90- Day Rule?!

2011-04-29T13:23:00.000-07:00

The standard probationary period for most corporations is 90 days. Employees are monitored via microscope and are judged based upon many factors of their performance.

In the dating world there is also an unspoken probationary period, where most women/men judge their mates' performance, to see if they are "worthy" sexual partners.

In some unfortunate cases the relationship can end in disaster, whether the individuals involved "waited" to have sex or not .

I have heard from many male friends that although their desire to "hit it" is strong, the challenge of the "chase" is exciting.

I have also known women who have waited a "short" period of time and never heard from their "loves" again.

In the flip side, there are couples who had sex the first time they met and are still in love until this day .

So what do you think? Does the length of the probationary period effect the direction/duration
Of a relationship?

Sex on the first date? Liberating or just plain "nasty"?

2011-04-26T06:06:00.000-07:00

So, I've personally never had sex on the first date, I know a lot of women and men that do. What I've come to realize is the act seems to be socially accepted when men do it, but frowned upon when women partake in the activity.

Why are men "allowed" to be sexually liberated, while women are expected to be simple and monogamous?

I think sex should only be shared and can be enjoyed with the person you love, but there are some individuals, including women, who crave pleasure from anyone and everyone (lol).

So, if that's their "thing", why aren't women encouraged to express their freedom as "pleasure seekers"? And who died and made this double-standard the dynamic?

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90- Day Rule?!

Sex on the first date? Liberating or just plain "nasty"?