The Sex-Language

Sexual Pleasure and Health Benefits

2012-01-28T14:35:00.000Z

You already know that sex can improve intimacy between partners, but did you know that it can also improve your health? Numerous studies have shown that sex offers a wide range of health benefits, particularly if you are having it on a regular basis. Read on to find out the specific ways in which engaging in sex can help you live a healthy, happier and longer life.

Sex boosts immunity

We all have that friend or colleague who never gets sick – not even a sniffle. What is their secret? It could be sex! Having sex once or twice a week has been linked with having higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobin A or for short, IgA – that's the stuff that fights off colds and other infections. Deduction: sex = better immune system. Or you could eat an apple a day ... your choice.

Sex de-stresses

Stressed out? You could try yoga, a glass of wine, cry fest on your shrink's couch, or a romp in the sack! That's right, sex is a proven stress reliever. Although your blood pressure may shoot for the roof while in the act of "it", overall, maintaining a healthy sex life results in lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction.

Sex increases heart health

Although having a heart attack while in the act may make for great melodramatic film, the likelihood of it actually happening are slim to none. Sex is actually heart healthy. For men in particular, those who engage in sexual activity two or more times per week reduce their risk of heart attack compared to those who have sex less than once per month. Not that you had to ever convince a guy to do it.

Sex promotes happy sleep cycles

Ever wonder why your man nods off after you’ve just rocked his world?! Well, that’s because of a little chemical called oxytocin released during orgasm. And as annoying as it may be that when you may be ready for a round two when your partner is already deep in dreamland, when it is your time to retire, your sleep cycle will be blissful as this chemical promotes healthier sleep, which is associated with weight and blood pressure maintenance.

Sex is a natural pain killer

Oxytocin, a chemical released during sex increases endorphins and decreases pain, particularly headaches – which means that your old backpocket headache excuse isn't going to cut it anymore. Further, a romp in the sack also accelerates the healing of wounds, even stubborn sores like those suffered by diabetics by regenerating certain cells, so consider sex an excellent prescriptive cure.

Sex can help you shed pounds

Say you have a few pounds to lose but can't bear the thought of abandoning your love affair with nachos and ice cream and you hate the gym, sex could be an option! While it may not be as productive at weight less or muscle tone as more traditional cardio, you will burn 170 calories per hour, which is about a pound after 21 hour-long sessions. I can think of worse ways to get your sweat on!

Sex strengthens your bond

Oxytocin is also known as the "love hormone" because it helps us build trust and bond with one other, so naturally the more sex a couple has the more intimacy will be built. It has also been linked with a feeling of generosity so you can thank oxytocin for that bouquet of flowers or breakfast in bed you recently got.

Sex makes you feel hot!

A core component of GREAT sex is having good self-esteem. And when you have good self-esteem and have sex, your self-esteem is boosted even higher. By allowing yourself to be uniquely and beautifully you, and appreciated for that, you wind up feeling wonderful and confident from the inside out.

Sex lowers prostate cancer risk

Frequent ejaculations, especially in 20-something men, may reduce the risk of prostate cancer later in life, Australian researchers reported in the British Journal of Urology International. When they followed men diagnosed with prostate cancer and those without, they found no association of prostate cancer with the number of sexual partners as the men reached their 30s, 40s, and 50s. However they found men who had five or more ejaculations weekly while in their 20s reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer later by a third.

Another study, reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association, found that frequent ejaculations, 21 or more a month, were linked to lower prostate cancer risk in older men, as well, compared with less frequent ejaculations of four to seven monthly.

Kegels Balls and Disposable Adult Diapers

Kegels strengthen the urinary contraction muscles. In order to perfect kegel technique, find the muscles that prevent you from farting and urinating. These are kegel muscles. Squeeze them and hold it for three seconds. Repeat a few times. Eventually you should be able to do this while standing, sitting or walking. Remember to breathe and work up to three sets of 10 a day. This will help you use fewer disposable adult diapers.

Babe of the Week - 21/08/11

2011-08-21T12:36:00.001+01:00

Is Oral Sex Safe?

2011-06-02T09:00:00.003+01:00

Oral sex is defined as the act of sexual intimacy from mouth to penis (fellatio), mouth to vagina (cunnilingus) or mouth to anus (anilingus). Or in slang terms: a blowjob, going down, giving head or rimming. Although you can't get pregnant from oral sex, you can get an sexually transmissible infection (STI) [3].

There is a commonly held belief among many people that oral sex carries little or no risk. In fact, some consider oral sex a safer sex alternative. But the truth is, like any other sexual activity, oral sex carries a risk of transmitting HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. The risk is even greater in couples where one partner is HIV positive while the other is negative, people who are not monogamous, or in people who inject drugs and/or share needles and syringes [2]. Truth be told, abstaining from oral, anal, and vaginal sex all together is the only effective way to avoid most of the sexually transmitted diseases.
People who are considering having sex should get regular gynecological or male genital examinations. There are two reasons for this. First, these exams give doctors a chance to teach people about STDs and protecting themselves. And second, regular exams give doctors more opportunities to check for STDs while they're still in their earliest, most treatable stage [4].

What are the Risks of Oral Sex?

Risk is classified as either being documented (transmission that has actually occurred, been investigated, and documented in the scientific literature) or theoretical (passing an infection from one person to another is possible). While there is documented risk when having oral sex with an HIV infected partner the risk is much less than with anal or vaginal intercourse. This fact makes it very hard to calculate the actual risk with oral sex. Another factor that makes risk determination difficult is the fact that most people who engage in oral sex also engage in other types of sexual practices, namely vaginal and anal intercourse. Still, there have been document cases of HIV transmission strictly from oral sex [2].

Some of the things that increase a person's chances of getting an STD are [4]:

Sexual activity at a young age. The younger a person starts having sex, the greater his or her chances of becoming infected with an STD.
Lots of sex partners. People who have sexual contact — not just intercourse, but any form of intimate activity — with many different partners are more at risk than those who stay with the same partner.
Unprotected sex. Latex condoms are the only form of birth control that reduce your risk of getting an STD, and must be used every time. Spermicides, diaphragms, and other birth control methods may help prevent pregnancy, but they don't protect a person against STDs.

Before you have oral sex, talk to your partner about sexual history, history of STIs and protection. Communication is essential.

Oral-Penile Contact (fellatio)

Theoretical Risk: With fellatio, there is a theoretical risk of transmission for the receptive partner because infected pre-ejaculate ("pre-cum") fluid or semen can get into the mouth. For the insertive partner there is a theoretical risk of infection because infected blood from a partner's bleeding gums or an open sore could come in contact with a scratch, cut, or sore on the penis.

Documented Risk: Although the risk is many times less than anal or vaginal sex, HIV has been transmitted to receptive partners through fellatio, even in cases when insertive partners didn't ejaculate.

Oral-Vaginal Contact (cunnilingus)

Theoretical Risk: Cunnilingus carries a theoretical risk of HIV transmission for the insertive partner (the person who is licking or sucking the vaginal area) because infected vaginal fluids and blood can get into the mouth. (This includes, but is not limited to, menstrual blood). Likewise, there is a theoretical risk of HIV transmission during cunnilingus for the receptive partner (the person who is having her vagina licked or sucked) if infected blood from oral sores or bleeding gums comes in contact with vulvar or vaginal cuts or sores.

Documented Risk: The risk of HIV transmission during cunnilingus is extremely low compared to vaginal and anal sex. However, there have been a few cases of HIV transmission most likely resulting from oral-vaginal sex.

Oral-Anal Contact (anilingus)

Theoretical Risk: Anilingus carries a theoretical risk of transmission for the person who is licking or sucking the anus if there is exposure to infected blood, either through bloody fecal matter (bodily waste) or cuts/sores in the anal area. Anilingus carries a theoretical risk to the receptive partner (the person who is being licked/sucked) if infected blood in saliva comes in contact with anal/rectal lining.

Documented Risk: There has been one published case of HIV transmission associated with oral-anal sexual contact.
Oral Sex and STDs

What infections can I catch through oral sex?

HIV

Although oral sex is a relatively low-risk activity, particularly when compared to vaginal or anal sex, it is possible to transmit HIV through oral sex. Using latex or polyurethane condoms, female condoms, or dental dams is an effective way to reduce your chances of contracting the virus when engaging in oral sex. If you don't choose to use protection for oral sex, you should know that the risk of HIV transmission increases if the person performing the act has cuts or sores in his/her mouth, if ejaculation takes place in the mouth, and if the individual receiving oral sex has any other sexually transmitted diseases. The risk is primarily for the person performing the oral sex. Unless a partner has significant amounts of blood in his/her mouth, such as from dental surgery, oral sex is unlikely to expose the receptive partner to HIV [1].

Same applies when kissing someone. However there is no risk from closed-mouth kissing, there are extremely rare cases of HIV being transmitted via deep “French” kissing but in each case, infected blood was exchanged due to bleeding gums or sores in the mouth. Because of this remote risk, it is recommended that individuals who are HIV-infected avoid deep, open-mouth “French” kissing with a non-infected partner, as there is a potential risk of transferring infected blood.

How is HIV passed from one person to another?

HIV can be detected in several fluids and tissue of a person living with HIV. It is important to understand however, that finding a small amount of HIV in a body fluid or tissue does not mean that HIV is transmitted by that body fluid or tissue. Only specific fluids (blood, semen, vaginal secretions, breast milk , and fluids surrounding the brain, the spinal cord and bone joints) from an HIV-infected person can transmit HIV. These specific fluids must come in contact with a mucous membrane (e.g. eyes or inside nose) or damaged tissue or be directly injected into the blood-stream (from a needle or syringe) for transmission to possibly occur. It is also possible to acquire HIV through transfusions of infected blood, blood products, or organ transplantation, though this risk is extremely remote due to rigorous testing of the U.S. blood supply and donated organs.

Genital Herpes

Although genital herpes and oral herpes are usually caused by different strains of the herpes virus, HSV-2 and HSV-1 respectively, it is possible for either virus to infect either site. Therefore, it is possible to transmit herpes during oral sex, and the virus can spread from either partner. Herpes is contagious even when symptoms are not present. Even though prophylactic medications, such as Zovirax (acyclovir), can reduce the likelihood of both outbreaks and transmitting the herpes virus to your partner, they can not eliminate the risk entirely. Although they should greatly reduce the risk of herpes transmission, condoms are also not completely effective in preventing transmission of herpes during oral sex, since the virus can spread from skin to skin [1].

HPV

It is possible to spread HPV through oral sex, and it is in fact thought that HPV acquired while performing oral sex is a major risk factor for throat cancer. HPV can also appear in the oral cavity through vertical transmission (transmission from mother to child during birth). As with herpes, it seems likely that the use of condoms or dental dams during oral sex should reduce the risk of infection, but they will not necessarily eliminate it entirely since HPV spreads via skin-to-skin contact [1].

Gonorrhea

In recent years, teenagers with throat infections caused by gonorrhea have often been in the news. Gonorrhea can be transmitted in both directions when oral sex is performed on a man, and throat infections with gonorrhea are notoriously difficult to treat. There is limited research to suggest that it may be possible for someone to acquire a gonorrheal throat infection while performing oral sex on a woman, but transmission in the other direction is relatively unlikely since the site of infection is the cervix -- a part of the female anatomy not reached during cunnilingus. Condoms and dental dams should be extremely effective in preventing transmission of gonorrhea during oral sex [1].

Chlamydia

It is possible to transmit chlamydia during fellatio, and both the recipient and the person performing the act are at risk. There has been little research on whether it is possible to transmit chlamydia during cunnilingus, but infection risk is probably similar to that for gonorrhea [1].

Syphilis

Syphilis is extremely easy to transmit via oral sex. In fact, in some areas of the United States, oral sex has been shown to be responsible for as many as 15% of syphilis cases. Although syphilis can only be transmitted in the presence of symptoms, during the primary and secondary stages of the disease, the painless sores it causes are easy to miss [1].

Hepatitis B

The research is inconclusive as to whether or not hepatitis B can be transmitted via oral sex. Oral-anal contact, however, is definitely a risk factor for hepatitis A infection, and it may also be a risk factor for hepatitis B. Fortunately both hepatitis A and B can be prevented by vaccines. If you practice rimming, you should talk with your doctor about getting vaccinated. Vaccination is a good idea in any case, and the hepatitis B vaccine is currently recommended for all children and many groups of adults [1].

The Bottom Line

In summary, unprotected oral sex puts you at risk for numerous sexually transmitted diseases. If you perform unprotected oral sex on your sexual partners, you should mention it to your physician. She may want to check your throat when she is screening you for other STDs [1].

How to prevent it

Abstinence

Abstinence or the voluntary choice to refrain from sexual activity is the only 100% effective means to prevent HIV and STD transmission. Non-coital (non-sexual) forms of sexual intimacy range from holding hands, hugging, kissing, and dancing to mutual masturbation, petting, and the use of stimulating devices such as vibrators. While abstinence is an effective means of safer sex, it may be difficult to maintain [2].

Dental Dams

Dental dams are rectangular squares of latex that are used during oral sex, both oral-vaginal and oral-anal. During sex, latex dams are stretched across your partner's genitals to prevent your tongue from touching your partner's bodily secretions. They are effective method of disease prevention, but can be difficult to hold in place. A dab of water soluble lubricant placed on the genital side of the dam can help hold it in place [2]. Remember that dental dams can only be used once, so after you are done, throw it away.

Plastic Wrap

A plastic wrap such as Saran or Cling Wrap is inexpensive and can easily be found in any grocery or drug store. Besides that, it covers larger area than a dental dam and can be used with oil- or water-based lubricants. On the other hand, it is usually a weaker barrier.

Female Condom

While data on the effectiveness of the female condom is limited it is a good alternative for a woman whose partner is reluctant to wear a condom or is unable due to a latex allergy. Female condoms allow a woman to assume control over safer sex. Slipping inside the vagina, the female condom provides a lubricated barrier that is stronger than latex. It can be inserted up to eight hours prior to intercourse, providing for the spontaneity that often is lost with latex condoms [2].

Condoms

Latex condoms provide the most effective means of preventing HIV and STD transmission during sexual encounters. But to be effective, condoms must be used correctly. An erect penis can leak seminal fluid prior to ejaculation. This fluid can contain infectious organisms that have the ability to cause infection in others. For this reason, condoms must be applied onto the penis prior to any oral, vaginal, or anal contact is made. In addition, condoms can break, allowing seminal fluids to leak.

References

[1] Boskey Elizabeth, Is Oral Sex Safe Sex?. About.com. July 06, 2009

[2] Cichocki, Mark. About.com Guide. January 10, 2010.

[3] http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/std/oral/. Safer Oral Sex. Last reviewed February 2009

[4] Larissa Hirsch. About Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs). kidshealth.org. June 2010

[5] "Can I get HIV from oral sex? from the CDC. Accessed 2/15/07.

[6] Edwards S. and Carne C."Oral sex and the transmission of viral STIs" Sex. Transm. Inf. 1998;74;6-10.

[7] Edwards S. and Carne C."Oral sex and the transmission of non - viral STIs" Sex. Transm. Inf. 1998;74;95-100.

[8] Kent C.K. et al. "Prevalence of Rectal, Urethral, and Pharyngeal Chlamydia and Gonorrhea Detected in 2 Clinical Settings among Men Who Have Sex with Men: San Francisco, California, 2003" Clin. Infect. Dis. 2005; 41:67–74.

[9] Kreimer A.R. et al. "Oral Human Papillomavirus Infection in Adults Is Associated with Sexual Behavior and HIV Serostatus" J. Infect. Dis. 2004;189:686–98.

[10] Lafferty, W.E. et al. "Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1 as a Cause of Genital Herpes: Impact on Surveillance and Prevention" J. Infect. Dis. 2000; 181:1454–7

[11] Papp J.R. et al. "The use and performance of oral–throat rinses to detect pharyngeal Neisseria gonorrhoeae and Chlamydia trachomatis infections" Diag. Micro. Infect. Dis 2007; 59:259–264.

[12] Petermana T.A. and Furnessa, B.W. "The resurgence of syphilis among men who have sex with men" Curr Opin Infect Dis 20:54–59.

[13] "Transmission of Primary and Secondary Syphilis by Oral Sex --- Chicago, Illinois, 1998-2002" MMWR 53(41):966-968 Accessed 2/17/07.

Babe of the Week - 05/26/11

2011-05-26T08:30:00.001+01:00

What makes women attractive

2010-09-13T18:44:00.005+01:00

Math has solved many a complex equations over the years, and now it can also find you the perfect answer to who might be the best lover for you.

According to anthropologist Barnaby Dixson from New Zealand's Victoria University, personality, breast size or weight don't figure when heterosexual men are sizing up a potential mate. Dixson said "Although men were initially drawn to the woman's cleavage, women with waist-to-hip ratio of 0.7 (the measure of your waist in inches divided by the measure of your hips in inches) were more attractive".

Dixson claims to have reached this conclusion after researching what men found attractive in women across cultures and over time. During his research, a group of volunteers were presented with various pictures of a woman in which her bust, waist and hips had been digitally altered and asked to rate the image for attractiveness. Infra-red cameras tracked their eyes as they looked at the photos.

He also explained that it was likely that the 0.7 ratio sent a biological signal to men that a woman was fertile and likely to produce healthy offspring, no matter what size or body shape that woman had. "It is all about the distribution of fat which is directly linked to fertility." His views chime with German research released last year. The University of Regensburg study found an hourglass figure to be more attractive than even athletic types or long-legged, bigchested 'Barbies'.

Examples of women who could boast of having this iconic ratio include supermodel Kate Moss, and actresses Jessica Alba and Marilyn Monroe.

Source: Beauty summed up: To tell if a woman's really attractive, it's all in the figures. dailymail.co.uk. Retrieved 11-10-2010.

Babe of the Week - 02/09/2010

2010-09-02T10:59:00.003+01:00

Dealing With Sexual Problems

2010-08-20T19:43:00.004+01:00

There is a tendency to think “I’m the only one who has this sexual problem or thought.” In a society were youth and beauty are worshiped, one may also think “young people are great in bed; old people have sexual problems (or no sex at all).” In reality, about 30% of all males and 40% of all females sometimes lack sexual desire, 37% of college students have trouble occasionally getting an erection or getting lubricated, 30% or more of sexually active college women don’t orgasm regularly, 23% of college men ejaculate too soon, and 20% or more of both sexes have doubts about their sexual adequacy (Koch, 1982; Rubenstein, 1983). So our sexually liberated society hasn’t freed us from sexual worries, it may multiply them. But, there’s hope, 75% of the elderly, who are still sexually active, say lovemaking gets better with the years (Starr & Weiner, 1982).

It is no wonder we have sexual problems. Sexual activities by children and young people, even private masturbation, is described negatively and forbidden–even considered a serious sin. It is estimated that 11% of men and 23% of women are sexually molested as children. 22% of women have been forced by a lover to do some sexual act they didn’t want to do. Sexual experimentation may give little pleasure and lots of distress, including rejection, guilt, and unwanted pregnancy. In short, our sex drives are a testimony to our physiology and raging hormones (and to the emphasis on sexual seduction in our entertainment), not to our wholesome child rearing, our enlightened sex education, or to our psychosexual history.

Of course, everyone has heard of the “mid-life crisis.” Sometimes, about age 40, “sexual burnout” occurs. This is when sex with a long-term partner becomes boring, the relationship seems emotionally empty, and both may feel tired and sexually hopeless or inadequate. Barry McCarthy (1982), a psychotherapist, reports that many couples seeking counseling have devoted very little time to improving their sex life or their relationship. Yet, many seeking therapy (80%) have found the time to have affairs, hoping to spice up their sagging sex lives or to stimulate their flagging sexual energy. Also, keep in mind that when a sexually burned out couple gets a divorce, both will frequently go through a torrid love affair with a new lover (so it’s psychological, not physical) and then find that the same sexual problems are gradually reappearing with the second partner (Kolodny, 1983). So, we aren’t just animals operating on instincts either; “our mind is our biggest sex organ.”

If you are interested there are some excellent comprehensive self-help books which address a variety of sexual problems (Masters, Johnson & Kolodny, 1994; Kaplan, 1987; Yaffe & Fenwick, 1988). Margolies (1994) has written for the wives of men with sexual problems. Reinisch (1990), from the Kinsey Institute, tells us a variety of facts we need to know to be sexually informed. Weinrich (1987) sheds research light on several sexual puzzles, including homosexuality. We will briefly survey only the more common sexual problems and how to treat them.

Source: Real Sex Education Facts

References

Kaplan, H. S. (1975, 1987). The illustrated manual of sex therapy. New York: Brunner/Mazel.

Koch, P. B. (1982, March). College students: The concerns they experience in their sex lives. Paper presented at the meeting of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists, New York, NY.

Kolodny, R. C. (1980). Adolescent sexuality. Presented at the Michigan Personnel and Guidance Association Annual Convention in Detroit.

Masters, W. H., Johnson, V. E. & Kolodny, R. C. (1994). Heterosexuality. New York: HarperCollins.

Margolies, E. (1994). Undressing the American male: Men with sexual problems and what you can do to help them. New York: Dutton.

McCarthy, B. (1977). What you (still) don't know about male sexuality. New York: Thomas Y. Crowell Company.

Reinisch, J. M. (1990). The Kinsey Institute new report on sex. New York: St. Martin's Press.

Rubinstein, C. (July, 1983). The modern art of courtly love. Psychology Today, 17, 7, 43-49.

Starr, B. D. & Weiner, M. B. (1982). The Starr-Weiner report on sex and sexuality in the mature years. New York: McGraw-Hill.

Weinrich, J. D. (1987). Sexual landscapes: Why we are what we are, why we love whom we love. New York: Macmillan.

Yaffee, M. & Fenwick, E. (1988). Sexual happiness: A practical approach. New York: Henry Holt & Co.

Babe of the Week - 27/04/2010

2010-04-27T20:40:00.004+01:00

The Male Brain

2010-04-19T20:18:00.000+01:00

The male brain is a lot more like the female brain than you might have guessed. We both have the same brain areas and we make the same hormones. But the size of brain areas and the amount of certain hormones can differ quite a bit. You may not be surprised to hear that the male brain area for sexual pursuit is 2.5 times larger than the one in the female brain. But if you could spend a day experiencing things through "male-colored" glasses, you'd probably be amazed by how men see the world.

Small differences between men and women can make or break a relationship. If you've ever complained that your man doesn't "get" you, it may surprise you to find out that you don't "get" him either. And much as you may want him to be more like your best girlfriend, it's time to let go of that pipe dream and cozy up to the truth. He's different from you, so stop trying to make him act more like you and give him a chance to be himself, you're going to like what you see.

Let's check out some obvious differences:

Cuts You Off When You're Venting With A Solution To Your Problem

The male brain is a lean, mean, problem-solving machine. That's why the man in your life tries to solve your problems instead of listening attentively while you vent. When he's faced with a personal problem, he uses his analytical brain structures, not his emotional ones, to find a solution. And it's frustrating to him when you don't let him try to help this way.

He Had No Clue You Were About To Cry

Forgive him for not understanding why you're crying. He does care. His way of showing he cares is to relieve your suffering by solving your problem. But he can't read your face well enough to see the tears coming. He's not wired for it, so cut him some slack.

He Wants Too Much Sex

He can't stop this desire any more than you can stop wanting to talk and cuddle. Stop thinking that it's weird or perverted for him to want a lot of sex or to want you to heighten his experience with sexy outfits or lingerie. He is much more visually stimulated than you are. You feel like he loves you when he listens to you and wants to spend time with you. He feels like you love him when you have sex with him and enjoy it.

He Looks At Other Women

Take a deep breath and accept that his brain is hard wired to zoom in on female body parts. He really can't help it. His brain and senses get hijacked by "man trance." Looking at a woman's breasts is something his brain will direct him to do his entire life. That doesn't mean he shouldn't learn to be discreet, but it does mean a trip to the lingerie store could spice up your sex life.

He's Too Quick To Anger

Yes, he's quicker than you because your brain has an extra "stomach" for chewing anger that his doesn't have. He goes zero to fist fight in an instant. Don't feed into his angry rants. Yelling back at him or taunting him when he's already angry is like whacking a bee hive with a bat. Men can succumb to something called autocatalytic anger. Break that cycle by refusing to add fuel to the fire. And if you were wrong, admit it and bare your neck a little. His bark is usually worse than his bite.

It's time we stop bashing men for being who they are. Men and women have different brain realities--yours is designed to talk, bond and notice details, his is designed for sensing threats from afar and connecting by having sex. Each brain is like one half of a complete system. The new brain is two brains working together as one.

Sources: Breaking News and Opinion

Roxxy: The Inflatable Doll

2010-01-12T16:46:00.004Z

Roxxxy is the first sex robot, the invention that promises to revolutionize the market of erotic entertainment.

It has 1.73 meters tall, weighs 54 pounds and can change the hair or skin color.
The touch of the skin resembles a woman of flesh and bone and it also has a touch of artificial intelligence.

The sex robot doesn't cook, does not aspire, but it handles everything else, said ironically the creator, Douglas Hines, in the presentation of the prototype, which will go on sale in the U.S. and Europe from next week.

The inflatable doll was designed to please his 'companion', shaping up to their tastes. She knows what you like. If you like Porsches or football, she can talk about them. The Roxxxy can also connect to the Internet (in wireless) to download updates.

The cost of this new toy is between 7000 and 9000 dollars (4855 and 6242 euros), depending on which version you choose

Babe of the Week - 11/26/09

2009-11-26T17:44:00.003Z

Babe of the Week - 11/19/09

2009-11-19T17:38:00.002Z

The Mask

2009-11-17T17:31:00.002Z

I dressed carefully for the party. A masked costume ball sounded like fun, and would allow me to be someone else for the night. I needed to be someone else...

A black leather corset cinched tight around my waist revealed the lightly tanned curves of my ample breasts. My nipples peaked teasingly from their butter-soft confines, already stiffening with thoughts of the evening to come.

A silk skirt rustled against my bottom as I bent over and tied the laces on my knee-high boots, the slit on the side opening to show the length of my leg and the flash of a bare hip. A red and black feathered mask covered my eyes, and a simple black hat completed my costume.

Not a traditional witch, but I hoped I could still cast a spell. He didn't know I was going to be at the ball. He didn't even know I was in town. I hadn't seen him for many years, and he'd made it clear that beyond our flirtatious and teasing email, nothing could, or would, ever happen.

I arrived early, gaining no little attention as I entered the room. I chose a small table, back in a secluded corner, from which I could see the door. I could also see the dance floor, and I wanted to watch, unobserved, as he danced with other ghouls and vampires ... French maids and princesses.

My heart skipped a beat as I saw him come through the door. His simple black mask did nothing to hide his identity ... not from me. Dressed in a leather vest and jeans, soft leather restraints attached to his belt, he was everything I remembered and all that I imagined he would be now. Squirming in my chair, I was already wet with desire.

The music started, a rowdy tune to get the crowd going, but I declined an invitation to join those on the dance floor, wanting to watch for a while as he looked around and chose a partner. He danced twice with a harem girl, but as the music slowed, I saw him cast his eyes around the room, looking for someone different.

His eyes passed me by ... but came back to look once again, and my pulse raced as he approached. Grinning, looking me over from head to toe, he held out his hand. He didn't ask ... he didn't need to, and I too spoke no words as I accepted his invitation.

Hand in his, I trembled as his arm slid around my waist, gently pulling me close. I'd wanted, and waited, so long for his touch that the reality was exquisite torture.

We danced, his lead so strong I had no problem following every step, every turn. Lost in the rhythm of the music, I felt we had been dancing forever. Relaxing in his arms, I let my head rest on his chest, feeling his heart beating strong.

The song ended, but as I turned to go back to my table, he pulled me close once again. This time my arms found their way around his neck, and my almost bare breasts ached as they came into contact with his muscular chest.

His hands slid to my hips, to the small of my back, urging me closer. Oblivious now to all but the sensations aroused in my body, I raised my head, and watched wonderingly as his lips lowered to meet mine.

Hungrily, I met his passion with my own, tasting the sweet wine of his lips, my tongue teasing his. His lips left my mouth, only to brush against my ear, wordlessly seeking those places that made me shiver with delight.

He found the hollow of my neck, the slopes of my breasts, his tongue finally darting at my nipples. Throwing my head back, I ground my hips towards his, feeling his desire hard against my belly.

Still swaying to the music, his hands cupped my buttocks, his mouth claiming a nipple as his own. I reached between us to unbuckle his belt, my fingertips lightly probing and stroking as I opened first one, then two buttons on his jeans.

My eyes sparkling with mischief, I raised a finger, wet with his clear fluid, to my mouth. I watched his reaction as my tongue flicked out for a taste, and was rewarded when he slipped a hand inside the slit of my skirt, caressing my bare bottom and pulling me even closer.

This time when the music stopped, he led me off the dance floor. Bypassing my table, we left through another door. Finding an empty room, he pulled me inside and locked the door.

I knew I should tell him then who I was, but as I opened my mouth to speak the words that would stop him, his lips again found mine. His hand parted my skirt, and I felt the heat of his fingers stroking my thighs, inching closer to my now throbbing clit.

As he touched the hot velvet wetness that betrayed my desire, all thoughts of revealing my identity disappeared. I wanted to feel his skin against mine, my lips on his body, taste his cum in my mouth. I wanted him to fuck me ... and I remained silent.

I unhooked my skirt, letting it fall to the floor, and leading him now I pulled him down beside me on some mats on the floor. Straddling his hips, I wantonly rubbed my pussy against his erection, still partially covered by his jeans. Sliding down his body, I licked his ears, kissed his lips, smelling his sweet scent as I nuzzled his neck.

I gently rolled his nipples between my teeth, hearing him moan as I licked my way down his chest, down his belly. I licked at the tip of his cock, teasing as I finished unbuttoning his jeans. Finally he was in my mouth, groaning as my lips surrounded him, alternately sucking and swirling my tongue.

Suddenly he pushed me away, and before I realized what was happening my wrists were encased in the soft leather cuffs that had been attached to his belt. Strangely, I felt no fear, only anticipation as I watched him finish undressing.

As he positioned my arms above my head, I gazed at him in silent assent. Giving in to the feelings so long dormant inside me, I had no desire to struggle against this man I had wanted for so long.

His fingers working at the ties on my corset, he kissed my eyes ... my lips, and when the last lace was undone I lay completely exposed and vulnerable before him. His lips fell to my breasts, suckling like a hungry child.

His body beside me, his hard cock pressed against my hip, I felt his hand on my waist. Caressing my stomach, trailing his fingers down my thigh, he reached that part of me that still longed for his touch.

His fingertips easily found my erect, swollen clit, and stroking softly, teasingly, he brought me to the edge of climax. Beyond all reason now, silently begging, I raised my hips to meet his hand. As his fingers slid inside me, fucking me in a rhythm to match my own, I felt the sweet contractions that signaled release.

Rolling his body atop mine, with one hand he held my wrists in position, and with the other rubbed his now throbbing erection against my clit. Still in control, he watched as I came again, a slow smile appearing on his face as I drenched him with my moisture.

But as he finally allowed his cock to slip inside me, a sound of passion and desire emerged from his throat, and I knew he was mine. Pumping slowly at first, pulling almost all the way out, soon he was fucking me with an abandon I had only dreamed of. I met each stroke with one of my own, urging him on, deeper and harder. I held back, my pussy contracting again only as I felt him swell, his hot cum spurting deep inside me.

He removed my restraints, and relaxing in his arms, feeling our heartbeats slow, I heard the song that signaled it was midnight, and time to unmask. Knowing this was the only time we would ever be together, tears formed in my eyes as I reached up to remove my disguise.

His hands reached out, gently grasping my wrists once again, stopping me from revealing my identity. He kissed first one palm, then the other, and lips lingering against mine, murmured the only words between us all evening.

"I know."

Story written by Desert Moon

Babe of the Week - 11/12/09

2009-11-12T13:55:00.003Z

Aphrodisiac Foods

2009-11-08T14:20:00.000Z

Are aphrodisiacs a myth or a reality. Do aphrodisiac foods improve your sex drive and stir up hormones. Many articles, books, and guides have been written about how to improve the level of sexual desire, sexual performance and fertility. These publications contain suggestions and exercises, and many recommend certain aphrodisiac foods to stimulate the libido. There are as many viewpoints as there are books. You probably have your own thoughts on the subject.

The interest in aphrodisiac foods began when Aphrodite, the Greek goddess of love, rose from the sea on an oyster and then gave birth to Eros. The first aphrodisiac food was born.

An aphrodisiac food is one that is believed to stimulate the sex drive and increase sexual performance. Aphrodisiac foods have been used as far back as the Romans and the Greeks to increase sexual powers. During those periods, people were concerned about fertility and sexual performance more so than passion itself, so a great amount of time was spent on determining what aphrodisiac foods would help these two separate concerns. These foods are purported to work by lowering inhibitions, stimulating blood flow, and releasing happy hormones. However is important to note that no scientific data can back up any of those claims.

An aphrodisiac food can also be suggestive, rather than cause a physical sexual reaction. In fact, many believe that some aphrodisiac foods increase and stimulate sexual desire and performance by the suggestive nature of the food and the ritual surrounding the food presentation.

Note that aphrodisiac foods are not meant to cure any sexual dysfunctions; they are just supposed to help you to get in the mood. Here are some 100% natural foods for creating some real sizzle for romance.

Alcohol: Lowers inhibitions and increases confidence; however, over-indulgence has a sedative effect not conducive to a romantic tryst.

Almond: Through antiquity, almonds were regarded as fertility symbols. The aroma of almond supposedly arouses passion in females -- or so thought the poets and scribes. The scientists say that almonds provide high doses of vitamin E, magnesium and even fiber. Therefore, there seems to be something in the almond myths after all.

Aniseed: The Greeks and Romans believed that aniseed had special sexual powers. There are many uses for this aphrodisiac food and some people believe that sucking on the seeds will increase your libido.

Arugula: Arugula is also called "rocket seed" and has been documented as an aphrodisiac food as far back as the first century A.D. Arugula was combined with grated orchid bulbs and parsnips. Many salads and pastas contain arugula. Sometimes arugula is combined with pine nuts and pistachios.

Asparagus: An English herbalist from the 17th century, Nicholas Culpepper, wrote that asparagus "stirs up lust in man and woman". In 19th century France, bridegrooms were served three courses of the sexy spears at their prenuptial dinners. Apparently for a good reason: asparagus is a great source of potassium, fiber, vitamin B6, vitamins A and C, and thiamin and folic acid. The latter is said to boost histamine production necessary for the ability to reach orgasm in both sexes.

Avocado: Just by looking at the shape of avocado, you will see the reason why it was associated with sexuality. The Aztecs called the avocado ahuacuatl, or "testicle tree". They thought the fruit hanging in pairs on the tree resembled testicles. The Catholic priests in Spain found this fruit so obscenely sexual that they forbade it. On the other side, avocado is rich with folic acid, vitamin B6 and potassium. They are also said to boost immune system.

Bananas: In spite of the obvious visual shape of the banana its minerals do act as an aphrodisiac. The chelating minerals and an enzyme called "bromelain" stimulate the libido of the human male. Civilizations for thousands of years have believed in the sexual power of bananas. Bananas were first discovered in 327 B.C., by Alexander the Great. Some people cook the banana peel, as it is edible. Most bananas of the world are grown in India. Interestingly enough, latex allergies are connected to allergies in bananas. So if you or your partner is allergic to bananas use a different form of birth control other than those made of latex.

Basil: The basil plant is actually a member of the mint family. It has been used for cooking, holistic treatments and as an aphrodisiac for thousands of years. Botanists believe that basil originated in China and moved west throughout the centuries. Basil was even used to preserve and embalm mummies in Egypt. Scientists have recently discovered the health benefits of basil as it carries antioxidants that aid the human body in many areas. An aphrodisiac is just one benefit of this ancient plant.

Black olives: While green olives work for men, black olives are reported to increase a woman’s sex drive.

Black pepper: The Latin variation of "piper" refers to "energy" and this energy applies to the bedroom as well. Commonly used as a table spice, black pepper originated in India. It was one of the most coveted spices that old world explorers were seeking in their discoveries of new lands. The quest for black pepper and other spices created a need for the exploration of new continents. Pepper was used as currency as its worth was so great during early European times. It also has many medicinal uses that include constipation, diarrhea and insomnia. It has been used in the treatment of tooth decay and eye problems in olden times. It is very rich in Vitamin B and beta-carotene. Black pepper has also been used as an aphrodisiac for thousands of years.

Caviar: Is high in zinc, which stimulates the formation of testosterone, maintaining male functionality.

Celery: This vegetable holds a male hormone called androsterone. Androsterone has the ability to arouse human females sexually. Celery salt and celery seed are spices which are made from this vegetable. It is used as the foundation of sauces in many cooking recipes. California grows most of the celery we eat and dieters believe it takes more energy to digest celery than it has in calories. The ancient Romans believed that it also was an aphrodisiac. They used this vegetable liberally in all forms of their cooking to stimulate sexual arousal. An acre of celery begins with only an ounce of its seeds.

Champagne: Viewed as the "drink of love", moderate quantities lower inhibitions and cause a warm glow in the body.

Chili peppers: "Capsaicin", a chemical that stimulates our nerve endings and raises our pulse, is responsible for the "heat" in chili peppers. This aphrodisiac food is also thought to release endorphins, which give our bodies a natural high.

Chocolate: Who doesn’t know about chocolate as an aphrodisiac food? Pure chocolate contains a host of compounds including anandamide, the psyochoactive feel-good chemical, and PEA (phenylethylamine), the "love chemical", which releases dopamine in the pleasure centers of the brain and peaks during orgasm. PEA is said to help induce feelings of excitement, attraction and euphoria. Cacao also contains tryptophan, a key component of the neurotransmitter serotonin known to promote a sense of well-being and relaxation. It was actually banned from some monasteries centuries ago. There are more antioxidants in chocolate than in red wine. Combining the two can be the secret to passion.

Coffee: Coffee in moderation is a stimulant, but too much causes it to become a depressant. The caffeine in coffee stimulates both mind and body and is sometimes used in preparation for staying up all night.

Figs: This sexy fruit has long been thought of as an arousing stimulant, and an open fig is believed to emulate the female sex organs. Figs are steeped in history and are one of the oldest-recorded fruits. They are mentioned in the Bible (Adam and Eve wore fig leaves to cover their private parts), are reported to be Cleopatra’s favorite fruit, and the ancient Greeks held them as sacred and associated them with love and fertility. Some say that a man opening a fig and eating it in front of his lover can be a powerful aphrodisiac.

Garlic: Another well-known aphrodisiac that dates thousands of years back into ancient times is garlic. Garlic is a member of the onion family and visually this comes as no real surprise. Garlic has been used in cooking and as an ingredient in medicines since before the birth of Christ. China and India are the leading producers of garlic. Some researchers believe that garlic aids in the prevention of heart disease by keeping the vascular walls of the heart free from being clogged. In spite of the strong flavor, garlic also has been considered to be an aid in promoting sexual drive in humans. Suggestion: If both partners consume garlic then one won’t be offended by the potent smell! There are many superstitious associated with garlic and some are recorded in the Bible as scaring away evil. Another superstition is garlic’s supposed ability to ward away vampires.

Ginger: Ginger has been used in cooking for thousands of years. It also originated in China. It is a primary spice used in all forms of food preparation in Asia. Ginger has been found to aid in the treatment of nausea and diarrhea. China is a major producer of this ancient spice. Ginger is used in all kinds of holistic medicines as well. Ginger is also used to increase the sexual libido in both human males and females. Ginger has been used to increase sexual drive for many years before the birth of Christ. Ginger has been reported to increase blood flow to all the right areas helping you to feel in the mood.

Gingko nut: The maidenhair tree produces this special nut. The gingko nut is very popular in China and many fables and stories have been told about its magical qualities. The gingko nut helps the circulation of blood to the rest of the body. Improved circulation helps arouse the libido in both males and females. The gingko nut has been around for almost 300 million years and are considered to be a delicacy in China. They are used in stir fries and stews in China.

Green olives: Green olives are believed to make men more virile.

Honey: Sweet, sticky honey is a great source of boron, a trace mineral that helps the body use and metabolize estrogen, the female sex hormone. Studies have shown that this mineral may also enhance testosterone levels in the blood, the hormone responsible for promoting sex drive and orgasm in both men and women. In addition, honey contains B vitamins needed for testosterone, as well as other nutrients, enzymes and phytochemicals.

Nutmeg: Chinese women believed that nutmeg was an aphrodisiac food and that it increased sexual desire, thereby contributing to procreation during fertility. A hallucinogenic effect can be produced by a large quantity of nutmeg.

Oats: To increase your libido by the time you go to bed, eat oats each day for breakfast. Oats have been proven to stimulate the human libido in both males and females. The common group of oats is from the grass family. The oat family includes rice, whole wheat, rye and barley to name a few. Oats are not only known for lowering cholesterol but also for energizing your sex drive. Grasses which produce what we today call "oats" have been on this planet since 2000 B.C. The top oat producing country is Russia, followed by Canada and the United States. Over 90% of all oats grown feed our farm animals and our cattle. Oats are important in preventing cancer and heart disease as well as depression and opium addiction. The major nutrient source in oats is carbohydrates which provide energy throughout the day and the night! Oats aid stamina and longevity in the human libido. Last longer with oats in your diet!

Peach: Peaches are very high in several minerals as well as Vitamin A. Vitamin A is needed for healthy skin and hair which in itself may create an increased libido in humans. Since skin is the largest organ in humans this may be the connection between desire and the peach. The peach is also high in Vitamin C. But the peach is a wonderful fruit for overall good health. The peach originated in China. The peach tree was thought to be the "tree of life" among ancient Chinese. Chinese brides still today carry its blossom in their bouquets. Alexandra the Great once again discovered this fruit as well and gave it to the Greeks. From this point it worked its way westward. China is still the leading producer of peaches in the world. California grows most of the peaches in the United States.

Pomegranate: The pomegranate with its many seeds has been a symbol of fertility for thousands of years in many ancient cultures. For example in China, the pomegranate stands for wealth and a large, healthy family. The pomegranate was discovered around 100 B.C. making it one of the oldest fruits on the planet. From China it found its way to Italy and then to Spain and England. The Spanish planted the first pomegranate tree in the U.S. Not only was the fruit of the pomegranate used, but also the husk as a kind of leather in ancient Roman times. This marvelous fruit has been used for thousands of years not only as a fruit, but also as a well-known aphrodisiac.

Puffer Fish: Considered both a delicacy and an aphrodisiac in Japan. If the poisonous gland is not properly removed, the tiniest taste is deadly. The flirt with death is said to give a sexual thrill. Not recommended.

Raw oysters: Oysters have been a favourite aphrodisiac food since the time of Aphrodite during the Greek age. Oysters are a rich source of zinc, a mineral required for testosterone production. This male hormone is believed to increase the female libido as well. Oysters are high in protein and very nutritious. Raw oysters are best served with a glass of chilled Champagne for a truly romantic meal.

Raspberries and strawberries: These are perfect aphrodisiac foods to hand feed your lover. They are red, which is the color associated with love and passion, and are high in vitamin C.

Truffles: Probably due to its rarity and musky aroma, it has long been considered to arouse the palate and the body. To sustain his masulinity, an ancient lover in lore was said to have gorged himself to death on Alba truffles during the wedding feast.

Radish: Considered a divine aphrodisiac by Egyptian pharoahs, most likely because its spicy taste stimulated the palate.

Wine: Wine relaxes our inhibitions and stimulates our senses. The actual drinking of wine can be an erotic experience. Moderate amounts of wine are believed to "arouse", but excessive alcohol will make you drowsy.

Again, science doesn’t support the claim but these foods/drinks when consumed moderately can be good for us anyway. So incorporate these naturally organic aphrodisiacs into your life and see if you have an increased libido for more adult activities!

Babe of the Week - 11/05/09

2009-11-05T13:35:00.004Z

Techniques to Make Your Partner Want to Have More Sex With You

2009-11-03T12:24:00.011Z

A relationship is very involved, both on the physical and the intimate levels. One person may feel the need to cuddle (such as your woman) while you on the other hand, don't want to be too close after you are relaxed, and feeling completely satisfied.

What you are going to find is that there are many things that are going to make your partner want to have more sex with you, and sometimes you are going to have to give a little, so you can get a lot more back in return.

Learn how to use your body language in a sexual way. Most men's body language is anything BUT sexual when they are around a woman. More than 90 percent of ALL communication with a woman is NON-VERBAL, which means you have to know how to hold yourself to spark attraction with her.

Never underestimate the power of YOUR eyes. In many polls with women, they will rate a man's eyes as being one of the sexiest features and the thing that REALLY compels them to feel those sexual urges. Men tend to think that it has to be the biceps or the abs, when in reality, knowing how to use your eyes to seduce a woman can be much more POWERFUL.

Think about sex, and tell her you are thinking about sex, even if it is over the phone. What you may not realize is that women are going to think about sex more than you want to realize. A woman is going to think about how you talked to her, how you kissed her, and how you rubbed your whiskers on her cheek the night before. Your partner is going to want to have more sex, the more they are thinking about sex, and the more often you tell her that she is sexy. Make an intimate call. Tell your partner all about what you want to do to her, and how you want to do it, and then let her think about that all day until she gets to see you again.

Spending a few minutes alone, in the dark, as you listen to music. You might find it a little boring, but sometimes all you need to do, to get more sex in your life is feel a little closer, to put the hurried portions of the day behind you and just listen to a little music. Not many couples sit back, relax and just listen to music. Sometimes music is going to be very sexy, putting you or your partner, or both of you in the mood at the same time. Instead of just climbing into bed, and watching the news or the late show, you should turn on a bit of your favorite music and sit close with your partner.

Take a shower before you come and cuddle up close to your partner. Women are often turned on by the smell of cologne, or by the smell of soap. In taking a shower every night before you climb into bed, no matter how tired you are, you are creating a memory in her mind, of the clean smell she loves the most. Use this smell and the need to be close to you for your own advantage, so you can have more sex, more often. Sexual attractions are very strong, and if you are not using your natural abilities to attract your partner, you very well could be losing out on a good bit of good sex.

Baby your partner for a while, stroking, petting and being beside her. Don't be afraid to play around and lick her neck. The worst thing that could happen is you fall asleep in each others arms, and you get a little more sex in the morning when she is refreshed from a good nights sleep - because she will remember what you want and what you felt like when she fell asleep in your arms. You will get more in the morning as she is sleeping well at night.

Don't be passing gas or burping before you climb into bed. You don't want to be the man in front of your partner. She doesn't want to see, hear or smell anything like that; it is not going to be a turn on. If you want to have more sex in your life, and bring your relationship closer as you are more intimate more often, pass on the beans, pass on the garlic, and be sweet smelling, and loveable - she will cuddle right up next to you more often.

Bring her a glass of wine at bedtime, and leave the lights on low. You might not realize it but all she wants is a little time, just five minutes to unwind and your partner will be ready for a little alone time with you. Bring her a glass of wine, tea, or just water as she unwinds and gets ready for bed. You will be thoughtful and insightful and she will remember these small things as you reach over and kiss her. Your partner just loves being the center of attention and this doesn't take much added energy at all on your part so you should give it a try.

Offer her a quick massage, nothing fancy or too long, just a brief rub down. You might not realize it, but the feel of your hands, on her back, and on her chest is going to make a woman feel good. If you want to put more sex into your relationship, you should show your partner a little foreplay, a little extra care. A woman is going to be turned on as you touch the small of her back, the inside of her breast - and why? Because no one ever touches her in those places except for you, and with this touch you are going to excite her more often, showing her that you are intimate and that you want to pleasure her every need. You don't even have to rub her hard, or touch her that long, just the soft gentle touches that show you are close to her will relay the message quite clearly.

Get in the shower with her, and let her see your hard on. She likes to get in the shower and take a good long hot shower, and this is your opportunity to get in on the action. Slide into the shower, and rub her down with the soap. As you lather her up, rub up against her and let her feel how hard you are. You don't have to have sex in the shower, just put her in the mood so she will be turned on and looking for action when she gets out of the shower. You surely already know what cologne is going to drive her crazy, so if you were to shower and put a little on, she is going to get turned on, and want you, even if she doesn't consciously know it. Taking a shower is not only going to freshen you up, but it is going to wake you up and your partner at the same time.

Talk sweetly and quietly so you don't wake the children. The little things you say will get you a long way when it comes to getting more sex. If you tell your partner just how much you love her, how pretty she is, or how much you feel that she is a special part of your day, the better she is going to feel about your relationship. As she feels sexier, she is going to want you more. As she feels happier, she is going to offer herself to you more often. You can get a long way with a partner when you are whispering goodies in her ear, and all without waking the children.

Don't just jump in bed, but slide into bed close to your partner and be next to her. Slide into bed; slide right next to your partner. Jumping into bed, and making a ruckus is going to make your presence known but you are also going to annoy your partner a little more often. You want to be comfortable, and make your partner comfortable, so carefully climb into bed and get close. As you are sitting close with your partner, stroking her skin, and feeling her next to you, both of your are going to be more aroused.

When acting like this, you can bring back a lost love. No matter what type of relationship you are involved in, no matter how far this person may be from you, no matter how difficult or hopeless your situation appears. Here are the secrets that will help you save your relationship and get your ex back.

Based on an article written by Tunde Yisa at EzineArticles.

Babe of the Week - 10/29/09

2009-10-29T20:18:00.003Z

After Bar

2009-10-28T15:10:00.001Z

First published on Short Erotic Stories, by Maggie.

It had been a hell of night. At 5 in the morning after laughing and drinking the night away this after bar party was winding down and there were just a few stragglers left. Maggie was tired and ready to welcome sleep, unfortunately someone was already passed out in her bed. She slipped into the bedroom and grabbed her relatively conservative white satin nightgown to throw on (which consisted of a button down top and flowing drawstring pants). Grabbed her pillow and hit the couch.

Sarah, a sassy brunette who knew Maggie mostly as an aquaintance, was one of the stragglers that decided it would be wise not to drive home and was camping out on the basement couch. Water was calling her name and so she made her way upstairs to the kitchen. She was hoping everyone was passed out because she was only wearing her black cotton panties and a t-shirt and didn't feel like throwing on her jeans. On her way there she noticed Maggie sleeping on the couch. There was faint moonlight casting a glow over her. Maggie was laying on her right side and her white button up satin pyjama top was open just enough to expose her nipple on her right breast. She looked so pretty laying there with the moonlight striking her blond curls and softly lighting up her smooth white skin and her supple breast. Sarah got immediately turned on.

Sarah couldn't help herself. She went over and knelt down by Maggie sleeping on the couch. Sarah tucked the hair that was laying on Maggie's cheek behind her ear. Then slowly ran her fingers down the side of Maggie's face, down the side of her neck, and down between her breasts. Maggie let out a soft sigh and turned onto her back. She was smiling in her sleep. Sarah started to unbutton Maggie's top to reveal the soft milky white breasts and pink nipples that lay underneath. She could see that Maggie was aroused because her nipples were hard and perky. Sarah could feel the rush of sexual excitement tingling between her legs. Sarah ran her fingers over each of Maggie's breasts and this aroused Maggie enough to come out of her sleep. Sarah said "I'm sorry, I just couldn't help myself, you looked so beautiful laying there." Maggie replied "Please, don't stop".

Sarah gently cupped Maggie's breast with her left hand and sucked on her nipple. Her skin tasted so sweet and there was the faint smell of perfume between her breasts. With her right hand Sarah travelled down Maggie's stomach and slid her hand between Maggie's silk pants and her panties. Sarah could feel the wetness coming through Maggie's panties and she gently stroked her pussy. Maggie gasped as Sarah did this and both of them starting breathing more heavily.

Maggie put her hand behind Sarah's head and guided her in for a kiss. Their soft supple lips kissed each other with such passion and their tongues danced inside each others mouths wildly. Maggie grabbed Sarah's t-shirt and pulled it over her head practically ripping it off. Sarah was lost in Maggie's kisses and still kneeling beside her on the couch. She could feel Maggie's fingers moving their way up her inner thighs, pushing her legs slightly apart, and finding their way to her throbbing wet pussy. Maggie pushed Sarah's panties over slightly and started gently but swiftly rubbing her clit. This made Sarah gasp with pleasure. Maggie said "Take off your wet panties, I want to see you, I want to taste you." Sarah stood up and pulled her panties down to her ankles and then stepped out of them. Maggie sat up on the couch and then knelt on the floor in front of Sarah and started to run her hands over Sarah's body. First cupping her breasts and pinching her nipples then running her hands down Sarah's stomach to her inner thighs. Maggie grabbed Sarah's ass and pulled her towards her so she could take her tongue and tease Sarah's clit. Maggie looked up at Sarah as she was licking her pussy, Sarah's eyes were closed and she was moaning with pleasure. The smell of sex was intoxicating and Sarah was so wet it was almost running down her thighs. Maggie gently started to stick a finger in Sarah and started finger fucking her. First with one finger, then two, and then three. Gently at first and then getting harder and faster while still licking her clit. With her other hand Maggie reached into her own wet panties to play with herself. Sarah was so aroused it was hard to keep quiet knowing there were others in the house. Maggie could see Sarah's legs shaking and her thigh muscles pulsing. Soon she could feel the warmth and wetness of Sarah's orgasm on her fingers and running down her arm. Maggie pulled her fingers out of Sarah and twirled her tongue around and in her pussy to get a taste of her sexual excitement. Sarah's thighs were still shaking.

Sarah looked down and realized Maggie was fingering herself. Sarah knelt down in front of Maggie and said "let me finish that for you". She laid Maggie down on the ground and pulled her satin pyjama bottoms off and her soaked panties. She ran her fingers up Maggie's thighs and touched her wet shaved pussy. Sarah pushed her mouth and nose hard into Maggie's wet pink lips tasting her and swirling her tongue inside. Sarah proceeded to suck hard on Maggie's clit making her gasp and immediately arch her back with delight. Sarah pulled her tongue out of Maggie and ran it up Maggie's body swirling it around her belly button and making her way to Maggie's breasts kissing and licking as she went. Sarah pulled on Maggie's nipples with her teeth. Then Sarah spread Maggie's legs open a little farther with her knee. Sarah placed her wet pussy against Maggie's and started rubbing her pelvis against Maggie's stimulating thier clits. Maggie started doing the same and arched her back again with pleasure saying "harder, harder". Sarah could feel Maggie's thighs rumble with pleasure. Suddenly Sarah felt a warm wet burst explode under her and she knew Maggie came. Both girls collapsed next to each other on the floor, breathing heavily and not saying a word. A few moments later Sarah ran her fingers over Maggie's breasts and whispered "that was amazing" and Maggie smiled. Sarah gathered her panties and t-shirt and went to the kitchen to grab a glass of water. Sarah's soft beautiful naked body walked back past Maggie and made her way to the basement couch. Maggie tossed her pyjamas on and made her way back onto the living room couch.

When Maggie got up the next morning the passed out person who was occupying her bed the night before was making a quick cup of coffee. He said "sorry for passing out on your bed and making you sleep on the couch. I hope you weren't too uncomfortable." Maggie said with a big smile on her face "Hey, no problem, anytime". With that Maggie made her way to the basement to see if Sarah was awake yet but she was already gone. Next to the couch was a note that said "I'll have to come back for these" and next to the note was a pair of black cotton panties still rich with the smell of sex.

Babe of the Week - Gemma Atkinson - 10/22/09

2009-10-22T08:33:00.002+01:00

The Life Cycle of a Penis

2009-10-17T07:35:00.001+01:00

It's no secret that a man's sexual function declines with age. As his testosterone level falls, it takes more to arouse him. Once aroused, he takes longer to get an erection and to achieve orgasm and, following orgasm, to become aroused again. Age brings marked declines in semen volume and sperm quality. Erectile dysfunction (ED), or impotence, is clearly linked to advancing years; between the ages of 40 and 70, the percentage of potent men falls from 60% to roughly 30%, studies show ¹.

Men also experience a gradual decline in urinary function. Studies show that a man's urine stream weakens over time, the consequence of weakened bladder muscles and, in many cases, prostate enlargement ².

And that's not all. Recent research confirms what men have long suspected and, in some cases, feared: that the penis itself undergoes significant changes as a man moves from his sexual prime -- around age 30 for most guys -- into middle age and on to his dotage. These changes include:

Appearance

There are two major changes. The head of the penis (glans) gradually loses its purplish color, the result of reduced blood flow. And there is a slow loss of pubic hair. "As testosterone wanes, the penis gradually reverts to its prepubertal, mostly hairless, state", says Irwin Goldstein, MD, director of sexual medicine at Alvarado Hospital in San Diego and editor-in-chief of The Journal of Sexual Medicine ².

Penis Size

Weight gain is common as men grow older. As fat accumulates on the lower abdomen, the apparent size of the penis changes. "A large prepubic fat pad makes the penile shaft look shorter", says Ira Sharlip, MD, clinical professor of urology at the University of California, San Francisco ².

"In some cases, abdominal fat all but buries the penis," says Ronald Tamler, MD, PhD, co-director of the Men's Health Program at Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City. "One way I motivate my overweight patients is by telling them that they can appear to gain up to 2.5 centimeters in size simply by losing weight" ².

In addition to this apparent shrinkage (which is reversible) the penis tends to undergo an actual (and irreversible) reduction in size. The reduction -- in both length and thickness -- typically isn't dramatic but may be noticeable. "If a man's erect penis is 15 centimeters long when he is in his 30s, it might be 13 or 14 centimeters when he reaches his 60s or 70s", says Goldstein ².

What causes the penis to shrink?

At least two mechanisms are involved, experts say. One is the slow deposition of fatty substances (plaques) inside tiny arteries in the penis, which impairs blood flow to the organ. This process, known as atherosclerosis, is the same one that contributes to blockages inside the coronary arteries -- a leading cause of heart attack ².

Goldstein explains that another mechanism involves the gradual buildup of relatively inelastic collagen (scar tissue) within the stretchy fibrous sheath that surrounds the erection chambers. Erections occur when these chambers fill with blood. Blockages within the penile arteries -- and increasingly inelastic chambers -- mean smaller erections ².

Testicles Size

As penis size changes, so do the testicles. "Starting around age 40, the testicles definitely begin to shrink", says Goldstein. The testicles of a 30-year-old man might measure 3 centimeters in diameter, he says; those of a 60-year-old, perhaps only 2 centimeters ².

Curvature

If penile scar tissue accumulates unevenly, the penis can become curved. Men with this disease, known as Peyronie's disease, usually seek medical attention because of painful erections or difficulty with intercourse. Because its cause and development are not well understood, doctors treat the disease empirically; that is, they prescribe and continue methods that seem to help. The goal of therapy is to restore and maintain the ability to have intercourse. Providing education about the disease and its course often is all that is required. No strong evidence shows that any treatment other than surgery is universally effective. Experts usually recommend surgery only in long-term cases in which the disease is stabilized and the deformity prevents intercourse ³.

Sensitivity

Numerous studies have shown that the penis becomes less sensitive over time. This can make it hard to achieve an erection and to have an orgasm. Whether it renders orgasm less pleasurable remains an open question ².

If there's a silver lining to these presumably unwelcome changes, it's this: Experts say these changes need not ruin your erotic life. One recent study involving 2,213 men in Olmstead County, Minn., showed significant declines in erectile function, libido, and ejaculatory function -- but only moderate decreases in sexual satisfaction. "Older men may be less likely to perceive these declines as a problem and be dissatisfied", concluded the study's authors ².

As Goldstein puts it, "The most important ingredient for a satisfying sex life is the ability to satisfy your partner, and that doesn't require peak sexual performance or a big penis. As long as a man's partner enjoys sexual intercourse, he feels like a god" ².

Sources:

Why The Penis Shrinks At Old Age-The Life Cycle of the Penis . nigerianbestforum.com. Retrieved 11-10-2009.
Your Penis and Age: Size, Appearance, and Sexual Function. men.webmd.com. Retrieved 12-10-2009.
Peyronie’s Disease. kidney.niddk.nih.gov. Retrieved 12-10-2009.

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Who Are More Prone to Addiction: Men or Women?

2009-10-11T18:15:00.004+01:00

The battle of the sexes further extends to the issue of addiction. Who is more prone to be addicted into something? Truthfully, it all depends on what type of addiction you are actually talking about.

Recently, researchers found that women were more likely than males to use substances to lose weight, relieve stress, improve their mood, increase confidence, reduce their inhibitions, or decrease boredom. Women are also more easily addicted to drugs, more influenced to abuse drugs, more likely to attempt suicide after drug and contrary to what many of us believe, women are more susceptible to binge drinking than are men, especially when they’re depressed.

Furthermore researchers reported that substance-abusing females were more likely to come from troubled families than substance-abusing males, and that good parent-child relationships were more protective for females than for males with respect to alcohol and drugs ².

On the other hand, there are more men who are addicted to sex and pornography than women. They find cheap thrills in the idea of sex, marriage, and women. However, the degree of their addiction can vary. There are some who only thinks ill of other women or even men, yet they’re not doing anything. Others are trying to give in to their desires by eventually purchasing sex-related materials such as toys and videos. Of course, there are several of them who can no longer resist and thus commit sex-related crimes such as rape and pedophilia. In relation to this, it’s the men who will likely commit adultery in a marriage than women ¹.

There are a number of reasons for this. However it doesn’t mean that if women are more prone to drug and alcohol addiction, there are more of them who are getting hooked. There are still several considerations you have to take. You have to factor in the kind of environment they’re in. No matter if you’re a boy or a girl, if you’re associated with a group that’s into any form of addiction, there’s a huge possibility that you’ll become one, if you don’t receive any form of advice or support from somebody else. Scientists also believe that it has something to do with your genes; hence, addiction can be viewed as hereditary.

Why people develop addictions

There are many reasons why people develop some form of addiction over something. Usually, it all starts because of the physical effects a person can derive from them. For example, drugs can actually alter the rewards pathways of the brain. There’s the tendency that for you to achieve satisfaction you have to constantly introduce these substances into your body. Nicotine is a type of alkaloid you can find in your favorite tobacco or cigarette. This substance can act as a stimulant, making you feel relaxed, euphoric, or very calm and alert. That’s why there are more people who are getting hooked with smoking ¹.

However, the more people get exposed to these elements the more they feel attracted to them. Rather than actually being curious about them or simply doing them for social purposes smoking, drugs, and other kinds of addiction elements become part of their daily lives. They are spending more time, money, and effort on them than on more important things in their lives.

The Brain Disease Called Addiction

A lot of medical experts who are studying about addiction have already categorized addiction as a kind of brain disease. Even with they are faced with so much negative consequences, they still crave for these. They will also start to experience withdrawal symptoms once these elements are not within their reach ¹.

Environment

The kind of environment you’re in will determine your vulnerability of addiction and even what kind of addiction a person will likely experience. For instance, a teen who has friends that drink beer in their spare time may also grow up an alcoholic. The same thing happens if he sees any of his family members drinking excessively. If you are exposed to different kinds of drugs, such as cocaine and ecstasy, which is now very common among clubs today, sooner you will start taking them too ¹.

Genes

We know that testosterone makes men aggressive and muscular, while female hormones turn women into protecting "mothers" but also more vulnerable to addictions. However, a new Yale research shows that it’s not all about hormones; genes too are involved in shaping the sex-related behavior and the females’ proneness to addiction could be linked to genes located in the sex chromosomes.

"This is the first time that any behavior has been associated specifically with sex chromosomes independent of gonadal hormones", the lead author Jennifer Quinn of Yale University told AFP.

Female mammals (including women) are known for long to be more likely than males to get habit-forming behavior, including addiction. Sex-specific hormones, secreted by gonads, explain just partially the difference.

To check this, the research team created two engineered mice variants: one mouse with testicles but female sex chromosomes, and another with ovaries and male sex chromosomes, allowing the assessment of hormones and gene effects separately.

Mutant and normal male and female mice determined on their own which of the three side-by-side openings led to food. Within days, all the mice went directly to the correct door without hesitation.

The mice with XX chromosomes, both normal females, and mutant mice with testicles, learned the drill more rapidly, a first clue that genes could be behind the difference in habit formation between the sexes. After a period of nine days, half of each group was tested with "conditioned taste aversion", three daily injections of lithium chloride following each free meal, in a new location. "The drug makes the animals feel sick, causing them to shy away from food associated with that feeling. If you drink too much creme de menthe, in the future you may want to avoid anything that has a minty flavor. It is something humans experience all the time", said Quinn.

Two days later, the mice were tested to check if they went to the same hole where they found food during the training period. The two types of XX mice went straight to the right opening, while the XY mice acted worse.

The XX chromosome mice got stronger habits, but they were not connected to hormones. To strengthen their finding, the scientists repeated the tests after removing the mice’s gonads.

The test was repeated with a longer training period of 15 days. This time, the XY mice displayed the same level of habit formation as females, pointing to a delicate tuning between rote behavior and goal-oriented action. "The study points in two directions for future research. We think the results may be applicable to addiction and its compulsive nature, but nobody has tested whether there is such a sex difference independent of hormones in a drug habit", said Quinn.

Previous studies revealed that mice became addicted more easily to alcohol than to sugar, and the team will check if females are more prone to this than males. The second interest is for a possible treatment for addiction. "So far, we have established that genes are involved independent of hormones, but we don’t know yet which ones", Quinn said. Chemicals inhibiting those genes "could potentially revert someone from a habitual responder (addict) back to a goal-directed responder", she added.

Sources:

Who Are More Prone to Addiction: Men or Women?. kickaddiction.net. Retrieved 11-10-2009.
Girls are more prone to drug addiction, study finds. ('Gender Matters'). 2003. accessmylibrary.com. Retrieved 11-10-2009.

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What Are You Here For – Poll Results

2009-10-07T18:29:00.002+01:00

Thank you to all our 189 visitors who participated in this poll. These kind of polls are extremely useful because they provide crucial information about our visitors. This information can than help us to improve our website content.

And Now For the Results…

As I mentioned before, there were 189 votes in this poll. Below you can see the results:

81 (42%) Beautiful Naked Girls
31 (16%) Sex Articles/Reviews
31 (16%) Erotic Stories
82 (43%) Sex Videos
36 (19%) Hardcore Porn
42 (22%) It's My First Time Here!

Looking at this data, we can see that 44 (22%) votes were from new visitors. This means that in less than two months, we already have 147 users returning and participating in our blog, which is really great.

Approximately 43% of our visitors are looking for erotic photos and videos. This is not surprising since 73% of our visitors come from porn websites. Furthermore, we can also deduce that more than 50% of our visitor are not looking for what we have in our blog. That may also explain the absence of participation.

Excluding the 19% looking for hardcore porn, we can almost assume that 16% of visitors looking for sex articles/reviews or erotic stories come from search engines (target traffic).

In the near future, we will improve the quality of chosen babes, which we post every Thursday. We want to deliver the best quality since 42% of our visitors will be very happy with this. In what concerns sex videos and hardcore porn, we will post some reviews pointing to the best websites on the web. We must confess we were not expecting so high values for this two items.