May 4th! Have a pleasurable day!

Facebook Special

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 03:05:00 +0000

I need to build up my Facebook Fan page. For every 50 fans, I will be drawing a name at random to receive a free goody bag. Become a fan, suggest to friends and spread the pleasure. ;)

The Pleasure Prescription Fan Page

30 % off Sale!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 02:57:00 +0000

Everything is still 30% off! Email me your orders today. Don’t miss out of this opportunity to get that toy you have been eyeballing! Don’t be shy. I accept, MasterCard, Visa, Discover and American Express.

May Hostess Specials

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 02:54:00 +0000

Schedule your May party before all the dates are gone. I specialize in online parties, both catalog and interactive. Invite guests from all over the U.S. , which increases your chance for beneifts.

I give double spending bonus, for all online parties. Visit “Host a Party” and contact me today!

I have morning and early after noon times available, so you can squeeze in a little fun while the kids are at school.

New Blog Format

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 02:44:00 +0000

As I dive into this formally unknown world blogging, I have found that my iWeb blog format on my website, doesn't interface well with the rest of the blog world. I will be using this blog for now on for up to the minute posts on all things sex toys. The main website is still up and functioning.