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<description><![CDATA[Why do they do it: to show their friends; their parents; or the world? I believe that they are trying to make a point but after the baby - what next?  Don’t they want to finish high school, go to college, or travel?  They will have a full time job at age 19 and their parents will become responsible. Also, you have to be a role model for your kid. You can’t stay out late partying, go on shopping days with friends, have sleepovers gossiping about cute guys - man, I need all of that.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sat, 04 Jul 2009 00:13:50</pubDate>
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<title>Dr.</title>
<description><![CDATA[I believe it is less risky to pay bills online than to pay by mail provided you are using a good/secure billing online service!  It saves paper and postage. It also excludes having to rely on the U.S.P.S. to deliver your mail to an outside mailbox that that may not even need a key to access and the possibility of losing a piece of mail.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 23:24:49</pubDate>
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<title>Who's to say ??</title>
<description><![CDATA[Who's to say how someone else spends his or her money?  Do people waste the money they have? That depends on who you ask. Some people pay big bucks for cars, beauty products, lawn care , designer clothes, imported coffee, weight loss products , etc. Anything  sold in this world is a waste of money to someone. Yes, even keeping a beloved pet alive for a few more years.  I think is up to the individual as to how much they can and will spend on a pet.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 21:32:45</pubDate>
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<title>patenting of ANY gene, not just humans is wrong</title>
<description><![CDATA[I agree with the comment: If you create a novel gene from scratch, patenting makes sense,” wrote one. “But patenting something you’ve just taken a look at? It seems an awful lot like patenting gravity.  Let them patent the technology for identifying the gene, then someone else will have to invent a better technology to do it or pay a license fee for the original.  Corn, butterfly, human, no human made the genes, no human should own them.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 21:04:29</pubDate>
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<title>Different but right</title>
<description><![CDATA[When a mother is addicted to drugs and can’t have take care of their child, courts can take the child away. When a child is abused, they can take the child away. So if the mother knows and admits that she could not protect the child, it is not unreasonable to put the mother on ten year probation.  Before the 10 years are up if she feels like she can take care of a child better and make better choices, she should be able to take certain actions such as classes for parenting or even therapy sessions to show the court proof not unlike a recovering drug addict trying to regain custody, to be able to have conceive another child.]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 20:28:53</pubDate>
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<title>I write through tears...</title>
<description><![CDATA[Oliver, my little corgi soul-mate was diagnosed with lung cancer 4 years ago at only  6 years old.  He was my constant companion,that went everywhere with me, even to work.  He was the ring-bearer in my wedding and he even walked me down the aisle with my Dad!  My vet had a thoracic surgeon come in to open his little ribcage and remove the tumor.  Unfortunately, it was growing wrapped around his vena cava, a large vein by the heart.  One nick and he would bleed to death.  So, home one day with his shaved chest and bandages, and the tumor still there under his stitches, he rolled in some disgusting thing in the yard.  "I'm fine, I'm still a gnarly dog!"  Soon after, he started weekly chemotherapy treatments which dorsn't affect dogs the way they do people (yes, I do know that, I'm a chemo/cancer survivor).  He was all smiles throughout it, he even loved his chemo vet and was excited when we pulled up in front of the clinic!  He never got sick, or sluggish or lost his hair.  Did it save Ollie?  No.  It did buy us a few months together that we wouldn't have had.  I didn't work during that time and I didn't go away for a week long conference my husband had to go to for work.  Did Oliver suffer more?  I don't think so, Four months after his diagnosis he was running around the front yard with Eb, our other old boy corgi mix and staring up into the sky (I think the angels were calling him) only fifteen minutes before he came in, got in my lap, and took his last breath.  Did I suffer more?  No, I would not trade those months or those dollars for anything in the world.  I learned more about faith and hope and love in those months than I did even through my own cancer.  But having only 6 years with him, I had to try - for him.  Eb passed two years ago at 17 and we lovingly let him go because we had given him a great long life, taking him in at 10 years old the summer after we got married.  We have four great dogs now, two corgis and two corgi mix brothers and I love them all so much.  They are all fabulous.  One is Momma's boy - my shadow at home, another goes to work with me and anywhere else he can scam a ride to, the third, a pup, is the class clown and keeps me smiling and the other is my outdoors man, always happy to share a stroll in the woods or hang out on the deck any time.  They each have a piece of Ollie in them and I thank them for that.  They are family to us.  Would I do it again for any one of them?  In a H-E-A-R-T-B-E-A-T!  Because that's what they're all about.  My heartbeat.]]></description>
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<title>not the number thats a prob</title>
<description><![CDATA[If this is the woman I am thinking of, it should not be a problem she decided to have as many children as she did. But there is a problem, she was asking for aid that will come out of tax payer pockets. If she had the resources to take care of each child then I would not see a problem with this, but because I am pro-choice in most matters, but not when it comes to making others suffer even if it's only a few dollars.]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/octuplets-mother-of-all-issues/</guid>
<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 20:06:39</pubDate>
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<title>Well said...</title>
<description><![CDATA[It's encouraging to see posts by people in the trenches who are fighting against the consequences of our ignorance and our technological "advancements". There is one way, however, for smokers to get their fix and alleviate their withdrawal symptoms without affecting anyone around them:  Herbal/Tobacco Vaporizers. The benefits are multi-fold. The bitter taste is eliminated. "Smokers" will enjoy the flavors and the effects of the ingredients.  And   no smoke is produced, either first, second or third-hand.  So, no harsh mouth and throat smoke-related problems, and no effect on people nearby or the environment. Search "tobacco vaporizer" for plenty of info and wide range of products. Perhaps this is the key to satisfying both sides of this heated fence.]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/illegal-to-smoke-at-home-butt-out/</guid>
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<title>there is no difference</title>
<description><![CDATA[There is no difference between letting kids spar in martial arts classes and letting them practice mixed martial arts. They're still using pads and head gear. As long as the child is not being forced into the sport and can stop when they want, this is just another sport which people should partake.]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/fight-club-junior/</guid>
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<title>It's about choice, responsibility, respect and ABO</title>
<description><![CDATA[I am not filled with hate for anyone.  I am filled with other people's smoke!<br />
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You want to fight for your right to choose and so do I.  I choose to breathe the clean air our Creator gave us, not the toxic, carcinogenic cocktail of poisons forced on me by people so concerned with their own instant pleasure gratification they are willing to ignore the effect they have, or worse, as you suggest, to do it willfully and harm others even if it's illegal and risk going to jail.  I'm asking for respect for my God-given rights.<br />
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Nobody is forcing anybody to smoke or not smoke, to take nicotine replacement drugs or not, to chew nicotine gum or not, to eat garbage or not.  It's not really my business either if someone wants to grow to 1100 pounds gorging on junk food until they need a crane to move their bed onto a flatbed just to go outside and go for a ride, but the cumulative effect of all those doing even the "normal" junk habit , or smoking... is, the health industry then needs to tend to the many who become ill because of it, insurance companies must pay ridiculous sums to cover their care, and my and your health insurance rates go up to cover it.  So now, I can't afford health insurance at all, and my best insurance against health problems is to not create them at all, as best I can.<br />
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So, yeah, it's about money, in part.  Thanks to the insurance company hosting this site for taking responsibility to stimulate healthy discussion on issues they are directly or indirectly effected by.  But, to suggest the smoking bans are being created to fill the coffers of drug companies [and tobacco companies?] is just plain absurd.  <br />
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Of course you should be concerned about a society wherein your 4 year old son is at risk from a drive-by, or a pederast.  But your little miracle of life has hundreds or thousands more percent chance of being harmed by secondhand smoke [or junk food, for that matter] than those risks, or being killed in a car accident or on a plane or by lightning... Some things you can take reasonable precautions against, others, you can't.<br />
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You claim not to have the time to worry about whether others smoke [or whatever], yet you take the time to read this blog, and respond to it, and you take the time to write letters to hospitals and newspapers because you are upset about them taking rights away from those who would unintentionally, or deliberately harm others.  You took the time and the great expense to move your family several times, across the country, to run away from those places where people are finally doing something to protect people from others' bad choices and you are now faced with your son potentially developing asthma from a mysterious something in the air where you ran to.  You call me "...nuts, obsessed and not worth [your] time.", and "...so darned superior...".  Actually, I just care enough to say something about it [opinions backed with facts], and motivated enough to do something about it [posting on this blog, and more; stay tuned...].  By the way, I made the statement about not responding to my posts to challenge those who would toss unsupported facts around, and to hopefully help some realize they may have a problem they need to address.  It's of no consequence to me if anyone thinks I'm acting "superior".  As long as even one person finds something I've said helpful, it's worth all the labels you can throw at me.  I find it encouraging no one but you has responded to me after they had so much to say before I engaged them.  Maybe they're at least thinking about my points.<br />
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Again, you are not even a smoker, yet you would take all this time and effort to protect their "right" to harm others?! Hypocrite is not nearly a strong enough word.]]></description>
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<title>Tired of being exposed to smoke everyday</title>
<description><![CDATA[Why smokers always claim the right to freedom I will never understand.  As a biologist and a cancer researcher, I know full well that smoking doesn't make smokers feel any better, it just makes you feel normal like everyone else be alleviating withdrawal symptoms.  Also, it has been proven that any amount of second hand smoke is hazardous to people’s health, which brings me to my main misunderstanding, why do smokers think that their freedoms out way everyone else’s freedom to life.  There is no possible way for a smoker to contain the smoke to just their body, unlike alcohol, which we allow people to consume as much as they want, because it only hurts that individual if at all.  However, even with alcohol, we don't allow people to drive drunk.  Why, because they can kill other people. To be honest no one really seems to care when a drunk driver kills themselves, but why should other people on the road be killed by a drunk drivers poor decision to drink and drive.  The same logic applies to smoking, and it disgusts me that smokers don't seem to care about anyone else but them for something that does them absolutely no good, again even alcohol has been proven to have at least some positive effects.]]></description>
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<title>You can be good to a fault</title>
<description><![CDATA[You can be good to a fault and hurt other people’s feelings that are trying to be good to you. Remember it feels good to give. Let people feel good; let them give.]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/the-gift-continues/</guid>
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<title>Sex may be fun but it can also be dangerous!</title>
<description><![CDATA[If they don't want to have kids at an early age, they should refrain from sex and just wait until they have a job and are ready!]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/teen-pregnancy-pact-the-perfect-storm/</guid>
<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 12:29:14</pubDate>
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<title>It’s all about money.</title>
<description><![CDATA[Just breathing will give you cancer.  I was not the one who profited from the industry that created this country and polluted our world.  The smoking bans in the country started the same time they had to buy up a whole town in this country and created the word super fund, due to pollution.  It gives the ignorant something to concentrate on besides what is really going on.  No smoking hospitals, and airplanes, and other public places has created a whole new industry called nicotine replacement drugs.  Pharmaceutical companies (some that are owned by tobacco giants) are making a killing here and you folks are so stupid you follow like sheep into the fold.  No smoking hospitals means people who are basically held prisoner due to illness (mental or physical) are forced to use these products which actually increase one's addiction to nicotine in order to survive their stay.  People actually will not seek needed medical treatment because they don't care to be told what to do, or how to do it.  I recall way back when they relegated smokers to a small room down the hall, then to a place on another floor, then, finally outside in the cold, the rain, the heat.  So, now you say no smoking near my house, no smoking IN your house, but don't smoke outside the house either. Don't smoke in your car while driving, don't smoke within 100 feet of any building. But, please do use our Chantix, or our Zyban, or our nicotine replacement which will make you kill someone, or yourself, or hallucinate, or become suicidal depressed and leave a child without a parent.  I bet that child would have preferred you keep smoking.  But you people are so incredibly stupid and blind you can't even see you are just a target of big money interests.  What happened to tolerance?  To caring? No one should tell me what God to worship, what I can eat, what I can read, what I watch on my own TV, or even what I am forced to listen to with all the noise pollution called music now days. Legal enough, it is my choice. Even illegal, it is my choice.  Maybe I choose to go to jail.  I am fighting for my right to choose, whatever I choose. That IS what this country was supposed to be about.  And yes, I have traveled to a lot of other countries and those people laugh at our own stupidity, much like the guy from Australia stated. I would laugh if it weren’t so incredibly sad.  I personally have enough other stuff going on in my life that I have no interest in what you are doing in yours.  What is wrong with the rest of you?  Is your life so empty that you have to live everyone else’s lives?  That one guy stated no one bothered to answer any of his posts because they secretly knew he was right?  No actually, it’s because we all know you are nuts, obsessed and not worth our time. You are so filled with hate you cannot even see what you have become. And yes, I am not a smoker, but I do see exactly how this is like any other form of blind discrimination.  So much hate!  You are blackening your soul with it, not just your lungs! But keep it up, I am sure you feel so darned superior it must be worth it to you.  I personally don't care if anyone smokes, or eats McDonalds, or all the gays get married, or all the Buddhists eat meat, or don't.  I don't have time to worry about any of this.  I am a lot more concerned about whether my 4 year old son gets killed by a drive by shooter, or attacked by a child molester, or is able to get a quality education in our "free" country, or is able to see a doctor when he is sick.  I know he'll never be able to afford a college education in our "free" society. And I worry if the water he is drinking has pollutants no one can see in it that will kill him, and what is in the air here in Virginia that causes the highest asthma rates in the country?  (By the way, nicotine is a natural bronchodilator, and asthma rates increase exponentially with the decrease in smoking. Check that one out!) My child does not have asthma, but I worry that we are going to cause it by living here. But anyway, you guys keep worrying about who is smoking, and forget all this other stuff.  That is exactly what they meant you to do.  In the meantime, I will keep fighting for our right to choose, whatever we choose.]]></description>
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<title>My input</title>
<description><![CDATA[My third child was born with epilepsy diagnosed at 18 months.  I over mothered and over protected him.  The other older two received boundaries and curfews, but my youngest didn't get to stray very far.  When the opportunity presented itself, his boundaries were extended.  This was when I saw that he was fearful of the wider boundaries even though he was about 11 years old.  Now he is 23 and has panic attacks, as well as myself.  I read every article and nobody mentioned kids that have health issues but I can speak to the results of over protection.  He now hates being alone at anytime.  He has many emotional issues and fits a new type of depression called Dependency Disorder (or similar DDS or similar).  Reading about that lead me to this site.  It's too late now, but at least I know how much I was a part of his present turmoil.  I did what I thought I needed to do to keep an eye on him to be sure he was conscious.  I wish I had let him go sooner now.  How sad how some of us have to see it in hindsight!]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/americas-worst-mom/</guid>
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<title>A vet and how he trains his personnel</title>
<description><![CDATA[I think it is a total disgrace to any animal lover when a vet's employee's tell you immediately that it is cash, credit or debit and no exceptions the minute you walk in.   Furthermore, I have witnessed a vet that just drained elderly women out of everything, knowing there was never a chance for their beloved one to ever make it pass a day or two.  They are good at it because they know the love an animal lover has for their beloved pets.   <br />
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Then when a plumber goes to the home of a vet and charges them thousands of dollars, they cry like a burned victim.  I have had poodles since I was a child and I know the love and care they get and what has been charged to me personally some times.  I check out three vets’ prices, and then I can always argue with their outrages prices. How do we stop these vets that price you 300% and don't even blink an eye?<br />]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/mans-best-friend/</guid>
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<title>Medical care</title>
<description><![CDATA[Is it worth it when you or a family member needs medical treatment?  You wouldn’t put a human being to sleep if they needed medical care; why do that to an animal that is totally dependent on you to provide them with what they need.  If you aren't willing to do the same for them as you would do for yourself then you have no business having an animal.]]></description>
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<title>Good stats.. wrong answer</title>
<description><![CDATA[It seems to me that your argument would say that irresponsible parenting is to blame. If a parent takes the proper precautions and teaches their children the proper way to handle guns, then they would avoid these problems. Guns aren’t the problem, the misuse of them is.]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/mothers-with-guns-packing-too-much/</guid>
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<title>LPN</title>
<description><![CDATA[I've never been the kind of person who would just stand around while a person or animal was either hurt or mistreated by others. I have gotten myself into trouble by standing up for the victims of abuse, but I couldn't live with myself if I didn't try to help, that is how I was raised. I really don't understand why some people get off by hurting animals or people; it all makes me feel kind of sick.<br />
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I have been the victim at times, but as it says, the victims aren't always blameless. If you try to give the people enough space, and you don't bring part of the attack onto yourself by being in the wrong place at the wrong time, it may stop the abuser from doing stupid things to you.<br />]]></description>
<guid>http://www.responsibilityproject.com/blog/post/the-new-samaritan-good-or-hesitant/</guid>
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<title>Proud pet owner</title>
<description><![CDATA[Hi fellow pet lovers. I have read most of the articles, and what I think it boils down to is that it is no one’s business but the owner of the pet.  It is a family decision and even that sometimes comes to blows.<br />
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My cat got out of the house at dusk accidently and being a black cat not street wise, she was hit. The wonderful people who hit her, scooped her up and raced her to the emergency vet then came back to canvas the apartment building to find the owner.  I authorized any and all treatment she would need, without a thought to the cost.  She was my baby girl and there was no decision to be made - save her. Turns out she is just fine after an operation and intensive care for four days.  My bill was $2,994.31 and I would do it again if need be.  They are family.  I prefer the company of my pets to that of most people.  They give love unconditionally.  Maybe humans could take some lessons in life from their pets.<br />]]></description>
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