World Monument of Love

Разный Интернет, как отражение разной жизни, а точнее – разных этапов жизни каждого человека

2009-09-22T18:08:00.004+01:00

Меня зовут Сергей Халимонцевич, я автор этого проекта - The World Monument of Love или, по-русски – Всемирный Монумент Любви.

Настроение сегодня плохое. Заметил, что даже поисковые запросы зависят от состояния духа. Когда я полон сил и идей, я гуглю жизнеутверждающие запросы, ищу авиабилеты для предстоящего турне по латинской Америке и всё такое. В такие моменты, в череде откликов поисковой системы, глаз сам находит позитивную информацию. Но, сегодня всё иначе, пальцы сами набрали в строке поиска – «где найти силы».

В ответах Гугла моё внимание привлекли два текста, два крика души, привожу их целиком, со ссылкой на источник.

Не могу найти силы, чтобы изменить свою жизнь.
Все началось 6 лет назад. Мне понравилась девушка сестра моего друга Лена. Познакомились мы с ней в тот момент, когда я ремонтировал ему компьютер, она просто зашла в гости. Она была уже разведена, так как ее бывший муж пил… И толком она мне не смогла объяснить, зачем она вышла замуж, ответ был потому, что все выходили :-)). Потом все на той же почве возни с компьютером, мы познакомились немного ближе, прогулялись по парку и пошли смотреть кино с диска из моей коллекции, затем мы стали встречаться каждый вечер и смотреть кино из моей фильмотеки. Шло время, симпатия переросла в чувства. Она сначала боялась серьезных отношений, мне было 20 она старше почти на 5 лет, но из-за моей настойчивости, решила, будь что будет.
К слову, наверное, стоит упомянуть, что с ней начал встречаться, так как девушка Кира, которая мне нравилась в институте не отвечала взаимностью, я ухаживал за ней два года, а ответной реакции не было. Что вызвало разочарование в девушках моего возраста и переключиться в режим поиска.
Ну, вот все закружилось, завертелось. Я начал менять свою жизнь. Стал строить свою карьеру сменил несколько работ, пока не нашел работу с более менее оптимальным доходом, так как потребности возросли. 3 года назад я купил первый авто это была копейка, через полгода девятку, сейчас у меня иномарка. Ей родители купили Оку после того как я ее выучил на права. Изначально у нее была квартира пустая. Все в квартире куплено на мои деньги. Она за эти 6 лет работала тока год с хвостиком притом, что у человека два высших образования и аспирантура. Когда я на нее наезжаю грозиться пойти работать в школу за 2000 рублей, и мол будет на столько загружена что не будет ни еды, ни секса Меня этот факт очень напрягает и дергает.
Полтора года назад к нам работу устроилась девушка по имени Катя моей возрастной группы. Я ей симпатичен она мне тоже. Работящая и все успевает. Меня к ней тянет, и в тоже время не могу расстаться со своей женой, так как боюсь причинить ей боль. Она все понимает, и не вмешивается, дает мне время самому определиться со своей жизнью. Но вечно, то ждать не будет. А вдруг Катя эта та единственная, которая должна появиться в моей жизни.
На мысли эти толкает хотя бы тот факт. Что до сих пор у нас не получается ребенок. Но сейчас ситуация еще сложнее я не хочу с женой общих детей.
В прошлом году достигалась точка кипения в отношениях она достала мои вещи, открыла окно и швырнула их вниз со 2-го этажа. Дело было зимой, я охотно вышел за вещами в окно… Сугроб мягкий пока отряхивался, прибежала она собрала все вещи, попросила прощения. Мы померились и у нас был классный секс в эту ночь. Весной в мае все повторилось мои вещи лежали на диване. Я перед ней извинился, со словами прости меня, что ничего у нас не вышло, стал собираться. Она начала рыдать и всхлипывать, я стал ее успокаивать, все закончилось опять классным сексом. Я взял отсрочку на 3 месяца
Летом она уехала к сестре на свадьбу, при этом она и я были готовы к тому что по возвращении все закончиться… Однако, что-то опять не дало нам расстаться. Я даже догадываюсь что, наверное, я боюсь остаться без своей крыши над головой, денег на покупку своего жилья нет. Возвращаться к родителям не вариант. Скитаться по друзьям не выход.
Итог, есть жилье, нормальная машина, хорошая работа. Ленивая жена. Не убранная квартира, инициировать уборку очень сложно. Может я сам виноват купил ей стиральную машину, посудомойку, микроволновку, в общем, все что надо для нормальной жизни. Но перспектива всю жизнь ее содержать напрягает очень. Наверное, бесит зарабатывать каждый рубль, довольно, тяжело, а она их так легко тратит. Бесит тотальный контроль, если задержался на 15 минут, то истерика, настроение сразу падает ниже плинтуса. С другой стороны лесть на эшафот в Ипотеку на 20 лет перспектива тоже не фонтан.
Вот такой клубок получился, сам запутался очень сильно. Эх жизнь игра сюжет хреновый, а графика хорошая. Вот только кнопки загрузить сохранение - декабрь 2002 год, нет.

Где найти душевные силы, чтобы прекратить отношения с женатым мужчиной?
Я встречаюсь с женатым мужчиной, но меня все время преследует чувство, что я краду чужое счастье и тем совершаю большой грех. Я пытаюсь с ним прекратить отношения, но без него мне плохо. При этом он тоже ищет встреч со мной. Я не знаю, что мне делать, хотя понимаю, что будущего у нас нет. У него трое детей. Я не хочу, чтобы он оставлял семью. Где найти душевные силы, чтобы прекратить с ним отношения?
Надежда.

Обе истории говорят о любви, значит и мои усилия в строительстве Всемирного Монумента Любви, возможно, будут нужны людям, любящим людям.

El Monumento Mundial del Amor en Tenerife?

2009-07-29T16:34:00.005+01:00

Este artículo se publicó por primera vez en los principales periódicos de Islas Canarias - La Opinión.

Las islas Canarias es uno de los lugares mas emblematicos e idoneo para la construccion del Monumento Mundial al amor. Esta idea y posibilidad fue expresada por el autor del proyecto el Sr. Serge Halimoncevich.

Primer vez en la historia se funda un complejo arquitectonico fundamental que simboliza el amor es un Monumento Mundial del Amor.

El Monumento del Amor es una construccion grandiosa que se puede comparar con las piramides de Egipto , creando la posibilidad que el mismo sea visto desde el cosmos.

Cualquier habitante del planeta tendra la posibilidad de inmortalizar sobre la base del Monumento su nombre y dejar plasmados sus sentimientos hacia la persona que el o ella elijan, por ejemplo mujer o madre, marido, padre, amigo, amado, hijo o hija.

En la actualidad se incrementa el numero de participantes deseosos de participar en el proyecto. Registrandose a traves de la pagina web y sin apenas tener una detallada informacion del mismo.
El 2 de noviembre en Tenerife se recogio una pequena porcion de tierra que pasara a formar parte de los cimientos del Monumento Mundial del Amor. Este acontecimiento ha iniciado el comienzo de la accion mundial que lleva el nombre de Monumento Mundial del Amor.

En cada pais del globo terraqueo se recogeran muestras de tierra que pasaran a formar parte de los cimientos del Monumento Mundial del Amor. No es casualidad que Espana se haya elegido como el primer pais a iniciar tan importante mission. Gracias a su sinceridad natural y a su amor por la vida ,los espanoles son unos de los mas activos participantes del proyecto.

En este momento los hombres de 42 paises toman parte en el proyecto, 70% de ellos son espanoles. Comenzando esta accion del Monumento Mundial del Amor por Espana , demostramos nuestro agradecimiento a la gente de esta tierra bendita de amor y dedicacion .

El proyecto Monumento Mundial del Amor registra cerca 3 miles inscripciones gratuitas. Los espanoles tienen la posibilidad de entrar en este grupo de participantes. El proyecto del Monumento Mundial del Amor es incomerciable. Todos los medios obtenidos se invertiran en la construccion del monumento. El presupuesto total del proyecto oscila sobre los 200 millones dollares. 100 de ellos lo presentan los patrocinadores, es una alianza de grande companies de petroleo a nivel mundial, la segunda parte de lo recaudado la aportan personas privadas, son participantes del proyecto Monumento Mundial del Amor.

Solo un millon de los hombres tienen la posibilidad tomar parte en el proyecto. La gente de 42 paises mundiales anunciando su intencion de participar en el proyecto le regalan a sus propios seres amados una extraordinaria declaracion amorosa y tambien la posibilidad de quedar inmortalizado su nombre en la historia mundial para los siglos.

Despues de España parte de la tierra y de los materiales que se utilizaran en la construccion de los cimientos del Monumento fueron obtenidas en Suecia y en Estambul, Turquia en mayo del presente año.

En la Actualidad el autor del proyecto se encuentra de vacaciones en Tenerife en compañia de su esposa y de su hija pequeña de seis meses. Cualquier duda, inquietud, idea y/o apoyo concerniente al proyecto se pueden poner en contacto a traves del correo electronico de su autor. El Sr.Halimoncevich se encontrara en Tenerife hasta el dia 15 de julio del 2009.

Serge Halimoncevich
El autor del proyecto el Monumento Mundial del Amor

The World Monument of Love – will it be built on the Canary Islands?

2009-07-23T07:34:00.004+01:00

Press writes about the project World Monument of Love. This article is published in the newspaper CanarianWeekly.

The Canary Islands is one of the most appropriate places for building the World Monument of Love. The idea was expressed by the author of the World Monument of Love project.

For the first time in the history the Internet society creates a large architectural composition symbolizing love - The World Monument of Love.

The World Monument of Love is a grand installation, compared in scale with the Pyramids, which perhaps would be clearly observed from the orbital station in space. Every citizen on Earth can leave in centuries his name and declare love for another person – a wife, mother, husband, father, friend, daughter or son.

Authors of the project did not conduct massive advertising campaign; nevertheless, the number of registered project participants is growing every day.

A handful of soil from Tenerife, which will be put to the foundation of the World Monument of Love, was taken on the 2nd of November, 2008. The event opened a global action called World Monument of Love World Tour. Every country of the globe will provide a part of its soil, which will be put to the foundation of The World Monument of Love.

The selection of Spain to be the 1st country to start the World Monument of Love World Tour was not random. The Spanish, due to their natural frankness and hedonism, became the most active participants of the World Monument of Love project. At present, people from 42 countries participate in the project, 70 percent of all participants are the Spanish.

By starting the World Monument of Love World Tour in Spain, we render homage and pay tribute to this country and its citizens.

The World Monument of Love project still has about 3 thousands free registrations available.

The World Monument of Love is a non-profit project. Raised funds will be spent for the construction of the monument. The total budget of the project is estimated of 200 millions of US dollars. 100 million dollars will be provided by sponsors including an alliance of leading oil producing companies; the rest part of required funds will be gathered by people participating in the World Monument of Love project. Names of all project participants and their beloved persons will be written on the architectural composition The World Monument of Love.

The number of the World Monument of Love participants is limited to a million of people. People from 42 countries all over the world by registering in the project made their beloved a unique gift – a declaration of love and an opportunity to leave their names in the history of mankind. Each participant of the project will receive a Passport of Love; the document will become a unique gift to the beloved people.

After Spain, handfuls of soil for the foundation of the World Monument of Love were taken at Sweden and at Istanbul, Turkey in May 2009.

Currently, the author of the World Monument of Love project Serge Halimoncevich together with his wife and a six-month old daughter spends his vacation on the Tenerife Island. All interested people may contact the author by email. The author of the project will stay at Tenerife till July 15, 2009.

Istanbul, Turkey May 2009 - World Tour 2008-2009

2009-07-21T13:08:00.004+01:00

21 May, 2009

The author of the World Monument of Love project Serge Halimoncevich arrived to Istanbul with official visit on the 21 of May, 2009.

The promo World Monument of Love World Tour was continued in Istanbul. Turkey became the third country in the world, where a handful of soil was taken to be added to the foundation of the World Monument of Love.

For the first time in the history common people create a large architectural composition symbolizing love - The World Monument of Love. The World Monument of Love is a grand installation, compared in scale with the Pyramids, which perhaps would be observed even from the orbital station in space.
Every citizen on Earth can leave in centuries his name and his love to another person – a wife, mother, husband, father, friend, daughter or son.

Authors of the project do not conduct massive advertising campaign; nevertheless, the number of registered people on the website is growing every day.

A handful of soil from Canary Islands (Spain), which will be put to the foundation of the World Monument of Love, was taken on the 2nd of November, 2008. The event opened a global action called World Monument of Love World Tour. Every country of the globe will provide a part of its soil, which will be put to the foundation of The World Monument of Love.

The selection of Spain to be the 1st country to start the World Monument of Love World Tour was not random. The Spanish, due to their natural frankness and hedonism, became the most active participants of the World Monument of Love project. At present, people from 43 countries participate in the project, 60 percent of all participants are the Spanish.

World Monument of Love project still has about a thousand registrations available for free. Turkish citizens could use such opportunity. Turkish citizens has old traditions of freedom and democracy, we hope the Turkish citizens will see the true value of the World Monument of Love project and will take active participation.

The World Monument of Love is a non-profit project. Raised funds will be spent for construction of the monument. The total budget of the project is estimated of 200 millions of US dollars. 100 millions of US dollars will be provided by sponsors including an alliance of leading oil producing companies; the rest part of the required funds will be gathered by people participating in the World Monument of Love project. Names of all project participants and their beloved persons will be written on the architectural composition The World Monument of Love.

The number of the World Monument of Love participants is limited to a million of people. People from 43 countries all over the world by registering in the project made their beloved a unique gift – “Passport of Love” and an opportunity to leave their names in the history of mankind.

Serge Halimoncevich
Author of the project World Monument of Love
http://worldmonumentlove.com/

Love

2009-02-09T15:09:00.001Z

Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. The word love is both a verb and a noun. Love is not a single feeling but an emotion built from two or more feelings. Anything vital to us creates more than one feeling, and we also have feelings about our feelings (and thoughts about our feelings). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

As an abstract concept, love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual emotional closeness of familial and platonic love to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.

Definitions

The English word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts that English relies mainly on "love" to encapsulate; one example is the plurality of Greek words for "love." Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus make it doubly difficult to establish any universal definition.

Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, although other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts.

When discussed in the abstract, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf. narcissism).

In addition to cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic love to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages, although the prior existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry.

Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All you need is love." Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value," as opposed to relative value. Theologian Thomas Jay Oord said that to love is to "act intentionally, in sympathetic response to others, to promote overall well-being."

Impersonal love

A person can be said to love a country, principle, or goal if they value it greatly and are deeply committed to it. Similarly, compassionate outreach and volunteer workers' "love" of their cause may sometimes be borne not of interpersonal love, but impersonal love coupled with altruism and strong political convictions. People can also "love" material objects, animals, or activities if they invest themselves in bonding or otherwise identifying with those things. If sexual passion is also involved, this condition is called paraphilia.

Interpersonal love

Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love that are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love, such as erotomania.

Throughout history, philosophy and religion have done the most speculation on the phenomenon of love. In the last century, the science of psychology has written a great deal on the subject. In recent years, the sciences of evolutionary psychology, evolutionary biology, anthropology, neuroscience, and biology have added to the understanding of the nature and function of love.

Wikipedia

Любовь

2009-02-09T15:05:00.002Z

Любовь — психологическое состояние, чувство. Связано с высшей нервной деятельностью живого организма. Предполагается существование у высших животных в формах, доступных этим животным (например, привязанность, преданность).

История понятия любви в культуре

Культ любви зародился в древних цивилизациях Греции и Индии, где половое (эрос или кама) или социальное чувство (агапе) было культивировано до самодостаточно-прекрасного отношения (бхакти и эрос Платона).

В христианстве любовь превратилась в бескорыстную добродетель, связанную с верой и надеждой. Отсюда евангельский императив «Возлюбите!», который теряет смысл, если мы сводим любовь к спонтанно возникшей симпатии. Большое распространение имеет формула «Бог есть любовь».

Понятие любви в европейской куртуазной рыцарской субкультуре было связано с культом Прекрасной Дамы, где окончательно сформировалось представление о любовной клятве. Отсюда любовь из простой симпатии превращается в решимость, требующую немалой силы воли для преодоления преград, появляющихся на пути любви. Под влиянием христианства зародилось представление о единственной любви.

В философии экзистенциализма любовь превращается в проект становления совершенством в глазах другого. Отсюда идея подвига и доказательства «любви».

Wikipedia

D`Amore - Italiano

2009-02-09T14:53:00.002Z

L'amore "romantico" ha un significato, o almeno un significato preciso; quando l'amore fra due esseri umani assume caratteristiche riconducibili al romanticismo (struggimento, comunione, affetto, passione anche fisica), questo viene definito amore romantico, per distinguerlo dal sentimento d'affetto verso i membri di una famiglia o verso altri esseri umani, o anche tra esseri umani e animali domestici. Il termine amore viene anche utilizzato per definire l'intensa passione per qualcosa (un'attività, un oggetto), o come forma di dedizione totalizzante a un ideale, per es. spirituale o religioso.

Il gesto della condivisione disinteressata di qualcosa di proprio con un altro, è solitamente inteso come un gesto d'amore.

Il dibattito sul significato di amore nella lingua italiana è ampio, il termine racchiuderebbe comunemente le seguenti sfaccettature:

amore familiare, verso i familiari o i parenti
amore per gli amici
amore per se stessi
amore romantico
amore sessuale (considerato da alcuni più un istinto che una vera e propria forma d'amore)
amore platonico, amore romantico verso qualcosa o qualcuno in cui un eventuale coinvolgimento fisico è solo un mezzo per raggiungere l'amore spirituale
amore caritatevole (detto anche bontà o misericordia), aiutare i bisognosi, gli affamati, gli animali feriti
amore ideale, per qualcosa di astratto o inanimato, come un'idea o un obiettivo
amore politico o sociale, per i propri principi, la propria nazione o patria, la propria dignità, il proprio onore e l'indipendenza
amore di fede verso qualche essere divino o Dio (detto anche devozione)

Pur essendoci dei caratteri comuni, la maggior parte delle reazioni o delle pulsioni amorose sono soggettive e variano da individuo a individuo; tuttavia ci sarebbero, secondo la maggior parte degli psicologi e degli scienziati [senza fonte], tre fasi principali nell'amore fra esseri umani: infatuazione o (Innamoramento), attrazione e attaccamento, composte da vari elementi e stadi.

Generalmente, l'amore comincia nella fase dell'"infatuazione", forte nella passione ma debole negli altri elementi. Il primo sprone di questa fase sarebbe l'istinto sessuale. L'aspetto fisico, e altri fattori, giocherebbero infatti un ruolo decisivo nel selezionare possibili compagni o compagne. In questa fase l’amore è puramente materiale: si apprezza il/la compagno/a nella sua apparenza corporea, nella sua pura esteriorità. Quello che inizia con l'infatuazione può svilupparsi in uno dei tipi d'amore più pieni.

Con il passare del tempo gli altri elementi (affetto, attaccamento) possono crescere e la passione fisica può diminuire d'importanza, mantenendo però quell'equilibrio alla base della relazione. In questa fase, detta "attrazione", si giudica il partner al di là di come appare, si valutano diversi fattori come la sua cultura, i suoi valori. In questa fase, quindi, si apprezza il/la compagno/a nella sua pura interiorità.

Nella fase dell'"attaccamento", la persona si concentra sul singolo compagno e la fedeltà assume importanza. Ormai si apprezza il/la compagno/a in sé e per sé, in modo pieno e totale, forti delle due fasi precedenti ma ora consapevoli di tutto il proprio percorso interiore. Ora non si amano più caratteristiche determinate, siano esse materiali o spirituali, ma l’uomo/la donna in quanto tali.

Sebbene gli esseri umani non siano generalmente sessualmente monogami, si ritiene tuttavia che siano emozionalmente monogami: possono amare (romanticamente) una sola persona alla volta. Quando una persona condivide con un'altra un amore per un lungo periodo di tempo, sviluppa un "attaccamento" sempre più forte verso l'altro individuo.

Per quanto riguarda l'eventuale presenza di figli, secondo recenti teorie scientifiche sull'amore, questa transizione dall'attrazione all'attaccamento avverrebbe in circa 30 mesi: il tempo di portare a termine una gravidanza e di curare la prima infanzia del bambino. Dopo questo periodo la passione diminuirebbe, cambiando l'amore da amore romantico a un semplice piacere nello stare insieme. Quest'ultima fase durerebbe dai 10 ai 15 anni: finché la prole ha raggiunto l'adolescenza o più tardi (con variazioni considerevoli da cultura a cultura).

Di solito una relazione che si basa su più fattori (affetto, attaccamento, stima, interessi comuni, attrazione sessuale) ha più possibilità di riuscita di una basata sulla sola attrazione sessuale. Questo "determinismo dell'amore", funzionale unicamente alla cura del bambino, è stato criticato da più parti, in particolare dai sostenitori dell'intelligenza emotiva.

L'amore e la paura di perdere la persona o la cosa amata, accompagnano spesso un sentimento di protezione e/o gelosia verso l'oggetto di tale sentimento. In taluni casi l'amore assume aspetti patologici, quando è la causa che impedisce la conduzione di una vita normale o l'elemento scatenante di un attaccamento morboso.

Disturbi e patologie amorose

Accanto all’aspetto più sano dell’amore, esistono numerose varianti legate a patologie particolari che possono condurre a stati di sofferenza e gravi crisi di depressione. Nel libro Pazzi d’amore, Frank Tallis riporta gli studi della psicologa Dorothy Tennov intorno al fenomeno della Limerence. La Limerence sarebbe lo stato ossessivo, l’idealizzazione irrazionale e l’intenso desiderio di essere ricambiati. Gli individui colpiti da Limerence sono costantemente attratti da partner sbagliati, soffrono amori non corrisposti e sono incapaci di imparare dalle loro esperienze. Ne deriva un senso di angoscia emotiva e un grave senso di inutilità che accompagna la persona nel corso della vita. Questo senso di inutilità può emergere anche in un’altra forma particolare d’amore, erroneamente scambiata per semplice infedeltà. In questo caso, il soggetto può anche essere felicemente corrisposto ma è incapace di provare vero affetto per il partner. Innamorato dell’amore, egli si limita ad amare la sensazione dell’innamoramento suscitata dal partner, evitando di entrare nella fase matura della relazione di coppia, ossia quella che dall’infatuazione iniziale si dovrebbe trasformare - col passare del tempo - in vero amore. La relazione è dunque destinata ad esaurirsi prima che la stessa cominci ad assumere un'autentico significato e la responsabilità di gestire una relazione duratura.

Altre forme patologiche d’amore possono essere date da fenomeni legati all’ambiguità dell’orientamento sessuale e dal forte desiderio di identificare il partner con le figure genitoriali. Entrambi questi casi hanno origine da evidenti disturbi infantili che influiscono costantemente sul carattere dell’individuo. Questo sarà dunque portato alla scelta di partner relativamente anziani in cui il fattore ideale prevale sul fattore sessuale. Un’altra, infatti, tra le forme patologiche dell'amore, risulta essere la frigidità, dove il soggetto - pur nutrendo impulsi sessuali normali e addirittura simulando atteggiamenti disinvolti - è incapace di trasferirli nella realtà fisica del rapporto sessuale.

Filosofia

Per quanto in generale il concetto di amore non sia uno dei più frequentati dalla filosofia, esso riveste un'importanza notevole nella storia di essa. Il primo pensatore a porre esplicitamente il concetto è Empedocle, nel suo vedere il divenire determinato dalla dialettica amore/odio, visti come fattori cosmologici primari. Platone treaferisce inveve il concetto dalal cosmologia alal metafisica, come aspirazione e tensione verso il divino Bene da cui dipendono le Idee come suoi attributi. Questo mondo divino (iperuranio) come mondo delle Idee è l'oggetto cognitivo delle'anime individuali, frammenti dell'Anima del mondo scesi nell'umano. Questa impostazione si coniuga poi con la teologiacristiana, trovandovi rispondenza e riformulazione, avendo nel platonico Agostino di Tagaste il suo estensore, ma con una inversione di direzione, poiché se in Plartone l'amore è movimento dall'uomo a Dio, per Sant'Agostino è da Dio all'uomo. In Spinoza l'amore torna ad essere movimento "verso Dio", come unità-totalità perfetta e compiuta, da parte delle menti umane quali parti "pensanti" verso Dio quale suprema "Cosa Pensante".

Wikipedia Italiano

That's the question

2009-02-09T09:17:00.002Z

To drink or not drink - that's the question.

You should not drink. You must be in love.

Alcohol destroys the mind and only reinforces the pain and suffering.

WebSite of the day - wis.dm

A loveless life is a living death.

2009-02-08T11:44:00.006Z

Love is different and varied.

Love deeply and unpredictable like time.

A loveless life is a living death.

Friendship is love with understanding.

Love can be very dangerous, as in this photo. Love sometimes kills. But life without love is meaningless.

WebSite of the day - twitter.com

New members from around the world

2009-02-05T17:33:00.003Z

Some new members of The World Monument of Love from around the world presented their beloved people a unique gift.

Tiffani + Taylor from United States
"Sugar booger, my leaf and Wind."

Ольга Ярошевич + Артём Ярошевич from Belarus
"Дорогой Артемушка! Ты - самое дорогое, что есть в моей жизни и я тебя очень люблю."

GUILLERMO + ANASTASIA from Colombia
I NEED YOU LOVE

Amy Smith + Jake Diamond from United States
"You are exceptional, you make me feel like I can be exceptional, too."

Andrea L + TJ V from South Africa
"In all lifetimes. No matter how great the distance. No matter how long the wait. I will always be yours."

Amanda Maglothin + My Family from United States
"To my family, You are the greatest people i have ever known, or will ever know. Through every step of my life you all have been there to love and support me. I am what I am today because of your unconditional love and encouragement. There is nothing in the world that means as much to me as each and every one of you. xoxo, Amanda."

David Aimi + Jackelyn Porto from United States
"Love is complicated, but we make it look simple."

Linda Jane + Michelle Wendy from United Kingdom
"I have not always shown my love for you. Please know it was and is always there. I am so proud of what you have done and how you deal with those difficult issues in your life. You are a beautiful child of the stars, twinkling in the darkness, shining a path for all who can see the depth of your soul. I love you, I love you, I love you."

Casey + Leslie from United States
"I don't just love you. I am you, and you are me. It's fate. A definite and inescapable fate, and one that I'll never mind succumbing to."

Dawn Hemmings + Ann Hemmings from United Kingdom
"Ann is my mom, she is the most fantatic mother in the whole world and I love her dearly. My best friend ever. Ilove her so much."

David Szetela + Wils Szetela from United States
"I love you more every minute!"

Kyle Ryan + Kirsty Dobson from United Kingdom
"I admire your strength and the way you hold me close to your heart be mine forever."

Kirsty + Louise from United Kingdom
"Your a star, your my sister my best friend and i will always be there for you.keep smiling for me huni. xx"

WebSite of the day - stumbleupon.com

Mother and Daughter

2009-02-04T14:52:00.005Z

Mother and daughter can and should give each other love. This demonstrates the sincere love.

Mother and daughter relationships are complex because the daughter looks to her mother as a role model of what a woman is. As she grows up and sees other woman who live their lives differently, she chooses between imitating her mother or other significant influences in her life. As an adolescent she may come to look down on her mother and think that other woman are much better. Of course she is not a fully grown woman so she does not understand the challenges and choices that her mother faces. It is only when she herself becomes a woman that she can fully appreciate her mother. source

But her mother older and should be wiser.

WebSite of the day - nichegeek.com

How it realy was in Sweden

2009-02-03T08:48:00.014Z

11 November, 2008

Stockholm, Sweden

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Dear Ladies and Gentlemen,

The author of the World Monument of Love project Serge Halimoncevich arrived to Sweden with official visit.

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The promo World Monument of Love World Tour was continued in Stockholm. Sweden became the second country in the world, where a handful of soil was taken to be added to the foundation of the World Monument of Love.

For the first time in the history common people create a large architectural composition symbolizing love - The World Monument of Love. The World Monument of Love is a grand installation, compared in scale with the Pyramids, which perhaps would be observed even from the orbital station in space. Every citizen on Earth can leave in centuries his name and his love to another person – a wife, mother, husband, father, friend, daughter or son.

Authors of the project do not conduct massive advertising campaign; nevertheless, the number of registered people on the website is growing every day.

A handful of soil from Canary Islands (Spain), which will be put to the foundation of the World Monument of Love, was taken on the 2nd of November, 2008. The event opened a global action called World Monument of Love World Tour. Every country of the globe will provide a part of its soil, which will be put to the foundation of The World Monument of Love.

The selection of Spain to be the 1st country to start the World Monument of Love World Tour was not random. The Spanish, due to their natural frankness and hedonism, became the most active participants of the World Monument of Love project. At present, people from 40 countries participate in the project, 50 percent of all participants are the Spanish.

World Monument of Love project still has about two and half thousand registrations available for free. The Swedes could use such opportunity. Sweden has old traditions of freedom and democracy, we hope the Swedes will see the true value of the World Monument of Love project and will take active participation.

The World Monument of Love is a non-profit project. Raised funds will be spent for construction of the monument. The total budget of the project is estimated of 200 millions of US dollars. 100 millions of US dollars will be provided by sponsors including an alliance of leading oil producing companies; the rest part of the required funds will be gathered by people participating in the World Monument of Love project. Names of all project participants and their beloved persons will be written on the architectural composition The World Monument of Love.

The number of the World Monument of Love participants is limited to a million of people. People from 40 countries all over the world by registering in the project made their beloved a unique gift – “Passport of Love” and an opportunity to leave their names in the history of mankind.

Serge Halimoncevich

Author of the project World Monument of Love

About us write blogs

2009-01-28T17:25:00.004Z

NicheGeek.com and MadConomist.Com published information about our world promo - World Monument of Love World Tour.

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Declarations of Love

2009-01-24T11:59:00.005Z

These diferent people, but they all in love.

Jef Bowman + Blanca Anguiano
"I love you more than words could ever be written, songs sang or sands washed upon the beach. You are my everything...I love you so dearly."

GUILLERMO + ANASTASIA
"I NEED YOU LOVE"

Aliaksandr + Olga
"My lovely wife"

Tiffani + Taylor
"Sugar booger, my leaf and Wind."

Sherri Kean + Lexis Brugger
"I love you my precious one. You are as much a part of me as my own heart and I need you just as much. Your love brings me joy and with you my soul is complete. I give you all my love and tenderness. Your loving kitteh, Purrs."

Ashley C. Coley + Erick R. Olson
"Forever each others."

Kelly C + Jeremy M
"There is only one happiness in life,to love and be loved."

Corey Donaldson + Stacey Viney
"The day we got together my life changed forever. I can't tell you how happy you make me habibiti."

Vaughn + Shaina
"Shaina, I know that in the past and even now I've been stupid about many things. The one thing I know that I haven't been mistaken about is having had you in my life. You are my heart, my soul and my world. I've never needed anyone before, but I need you and want you for the rest of my life. I love you."

Kalyn Partain + Derek Chelf
"Oodles."

David Herrle + Pauline Herrle
"This writing is for a very special person in my life today..... This person stands apart from others by her many attributes..... She is loving, kind, caring, giving, and so very much more..... I feel a tranquility and detached from the world with each moment we share..... If what I feel is love, it's a love I've never before known..... In as much as I should like to place you on a pedestal, I shall not..... I must always remember that just as the pedestal has a top, it also has a bottom..... Should I not be there to catch you if you fall, I could never forgive myself for placing you there..... I think I'm falling in love with you for today and at this very moment, I know and can say...I love you."

Alena Kolychkina + Alex Floor
"If Heaven and Hell decide That they both are satisfied Illuminate the NOs on their vacancy signs If there's no one beside you When your soul embarks Then I'll follow you into the dark."

Cierra Baker + Adam Brewster
"I will love you forever and always! You are my one and only toes!!!!!"

Selene Borquez Hoyos + Armando Mendez
"Eres todo para mi: alegre, refinado, interesante, romántico, prudente, temerario, previsible, misterioso, frío, caliente infinito y humano; es por eso que hoy te digo TE AMO!!"

Jose Raul Borquez + Kitzya Arriaga R.
"Eres la mujer de mi vida, junto a ti los dias pasan sin detenerse, ya que estan celosos de nuestro gran amor... te adoro mi pincesa hermosa... [tu]e[io]jptlv."

Pablo + Laura
"Feliz cumpleaños. Esta es mi manera especial de desearte siempre lo mejor. Te quiero mucho."

Jorge Garrido + Veronica Pilar Velasco
"Gracias por existir mi amor. Desde el primer dia que nuestras miradas se cruzaron, ambos sentimos en nuestro corazon que habiamos encontrado a la persona con la que pasariamos el resto de nuestra vida. Me inundaste de amor, de cariño, de respeto.. Desde ese instante, cada segundo que paso a tu lado siento que estoy en el paraiso. Eres lo mejor que me ha pasado en la vida, lo mas importante, ya que sin ti, mi vida no tendria sentido. Te Amo mi niña linda. Para Veronica Pilar Velasco Echeverria."

Junior Boisrond + Jennyflor
"Without you I will not survive"

Augusto Labra + Amanda Labra
"Por vez primera tengo el privilegio de saber lo que es amar intensamente de manera incondicional, por vez primera soy padre..."

Norma + Carlos
"12.12.08.Mi proposito es dejar plasmado las personas que quiero, y desearles que siempre vivamos en paz, armonia y con mucho amor, que en definitiva es el motor de la vida.Del amor de Manuel Gonzalo y Maria Del Carmen Sanchez, nacieron Raul, Fernando y Carlos Gonzalo Sanchez, la persona que amo y amare por siempre (lo supimos junto a las ballenas).Y del amor de Aureliano Martinez y Norma Ramirez nacieron Aurelio y Norma Martinez Ramirez, la que dedica este regalo a mi amor por el dia de su cumpleanos y tambien a nuestros hijos Carlos Gonzalo Fernandez, Cristina Gonzalo Fernandez e Ines Jimenez Martinez.Te amo mi esposo, amante y amigo."

Robert Butler + Lindsay Kitching
"Just as a poet needs inspiration to write a masterpiece, I need you ... Just as an artist needs a subject for his work of art, I need you ... Just as a teacher needs a pupil to mold into greatness, I need you ... Just as a composer needs a theme to create a timeless melody, I need you ... For without you, Lindsay, my life would be empty of all inspiration. There will be no work of art for me to gaze at; no person of greatness before me; no timeless melody to listen to. My life will exist in shades of gray instead of vibrant colors, and I will be less than whole. In the past, the proper words have escaped me, and my innermost feelings have been kept locked away in the depths of my heart. No more - for through this certificate, I proclaim to you, Lindsay, my undying love and eternal devotion."

Vitaly Spiridonov + Raisa Spiridonova
"Raisa, I love you. You are my life and my happiness!"

Firago Dmitriy + Firago Marina
"I Love you."

Robert Butler + Lindsay Kitching
"How do I love thee? Let me count the ways I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight. For the ends of Being and ideal Grace I love thee to the level of everyday's Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight. I love thee freely, as men strive for right I love thee purely, as they turn from praise I love thee with the passion put to use In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith. I love thee with a love I seemed to lose With my lost saints, I love thee with the breath, Smiles, tears, of all my life! and, if God choose, I shall but love thee better after death."

Marlin + Dory
"Thanks for the good times you brought to me. Forgive the bad times I brought to you. Treasure the time we will spend together in the future. I LOVE YOU"

Kenneth Poh + Ng E-San
"You are my best friend, my shoulder to lean on, the one person i know i can count on. You are the love of my life. You are my one and only, you are my everything!! ~~~ I love You ~~~"

Augusto Labra and his daughter Amanda

2009-01-23T19:16:00.006Z

Love you can dedicate to your child. Look at Augusto Labra, he addressed his love to his daughter Amanda.

An Angel Left Her Wings

I have this little angel. For me she left her wings.

She has no idea how much happiness she truly brings.

She brightens up my days with her smiles and her laughs.

She helps me to remember all the blessings that I have.

Her face, it is so perfect, she's sweet and soft and pure.

Sometimes she can be willful and sometimes she is demure.

She tries her very hardest to please and do what's right.

She gives the greatest hugs from morning until night.

Every person that has known her sees this light within her soul

I know that in this whole great world, she has a special role.

She's helpful and considerate to everyone she knows

This light in her shines brighter as my angel grows.

When she sees someone is sad, it opens up her heart.

She wants to do all that she can; she wants to do her part.

She'll squeeze away the sorrow and make me forget about my pain.

She shows me where the sun is when we're hiding from the rain.

I know that God must love me, He showed me with His Grace

I knew just how completely when I saw my angel's face.

And in that very moment when she came into my world,

I knew that she was so much more than just my baby girl.

She would be my sunshine, with a sweetness that won't end.

And when she grows up one day she would be my closest friend.

She would be the reason I would always try my best.

For my little angel baby girl would be my greatest test.

When God entrusts to you an angel, who has left her wings for you.

Encircle her with love with everything you do.

Let her know God made her, and that He trusts you with her care.

Be sure to make time for special moments with her to share.

And when at night she finally says her prayers and goes to sleep

I Thank Him for my angel, and ask for him to always keep

A watchful eye and hand to protect her from this world.

Protect my little angel; protect my baby girl.

Tiffani and Taylor

2009-01-22T11:55:00.002Z

We welcome new members Tiffani and Taylor from United States, Portland, Oregon.

Please take a look at the photos. Yes, all three photos is the same. :-)

Please publish the relevant photos. In our digital age it is not so difficult.

We want for Tiffani and Taylor all the best and much love.

Shakespeare Sonnet 116

2009-01-22T10:57:00.004Z

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

William Shakespeare (1564 - 1616)

Love comes and goes, this is love

2009-01-22T07:35:00.004Z

This is the first person who has asked to remove his declaration of love. This is Bruno from Uruguay.

Dear Bruno, We already have sent for you original of Passport of Love. In this case, remove the account is not possible.

If you want, you can register a new account.

Love comes and goes, this is love.

The memory of your love will always remain at the World Monument of Love.

Fortieth countries. South Africa - Welcome!

2009-01-21T16:37:00.003Z

The first citizen of Singapore signed up in The World Monument of love.

Congratulations friend Val from South Africa. Registration took place on 31 December 2008. Happy New Year! ;-) Dear Val, publish own photos instead of images. Thank you.

Being the first in the country always pleasant.

If your country is not yet on the list, become the first.

Perhaps we will special promotion for the first representative of each country.

El Segundo de Noviembre 2008 - El Monumento Mundial del Amor

2008-11-04T12:40:00.011Z

Respetadas Señoras y Diós, El primer noviembre Sergio Jalimonzevich el autor del proyecto The World Monument of Love ha llegado en las islas Canarias con una visita oficial.

Primer vez en la historia de la comunidad de internet se funda una composicion de arquitectura fundamental que simboliza el amor es un Monumento Mundial del Amor.

El Monumento del Amor es construccion grandioso que puede comparar con las piramides de Egipto y es possible que el Monumento viera aun del cosmos.

Qualquier habitante de la Tierra tendra la posibilidad de inmortalizar sobre el Monumento su nombre y los sentimientos a altra persona o a la persona cordial por ejemplo mujer o madre, marido, padre, amigo, amado, hijo o hija.

Por ahora crece y crece la candidad de la gente que registra sobre internet sin mirar que los autores del proyecto no hayan hecho una publicidad fundamental.

El segundo noviembre en Tenerife ha cogido una parte pequena de la tierra para fundarla en el fundamento del Monumento Mundial del Amor. Este acontecimiento ha iniciado el comienzo de la accion mundial que se lleva el nombre The World Monument of Love.

En cada pais del nuestro planeta habra cogido la parte pequena de la tierra que fundara el fundamento del Monumento Mundial del Amor. No es por caso Espana ha elegido como el primer pais. Gracias a su sinceridad natural y su amor de la vida sin fronteras la gente espanol es mas activos participantes del proyecto.

En este momento los hombres de 39 paises mundiales toman parte en el proyecto, 80% de ellos son espanoles. Comenzando el accion The World Monument of Love en Espana nosotros mostramos la estimacion y agradecimiento a este pais y a sus habitantes.

El proyecto The World Monument of Love se queda cerca 3 miles registraciones gratuitas. Los ciudadanos de Espana tienen la posibilidad entrar en este grupo de los participantes. El proyecto el Monumento Mundial del Amor es incomerciable. Todos los medidos invertiran en la construccion del monumento. El presupuesto total del proyecto importa 200 millones dollares. 100 de ellos presentan los esponsores, es una aliansa de las generales companas del petrolio mundial, segunda parte de la suma recogen las personas privadas, son participantes del proyecto The World Monument of Love.

Solo un millon de los hombres tienen la posibilidad tomar parte en el proyecto. La gente de 39 paises mundiales anunciando sobre internet del su participio en el proyecto ya regalan a sus proprias amadas un regalo extraordinario es declaracion amorosa y tambien hay la posibilidad de quedar su nombre y nombre del amado o amada en la historia mundial para los siglos.

Serge Halimoncevich
El autor del proyecto el Monumento Mundial del Amor
Photos - http://worldmonumentlove.com/photo

Maybe it would be the Atlantic Ocean coast

2008-11-02T12:41:00.004Z

It’s been a great day, what a fun! I think you understand what I mean. It’s a good weather today again; they say Tenerife is always plenty of sun. Despite today is Sunday, I am on business. I’m going to select a place for “The World Monument of Love World Tour” action. Maybe, it would be the Atlantic Ocean coast, maybe – mountains, maybe – volcano.

Wishing you good luck, see you.

Tenerife - The time has come

2008-11-01T12:18:00.010Z

Hello everybody. The time has come, everything starts now. Last night I arrived to Tenerife, the Canary Islands. The flight was good, though it lasted 7 hours. Tenerife is beautiful, it’s a warm night, 19 C.

I’m Serge Halimancevich, the author of the World Monument of Love project. Today, on the 1st of November, 2008, my official visit to Tenerife, the Canary Islands, Spain is started. I have a lot of scheduled meetings with press representatives. I am going to talk about the World Monument of Love project.The main aim of the visit is the official start the worldwide action called “The World Monument of Love World Tour”. In the next few days a handful of soil will be taken on Tenerife for the foundation of the World Monument of Love. The event will be the official start of the worldwide action “The World Monument of Love World Tour”. Every country of the globe will provide some of its soil, which will be put to the foundation of The World Monument of Love.

And today I have a rest, enjoy the sea and the fine weather. I bathed in the ocean, there were large waves and windy, it makes you feel enchanted. By the way, if someone of you is thinking of where to go right now to take a rest and have a good time, my advice is to come to Tenerife. Do not delay an instant. And you’ll be in time to read in newspapers of the Canary Islands about “The World Monument of Love World Tour” action. And maybe you’ll manage to be in time to register in the project free of charge.

Look through the photos, enjoy, and I have to go now, the ocean and beer are waiting for me.

Thirty-nine countries. Singapore Welcome!

2008-10-21T23:37:00.004+01:00

The first citizen of Singapore signed up in The World Monument of love.

Congratulations friend Kenneth Poh from Singapore.

Being the first in the country always pleasant.

If your country is not yet on the list, become the first.

Perhaps we will special promotion for the first representative of each country.

Thirty-eight countries. United Arab Emirates Welcome!

2008-08-25T17:41:00.004+01:00

The first citizen of United Arab Emirates signed up in The World Monument of love.

Congratulations friend Sanjeev Nair from United Arab Emirates.

Being the first in the country always pleasant.

If your country is not yet on the list, become the first.

Perhaps we will special promotion for the first representative of each country.

Hacer el Encargo de la Entrega del Pasaporte del Amor

2008-03-06T21:32:00.004Z

¡Estimado!

Has registrado gratis en el proyecto El Monumento Mundial de Amor. Podrás hacer el encargo gratis de la entrega del original del Pasaporte de Amor.

Para eso tienes que llenar todas las margenes de tu parte personal y escribir el texto de tu declaración amorosa.

Tienes que cargar tu foto. Es deseable cargar una foto de tu querido y vuestra foto conjunta. En el caso de no ejecutar estas demandas, el original del Pasaporte de Amor no te será enviado.

Llena atentamente tus datos personales y los datos personales de tu querido.

Al hacer el encargo de la entrega del Pasaporte del Amor, no podrás cambiar en lo sucesivo tus datos personales y los datos personales de tu querido.

Controla atentamente tu dirección postal. La dirección tendrá que ser indicada exactamente, incluyendo el índice postal.

¡ATENCION!Después de hacer tú el encargo de la entrega del Pasaporte del Amor, no podrás cambiar en lo sucesivo tus datos personales y los datos personales de tu querido.

¡Has entrado en la historia de la humanidad! ¡Te saludamos!
Con respeto. El equipo del Monumento Mundial de Amor.