So .. I took the SF bootcamp with Johnny Wolf (and Garreth Jones and Andrew (showtime) ) this past weekend.
It was one of the best decision I’ve made.

A little about me, I’m 27 year old “average guy”, meaning I’m not very good with women, and definitely scared ass shit to cold approach attractive girls. But in this bootcamp, Johnny, Garreth and Andrew has shown me what’s possible (or I should say doable!) and equipped me with the tools to do it.

I’m not going to bore you with too much details about how the bootcamp is set up. Instead, I’ll tell you things that surprised me.

The first night we went clubbing, within minutes most of us were all over the floor approaching girls, opening sets using techniques and openers we’ve learned earlier during the day. I expected that most of us would fail miserably and leave the place with our tails between our legs. But instead, almost half of us were bringing girls back to our homebase! Unfortunately, I wasn’t one of them. I was having major approach anxiety. I was so scared, but I pushed myself to open a few sets. Nevertheless what I saw opened my eyes!

We just learned the techniques and openers a few hours earlier. So obviously, we were not good at using them. And yet, they worked!

So the second night, I came into the club with a higher energy and confidence in the stuff that Johnny, Andrew and Garreth taught me during the day. I was able to open a few sets and practice my openers, dhv and bt spikes. But I was a C student in this class. The A students, they kiss closed, got numbers and GOT LAID! Yes, two of them got laid in the second night. I’ll let them write their own report on this

Third day, was the most interesting one and the most fun for me. We went to a club in oakland. And it was a black club. (Yes, I said black, and I don’t mean to sound racist, just want to describe my experience as vividly as possible). To be honest, I felt very out of place. Here we are, a group of mostly 10 asian and 2 white guys in an all black club. And our task that night was to open mixed sets and the hardest sets and AMOG other guys. Again, to my surprised, the techniques they taught us to get disarm and get rid of the guys in a mixed sets works!

Now, you can read all these techniques on the internet. They are all there. But some information just cannot be transfered well from reading or watching videos (I’m know this not just from experience, I can point you scientific researches that have proofed it). Pick up is definitely one of them. Before I took the bootcamp, i’ve heard/read almost all the things they taught us from the internet. But I could never apply them with any success.

There are two reason for that. First, you can’t pick up voice tonality, facial expression, and other “emotional” communication from print! Not even from video! You just can’t replace face to face interaction.

Second, without the coaches next to you, nobody is giving you the feedback you need. They tell you what you did right, wrong, or need improvement.

Lastly, what I found very beneficial from the bootcamp is that you went through it with a group of people like yourself. All nine of us become close, and we’re going to help each other to become great PUAs

As I’m writing this post, I’m planning to throw a party in a few weeks with my bootcamp brothers and bring as many girls as we can to the party. It’s going to be awesome! I’ll let you know how it goes

Take the bootcamp. If you found that I’m not telling you the truth, I’ll reimburse you… Yeah right!
No seriously, it’s worth it. If money is the problem, think about it this way: how many times have you gone to a club or bought drinks/dinner/gifts for girls and ended up jerking off at home anyway? Some of you might’ve even gone on vacation to europe/south america/asia, secretly fantasizing that you’d meet someone on the trip and get laid. Am I right or am I right? Now, how many thousand dollars have you wasted doing all those and still not got laid?
I rest my case.

- MrSmith

Originally posted on the ABC’s of Attraction Forums: http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/reviews-testimonials-f42/johnny-wolf-s-life-transformation-sf-bootcamp-review-t5179.html

And from another student, Sam

I am writing this review for the S.F bootcamp by Johhny Wolf, Gareth Jones, and Andrew “Showtime”. First of all, I have to say the 3 day bootcamp was not an easy task, but the experience was totally worth it. The coaches really care about us not just in terms of pick up, but they want us to be successful in life so we can meet the woman of our dreams. Besides being master PUAs, ABCs coaches are the best life coaches I’ve ever had(yes, including my parents or anyone else).

Johnny’s lectures were awesome, he did not need to use notes at all and I could feel everything he said comes from his heart and his enthusiasm for making us better men. Also in the field on day 1, he told me to follow him next to the dance floor, then he said “To pull the dance floor girls, you have to to go in with THIS kind of energy..it’s just one step higher than theirs”. He then Walked of Kahn to the target(HB9.5), with just the RIGHT kind of energy, then pulled the target along with all of her friends, over 10 of them in total to our table for students to practice. Seeing is believing. I know Johnny did not do this to show off because it seemed way too effortless for him, he demonstrated it so we could learn how to do it right.

Gareth is a great life coach, not to discount his pick up skills, he is so smooth that women cannot seem to keep their eyes off him when he talks! While we stepped outside for some fresh air on day 1, he opened a 2 set of HB8s outside the venue and winged me so I could practice my conversation skills (we even switched targets while talking, lol!), and ended up double #-closed them. More importantly, Gareth corrected me many times not only in the field, but even in normal interactions with people. I really appreciate it a lot because I’ve never had family member or friend to correct me on those things. He corrected my body language, and how I should carry myself as well as conversations without being too anxious or interruptive. I’ve grown so much from his criticisms and it also shows how he truly cares about me as a person.

Andrew is a daytime approach coach therefore he is very savvy in creating a lifestyle that attracts quality women (daygame ) . He is a great motivator and helps me see the big picture more clearly. He asked me whether I get into the game for hookups or a relationship which really helps me think about purpose and direction in life. He also suggested what I can do to understand the feminine culture better in this country. Overall he is a very cool guy and I will definitely take a day game workshop with him in the future.

Like Mr.Smith said, on day 3 we happened to game at a all-black club in downtown Oakland and we were the only non-blacks there lol, not to sound racist but the scene was just pretty funny!!….and approaching a tall, HB9+, holding her hand, and whispered in her ear with a confident tone that” I think…you are fucking adorable!” and got her all melted (haha.. from her eyes of course) was definitely the most amazing transformation moment for me from this experience.

Overall, the bootcamp was a big success as we really bonded and root/cheer for each other! Two brothers even got laid on Day 2 and many K-closed. The experiences were simply unforgettable. I learned so much in these three days than I could have done by myself in months or even years. I definitely recommend ABCs to anyone who wants to lead a life of abundance and go for what we deserve in life.

Sam

My next bootcamp will be sometime in 2011! Check back on my blog for details and congratulations to all the students who had huge success this weekend, I’m fucking proud of each and every one of you!

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf
PUA Bootcamp Instructor

Girls had not been picked up, so even the old school lines like “Who Lies More, Men or Women?” Still were fresh there and worked. But I guess pick up and PUA Tactics have sarged out and tainted the world, now no where is safe!

From the Brisbane Times:

You may have heard of the term Pick Up Artist (PUA), which is used to describe guys who are, or try to be, skilled in meeting, attracting and seducing women.

It was popularised by people like Ross Jefferies, David DeAngelo, a guy called Mystery (who’s so mysterious he now has his own website and VH1 TV series) as well as New York Times writer Neil Strauss, who are responsible for the mass of dating literature in the United States.

I’ve read a lot of their stuff and some of it is immensely helpful for guys who are clueless about how to meet and attract women; DeAngelo in particular is quite groundbreaking with some of his theories.

Unfortunately a lot of what he and the others I’ve mentioned first taught has been bastardised by the PUA community and turned into some kind of weirdo science of mantras and lines and techniques making creepy ‘guarantees’ any guy can ‘have’ any woman he wants.

I’ll give you some other names for Pick Up Artist. Dork. Dating nerd …

PUAs teach you techniques that manipulate women, and when all is said and done and the tide of your enthusiasm for this stuff recedes, when the “negs” and the “patterns” and all the other terminology is stripped away, what you’re left with is an empty shell.

That’s why the art of picking up women is called ‘Game’ in the PUA community, because too many of the guys practising its theories are big babies playing at being men.

This is what Strauss, who influenced this culture as much as anybody, had to say about Pick Up Artists in his book The Game: “The community had grown large and reckless; too many competing businesses were teaching the same material. And we had saturated more than just Los Angeles. PUAs in San Diego, Montreal, New York, San Francisco and Toronto had been reporting the same problem lately: They were running out of fresh girls to sarge.”

My colleague Samantha Brett told me she was in New York a couple of Christmases ago and she was hit on by so many guys who tried to run ‘game’ on her.

The problem was she’d heard all the lines before, so she’d flip it around on them and say “Oh, so you’re a Pick Up Artist? Okay. So run your game on me, get my phone number,” and these guys would just crumble because without a script, they were dead.

Rehearsed cues are not what being a man is about, it’s about being able to feel comfortable in your own skin in pretty much any situation you’re put in.

DeAngelo admits as much in one of his newsletters, where he says: “Over the several years that I was learning how to attract women for myself, I tended to focus on ‘techniques’ and ‘tricks’. As I learned more and more about what worked and what didn’t, I began to realize that my ‘Inner Game’ was actually more important than my ‘Outer Game’.”

Inner Game? It’s how you feel about yourself, it’s the little voice that’s going in your head every second of the day. It’s self-esteem, it’s loving yourself and it doesn’t fall out of an e-book or a Fed-Exed package from a dating guru. It’s hard-won but far, far more valuable.

This is not to say that you cannot gain some fascinating insights from people like DeAngelo, and especially his Double Your Dating series.

I would highly recommend it to any man who wants to further his understanding of the way men and women interact. The same goes for much of Erik Von Markovik’s (aka ‘Mystery’) Venusian Arts Handbook.

Both these resources are crammed with compelling information - just be aware that is at times useful and in other instances, needlessly confusing.

Over the last couple of years, I’ve started to see self-proclaimed PUA ‘gurus’ pop up in Australia - dating nerds who spout the same ideas and concepts as DeAngelo and co. - which I have no problem with as long as they’re honest about what they do.

The truth is there is no one idea or concept or ‘line’ that is going to improve your interactions with women.

If you’re serious about transforming that part of your life, yes, educate yourself, but put your own spin on it, make it part of you rather than becoming part of it, otherwise you risk becoming just another robot parroting lines and routines.

Be cautious of claims made by some dating gurus that you can “place beautiful women under your spell”: aside from being a little creepy, I believe statements of this sort just create anxiety in guys looking for solid advice.

Men wonder what they’re doing wrong because they’re not dating Vogue-covermodel-aerobics-instructors-with-law-degrees and it blinkers them to the opportunities that are right in front of them.

Yes, there are fabulously wealthy, ambitious, “perfect ten” women out there in the world who can chat about literature and science and current affairs but they’re more than likely not going to be at your local pub or club or supermarket - and what’s more - most guys couldn’t be blagged being with that sort of woman.

As Strauss says in his book: “They were automatons. The troops would be sent to the Sunset Strip nightly to do battle - armed with my clothes, my stories, my mannerisms - it was time to leave the community behind. Real life beckoned.”

“We were all searching outside ourselves for our missing pieces and we were all looking in the wrong direction. Instead of finding ourselves, we’d lost our sense of self…. Mystery didn’t have the answers. A blonde “10″ didn’t have the answers. The answers were to be found within.”

When you read a book that’s printed out, you actually take the time to internalize the teachings. The easiest way to get your books printed and bound, is to send it through staples.com and pick it up the next day in store. At about $10 per book to be printed and bound it was well worth it in my opinion because I would get 2x the value than if I tried to read it on my computer or laptop.

A few months ago I bought a Kindle 2 and loved it. I could put all of my eBooks on it and read it just like I would a paperback book. Hint: Use the program MobiPocket Creator to change your PDFs to kindle formated books for easier reading.

Here is a list of 100 free kindle books that you can download: Amazon Best Sellers List

I just bought the new Kindle 3 which is awesome because it now is small enough to fit in my pocket and has Wi-Fi for when I travel outside of the U.S. The best part is that it’s only $139.

The cool things about the kindle is that it’s a much much cheaper alternative to having a $800 iPad and the battery life lasts for 1 month without charging. Also the eInk screen is easy on your eyes just like a paper backbook would be. You can use it to surf the web, check your email, and it’s perfect for reading those eBooks, especially the ones you downloaded for free.

Enjoy your kindle guys! I can’t wait till my new Kindle 3 arrives in the mail.

First, I’ll explain what the Secret Kino Spot is, then I’ll tell you where the Real Secret Kino Spot is.

Imagine there is another green dot on the other side. The secret kino spot is not the back dimples as some people think, it’s on the sides of the hips. Supposedly you can rub them while dancing with a girl to turn her on. This is unproven however, it might work, you might as well try it for yourself. Massaging a girl always works to build sexual comfort and to turn her on.

The Real Secret Kino Spot according to Johnny Wolf

This one is proven, as I’ve done it with enough girls to know that it works. I’ve also asked them after we’ve had sex how it feels when I rub them there and they love the feeling and says it makes them horny.

It’s not quite her pussy, so you get as much LMR (Last Minute Resistance) from rubbing her Real Secret Kino Spot as you would if you tried rubbing her pussy or her clit, which works much better if you can get that far. So if you don’t want to take the big jump to get her pants off and rub her clit, you can instead, keep her clothes on and rub her Real Secret Kino Spot, the Wolf Spot as I like to call it or even just firms press down on the spot with your thumbs which I do while I’m kissing her.

The Wolf-Spot Kiss using the Secret Kino Spot:

While holding a girl by her hips and kissing her, I place my thumbs on her two wolf spots, and as the kiss gets more passionate I gently start adding pressure and pushing down on the two points while we kiss. This turns her on and sends shivers down to her pussy while you kiss her.

The Wolf-Spot Massage:

I actually learned this technique while getting massages in Thailand. Some of the girls there will try to test to see if you want a happy ending by pushing on your wolf-spots to see if you get a hard on. They do this so they don’t offend you by touching your dick if you’re not into it. It’s a sneaky tactic that you can use on girls. When I give girls massages, I will massage their back, their legs, and then have them flip over to massage their arms and their thighs. Then I will locate their wolf spot, lean down and start applying pressure slowly. The trick is, the slower you press down the better it feels and the deeper it can go. But you MUST release twice as slow as you originally pressed for it to work.

Self-Practice locating the Wolf Spot:

You can practice on yourself to find where the wolf-spot is. Take your thumbs and feel for the spot about one and a half inches down from where your stomach fold ends,near the “V” shaped mound of soft flesh above your penis. Slowly rub around until you think you found it, and then slowly push down on it. Make sure you push VERY slowly, and release TWICE as SLOW as you pressed down.

You should feel a tingly sensation where if you need to pee, will make you want to pee even more. The deeper you push down, the more the sensation will be, and you will continue to feel it down there for a few minutes after you release.

Good luck with this, it has gotten me laid more than a few times.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf
www.TheSocialSecrets.com

We thought that somehow by getting a dog those problems would go away. So the night before I met Mystery, we drove up to the valley to adopt a dog off of an ad we saw on craigslist. I wanted a pitbull, boxer or something else big and mean, but Asian Playboy convinced us to get a chihuahua thinking it would be easier to take care of and would attract more girls. We proceeded to name her Blondie, and later we found out her name and the stereotype fit her personality perfectly.

Here’s a photo of blondie on Asian Playboy’s bed.

So there I was, walking up to Mystery’s Apartment, meeting the man who changed my life for the first time. The Venusian Arts crew had moved to an apartment complex a few blocks south of the old Project Hollywood and this time they each had their own space. They had rented a total of four apartments all in the same complex, one to be used as an office for Blitz their marketing guy. Matador and the winner of season 1’s the pick up artist, Kosmo shared another apartment, and Mystery had his own place, although when I was there, his sister was staying with him. It seems that just like in the game, his sister is always there in his time of need.

I was a little bit nervous to be honest. This was my big chance to make a good impression. I had seen Mystery out at clubs a few times in Hollywood, but he was always surrounded by a hundred guys and girls, and I didn’t want to seem like another AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) walking up to him. I think the only time I ever even interacted with him was at a club in Hollywood where I basically handed him and Matador two girls I was with. Supplication is terrible when you see a hot girl and think you need to offer gifts or buy her a drink for her attention, but it seemed to make Mystery and his crew happy.

This is me at that same hollywood club where I first met Mystery and Matador.

So there I was, walking up to his front door, buzzing myself in. “Umm, hello, hey, this is Johnny Wolf, I’m here to present you the award for the best pick up artist of the year for the PUA Summit”

It turns out that Mystery really does love to feed his ego, and even though he was going to be out of town for the 2009 PUA Summit he still wanted the attention. So part of the deal was for me to come over, film his acceptance speech and play it at the PUA Summit for everyone to see. The funny thing was, he also wanted me to record the audiences reaction to the speech to see their reaction.

Here I am interviewing Mystery after giving him the Pick Up Artist of the Year Award for the PUA Summit 2009

So there I am, going through one of the greatest moments of my life, meeting the one true idol I’ve ever worshiped. I’ve never had posters of movie stars or sports stars hanging up in my room as a kid, but with Mystery, I was that guy. I had tried to dress like him, pick up girls like him, and basically be him. And there I was, finally able to meet Mystery in real life.

VH1’s The Pick Up Artist Season 1

Then my phone starts ringing…….I end the call and immediately they call back, over and over. They call me at least thirty times during my interview with Mystery. I had no idea who it was, but it was pissing me off. Why I didn’t just take out my battery, I don’t know. But I wonder if Mystery noticed my phone blowing up…maybe it was a stalker? I guess I could have played it off like girls are on my nuts 24/7 but I just casually pressed end call and didn’t mention it. Mystery takes me over to Matador’s apartment, where I see Kosmo and Matador both sitting half naked watching TV. What is a bigger shocker is that Kosmo is wearing his Pick Up Artist Winner necklace around his neck. He had no idea I was coming over, so I started to wonder if he just wears that every where, even around the house.

My phone continues to ring, and finally it gets to me enough for me to pick it up.

Johnny Wolf: “Hello, I was in a meeting, who is this?”
Delusional Psychopath: “Where the fuck is my cat? YOU STOLE MY CAT”
Johnny Wolf: “What the hell are you talking about? Why would I steal your cat?”
Delusional Psychopath: “I saw you playing with my cat last night when you came over to get Blondie, I gave you my dog, and you had to steal my cat as well?”
Johnny Wolf: Dude, I was playing with your little girl as well, I didn’t steal her did I? (thinking back, that wasn’t the best way to calm someone down)
Delusional Psychopath: “GIVE ME BACK MY FUCKING CAT! MY LITTLE GIRL HAS BEEN CRYING ALL NIGHT, just bring the cat back or I’m calling the cops!”

A few hours later, I get an email from the guy apologizing. Turns out, the cat had ran away and came back by itself the next day.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

In 2008 we started scouting from new talent and speakers that no one in the PUA Community heard of but I had a feeling they would become a huge asset to the game. We were the first ones in the U.S. to introduce Adam Lyons, who is now voted the #1 Pick Up Artist in the world, and we were the first ones in the world to bring you guys like David Wygant, who used to charge $10,000 for private bootcamps. In 2009 we brought DJ Fuji who I think is the next big thing. Best of all, we practically force each speaker to give you their best and newest secrets on pickup before anyone ever posts it on the internet.

This year at the 2010 PUA Summit -

We are going even crazier and bringing you even more speakers, sharing more secrets, and bringing you one of the Legends from Neil Strauss’ “The Game” as a Mystery speaker. I wish we could announce his name now, but for legal reasons we can’t advertise his name prior to the summit. But trust me, he is one the main characters from Project: Hollywood.

Here’s a video from the 2009 PUA Summit:

2008 PUA Summit:

2007 PUA Summit:

Get your tickets now for the 2010 PUA Summit in Hollywood and get a RIDICULOUS Early bird Discount. Guys fly in from all around the world to attend the Super Bowl / World Cup of Pick Up. If you live anywhere in the U.S. or Canada, you have no excuse to miss out.

Here is the Line Up for 2010 So Far:

* Badboy & Marrius * Hypnotica * Adam Lyons * Mehow * Vince Kelvin * Speer * David Wygant * Brad P. * Mystery Speaker from “The Game” by Neil Strauss * James Marshall from Australia* Bravo from Style Life * Nick Quick AKA Adonis * Johnny Wolf * DJ Fuji * Inner Confidence * Bonsai & Dubbsy of Love Systems, AND ONE MORE top surprise guest to be revealed soon!

Plus All Star Panels with:

* Hristiyan * Kino 5000 * Artisan * Grandma * Gareth Jones * Ratisse * Blue * Decibel * Micheal Hurst * Brother James * Technoslaughter * Hydro *
Dr. Dennis W. Neder * And more…

All Female Panel with:

* Marni from The Wing Girl Method * Kezia Noble from PUA Training * Erika Awakening * Alexandra Docter * Plus fashion and make-over experts!

Europe Panel with:

* Orlando Owen * Darius “Demiocrates” Kamadeva * Satisfaction * BlazTer Dutch Attraction * Neil Natura And more!

http://www.PUASummit.com

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

UK guy: “Man, everyone thinks it’s so bloody easy to get laid while traveling, but it’s not.”

Sitting in that chair, I thought about what he had said, and realized how spot on he was. While traveling, it seems like there are so many more opportunities to get laid. There are young backpacking girls everywhere, often you are sharing a dorm room with a bunch of girls. Girls are in bikinis, drinking, and away from their parents and friends.

And the best thing is, you can approach any girl by using the tried and true chat up line, “Hi, where are you from” and continue the conversation with “How long are you traveling for, where are you going next, etc etc”

HOWEVER, the reason why it’s more difficult to get laid. And I took a survey of 20 guys I met in the past few weeks on how many of them actually hooked up and had sex girls girls during this trip, it turned out that most guys made out or even fingered a girl or two during their 3 or so weeks of traveling, but only a few of them actually had sex.

Back home, in San Francisco, Los Angeles, New York, London, where ever, it’s harder to approach girls, and harder to meet people your own age that have freedom to have fun. Opening is more difficult as it’s not always a social situation, and rejection is more often harsher. But I’ve discovered that there is a direct correlation between how difficult it is to open sets and how easy it is to close them, aka get laid.

Examples: In dorms where you meet up to 20 girls per night, most guys don’t get laid. But on the street while doing cold approaches, you might only meet one or two girls, but your chances of hooking up become a lot greater.

In Los Angeles, it was difficult to cold approach especially during the day, but whenever I did, I had huge success from it.

When approaching a group of 8 guys and 1 girl, it was more difficult than approaching 4 girls by themselves, but I’ve gotten laid more from mixed sets that I ever have from all girl or solo girl sets.

Lesson Learned:

Approach the easy sets for practice opening, but if you want to actually get laid, or get a girlfriend, don’t take the easy way out. You will have more success showing your balls and putting them on the line.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

¨Do you know what your drink says about you?¨

Background- My homegirl read this article somewhere and told me that your drinksays a lot about the type of personality you have, and how you´re feeling at the moment.

For example, your drink says this….

Bottle of Beer - You are very down to earth.

Martini - Very sophisicated

Mixed Drink- Examples, Vodka OJ, Rum and Coke, etc. You are very fun, out going and want to have a lively night.

Wine- Very Classy

Champage- In the mood to celebrate, what are you celebrating?

Pina Colada or any frozen daqcuri - You want to be on vacation somewhere tropical.

The move on away from the opener to a photo routine where you sit down with her on a couch and show her photos of your cool adventures, or use the Johnny Wolf Buddy System which you can read about on my blog, which I have been using recently with great success.

Enjoy and good luck.

JohnnyWolf

Last week after testing out my no english spoken makeouts, I decided to try the same techniques with girls from different countries to see what would happen. This time, I abandoned my zero english rule since trying to think of things to say in Spanish was giving me a headache.

The first girl was from Perth, Australia.

A - Approach and Attract

I was hanging out with this tall, good looking guy from Australia that I met on the bus while traveling. During happy hour we sat down at a table with another guy and a tall white girl from Perth. Instead of jumping right in with DHV stories, and answering the same basic questions: What do you do, where are you from, etc etc. I decided to just be polite, and ignore her.

B - Buying Temperature and Being in the Moment

I realized that part of being in the moment is allowing things to happen naturally. Sometimes timing wont be good and you might lose the girl, but when it does happen, it will be much easier than if it was forced. I waited until my friend got up to use the bathroom and she asked me a question. Since it was a bit loud, I sat next to her to continue the coversation.

C - Comfort, Compliance, and Connection

Since we met through a friend, there was built in comfort. I asked her if she wanted to split a large beer in two glasses instead of ordering two small ones, and instantly we had both connection and compliance. It was like we were on a date since we were drinking buddies.

The Magic of Drinking Buddies - Because of this one simple move, which was originally intended to save a couple dollars, all the sudden everyone in the bar considered us a couple, or at least thought we were. The two other guys in the table ended up leaving us since we still had half a bottle left and they were hungry, and no one else tried to join our conversation or table since they thought we were together. It also made her subconciously associate me and our night with what she does with a boyfriend.

Venue Bounce: Instead of staying there all night, I suggested we move to a different bar, a night rooftop terrance that had $15 bottles of wine to share. She complied and we were instantly a couple or at least acting like one on our couch with our $3 glasses of wine.

D - With everything else in place, I started lightly kinoing her, and testing to see if she wanted to hold hands by grabbing her hand, squeezing, and seeing if she let go. The second stage after hand holding was leaning in to talk slowly and softly to her ear, testing her comfort with my face and lips being so close to hers. The third step was to do the same thing but look in her eyes as I got closer, this warranted a kiss and ended up in an all night make out.

E - With the Australian girl, I messed up, I broke the first rule of a successful pick up - Logistics. I was staying in a shared dorm and had no where to bring her back to . She was also in a shared dorm as well, so I took my chances and pulled her into the bathroom at the bar.

We started making out heavily, took off our shirts, I was playing with her tits, and she told me she wanted me to fuck her. Then all the sudden, a series of loud knocks pounded on the door and I hear the security yell ONE PERSON PER BATHROOM in Spanish.

UNA PERSONAS!!!!

It ended up freaking her out and killing the mood for the rest of the night, especially since it took us a few minutes to put our clothes back on, and the guy wouldnt stop knocking and screaming while we tried.

The girl from Paris:

Since everything up to the end worked so well with the aussie chick, I decided to try it the next night. This girl was from Paris, France.

I met her on the street, a cold approach by asking her if she was in Spanish School. I was wearing a backpack so it fit. Instead of taking her to happy hour to split a litre of beer, we went to a cafe and split a dessert. It was a delicious fudge brownie with vanilla ice cream, and it got me the exact same results, well call it the Magic of Dessert Buddies.

To test compliance, I bounced her to a hookah lounge, where ironically we didnt drink or smoke hookah, we just made out all night.

The Latina:

On the third night, I replicated the same buddy sharing system but inviting a Latina girl to split some chocolate with me. The funny thing was we walked through a park to a shop and ended up splitting a Twix bar since they had nothing better. Bounced her to the park where we walked around, sat on the edge of a fountain and using the same damn technique ended up making out with her for most of the night.

The Canadian:

The funny thing was, I didnt even realize I was trying to game, it just happened four nights in a row. I think its just that the city of Antigua, Guatemala and its romantic ruins, fountains, and arches made me feel a bit romantic, or it was the fact that I was bored to hell during the day sitting through spanish class and wanted to unwind at night.

But in either case, on the fourth night, I met a Canadian girl from school and used the buddy system to share a large beer with her, then bounced her to the bar across the street where it was ladies night and girls got rum and cokes for $1. I told her to go get us two drinks, found a couch, and there it was, the hand squeeze, lean in to talk over the loud music, and the make out.

Using the Buddy System yourself:

Things you need, first approach a girl, anyway you want, then get her to be your buddy and split something with you. I imagine most things would work, but for now, try one of the above field tested ideas such as a big bottle of beer with two glasses, a bottle of cheap wine, dessert, or chocolate.

Make she you bounce her to build compliance and really make it feel like you two are on a date.

Then use the non verbal kiss system by sitting next to each other on a couch somewhere, squeezing her hand, leaning in close, looking in her eyes, and going for the kiss. Take your time, shes your date, youre having a romantic evening together, and since you look like a couple, no one will come cock block or try to amog your set.

Enjoy guys, this system has been a piece of cake after the first night. It was seriously like just like copy and pasting something and changing a few things around based on the girl I was with. The hardest part to explain is the non verbal stuff like going for the kiss and building up compliance.

If you havent taken a bootcamp yet, or you want to take your game to the next level and make it easy on yourself to get girls, do yourself a favor and join me in San Francisco or Las Vegas next month. I will kick your ass over the weekend to make the rest of your life easier when it comes to getting girls. But either way, go out there, game, and use it tonight for maximum results.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

You know that uncomfortable silence you guy with a girl when you are trying to think of something to say? Well, it turns out that there are two types,

1. will make her bored and go away, making you lose the set if you dont think of someting interesting to say.

And the 2nd, will force her to either invest and ask you a question, or kiss you.

The best way to figure out which situation you are in is sadly, only with a lot of personal experience and field time. It is such a fine line between the difference. But here is a few tips that I have learned from my expereicne that may help you.

Tips to tell the difference,

If you are in a situation where she is not going to leave, such as you are on a date, or you are both waiting for mutual friends, assume that she will be the one to invest, simply look her in the eyes, smile, and wait. There is a simulality between sexual tension and uncomfortable silences.

If you are gaming, such as a cold approach, be the one to DHV and be intresting two times, and then on the 3rd time, keep eye contact, and force her to invest.

In my personal experiece,

The last 6 times I have tried this, one of the girls said, okay nice to meet you and left, and the other five of the girls invested and asked me a question and kept up the pace. In a FR I posted on one of the forums, I go into detail on the four girls out of those 6 that I made out with using this simple technique.

Try it out yourself, and remember the next time you are in that uncomfortable silence with a girl, it may be your key to get laid.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf