tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15312323722077856872008-07-07T05:54:00.113-04:00WCnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2201251537952http://www.feedburner.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-43302056335450755522008-07-07T05:54:00.006-04:002008-07-07T05:54:00.129-04:00We continued on this endless dance of figuring out what type of settlement was going to happen. It would never happen. I explain my position regarding how and why settlements with a borderline personality disordered person will never happen in a...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=678BQz"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=678BQz" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/07/i-aint-donald-trump.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-84046262091488090052008-07-05T05:44:00.005-04:002008-07-05T05:44:00.730-04:00Great site. I've been through an exhausting and terrifying four years myself. Just won sole custody of my son from my second wife, who was formally diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Depression. She...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=O9RThM"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=O9RThM" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/07/i-fell-prey-to-her-charms-her-beauty.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-29735616685416865262008-07-04T06:21:00.000-04:002008-07-04T06:21:03.699-04:00LM, I was not married to someone with BPD, I was raised by someone with BPD. When I was 21 she was finally diagnosed with depression and about 6 years ago was diagnosed BPD. She is taking medication for the depression, but refuses the therapy. So...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=v3ci6Q"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=v3ci6Q" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/07/feedback-help-you-have-given-me.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-38937814625700652102008-07-03T06:45:00.005-04:002008-07-03T06:46:40.811-04:00No delusion she had was ever as severe as her honest belief that everything we did or had - was because of her. She'll even claim to have given up a "lucrative career" (as an assistant to a production manager) to further my career and education. ...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=zG6NNN"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=zG6NNN" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/07/everything-i-had-because-of-her.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-25699592878993131842008-07-02T06:23:00.002-04:002008-07-02T06:23:00.660-04:00Yes, this was a rough one. S1, in a fit of petulant anger, told PEW that he was going to kill himself unless he could play on the computer. It was March 8th, 2004 and S1 is 5-years old. Of course, this off-handed remark meant he needed therapy......<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=PjFvOh"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=PjFvOh" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/07/he-told-me-he-was-going-to-kill-himself.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-83909600459447504972008-07-01T06:53:00.001-04:002008-07-01T15:53:43.903-04:00As this journey progressed, I had become increasingly convinced that she had planned her "escape" for at least a year prior to now (March 2, 2004). It was the little things she'd do or say. The credit card secret and subsequent run-up all happened...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=Js9rpQ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=Js9rpQ" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/07/ive-been-watching-market-for-long-time.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-79104578455076487192008-06-30T06:38:00.000-04:002008-06-30T12:02:27.512-04:00Shall we? These thoughts are obviously biased, but I'm really proud of all the children - they've all shown improvement or sustained their regularly high level of achievement. Today's discussion centers on S1 and S2. Keep in mind that I finally...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=K5gPVf"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=K5gPVf" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/interesting-educational-results-lets.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-25205093721466213232008-06-26T06:49:00.004-04:002008-06-26T13:20:04.470-04:00It's mid-February 2004. She's filed for divorce. I've moved out of the master bedroom and into one of the extra bedrooms. We've had some discussions about how to handle childcare, the house, work, etc. It will be an ongoing process. Once the...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=xEzdzW"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=xEzdzW" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/she-wants-to-gas-dog.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-29356066629131931412008-06-25T12:30:00.004-04:002008-06-25T14:15:09.411-04:00This past weekend, DW - special woman that she is - had a surprise birthday party for me. Friends, family, neighbors - it was a really incredible bash. Live music in the living room, good food, and too much good to drink, too. Ugh! It was a great...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=MZBlMP"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=MZBlMP" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/thanks-for-nothing-ups.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-43503425727763761122008-06-24T05:59:00.002-04:002008-06-24T06:39:48.833-04:00I have been reading your site. I am interested in every different viewpoint; but, my personal question to you, is: why, if you really think your ex-wife has serious mental health issues....why is it something to talk about on the internet? I mean...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=P7rA9e"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=P7rA9e" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/why-talk-about-it-on-internet.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-57800846785790062252008-06-23T17:30:00.004-04:002008-06-23T17:30:00.702-04:00I've just heard through my email grapevine that last week, the organizers of the DC Rally (a great success in 2007) had to be scuttled this year due to financial reasons (among others). The original rally, slated to take place at The Lincoln...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=C5acHg"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=C5acHg" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/dc-rally-2008-dies-is-reborn-as-dc.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-77753470926067141502008-06-23T06:14:00.002-04:002008-06-23T06:23:57.674-04:00Yes, I know - I'm jumping back into the past just as we were beginning to launch into the divorce take-off. Too bad! I happened upon this and it gives some insight as to the perceptions of someone on her side of the family. EJ, who I haven't...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=C2krL7"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=C2krL7" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/pews-brother-ej-weighs-in.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-59873768984282326582008-06-20T05:57:00.002-04:002008-06-20T05:57:01.225-04:00Borderline Personality Disorder - Information for the Family The following 9-minute video, produced by my friends over at BPDFamily.Com, manages to capture the essence of the experiences when in a relationship of any kind with someone suffering...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=qtVUmo"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=qtVUmo" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/could-it-be-borderline-personality.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-81522576891181897132008-06-19T03:07:00.003-04:002008-06-19T03:25:40.910-04:00In the Spring of 2003, one of my brothers purchased a motorcycle. It was something I had always wanted to do and just never had the motivation to do it. At that point, I became intrigued. I read a lot classified ads. I had a long-time motorcycle...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=K8vAKC"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=K8vAKC" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/be-prepared-for-worst.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-82527063416956644362008-06-17T06:34:00.003-04:002008-06-17T10:04:29.829-04:00Christmas 2003 itself was relatively uneventful, though, it wasn't without the annual pre-holiday drama which really starting the ball rolling towards the filing for divorce in early 2004. I was beginning to "shut-down" (sort of) in that I just...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=csikby"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=csikby" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/beginning-of-never-end.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-11520848464617493062008-06-16T06:37:00.002-04:002008-06-16T22:07:55.347-04:00An early threatening email from Psycho-SIL. When PP was unemployed and exploiting every system she could, she managed to convince the PEW to act as an ATM-machine, trading the food-stamps she was on in exchange for cash. I thought that it was going...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=N1CKEq"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=N1CKEq" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/food-stamps-for-cash-program.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-44803650337410066962008-06-15T06:01:00.001-04:002008-06-15T06:01:00.587-04:00Dear DW and LM, My husband and I just want to thank you for promoting the "low contact" strategy. For 8 years we have been documenting, documenting, documenting, but we were always at a loss when it came to conversations with BM on the phone. As...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=GlcAU1"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=GlcAU1" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/you-have-saved-our-sanity.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-37185827157541482312008-06-14T00:10:00.001-04:002008-06-14T00:10:01.914-04:00Continuing from Part I... At the encouragement of PEW, the psycho-SIL (PP) chooses to offer her insights into the issue: I think everyone is in agreement that our main concern is for S1's health &amp; well-being. I'm sure there are a combination...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=uxJ8k2"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=uxJ8k2" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/childhood-obesity-crisis-looms-part-ii.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-14216226983238145232008-06-13T00:10:00.002-04:002008-06-14T07:58:51.874-04:00The children's diets have always been a bone of contention between us. A typical day feeding the kids would be: breakfast, snack, lunch, snack, snack, snack, dinner, snack, snack, snack. Okay, that's exaggerated slightly for effect. They would...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=ixktdp"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=ixktdp" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/childhood-obesity-crisis-looms-part-i.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-4439346690867819032008-06-11T06:25:00.003-04:002008-06-11T06:51:22.987-04:00By February 13th, 2004 (the first part of this two-part post), she had told me that she had filed for divorce. Of course, I was skeptical due to all of the prior flights she had taken from the relationship. It was part of the reason why I was...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=W9Wcen"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=W9Wcen" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/mommy-and-daddy-fight-too-much.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-51924235174268943622008-06-10T06:27:00.002-04:002008-06-10T08:39:58.233-04:00Dear LM & DW, I am a Psychiatrist. I just recently finished my residency and have started practice at my county hospital. I never made any rules as to which kind of patients I would be unwilling to take on. Of course I was a "new" doctor and I...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=hJbta9"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=hJbta9" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/i-am-psychiatrist.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-13294545713516120612008-06-09T06:06:00.009-04:002008-06-09T08:27:31.137-04:00Yes. That's what S1 said to his mother after witnessing yet another fight between the two of them. This nasty debate really gives more insight into the level of disgusting behavior on the part of her family. Worse - she defends it - always did -...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=hRahxz"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=hRahxz" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/aunt-pp-is-right-you-are-psycho.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-71255128224348556422008-06-06T06:32:00.003-04:002008-06-06T07:04:39.973-04:00My brother had been struggling with some issues. Pressures at work. Pressures at home. New (first) child. It was all getting to be a bit overwhelming for him. So, he sought me out and we talked about things periodically. I always spoke very frankly...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=SleR8l"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=SleR8l" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/day-i-finally-block-her-from-instant.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-69030654829082527902008-06-05T06:47:00.003-04:002008-06-05T07:29:44.499-04:00In my inbox the other day comes a gem from POE, DW's ex-husband. It was actually copied to both of us. I nearly fell out of my chair laughing. You see, SD1 is about to embark on a course of study to close out the school year called "Sensitive...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=Dupl5f"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=Dupl5f" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/interacting-with-normal-ex-spouse.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1531232372207785687.post-62762574702844491982008-06-04T06:14:00.006-04:002008-06-04T10:27:00.951-04:00I'm jumping ahead a little bit, to just after the divorce was filed (April 2004), to feature another mindless email rant offered up by "Aunt PP" - my nutcase ex sister-in-law. There aren't many of them. That's because, even when things weren't a...<br/> <br/> Visit http://www.thepsychoexwife.com for the full story! <p><a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?a=MuNXou"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~a/ThePsychoEx-wife?i=MuNXou" border="0"></img></a></p>Mister-Mnoreply@blogger.comhttp://www.thepsychoexwife.com/2008/06/hi-lm-its-good-to-know-that-while-i.html