All the ones I’ve read online, I tried out with horrible success:

“I don’t buy girls drinks.”
“Why don’t you buy me one instead”
“Instead of a drink, let’s go back to my place and share a bottle of wine.”

I started to think, maybe guys are just making this shit up in front of the computer at night instead of actually going out, trying it 20 times and then reporting back the actual results.

The two, field tested responses that actually work:

1. “Sure, I’ll trade you a kiss for a drink”
I only use this one if I feel that the girl is almost ready to kiss me, and I want to go for it:

The responses I’ve gotten from trying this on ten different women.

2 girls - Gave me kisses on the cheek - In which was a bit awkward because I didn’t actually want to buy them a drink for such a small investment on their part, so I changed the subject and kept gaming. You can also say, “that deserves a bottle of water or a soda” and go from there.

3 girls - Actually kissed me, nice kiss on the lips which turned into a make out. One of them I actually bought a drink afterwards, the other two we ended up just making out for a while.

5 girls - All the rest of the girls cut the thread themselves and changed the subject. This allowed me to know where I was at in the conversation and adjust from there.

“Sure, you buy the first round, and I’ll buy the next two”

8 girls - Most of the girls don’t want to pay for over prices drinks either, so they drop the subject and stopped asking. It made me look generous and not cheap, and it made them respect me and not make me look like a tool.

2 girls - Actually said okay and bought me a drink, which is a fantastic indicator of interest (IOI). Because they invest in your first, it’s okay to buy them the next round or two. I never ended up having a third round, so it was even money and we had a great time.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

Details on the next bootcamp:

Where: Las Vegas
When: March 19th-22nd 2010
How Long: Fri/Sat/Sun - 3 Days & 3 Nights!
Details and Sign Up: jwolfvegas2010.eventbrite.com

I hope to see you guys there for what is going to be the best PUA Bootcamp ever!

-Johnny Wolf

It starts out by telling stories about their time in Project: Miami, which is like the 2007 version of their Project: Hollywood. Speer lived there for a while, but after a falling out with Mystery and the guys, they decided to change his name as roomate to Johnny. I never lived there by the way, only visited Miami.

The Pickup Artist: The New and Improved Art of Seduction

My Review:

If you liked “The Game” you’ll enjoy reading “The Pick Up Artist” as it follows a simular storyline just 4 years into the future. It takes place after Mystery has already became famous and it introduces Matador and Lovedrop as his wingmen along with some other new guys. I personally prefer Neil Strauss’ writing style more, but this book is still a good read if you are fans of the PUA Game. Mystery also shares a bunch of new tactics and techniques not seen anywhere else before, as well as goes over in detail some of the classics.

I would recomend this book after you’ve read the Game if you simply can’t get enough of the good stuff.

-Johnny Wolf

From a game stand point, having more muscle adds dominance and sexual attraction. Yes yes yes, you can be a fat, ugly guy and still get laid, but why would you do that to yourself? Being in shape gives you more energy, makes you feel better and it definitely helps with the ladies.

This is me and my personal trainer “the Thai Hulk” taken 1 week ago.

If you look at my videos from a year ago, I’ve lost 20lbs of fat since 2009 and am starting to pack on the lean muscle once again. Here are my notes that I sent my cousin and it can help you as well. Best of luck!

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Hey Cousin,

I’m glad you want to work out and add some muscle.

I am going to tell you exactly what you need to do. I guarantee that if you do exactly what I say, you will add 10 lbs of lean muscle within 1-2 months. If you do not do exactly what I say, it will take much longer.

The food plan is 60% and the workout plan is 40% so you MUST do both.

To purchase: http://www.bodybuilding.com

Whey Protein
Casein Protein
Multivitamin (take daily)

To Eat:

First thing in the morning, even before you brush your teeth, drink one whey protein shake.
Also drink one 1 hour before your workout, and immediately afterward.

Drink 1 casein protein shake before you go to sleep.

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Do not eat empty, useless calories. - Examples: do not drink sodas or juice, even fruit juice. Do not eat white bread, potatoes or white rice, or pasta.

Eat twice as much protein and fat as you do now. (yes, you need to eat fat, but only good fat, no deep fried stuff.)

Good fats: almonds, avocados, meat, eggs.

Examples of good meals:

Breakfast - 4 eggs, and Oatmeal with fresh berries and honey
Lunch - Meat and Vegetables. You can eat chinese food, just eat twice as much meat and try not to eat any rice if you can.
Dinner - Steak, Salmon or chicken and vegetables.

Within 1 hour of your workout, you can eat white rice, pizza bread, pasta, whatever you want. But only then since you body needs it.

The Workout:

Only workout 3-4 days a week.

Lift maximum weight that you can only do 8-10 reps.

Day 1 - Chest, and Triceps

Day 2 - Back and Biceps

Day 3 - Legs

Day 4 - Shoulders

Important: do not skip the legs workout. Even if you do not want bigger legs, squats are a must because it increases testosterone which makes you grow muscle everywhere.

-That’s it!

If you follow this simple, straight forward diet and exercise plan, you will gain lean muscle, I promise.

P.S. You get one cheat day a week where you can eat anything you want, but only one day a week, this actually helps your body grow.

If you are really serious about adding lean muscle, and getting in great shape, there is one very simple thing you can do that will boost your results 20x. Get a cheap calender, and write down on it everyday what workout you did or if you took a rest day, and EVERYTHING you ate. This forces you to see your results and your effort. Do this and you will get results.

-Johnny Wolf

Leave a comment and let me know if you have any questions, I’m happy to help.

To celebrate, I’ve decided to release a secret mp3 audio called “Bootcamp Instructor Secrets” which reveals the most common curiousities such as how often students actually get laid during BC, what goes on doing bootcamps and so on. Best year, to celebrate and give back to the community, I’m releasing it absoutely for free.

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Warm Regards,

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The Solution:

Luckily the solution to this is extremely easy, the first solution would obviously be to approach correctly and loud enough. But shit happens and you mess up sometimes right? Well just use my “Four-Second Pause” technique. All you have to do is look at her, wait patiently and count to four in your head.

What happens next:

90% of the time she’ll replay it mentally in her head and answer your question. And the other 10% of the time, she’ll apologize and ask you to repeat yourself again, either way you’ll not be in the power position.

If she asks me to repeat myself again after the 4 second pause, I simply restate the question but with different words. Never repeat the exact same phrase for a second time.

The Four-Second Pause Replay technique also works for loud club environments when you’re already in set with her and she simply couldn’t hear you the first time. Do the same thing and remember to never ever, repeat yourself without counting mentally to four first.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

“Dirty Dancing” - Watch this alone on V-Day!

TV Dinner for one. =*(

Great for wiping away the tears!

With 50% more beef hearts! Now that’s romantic!

Never want to spend Valentine’s Day Alone again?

Want the skills to be able to approach beautiful women and make them yours?

Take a bootcamp.

Where: Las Vegas
When: Friday, Saturday, Sunday
Dates: March 19th-22nd 2010
Cost: Sign up now for a huge discount, starting at under $1,000 for the first time ever.
Details: jwolfvegas2010.eventbrite.com

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf

The Best Condoms in the fucking world!

Crown Condoms - 100 Pack

For only $27.99 with FREE SHIPPING these are definetely, by far, the best deal on the best condoms ever made. They call them “Skinless Skin” and this is my third time reordering for a reason. They feel as close to wearing nothing at all as possible.

The Vibrating Condom!

The Original Vibrating Johnny.

Get a six pack for $19.95 and have a fun new toy that isn’t really a sex toy, but still gives that vibrating feeling. Imagine transforming your cock into a vibrator! I like these as an easy way to introduce sex toys to girls I fuck without making it awkward. You simply put the vibrating johnny on to of your condom and wah-la! Orgasms galore!

The best lube ever!

Liquid Silk Personal Lubricant

Most lubes are sticky and tacky feeling, but this is the fucking best. Even if you’re just jacking off, this is the best lube out there. But use this with a girl, no matter how wet she is already and she’ll LOVE IT and you will too. For only $15.95 for a good sized bottle, you have to invest.

The World’s BEST Vibrator - According to Porn Stars!

Hitachi Magic Wand

I was first introduced to this vibrator by a porn star I hooked up with. She said that she tried every different one out there but this was the only one that would always make her orgasm. She taught me how to use it on her, and it was the first time I’ve ever made a girl squirt. I ended up buying two, one for me to use and one as a gift for the girl I was seeing.

Valentine’s Day Gifts:

Whether it’s for yourself, to load up on condoms for 2010, or if you want to buy some toys for the lucky girls in your life, I highly recommend these guys. I order from them myself, and if you use my link I get some free shit, so hook me up if you’re in need to buy some condoms anyways. Plus you get FREE SHIPPING on every order over $50. Have fun, and get some great sex!

I met this really cute blonde white girl and both she and I got harassed by a big group of corn fed bro dudes. I had been making out with the girl on the dance floor where they started pushing me and took a swing. Luckily the security broke it up before anything bad happened.

Unluckily, we saw them again while walking to our hotel. One of the PUAs gets knocked to the ground, the other one runs away, and I’m stuck with three guys, one much larger than me punching my head. I tried fighting back, and that that moment more than any, I wished my dad had taught me how to be a man, and taught me how to fight. He didn’t, and I got my ass kicked.

Fight Training - DHV:

Asian Playboy once said “If you want get the Woman of your dreams, you have to be the Man of hers.” And if you can’t defend and protect the woman you’re with, you don’t deserve her.

So I started taking Muay Thai Kickboxing, and learned a few moves. However…I realized that practicing in a gym and thinking I would know what to do in a real fight was kind of like reading pick up material and never going out sarging. So I did it…I signed up for a Professional Muay Thai Kickboxing fight. And here it is:

I hope you enjoy’d the video,

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf
www.TheSocialSecrets.com

Hey guys, it’s only a few weeks away from Valentine’s day and if you don’t have a girl in your life yet, or if you simply want an upgrade, take my challenge and you WILL get an awesome girl by Valentine’s day GUARANTEED.

If you follow my rules I guarantee that you’ll have a date by v-day. I know this because this is the forth year this challenge has been going on and everyone who has done it has gotten good results.

It’ll be fun, easy, and remarkably successful. Last year when I first posted this challenge on my blog we had a ton of guys commenting saying they got successes from it, one guy even had too many dates for a single day so he had to do a Valentine’s Eve date, a V-Day lunch date and a V-Day dinner date.

How to get started:

Today:

Go to Rite Aid, Sav-On, Walmart, Target, or any other big store and buy three boxes of cheap valentine day cards. They come in 32 packs and are about $3 per box, making each card less than 10 cents.

Remember giving these out in elementry school? You had to give one to each person in your class or none at all? These are it! And remember the funnier, sillier and cheezier the better.

Hint: These are not in the greeting card aisle, they are in the toy aisle. Do not spend $2 a card in the greeting aisle, you want the cheap, silly ones.

Warning: Do not get ones that say “I love you” or anything serious, remember, sillier the better. Here are some examples of good ones.

What to do starting Tomorrow:

You have a couple different options when it comes to what to write on the cards. I’ve tried it different ways with various results, but at the end of the day, every way works it just depends on how comfortable you are at following up the conversation. I suggest picking the one you are most comfortable with.

What to write on the card:

You can either pre-write these or you can carry and pen and write them on the spot in front of her. The good thing about pre-writing is that often you’ll be passing the girl and you will not have time to write, however, there is a spontaneous, genuine factor with writing the card in the view of the girl and then approaching with it. I suggest doing a mixture of all three techniques to see what works best for you in your situation.

Option #1: Write your name and contact info on the cards. You can put down your email, phone number or both.

This one is good if you are very shy and do not have good follow up conversation and phone closing skills. This one takes the most amount of time to write, and you cannot expect most girls from following up. However, I have had PUAs do this in the past with success. Because it’s close to valentine’s day and every girl wants to be with someone, there is a higher chance they
will call or email.

Option #2: Write a little note saying “I thought you were cute” or “Coffee?”

This works best on the spot, carry a pen with you and write it on the spot. Works well if the girl is sitting at a table near you either eating, or studying.

Option #3: Leave it blank. And stay and chat with her.

This is the option I usually do. I’ll just walk up to the girl with it blank, chat her up and she’ll usually ask me why it’s blank, or i’ll suggest filling it out. It’s a good way to transition to a number close since I’ll tell her she needs to give me one as well, on a piece of blank paper or napkin usually.

Important Note:

Carry them around with you at ALL times. A minimum of 10, put some in your car, your wallet, jacket and pants pockets. You’ll never know when you’ll walk by a cute girl that you’ll want to give it to.

Trust me, the most random times are the best, so keep them on you at all times even if you’re just going to the grocery store or walking your dog.

For the next 14 days:

Your goal is to give out eight cards a day for the next 14 days, assuming you start February 1st. If you do it correctly, you’ll have approached one hundred and twelve girls some of which you will have asked out on a date and have your phone number.

When was the last time you were able to give our your number to over one hundred girls in two weeks?

Who to give it to:

Any attractive woman you see, ANYWHERE. Because it is such an easy little gimmick, you can give it to women you pass by on the street, in elevators, at restaurants, in the mall, and of course night clubs and bars.

I’ve given it to the girl at the drive through window, the hostess at a restaurant and girls at the next table while we were eating and random girls on the street and in the elevator.

What to say to the girl:

“Hi, I wanted to give you a valentine’s day card”
“Hi, I know I don’t know you yet, but here.”
“I just had to give this to you”
“Will you be my valentine?”

Or if you’re really shy, just go up say hi, hand it to her and walk away.

What I normally do is just go up to a girl, smile, hand her the card and say this is for you. Then I just shut up, and wait for her to say something. Or other times I’ll open as normal and after a few minutes I’ll tell her I have a present for her and give her a card. Either way it works FANTASTICALLY, this is the easiest gimmick opener EVER.

Field Tested:

Do you think I would really send you out as sheeps among wolves? Well, maybe.

But I loved this idea so much that I’ve been personally been using every year since 2006. I’ve had great success with it last year, as well as my personal friends and tons of guys in the pick up community.

What do to if the girl is a bitch:

If a girl calls you out on it, just admit to it, and say, “Is it really so fucking wrong to want a date on valentine’s day?” And either let her apologize and keep talking to her, or next her. You have 112 opportunities in the next 14 days. Knowing that you can also just brush it off and move onto the next girl, it’s just a game. Make the most of it.

P.S. So far this technique has been 100% rejection free.

If you need more Help:

If you need more help take a bootcamp. This challenge is seriously as easy as it’ll ever get, so if you don’t have at least a few dates by valentine’s day or if you have trouble approaching, number closing, and getting dates using this method, then there is probably something else wrong with your game that you’ll need calibrating with.

For those who don’t know, a bootcamp is a three day small group private workshop where the instructor helps you with your strong points and helps you work on your weaknesses. Common exercises include fixing body language, teaching you how to project your voice, make proper eye contact, and when and how to properly touch the girl.

Other exercises include what to say when approaching a girl, what to do if there are guys in the group, and where to take it from there. On all three nights we go out to a bar or a club to practice what you’ve learned, then we go over your successes as well as figure out what you need to improve on. If anyone is interested I’ll be teaching a three day bootcamp next month, you can get more details on the right hand side of my blog.

This is your life, seize the day, and don’t put off happiness, sex, and love for another year.

Upcoming bootcamps taught by Johnny Wolf:

Who: Taught by Johnny Wolf
Where: Las Vegas
When: Friday Saturday Sunday March 19th - 22nd 2010
Cost: This is my first EVER bootcamp starting at under $1,000! But only if you book early.
Sign Up: http://jwolfvegas2010.eventbrite.com/

WANNA TAKE THE CHALLENGE AND GET A DATE BY VALENTINE’S DAY?

Go to the forum and reply to the tread to say you’re in:

http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/viewtopic.php?f=58&t=2432&sid=730a868c3d30185a8c21910244a908fc

Or Simply leave a comment here on my blog.

Then come back everyday and report your results!

Good Luck!,

Johnny Wolf