<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943</id><updated>2026-05-16T01:11:49.968-05:00</updated><category term="random"/><category term="music"/><category term="lesbians of color"/><category term="family"/><category term="travel"/><category term="women of color"/><category term="lesbian"/><category term="queer"/><category term="africa"/><category term="south africa"/><category term="gay african"/><category term="jobs"/><category term="vlog"/><category term="Cherry Bomb"/><category term="zimbabwe"/><category term="afterellen"/><category term="coming out"/><category term="gloria bigelow"/><category term="movies"/><category term="Dalila Ali Rajah"/><category term="Nikki Caster"/><category term="Tatum DeRoeck"/><category term="christianity"/><category term="food"/><category term="gay"/><category term="jenn n dee"/><category term="soccer"/><category term="faith"/><category term="work out"/><category term="U People"/><category term="blogs"/><category term="dating"/><category term="ethnic beauty"/><category term="i cant think straight"/><category term="relationships"/><category term="sub-saharan"/><category term="zimba"/><category term="African American"/><category term="birthday"/><category term="cars"/><category term="emotions"/><category term="equality"/><category term="life changes"/><category term="love"/><category term="work place"/><category term="school"/><category term="trips"/><category term="Coalition of African Lesbians"/><category term="being out"/><category term="career paths"/><category term="commitment"/><category term="hate crime"/><category term="job search"/><category term="lawrence king"/><category term="sexuality"/><category term="webshow"/><category term="world cup 2010"/><category term="death"/><category term="friends"/><category term="gay pride"/><category term="graduation"/><category term="heart"/><category term="jackie warner"/><category term="questions"/><category term="qwoc"/><category term="stacyann chin"/><category term="the world unseen"/><category term="trippin"/><category term="weddings"/><category term="2010"/><category term="Christa Bell"/><category term="Lynne d. Johnson"/><category term="OBAMA"/><category term="T:SCC"/><category term="Zanele Muholi"/><category term="aunt"/><category term="azania mosaka"/><category term="black.womyn.:conversations"/><category term="blkgyrlsearching"/><category term="books"/><category term="bugatti veyron"/><category term="chicago"/><category term="clueless"/><category term="dee adames"/><category term="dinah shore"/><category term="disaster"/><category term="donate"/><category term="ellen"/><category term="family friends"/><category term="fun"/><category term="garden tools"/><category term="gaydar"/><category term="goals"/><category term="haiti"/><category term="happy birthday"/><category term="heritage"/><category term="hungochani"/><category term="is&#39;thabane"/><category term="jabu khanyile"/><category term="joomla"/><category term="l-word"/><category term="lo-down"/><category term="loneliness"/><category term="lovfe"/><category term="malaika"/><category term="malinda lo"/><category term="marching band"/><category term="mates"/><category term="metro fm"/><category term="miami"/><category term="mmalowe"/><category term="money"/><category term="mother"/><category term="natasha kai"/><category term="nhlanhla nciza"/><category term="nicole chamoun"/><category term="nicole pina"/><category term="none on record"/><category term="personal development"/><category term="photos"/><category term="pick-up lines"/><category term="piercings"/><category term="platform one"/><category term="prop 8"/><category term="raisin in the sun"/><category term="rape"/><category term="relaxation"/><category term="rome and juliet"/><category term="sarah pecora"/><category term="savings"/><category term="skins"/><category term="stereotypes"/><category term="technology"/><category term="thoughts"/><category term="tiona McClodden"/><category term="tv"/><category term="tyvek"/><category term="unathi"/><category term="unathi nkayi"/><category term="united methodist"/><category term="video blog"/><category term="women"/><category term="work"/><category term="zamajobe"/><title type='text'>The Queer African</title><subtitle type='html'>Wena we Ndlovu Bayede!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>413</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-5465695094630285207</id><published>2012-03-04T17:08:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-03-04T17:08:11.239-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="queer"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="qwoc"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="sexuality"/><title type='text'>Intersection of Gender Identity and Gender</title><summary type="text">Over the last couple of days Chicago has played host to the AWP and there have been several offsite events that have been open to the public. I had the great fortune of attending the Ancestors: A Queer Writers of Color Reading. I loved it. Some of the finest poetry and prose that I have ever heard. 

--I claim to be no expert on matters of sexuality. These are my thoughts and feelings.--
I have </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/5465695094630285207/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/5465695094630285207' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5465695094630285207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5465695094630285207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/03/intersection-of-gender-identity-and.html' title='Intersection of Gender Identity and Gender'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-5186118018111884105</id><published>2012-02-28T05:30:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-28T05:30:03.433-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Marvin Gaye - Let&#39;s Get It On / Jill Scott - Crown Royal</title><summary type="text">February is for the lovers so enjoy double plays of Old School and New School love songs








&amp;nbsp;Bonus Isley Brothers - Between The Sheets
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Bonus Toni Braxton - Unbreak My Heart 
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/8752437652863565873/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/8752437652863565873' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/8752437652863565873'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/8752437652863565873'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/02/tuesday-beat-whitney-houston-i-will.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Whitney Houston - I Will Always Love You / Maxwell - Fortunate'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/H9nPf7w7pDI/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-2786181122190323591</id><published>2012-02-19T18:43:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-19T18:43:02.565-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Bollocks to this!</title><summary type="text">Hmmm I&#39;ve started and restarted this post a grand total of 3 times. There is so much that I want to write but it is all coming in one giant ball and my fingers can&#39;t keep up.
In life there are walls... you either scale them, tunnel under them or run through them. I hit my wall, bounced back and am now trying to figure out how to get past it. Last week was rough and this week is promising to be </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/2786181122190323591/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/2786181122190323591' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2786181122190323591'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2786181122190323591'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/02/bollocks-to-this.html' title='Bollocks to this!'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-6347856883325537115</id><published>2012-02-14T05:30:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-14T05:30:01.562-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Etta James - At Last / India Arie - Ready For Love</title><summary type="text">February is for the lovers so enjoy double plays of Old School and New School love songs








Bonus Tank - I Can&#39;t Make You Love Me
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/6347856883325537115/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/6347856883325537115' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6347856883325537115'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6347856883325537115'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/02/tuesday-beat-etta-james-at-last-india.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Etta James - At Last / India Arie - Ready For Love'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/_Q2rZb7E0EY/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-5838985030348134173</id><published>2012-02-07T05:30:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-07T05:30:01.085-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Luther Vandross - If Only For One Night /  Jesse Powell - You</title><summary type="text">February is for the lovers so enjoy double plays of Old School and New School love songs




Bonus Donell Jones - I Wanna Love You

</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/5838985030348134173/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/5838985030348134173' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5838985030348134173'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5838985030348134173'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/02/tuesday-beat-luther-vandross-if-only.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Luther Vandross - If Only For One Night /  Jesse Powell - You'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/-Er74vU2I9c/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-4462554358743280742</id><published>2012-02-04T15:03:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-04T15:13:22.098-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="money"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="savings"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="work"/><title type='text'>Stretching that dollar</title><summary type="text">

Namaste... I&#39;m feeling zenish so why not spread it around.

For the unemployed, partially employed, mostly employed, fully employed and over employed the economy has not been too kind. I&#39;m now partially employed so every month I have to make sure that my dollar is all that it can be.

My sister introduced me to several sites that have all sorts of dollar saving ideas be it repurposing items or </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/4462554358743280742/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/4462554358743280742' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4462554358743280742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4462554358743280742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/02/stretching-that-dollar.html' title='Stretching that dollar'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6qcVFVKSQJwuFUADxiu99xfY5Nh0V6eYetMpv0uwQ5W_dICYjxGyOx-0sLduFw9OvO2lvu0g6ZQ9mf3RWACdCBenzXhVwUCU9FVsT116pBvWLctSO_GkFE2uwzOyCt494PPYhnjZRJwMB/s72-c/pcbag.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-5989995472217254242</id><published>2012-01-30T23:50:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-30T23:50:46.358-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Jabu Khanyile Bayete - Umkhaya Lo</title><summary type="text">Song after my own heart.


</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/5989995472217254242/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/5989995472217254242' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5989995472217254242'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5989995472217254242'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/01/tuesday-beat-jabu-khanyile-bayete.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Jabu Khanyile Bayete - Umkhaya Lo'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/g3SQV2WWHvM/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-7328325112924404203</id><published>2012-01-14T08:24:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-14T08:24:51.191-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="family"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="qwoc"/><title type='text'>Saturday already?</title><summary type="text">Greetings me hearties! The weekend started well for ya? Hungover? Happy from a lil morning tumble [ye who speak British English know what I mean]?

Today it&#39;s the usual rambling to help me get back into the groove of blogging. I took an extended sabbatical to make some paper &amp;amp; now things have finally slowed down enough to for me to pick up this lil hobby of mine again. Alrighty then ...

Umm </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/7328325112924404203/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/7328325112924404203' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/7328325112924404203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/7328325112924404203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/01/saturday-already.html' title='Saturday already?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-6050415983136604902</id><published>2012-01-12T10:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-12T10:22:39.668-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Thursday Beat: Jessie J - Stand Up</title><summary type="text">Back to regularly scheduled programming. Blogging regularly should also resume shortly...

And if you don&#39;t reach for the moon you can&#39;t fall on the stars&amp;nbsp;

So I live my life like every day is the last, last, last
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</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/6050415983136604902/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/6050415983136604902' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6050415983136604902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6050415983136604902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2012/01/tuesday-beat-jessie-j-stand-up.html' title='Thursday Beat: Jessie J - Stand Up'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/5Eq7uTheQoA/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-8197112245593420941</id><published>2011-12-30T03:34:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2011-12-30T16:30:09.298-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="being out"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="lesbian"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="queer"/><title type='text'>Why I am out</title><summary type="text">

Aaah the last post of the year. These tend to be epic year end reviews but we&#39;ll deviate ever so slightly. I was recently asked why I was out. Now to say I was rendered speechless by the question would be the understatement of the year. I was truly thrown for a loop. While the question did not come out of left field it certainly was in the vicinity of left of center. I contemplated not </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/8197112245593420941/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/8197112245593420941' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/8197112245593420941'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/8197112245593420941'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/12/why-i-am-out.html' title='Why I am out'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQLGpYVzjosu0kpMNtqFpBMGKKJEhBWNA225MoLqaQOER0fgS6nLMwTZrcCG5Pz6U4FjwE5BE5pFYb-NT0QknJgHL89yW5sw29STIrpVVMxkmww8RAgRrYqhHtZyyDTmO2rWKmlhM2k59G/s72-c/outandproud.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-6205433651665233816</id><published>2011-11-22T15:43:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-22T16:13:31.875-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Lights - Face Up</title><summary type="text">#Doccubus + Lights&#39; Face Up = Awesomeness. Make it to 6 mins and it becomes officially NSFW.

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</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/6205433651665233816/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/6205433651665233816' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6205433651665233816'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6205433651665233816'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/11/tuesday-beat-lights-face-up.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Lights - Face Up'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/60LuO5jssjE/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-8386990029068625024</id><published>2011-11-11T13:49:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2011-11-11T14:29:58.208-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Mid Fall Blues</title><summary type="text">

Today the geeks celebrate a perfect binary day. By some fluke I happened to glance over at the clock this morning and it read 11:10 so ofcourse you know I waited for it to read 11/11/11 11:11:11.

Happy Veterans day to my peeps who have / are serving in the armed forces.

Now to the topic at hand. I am experiencing mid fall blues and can&#39;t seem to shake them. I got back home a week ago and I&#39;ve</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/8386990029068625024/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/8386990029068625024' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/8386990029068625024'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/8386990029068625024'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/11/mid-fall-blues.html' title='Mid Fall Blues'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVd8AGm_Fc-rptac8zEIkkeqO9JJMQ-oyNTf1Taxp8I9f6PlCNV1HaIvZuJqvfrteDFwPXH3zF4AgYOsyfFkTOhMNZAw4VSxVQY1a74h3a5w_g-ECSPDCEfOneTACpx_EtSS7IKh2vq2CC/s72-c/windmill.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-5163096593503884846</id><published>2011-10-22T19:57:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-10-22T19:57:12.718-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Life refracted</title><summary type="text">

Salut! I&#39;ve been super busy with conferences and the great job search. Being back in the Chi after all the time away has been a jolt to my system.

I miss my niece like crazy. I speak to her daily but it&#39;s not the same as being with her.

Being on regular people time has been an adjustment after spending months observing vampire hours.

Anyway I&#39;ve been uber reflective these past few weeks and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/5163096593503884846/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/5163096593503884846' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5163096593503884846'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/5163096593503884846'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/10/life-refracted.html' title='Life refracted'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCmrQGee4RetiCqH2XjHdhyphenhyphen4QDYfC9EJOfLFFp2tUn2XUAxuTOTLhFDE1lc8wH60wrfqq3kGwHWL9HKNaFDNiiU2ctDgsXE-PHbQpHhnEdWLC0Gs_U0EMcM0lO5-9VMHVecqiJW_pef9Nl/s72-c/refraction.gif" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-4087458847278038031</id><published>2011-10-04T02:44:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-10-04T02:44:06.270-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Jessie J - Who You Are</title><summary type="text">This week&#39;s song is says it all - just be true to who you are.






</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/4087458847278038031/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/4087458847278038031' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4087458847278038031'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4087458847278038031'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/10/tuesday-beat-jessie-j-who-you-are.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Jessie J - Who You Are'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-4308655556229469513</id><published>2011-09-28T00:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-09-28T00:00:01.597-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Lucy Pearl - Dance Tonight</title><summary type="text">One of my fave old school jams. Wonder where Saadiq is.






</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/4308655556229469513/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/4308655556229469513' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4308655556229469513'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4308655556229469513'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/09/tuesday-beat-lucy-pearl-dance-tonight.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Lucy Pearl - Dance Tonight'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-2007358376434909038</id><published>2011-09-24T11:33:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-09-24T11:33:57.760-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Giving myself permission</title><summary type="text">

These past few months have been an eye opener of sorts and I&#39;ve come to realize that I&#39;ve been holding myself back. Both in the sense that I&#39;m my own stumbling block as well as in the sense that I don&#39;t allow myself to do or experience things fully.

A year or so ago I decided that I would work towards living my life with no regrets. Not that I would do everything that I wanted, but that I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/2007358376434909038/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/2007358376434909038' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2007358376434909038'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2007358376434909038'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/09/giving-myself-permission.html' title='Giving myself permission'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgI-Gn8E2II7UWZ6RJz6Ay-2kDQnBUb226YGVp4h6vs7vu8iWHaQoY8cGF8QlhnYVB95wsOLKYo3JmEtMekcTPaAFj_v5w0QiuMlAuBNEHt9F5MEnTtucXjU-XJ1gyHI_EOub8PByA7JLEh/s72-c/permission.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-2201696354610278690</id><published>2011-09-22T23:04:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-09-22T23:04:32.504-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Would you or wouldn&#39;t you</title><summary type="text">

An acquaintance of mine has been participating in some extra curricular activities with someone she shouldn&#39;t be. At this point it&#39;s an open secret-- facebook don&#39;t lie [Miss Cleo voice]-- but her girl doesn&#39;t know or chooses to ignore, I&#39;m not sure which. Now a few nights ago I got a text asking me if I could say we had hung out on such n such a day if her girl asked to which I replied I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/2201696354610278690/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/2201696354610278690' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2201696354610278690'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2201696354610278690'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/09/would-you-or-wouldnt-you.html' title='Would you or wouldn&#39;t you'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-4376668338848297027</id><published>2011-09-20T14:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-09-20T14:01:23.519-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Tuesday Beat: Double play Shalamar and Earth Wind &amp; Fire</title><summary type="text">Do you remember the 21st night of September...
Earth Wind and Fire - September











&amp;nbsp;Shalamar - Night to Remember
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</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/4376668338848297027/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/4376668338848297027' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4376668338848297027'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4376668338848297027'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/09/tuesday-beat-double-play-shalamar-and.html' title='Tuesday Beat: Double play Shalamar and Earth Wind &amp; Fire'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-444095451302060519</id><published>2011-09-08T03:48:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-09-08T03:48:35.434-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Libraries and Lasses</title><summary type="text">

So I was at the library minding my own business ... as all god stories start ...
As I&#39;ve been away from the Chi for the last couple of months, I&#39;ve had to join a new library in order to keep up with my reading.
Last week I stopped by to pick up my books and decided to peruse the new books shelf to see if there was anything that I was interested in reading.

As I was reaching for something on </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/444095451302060519/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/444095451302060519' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/444095451302060519'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/444095451302060519'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/09/libraries-and-lasses.html' title='Libraries and Lasses'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhkXrgWYfp2OF_gMk6hMl9A8NwkofT4g5z7LQQL1dPozW0N-eVMKANP0SDEQd0JRztADjFZiKeiobt2Va4tOysP-pdALLrWyVT2lhPkKfAS9LnvEJZOylpJ1bNwjQ1ZDPrw4Pgl2hRuZqLC/s72-c/library-books.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-6259189188511663196</id><published>2011-09-04T02:27:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-09-04T02:27:09.821-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Goapele - Play</title><summary type="text"></summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/6259189188511663196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/6259189188511663196' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6259189188511663196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6259189188511663196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/09/goapele-play.html' title='Goapele - Play'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-1274438419920387665</id><published>2011-08-24T18:40:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-24T18:40:39.693-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="music"/><title type='text'>Looks like I&#39;m back</title><summary type="text">Hmmm I think my schedule is about to open up and I should be able to start blogging fairly regularly again ... til then enjoy a song I&#39;ve been loving for a bit. Adele -Someone Like You

</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/1274438419920387665/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/1274438419920387665' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/1274438419920387665'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/1274438419920387665'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/08/looks-like-im-back.html' title='Looks like I&#39;m back'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/NAc83CF8Ejk/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-2696628898204368448</id><published>2011-06-11T11:28:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-06-11T11:28:59.826-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Is it Saturday yet?</title><summary type="text">I am going to blame my absences on my brutal work schedule and leave it at that. Going from self employed to being on someone else&#39;s payroll = giving up some freedoms. 
Soooo how are the women looking out there? Where I am all I gotta say is dear Lord forgive me for I have sinned and unfortunately will continue to at the going rate. Yes there is a platter of eye candy which you would think at my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/2696628898204368448/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/2696628898204368448' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2696628898204368448'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/2696628898204368448'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/06/is-it-saturday-yet.html' title='Is it Saturday yet?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-4089136417247777499</id><published>2011-05-20T22:16:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-20T22:16:52.969-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Now to start unpacking</title><summary type="text">Hey folks,
How are y&#39;all doing this fine week? Happy, tired, hungry ... [insert mood here]? After a rollercoaster week I must say I find myself fairly relaxed today. Had time to do some car maintenance ... you know I&#39;m not afraid of a little grease ... as well as hang out with fam.

I recently relocated from the Windy and have started my new job. Should be an interesting summer by the looks of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/4089136417247777499/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/4089136417247777499' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4089136417247777499'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/4089136417247777499'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/05/now-to-start-unpacking.html' title='Now to start unpacking'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiavg-LqrOBZFQA2F9G7bFQcnD8zTGi-dpYYMZ4AEn6IqWsPvalIY33wtUpnB3s-khakNLhq_h9i7rPGiUNo5b89Sj5PVKLxE7ZFhQ7Y6huM6iYBrXe1HdjMvWBIu6-q-WYTykWhXT1Mu1Q/s72-c/orchid.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9219387051633421943.post-6975806368095328244</id><published>2011-05-17T22:44:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-17T22:44:36.570-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Another step</title><summary type="text">... and so life keep moving, evolving and revealing it&#39;s mysteries.
Selah.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/feeds/6975806368095328244/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/9219387051633421943/6975806368095328244' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6975806368095328244'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/9219387051633421943/posts/default/6975806368095328244'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thequeerafrican.blogspot.com/2011/05/another-step.html' title='Another step'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>