So the reason why I’m finally going to talk about the time that Sarah and I dated is because a lot of Asian guys want to date a girl like her and can’t figure out how. If you’re one of them, it’s frustrating, I know, I was there. Anyways, here’s a video where Sarah talks about the time we dated where she talks about what attracted her to me and about Asian guys dating White girls in general.

I had no idea she recorded this until the other day and I thought I might as well share it since she’s obviously okay with talking about it publicly.

Here’s the thing. If you ever ask a girl why she hooked up with a guy, she has her answer but what really matters are real attraction switches behind it.

Sarah liked me because I was tall:

I’m 5ft 9 and a half. The real reason she liked me was because I act and stand tall. In reality, she’s a few inches taller than me, I just act like I’m 6 feet tall, and so can you. Stand proud, head up, back straight, have good posture and be confident. Also, be physically strong. You don’t need to be a body builder, but have some muscle, it makes you look taller if you have wide shoulders.

Sarah liked me because I always had something to talk about:

The truth is, having 10 hours of canned pick up material to talk about is easy. Making a genuine connection and having real conversation is what is hard, but that is what made it real between Sarah and I, and that’s why even though she knew I was a professional Pick Up Instructor, she still dated me. You just need to be spontaneous, interesting, and know how to be a good story teller.

How I “picked her up”

If it wasn’t for all the years studying pick up and all the bootcamps I both attended and taught, maybe I wouldn’t have had the balls to pick up Sarah when I met her. I most likely wouldn’t have had to physical and mental confidence to have gotten her. This is the reason why I still endorse and teach bootcamps. It’s a quick way to get everything you need to man up and have the balls to get the girl of your dreams.

At the time, Sarah was the girl of my dreams. She was a tall, blonde, beautiful, sweet, small town girl. I turned out to be the first Asian guy she ever hooked up with. We’re still friends today, but we’re really different now and maybe it was for the best. If Sarah and I had been together longer, I might have never decided to go travel and find myself. I never would have discovered my new passions, Muay Thai and Scuba diving. And I never would have met the girl I’m with now, who could very well be my true soul mate. Plus Sarah cut off her beautiful long blonde wavy hair which I adored.

Anyways, I’ll be teaching a bootcamp in San Francisco and one in Vancouver this summer. If you want to man up, and get the girl of your dreams. Sign up today.

Vancouver
September 14th – 16th 2012
http://www.eventbrite.com/event/3412718533

San Francisco
September 28th – 30th 2012
http://www.eventbrite.com/event/3412766677

I know a lot of PUAs say, never ever play video games, it will ruin your life. And they are right to a point. If you play 14 hours a day, it will. But here’s the game plan.

Using games as a reward for self improvement:

For me I don’t let myself play games until after I’ve gone to the gym. I bought a custom gaming laptop from Xotic PC and a copy of both Skyrim and Starcraft 2 with me to my Muay Thai Training Camp. I’d wake up early, do a two hour class of either Muay Thai, MMA, or go for a run. I’d come back, eat a quick but healthy meal, and then give myself 3 hours of gaming time. My muscles were recovering with good food, and I wasn’t eating junk while watching TV, or going out spending money.

Incorporating it with your social life:

Instead of going out on dates, I’d invite girls over to my house where I’d cook for them, bake cookies, or I’d just have them meet at my place and we’d go have tea or yogurt close by. While waiting for them at home, I’d just play some games and that way if they’re late or flake, oh well. I don’t stress over it. Just make sure you keep a good calendar, so you are going out meeting new girls at least twice a week and following up within 48 hours of meeting them.

Life, lifestyle, pickup, and enjoying yourself is all about balance, there is no reason why you can’t have it all. Plus Diablo III looks like it’s going to be SICKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKk. I’ve been waiting for over 10 years for this came to come out. Now I just need to decide which character I’m going to be. I used to love the Necromancer so maybe the Witch Doctor, but then again the Monk and Demon Hunter sound sick.

What are your plans when it comes to the release of Diablo III? You playing or skipping out?

-JW

I saw this on JT’s facebook, the article is here: China Disgust on Weibo over Sydney Train Assault

You may also remember the video where a helpless Chinese teenager was beat up by seven others behind school.

But here’s the truly sad part. Did these guys deserve it? Maybe they are pussies for not fighting back. No one wants to hear it. Racism shouldn’t exist in modern day society, we live in a civilized world. We’re better that than, more educated, cultured. But racism exists, and the sad part is, it exists because a lot of it is based on truth. It’s not socially acceptable to say all Chinese guys are pussies and should be fucked with, but a lot of people think this way, and it’s because a lot of Chinese guys act this way.

Part of being a man is being able to defend yourself and your loved ones. If a man doesn’t even attempt to fight back, he is a pussy and deserves no sympathy. It would be a different story if these guys fought back, and were out numbered or the other guys were stronger. But they didn’t even try. And that pisses me off. No wonder this is happening all over the world.

Luckily, the new generation of Asian Americans, the PUAs that want to change and better themselves, are working out, learning how to fight and protect themselves, playing sports, being athletic, and most importantly, standing up for themselves. I’m happy to have found this video.

Ignore the comments on youtube, it’s real, I can tell. In fact, ignore all youtube comments, always. Don’t waste your time arguing online, stop being paper tigers. It’s time to be real men, proud, strong Asian men.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

First, ask yourself, do I really deserve the girl of my dreams right now? There are two types of guys that I meet in the PUA Community. Every guy wants a hot ass girl that is out of their league, but most PUAs really don’t fucking deserve it. Maybe subconsciously they know this so they spend all day searching for the newest pick up tactic, speed seduction routine, NLP phrase, Octoberman Sequence bullshit to trick the girl into getting into bed with him. But what guys don’t realize is that even if you somehow get lucky, you don’t get to keep her. And you’ll be even lonelier when she leaves. If this is you, it’s time to really look yourself in the mirror and stop looking for short cuts.

Stop giving off the creepy vibe: Nine out of ten of these guys give off a creepy vibe which no girl wants. Starting today, stop watching internet porn. It’s fucking up your sense of reality and more importantly, time and patience. Also stop jacking off or thinking sexually about girls you have not been intimate with. If you see a hot girl, do not allow yourself to fantasize about her unless you’ve actually hooked up with her.

The other type of guy, which are the majority of guys that take bootcamps with me, are guys that did everything right. They did what their parents and society told them to do, but they didn’t get the girl still. They went to a good college, got a good job, saved up some money, some even bought a home. Some guys are even in good shape and are funny, kind, generous and interesting. But still they are single. If this is you, good news. From my experience you are just one or two small steps away from getting girls, you just need to figure out what those one or two things are.

Most commonly, guys are not social enough. You’re just not meeting enough girls. Cold approach is a great skill to learn, go out and do it. But as I talk about a lot is stepping up your social circle and then your lifestyle and bring girls to you. Go out once a week and cold approach at a bar or club. PUA Lairs are good for finding local wingmen to do this with. Then go out and build your social circle, have girls in your life, they bring in in more. And when you have opportunities, capitalize on it. Try to kiss a girl every single time you are out at a bar or club, even if it doesn’t happen, you are building up your balls.

As for meeting your soul mate. It takes patience, just make sure you are ready when she appears. You might only have a small window, and fate only opens doors, it doesn’t push you through it. For me personally, I met the girl of my dreams a few months ago and if it wasn’t for all those years building up my confidence to approach random girls, the time I spent in the gym working on my physical attractiveness, and the time I spend in the game that make me comfortable with going for the kiss and moving things sexually. Maybe that opportunity would have passed me by and I wouldn’t be with her today. If you want to be happy, and be with your dream girl. Be ready for her. I’m glad I was.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Upcoming Bootcamps – Just added.

Vancouver
September 14th – 16th 2012

http://www.eventbrite.com/event/3412718533

San Francisco
September 28th – 30th 2012

http://www.eventbrite.com/event/3412766677

Then one day, it all changed and girls had the power. Luckily, we have a second chance, but if we don’t take advantage of this window, it’ll too pass and we’ll regret it. If you had been used to having girlfriends ever since you were young, had your first kiss when you were eight, you would be confident and comfortable around women today. But most of us didn’t, and that’s why we’re here. Trying to play catch up.

The dark years, when it’s most difficult for guys to date is when we are 22 till they are 30. During High School when we’re 13-18 it’s hard as well unless you are part of the cool group. But the first year of college becomes super easy. But when that ends, we’re screwed again. Until you turn 30. This has been the best year of my life and I feel like it’s getting better and better. This is the first year that I really know who I am. What I want in life. What i’m willing, and more importantly, not willing to put up with. And that is very sexy to women.

The moral of the story is to take advantage of whatever age you are. Look back to see all of the missed opportunities and vow to never let another year slip by your again. This is our year to become physically fit, follow our passions, meet the girl of our dreams, and to have her. Claim the world. It’s yours for the taking.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

These are my top qualities/features that attract me to guys, There are some pointers, so take notes :)

1). Confidence: there is nothing sexier than a man who is confident in his own body. A man who is comfortable in his own skin and body makes me much more comfortable being with him. So even if you don’t have the slightest idea what you’re doing, act like you do and hold your head high. I’d rather be with an unattractive man who is secure than a gorgeous guy who is constantly doubting and putting himself down because eventually I’ll start doubting you too.

2). Hands: I have a hand fetish, I’ll admit it! You can tell all about a guy by looking at his hands. If he is fit, his hands will be nicely shaped and muscular; if you’re real lucky you’ll even have those amazingly sexy, subtle veins that tense as you write, type, etc. I love a guy with strong, masculine hands. Also, if a his nails are cut and clean, it tells you a lot about their personal hygiene. So guys, take care of those hands and lotion them every one in awhile!

3). Sense of Humor: I’m big on playing around every once in awhile, so someone who is constantly tense and can’t take a joke will really bang heads with me. A guy’s ego shouldn’t be hurt if I playfully make fun of him (once again, this goes back to confidence) or his car. It’s adorable when a guy can sit around with me all day and just wrestle and joke around.

4). Body: I’m not going to be fake and say that a guy with a six pack and huge dick does not matter to me but I understand perfectly that this ideal man is pretty rare. However, there are small details that I, and I’m sure many girls, also take into account that guys might not be aware of. You don’t have to have defined abs to look fit and sexy. If you workout regularly, your body will be healthy and toned. How does a girl know the difference? We can by the way your muscles flex subtly while heavy lifting and even that tight ass that we grab on to ;) So don’t think that just because you don’t workout 24/7 that your body can’t be sexy, because it can. Freckles, scruff, tattoos, and soft skin are also put into consideration. Girls don’t care about size, they care about how well you use it.

When it comes down to it, girls want a guy that is sexually attractive and has a confident personality. That’s really it, and quite fucking simple. Why guys spend so much time in the pick up world learning useless shit like magic tricks, palm reading, speed seduction, hypnosis, NLP, Octoberman Sequence,”The Cube” and other gimmicks is because guys are looking for a magic bullet, a short cut. Fuck all that. The short cut, is to get in decent physical shape, and to work on your social skills enough that you become confident. That’s it.

You’ll also notice that girls are attracted to random things that you never would have thought of, like a guy’s hands. But when it comes down to it. If you are not that guy mentioned above, don’t worry, you can become him. Start working out and getting into shape, and while doing that, work on your confidence. The way to get socially confident, which allows you to be funny and the center of attention is to stretch your limits and push yourself to talk to strangers, into set, and approach. A good bootcamp, at least the ones I teach, include things that build your confidence like improv practice, opening sets and talking to strangers, becoming sexual, going for the kiss, transitioning to sex, how to be good in bed, proper kino escalation, and how to project confidence non-verbally through body language, positioning, eye contact, and touch. I’ll be teaching my next bootcamp somewhere in the U.S.A. this June. I haven’t picked a city yet, so if you are interested, I may come to your town, leave a comment and let me know where you are from and where you’d want to do it.

Either way, read Amy’s write up again now that I’ve broken it down for you. And seriously take a look at your own pick up journey. Chances are, you are looking for a shortcut. Trust me. There isn’t one. Start changing your life today. The biggest regret you’ll have is letting another 3 years pass without having a girlfriend. Go for it and seize the fucking year.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Anyways so here’s what I learned in the past few months and hopefully you guys can take away something from it as well.

I’ve been with quite a few different girls in my life but I don’t know if I’ve ever really been in love. Even with girls that I was with for over a year and a half I never really loved. But a while back I met a girl that blew my mind. People say when you meet the “right” girl you feel instant chemistry but aside from sexual attraction I never really knew what that was.

But with her, I felt like I truly didn’t give a shit about anyone, or anything else in the world while we were together. It’s like people say, you feel complete. But for me it was more like I felt comfortable, like I could really be me. I could be the silly, dorky, guy that I normally hide under what I try to make as an attractive, alpha male exterior. But what I came to realize is that maybe it was only because I had worked on myself for all of those years that I was finally able to have to confidence to initially talk to this girl, have her be attracted to me, and then be myself.

So for those out there still on the journey. Keep your head up and keep working on yourself and bettering yourself for the right reasons. The only good thing to ever come out from “the game” and being a so called “pick up artist” is that it convinced guys that it is not only possible, but okay to want to improve yourself. Don’t do it to become a famous pick up artist and impress loser guys on forums. Don’t even do it so you can prove to yourself that you are a ladies man, or that you can make up for lost time and get chicks. Improve yourself so you can unlock the confident, attractive man that you are inside, and then gain enough experience so you can be truly comfortable with yourself and then and only then can you be truly comfortable with a girl. It’s cliche, but if you cannot even love yourself, how can you expect any girl to love you?

Steps to Take: I always hated guys that talked about inner-game and being confident and all that shit without telling me as a beginner what steps to take, so here they are.

1. Improve your physical attractiveness while you improve your social skills. It took a long time to become that chubby over weight guy or that lanky skinny guy. It’ll take a few years to change that as well, but the earlier you start working on it the better. Start with the basics, hair cut, shave, contacts, tan, fitting clothes. Then hit the gym. If you’re a skinny, pale Asian guy and get pissed off on why the tall good looking white guys always take your girls, stop getting angry and really look at yourself. Compare what you would look like naked to them and ask yourself who would you rather sleep with. There are some things you can’t change, like height, so accept those and work on the rest. It will make you physically and sexually attractive which is 80% of the game.

2. Work on your social skills and confidence. You need to be able to address a group, approach strangers and start up a conversation if you want to meet desirable women. The best way is to develop a lifestyle where women are around you, such as joining a club, sport, group, or career where there are pretty girls around. I took up scuba diving because I love it, and having pretty girls from all over the world in bikinis arrive on the boat doesn’t hurt either. Join a triathlete team, hiking club, or other outdoors club with women. Or learn the other way and cold-approach. You can do what everyone else does and meet girls at bars and clubs.

3. Don’t be needy or desperate – This is the thing that kills most guys from having a girlfriend. No girl wants a guy that comes off as desperate or trying to get something from them. Girls get offers 100 times a day from guys wanting to sleep with them. Ask your friends that are in relationships how they met. 99% of the time they met through friends, work, or a social gathering such as school or event, and the girl was the one that initiated the sexual attraction. All you have to do is become attractive (not even the hottest guy, just attractive enough), be social enough, put yourself in situations where you meet girls and hang out with them, and then be able to recognize the signs if she is attracted to you, and act on them when she is open to kiss or wants to have sex with you. Girls make the move all the time, but it’s subtle. If you need help building the foundation of your social skills because you never learned it naturally, and you didn’t have a father figure or older brother that taught you these things, the best way to proceed is to take a bootcamp. I firmly believe that the best way to learn any new skill is to take an immersion course with a professional that is paid to teach you. I wasted so much time reading forums, ebooks and trying to do it on my own. Or worse hanging out with wanna be PUAs that was only interested in impressing other guys. I won’t be teaching another bootcamp in the U.S. until the end of June, but if you want some info, just email info@abcsofattraction.com

Good luck in your journey, and let me know how it goes. If the comments still don’t work, you can always add me on facebook at http://www.facebook.com/thejohnnywolf

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

PUA Forums are for losers. I don’t talk about this much, but I haven’t actively visited any internet forum for over 3 years now.

Fast Seduction, RSD Nation, SoSauve.net, Pick Up Artist Forum, PUA Forum, Casanova Crew, and all of the Lair Forums are all largely a waste of time. There are a few good articles written on there, and if you really want to use your time wisely, read the “best of stickys” then delete your account.

All forums are a place for guys to feel like they are a part of something cool and have friends without doing it in real life. Some are there to look for the next big magic bullet, or to impress other guys and build their own reputation. You cannot trust the advice on there since most of it has never been tested and the guy writing it is someone with 976 posts but has never had a girlfriend.

The live meetings however, thrown by your local lair, Casanova Crew, or the new Project: Hollywood are worth attending since you get to meet people in real life. It’s easy for a guy who hides behind his computer to say he is great with women and write lay reports, but meeting a guy in person can tell you a lot about who he is.

So why is Johnny Wolf still a part of the Pick Up Artist Community?

For every 9 wannabe PUAs that I come across, there is 1 guy that I genuinely want to help. Life is fucked up, the nice guy, who has a great education, a good job, is trustworthy, reliable, and good natured, doesn’t get the girl. He ends up being 28 single, never really had a girlfriend, can’t approach girls, and ends up either single, or worst, settling for some girl that he doesn’t even want to be with.

The only reason why I continue to teach bootcamps and don’t just leave the PUA Community entirely is because the students that come to me genuinely want to be better men and need my help. During one of my last bootcamps one of my students wrote this review which you can find here:

http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/reviews-testimonials-f42/bootcamp-review-las-vegas-september-9-2011-t6176.html

“Introduction:
Hi, my name is Chris Pham; I haven’t given myself a PUA name like some people did….yet. I’m 26 years old, and I’m Vietnamese. I have a college degree in Computer Science. And, most importantly, I had little experience with women; basically, I had a bunch of oneitis’s, meaning I got attached to the nearest girl in my social circle. This happened a lot over the years. I’ve had a oneitis with my friend. We we’re friends since high school, but she wasn’t interested, and long story short, after 7 years of friendship, we are no longer friends, sadly. Experiences like these is what drove me into the pickup game.

Why I decided to do the boot camp:
I didn’t decide on my own. My brother-in-law, who I consider to be my flesh-and-blood brother, and is also white haha, signed me up to this boot camp. We actually got interested in the game two years ago when he introduced me to Neil Strauss’s The Game. My brother asked me if I wanted to do it. I said, “Yes”. I don’t know why I agreed, because I’ve always had severe approach anxiety, and every time we talked about approaching girls or going to a boot camp, my heart would start beating fast, and I felt like I would die at that moment. But, that was one side of me, my weaker side; the other side of me was tired of the way things were going with my love life, and I wanted to be able to get with the girl I truly wanted. I also wanted to gain something else, confidence. It wasn’t just my relationship with women that suffered, it was everything else in my life; I was deathly afraid to try new things, such as Salsa dancing or Mixed Martial Arts, because I didn’t think I was good enough, and I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to socialize with those kind of people. I was afraid I was going to be that weird guy. That is why I decided to do this boot camp. I needed this.

About the ABC’s of Attraction structure and classroom education:
Before doing this boot camp, I’ve read “The Game”, and studied material ONLY from Neil Strauss and Mystery, since they were the stars in that book. So, here’s my advice, put everything you know about pickup, and put it aside, because it will only get in the way during the classroom lectures. You can reference them for material later on, but I think you need a clean slate in your mind to make room to establish a new foundation and for new material.

I loved the way the material was organized. Every topic, whether it was openers, number-closing, kiss-closing, or any part of the material, were separated into logical pieces, so that it was easier to analyze and understand. Before the boot camp, I tried a few canned openers, and I understood the general idea behind them, but I wasn’t fully sure how and why they worked. The structure of the material allowed me analyze each piece of a routine, and when I understood how one worked, it was easier for me to create and experiment with my own material. I also like how efficient the ABC’s of Attraction structure is; it seems like everything I learned about pickup has been streamlined to be efficient and effective. Basically, all the routines that had less than a 95 percent success rate have been taken out. I’m pretty sure I have A.D.D., since going to college for my Computer Science degree was pretty tough; I always had trouble grasping topics, but the structure of this material allowed me to grasp the concepts easily.

The classroom lecture was a must. I could read all the material in the world, but there were always some blanks to fill, which I could’ve done by going out and experimenting myself or have the instructors fill in those blanks for me. I prefer the instructors since having someone there who’s been through the same struggles, felt more personal, and through sharing his experiences, helped me get a better grasp on the topics. There are tons of material to go over, and you may not get through it all in those two or three days of the boot camp, but the instructors go over the core fundamentals. They go through each topic in-depth from opening a set to f-closing. In my opinion, you don’t need to go through and learn every single thing. What I needed was to build my foundation in each topic, which I can certainly did in those three days. And, once you build that foundation, then you can go over the extra material. There were also the drills that you had to do for each topicl. I thought this was one of the most important parts of the lecture, and, also, good practice of the material. I am very satisified how the material and lecture was setup.

About your instructor Johnny Wolf, and intern-approach coach Ben J. – Instruction, field work and demoing:
I love Johnny Wolf and Ben J., no homo! Haha! You know what I thought before I met Johnny? Johnny has been teaching for several years now, and he’s taught so many students, so I thought I was just another student to him, at least that’s how it was when I went to school for Computer Science. I was wrong. Johnny cared about me, and he really wanted me to succeed. Ben J. was awesome; he always made sure I kept my head high. They explained everything slowly and clearly. If I had a question about a topic we talked about already, they were happy to answer it. I mentioned previously I have minor ADD, I’m also a slow learner. So, when they lectured, or when I had to practice my material in front of them, I would sometimes forget what I had to say or what I had to do, but they were very patient with me and helped me through it. I appreciated that very much.

There was also some role play we did for everything we learned that day before we went out, where one of them would pretend to be a girl, and I had to run my routines on them. It was pretty amusing, but it was a good warm up, and learning experience. Doing these two or three times actually improved my improv skills. They were pretty accurate in portraying the women in the clubs, since they had so much experience with women.

While on the field, I would go around doing my sets. After every set Johnny and Ben would give me input on what I did wrong and what I needed to do; I lost a lot of sets, which was expected of me, but they reassured me that it was all right, and pushed me to keep going. If I needed a break, I chilled with them for a while to relax, and they were cool with that. It also gave me to time to reevaluate my strategies. That same night, I got two phone numbers from girls I really connected with, and yes, they were very cute. I was happy! I’ve never gotten a girl’s phone number before. All those sets that I lost, I forgot about them; they didn’t matter. Johnny and Ben pushed you, but they’ll only push you so much; you have to do the work. Johnny and Ben are great guys, and I didn’t want to let them down. It was that reason that I barely had approach anxiety; I had some, but it was manageable. I even got to watch them in action. Before the boot camp, I’ve never seen a PUA at work, only on Youtube and other videos. I know Ben is just an intern, but after seeing him in the field, they need to promote him to PUA haha! Johnny and Ben are the real deal. Anyway, I was able to watch and analyze them, and they did exactly what they taught me in the lecture. I knew for sure these tactics worked.

Was it worth the money and would you recommend it to others?:
After looking back at all I’ve done in those three days, then looking at myself and seeing how much I’ve changed since I signed up for the boot camp, this was totally worth it. I definitely recommend this to others who really want to change their lives. I’ll be honest, I wanted to quit before I even went to the boot camp because I was so nervous, and scared. I was so close to calling in and quitting so many times. Then I remember Johnny saying “…it’s easier to quit.”, then I remembered what my social life was like before I signed up. So, I forced myself to keep pushing through, and I’m so happy I stayed with it. This is the first time I felt pain like this, pushed through, and come out the other side. I’m very happy with myself because I now know first hand that you HAVE to experience the pain before you get to the pleasure with whatever goal you are trying to achieve. Pain is nothing compared to the results, and now I have enough confidence to try those activities I’ve been putting off. I know I have some work to do, but my life is already a lot better. I would recommend this to anybody, no matter what social level you are; you can be a person that’s never talked to a girl, held hands with a girl, or never had a girlfriend, sign up for a boot camp. Thanks Johnny and Ben!”

Chris is one of those guys who would make a great boyfriend to a lucky girl. He is smart, kind, educated, has a good job, and would be good to his girlfriend or wife. However, because he is just a nice guy he is not attractive to women. This is why PUA Bootcamps exist, to give the nice guy a chance at love. This is why I teach PUA Bootcamps and tolerate the idiots that leave stupid comments and troll on internet forums.

Best wishes and good luck out there. It’s a crazy world.

Johnny Wolf

Topics Covered:

Balancing: Bettering yourself as a man vs. Bettering your Social Skills
Being Strong, Alpha and Dominant vs. Being a Bitch
Field Report: The beautiful Russian Blonde
What I learned from training Muay Thai and fighting professionally in Thailand
Making a girl feel safe in your company
Real life example of creating a Sexy Stereotype
Simplifying yourself and your persona
Finding your limits and Pushing yourself to your limits
Preparing for something like the Tough Mudder and the Spartan race
Looking back to see how much you’ve actually improved year to year

To Listen you have two options. First is to just click the link, or you can right click and save it to listen to on you ipod. http://www.betterasianman.com/podcast/20111011_bam.mp3

Hope you enjoyed it, sorry about the background noise from us cooking in the background. It’s a bit annoying in the beginning but kind of adds to the realism and casualness after you get used to it. Well, at least that’s our excuse for having a life and getting ready for the girl’s to come over for dinner.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Stephan Bonnar: $68,000 and Martin Kampmann: $58,000 which goes to show that Asian American fans of the UFC are huge. He was even paid more than Dan Henderson and Mauricio Rua. But the real victory for Cung Le and for all the Asian American fans alike was having another Bruce Lee to look up to.

After the fight, Cung Le’s wife Suzanne came into the ring to support and comfort him. I wish we could hear what she was whispering in his ear, but it sounded like she was telling him that everything was okay, that he had a great fight and that she loved him. Cung Le is 39 years old, lives in San Jose, CA and is both an exciting fighter to watch but also an inspiration to Asian American’s everywhere.

Good job Cung, can’t wait to see you fight again.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

He rejects both of them, and the first comes back and says, “You can sleep with both of us tonight if you want.”

I’m there thinking, fucking idiot, go and fuck them. Later I asked why he didn’t and he said it was because they knew some mutual friends and he didn’t want to make it awkward. But realistically aside from him being in great shape and good looking, the reason the girls begged him to fuck was because he wasn’t trying to fuck them.

On the flip side, when a guy goes out specifically to game girls, pick up and f-close. Girls can sense it and it becomes unattractive.

So what do you do? It is ironic that becoming a “PUA”, studying game, and learning how to pick up girls, actually makes you less attractive to girls. Going out to pick up makes you less attractive. It is a fucked up thing. So what do I do? I try to keep balance, just like everything in life. The ying and the yang.

First, learn game so you know what to do when the opportunity arises, then forget about it, or at least put it in the back of your mind. Go out with your friends, have fun without the intention of hooking up, but unlike this guy, when the opportunity does pop up, don’t be a pussy and go for it.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Males

Can you chase a wounded deer through the forest?
(Run a mile in terrain under 8 minutes)

If you had to climb a tree or pull yourself over a fence could you do it?
(Complete 5 good arms extended pullups)

If you killed a 150 pound buck, could you carry it home?
(Squat 185 pounds, power-clean 135 pounds, and overhead press 105 pounds, or if you prefer, snatch 105 pounds)

If you were attacked, could you fight ferociously for 3 minutes?
(Spar/wrestle/grapple for 3 minutes, or complete 3 minutes of high intensity exercise)

If you had to jump across a narrow ravine, could you do it?
(Standing Broad Jump 8 Feet)

If a log fell on you, could you push it off?
(Bench press your weight)

Females

Could you walk with baby in tow for 4 hours?
(Complete a four hour hike with 20lb pack)

Could you fiercely defend yourself for 5 minutes?
(5 minute high intensity cardio circuit)

Could you climb a fence, or climb a tree?
(complete one pullup, or climb up a rope using your legs)

Could you carry 5 gallons of water from a well?
(10 front squats with 25 pound dumbells)

Could you run to safety in an emergency?
(Complete a two mile run in 20 minutes)

Original Source: https://www.onnit.com/category/lifestyle/

Where do you stand in being not even an Alpha male, but just someone we can survive?

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Brian Rose and Nic Gabriel talk real about how getting out of your comfort zone is the hardest and most necessary thing for humans to do, and the essential nature of meditation in their lives.

“The five biggest breakthroughs of your life will come from the five hardest events you’ve been through. Growth requires discomfort.” – Nic

Fast forward to 8:25 where it starts to get really good.

London Real - Episode #1 from Brian Rose on Vimeo.

http://www.londonreal.tv/

The 2011 PUA Summit was held at the legendary Project: Hollywood from the game. I spoke along side the legends such as Tylder Durden from Real Social Dynamics (RSD), the grandpa Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction) as well as new superstars such as Adam Lyons and David Wygant.

My speech this year focused on three important topics:

1. How not to be weird and creepy.
2. How not to be needy and desprate.
3. How to become more Alpha and Dominant.

I also went over a bit about lifestyle game and making yourself a more attractive man. Enjoy and leave a comment.

Picture was taken in front of Project Hollywood with Mehow and his new Ferrari, myself and Vince Kelvin.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

After watching the video, go out and start applying yourself and use it. I want you guys to leave a comment and tell me what you plan on doing starting this week to make your lifestyle more attractive to women. Then I want you guys to keep me updated with your progress, I’m here to help

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

If you want to watch the rest of the Transitioning to Sex series, you an order the full set of the 2009 PUA Summit DVDs at puasummit.com and learn from the 18 other pick up instructors and gurus who all taught at least one kiss close each.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Arash Dibazar could be one of these guys that will become an extremely famous PUA Instructor in the next year or two and I’m happy to introduce you to him first. I wanted to get him to speak at the 2011 PUA Summit but it was way too late to squeeze him in, but you expect him to be there next year. So for now, I made a video interview with Arash, check it out and tell me what you think.

The reason why I think Arash will be good is because he is using game correctly, to build a naturally attractive lifestyle. He basically uses high value social circle game and club promotion game to surround himself with hot girls. But what I like about Arash that really surprised me is that he isn’t a natural, and he is extremely spot on with the traditional indirect Mystery Method as he was a student of Mystery and Matador.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

At the 2011 PUA Summit, MeHow talked about how he just discovered and started using Social Circle Game, which if he had paid attention in 2008, both Adam Lyons and I talked about it already as it was a part of Pickup 3.0. Educate yourself and watch the speech in it’s entirely.

Hope you enjoyed these videos and learned something from it. Why did I bootleg my own product when we sell it at PUASummit.com for $199? I just want to get the word out and get as many people to hear what I have to say as possible. I know each and every one of my speeches at the PUA Summit were good and had gotten better and better over the years and I want everyone to learn from them. 2007 was okay for my first year. But each year after that started blowing people away. Make sure you watch the 2009, 2010 and 2011 videos too as I put them up.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Johnny Wolf’s Notes:

Why I constantly grow, improve and why I may be the best teacher: Because I am the only instructor who for the past 5 years sits in the audience and listens to every single speaker so I can constantly learn and evolve. The speakers that go home early or stand outside and chit chat never learn or grow.

Who here was at last year’s PUA Summit? Watched my video and heard my speech? Who read the 4-hour workweek as recommended? Who actually went out and bettered their lives and made themselves more attractive this year?

Three of the most important things in pickup that for some reason no one teaches.

1. How not to be weird and creepy –
Do guys that are weird and creepy know they are? Delusional confidence?
Two easy ways to make sure you are not weird or creepy.

-one. Have or make two close female friends that are attractive and normal.

-two. Don’t look for shortcuts, tricks, secrets, or seduction tactics. – It’s usually the creepy guys that are the ones not willing to put in real effort to change and just want to seduce girls with tactics.

2. How Not to be Needy and Desperate:
Life’s fucked up paradox: when you start getting girls, more come and are abundant, but when you have none, it’s difficult to get any to start with.

-one. Postpone sexual gratification. Game girls into your social circle and friend zone them. Work on longer term goals.
-two. Stop watching internet porn, it gives guys instant gratification without any work and makes you expect non-realistic things.

3. How to be Powerful, Dominant, Strong, Alpha:
Am I Dominant? Was I dominant a year ago – watch the interview I did with James Marshall at the 2010 PUA Summit.
What was I like 3 years ago? Did I have any tattoos, was I muscular and in shape? Was I a fighter? Watch the free videos on my blog, my 2007 PUA Summit speech and compare that non-dominant version of Johnny Wolf to the one today.

The Perfect Man Point System breakdown: Imagine this is a video game and you get skill points for each category.

Power/Dominance:
Physical Attractiveness:
Primal Sexuality:
Confidence:
Charisma:
Presence:
Humor:
Intelligence:
Spontaneity:

Out of 0/100 points where are you in each. How do you level up?
Adding Muscle: 3 points to Power, Physical Attractiveness, Sexuality, Confidence
Improv Classes: 2 points to Presence, Humor, Spontaneity
Fighting in a Ring: 3 points to Power, Confidence, Presence, and Sexuality.
Studying Pickup: 1 point to Intelligence
Practicing Pickup: 2 points to Charisma, Humor, Spontaneity.
Reading the Sex God Method: 1 to Intelligence, 1 to Sexual
Training for the Tough Mudder: 2 to Physical Attractiveness, Power
Completing the Tough Mudder: 3 to Confidence, Presence, Spontaneity

Videos and breakdown.

By the way, the 2011 PUA Summit was held at the legendary Project: Hollywood from “The Game,” and guys from the Game such as Tyler Durden from Real Social Dynamics and Ross Jeffries all came to speak.

To kick start it off, they are having this year’s PUA Summit at the mansion. This is your chance to tour the house and check it out along with hundreds of other PUAs who have had the same dream as you ever since reading about Mystery and Style living it up in this mansion.

The address to Project: Hollywood is Project: Hollywood 1317 Londonderry Pl. Los Angeles, CA 90069

Rules: Do not just show up uninvited. Vince, Speer, and a few other PUAs will be living here, do not stalk them or show up unannounced. The PUA Summit this year was organized completely by Vince Kelvin and his team. Since I have been out of the country, I am only helping out in name and legacy.

I am actually quite surprised no one has leased out the old Project Hollywood until now. Maybe we all learned a lesson that if Mystery, Style, Tyler Durden, Papa and the rest of the RSD crew couldn’t make it work, how could anyone else? A few years ago Asian Playboy and I decided to lease our own little version of Project: Asian Hollywood as I thought of it, but we called it Forbidden City instead. It was half the size and half the rent, but still was a huge headache. Sure we had some good parties there and girls loved coming by, especially since it was so close to sunset blvd. But would I do it again? Probably not. Best of luck to Vince, Speer and the other PUAs who are moving in there this week.

Would you live in Project: Hollywood if you got the chance? Why or why not?