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Tips On How To Get A Girl To Notice You

2011-01-16T22:22:00.000-08:00

Tips On How To Get A Girl To Notice You

Written By Ritchie Jake

Ritchie Jake Recommends "How To Be Irresistible To Women"

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Lets face it.

The world is unfair.

Some guys are just born with the ability of attracting girls everywhere they go.

On the other hand, there are the other group of guys who are having a hard time learning how to get a girl to notice them.

Want to know how to get a girl to notice you?

Read the following top tips on how to get a girl to notice you and you will come to realise that getting a girl to notice you is not that hard after all !

1^st tip on how to get a girl to notice you : Stop being shy

If you are more of the shy type, you need to open up . Being shy in a social outing will only render yourself invisible to the girls.Girls will not even have a chance to notice you at all. Have an open approach toward people – Socialise and communicate effectively with other people.

2^nd tip on how to get a girl to notice you : Stop being the attention seeker

I bet you may have noticed that sometimes, the guys who tried hard to get noticed by girls may turn out not to be noticed in the end. This is because girls are always attracted to guys who are unique. Therefore, you need to attempt to be yourself as much as possible and do not try to attract too much attention .

3^rd tip on how to get a girl to notice you : Be Single But “Unavailable” at times

Girls love challenges and if you act hard to get at times, you will get their attention !

It has been a well know fact that girls will want something which is not easy to get . You should talk to them , make them notice you and even flirt with them abit ! It will certainly drive them crazy if they will to find out that you are not free to go out with them. Keep your cool. They will notice you the more aloof you are.

4^th tip on how to get a girl to notice you : Be a good speaker

Learn to become a good speaker and get into conversation with social groups. Get their attention and get them all listening to you. Once you have their attention it's more than obvious that girls would notice you as well.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of, or are you going to be just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

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Killer Tips On How To Get A Girl To Fall In Love With You

2011-01-03T19:32:00.000-08:00

Killer Tips On How To Get A Girl To Fall In Love With You

Written By Ritchie Jake

Ritchie Jake Recommends "How To Be Irresistible To Women"

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Getting a girl of your dreams is undoubtedly the dream goal of every man.

However, not many men can successfullyget the girl of their dreams to fall in love with them.

Girls are emotional beings and in order to get a girl to fall in love with you, you will have to tackle on their emotional side.

Here are some of the killer techniques on how to get a girl to fall in love with you

1st technique on how to get a girl to fall in love with you: Make a good impression

First impression weighs a ton when it comes to dating

Having a good first impression doesn't mean that you have to talk or dress like brad pit to get the attention of a decent girl.

In fact, you can attract any women by just being a man of your own style.

There are 3 tips towards making a good first impression:

1) Dress decently

2) No obscene language - Obscene language will give the impression that you are immature and uncultured

3) Having good habits - Restrain yourself from heavy smoking and binge drinking

2nd technique on how to get a girl to fall in love with you: Be Patient - Take time to befriend and understand the girl you want

Women love the feeling of someone loving them and adoring them.

By befriending and understanding them, you will get to know her likes and dislikes

Gradually, you will know what to do to make her enjoy your company.

3rd technique on how to get a girl to fall in love with you: Be her pillar of support

Be the support of her life.

Go all out to help and support her whenever she is undergoing some rough patches in her life.

Let her know that you are a good friend whom she can turn to when she needs help.

Let her know that your shoulder is always there for her to lean and cry on.

Become her special friend whom she can share her happiness and woes with.

Be the special someone whom she can open up to .

Be the special someone who is always ready to lend an ear to when she needs a listener .

4th technique on how to get a girl to fall in love with you: Be creative, constructive and fun-loving

Girls love surprises!

In order to keep a girl's interest level in you high, you have to come up with creative ways to surprise her.

One good idea is to play a dare game with her

Play a game of deaf and dumb with her for a day. The rules are simple. No one is to talk for the entire day. Communication is to be done through body language and hand signals only. Set a penalty for the person who breaks the rule. A simple penalty such as a movie treat will be sufficed.

Do something out of the blue. Something that no other friend of her will do with her and she will definitely love your company!

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of, or are you going to be just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

Want To Be Irresistible To Women? Check Out The Ultimate Dating Guide " How To Be Irresistible To Women" E-book - The One and Only Dating Guide designed to make you irresistible to women !

"How To Be Irresistible To Women" is an E-book which discusses on the various methods and techniques on how to impress a women depending on their mental approach and outlook towards life

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

What To Talk To Girls About

2010-12-30T20:51:00.000-08:00

What To Talk To Girls About

Written By : Ritchie Jake

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Do you often find yourself not knowing what to talk to girls about?
Well, not to worry!
For in this article, I will be discussing on what to talk to girls about.

Here are some tips on what to talk to girls about

1) Talk to girls about your dream and ambition

Let the girl know your ambition and dream. Let her know what do you wish to achieve in life. By sharing with her your dreams and ambition, she will know that you are someone who has a purpose and direction in life and not some wandering bum leading life aimlessly.

2) Have a sensor of humour - Throw in a few jokes and stories

Having a sensor of humour is definitely beneficial in keeping the conversation flowing continuously.
Share with her funny things that have happened in your life or funny jokes which you have heard from others.
Knowing when to include funny stories or jokes in midst of the conversation will trigger her to laugh . This is important as she will view you as interesting person to hang out with and will thus, hang out with you more.

3) Let her talk more about herself

As quoted by The Dalai Lama "Sometimes one creates a dynamic impression by saying something, and sometimes one creates as significant an impression by remaining silent."
All girls are born to be talkative.
Therefore, don't be afraid to let a girl talk more about herself. Actively listen to what she says and be receptive to what she is saying .Show interest to what she is saying. Let her know that you are a good listener and she will be more keen to share with you her problems and woes. Over time, her interest in you will increase gradually.

4) Play around - show her your playful nature occasionally

This is an awesome technique to master, especially if your conversation has reached a stagnant point and you are totally clueless about what to talk about with her.
Here is a good trick in tackling awkward silences.
Laugh to yourself when there is a moment of silence in the conversation. Your laughter will trigger her curiosity and will prompt her to ask you" hey, what are you laughing about, care to share? " When she ask you this, you reply in a sneaky way that will trigger more of her curiosity hormones, " Nah, nothing much, you won't want to know, is a guy thing." She will then respond, " tell me, I want to know! ". So there you go, an awesome technique to lighten the mood.
It will also show that you are someone who is a relaxed, and not too serious person - a characteristics which girls like.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or are you going to be just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

Want to be irresistible to women? Check Out "How To Be Irresistible To Women" E-book Today !

"How To Be Irresistible To Women" is an E-book which discusses on the various methods and techniques on how to impress a women depending on their mental approach and outlook towards life

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What Do Women Find Attractive In Men

2010-12-30T20:35:00.000-08:00

What Do Women Find Attractive In Men

Written By : Ritchie Jake

Ritchie Jake Recommends Fireworks With Women
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Do you belong to the confused group of guy who are clueless about what do women find attractive in men?

Well, if you are, then you are not alone!

Lots of guys like you are spending a great amount of time daily, looking for info about what do women find attractive in men.

In this article, I am going to share with you the secrets about what do women find attractive in men.

1st quality women find attractive in men - Intelligence

Women find intelligent men to be very attractive, especially when the man is very informative and knowledgeable in a particular field.

Women like to talk about sociological and issues about the world.

If you are able to speak well about a vast range of topics, the girl will be impressed by your intelligence and knowledge. In short, girls want a man who is better informed and more knowledgeable than them.

They want someone who can make them go "Wow, this guy sure knows a lot!".

2nd quality women find attractive in men - Style

Ever gone out dating with a girl before? If you have, then you will know how meticulous women are about their outer appearance.

Women will spend on average about 3 hours to shop for the best outfit and shoes for the date. They will then spend another 2.5 hours dolling themselves up, preparing themselves for the big date. Now, compare the amount of time women spent in their preparation with the amount of time you spent ( probably 15 mins or less? ) in preparing yourself for the date and you will get my point.

Women spent a great deal of time preparing themselves for the date.Therefore, they do expect their date to look presentable for the date too.

And no, being presentable doesn't mean that you have to spend 5 hours preparing yourself for your date. What a guy should do is just to get a couple of nice outfits which suits you well and to keep yourself abreast with the fashion trend .

You can keep yourself abreast with the fashion trend by reading fashion magazines occasionally and learning how to present yourself well in front of women

3rd quality women find attractive in men - Exciting

Women are often attracted to men who are exciting, unpredictable and full of surprises! This is why some women love the bad boys. Do something out of the blue and they will love it! Tell her that you are bringing her out for the weekends but do not tell her where you are bringing her to. Tell her that she will need to prepare some clothing but don't reveal the activities which you have planned for her.Women love surprises! Even small surprises will spice up her life and her interest level in you will raise gradually. Most importantly, you must be unpredictable

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By Ritchie Jake

If you want a girl to be interested in you, Check out "Fireworks With Women" E-book

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

Killer Tips on How to Start a Conversation With a Girl

2010-12-28T19:07:00.000-08:00

Killer Tips on How to Start a Conversation With a Girl

Written By Ritchie Jake

Ritchie Jake Recommends GuyGetsGirl Dating Guide

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Do you often feel frustrated about yourself for not plucking up the courage to start a conversation with the girl of your dream?

Well, you are not alone! As a matter of fact, there are millions of men around the globe who share the same woes and worry as yours.

Therefore, in this article, I will reveal tips on how to start a conversation with a girl.

First Step: Act Quickly

Good opportunities don't come easy. Therefore ,whenever you see a girl which interests you, you will have to act quickly towards your goal. Hesitation will often lead to time wastage .

Before you know it, she may even leave with her friends and you may not stand a chance to see her again in your life ! Therefore, if you ever see a girl which you like, be fast, walk to the girl and start talking!

Second Step: How to start a conversation with a girl

Method 1: Use props. For example, if she is taking photographs of the scenery using some high tech DSLR camera, tell her that her camera looks interesting and ask her about the features and functions of her camera.

If she is using a DSLR camera, she is most likely into photography stuff. Therefore, if you will be able to engage a conversation with her about photography, she will be more interested in striking a conversation with you.

Sometimes, You can even create your own props to draw girls to you! A classic example would be a dog. Most girls are hopelessly drawn to cute dogs especially puppies. Bring your dog out for a walk. You will notice that many girls will be drawn to your dog - a good conversation starter to start with!

Method 2: Ask open-ended questions The key to keeping a girl interest in you is to keep the conversation flowing. With that in mind, the taboo questions to ask are those yes or no questions. Some examples of yes of no questions are for example:

Do you like Inception the movie?

Do you Think Leonardo Dicaprio is a good actor?

Do you like the plot of the story? Etc.

These questions can all simply be answered with a yes or no and thereafter, the conversation will just stop there.

You can change these bad questions to good open-ended questions such as: What do you like about Leonardo Dicaprio? What do you like about Inception the movie? How different do you think Inception are from the other mainstream Hollywood movies?

Questions asked this way will trigger her to talk more instead of just the boring yes/no answers.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or are you going to be just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

If you want to know more about how women think , check out "Guygetsgirl" E-book

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

Top 5 telltale signs a girl is attracted to you

2010-12-21T19:28:00.000-08:00

Top 5 telltale signs a girl is attracted to you

Written By : Ritchie Jake

Ritchie Jake Recommends Fireworks With Women
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The top telltale sign a girl is attracted to you will be to observe her body language.

By observing her body language, you can tell signs a girl is attracted to you.

Lets take a look at some of the common signs a girl is attracted to you

Her eyes are always on you.

If a girl is constantly making eye contact with you and often looking at you during conversation, she is most probably interested in you. On a lighter note, it could also be that your face is stained with something which draws her attention to you.

She Finds you funny always

If you find that the girl is always laughing at your bad jokes and Is easily humoured by you, there is a pretty high chance she is attracted to you. By laughing at your jokes, she is showing a sign of support and interest towards you especially when you are telling jokes which are so bad that nobody is laughing expect her.

She Remembers every detail about you

If she is able to remember every detail of you ( such as whats your favourite colour, favourite food, favourite drinks etc ), then she is definitely interested in you. By remembering every likes and dislikes of your personal life, she is showing that she care about you and you hold an important position in her heart.

The lips motion

Obvious lips motion such as biting lips or licking them is a clear sign that she finds you attractive. As a matter of fact, when you see a girl doing all the lips motion, she is actually seducing you with the most sexiest organ used during sexual intimacy - the lips!

The color tone of her face

Our heart will naturally beat faster when we are attracted to somebody. The increase in heartbeat will often result in flushed face and sweaty palms. So, next time if you see that a girl face is always flushed when she goes out with you, she is most likely interested in you.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By Ritchie Jake

If you want a girl to be interested in you, Check out "Fireworks With Women" E-book

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

Top 10 Pick Up Lines For Guys To Use On Girls

2010-12-21T00:22:00.000-08:00

Top 10 pick up lines for guys to use on girls

Written By Ritchie Jake

Ritchie Jake Recommends GuyGetsGirl Dating Guide

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Well, before I reveal to you the top 10 pick up lines for guys to use on girls, you will first need to know how to deliver your pick up lines effectively.

You need to be confident when delivering a cute pick up line and at the same time, not appearing to be too serious or even worse - stammer when you are delivering your pick up line.

Good eye contact should be made at all times.

You need to let her know from your voice that you are just trying to be cheeky.

With these pointers in mind, here are the top 10 pick up lines for guys to use on girls

1) Hey! I know You! You resemble someone I know! My next girlfriend to be!

2) Have you encountered before a guy following you street after street (or into a shopping mall or bookshop) just because he liked your smile?

3) Are you a denture in disguise? Because I find myself unable to smile without you.

4) You are in my top list to blog about today!

5) Hi, did you just drop this? (Hold out a penny, pen.)

6) What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl on the streets/in this room/in the pub/in the bar?

7) Hi. Can I borrow a quarter please? I promised mymom that I would call her when I met the girl of my dreams.

8) Wow. I didn't know that angels are given off days to roam on earth. You surprise me!

9) If I am given a chance to rearrange the alphabets, I would put U and I next to each other.

10) Hi. Can I take a picture of you please? I would like to show Santa Clause my Christmas wish.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

If you want to know more about how women think , check out "Guygetsgirl" E-book

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

Top Tips On How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend

2010-12-20T23:32:00.000-08:00

Top Tips On How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend

Written By Ritchie Jake

Ritchie Jake Recommends GuyGetsGirl Dating Guide

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So you have been friends with this hot girl for some time already and always had some sort of a crush on her. You have always wanted to bring the friendship level into something more - getting her to be your girlfriend.

However, you have no idea on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend .

You are also afraid that your friendship with her may be jeopardized when you wish to bring the relationship with her to a whole new level.

Does this scenario ring a bell in your life?

Most guys will have come across this scenario at least once in their life, and some have even encountered more than once.

Here are a few tips on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend :

1st tip on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend - Become even better friends with the person.

Whatever your relationship with her is, always strive to become a better friend.

Show her that you are her best friend and you will be there for her when something goes wrong!

Show her that your care for her is beyond the friendship level.

2nd tip on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend - Don't tell her that you like her YET!

Do not commit this grave mistake by telling her that you like her when you discovered that you have a thing for her!

Keep in mind that your relationship with her is just friends for NOW...

Therefore, if you will to suddenly blurt out that you like her out of the blue, she will definitely be in a terrible shock .

She is not even emotionally ready to hear these words when her definition of you in her dictionary is just a "friend"!

In the worst case scenario, she may even avoid you.

3rd tip on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend - She might also have the same feelings towards you!

The process of turning a friend into a girlfriend will be much easier if you discovered that she has also the same feeling towards you!

You can know this by reading her body language...

Does she always find a chance to set closer to you in group outings?

Does she always like to stick with you during friends outing?

Is she always making eye contact with you?

If both of you have mutual friends, does she only like to spend time alone with you?

These are all telltale signs that she is interested in you !

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Ritchie Jake

If you want to know more about how women think , check out "Guygetsgirl" E-book

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

One Surefire Way To Mess Up Any Date

2010-12-15T19:00:00.000-08:00

One Surefire Way To Mess Up Any Date

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women
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You've been out on a few dates recently, but none of them seem to be working out. You don't seem to have a problem actually getting the date, but somehow the second date never comes. What are you doing wrong?

Are you breaking some kind of dating rule?

Probably. You're probably breaking the biggest date rule of them all: learn how to communicate.

Learning how to communicate effectively is the single best way of getting asked out on a second date. Communicating badly, which can be done in several different ways, is a surefire way to mess up any date, regardless of how much thought and effort you've put into trying to make it a success.

What you need to remember when going out on a date is that you want the other person to get a better idea of the kind of person you are, without talking too much or too little. People who talk about themselves too much, are a real turn off. Not only that, but they're annoying. For some people it's in their nature to talk about themselves, and yet other people babble, because they're nervous, which is natural. Instead, get the other person to talk about himself or herself, and maintain some mystery. By doing this, the other person will want a second date, just to learn more about you.

Talking too little is another surefire way to mess up any date. Your dating partner doesn't want to go out on a date with a manikin! They want you to talk, make them laugh and they want to get a little insight into who you are and what you're all about. Make it easier for them, and open up a little.

People love to laugh. Laughter is infectious, and sexy. This doesn't mean you have to be the next Chris Rock, it just means you should try to loosen up and enjoy yourself. Tell your date a few funny stories or a joke to liven things up a bit. If you can make him or her laugh, you're half way to getting a second date.

Just remember to be yourself. A surefire way to mess up any date is to be a fake, which is another communication problem. Be confident, slightly mysterious and make them laugh. Those are the keys to any successful date and the path towards a second.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

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2010-12-05T19:00:00.000-08:00

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How Ditching The Rules Can Get You More Dates

2010-12-02T21:44:00.000-08:00

How Ditching The Rules Can Get You More Dates

Written By Slade Shaw

Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Female"

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Are you lost in a sea of information, grasping to find the real deal on how to attract a woman FOR KEEPS? Does it seem like there’s a new book coming out every week, leaving you deeper in confusion about which advice to take??Worse, you have friends and colleagues giving you their own unique take on what works and what doesn’t work in a relationship.

The World Wide Web is filled to the brim with all sorts of conflicting information, and it’s hard to make sense of it all,If all of the things those authors have tried in their own lives have worked for each and every one of them…why do their books cancel each other out??

There can be only so many versions of the truth out there; it can drive an average guy NUTS.Well, this is where your INNER VOICE comes into play. It’s really up to you to decide which piece of advice would work BEST with your unique circumstances.

And there are a lot of useful books out there that offer SENSIBLE, REAL-LIFE guidance on not only having an awesome love life, but a great lifestyle in general.

If you want such a guide to help you make sense of things, you should check out the definitive guide for guys:

Fireworks With Female Dating Guide

You need to pick this up if you want to be at your best, most authentic self that the ladies will fall for.

Yet, there are a lot of so-called dating experts who are - honestly speaking – pouring POISON into the collective ear of the male population. I mean, there’s just a TON of B.S. floating around on the web as well as in print media.

There are a lot of so-called dating experts who are - honestly speaking – pouring POISON into the collective ear of the male population. I mean, there’s just a TON of B.S. floating around on the web as well as in print media.The stuff I’m talking about here is RULES. Strict, rigid rules that will only curse you to singlehood ‘til kingdom come.

I have to tell ya, a lot of my own friends have been badly burned from following a bunch of arbitrary “dating laws”. What you might not know is that these rules only serve to make clueless guys even MORE narrow-minded than they were before.I get where these rules are coming from though. With dating, so much can go wrong; believing that certain regulations within a clearly-defined system could somehow bring order to a chaotic environment.And from a theoretical standpoint, following rules will safely keep you out of harm’s way (such as being rejected, getting dumped, etc.).

However, real life doesn’t work like that.

Personally, I’m more of a “go with the flow” kinda guy. I like to size up a situation and respond to it accordingly without a bunch of rules dictating my every move like I was some machine.Sorry to burst your bubble, but you can’t put the world of relationships into neat little compartments as if it was a science experiment. Some people look at social dynamics in the same way as a computer program driven by inflexible rules (read: NOT true), and so they repeatedly run into DISASTER.

The thing is…a healthy, stable relationship (long-term or otherwise) isn’t brought about by religiously adhering to these “laws” like your life depended on it. Adaptability, creativity and RESPECT towards women will give a set of dumb rules an ass-whooping any day.Most of these “unbreakable” rules revolve around game-playing, manipulation and utter disregard for a woman’s sensibilities.

Let’s take a look:- The best way to bring a woman down a couple of notches is to take a few pot shots at her ego. The more beautiful she is, the more aggressive your disguised insults need to be.- Before you get involved with someone new, you first need to give yourself an allowance of X number of years or months after breaking up with your previous girlfriend.- After a date, wait X number of days before calling her back.- You’ll need to approach a woman within X number of seconds of spotting her.What a doozy huh?

If I didn’t know better, I’d be following these rules like crazy before I ultimately run my love life to the ground.The people who came up with these rules are probably projecting their own experiences. Therefore, it’s basically made to serve their OWN needs rather than every guy out there. Everybody’s situation is different, so you can’t expect to use these rules as a one-size-fits-all kind of glove for the ENTIRE dating scene.

These laws won’t work for every single guy in the known universe, so it’s really pointless to follow them to the letter.It’s more important to have a PERSONALITY that’s suited to the dating world. The truth is that you can’t substitute your real self with these rules. A personality defined by self-confidence and non-neediness will be your best guide to making the RIGHT DECISION. Rules don’t really capture the spirit of healthy dating – they MIGHT work for you this one time, but it doesn’t follow that your precious rules will get you consistent results!On the flip side, I can honestly appreciate the IDEA behind these rules, which is to prevent you from getting burned.

Yet, narrowing general guidelines down to extremely specific tenets simply won’t work for all situations.For instance, pinning down the exact number of days before calling ANY woman you date is just plain silly. I mean yeah, you don’t want to look super EAGER or NEEDY, but don’t you think the level of attraction will VARY from girl to girl?

Maybe a certain date of yours seemed really interested to see you again, while another woman wasn’t all that receptive to your advances. That simply means you can’t expect to apply one rule to two different people.

Since I’m feeling like a nice guy today, I’ll give you some quick pointers on the ideas BASED on the rules we talked about:

1)Don’t act like a woman’s approval is your sole reason for living.

Seeking validation from someone other than yourself is NOT attractive.- If she catches on that you’re so DESPARATE to be in a relationship, you might end up driving her away.

2)Don’t make a big deal out of approaching a woman.

You’ll be severely wrecking your chances if you hover around her, acting all jumpy and jittery.Nonetheless, save the algorithms for other things, like rocket science. You can’t possibly reduce social dynamics down to a mathematical equation.No computer can intelligently decipher the complex patterns of human behavior – your BRAIN is the only tool that can do that.Sure, rules may help you out when you’re new to the dating scene, but in the long run you’ll need to cut the umbilical cord and come into your own.

Eventually, you’ll have to be someone that has a good amount of common sense and good judgment and won’t need a bunch of rules to tell him what to do.Furthermore, these rules pale in comparison to simply being a man who oozes with HIGH VALUE…instead of pretending to be one.You can only get so far with pre-packaged templates for how to act around women. In fact, putting up an act will put you at risk of women seeing right through the smoke and mirrors (which is what the rules are all about). Instead, you’re better off cultivating a genuine personality that’s consistent in word and deed. Saying one thing and doing another is NOT the way to relationship bliss.

Thus, you should be focusing on developing attraction by investing in the self-confidence that’s *already* lurking within you. And in order to pull that off, drop by and check out this course:

Fireworks With Women Course

I highly suggest you check this out BEFORE you fall into the trap of playing deceptive mind games with your woman. This is your best bet to becoming the ideal version of yourself that’ll leave the ladies swooning.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Slade Shaw

Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Women" E-book .

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

Body Language Basics For Seducing Women

2010-12-02T19:21:00.000-08:00

Body Language Basics For Seducing Women

Written By Tiffany Taylor

Tiffany Taylor is also the author of "GuyGetsGirl"

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Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.

What does this mean to you?

It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).

You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.

Body language basics:1 - Smile

You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)

Body language basics:2 - Eye Contact

As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.

Body language basics:3 - Upright Posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.

Body language basics:4 - Gesticulate with open palmsYou

I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Tiffany Taylor

Tiffany Taylor is also the author of "GuyGetsGirl" E-book .

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact

2010-12-01T17:41:00.000-08:00

How to Attract A Woman: The Best Ways to Handle Physical Contact

Written By Tiffany Taylor

Tiffany Taylor is also the author of "GuyGetsGirl"

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Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You can’t successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility – I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer – whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction.

And that right there is where the problem for many men lies:

How can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness?

If the girl’s not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just “GO FOR IT” and consequently end up making the girl feel UNCOMFORTABLE or even slightly VIOLATED because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness.

Other men decide they don’t want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact – doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he’s simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl.

Okay, so what’s the SOLUTION to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girl (and therefore don’t appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time clearly indicate that you’re a confident guy who’s not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let’s take a look.

1) Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But that’s simply NOT TRUE. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman’s arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it’s a clear-cut sign that you’re a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don’t be afraid to give it a try – you’ll notice the benefits IMMEDIATELY.

2) Once you’ve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it’s important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you’ve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called ‘STEALTH TACTILITY’ to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn’t know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

3) Lastly, always try to use a 'CONTACT CLOSE' when you finish your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work’s been done once something’s been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Tiffany Taylor

Tiffany Taylor is also the author of "GuyGetsGirl" E-book .

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’

2010-11-30T17:41:00.000-08:00

How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’

Written By Tiffany Taylor

Tiffany Taylor is also the author of "GuyGetsGirl"

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There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘SEDUCTION GAME’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with.

Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game.

It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the HARDEST TO CONNECT TO – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s PLAYING HARD TO GET or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.

This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a DIFFERENT,SPECIAL reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with PYSCHOLOGY and SOCIAL STANDING.

You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and LIKES THIS FEELING of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I'M ABIT TOO GOOD FOR YOU” status.

However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY.

You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful.

As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place.Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and “WIN” you back.

1) Use STRONG EYE CONTACT when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.

2) CASUALLY MAKE PHYSICAL CONTACT with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.3.When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.Using DEFLECTION THEORY to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Tiffany Taylor

Tiffany Taylor is also the author of "GuyGetsGirl" E-book .

"GuyGetsGirl" E-book is one of a kind dating guide written by a woman - providing a revolutionary new approach towards approaching women for men

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

How To Meet Women - Through Social Network

2010-11-29T17:41:00.000-08:00

How To Meet Women - Through Social Network

Written By Slade Shaw

Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Female"

To know more about this book :

Extending your circle of friends into the virtual world.

There’s a huge chance you and your friends (and their cute friends) are probably part of an online social network such as the insanely popular Facebook. Sites like these are an excellent place to complement your dating pursuits.If you’re already on one of these sites, check to see if your existing profile needs to be polished. This is a key component of your online efforts because your profile acts as a sort of social resume which should complement the most attractive aspects of your personality.

As a general rule of thumb, your profile should have just enough information to give everyone a hint of what a great guy you are, but not too long that it becomes boring to read. In the description, avoid putting anything cheesy or pretentiously highfalutin. It’s especially bad to make any direct or indirect references to sex because that just screams“DESPERATE”.The vibe a reader should get is that you’re a cool guy who does and likes a lot of things. So include information about your hobbies, interests, passions or anything else that makes you a balanced and interesting kinda guy. As for the relationship status, go with “single and looking to date” or any similar option to that effect.

Of course, any self-respecting social networking site will allow its users to post photographic evidence of their hip and happening adventures in the offline world.Whether it’s mountain biking in the great outdoors or having an awesome time with your friends, your pictures should feature you in various upbeat social situations for evident reasons. Now that you’ve sorted out the groundwork, it’s time to put yourself out there.

Once your friends introduce you to someone that you find attractive, casually ask her if she’s on one of those sites.After you’ve added her up, wait for a couple of weeks before you start interacting with her online.For starters, make a brief but funny comment on one of her pictures or status messages. While this is subjective ground to walk on, a lot of people will have the same idea of what’s annoying, creepy or stalker-ish (which is what you’ll want to AVOID here).

Remember, it needs to be LIGHT-HEARTED and casual at the beginning.After some time, you should be able to create enough comfort to ask her out on another group outing. Take the initiative to invite her to an event that you and your mutual friends are going to.For example, if there’s a really cool band playing in the area you can tell her that she should come along because it’s going to be a lot of fun.

Try something like, “Hey there, we’re going to watch _________ this weekend and I thought you might want to check them out as well.”Eventually, you’ll be able to casually establish just the right amount of familiarity with your friend’s friend. If you’re feeling bold enough, take the chance of asking her out on an exclusive date.Now, don’t get any images of candlelit dinners or sappy stuff like that just YET. You don’t want to make the transition too jarring for her, right?

Start off with something as simple as asking her to come with you to check out some new releases at the record store or drop by the upcoming art exhibit at the museum.As casual as these dates may seem, it gives you an edge because again, she’s not pressured into a romantic scenario. At the same time, it gives you plenty of time to have shared experiences with her.Who knows, one thing may lead to another in due time. If things start to develop between you two, it transpired in a totally relaxed setting.As far as the feminine perspective is concerned, this is PERFECT. Who is she to deny fate if the lucky girl ends up being attracted you along the way?

Besides, she’d be blind not to SENSE your lingering interest behind the invitation. The cool thing about it is that you’re not telegraphing your interest too LOUDLY or HASTILY.If she does agree to go out with you, she’s either on the same page as you are…or is WILLING to see what happens at the very least.Otherwise, be cool about it and move on with your life. Whatever happens, you’ll still end up with another friend in your life.

Take comfort in the fact that your flourishing social network is chock-full other people you can meet.THIS knowledge will keep you from pressuring yourself – OR her.Just remember that social networking sites are NOT a replacement for a healthy social life. They’re only a means to meet great women in PERSON, and not merely exchanging emoticon chats or “pokes” with them.It may take a while for you to develop your network of online AND offline friends, but you just need to invest enough time and effort to make it WORK for YOU. Once you’ve reached a level where you’re always going out and meeting new people, all you need to do is MAINTAIN it.The bottom line is that it’s NOT HARD at all to get your foot in the door. You just have to open your mind to the possibility that ending up with your dream girl can happen in the most casual or everyday kind of circumstances.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Slade Shaw

Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Women" E-book .

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

How To Meet Women - Through Friends

2010-11-28T16:40:00.000-08:00

How To Meet Women - Through Friends

Written By Slade Shaw

Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Female"

To know more about this book :

Does meeting quality women on a REGULAR basis feel like looking for the proverbial needle in the haystack?If you’re like most guys, you’ve probably gone down the beaten path known as “HITTING THE CLUBS”.

You know what I’m talking about: you and your buddies head to the nearest bar, have a few drinks, and wait for a group of eligible ladies to come your way.Some seduction experts use these venues as their so-called "TRAINING GROUNDS" to get their pupils’ feet wet. The eager hopefuls proceed to test their newly-learned skills on the unsuspecting female population.Although this seems like a sound plan, the women at these places are already EXPECTING to be approached during the night (especially the hot ones!). Then, there’s the possibility of running into a girl who happens to take pleasure in shooting down guys’ ego.

However, this is NOT the only way to meet women and you shouldn’t limit your options to this familiar route.

It may come as a big surprise to you that NOT all gorgeous and brainy women (read: the ones you’re after) are packed like lemmings in bars or nightclubs.Wouldn’t it be nice to meet a nice girl WITHOUT the pre-packaged pressure that comes with the usual places?

Thus, I’d like to talk about the backdoor to the world of seduction. Luckily, these alternate paths to meeting women aren’t some big secret.

Your FRIENDS are an often overlooked avenue to dating bliss. I’m not talking about rounding up the boys for a night out on the town, but rather your overall SOCIAL CIRCLE.This includes, colleagues, high school/college buddies, co-workers and so on. Just think that you’re smack-dab in the middle of a very LARGE web of people who in turn have “webs” of their own.This is a vast field of opportunities that’s just waiting to be tapped.

I’d bet you that a sizeable chunk of these people happen to be (or know) women who fit your preferences.This is where the expression “all the good women are taken” fizzles into the sweet reality of ABUNDANCE. In other words, quality women are hardly in short supply my friend.There are a lot of advantages to be had from taking this route.

1) Your friends can provide the social proofing which you would have to build on you own in a different setting.

Having a friend to introduce you to a promising candidate is a great way to be pre-qualified without having to open your mouth! Being in the company of friends greatly cuts down on the awkwardness factor. Imagine being in a relaxed setting where your end goal is to have a good time – and not getting her phone number right there and then.

Think of it as a “PRE-FIRST DATE”; you get to see how she’s like in social situations, and it’s much easier to ask her out later on since you have the chance to build some rapport first. Plus, you don’t have to worry about keeping one person entertained the whole time either.Most of all, you’ll get to gauge the level of interest between you two – helpful information before taking things up a notch. You get to have a good time while investing in your love life at the same time. If it doesn’t work out, you’ll still have fun so there’s NO PRESSURE to succeed right here and now.

To get into this kind of situation, you can tell your friends outright that you’re on the market. Ask them to bring along any single friends of their own but it doesn’t have to be a blind date.In fact, avoid blind dates altogether because it defeats the very purpose of going out with friends (the lack of awkwardness and pressure).

Instead, just ask your pals to bring along anyone to your group outings.They may even invite you to meet someone who they think might be a good match for you (provided that it’s NOT an actual date). There’s no shame to be found in asking for their help; chances are they’ll be more than happy to set you up.To keep things light and fun, remind your friends not to tell those ladies that you’re on the lookout. All you need is the introduction so you can take it from there.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : Slade Shaw

Slade Shaw is also the author of "Fireworks With Women" E-book .

"Fireworks With Women" E-book is a dating guide written by a natural with women - Specially written and designed for men who wish to attract women effortlessly and keep the woman by their side.

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

How to Attract Women : How To Impress Women

2010-11-26T17:40:00.001-08:00

How to Attract Women : How To Impress Women

Written By James Brito

James Brito is also the author of "How To Be Irresistible To Women"

To know more about this book :

Renee Grant-Williams, a celebrity vocal coach, says, "The people we deal with in life come to know us by the three ways in which we present ourselves:

(a) How we look;

(b) What we say;

(c) How we say it.

Obviously, this applies just as much to women as it does to men. If not more.So if you want to impress women, you're gonna have to carefully think about how you present yourself. Let's look at each category.

A. How We Look

Whether you like it or not, dress is crucial. It says a lot about you: whether you care about how you look, or you don't. But you don't have to dress like a Hollywood celebrity to look good.Here are some tips on how to dress for success:

1. Get a female friend or sister to help you pick your clothes.
If you don't know what to wear, get someone who does know! Ask a female friend or acquaintance to go shopping with you. She's sure to be flattered, and if you reward her with a gift certificate or DVD, she'll be all the more motivated to help you out.

2. Check out the latest styles

Go to the bar or club and see what others are wearing. Observe what the guys who do well with women wear. Look in magazines and catalogues and see what it's in style.

Wear what conforms to your identity

Hey, if you're the hardworking, businessman type, wear formal clothes that accent your career. If you're the snowboarder/skater type, wear grungy clothes that accent your loose, laid-back persona. And if you're really into music, don't be afraid to express yourself with the types of clothes that rock stars and musicians like to wear! You can't force a style upon yourself; clothes are a form of marketing, so market yourself like you would a product, in the way that best shows what you're all about.

The same goes for your hair:

If you want to convey a clean-cut, crisp image, then you might want to shave and cut your hair short. But if you're trying to convey a rebel image, a goatee, long hair, and tattoos are probably in order.And speaking of tattoos, don't forget that they are an ACCESSORY that further helps you to market yourself. Tats, jewelry, and even hats are great ways to mold your image to the man you want to present to women. If you're a snowboarder, for example, a wool hat says "Cool". Or if you're an aspiring rapper or musician, a doo rag has a place in your wardrobe. Consider the accessories that best conform to you as a person.

B. What We Say

Here are some great topics to talk about:

Your dreams

Let a girl know that you have a purpose and direction in your life, that you're not a wandering bum!

Funny stories

Humor is a great aphrodisiac. Think about some funny things that have happened in your life. But make sure your delivery is good--more below.

Her

The Dalai Lama said, “Sometimes one creates a dynamic impression by saying something, and sometimes one creates as significant an impression by remaining silent.” Don't be afraid to let a girl speak for a while. Be silent, but be interested. Actively listen to what she says. It'll go a long way towards upping the attraction meter!

Teasing/Playing around

This is a great technique, especially if you don't know exactly what to talk about. Throw in an occasional joke or funny moment. I have a friend who has a great technique for handling silence. He laughs to himself, prompting the girl to ask, "What?" He'd say in a sly way that would invite curiosity, "Nah, you don't want to know. I'm in deep thought." She'd respond, "Tell me! Tell me!" So he'd do the whole Meow Mix song ("Meow meow meow meow..."). It's just one of many great ways to lighten the moment, and show you're a relaxed, none-too-serious person.

Last but not least, sex

One relationship guru brilliantly says, “TALKING about sex is the first step towards having it.” Ask her if she’s a bad girl, or what’s the craziest thing she’s ever done in her life—with a bit of innuendo added into your voice. This isn't the kind of stuff you want to talk about right away, but when things are going good, it's great to show your "inner bad boy". She’ll know what you mean, and get excited thinking about it.

Likewise, here are some topics that you SHOULD NOT talk about:

Offensive humor.

Chris Rock's racial humor may be entertaining, but it's not a good topic for a first date!

Politics

There's nothing to be gained by arguing over issues and parties

Past girlfriends

An ABSOLUTE-NO-NO. All you do is play a game that makes one of you jealous or suspicious of the other. Stay away from this topic, but if she DOES ask you about past girlfriends, talk respectfully about them so you don't come off as an insecure whiner.

Inside jokes between you and your friends.

They're called inside jokes for a reason--keep them that way!

Anything that could be interpreted as geeky or dorky

Unless you know for a fact that she's into science fiction and comic books, keep it to yourself for now. The last thing you want to come across as is a geek!

Too much about yourself, your possessions, how great you are, etc.

Bragging only makes you look insecure. Even if you own a yacht, don't talk about it like it makes you any more special than her.

C. How We Say It

Of course, none of these topics, particularly funny stories, are gonna work if you don't know to deliver them. Delivery in speech is crucial. People who have good delivery can make an otherwise dull story an exciting one. I highly suggest you read "Voice Power" by the aforementioned Renee grant Williams.

Here are some tips she recommends:

1. Use consonants

That is, accent your speech. If you're talking about a great concert you went to, no one will believe it's that great if you say in a monotone voice, "That was a great concert." That puts people to sleep. Instead, say, "Man, that was a grrrreat concert!" The Tony the Tiger voice. If she says something, don't say as if you're bored, "Really." Say, "Rrrreally?", then, with emphasis, "WOW." It works!

2. Don't use unnecessary words and details.

If you're talking about a time when you and your friends went to Cancun, don't bother with the unnecessary details like the food they served on the plane, the wait for the taxi, or the sheets they used in the hotel. Get to the point!

3. Silence

As Williams says, Silence does speak a thousand words. There's nothing better than the "POWER PAUSE", especially when trying to captivate your listeners with a story of bravery. You can lead up to something powerful, then pause while the girl takes it in and after a few seconds of silence, say, "But that's not all..." Or

4. Drama and comedy.

Don't be afraid to sprinkle some dramatic and comedic flair into your speech. If you're talking about a goofy incident with your buddy, laugh along with it. When you laugh, it's a cue for other people to laugh. Chris Rock does this all the time; he laughs at his own scripts, and it has the power of making his routine all the funnier.Likewise, if you're telling a dramatic story of something amazing like rescuing people from a car accident, talk with conviction and suspense. It really goes a long way towards spellbinding women; they love a great story, especially a heroic one.

5. Use body language.

It's not enough to talk with your arms beside your side and your butt on your seat. Talk with your arms, with your hands, your body language creating a sense of excitement. It's a fact: enthusiasm is contagious. So show some enthusiasm with your vocal and body languages!

6.Change your pitch.

If things are going well, lower your pitch, give her your best Barry White. If you're talking about a funny moment, a louder, more excited pitch is probably best. Recognize the mood and alter your voice to conform to it.Congratulations! You're on your way to making great impressions on great women. Recognize the power of speech and appearance, and you're bound to succeed.

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : James Brito

Tiffany Taylor is also the author of "How To Be Irresistible To Women" E-book .

"How To Be Irresistible To Women" is an E-book which discusses on the various methods and techniques on how to impress a women depending on their mental approach and outlook towards life

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

How to Attract Women : Being The Bad Boy

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How to Attract Women : Being The Bad Boy

Written By James Brito

James Brito is also the author of "How To Be Irresistible To Women"

To know more about this book :

It seems that when it comes to men chasing women, we guys are divided into two camps:

1)The NICE guys

2)The BAD boys

This is a very extreme way of looking at things, making men think that they have to make some huge decison with serious repurcussions, like choosing between the Jedi and Dark Side, good and bad, black and white. But what about the middle ground?

If you're a nice guy who puts women on a pedestal and lets them get away with everything, you certainly can't let them keep doing this.

But if you're a bad guy who treats women like yesterday's garbage, you're not gonna do much better either. So there's got to be some compromise.

Here are my seven proven techniques for getting women by embracing your "INNER BAD BOY"--while still allowing yourself to be you.

1. Surprise them
If there's one thing girls love, it's a surprise. There's nothing better than keeping them on their toes. Do this by going against social norms; for example, giving her the "BLACK POWER FIRST" when she's expecting a handshake. Or walk up to her and challenge her to a game of thumb wars. As you're having a great conversation, say you've gotta leave. This all goes a long ways towards making her heart flutter, and making YOU more attractive--without being a complete dooschbag.

2. Do the unexpected

Unfortunately, nice guys always do what they're SUPPOSED to do. They say hello, ask sincerely how a girl is, stare in awe as she says she's a model. BORING. Nah, you've gotta release your inner bad boy by doing the stuff you're NOT supposed to do. Show her you're fun, show her you're fearless: flirt shamelessly, grin at a sexual comment, tease unabashedly. You don't have to be a complete jerk to do these things, just a guy who's confident that he'll get away with things that aren't "the norm". Girls love to not know what to expect, so do the UNEXPECTED !

3. Be a rebel
I'm not saying to break the law, but don't always go by the rules. Show her you're fun, break conventions here and there. So what if there are people watching! Give her a big kiss in the middle of the street. So what if boardwalk is closed? Take her for a romantic midnight stroll Who cares if the speed limit is 50? Drive her at 75 and watch her scream in delight. You don't have to be a complete jerk to show a girl some fun.

4. Get physical
If you're not already at a gym or into martial arts, now is the time. Girls love a guy who can kick butt. It's the part of the bad boy that makes them feel safe and secure. So get to work on your body--nothing says irresistible like a man in shape who can kick some butt.

5. Make her feel safe
Show her your confidence, your self-assuredness by taking her hand, walking on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street, and never backing down from any situation. That's not a license to get into fights, just to make her feel protected.

6. Tease
This is a strategy you can't go wrong with. Bad boys never let a girl get away with unacceptable behavior. If she's talking like she's the greatest person ever, they'll joke, "Man, if this lady's ego gets any bigger we're all gonna have to evacuate!" If she says she's a model, say something to the effect of, "Oh yeah? Is that it?" And show her your value by saying, "Listen, I'm afraid I'm not gonna be able to stay around. Your mouth is destroying my ear drums." In other words, don't be afraid to joke around and put her in her place!

7. Develop attitude
I just can’t emphasize enough how crucial having a winning, confident attitude is. You don’t care what others say. You don’t care what others think. No matter how a woman reacts, it just blows right over you. That’s because you’re always in control. No woman—whether beautiful, popular, or rich—has power over you. You don’t need anyone, you’re not dependent on anyone, and you don’t have to cling to anyone. If she thinks she's too good for you, you get right up and move to the next girl, because you're a catch and you know it!

Remember, you don't have to be a complete bad guy to get the girls. Just embrace the winning characteristics of bad boys, and you'll be lining up women left and right!

Now, let me ask you this… Do you wish to be the chick magnet that every man will be envious of or just some lonely loser for the rest of your life !?

If being a chick magnet is what you want , then you will have to know how to achieve great success with women Today !

And in order to achieve great success with women, you will need to know what women are thinking ! I have put together some great tips that will help you in this FREE report – FREE Dating Report

Grab your FREE dating report today and before you know it… hot babes will start flocking towards you in no time !

Article Written By : James Brito

James Brito is also the author of "How To Be Irresistible To Women" E-book .

"How To Be Irresistible To Women" is an E-book which discusses on the various methods and techniques on how to impress a women depending on their mental approach and outlook towards life

To learn more about how this dating guide differ from other dating guide or want to read in-depth review about it , click below :

Comparison of top dating guides

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Choosing the right dating E-book which is suitable for you can be a real headache especially when there are so many products available in the market.

Therefore, for ease of comparison of the various Dating Guide available in the market, I have created my own personal comparison table of my favorite Dating guides .

I am sure you will find this comparison table useful before making your decision on which Dating Guide to purchase..

Be The Guy Who Gets The Girl

How To Be Irresistible To Women

FireWorks With Women

Author

Tiffany Taylor

James Brito

Slade Shaw

Suitable For

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Designed To Target A General Male Audience

For Men Who Want To Be A Natural With Women, To Attract Women Effortlessly

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60 Days Money Back Guarantee

Offers Free Mini Course

Offers Upgrade Package Course

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Understand Women Better

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Easy To Follow With The E-Book Being Categories To Beginner, Intermediate And Expert Level.

Detailed And Comprehensive E-book

Includes High Quality Dating Advice from a Natural With Women

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Includes :
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Includes :
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Includes :
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