The Seductress Within

Try Speed Dating!

If you have ever wondered what a speed dating event was like but was too nervous or intimidated to try, GO FOR IT! Last night, a group of men and women gathered at a local Starbucks to meet each other for a series of 6 minute mini-dates and I was one ...

Heat Up His Desire–Inflict Pain

The psychological kind, not the S&M kind...(that's another post)! People won't fully appreciate what they have if they are allowed to take it for granted. If you feel you are in a situation where your man is getting too comfortable or taking you for granted, you may need to shake his confidence ...

A Kiss Is NOT Just A Kiss - Part II

In Part I, I talked about the importance of a "connection" with your partner as the basic ingredient for a great kiss. But how do you make a connection? In order to do that the first thing you have to do is forget ‘technique', relax, breathe and desire to experience this ...

A Kiss Is NOT Just A Kiss - Part I

The hot and seductive movie "Bull Durham" has a great quote that comes from Crash Davis (played by Kevin Costner) who says... "Well, I believe in the soul, the cock, the pussy, the small of a woman's back, the hanging curve ball, high fiber, good scotch.... and I believe in long, ...

Who Pays For The Date?

It's a question that is discussed and debated all the time. And there are about as many ways to answer the question of "who pays" as there are people who answer it. We've heard the many opinions...... "Whoever asked for the date pays." "The man pays." "The man pays for the first date, afterwards paying ...

No, It Seems We Can’t Be “Just Friends”

I finally met "Email man" in person. We'd been pen pals for a year and I gave him support and advice as he navigated the first year of his life post divorce. He told me about the women he met, I told him about the men I dated and we ...

Do You Dress for Men….or Other Women?

It was happy hour at a local restaurant the other day when a cute, all American girl walked in and strut past to join a group of gals. She was wearing tight jeans tucked into knee high black high heeled boots, a multicolored knit top that had cap sleeves and was loose around the ...

When Texting is Just Plain Rude

I've mentioned my friend Anne before....her divorce is almost final and a friend wanted to set her up to meet a nice doctor pal of hers. Anne gave this lady permission to pass on her number. Said man, we'll call "No voice Vinnie" texted her one day introducing himself and asked if ...

Skills Every Man Should Have

I've talked a lot about setting your goals and establishing a clear picture of what you want in a man. I found this awhile back and thought it was interesting. The list is very comprehensive. The more things a man can check off of this list shows his experience, bravery, knowledge and ...

“Think” Your Way To Dating Success

I'm reading a motivational book entitled "Lead the Field" by Earl Nightingale. It's a fascinating book laying out a model for success in any area of one's life. In it he teaches a lesson we have all heard before from the self-help community: What you think is what you become. In fact, ...